If a man gets into a relationship with a woman who hangs around a bar in any country, any culture, he is going to have some heartaches
@sirinthip58343 жыл бұрын
Well,, she did not love you eneymore, let her go, you do the right thing, the same story with my exhusband, married bar girl in pataya, one year she disappear, he found me at the agency in bkk, me and him live together nearly 20years, till he passaway, missed him so much, 😓😓😓💃💃🙏
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry to hear that you lost your husband and hope you are coping. I am happy to see a Thai lady enjoying the stories on the channel as well.
@tonydevos3 жыл бұрын
"Marrying someone I hardly knew from a gogo bar in a red light district"---that's a perfect equation for disaster. It is the E=mc2 of stupidity
@martin369593 жыл бұрын
Hello Peter, I like to listen to you and how you tell those stories. Your comments about are always gentle, understanding and never disrespectful. Big thumbs up and keep up the good work.
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you Martin.
@patrickwentzell46383 жыл бұрын
@@ThailandBound I'd like to let others know I have nothing against hook ups or couples that want to be together without being married. I'll never be mean to others. if any are affected by certain things I've said it's not my intention at all to hurt anyones feelings or upset others. I'm looking for a way to get extra money to fix my account make it better. I want the opertunity to treat my sister to a nice peaceful relaxing vacation getaway. I'll keep searching the internet for ways I can do certain things I enjoy a lot.
@Stevenpa003 жыл бұрын
I like story times
@slicknickbangers3 жыл бұрын
The first guy is lucky they moved to UK where he was safe if the story took place in Thailand it could have ended alot worse for him.
@johnwilson38193 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@leahhuntz6236 Жыл бұрын
I was just advised to come check out this channel as my brother in law is married to a Thai girl.... she is the cliche bar girl who is always asking for money and always has excuses or stories. It's frustrating he can't see it
@ThailandBound Жыл бұрын
Let him watch a few of these videos it might wake him up
@Torchiy3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for these relationship stories Peter. Especially the first one. Cheers to this guy for having the guts to share his story. Hearing this story I can understand why a not so experienced man can fall into the charms of a bar girl. Sorry for him that the saying "you can take the girl out of the bar, but you can't take the bar out of the girl" also applies to him at the end.
@maxflight7772 жыл бұрын
Story summary : “ “Married a hooker, didn’t work out. Imagine my surprise.”
@MrNoobophile Жыл бұрын
"it was begining to dawn on me that it was a big mistake marrying someone I hardly knew, in a Gogo bar at a red light district." Lol.
@user-tk1lf5hi6f8 ай бұрын
lololol indeed!
@ronald39216 ай бұрын
Amazing they lasted 10 years
@mikedelgado51443 жыл бұрын
I speak English, Spanish, Thai, Isaan Thai and most important, Bar girl Thai. When they say "I am single", that means they do have a boyfriend (Thai or farang) . The best way to enjoy Thailand is to NEVER LISTEN TO A THAI GIRL. Their words are merely to mislead you. Just enjoy the time with them and move on to the next lady.
@alanh72472 жыл бұрын
there's really no reason to even ask them if they have a boyfriend...
@robertburnett55613 жыл бұрын
The girls are also good at turning on the tears. Better than the soap operas. But I fell for it, among the other things. But had fun. Want to return. Thanks.
@MikeAntR873 жыл бұрын
Thanks for reading my story, Peter.
@ThaigersDen3 жыл бұрын
Very touching story, Peter. Thank you for sharing. I’m going to try like heck to stay up for your live stream.
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Its fine, if you miss it, you can watch it on Sunday instead, KZbin keep it like a regular video.
@terryb45473 жыл бұрын
Know the 3 rules of Thailand. Rule 1, don't fall in love. Rule 2. Don't believe a word ,anyone tells you ! Farangs ( westerner) and denfinately the Thais. Rule 3. Don't forget rules 1 and 2.
@reigninblood1232 жыл бұрын
How about simply avoiding the place?
@Kipper19972 жыл бұрын
@@reigninblood123 100%✓
@Ryan_Powers253 жыл бұрын
That first guy should've stayed in Phuket for the rest of his holiday. Stan, that was a bad advice!
@jarrahdahlenburg7785 Жыл бұрын
a tale as old as time, what did he expect hahah
@maccastime3 жыл бұрын
My god how many mistakes did he make. Getting involved with the first bar girl he meets, allows her to see him off at the airport? Getting drunk and proposing to her? The list goes on
@danielford24243 жыл бұрын
Any one who goes with a bar girl is a complete bloody fool. There are thousands of stories like this.
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Do you mean goes with a bar girl for the evening or tries to develop a relationship? Because I know many men in Thailand who have very nice evenings with these girls.
@garychilds11302 жыл бұрын
I've had my bar girl for seventeen years yes it is hard work sometimes I have brought the house but now the bank has stolen all my money now things are getting harder but I will try to keep her I don't want to let her down
@blackbolt10133 жыл бұрын
The combination of Thailand food,alcohol and beautiful women puts any man at a disadvantage. Correction....puts me at a disadvantage 😏
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Nope, you got it right the first time 🙈
@jnkewa2 жыл бұрын
Don't say any man, I been in Thailand and those hoes couldn't play me. I'm retired Army and I've seen it all. You can lose money chasing hoes but you can't lose hoes chasing money.
@keithorrell14583 жыл бұрын
The Thai ladies are very good in manipulating us Farangs, yes we are smitten with their beauty, charms and looks. We Farangs just love them Thai ladies there is just something about them
@dayvboy46313 жыл бұрын
I think many need to realise the difference between lust and love... many are seeking partners and are vulnerable and the girls know this.
@user-ej5ns1fe5q2 жыл бұрын
You just enjoy saying Farangs
@keithorrell14582 жыл бұрын
@@user-ej5ns1fe5q it's not that I keep saying Farangs it's what the Thai people call us and I'm ok with that, if you're not a Thai citizen then I'll leave it up to you to decide what a foreigner is called
@user-ej5ns1fe5q2 жыл бұрын
@@keithorrell1458 Wait, are u the same person?
@keithorrell14582 жыл бұрын
@@user-ej5ns1fe5q hi not to sure what you mean, but yes I am Keith
@NameName-do9hj3 жыл бұрын
Still enjoying all your stories thanks :)
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear it!
@tobybrennan183 жыл бұрын
Great to have the stories back thank you Peter mate👍🏼
@frankthetank8050 Жыл бұрын
11:33 How can a Thai chick fresh from Thailand, not even speaking proper English and nothing earn more money in England, than the English guy who's been on the job for years? I'm absolutely baffled 🙈😂😂
@ThailandBound Жыл бұрын
It's one of the great Mysteries of the world Frank
@frankthetank8050 Жыл бұрын
@@ThailandBound 😂😂😂
@robertgrey61013 жыл бұрын
First story: He was bright eyed and bushy tailed. The bright lights at Pat Pong dazzled him. Lesson: You can't put a well used tyre on a car and expect to get new tyre mileage.
@michaelegan95682 жыл бұрын
WALKED 54 KM??? That's quite an embellishment
@jacquesherbepin56393 жыл бұрын
When I was young I had no problem finding. Ladies up to 4 in one week in club med Tahiti in 1982 now as.a old men nothing for the last 3 years .so I can really understand why old men.would lose they minds in thailand
@deanoprokop56882 жыл бұрын
Sounds very similar to my experience ..live and learn
@ayethein76813 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Really enjoyed that first story. Glad to know that more are coming in. I wish I had a story to give you, but I never got involved. Just kept it fun. David
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Please do!
@ayethein76813 жыл бұрын
@@ThailandBound I have been thinking I could give you my story, but it would cover a number of years (make that 'decades') and a couple of other SE Asian countries and a mix of experiences, advice from an old hand. Anyway, I could let you have it, Peter and you could use it or not. But obviously not in here, so where would I type my story to send you? David
@phantim_othy5713 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the story....been there done that and thankfully to have survived and can tell the story... It’s the old adage.. “Buyer beware”
@kostastzag41312 жыл бұрын
Your Stories are of great value for us in order to realize the truth! May God Bless you!
@taxitoloei20553 жыл бұрын
Sad especially when there are thousands of good single Thai girls working in offices, shopping malls, in universities. Sometimes you have to learn through your mistakes.
@iomtilt3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for uploading Peter, appreciated 🇹🇭🇬🇧👍
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
See you tonight!
@gurufabbes13 жыл бұрын
Heartbreaking but nonetheless great story. Feel sorry for the guy in the first story, he learned the hard way. So much for not having any more stories....
@richardc4883 жыл бұрын
Thanks Peter you are the best!
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Richard...👍😍
@skywatch46392 жыл бұрын
Nana plaza/soi cowboy/patpong/massage parlours etc are not marriage agencys, it's easy to forget that after a few beers and enjoying the company of the ladies.
@letsmakemoney8027 Жыл бұрын
Very Good Point.
@paulhoskin32863 жыл бұрын
She said she loved me but when she thought I was running out of money she left. All i did was sell a Thai gold bracelet in the gold shop that I had bought for another Thai girl
@dayvboy46313 жыл бұрын
Great stories... its your stories that help and make people who go to Thailand for the first time realise at what can happen... Girls in Go Go Bars are there to make money from every guy that walks in...its business... we all know this... you would never fall in love with a hooker from your own country so why on earth would you do it with a Thai lady that works in this environment... dont get me wrong there are many lovely Thai ladies but never fall for one that works in a bar... have fun short time and move on, never get attached to a bar girl... NUMBER 1 RULE.
@jeswmuke3 жыл бұрын
The first story was really good one. Thanks !
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@Dennis-jc2eg3 жыл бұрын
Brilliant stories Pete
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Dennis
@PeaknikMicki3 жыл бұрын
Had a mate who owned a bar some years ago and he used to help the girls write letters to their boyfriends abroad. Most of them had several. Letters were stock standard with mum is ill, I don't want to work in bar but have no money so I have to....hint hint The real fun was when a couple of the boyfriends showed up for holiday at the same time...
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
When I lived in Thailand the girls used to get the letters written by people in internet cafes
@ratchfordgeorge3 жыл бұрын
Great story, glad he kept his sense about him.
@joonas99763 жыл бұрын
You got her a job in the same company . Dear god....
@maxflight7772 жыл бұрын
😂
@jeanmichelpierre43463 жыл бұрын
I really need to tell you about a 10 years love story in Pattaya. You are a great story teller Peter. Unfortunately we are all suckers in the end. Hope to see you in Thaïland. Take care.
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Would love to hear about it. Send me the story and i can include if you like :-) peter@thailand-bound.com
@charlesbadoola5353 жыл бұрын
12:52 "It was beginning to dawn on me that I'd made a big mistake marrying someone I hardly knew, who I met in a go-go bar in a red light area." :D Better late than never. An interesting story, thanks to the honest contributor and to Peter for relaying it. It's almost as if the Thai woman put these blokes under a spell where their normal common sense deserts them.
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Almost? You are 100% correct!
@lostboi39743 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@st.gregory7 ай бұрын
A Thai friend of mine told me to remember that in Thailand, “ money is God”. Turns out he was right
@needblinds25923 жыл бұрын
They all love you long time short time all the same enjoy good luck get out of there 👍
@kevinkillelea89262 жыл бұрын
Before she closes down on you like a giant mouse trap
@wolschu58952 жыл бұрын
@@kevinkillelea8926 More like a Kraken or octapussy, aptly named, haha, mai pen rai. Pakkireu haw torng.
@dawoodfaiz-mahdavi72972 жыл бұрын
people like nurse, or teacher, or working in the office, you have to see, their familys back ground,
@alanpodmore20233 жыл бұрын
Well done love the storys
@STEADY5993 жыл бұрын
Freda sounds like a bit of Thai Dragon! Nice collection of stories again.
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Ed
@chriswheeler1743 жыл бұрын
Heard this story a million different times.
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Sorry Chris, don't get what you are trying to say?
@chriswheeler1743 жыл бұрын
@@ThailandBound Just heard this same story from loads of foreign men married to Thai bargirls...
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Yes live and learn
@e-o-10853 жыл бұрын
Good stories Peter, really enjoy them! I'll be retiring soon and will visit Thailand.
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
I hope we all can bud
@kevinwaters58723 жыл бұрын
The good thing about Preeda ( short for Predator) is that she has 5 million clones in Thailand. Try a different one each time. Your comments are respectful and incisive.Well done.
@richardevans38013 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed the first story very much. I was once young at gullible especially when it's a sexy young woman who makes you feel special. He learned a big lesson about life. I'm sure he's a much wiser man today. Trust must be earned over time. Not given away to a pretty face or a good liar . Please keep the story's coming.
@robertgrey61013 жыл бұрын
Last story: A classic example of how Thai women in particular see the Farang as a walking ATM or a milking cow to be stripped dry of fluid resources. (Country bumpkins will get this last bit about cows.)
@Kipper19972 жыл бұрын
100% True.
@Kipper19972 жыл бұрын
SO VERY SCARILY TRUE/FACT Robert
@robertgrey61012 жыл бұрын
@@Kipper1997 Thank you for your support. CAVEAT EMPTOR should be the password for all, old hands or newbies.
@supergaming-lk8jf3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for all stories Peter..
@Tam101019993 жыл бұрын
Everybody makes mistakes
@jacquesherbepin56393 жыл бұрын
Thank Peter I did enjoy the story. And didn't not mind the short ads keep going
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Awesome, thank you!
@gregoryseers1222 Жыл бұрын
I think the best way to do this and take it on board is to go steady with this girl when ur over in thailand, rekindle when u go back but not marry, each time when u go back home forget it for the moment, sort of a friends with benefits sorta thing but not shell out a shit load of money in the process
@Kuvaer3 жыл бұрын
We are in the same boat before 😊😊
@mikedelgado51443 жыл бұрын
Thanks again for sharing stories. I agree Lets not criticize these men as stupid. They need someone to talk to so they can recover from their bad experience. I've been living in Thailand for 8 years (Patong, Pattaya, Isaan cities). Worked in Bangkok for 3 years before that. See good and bad. I feel these men should take their "Lessons Learned" and give Thailand another try. Enjoy the fun, food, beautiful young ladies. This is Paradise. But watch Paul's videos before you come.
@c.h.ingate52713 жыл бұрын
Peter, that's good news about the renewed stream of stories. I have a suggestion. Many of us don't know much about the geography of Thailand except for a few of the famous places often mentioned in your stories or commentary. Many times I have wished that I could investigate the location of a place mentioned, just to get a general idea of the landscape and distance from where the story is taking place. Could you put the lesser known place names on the screen where they are brought up in the story. In that way, those of us who are "culturally deprived" can look them up and put them in a better geographic perspective. You are in charge so I stand with your decision on this.
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Hi, I will try my best but the stories already take up about 2 full days of my time each week after editing, ect, about 6 hours of editing and preparing go into each 30 minute clip and that does not include the uploading side of things.
@c.h.ingate52713 жыл бұрын
@@ThailandBound Your work is excellent. You know what is best as it relates to these matters.
@howardjones36443 жыл бұрын
i do miss reading stickman bangkok. hence im on youtube for my thailand tales.
@Mh_2713 жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed them , particularly that long first story , one of the best so far ~ thanks Peter
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it
@stevewright18193 жыл бұрын
Does this saying still apply to Farang's in Thailand "Better to haved loved and lost than not to have loved at all" ?????
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Nice one Steve, the only problem with the bar-girls is “Love” is not the best word in the world to use if you know what I mean!
@nino1843 жыл бұрын
Great stories. As you said in one of your video's 'you can take a girl out of the bar, but you can't take the bar out of a girl'
@jerryliewkenyon97553 жыл бұрын
👍
@johnwilson38193 жыл бұрын
Great stories. Sad but true. I am moving there so it is very relevant. Thanks mate. 1st story. Bad news. Feel for the guy. Never marry a bar girl. Ever. We had a dude who married a pinay bargirl and always ran around our base (I never participated and feel glad now) 2d story. I have a similar experience in Holland. Beautiful. Perfect. If I would have only lived there. Still feel sad about it. 3rd story. Never give money to anyone. Ever. Funny how I keep this rule, and suddenly they ALL have to leave me...hmmmmm!! Lollll
@Boomboom10013 жыл бұрын
Great job Peter. Keep it up.
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Thanks George
@virginijusbutkus4292 жыл бұрын
I had same story 100%,don't trust bar girls
@tubeyouianzz3 жыл бұрын
As you said the warning signs were there 🤷 he just chose to ignore them, easily done lol
@Roberto-xc5xy3 жыл бұрын
Great stories Peter 👍
@lostboi39743 жыл бұрын
16:27 I think at this time it is the perfect opportunity to tell all you guys that this the perfect example of why you only do casual, never cohabitate and never have kids with a woman. You can love a woman or you can understand a woman but you cant do both.
@darrenanderson51713 жыл бұрын
Hey Pete really enjoyed the stories again Thanks again
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it
@guidine73 жыл бұрын
thanks for uploading, greetings from Germany 🇩🇪
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Welcome!
@therokknrollgypsy66573 жыл бұрын
Great stories. Cheers Peter. 🍻
@dimitriosfromgreece42273 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video ❤❤❤
@chrisgilling5433 жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed the stories as always Peter 👍 Top man
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Glad you are still into them Chris, 3 more on Sat the 3rd March
@alexyp3 жыл бұрын
haha sick buffalo's for the win !
@rockeerockey69413 жыл бұрын
Informative indeed
@shinnrana65803 жыл бұрын
Enjoyed today's stories Pete. See you at 9. Sginn👍👍👍👍👍
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed them and see you tonight.
@gregoryseers1222 Жыл бұрын
They always say people will treat u the way u invite them to treat u
@kellgiggs6593 Жыл бұрын
555 Freddie not in his photo, classic 😂😂😂
@scubaguy142 жыл бұрын
9:12.. you don't have to pay a dowry because their daughter is a pro lol
@dawoodfaiz-mahdavi72972 жыл бұрын
Thailand Bound, if I were you, you have to stay a bit longer, don,t show, that you are interested quickly, take your time, and try to get to know her, don,t trust Bangkok girl at all, just be with her, and if she is going to text you, in the bar, waste of time, going with them, they sleep with men, they sell their body to people, to makes their living,
@chrishoss37573 жыл бұрын
Thanks Pete enjoy the stories ,especially at present whilst at day 4 of 14 in quarantine in Auckland Cheers Chris
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Glad you like them!
@deltapro-55373 жыл бұрын
Am a new subscriber...and good stories....
@justinjay69302 жыл бұрын
important point ..always use a different name when u go to a bar
@gregoryseers1222 Жыл бұрын
Looks like its flooded at Aires Rock, DAMN! lol
@dickyhoey3 жыл бұрын
Great stories as usual Peter. Glad to find out your not a midget but rather tall. I was a bit worried there for a while. Just kidding. You didn’t seem short at all and was rather surprised at the comments that you were short. Keep the great stories coming.
@ItsThaithings3 жыл бұрын
You inspire me to make green screen 😊
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
It's not difficult
@ItsThaithings3 жыл бұрын
@@ThailandBound lots to learn about KZbin 😊
@user-qv2en4ux3lАй бұрын
I would love a relationship lasting 10 years.
@derkjh3 жыл бұрын
One born every minute
@absolute7573 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but no sympathy for the sucker who married the bar girl
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
I don't think the guy was actually looking for sympathy from anybody, he was simply sharing the story and some bad decision-making with us.
@absolute7573 жыл бұрын
@@ThailandBound regardless, he gets none
@majicyoung3 жыл бұрын
Same story with all thai bar girls...
@mariobuttino60953 жыл бұрын
The immortal words of the great American Writer Mark Twain, you could take a homeless dog from the cold and rain and let him in your home, he will be your best friend for life,this doesn't apply to humans.
@russellclement20582 жыл бұрын
Geeeeez , why would anyone worry about how tall your are ,,, truly ,, some people
@jnyavdull29532 жыл бұрын
Wise man go for holiday in Thailand with his wife.....Desperate gentlemen became victim of Business girls in Thailand...
@brettwicks7339 Жыл бұрын
Taking your wife to Thailand is like taking sand to the beach . Wise man wouldn't go to visit a zoo to see the animals , and take home a monkey .
@brendanduffy23673 жыл бұрын
Great stuff Peter 😎🙏🇨🇷
@ThailandBound3 жыл бұрын
Cheers Brendan
@jonathanpatrick27293 жыл бұрын
Hi Peter when are you planning on going back to Thailand?