BAMBOOZLED! WOMAN CHASED BY A MARRIED MAN 4 AN ENTIRE YEAR & DIDN'T KNOW HE WAS MARRIED! FULL STORY

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[@PrezDarren]

Chased her for 11 months, courted her for 5 months. Millions of women would’ve fell for it. How she get the blame for falling for a man who wasn’t honest about being married is beyond me.

[@dday3322]

👏👏👏

[@franchesskaw36]

I'm trying to figure that out too. Also, how do you vet a man when they doing this?

[@mrs.haynes-r5z]

Exactly facts

[@lemonlemon7186]

BEYOND ME! She thought she was doing everything correctly. If a woman is able to dodge a full blown Narc on his scale? She is super woman. That man preyed on every single one of her insecurities in such a calculated way…..it’s scary!

[@somebodycomelistentothispo7217]

Because we know that most of y’all act like this and keep falling for the bull 💩. We are no longer blaming demons for doing what demons do. We need to hold each other accountable and not trust none of y’all

[@Mona-ln8rr]

Men still have the audacity to get mad at women for saying we’d rather be single , I’d rather be single than have to deal with this kind of mess

[@simplyameeraj]

🎯

[@steph2994]

It's a joke to me at this point.

[@Kimmy_95]

True. Some act as if it's an insult LOL!! I know a married man who cheats frequently BUT I never entertained him. He was SOOO bothered by it, he CONVINCED himself I had to be a LESBIAN because I took no interest in him OR his friend who was also married LOL!!! Some are delusional. It bothered him that I rather remain single that get myself involved in that type of mess.

[@chickwitthagoodies]

@@Kimmy_95 I know right....they be so fucked up in the head... behind it

[@Kimmy_95]

@@chickwitthagoodies EXACTLY!!! I took it as a joke the 1st time because he's always joking around but a few months later, he mentioned it again & seemed serious & offended that I still would not give in LOL!! He even got triggered when I dressed up for Christmas & was socialising with a cute guy who I knew when I pursued my Bachelor's.

[@jewelparham9577]

She did nothing wrong! It's better that she found out now then to be engaged with/ without a ring or pregnant. God was watching out for her

[@jewelparham9577]

Stay away don't waste another moment Don't be like me I wasted 30 years of my life wondering where I stood ever engaged planning a wedding. I am sending you hugs 💕.

[@BellaZ209]

This is so true! Saved so many years of her life.

[@tondaniraluswinga2590]

Yes he definitely was protecting her

[@BrittneySharde15]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@butterpecanbrielle]

Omgggg imagine her being pregnant with his child!! 😱 I’d be DEVASTATED!!

[@Prettypinkpolish_]

You know what I hate? I hate how we are told that it doesn’t take a man long to know if he wants to marry you BUT then we shame her for falling or feeling in love fast BECAUSE OF WHAT HE SHOWED HER

[@morganann842]

THANK YOU! so sick of all the comments blaming her when HES the one who lied to her for almost two years! we as black women can’t complain about not receiving compassion when we’re so quick to judge each other!

[@Prettypinkpolish_]

@@morganann842 amen

[@zahraakadhem9913]

Yes like wtf is she supposed to spend years of her life vetting and making sure a man isnt lying? And if he aint the one then oh well you just lost a damn year of your life on to the next one to spend a year making sure he isnt playing games. And I bet even if she did spend a year vetting him they'd still blame her for not seeing through his lies like a detective.

[@ExquisiteKinkyCoils]

🎯🎯🎯😊

[@QuilaGee]

💯 it takes time to get to know people we must use discernment

[@TheIndianhairGoddess]

The fact that he allowed her to record him and put him on social media like he didn’t care about his wife

[@Diana734]

People should be allowed to sue others over this kind of deception.

[@xxxnvssaxxx]

Yeppppp, put them in jail

[@CrownPublishingContent]

I believe she can!

[@marisaking5982]

I think the wife can

[@cupcakepatrice8418]

@@marisaking5982 the wife can’t sue her because she honestly did not know, now they both can sue him but knowing how these ninjas 🥷 are he probably ain’t got nothing to offer but more lies!!!

[@tawvnmgmt7744]

@@cupcakepatrice8418 sue the husband.

[@shakera02]

If she said he pursued her for 11 months why is the focus on the 5 months they dated? That's nearly a year and half. The man is in the complete wrong but the girlfriend is the one getting the side eye... The misogyny is rampant.

[@FairlyWellDarling]

The men are “MENNING” Chile

[@sunkissedarkandainty01]

​@@FairlyWellDarling 😂🤣 as they do...

[@Eyesis_1]

I'm assuming that it's been the last five months of the 11, that his mask has been slipping. I can see why she was fooled, but now that she knows, she should move accordingly. Stop worrying about why her and just accept that he did do it to her, and his wife, and move on.

[@k0k01]

Yea I don’t see the need to victim blame it’s completely uncalled for. If a man pursues me for a year ima be in love too TF? Like how long it take yall to fall in love? like dang if a year and a half ain’t enough time then what is???

[@belleoftheball7634]

Exactly, she got to know him before she started actually dating him. Isn't what they tell women to do? Some people are still hopeless romantics and believe love can happen in months or even days. She shouldn't have ignored her intuition and trusted a dusty, but this is not her fault! Everybody aint hard-hearted and untrusting of everybody they meet. Damaged people do tho. I feel sorry for anybody who lives that way.

[@MsSooRandom]

I’m starting to think that maybe doing a full background check should be mandatory at this point 😂 These dating horror stories are getting out of hand 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@winning3329]

Doing a background check It's not enough, Treat him like a liar until He proves himself.

[@BlkOnyx0508]

Its ways around all of this. Vetting is an illusion. You can do all you can and still can't control another adult. These men are despicable and need to be held accountable by their wives.

[@ashadeofebony]

I been doing that to many liars crazy ninjas ,perverts out her

[@Ohsnapitzann]

I do background checks on everyone including friends and family members

[@AmyTraphouse]

Then we'd really be single 🤣🤣🤣 Them reports gon tell the TRUTH

[@danni9256]

Why is the guy victim blaming,,,, he’s the cheater….am I crazy?!?!?!

[@dionnatalents]

THANK YOU!!!

[@ninaj.4885]

I think there are men out there that literally live for the honeymoon/chasing phase of a relationship and will keep doing this over and over. They live for the thrill of the chase and a woman not knowing what a POS they really are. Its sickening but I know those types. Its really pathetic and kinda psycho actually.

[@MrGhanasbest]

Yes this seems like a good point immaturity wanting that feeling over and over

[@rozwilliams5954]

You hit it on the nail....

[@QuilaGee]

True

[@Naptural85]

I hope that this woman can heal 💔 Why are some men so cruel? This is horrible. I felt her cries. That came from her heart.. her heart is literally breaking on camera.

[@kimberly0717]

Many are outright SELFISH. He wanted a side piece yet courted her like she deserved to be treated (with the right person) with no intention in loving her properly. She filled lust in him, he should have been honest with a willful woman at least..

[@203297]

I felt her pain and tears too. These bastards. So damn sick of them and their games. She'll get better but it will take time. Karma karma karma!

[@missshannonsunshine]

You’re so right. You’re so beautiful inside and out and I hate that he did that to you too. Proves he’s still a child.

[@tondaniraluswinga2590]

She had me when she said "pray for me " honestly just looking at him from these videos. He doesn't seem serious at all.

[@luciadozier1267]

They're ALL cruel. Teach your daughters - NEVER TRUST A MAN IDC

[@Tina_Bo_Binaaa]

Been through this myself. These men have no shame. And will lie straight to your face if you ask. Ladies, if you’re intuition is telling you something is wrong, trust it.

[@chickwitthagoodies]

Facts

[@RelleYou]

I wish I could rewind time & listen to my intuition. FNF

[@shy_donut8307]

Also do background checks! Marriage licenses are public information! But if he gave her a fake name then poor girl was screwed anyway. What’s sad is the wife stayed, bus she may not be in a position to leave. I’ve had women’s husbands approach me and be weird. That always scares the shit out of me. It shows he has no dignity or self respect for an oath he took in front of their families. I’ve had this shit happen while I was in a college ministry. It was so creepy and uncomfortable. He would ignore or barely acknowledge me at events where his wife was present but if he saw me on campus by myself he would talk to me.

[@allmylifeihadtofight9815]

Yup! Absolutely go with your gut if it’s not right.

[@cerromeceo]

The redflags is always there

[@Hawttamale]

I find it peculiar that most people are more concerned with her falling in love after 5 months than him cheating. There are people who’ve fallen in love in less time and have been married for years. But of course as black women, we’ll constantly be blamed in situations that literally were not our fault.

[@twinkleeyes8176]

Right I met my man and we fell in love at first night- 3 yrs n half an he's a great stepdad and we're waiting on our 2nd child!

[@TriRacialAmericana]

Yeah, I don’t like that. I knew at 6 months My husband was marriage material & we’ve been married since 2003. This jerk is acting like it’s impossible. They’re so used to blaming women It’s like a knee-jerk reaction atp. The way she cried, was heartbreaking, smh.

[@biabia9181]

5 months is almost half a year. If you feel you don’t love someone by then, you should just end the relationship. If there’s no love there shouldn’t be a long term.

[@LifeOfKells]

RIGHT! And it’s really a damned if you do damned if you don’t situation bc he perused her months before she actually agreed to date him, and if she didn’t, men would be saying “see that’s why y’all will stay single forever, a man treats y’all right and y’all still don’t give him a chance”. Well she gave the man a chance, and got the same outcome. It’s weird to see what ppl are justifying with this situation. Smh

[@marvinabarnes1001]

Those are women who are willing to be girlfriends for 5-10years, thinking it takes that long for real love, whole time that man don’t even like you for real 😢😅😂

[@qtj5047]

HE chased her, HE courted her, HE lied, HE played her, HE played his wife. HE caused others pain and HE has no problems with doing that. Disgusting

[@aaakooon]

Hearing her cry really broke me, God really protected her. She might not see it now, but it’ll get much better! Big thank you to her for being so strong and thinking of other women.

[@TheGoodLifeStarterPack]

It was a wail! It was truly heartbreaking to hear ☹️

[@skinni_the_P00hBear]

That broke my heart...

[@drawingdame7718]

I felt that in my soul. I wanted nothing more than to give her a hug in that moment. I’m glad she had her mama to be there for her tho

[@kycheleboone3606]

Mannnn....I dated a dude for 10 months, met his friends, coworkers, YET he was alllll the way married with 3 additional kids I never knew about. So honestly, it doesnt matter if shes met the friends or not, dudes will do what they want to do regardless of who it hurts.

[@1991-present]

😮

[@ummeshariff]

I mean are y'all meeting his guy friends? I mean if you are, have you ever heard of Guy Code, come on now

[@ummeshariff]

And I didn't know they get excited for meeting co-workers. Wow

[@dday3322]

How the hell are WE suppose to VET social paths, especially when this toxic BM worshipping culture will protect them!

[@dday3322]

So you think his mom and sisters would tell you anything?!

[@valery5900]

Taking a black man serious at this point is equivalent to playing with your life. Ever since I've stopped dating and taking men serious, my life has been blissful. Doesn't take a genius to figure out why. My heart goes out to this woman for real. I'll be damned if a man has me in my feelings like this and crying all over the internet. God forbid.

[@hazelbasil6451]

Try dating out and see how it goes! Dont limit yourself!

[@inlandempress4587]

Amen🙏🏽❤️

[@lavender123u]

Facts. Being single helped me to reach soft girl era....I'm more feminine and peaceful. You ever notice how masculine and mean black women look in public with a black man? They seem to be stressed and always have guard up. They be low key mad at beautiful women passing by because they know their man is a dog and will look at her in.her face.

[@palo5959]

Rephrase it and say taking any man that is married seriously comes with consequences, it don’t take much to get his drivers license search the online marriage registry to be sure he is not married etc go visit his place of residence run a background check just to cover yourself

[@valery5900]

@@palo5959 Who wants to do that ALL the time? Why can't men as a collective just be forthcoming? There are some women who are willing to date married men. Give them a choice. Imagine having to to a detailed background check just to go on a date with someone. It's exhausting. Opt out!

[@shadea.3827]

Why are folks suddenly like "falling in love / getting serious with a guy in 5 months is too quick"? They be the same people who say a man knows who and when he wants to marry in 6 months.

[@dday3322]

💯

[@chinaking918]

Walking contradictions. It’s up there with “BW have the highest rate of single mothers, but BM are the most involved fathers”. 😩🤦🏽‍♀️ Either they know or they don’t, it cannot be both.

[@PhenomenalDoe]

RIGHT!? You could be in a relationship with someone for 20 years and not know them. What about the wife???

[@JoJo-pg6zi]

They’re gaslighting us. They do it all the time.

[@Lonerstoner21]

I think it’s because people are finally waking up to how dangerous it is. They’ve been manipulated to take moving fast is normal when it’s not!

[@largerthanlife8974]

No matter how wrong a man is, other men and women will still try to post blame on you. ❤

[@lovetemple3610]

Some men are heartless...yet would kill the woman who cheated on them!

[@19GENESE13]

Bless her heart. He allowed himself to be recorded, photographed and posted. He didn't care about a thing. What I have noticed is people will come and bother you when you are living your best life. They don't even want anything but your energy.

[@stephaniemurria5534]

Absolutely ❤️

[@melpho3635]

I’m an surprised at the lack of empathy that women have for this woman. Yes, walk away and blah blah blah but she is grieving a loss. I completely get how she feels and where her mind is. It can happen to anyone in any type of relationship not just romantic. Black women are not allowed to be hurt and we have to be strong. We are part of the problem. People need to see that we are human also.

[@thescales5247]

‼️‼️‼️‼️💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@PurposelyObtuse]

I know all you lairs pretending to never deal with being played! I really find myself hating how non compassionate the women in our community are! They are the first to laugh at your rape, abuse and heartbreak!

[@mzangel0615]

These comments are super disappointing…meanwhile they be miserable dealing with a no good dusty themselves half the time. I’m sick of it. Women are truly worse than men when it comes to being judgmental of other women and their bad experiences. Like we haven’t all been played at some point smh.

[@Que772]

Amen sister. We need to do better

[@CCCC-fp5gw]

Women, especially with men in the mix, are hardly loyal or understanding. If you're young, you may not get it but i bet by time you're 30 to 40 you'll see how women stampede over your body to get to their goal. Stay alert, no one's above being the side chick..you may have been the 3rd and never knew, don't ever think yourself above being fooled or played. Be humble, practice compassion, and stay alert.

[@muahchelle21]

Facts

[@aliciamorgan4299]

This‼️ I wonder if they're really women..cause it's definitely giving manly. But, what's funny is I've NEVER heard women say this to another woman's face irl...only on the internet. Cowards.

[@brendalee274]

Men like this has their day coming. He will end up in so much pain and hurt In ways he will never see coming.

[@natural4lifemiss]

This is why I quit dating I'm happy with myself and I don't need to have a lying man in my life!

[@NiniBonita]

Right 🤔

[@maxxedtfout]

This is why I stay off the apps now. Completely filled with married men. It’s disgusting.

[@peacefulblessed2114]

Exactly

[@staceywilliams1863]

Online, offline same thing!!

[@winning3329]

Bad men are everywhere

[@radioog6945]

Yes they’re all married

[@dblr4931]

I met one offline in real life

[@Hisintrovertedwifey]

I can hear how she cried it’s not just the trauma he caused but all the other men who wronged her. I hope she gets the healing she needs cause the frequency she cried on was in a another dimension ❤we gotta lift up Queens like her cause you never know when it could be you❤

[@sunkissedarkandainty01]

🥺 beautifully sayed.

[@radioog6945]

Omg yeah

[@NaomyP]

I felt her pain FR😢❤

[@mzsbrown2844]

Honestly the crying is part of the healing. She is getting that rotten energy out of her through screaming and tears. Hurtling it up isn’t healthy so I am glad to see her letting it out. She will be fine as long as she doesn’t give into the lies that he will tell her while she is seeking “closure.”

[@Hisintrovertedwifey]

@@mzsbrown2844 the crying is good and a release I agree wholeheartedly ❤️

[@bellanoire2271]

Love bombing is their most powerful weapon in the beginning stages. It blinds you from seeing/thinking clearly that’s why it’s important to take things VERY SLOW for the first few months. Limiting access automatically reveals everything you need to know.

[@Katiepurdy87]

What is love bombing? This is a serious question. This is my first time hearing about it.

[@kia.203]

@@Katiepurdy87 love bombing is a manipulation tactic that tends to be done early on in the relationship. So a man may say "I love you " in the first few weeks, may suggest yall move in together rather quickly.....thats love bombing

[@LaiLai..]

All of this! Impatient men usually get cut off quicker in my experience. There’s no reason to rush things . You’re either desperate or trying to love bomb if you can’t be patient.

[@UniquelyVickie]

@@Katiepurdy87 Google love bombing for a thorough understanding. I want you to be fully aware so you don't fall prey to it.

[@UniquelyVickie]

Most definitely. Stay at least 2 to 3 steps behind whatever energy he's giving.

[@nikkilately]

This happened to me. I was devastated 2 years almost 3. I lost all hope in men

[@Justaperson354]

You are absolutely gorgeous! Just had to say! You’re killing it queen! I’m sorry that happened to you and I hope you find your soulmate:)

[@TriRacialAmericana]

That man was so disingenuous. After 3 months of dating I knew my husband was marriage material. Been married since 2003. She is blameless.

[@Ash-gz9co]

I remember when side pieces could only get a photo while he was sleep. The fact that he is on a recording talking about we smashing all weekend was flaberghasting! I believe she didn't have a clue based on this behavior. That man is brazen!

[@mamat1213]

I’M SAYING!!!! He all in the videos having a ball 😮

[@yourstruly1984]

They are great PRETENDERS and characters. They know how to act/lie really well for the greatest deception. Yes, they'll get on camera, tiktok, all social media platforms cause they gotta make it look good and so believable. It's sick !

[@MsCruzan]

He has probably done this mess before. Like he knew that his wife and children wouldn’t see him on social media. Just disgusting!

[@tha.dutchess385]

@@MsCruzan Precisely and no telling who else got his sorry behind posted on social media

[@tondaniraluswinga2590]

She is not a side piece, she never knew he was married.

[@clearlyclaire5825]

That man was only looking for ways to blame yet another woman for a man’s loss poor actions. Zero points were made. I met my now wife we moved in together after 4 months. Engaged at 12 months. Married at 16 months. Married 6 years dec 2023. Love does not take forever. And I bet he’s single. Like I said zero points made stop believing men

[@yourstruly1984]

💯💯

[@clearlyclaire5825]

@Nita B out of control ain’t it. These men are the most

[@ThePleasurecode]

Just what I was thinking! You can easily fall in love in 5 months and it be real, we're not talking 5 weeks

[@yahainHotPink]

Thank you!! I was so confused about the point of that man's video. I was like, is video man blaming this heartbroken lady!? Many congratulations to you and your wife!! 🌹

[@chrissyg55]

Dude is goofy to try to downplay the woman feelings for being in love at 5 months. I dated for less than a month, he asked me to marry him and we stayed married for 20 years until I was ready to bounce. Life happens

[@lavender123u]

So many of us got played by married man..I no longer care for marriage. Good luck to any woman obsessed with this fairytale

[@beautifulaltogether2224]

🤣😂

[@daishaglasco1625]

Yup

[@SELFCAREMODEL]

Don't let a few dusties ruin it for you though. Expand your options, properly vet, and most importantly check in with god first before making any decision. Somethings we don't check in with god and lead with our flesh.

[@valery5900]

I swear we don't benefit from it. These men are treacherous!

[@ashajeremiahqw8775]

Wow that’s harsh

[@racheall.9788]

Sounds like the dog wanted to get somebody for making her cry.

[@thecoincollector1684]

Yea... i peeped that

[@Mya_rose36]

This why private investigators come handy nowadays cause no man can ever lie when there is proof. Dating is horrible nowadays cause married men or men in relationships be lying trying to collect notches on they belt meanwhile these single women be serious about dating and love. I feel bad for her cause he was the deceitful one and karma not far away.

[@tishaboouwad123]

Relationship scams like this should seriously be a crime

[@s3dghost]

Boohoo

[@widlandesenatus5173]

@@s3dghost praying you aren't married

[@nayelibec]

Im from nc and we do have laws against infidelity!

[@sweetcheeks5775]

@@s3dghost dusty black man 🚨

[@jfreeman2422]

A lot of men are like this, they never intend on leaving the wife either, they just want a long suffering wife who'll look the other way while they continue to be a married single man...I'm convinced at this point that a lot of guys only get married to have a second mother so they can play the role of adult while having a wife to do all of their adult work smh

[@UnbiasedStrays]

Yes that wife who never leaves is the perfect pressed enabling motherly type.. handle everything “don’t worry about it, I got it” constantly yelling at him about his poor actions while still tolerating his nonsense never holding him accountable.. turning a blind eye

[@rosseryankeegirl]

I'm convinced as well.😩

[@somebodycomelistentothispo7217]

And the long suffering wives are the ones who give them the power to keep doing it. No repercussions or consequences

[@basicinfo2022]

They want multiple wives but cant afford to provide for them all and also polygamy is looked down upon how so these men lie and bread crumb women to do what their wife is probably not giving to him anymore because they know hes cheating.

[@stephaniemurria5534]

Absolutely

[@divinelyguided6143]

The wife should have left him also y’all gotta teach these men to stop playing in y’all face because they really only treat you like crap and breadcrumb you because it’s only beneficial to their ego while you suffer and except the bare minimum my heart goes out to both women. Their only crime was loving a lying manipulator wicked man

[@mariedesignz1659]

Exactly Men know there’s no consequences. The women will fight and argue while he sits back and play both sides. I’m gone just like men would be. No argument, no fight just leave.

[@valery5900]

I guarantee she'll stay smh. It's unfortunate

[@somebodycomelistentothispo7217]

@@valery5900 and he knows that. And he will do this again because of it. The wife will stay because of the kids

[@cliquesnvues]

And they wonder why a women heart can be harden

[@kimberlyhuguley1224]

I definitely feel her pain😪. I've been through this mess myself, and let me say you will heal in time. Don't focus on him. Focus on you, baby girl. You did nothing wrong.

[@LittleMissDeeDee]

I’m happily engaged now, but THIS is exactly why I don’t give a HOOT about men thinking I’m a cold woman, “too hard to impress” or not overtly emotional enough. Call me cynical, but I feel it tends to be “hopelessly romantic” women who find themselves in this mess because they’re easily blinded by sweet nothings these disgustingly manipulative men rely on to reel us in. I say that, because in my much younger years (under 25), I was that woman and got played every time. These men are revolting and know who to prey on. I feel sorry for the poor woman, and I wish her well. Ladies, do your due diligence, and if you’re fortunate to have a father who loves and cares about you, bring your man too him for a full inspection.

[@Venus_Pkwy]

I totally agree. And congratulations on your engagement 🎉. These men are sick, it so easy to fall for the wrong guy when he looks like the right one.

[@LittleMissDeeDee]

@@Venus_Pkwy absolutely and thank you so much - my fiancé definitely didn’t have it easy 😅 I feel guilty at times but I’m no fool. I will never leave my dignity and BRAIN at the door for male approval.

[@blkgm7005]

​@@LittleMissDeeDee good for you and Congrats on your engagement! I dated a guy last yr that was good at luv bombing/lots of attn & sweetness. He didnt make it past date 1, but it was such a eye opening experience for me. Learned to place boundaries, not to do what I dont want to do until I feel comfortable and they will follow. I felt good instead of gutted when it was over. I learned to trust my gut though every1 was telling me I was being too hard. When they are good men & they luv u, they will endure bc they know the caliber of woman YOU ARE.

[@AN-fg4cd]

Naw. They wifing the intense women and cheat on her with the “hopeless romantic” women. That woman pulled out a gun and said those were her two cars. The gun alone says she don’t give a HOOT. The wife is always the one who is hardcore with her husband. I have a neighbor who posts videos online about how her husband says she don’t play. That fool even in her comment section saying “That’s right baby. I love you.” Meanwhile, he sleeping around with all types of women when she goes to work. I’ve seen all races and sizes of women come and go from that house. He even rides them around on his motorcycle. The man don’t care.

[@ten25.]

My parents call me this all the time. They say my standards are too high and I’m too cut throat. Have they met men? You have to be in this dating climate.

[@OHoneyPot]

I was pursued and love bombed by a man who had no good intentions. Pure effing evil. My hearts breaks for this young lady 💔 I hope she never looks back.

[@ciarayung7967]

He looks dusty asf and was hella bold to be all on that lady tik tok knowing he had a wife smh wish she would’ve waited a lil longer to try to spoil his ass he definitely wasn’t worth it

[@msfancy6622]

Girl!!!!! That’s the first thing I noticed..

[@vaunni]

& he didn’t even take her out on a date. They going to each other houses like 12 year old 🙄

[@Nat0528]

lol chile how she couldn’t see the dust was beyond!! He talks too much and seems extra af ! lol! The way she said “we called each other king and queen” 😅😅😅😅😅 any sort of hottepery! Runnnnnnn!

[@dragonfriott]

Wait, did she trick on him?

[@chinaking918]

@@Nat0528 that was a red flag for me. Any man I’ve met coming at me saying “Queen” was always and I mean always dusty as hell. 😩🤭

[@veronicawilliams1957]

Yani, you keep saying because he allowed her to post him on TikTok that she had no reason to be suspicious- but LADIES-it’s important to remember that SOME MEN DO NOT CARE! They’re TRIFLING! Im not blaming this lady but it’s just something to keep in mind. Also-this is another reason why I DO NOT believe in long distance relationships. Tony Gaskins said “Long distance relationships are not real to men.”

[@coppercoloredlibra]

This has happened to me those men will court you for months and the whole time be lying about they whole lives. They know you want something serious and instead of walking away they lie and pretend to be what you want. 😢

[@justIvy98]

It's sooooooo many married men on dating sites lying about being single or poly or in an "open marriage." It's disgusting.

[@kiawilson9897]

One reason why I don't do online dating anymore smh

[@lilzim9559]

man and woman im 24 my friends are around my age and i kid u not the amount of marry woman with children that one of my boys have link is just sick it bother me sm to the point that i cant even be nice to them i fucking hate that shit

[@tammylee3681]

When she said “be careful, these men are terroist” I felt that

[@deadace7168]

as a married man, how the hell is he able to spend so much time away from his wife?? No way in hell im spending the night anywhere else and my wife not suspecting something. Then if you got kids...damn near impossible😒 hope this young woman is able to heal and not fall for this again

[@Gboogie22]

I’m a dad of three grown daughters and the men that hit on them the most are married men. I had to check one that I actually knew. Dude is a firefighter in our town.

[@formerfosteryouth4882]

@@Gboogie22 Damnnnn😮

[@KirtBean]

There must be some travel involved in his work.

[@ElizabethHome153]

Exactly, and yhe fact that he's all over social media with her is crazy. He has absolutely not respect for his wife

[@QuilaGee]

Amen

[@_blueshawty6698]

Now the world can see who this man is. I hope his wife is ashamed of him & divorces him. My prayers are to this woman mainly because god the pain in her tears 😭🥺🙏🏾

[@crystalfrench2425]

i hate that people kept focusing on her knowing him for 5 months but not seeing that he pursued her for 11 months !! So he kept at her for nearly a year and like most of us women we see that as "he must really like me cause he been at this for sometime" then When she finally gives in he love bombs her and swindles her into believing that he's not like any other man. WE'VE ALL BEEN THAT GIRL at some point in our lives so she definitely deserves mercy for BEING TRICKED.......asides from that new subbie here Yanie💕

[@bizzywizzy1341]

The dog mad as hell for her lmfao 😂

[@UnbiasedStrays]

Right aww it was growling when she was crying

[@ladinai90]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@bizzywizzy1341]

@@ladinai90 lmfao the dog sent me all the way 😭🤣🤣

[@ladinai90]

@@bizzywizzy1341 he was tired of all that crying 😩

[@tiffywow7309]

The dog felt her pain.

[@lateinlife6752]

That man is trying to deflect from the what the man says. When a man is doing the most to make yo feel special, yo will start to think that this man is your future and call him the love of your life. Whether she considered him the love of her life or not, it is still wrong for him to lie to her and mislead her knowing he is married.

[@filmcrit]

Exactly. He was really blaming HER. Not the lying philanderer.

[@muahchelle21]

There's tons of videos from men making fun of her. The sames ones complaining about black women

[@winning3329]

​@Mich Those men who are laughing are sadistic and disgusting and I'm glad that they will end up alone

[@radioog6945]

Yeah that’s a sign of a psychopath

[@radioog6945]

@@winning3329 psychopaths take up for each other though

[@UniquelyVickie]

What they don't realize is what they will reap for doing this to God's daughters. I've been betrayed twice and painful doesn't describe the feelings.

[@winning3329]

My baby's father left me for another woman and his whole family started to pass away one by one and before his grandmother passed she sold her house and he's been homeless of and on and spent time in jail for hitting his pregnant girlfriend.

[@paigelovette8156]

Or not. Karma doesnt exist. Life goes on and they will more than likely be fine.

[@yellowbears1]

Exactly, they will definitely reap what they sow

[@yellowbears1]

@red pill is cancer Its called spiritual deficit. People need to pray that they and (their children and grandchildren) aren't the one's that pay the price. But once a deficit is created, you will pay; if not you, someone in your bloodline.

[@ummeshariff]

He committed adultery and she fornicated, she has to answer for something too

[@user-vg8ez9cu6u]

Background check and inquiry at the county clerks office would have turned up a marriage license or divorce decree also whether they are a registered sex offender or violent criminal. At this point, it's really a risk to date people who no one in your family or friendship circle knows. I would personally avoid "business men" whose work frequently take them out of town, all pro athletes, and any non-citizens of the country you reside. Don't date anyone for longer than a month without a background check or a personal reference from someone you trust.

[@FashionParadise04]

Imagine the trust issues she’ll have after this smh

[@labelledujour5855]

Most definitely

[@Gboogie22]

Yeah she’s foreign broken.

[@jujuthaguru]

My heart hurts for her because I’ve been there. I was real life 19 and was love bombed by a man 10 years my senior… only difference is that I stayed due to low self esteem and him literally upgrading my life. Smh I’m glad she didn’t internalize this bullsh*t because it took me 10 insidious years to overcome the “this is the best I deserve” mentality. God bless her and her strength. Cause being fatherless really leaves you susceptible to real life predators out here. I really cried real tears watching this. 😢 That 🥷🏽 is a monster! 🤬

[@daishaglasco1625]

Yup same

[@cupcakepatrice8418]

I agree with you and my heart breaks! I went through that but the only thing different he wasn’t married but he was younger than me!

[@thescales5247]

Same here 🫶🏾so glad I believe in god & I am the type to just accept things for what they are!! Continue being great ladies believe me god is real & we probably went thru bs back then but our blessing afterwards & still coming is amazing 🫶🏾❤️❤️❤️

[@Justaperson354]

Glad you escaped mama! You’re strong and beautiful I hope you know that!

[@jujuthaguru]

@@Justaperson354 Thank you love. 🥹You’re super sweet. ☺️ Those are definitely words I could have used growing up, but I receive those words of affirmation now 🙏🏽🌻💫 I wish people weren’t so judgmental, the deception is really real out here & it’s really easy to judge a pair of shoes you’ve never stepped into. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@DeiLovelySparxx]

Been through this. I feel for her. Mine was about 6 years. He wasn't married, but I was played just the same. The video of the guy talking about her being in love after 5 months confuses me because it is MEN who tell single women, that men know within the first 5 months if they want to be with you. If they're love bombing you for 5 months, YOUR MIND TELLS YOU IT'S LOVE BECAUSE TO THE PERSON THEY ARE BEING CONSISTENT. Like come on. It's crazy. But again, I feel for her. I really do.

[@brendakabanda2181]

Exactly, we are told that they know quickly if they are going to marry you. They don't know what to say, now that we know their game. I'm sure he has said it too but he is now trying to put her down. Ridiculous.

[@winning3329]

Never trust me man

[@lv2756]

Stop listening to men

[@DeiLovelySparxx]

@@lv2756 be logical with the response. In situations like mine and this woman's we aren't listening to what men say. We are looking at his actions. They are SHOWING CONSISTENCY. Hence me saying "to the person, they are being consistent." Most women aren't tipped off that something is wrong until they break habits.

[@lv2756]

@@DeiLovelySparxx I understand. I was talking in general. So many men cheating on their wives, spreading disease, it’s best to not trust anything they say but that was just said out of frustration, Ik what you mean. Be careful out here

[@enmodelife]

Wow! He put her in a really dangerous situation with the wife pulling out the 🔫 Which is why I ALWAYS tell women (married and single) if he cheats on you he does NOT love you. Reason: because men are protective when they love you. So when he removes all protection from you by cheating (both health and physical safety), it's a WRAP.

[@stephaniemurria5534]

Absolutely ❤️

[@daniellej7914]

The wife pulled a gun 😮

[@meg.marjorie]

Man this is crazy. S/o to her Mom so caring and soft spoken about the situation. Wishing Bonita joy and propersity.

[@eboneezey28]

If you haven't Been through some toxic shit like this it may not even seem believable... trust in somebody who learnd the hard way. Lots of men live double lives, whether you're cute, smart, wealthy, healthy, or not .

[@ladydede88]

I lie to men when we first start talking and tell them, I tell them I’m in a relationship. You’ll be surprised how many times after I tell them they start to tell me they’re married or in relationship too. Think about how many women they get away lien too. I do it on purpose because they get comfortable and feel like we are the same and then spill the truth.

[@everythingaboutnothing8383]

Girrrrrrrl THIS 👌🏽

[@stitch626ich]

Ooo this is smart lol

[@leahdennis4878]

Ok I'm doing this from now on. Thank you 😊

[@soniablount2135]

Girl STAND UP! Get off the internet crying, go get in a therapist chair, and Work on your healing. Don’t ever let a man see you this broken. The first message saying he was married and she was done was enough. Some of these men will lie about their kids, money, job, wife, hell even their momma if they have to. Don’t let anyone make a fool out of you like this sis.

[@Natty_red]

💯

[@Malligue]

they even lie about their name

[@simmysoulflower5752]

I was looking for this comment lol ain’t no Way I’m recording myself crying even if I’m crying in real life 😣 yikes

[@ctilly5859]

I thought it was just me. I'm 38 and feel so old bc I can't understand why people put ALL their business online. Yike😳

[@soniablount2135]

@@Malligue girl name, birthday, criminal history lol the list goes on

[@lisasimpson8003]

New rule: when first dating a man ask him " are u married?" And dont accept a vague answer like " babe, what do u think". He has to say yes or no.... Every job ive had in the past 10 years, the most thirsty male coworkers are the married male coworkers 🙄. True story. Its the married men at my job that are tryin to smash anything that says yes.

[@BlkOnyx0508]

This! And I get so tired of the people who say it's single women by majority chasing these men.

[@kimleemoon]

And this is what they want other women to submit to…cheating husbands?!

[@lisasimpson8003]

@@BlkOnyx0508 its sad.. and in my observation, its the married men doing the chasing

[@yougotgamesonyourphone6947]

Military men in a nut shell.

[@upperclass1287]

I’ve had them say no with a straight face. You can’t trust it. It’s sad, but now I run background checks. No more trusting. It must be proven.

[@Coco-chrispy]

Lmaooo the guy that keep saying “it was 5 months 😒”

[@mimisliveboutique3543]

I would not have been on social media with ALL of my business in the first place. Be glad that you found out.

[@BoujeeGrapes]

At my big age of 37, I'm sad to say that I just don't believe in love, marriage, & relationships etc. It's all a wicked game that people play. I've opted out of it all and now just sit back and observe in peace.

[@toogroovywavey136]

😂 same here! I’m starting to wonder if the entire marriage concept is a sham and if it’s a social programming tool to keep people under control like religion is. Every single person I’ve ever known to be married is unhappy in general with their marriage. Sometimes they have pockets of good times, but in general they’re miserable in the marriage. I haven’t met one person whose happily married, who didn’t experience years of struggle love first, at least! Marriage is a scam yall 😂! We’ve been bamboozled and hoodwinked!!!

[@salutemimi81]

I think I was around your age when I gave up You see a lot and it's too much For nothing

[@opharahanglin9624]

Like wise.

[@moreni2nd405]

I am 33, I opted out at 31. The peace is incredible!!!

[@salutemimi81]

@SWEET DREAMZ The way I raised my hands on this comment Naturally hit me hard

[@thelovelykimmi7920]

It's sad that men want to discredit a woman's feelings after they've been fooled by someone. 5 months doesn't mean anything when someone is romancing you and caring for you. My friend got married after 6 months of dating and they're happy. He was comfortable with her recording him so it doesn't seem like he was being deceitful. This is disgusting.

[@msmewiththat7532]

She is genuinely hurt. I really believe she didn't know unlike some women who engage with married men. Dude really was coming across as available in her videos.

[@81eniale]

The perfect example of an extended one night stand….So sad and painful…. Rejection is protection.

[@coachzaynab355]

thanks for being positive about it!

[@Urbantrillbandit]

This happened to me too, I should’ve exposed him to his wife but I didn’t. I’ll let God take care of him.

[@chickwitthagoodies]

You probably wouldn't be here

[@MegaSlimgoody1]

You should have exposed him, wouldn't you want to know?

[@avarosalia4309]

I would be very hesitant to do so if I were in this very delicate situation especially if there is children involved. Let God do the work he’ll handle it for sure.

[@winning3329]

Sometimes the wives will Take the husband's side and might lash out at you.

[@BlkOnyx0508]

Trust me, his wife is aware of what she has

[@allmylifeihadtofight9815]

I really feel for her. Even the way she was crying I knew how that felt. Everyone is laughing in the chat but I’m absolutely empathetic to how she is feeling. Wishing her nothing but healing. It’ll take time but eventually she will be over it once it’s all out of her.

[@Treebee6009]

These are the men who end up old, sick, and alone, yall. They don't see it coming while they're in their prime, but it hits hard and quick. My heart goes out to all involved. Everybody needs a relationship with Jesus. HE is love!

[@radioog6945]

I feel like something is mentally brain damage wrong with that guy

[@chinaking918]

These are the same men that say things like “there’s no more good women out here” and “modern women don’t want to be wives”. Why the hell would anybody sign up for this nonsense.

[@phoenixfaithvisions9154]

When she said that she's he's karma and he failed the test I felt that shit!

[@ShanellIsShanney]

FYI it doesn’t take 5 months to know if you love someone or to feel he/she is the love of your life.

[@sjor3569]

I’m glad the majority of the comments seem to have compassion for this woman. Someone pursuing you for almost a year only to be tray you this way is at fault not the person who was betrayed.

[@yahainHotPink]

This lady crying breaks my heart!!! 😭😭😭💔💔💔

[@LoveMe0516]

It made me tear up a little too 😢 she was so heart broken

[@Liy798]

@@LoveMe0516 so sad for her

[@kimleemoon]

They say women should vet men. How are you supposed to vet a man like this? This was definitely not his first time doing this. I’ve never dealt with a married man but I dated a pathological liar once so I understand how she feels. He said he only had 1 child, turns out he had 4! Then he lied & DENIED each of the other 3 kids when I found out about them. He was a real POS that lied so much it was sickening. I pray she heals quickly from this.

[@ayemad]

EXACTLY

[@clearlyclaire5825]

At this point ima need to see a tax return, run a background check, and post into the FBI database. The he’ll ! lol (I mistyped that on purpose;)

[@bmswymbyelw]

the great thing is that u found out I am still trying to find out something about this one guy because something doesn't feel right and I wanna so I can feel relief that I am not the problem.

[@kimleemoon]

@@bmswymbyelw do a background check. That’s how I found out about one of his kids.

[@LaiLai..]

Research . Research . Research Believe it or not a lot of stuff men lie about can be found by simply searching on their social medias and background checks . It’s just women tend to become naive once they’re in love. I caught a lot of men in lies just by looking at their social media /followers and who they engage with on social media . Most men are sloppy with their lies.

[@teshiataylor3404]

The one thing I noticed is she really didn't know anything about in real life! Her life was open, and his wasn't he did a lot of talking, but there was nothing in real life she knew! Learning lessons!

[@WeGoJaiye]

As women we have to take personal accountability and responsibility for our mental well being...... anytime you are dating a man and there are missing pieces.... long silences and a general aura of avoidance...... u need to give in to your intuition.... not these lying bandits

[@monicacreator3168]

She's so pretty, why did she date him??? He couldn't shave his hair???

[@DJ-xh8zm]

I am not sure what the woman did wrong here. She's thought she knew someone for 5 months, he met her friends and took care and cooked for her mom, he supported her during her events, etc. He was acting like the perfect guy that ANY woman would want. Is he the love of her life, idk, but why is it a big deal for her to think that at the time. She did not do much but pop up on him. I mean they can't see each other too often so of course she would want to visit.

[@jasminemoon9965]

She did nothing wrong, and they just glancing over the fact that they knew each other for 11 months.

[@dday3322]

She didn't even sleep with him, until the 5th month! All these people talking about vet...how long does this suppose to take place?!

[@joannamarieart]

@@dday3322 Exactly, how are you supposed to vet a man who's willing to play a game and live a lie for a whole year or two?? That's insane.

[@chinaking918]

@@dday3322 exactly sound like she vetted him. After he chased her for a year before actually getting the chance only to for this to come out. That man lied for damn near a year and a half and they didn’t get intimate until the last month of the relationship. Met family and friends all that. Smh She did everything she was supposed to do and still ended up with the same black man. Damn shame.

[@userofyoutuve]

It looks like maybe she was a source of income and free trips she appears well put together narcissist use people for what they can get until they dry you up and run im not judging but it appears that’s why he was extra friendly she might of been groomed to be a sugar momma couldn’t see through the love bomb fog it does feel like love and if your Empath you feel it sometimes more intense unfortunately I’m glad she was able to see the truth before further issues started

[@bd3966]

I have compassion for this poor woman. I have been there. She was pursued for a year before dating him, of course she thought it was ok to proceed. I hope she heals and finds real love.

[@stephaniemurria5534]

Unfortunately he's not crying.

[@Coco36671]

She really was so genuine and loved so fully 😢her cries were deep

[@DMac-xc8wt]

I feel so sorry for her! What’s killing her is hope! She had so much hope for her future with him. She was living a dream. He sold her an absolute lie. I pray that finds absolute healing and discernment and trust any feelings that aren’t right.

[@Price8903]

He doesn’t even care not to be seen on social media knowing that he’s married and that anyone can bring screen shots to his wife or tag her in something. So trifling. I hope she’s truly done with him and the wife is too

[@cocoasmith6061]

Probably not she keeps smiling while talking about him

[@deliabass5214]

I saw this on another platform and I felt super bad for her. Unfortunately, you have folks out here living real live double lives.

[@CCCC-fp5gw]

The question remains : should we go back to our diaries and journals. TikTok is making us all too transparent in my opinion. Is this how we practice restoration and healing...how far will we go for validation or is it fame and visibility we're seeking.

[@brendakabanda2181]

It is a new generation and I have come to accept it. Jesus knows that I rather lose a brain than been seen crying over a loser like him.

[@cpp8632]

Nothing wrong with transparency.

[@CCCC-fp5gw]

@@cpp8632 not unless it becomes self-destructive. Nothing wrong with many things with limits* Nothing wrong with smoking/having sex out of wedlock, jumping off a cliff, eating to your heart's content/getting drunk, partying all night, gossiping, sleeping around.. What do women like to say..."do you boo" until you must sit with the consequences. Know your limits/boundaries - that is all.

[@cpp8632]

@@CCCC-fp5gw You’re comparing apples to oranges. If your comprehension skills aren’t up to par - just say that,

[@brendakabanda2181]

@CPP86 I think it better to share when you are in a good place but not necessarily when you ate going through it.

[@Betty44123]

This could’ve been a very dangerous situation all because of his lies. What is that woman with a shot her and him???

[@Shia007onthaseen]

The cry took me out! The despair…I felt it with her❤. I know she’s grieving for her lost love and her future married life!😢

[@PrettyPrincess9609]

I had a guy friend who straight up LIED to me and said he was single because he wanted to be my boyfriend. I still rejected him and said I wasn’t interested. I just wanted to remain friends. I followed him on Instagram as well and he NEVER posted any woman on his page. Well he couldn’t take NO for an answer and he turned around and told his girlfriend that I didn’t know about that I was stalking him and wouldn’t leave him alone. She called me and threatened to beat me up and she didn’t listen to me when I said he was LYING to the both of us and I was never interested in him. She never showed up to fight me. She was just talking. I blocked both of them after that. After that, I stopped trusting peoples word and started doing my own research.

[@Seeingisntbelieving]

Similar story but the wife knew about me-I had no clue because I had my head in the clouds-working on my career and fresh out of a divorce-the wife approved😂😂😂😂. She literally invited me to dinner to try to pawn him off on me…she didn’t want a divorce and he was wealthy so she wanted to keep him happy. They are black. Yep, they tried to sister-wife me😂😂!!

[@Lindamorena]

Wow girl. Were you shocked when you found out?

[@islandgirl8067]

😳😳😳😳😳

[@brendakabanda2181]

I'm not surprised, most bw wouldn't divorce a rich man. I know this because in my 20s, a lot of married women who had men that were supposedly providing said that they wouldn't leave them even if they cheated.

[@karaboleroux]

@brendakabanda2181 some walk into these relationships aware of their partner's cheating tendencies. They low-key hope that marriage will "straighten" the man out and change them. While you ironically become the person who changes most of yourself, and not for the better. You start compromising like accepting such things because you invested all of yourself into that man and not yourself. Hence it's harder to leave cause you're in denial of the things you need to part with, e.g the money or lifestyle or just plain embarrassment, to let that man go. What's sad is that you eventually come across as the toxic one since you've been so fixated and obsessed with loving, forgiving, and trying to change this man. And boy will he use these things against you to paint you as the toxic partner or villain in the relationship

[@yahainHotPink]

😲😳😩😭 No thank you! That's crazy!

[@MrsBrittanyGold]

5 months when you are grown grown is different. Especially when a man acts like he’s into you that much. Ppl get engaged in less time so for him to say that… I’m happy Yanie mentioned that. Boys love to gaslight women and say they should have known. He shouldn’t have been a slime ball.

[@sol1angel]

How did he get away with this for so long? 🤨 Why are people so deceptive and cruel? How do you just lie to people so easily? So crazy and creepy.

[@ginaglama4435]

What in the world was he telling the wife is the question???

[@amarie.e7537]

how did none of his friends and family come across her tiktoks?? the fyp usually does its thing

[@muahchelle21]

I know exactly how she feels, I'm dealing with the exact same pain, thoughts emotions and I been dealing with it alone so in a way her sharing has helped me feel less. The nasty comments from other women especially, so baffling to me

[@aliciamorgan4299]

Yeah the comments from some these so called "women" are interesting. Don't go through it alone sis. Talk to God and possibly a therapist. Take those emotions and use it to love Youself and build yourself up. You got thiis! ❤️

[@brendakabanda2181]

I'm starting to think that they might be men. Any woman who has ever been love bombed knows exactly what she is going through even if there is another woman involved.

[@ummeshariff]

​@@brendakabanda2181 she's pissing me off because she's crying get over it it's only 5 months. You aren't married and kids have not been drugged into it yet, so get over it. She can hit me up when she has years taken away from her life with children involved, other than that, I don't want to hear it.

[@brendakabanda2181]

@Umme Shariff if you have never been love bombed, you wouldn't understand it. This dusty fooled her mother. Usually the people around can smell them from a distance but he ran past them. Why are you counting only 5. He chased for 11 then they dated for 5. Do you know what chasing is?

[@agravery223]

@@ummeshariff I guess you missed the lesson when normal people learned EMPATHY. Geez!!! You're heartless.

[@thickthickly]

This is painful to watch. I know this hurt for different reasons. I'm so sorry this happened to her and honestly she didn't do anything wrong by going with the flow and letting how he treated her lead her...but he was still a piece of shit in the end to both women in his life.

[@personalshopper2585]

I know that cry 😢...I have cried that cry 😢...I know that heart pain...

[@thickthickly]

@@personalshopper2585 It's hard to recover from that kind of pain and this woman seems like she wants to bounce back so fast which I commend her for, but I also hope she lets herself feel her very valid feelings. I hope you have made it through to the other side of yours. ❤❤❤

[@personalshopper2585]

@thickthickly My broken heart happened years ago, That howling cry is the betrayal you feel. When you have a heart ache their is nothing that you can do, but in time, your heart will heal. My theme song is "Solider In Love" by Sade because she will survive.😌

[@LovelyOne0075]

My prayer is that every woman educates themselves on narcissism and sociopathology, because this could have turned out extremely dangerous. Men can be manipulative, but this is a different level of diabolical. People like this may not have a problem unaliving a person because they are already void of guilt and remorse. There are people who do this for fun. Moments that she shared with him meant everything to her and nothing to him which is why he could go the distance with his act....it was all a calculated game. He was setting her up for the biggest fall ever. God certainly did intervene. She's hurting now, but He saved her life.

[@GodsChosenMekAmoR]

This comment! Yes, the un-aliving is on the rise. You are saying the truth. Ladies please be careful out here. Often times they kill the sidechick so the wife won't find out.

[@TerraBerra]

I’m at the age now. I look at situations like this as a blessing. She said it herself. His wife is stuck and she can still find her forever love. Shit a WIN IS A WIN.

[@suzycarmichael933]

Sister we have all played the fool.If you haven’t,brace yourself.Some of these guys are monsters. My heart goes to this young lady and the wife.Guard your heart sisters!!!!!