Bathroom Cruising Etiquette | Patrick Marano

Cruising is an art and art takes skill.
In this video we look at some basic bathroom cruising examples so you can better navigate your next cruising encounter.
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[@jett2605]

it's very important to know that sometimes you're cruising a police officer that's there to arrest you and charge you with "public indecency". believe me i know from personal experience, so please be careful. it's all fun and games until they escort you out in handcuffs.

[@bocawilliams9200]

I'm not gay, I just stumbled upon your videos and I am FASCINATED by this cruising culture.

[@garywilson9640]

My best surprise tryst was in a Hotel Elevator on Canal St in New Orleans. My very first night there. I came back from French Quarter and was walking to elevator and punched the button. The conciere whom I'd asked for directions upon leaving walked up behind me and joined me when the doors closed. Then on way up to 20th floor he used his elevator key to turn it off. All I'll say is that we left the floors pretty sticky !

[@mikebrady2073]

Since the Old French Quarter is actually the city’s Gay neighborhood.

[@PatrickMarano]

Wow! Amazing story

[@RJ1999x]

And then you woke up with a wet spot on the bed

[@victordepaul1061]

I once had an encounter with a handsome young Latino that started in the men’s room in NYC’s Penn Station and ended in an elevator that we took down to the track level. We pressed the door close button and then it was game on! Your videos do tend to trigger some good memories Patrick,🥰🥰

[@PatrickMarano]

I’m so happy!

[@victordepaul1061]

@@PatrickMarano Had some hot live play action on Sniffies last night Patrick. Thanks again!❤

[@dabigd1860]

@Victor DePaul Some6i really think those sporadic, spontaneous encounters are the best! And the most exciting! Sometimes more exciting than actually dating someone and going thru all the relationship drama; only to just get tired of that person in the end and move on or stay in the relationship but agree to bring in "someone else" just because you ate now bored with each other and monagamy anyways. I stay single and am able to enjoy all the variety that i want anywhere, anytime.

[@victordepaul1061]

@@dabigd1860 Hope your user name means what I think ot does😁😁😁🍆

[@ryanb4940]

@@victordepaul1061 hot.. wish was there to see or join. Pic is my dog. Not me. Happy to share pics though haha ;)

[@nxs3374]

Ahhh yes test room cruising , from Europe to the US and it’s all the same …. Oh what FUN, it is … just be respectful… you’ll know when it’ll happen ! Great vids !!!!

[@mikenonya6382]

This works pretty well at adult bookstore theaters also.

[@johniii8147]

Doesn't seem many of those left with the internet.

[@PatrickMarano]

Yes!

[@dabigd1860]

@John lii I HATE THIS INTERNET SOCIAL MEDIA AGE!!!!! 😡😡😡 They need toncall it "Anti-social media" because that's what it fosters: being anti social. People, especially the younger generation are losing the ability to communicate and negotiate in person interactions. I liked life way more before a lot of social media and the ptoliferation of the internet

[@dabigd1860]

@John lii Yes. People took for granted the importance of those adult video/toy stores that we had in the 70s, 80s, 90s. This generation can have the internet and stay home whacking off all day long. Nothing takes the place of the excitement the adrenaline rush of going out, cruising, waiting for the right one, the right moment and actually interacting with another human being. The most memorable s8x I've had has been in movie theatres and video booths. Truthfully, i am actually not too fond of going back to people's apartments for s8x.

[@johniii8147]

@@dabigd1860 I agree with you 100%.

[@fredwilliams838]

Love the new look!!!!!

[@PatrickMarano]

Thx!

[@mikefloyde8433]

Patrick I wish they had so much info when I was young, really helps so many guys out, Your amazing for taking the time to explain to guys on line 😍 mike

[@PatrickMarano]

Thanks for saying that Mike!

[@mrtunapie6653]

Yeah ok, I've had some pretty hot pick-ups at interstate rest stops, but I cant believe someone made a KZbin video about it... LOL

[@PatrickMarano]

surprise!

[@mesmor]

Where children go

[@Dwebber919]

OMG I love your Hair!!!!

[@victordepaul1061]

Damn you’re looking good in this one Patrick!(not that you don’t all the time😍😍)!

[@christiann1881]

He always is

[@victordepaul1061]

@Gavin Donahue Thanks.😁

[@victordepaul1061]

@Gavin Donahue That's an idea😈

[@Taopuppy]

I like your new haircut, Patrick :)

[@PatrickMarano]

Thanks

[@londonkyguy]

I love cruising public restrooms. Hard to find any cruisy these days. Everyone is sitting at home on Grindr doing nothing.

[@PatrickMarano]

hahaha too true

[@deankilminster5430]

@@PatrickMarano I don’t have many great places near me but my cousin lives in Atlanta and I cruise when I drive up there. There are some great Adult Arcades near there. I’m always hesitant in restrooms because I’m so afraid of getting arrested even though I think bathroom cruising is super hot. Any advice? Or dif kind of spots to try

[@mesmor]

Thanks for leaving this channel up I'm spreading this everywhere

[@PatrickMarano]

I appreciate that! Thank you my friend!

[@mesmor]

@@PatrickMarano untouchable is a delusional thought...

[@miguelpaul1164]

Love your hair here!!! Found a cruising spot and I've not tried but I'm gonna go today!!!

[@PatrickMarano]

Have fun!

[@rickp.8925]

Great video Patrick, My college and post graduate years were full of cruising bathroom events weather it was the mall, college library or a local college bathroom. It seems like I always found it easy to find the bathroom that was known to be the most active. I usually found it more easy to start in the stall. Nine times out of ten there was a peep hole gave the first look of the goods. Next a little tap of the foot on either side started the process. Some weeks I got lucky 3 to 4 times a week. Then once I realized I was in a bathroom in a building I didn' even have a class in. But in realality, that was better, I was less likely to run into someone I knew. The Mall was fun also, Once the guy was following you and when you made it to the the restroom section, you know it was a go. I made it to the stall and within 2 minutes he was in the next stall. The key thing is to check the shoes while you are in the store so you know its the same guy. If he taps his foot first then I tap my foot. When he goes to his knees and the dick is nice, the fun starts. You brought back some great memories. I could talk for hours on the subject. Thanks.

[@PatrickMarano]

Thank you for sharing Rick

[@mr.oscarpadilla]

Taking note, I jog at Golden Gate park everyday and sometimes when I stop at the restrooms a guy follows me or walks in right after me and I takes the urinal next to me and I freeze!... now I'll give myself the chance to see if it's something more or just a coincidence that a guy is peeing at the same time as me...

[@johnmichaelreyes911]

Good to know. I’m in the sunset ;)

[@mikebrady2073]

@@johnmichaelreyes911 lol

[@PatrickMarano]

Sounds like he’s looking for action

[@johnmichaelreyes911]

@@PatrickMarano ready and willing 😈

[@dabigd1860]

@Oscar Padilla public parks are a NO-NO. The police are always setting up sting operations in parks frequented by g4y men to curtail any public s8x or indecency. They have done it so many times here at Reverchon park in Dallas Texas

[@simonf8902]

Hair up looking good !

[@PatrickMarano]

Thank you!!

[@ChrisB_Esq]

Like a fine wine. “Eddie” has gotten better with age. Looking great 😉

[@PatrickMarano]

Thank you!

[@adamstepic8083]

Not yet, but I'm sure I will see it. I like your personality, so I subscribed

[@PatrickMarano]

Thanks for subbing!

[@fredrick8691]

Such awesome topics! You should do gloryholes next!?

[@PatrickMarano]

Ok!

[@fredrick8691]

@@PatrickMarano awesome!

[@titulaveau3092]

🍆 Thank you Patrick for being YOU and for all the content on this channel! Got a subscriber in me! Thank you for the info, lessons, and facts 💯! I’m a frequent bathroom cruiser & the non-partitioned urinals are my forte! Cheers! #exhibitionist

[@PatrickMarano]

Haha thx for watching!

[@dabigd1860]

@Tituba Laveau i USED TO FEEL ASHAMED or like i was perverted for my "trysts" in private corners of public places but now i don't. I've been around long enough to know that this IS A PART OF G4Y LIFE and being a g4y man. Unlike women, we are not as heavily relationship oriented. We are very visual and very action oriented. Our need for s8xual release doesn't always have to be mitigated by a relationship or even the prospect of one. A lot of times it's best that we don't even attempt one with every male that we are physically attracted to.

[@titulaveau3092]

@@dabigd1860 exactly!!! It’s so much physical energy and attraction plus a roll of the dice!

[@crabcakes4194]

Nice watch. 🤣

[@randysmith7045]

i'g go cruise ther all the time if you were there

[@donald6787]

Bathroom sex is very risky

[@dabigd1860]

@Donald Gray Bathroom s8x was all the rage in Baltimore Maryland. They even posted a video on line of guys running a train on a guy in mondawmin mall: one of the city's busiest and oldest malls

[@jeffreypeterson9280]

I used to live in New York whatever happened to all the glorry hole Macy's the library bathroom in Washington Square Park those were all the places to go and the piers

[@PatrickMarano]

The golden age

[@Tahoe95]

Most of the guys go into the toilet to pee if they see a guy at the urinal.

[@alanzamora6504]

Urinals and gloryholes _ i just loved the tips _ outfit means alot to make it happen and not only see the merchandise ( but ) to show the merch ass well _ thank you : 💋

[@PatrickMarano]

You got it!

[@dalemettee1147]

So Patrick, what's on the Tee shirt at the collar? It looks like dark spots.

[@PatrickMarano]

I dunno ;)

[@gjpp3239]

Do a video on Adult Movie Theaters and Bookstores !

[@mesmor]

Again children go to book store 😊

[@chuckschafer942]

@@mesmor HE SAID ADULT BOOKSTORE

[@mesmor]

@chuckschafer942 thank you your information is critical ti future cases

[@zanealberto7741]

💙👍🔥🔥😘

[@bodymotionchile]

I need another video on etiquete for Glory Holes acction.

[@PatrickMarano]

On it!

[@michaelcantu5712]

You dirty birdie you lol

[@SailorGreenTea]

😆

[@mauro5174]

Bathroom cruising is so exiting, adrenaline turns hot and more hot

[@EphemeralProductions]

cute and handsome! Marano sounds either Spanish or Italian.... which one is it, or is it of another nationality?

[@PatrickMarano]

Italian actually

[@EphemeralProductions]

@@PatrickMarano haha there you go! I got it. :D

[@steveh4114]

Ha ! Quite the tutorial ! Just not my thing. I like to meet gay/bi men in gay places: bars, apps. But I've been to beaches and parks. Usually don't mind meeting there and then take it inside. Bathhouses are like gay YMCA's ! 😀Bookstores in the 80's and 90's were my place to experiment. I'm over 50 and had pretty good luck in Grindr of all places !

[@PatrickMarano]

I'm happy the App's work for you

[@adamstepic8083]

I love your videos. I just tried cruising for the first time. No luck. I will try again. I'm trans. I did have a guy staring at me for a while in the woods. He was creepy about it to. Like Jason Vorhees from Friday the 13th

[@PatrickMarano]

That's funny you say Jason Vorhees. Did you see my cruising video where I flashed Jason on the screen? LOL

[@hopedunkel2298]

If only you could teach hetero men about manners and consent. Your videos are great.

[@PatrickMarano]

thank you so much!

[@RomaAcorn]

My t shirt looks the same after a nice gloryhole visit.

[@PatrickMarano]

hahaha

[@mikebrady2073]

Nonsense. Simply doing an eye brow lift is the subliminal body language for friend while the guy is looking at you, a form of recognition.

[@PatrickMarano]

Good tip

[@PatrickMarano]

Good tip!

[@mikebrady2073]

And I do mean a full eye brow lift, not a single Mr.Spock eye brow lift, which translates as “What!?!”.

[@MarioLopez-ob5rv]

Is it a crime to cruise in the bathroom?

[@PatrickMarano]

That's a hard question to answer cuz it depends on a lot of different things. Mainly, where you live. Laws differ from place to place. Obviously it's something done on the DL

[@marvinnelson6945]

Piece of cheesecake

[@PatrickMarano]

Love cheesecake

[@jermainemccleary9271]

Absolutely magnificent! Wow, you need to research P R O M O S M!!

[@PatrickMarano]

What is that?

[@luvhangova]

Girl !! Grow your hair out again! You were blessed.. show if off….use it !!!

[@PatrickMarano]

Aww thx

[@Drjjjones420]

I didn’t hear him say bring condoms …

[@PatrickMarano]

I don't tell people HOW to have sex... just WHERE to find it. lol

[@Drjjjones420]

@@PatrickMarano this is why I have trust issues lol. I’d love to talk to you about a few things get your take

[@bozzluver]

Your beautiful STRONG Italian features are best complemented by other STRONG stutff like a STRONG hair style babe. Meek and mild hair is too “weak”for you. Be BOLD (lol)

[@PatrickMarano]

Ok good to know

[@mesmor]

Public area...😢kids

[@PatrickMarano]

Rest assured.... Men that do this behaviour do not want to be seen by anyone, especially kids. Doesn't happen.

[@mesmor]

@PatrickMarano how ..hanging your naked balloon knot out of the stall ..is not being seen by anyone walking in the bathrooms

[@mesmor]

@@PatrickMarano what the fu.the guy said he hanging his ass with door open

[@Sally-lm1fd]

Me just a girl

[@chrism9771]

Has anyone tell you that you are cute.

[@PatrickMarano]

Thank you

[@antoniosusino4628]

What year we talking about again ? COME BACK 1978 AGAIN !!!

[@PatrickMarano]

still happens my friend... still happens

[@louisdewit4429]

DON’t cruise public toilers. It’s embarrassing and give us 4% a bad name towards the other 96%. ‘We’ can’t afford it.

[@PatrickMarano]

White Lives Matter? Seriously? hahaha

[@louisdewit4429]

@@PatrickMarano - Come and live in western Europe. You’ll talk different soon. Especially being openly Gay in public space. The other day a white Dutch girl was raped in the center of a Dutch city in broad daylight by a black man, asylum seeker from Sierra Leone, Africa. Due Left wing pc narrative the term Racism wasn’t mentioned. That’s excluded for a black criminal in the USA who Racist conned hard working Latinos by paying with fake money. Drugged stiff he resisted arrest and due to that the arrest went wrong. An ethnic white, Chinese and Arab cop. Only the white cop is raged about. Thén all pc protest. One of your videos is about cruising. Used to be fun in Holland. NO more. Moroccan, muslim, immigrant gangs patrol the areas and beat the crap out of Gays. They even make dates on Tinder, fake photo, and with a group go to that date. Last year a man was to meet someone on his street near his house. Was beaten to death by a Moroccan group. Little outcry. Victim white and perpetrators muslim. Police needs to patrol parking spaces, known for cruising, not to arrest Gays .. NO, to check the places for Moroccans. This is going on allover western Europe. The sea boardwalk at The Hague can no longer be frequented by young non muslim, non headscarfs ladies. Always sexually harassed. Been harassed, Faggot, twice in the States. Both times Negros. Coincidental now i’m watching a news-item on tv about knife attacks. Negro youngsters in again broad daylight in the shopping area of Rotterdam slaughtered a native, white, young man visiting Rotterdam that day. Now all this knifing is spoken about and Very reluctantly mentioning ethnicity as a perpetrator problem. NO mention of the ethnicity/race of the victim group. WHITE. NATIVE. Then Racism might become obvious. Not allowed in Multicultural Europe. Once a year, August, there is the Gay-pride in Amsterdam. EVERY year at this pride Gays are being beaten up. Hush Hush 🤫. Always by immigrant kids. Moroccans and, to a lesser extend, blacks. The victims …. Whites. They are individualized, perceived as weak, and looked upon as trash. Homos the most. So. Stop you American pc BS. Wake up. (Pity i can’t post videos in this answer. Lots of examples. Cameras everywhere. No action).

[@mesmor]

Sick there are kids in these places and parents stupid enough to let them go alone..sick

[@louisdewit4429]

@@mesmor - Are you stupid. These are GAY MEN bathhouses. A whole separate category. You should try one once.