The £400m Divorce - Millionaire Ex-Wives Club - BBC Two

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When your husband is a multimillionaire, life can be something of a fairy tale but when it all comes crashing down, it seems the bigger the money, the bigger the fight. Michelle Young has clocked up 65 court hearings and 13 sets of lawyers in her battle with her ex-husband. And 11 years on, she still hasn't given up.
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[@chrisserrific]

She needs to be careful tracking down that money, or she might end up "accidentally" falling out of a window too.

[@myaanolover]

chrisserrific Lol 😂

[@linanicolia1994]

a possibility.

[@nicoledefontaine6144]

chrisserrific lol you made me laugh

[@meghandarlin1050]

Yup! I said the same thing

[@stevieg6418]

Then Barry Scott pops up and says "BANG and the dirt is gone!"

[@earthhuman192]

Its very hard not being able to live in a mansion 😞 Edit(10/22/2020): I had no idea this was the top comment. I would like to say that I thank the heavenly father of all creation for blessing me with abundance in love, peace and joy, the Supreme gifts of life 💖🙏😇

[@afroatheist-isnowafroantit6154]

😆😆

[@ObeyjusticeChiguta18]

Lol

[@Cobra83.]

I feel ya mate.

[@thetruthsayer8347]

with only 30 million pounds to your name smh

[@marksmith8732]

I made a fair amount of money in a business I had and I lived a pretty high life.then through one bad investment I lost everything.to go from that high life back down to nothing was soul destroying. I just started a new business in April and I'm hoping it can get me back .she should though have cut her losses and taken 25 or 30 .it would have been enough to build back up again but she got greedy as she thought he had a large stash off shore.i feel bad for her as I'm sure that thought punishes her every day

[@deeprollingriver5820]

Let this be a lesson, ladies. Stash away money no matter how great you think your marriage is

[@lezel4swarts]

then go to jail for stealing from your man once he finds out

[@20greeneyes20]

@@lezel4swarts a marriage everything should be one. So how is that stealing. Don't think you know anyone. Everyone has another side that is unknown.

[@1p4142136]

Why is this message geared towards ladies only? How about men?

[@shinebrightlikeadiamond6411]

Yes indeed very smart advice.

[@vivica8207]

Or...Just make your own. Problem solved.

[@alliereesor115]

Bankrupt surrounded by Gucci boxes. Go stand in line at a food bank and get back to me, lady.

[@jessicapringle3026]

Do you have any idea it is to sell out of season luxury fashion products for anywhere near what you paid???

[@candyrobles2265]

Oookkk the struggle is real..n sometimes u have to wait like 2 hrs .

[@catherinepositano8544]

A girls gotta have shoes!!! 👠👑👠💎👠💍👠

[@stellaofthelake3451]

lol

[@maga6252]

Uhh lady so how much were the engagement and wedding rings? You might want to have them analyzed. #JustSaying 🇺🇸 🇬🇧

[@kellyedwards4686]

After she rejected that 30M and essentially said, “I’ve done work too,” provided a key hint into why she rejected the offer: the settlement wasn’t enough to settle her emotional investment. At that point, it wasn’t about the money. It was about satisfying her emotional needs. She wanted to feel like a champion but instead felt like, “this is it?” Her mental build-up of what she dreamed in how satisfactory it would be to crush her husband made that settlement offer uneventful in her mind. As a result, she may never get anything.

[@wendyknoxleet]

And the lawyers get rich

[@elisahamilton73]

I'm complaining about my divorce costing 5k.

[@MR-in8bl]

Always

[@1y2r1]

Money aside, this is just heartbreaking that a family with young children has fallen apart like this. I can’t even begin to imagine what that’s like

[@dukewilliam3660]

The title should be: WHEN GOLD DIGGING GOES WRONG.

[@1p4142136]

duke william lol!

[@jeanneeber]

duke william Dumb man!

[@jeanneeber]

duke william Yeah! Screw those children HE created! Why do THEY deserve anything, right?

[@atos.nympha3451]

Lmaooooo

[@lyn1707]

She’s just searching for what she is entitled to! He was a criminal liar fraud and cheat. It’s called justice

[@benipinky]

I’m finding it difficult to sympathize with this woman

[@harrytaylor6565]

Same

[@justrenee2640]

same... like you got something at least...jeez she could start her own luxury business at this point...

[@tinalouiseking]

@@mahmudadeniyi9876 exactly you'll never get that time back on your life! How could you put a price on that take the money and go geez!

[@dabzprincess92]

I guess you don't or aren't familiar with the husband. He is a 🐍 to say the least.

[@eleonoranostradamus2869]

She doesn’t want the 30 millions because she knows he has way More than that . Greedy. I would take the 30 millions , invest in something and live a calm life

[@caligulalonghbottom2629]

she seems to owe about 20 million... divorce settlemens are taxed also arent they? it would leave her with barely anything.

[@meganpowell1532]

He ends up dying and she doesn't get a penny. Stupid cow should've just taken the £30 mil

[@samlsd9711]

She didn't get anything because she refused. Now he's dead, and his money is gone with the Russian mafia that killed him. 😆😂😁🤣😭 He somewhat predicted what would happen to her. Broke, alone and in debt.

[@samlsd9711]

@@caligulalonghbottom2629 She was going to get the 50% assets too. She fucked up 😆 now he's gone she's got nothing.

[@colinsushiboy745]

The place looks okay. Not as clean Or beautiful as the hotel residence on Vegas strip. Just buy a condo on Vegas strip and you're basically getting the same sh it.

[@stevelovell5081]

Turned down 30m because he lost interest in you. Get a job!!

[@ayannabailey6066]

So during the whole marriage you know he's cheating on you but you stay , but you don't think " Maybe i should save a little" bc this man is very shady.

[@69Fabulosity]

Exactly instead of buying all those Gucci shoes she should have been stacking Lol

[@kfor47]

I hope you don't have any children of your own. A smart woman tries to make her marriage work (for the sake of the children) even if the husband is cheating.

[@jstrom.ph5]

truth! Theres nothing wrong with saving emergency funds when push comes to shove especially since she has 2 kids.

[@maryloubautista2317]

I agree. She should have started stashing money since the day she found out her husband has been cheating. Stashing a little bit of money and overtime it will grow. She should have taken that 30million as well.

[@terrazasvictim5441]

Who turns down $30 MM?! Greed in its finest. Never worked a day in her life and is demanding a handout. So spoiled.

[@RaneetaFailua15]

As a woman i kind understand why shes doing it because she hold the household and family together so he could make his money. So he needs to pay his fair share. I reckon its fair.

[@charlesmendez4686]

@@RaneetaFailua15 you have no brain at all, watch it again. he made money before he met her and had a lot of properties before meeting her

[@jimbeaux89]

Raneeta's Blog what’s fair is her ending up even more in debt. She should’ve just cut her loss, and taken the 30M. The family courts aren’t to blame. They offered her a big chunk of cash, better than nothing. do you honestly believe that she needs all that phantom money? It’s not there, and she’s going to end up regretting shelling out all that cash the “army of lawyers” and investigators. Serves her right to keep pushing for money.

[@tianatiana8295]

She did take the money settlement however he didn’t pay

[@sandrapatterson2916]

@J Carver I'm thinking the same thing...the lawyers are telling her she should demand more.

[@bar-sabas4801]

He offed her £30m and she said no God Almighty, greedy at its best and now end up with 0000000

[@wowso4]

Doctor Mashigo i know I would take the money and run!

[@bar-sabas4801]

@@wowso4 thats a lot of money woooow and how can anyone say NO I've no idea

[@DaSilvasWorld]

Pure greed, should have taken that 30mil and created a great life for her and her children, but no she wanted the billionaire lifestyle not realising the billions didn’t even belong to her ex husband

[@MrCHINBAG]

300,000 for having him bumped off.

[@jerry76411]

she should of took the deal

[@iqureshi63]

Bruh I have arguments about £30 with my friends let alone £30 million 😂

[@iqureshi63]

cheetha123456 it’s called turkey bacon 🥓

[@monnikhan1000]

@cheetha123456 pork is known to cause diseases anyways lmao it’s a good thing I don’t eat that shit 🤮I’m vegan

[@henrylivingstone2800]

@@monnikhan1000 That’s when it’s raw or uncured, usually in the US there’s health precautions that prevents the spread of disease but tainted food stuffs isn’t unique to pork.

[@ritadaniels4179]

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[@jemimapd534]

Greed has been her downfall…allowing her whole life to be consumed chasing obscene amounts of money is sad…🤷‍♀️

[@itsjustnopinionok]

She was offered 26M. But the thought of having 200M was just to much. Now she gets nothing. And down deep inside she knows she messed up.

[@OnlyRealsht]

Money and big houses can't go with you when you are dead... just be happy your kids are healthy... love them and live your life.

[@anabelapinote8550]

Jesus! Crazy woman! 30millions and she said no because she wanted more!!! She was thinking about her and her lifestyle and not the children.... Sad

[@valeriesmall859]

Anabela Pinote she already lost 17m 😟 while that scumbag refused to pay the court order and planned well in advance to hide his assets and ultimately, did so very successfully. I wish her well in her endeavor for justice for herself and others in that position, regardless their monetary status.

[@CameronCourts]

@@valeriesmall859 But its suggested that the money that he hid was never his to begin with. It was laundered on behalf of others. She should've taken the money and moved on with her life.

[@Amoroussparkle]

I understood it as she was scared to take it since - like she said - she didn't know where he would get it from. Taking illegal money is a bad idea.@@5643sd

[@Cobra83.]

You know what they say about a fool and their money

[@HausOfAdonis]

Anabela Pinote ummm yeah, duh. She’s older now. She’s not gonna be getting a lucrative career right now, or years down the line.

[@hicksa1]

She should have taken the millions she used to fight in court, built a business for herself smh!

[@arlenehayles1892]

I agree 👍

[@Simon-wi2nn]

She is not a business person but eating person

[@factsondeck1552]

@@Simon-wi2nneven if she’s not a business person it’s more money that a person can spend in one lifetime

[@halid36]

It's his money he had it before they were married she should be happy with 30 million plus the 50 percent of assets.

[@joshradcliffe8563]

In fairness to her, he didn't have it before they were married. Not to mention the fact that her family helped him out financially, he was pretty much broke when they got together. Equally, I've read the judgment many times and see nothing to suggest that SY had £400 million or anything like it; MY was always on a loser with this case. He was, it seems, a bagman or fixer for the ultra wealthy, his share was therefore a relative pittance.

[@AllKinaTing]

the home she currently lives in, looks very nice to me. Some people really dont know how GOOD their life is

[@raselislam3329]

😆😆😆

[@naireretomassjoo5279]

Never rely on other people's money....learn to make your own money...and never have any expectations from anyone....❣️

[@Sky-ez5wp]

well now we know ur single

[@111mmgg]

5ft 8 hahahahaha

[@verniejourney]

They has kids,,,her HUSBAND... THESE JEALOUS POOR WOMEN JUS DONT GET IT

[@Sarah-ft8jr]

Ok..so who raises the children then?

[@joannejones9978]

Just greedy! Should have accepted what was offered.

[@snake991231]

Wow, she’s got to feel Beyond depressed! How do you turn down 30 million dollars? That’s insanity ! The mentality of these people is devoid of common Sense!

[@pauljohndoyle]

Actually it's 30 million pounds sterling, which is significantly more than 30 million dollars.

[@black76561]

That phone call is the moral of her story.. quit while u ahead.. she should of accepted the offer.

[@GREENLALI]

I never understood why women never prepared for the worst. Why didn't she invest money in for the future

[@fatimahrahman687]

GREENLALI , because women think a man is a plan, and that that kind of lifestyle is sustainable!

[@jeanthree]

Because five closets of shoes is more important

[@itsjustnopinionok]

She was raised in an environment where looking pretty and having the ability to recreate for a man is what's important. Like the young beautiful models she said her husband went after. I bet she was one of those young women to at one point.

[@trickyg3693]

£30m wasn't 50% of his worth, but it was £30m more than she had... Why did she turn it down? Because she hated him so much. She didn't want to make his life easier by accepting.

[@arlenehayles1892]

She should accept the money and maximize the funds. She wasn't smart.

[@taffmanetothyme7]

I'm sure I and a family of 2 could *struggle* along with *£30 mill.* 🤦‍♂️

[@factsondeck1552]

And she didn’t care about the children

[@DR-eh6bc]

Još bi joj ostalo 4 miliona u džepu, zajebala se što nije prihvatila ponudu, trebala je prihvatiti, riješila bi se duga

[@solarsnake]

When your looks have faded but you're still a gold digger.

[@mya3601]

Solar Snake ctfu

[@mercedesUK85]

Beauty fades dumb is forever. Judge Judy

[@chibi168]

She's probably only 30. High mileage and rode hard.

[@alexisgordon2759]

@@chibi168 Haha Ruthless!

[@RK-su4hs]

chibi168 😂😂😃😃

[@rodiz23]

16:14 destitute enough to turn down £30million LOL, this is what a sense of entitlement does to people.

[@anthonymagliaro4791]

Absolute greed coupled with stupidity not a good combination...and see the results

[@rodiz23]

anthony magliaro Exactly.

[@RussiaIsARiddle778]

Rodney Kaputu 30 million would have only paid her bills.

[@wewelove2310]

I don’t feel sorry for this woman find a job and move on

[@34entertainment90]

Be careful...it cld be u..how cld u handle it..

[@lubasmolin1]

Wewe Love , I agree.

[@loveskinas3352]

Easy for you to say from the cheap seats!

[@SolidCompa-xt4ez]

That's the attitude ! Unfortunately your counterparts would be probably pissed off at the man. I feel sorry for most women they are not cut out to make it in this world .

[@v12ish40]

Well it's difficult to not live in a mansion

[@thomasholland2384]

I would of took that 30M. He worked and earned that money, you should of been happy with what he was offering you.

[@middleagednmarvelous]

wrong she will have raise those girls. so and when you marry you dont expect that your husband would be a cheater

[@justaregularguy1234]

@@middleagednmarvelous What you'd expect she married him when he already was rich, expecting him not to cheat is funny, I also doubt that 30 mil is not enough to raise their kids, she's a gold digger

[@henrylivingstone2800]

@@middleagednmarvelous But...her daughters are fully grown

[@cappuccinopapi3038]

Some people will do everything, everything but working

[@reclaimedandrested]

Rodrigo Weilg if you think marriage isn’t work then stay single

[@69Fabulosity]

You speak about work as if its a great thing all u will be is a slave to someone else. You will have no freedom..u have 2clock in @someone business & have to ask permission 4a vacation that has 2b approved. And u work hard to make someone else business thrive while your being paid pennies..sounds like slave work 2me. Who would praise that. Better 2b a boss or have the privilege of not having 2punch anyone clock sounds better!

[@jackhamrogue9708]

Michelle should go on a gap year and do some voluntary work in South America. Maybe picking strawberries on a Peruvian plantation. Do ayahuasca & release herself from the burden of materialism.

[@CassTrashPuppy]

Best comment

[@jenisbetzke6228]

yeah!!

[@britjazpena5831]

😁😂

[@jacksmith-ow3tt]

Love it

[@missflorencek8569]

What excellent and humane advice.

[@floraposteschild4184]

Quick! someone open a go fund me for her so we can buy her the world's smallest violin.

[@honeydate]

lol

[@foster9062]

🤣🤣🤣

[@renestar99]

Hihi that poor poor woman

[@jeanthree]

I have my own money women are stupid to rely on men

[@alexandercummins]

I get the sarcasm but if you think about it, the worlds smallest violin, would probably be very expensive! Which kind of defeats the point of buying it for this woman.

[@kathleenbialas4882]

Divorce. Move on, build a new life.

[@joannaradacina2585]

So very true

[@alisha2016_]

arnold oliver god bless you

[@lawsonbrinton682]

Hello

[@kfor47]

Husband murdered. Children who will never get to see their father again. Move on, build a new life.

[@fridachemutai5237]

i admit, I don't know money. 30million pounds or dollars is like 3billion here in my country she'd have lived veeery veeery comfortably

[@Elidandeb]

Tamaa iliua fisi....sasa hatawahi pata kitu na ako na madeni nkt.

[@natashacharles2520]

Same here!

[@raajmiid4576]

Heri moja shika kuliko kenda nenda rudi. Unapatiwa Kes4.2B na unaruka aje? She deserves the best that poverty has to offer

[@DIANAS5657]

If she had been this passionate on her OWN business for all these years.....She would have been wealthy in her own right🤔

[@khez_]

Facts

[@mahmudadeniyi9876]

she is nothing but Gold digger laibility woman

[@KM7661]

She's a greedy woman

[@welcome33333]

Yes, what did SHE actually create economically or for society ? entitlement culture ...

[@georgebanks7347]

That's RIGHT DON'T EVER GET TOO COMFORTABLE!!.

[@zephyrr914]

Poor children. They must be teens now and she’s still obsessed. She just wants to continue living the high life it seems.

[@ladymiau2128]

They took away HER money! Not his. The money belonged to her. Read about the scam her husband fell into.

[@claustrophobiabegins7075]

One of their daughters is an adult now. She mentions it as the cameras are about to enter the living room.

[@browndemonia3304]

Haahaa

[@slinkiegirl2001]

i can not blame her who wants to be stacking shelves at your local supermarket

[@hislord1]

@@ladymiau2128 What money? None of it belonged to her, mate.

[@msxmargo]

i don’t feel sorry for her- I feel sorry for the people who live in her old house she’s stalking

[@gfhg6682]

Absolutely

[@luvurstuffqueen3350]

Lol

[@kfor47]

I feel sorry for the children. Their father was murdered. Sure, some idiots (like Margo Schamel) will try to virtue signal and pretend they feel "sorry" for some random people who were "victims' of stalking. What stalking? People have the right to walk on public roads, drive on public roads, visit their old neighbours.

[@henrylivingstone2800]

@@kfor47 I don’t think the path she was on was a public road. Usually when you purchase a country estate you own the surrounding land and the pathways. Also it’s not “old neighbors”, they weren’t neighbors they just bought the house so she’s just dropping in on the landowner’s property just to voice her anger with her situation.

[@ritadaniels4179]

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[@aPawsitiveVibes]

She said 5 years is a long marriage?? And she deserves a half of everything he made?!?? And she didn't want the millions he offered her as a peace offering?!?! She just got played by herself!! 😂

[@kfor47]

Yes, five years is a long marriage. I know dozens of couples who have divorced within 1 - 2 of their wedding day. UK law (feel free to study it) offers women the right to claim compensation (read: money) from their husband when the marriage ends. This time, the husband died and was able to avoid having to pay his wife millions (the money settled by the court).

[@gardenroom65]

5 yrs is nothing!

[@dathula804]

That's true. 5 years is nothing! Some find marriage as as easier option of scamming someone else's hard-earned money.

[@cosmiccandy8704]

I don't believe she was shocked about the affairs - at this level, a lot of these women know and quietly accept that their husbands are banging and funding young playthings. As long as they get to keep the black card and the luxury lifestyle many of them honestly don't care.

[@deshonawilmore146]

cosmiccandy yeah until that money run out

[@Angle86]

Deshona Wilmore such vast amount.. it never runs out.. atleast not in their lifetime..

[@loveskinas3352]

Word!

[@hectorbelmonte2988]

IDK. We don't know them. Maybe she really was caught off guard.

[@amyjkr]

I don't believe that the husband was honest about his philandering. Everybody is bashing the woman, forgetting how cunning and deceptive a RICH man can be, and how skilled he can be at manipulating everybody.

[@karynmayo4964]

I bet she wishes she took the 30mill 😂😂 smh

[@Brenda-uw3jk]

She was dumb as hell for that!

[@someone3187]

Indeed. She should have shut her mouth and let him pay.

[@Indigo-lp5sl]

!!!!

[@SILVERCLOUD141]

Definitely 30 million you’re set for life

[@Indigo-lp5sl]

SILVERCLOUD141 To most of us, but to someone who experienced the kind of life she did I can understand why she wanted more

[@lilyhuber6114]

You are lucky to have a beautiful place to live. Out-there have million people get no where to go.

[@cynthiagarrett8484]

This lady has a dog running around and ask her guest to remove their shows. I would of never entered her home.

[@mellywell4465]

I agree and she also had her slides on smh.

[@cynthiagarrett8484]

@@mellywell4465 I meant to say shoes

[@vince7735]

Didn't the dog shit on the carpet?

[@kfor47]

We've got dogs running around the house. And yet, I always ask my guests to remove their shoes. It appears Cynthia has never experienced the lifestyle of wealthy people. "Shoes off" is the first rule when you enter any space with sensitive flooring (such as a private residence or a luxury yacht).

[@NamSoul]

Woman while you are in a mansion work hard to build your own foundation. If things go down this way you already have a way to pick up the pieces. Have a back up plan and invest! Carrying designer bags, clothes and driving luxury cars aint paying off.

[@sandraalvarez592]

I agree with you on that 100%, but sometimes the men don't give women money while in the marriage. They control the women by keeping them poor in the marriage. Yes they are driving nice cars or living in a nice house, but it's all in his name, so he has 100% of the control. If that was the case with her, then she should've gone to school and gotten her degree in something. If that wasn't the case and he was giving her money throughout the marriage, then she should've saved and invested. She's just has greedy as he was.

[@ratherbenapping10]

Sandy S then that is not a good man to marry

[@sandraalvarez592]

@@ratherbenapping10 Obviously that's not a good man, but do people show you their true colors in the beginning? Things change throughout the marriage and once you realize it, it's too late and they have control over you because you have kids. It's much harder when you have kids.

[@ekamanda84]

And you are absolutely right put bits away make your own investments...marriage shouldn't remove your responsibility to yourself and your independence as well as each other of course. It really sucks but a lesson to their daughters I hope. she will start over bless her but maybe in her own right? I'd stop chasing it, that man is broke!!

[@DaniHMcV]

I wonder if she ever thought that he couldn’t give her money or financial information because she and their children would be targeted? That doesn’t excuse his affairs but given the likelyhood that he was murdered, he probably was laundering money from the wrong people and to give some of that to her could have meant that his whole family would have been killed to either get it back or as revenge. He may have saved her life.

[@palimpsestransparent]

Very good point. She was simply blind, selfish and not too bright.

[@donnagreen4840]

Blinded by greed. If she had an ounce of common sense. She would realise he couldn't say were the money was coming from and the fact that he held a lot back from her probably saved her life too. But she hasn't got an ounce of sense.

[@vicheka06]

As I’m watching this, I’m having this thought. Because he knew he would be in big trouble one day, he left her so Her and the children could be safe.

[@erickong3965]

he was likely murdered too, which leads me to believe that he was indeed possibly protecting them. He even had a plan to divorce them and looked rather cautious at times as well

[@pia2021]

Great insight.

[@Simmoz]

What a waste of her life! It was his money, that he worked for. Just greed now!

[@middleagednmarvelous]

you know she worked also beimgother is a job around the clock.

[@Kimberly-yt6nn]

I would of taken the 30 million and ran with it. That's what greed gets you.

[@patiencembongwe8444]

Eventually ended up with nothing

[@noname89636]

In this day and age, I no longer feel sorry for women who willingly get into a relationship without a pot to piss in. They do not develop themselves, they have nothing going for themselves, and they completely depend on some rich guy to find their identity and self-worth. I do not feel sorry for this women because in this day and age (we are about to hit the 2020's), women should know better.

[@Amoroussparkle]

Again, thats a very narrow-minded point of view. You are not a gold digger or "have nothing going for you" if you agreed upon your roles in a relationship. Most mature people discuss kids and finances before entering a marriage and starting a family together - because in most families each part have a different role/responsibility. Being both parent and having a vivid career if not an option for all people. Which leaves: Who will be the breadwinner and who will look out for the kids. Many men still want/expect the woman to leave the workforce/education system, to stay home with the children for at least a few years. Which mankes it hard to come back. Many women also WANT to be a homekeeper by choice and a deal is struck within the relationship. When you make such a deal, its completely unreasonable to suddenly kick your spouse out, whether it's the man or the woman. That being said, you should protect yourself. Have him/her sign an agreement etc. on what your mutual agreement is. I feel like comments like yours are from people who are very young.

[@noname89636]

@@Amoroussparkle ....I'm not very young. It's one thing if the woman ALREADY had a career and THEN chose to stay home. It's another thing if she NEVER had shit to begin with and DIDN'T THINK before getting into the relationship about the long term repercussions. Also, I know too many women who still get a degree online, or relevant certificates, once the children reach pre-school age. She did not plan or think and that is what I am talking about.

[@noname89636]

@@Amoroussparkle .....Also, you stated,"Many women also WANT to be a homekeeper by choice and a deal is struck within the relationship. When you make such a deal, its completely unreasonable to suddenly kick your spouse out,".....You live in a fairy tale world if you think someone owes you something just because you are married to them or make a deal. Now I didn't say beat up someone, but no one is required to stay the same or remain in agreement because no such law says so. It may be unethical to change, but no man or woman is required to remain committed to someone. That is a Cinderella world that is NOT reality. Now again, I DID NOT say beat someone and abuse them, what I said was, no one is obligated to be with you or stay loyal to you (legally). The only legalities are to the children and alimony, plus any assets that are to be split. You are stupid if you go into a marriage thinking it's set for life.

[@DaniHMcV]

She supported him while he built up their fortune. Do you think that the way she tended in him hand and foot didn’t benefit him in some way? She made his life at home as easy as possible. He said it himself, she did everything he wanted. Plus, she bore him his children and raised them herself. For a wealthy family, this woman worked like a dog for her husband and their children. He couldn’t have had a family without a wife like her. Wives that stay at home are not “gold diggers”. They provide the things the other needs at home and with the family. They also forgo any outside career if their own to do this. If you had to have hired help to do all that a wife does for no pay, you’d be spending your arse off. If you can’t see the value a wife at home provides, you are very narrow-minded.

[@noname89636]

Sorry, but you don't get extra hand claps for that. My point is that never get comfortable in any type of relationship.

[@big_brayo]

So all the years during the marriage she never thought of working or investing anything in her name??

[@troytrey]

That’s one thing am definitely teaching my daughter plus make her own

[@smn5672]

@Silicone Julie you shouldnt have blind trust in any person. Its not just about trusting her spouse- its about having her own, for her own freedom and piece of mind for her daughters.

[@arabiantxn]

She was a free loader ! If she had worked hard in life and had a proper education and learned just half the things she was during her school years she wouldn't be having this issue. Yes it would have been hard but she would have been able to move along get a job and make better life for her kids and herself, The fact is she married for money made kids and got comfortable and lazy didn't want to work contribute in day to day daily of the family( husband and kids) she was content beeing a show model and her hubby replaced her with a new one. ( I'm not trying to marginalize what he did wrong but, she is not all without fault either) in a relationship you both are partners of in every aspect of life she just wanted to be part of spending looking pretty club)

[@ing9545]

Ryan Sikhira they were working hard together

[@verniejourney]

@@arabiantxn she made two children an was his wife...shhhhh

[@matyasfatrle934]

she hasn't worked a day in her life and expects 26mil

[@madreemee]

When your privaledged it's very hard to be just like most of us ...awwwwwwwwwwwww!

[@cherkruger1166]

To all women that marry a rich man, line your pockets and invest wisely, rather stash the cash than worry about designer clothing etc. and dont tell a soul.... while you're at it be sure to have your own career

[@Angle86]

Cher Kruger u think just like me😅..

[@MissAngie25]

A J an awful lot of men are intimidated by successful women. Finding one who isn’t is like finding a needle in a haystack.

[@charltonhex]

This is why less men are getting married . Wising up to your cunty ways! Time is running out for you lazy bunch of entitled people.The golden VG is losing its value.

[@MissAngie25]

john smith speak for yourself lol

[@dhanvisykes]

why not earn your own living instead of lining your pocket with someone elses money smh

[@elimontanez586]

What's wrong with the flat she lives in now , lol I found it quite nice

[@630AS]

She is probably comparing it to her old mansion.

[@tsoumpakoi7072]

She is 17 million in debt.

[@mrjaybee1234]

she owes 17m mate. that probably just a rented flat

[@jimsy5530]

Those basement flats in Holland Park are pretty big, but they get quite damp in Winter. Also, the bin storage for the entire house is usually opposite the living room window, so it feels less private than otherwise.

[@ritageraghty4404]

How do you get £17M debt? What was she spending on? As to flat she is living in, I see nothing wrong with it. Why want a mansion? A BIG house just for herself and that comes with HIGH MAINTENANCE.

[@colbyandbrennen3543]

But her dog with the cute little tongue poked out is actually so adorable

[@nyuni3322]

It's all about her and only her, and missing the "1 luxury car per day of the week" that she cannot live without.

[@paullyknowles]

She was offered 26 million, he gave her a life of unparalleled luxury while they were married. its hard to feel sorry for her really.

[@lollypopjo1]

Yet her current flat is still worth more than a few mill...brilliant

[@adanaladdin2807]

Billy Billy l

[@Minebilding]

Billy Billy so sad 😞 she has to live in a 2 million dollar flat

[@leonhenry4861]

Nah it's rented, or she has another sugar daddy paying for it, when your 17million in the red no bank will touch you

[@russiandrivers9986]

Hopefully an eviction notice is on the way. The lawyer should send her his invoice and she can work at McDonalds until she pays it off. I think that would suit her skill level.

[@Xighor]

Billy Billy Plus Gucci boxes and designer shopping bags Bankrupt my ass, if shes bankrupt im dead and I have been all my life.

[@Karasakina]

Wow he was trying to tell her you could here the stress in his voice and was trying to make sure his kids were taken care of... I'm sorry she was so bitter she couldn't see ... Wow

[@janettecoleman2357]

Feel sorry for the little dogs, no longer living in a large kennel.🐕

[@shellyrae9281]

Only ten minutes in and I'm leaving. I can't stand the whining.

[@huub1989]

5 minutes in I can’t take it any more!

[@Readyfreddy868]

Ditto!

[@kathymontgomery1445]

Shelly Rae or that goofy hairstyle....wings are so distracting, she’s boring enough.

[@shellyrae9281]

She probably spent more than I pay for utilities for that straggly mess!

[@skycloud4802]

For me after about 1:38 or so.

[@candykushhh]

I don’t even have $1. Girl bye 🙄😭😂✌🏻

[@cuauhtemocmorisco3493]

I have 2 cents and a nickel😭😭😭 were getting their😂😂😂

[@eege742]

Neither do I, for the same reason as her. And never mess with Russians unless you were sitting there when your husband signed.

[@mrRambleGamble]

11:42 "Worked equally as hard." Doing what?!

[@sweetstorm7652]

RambleTamble baking cupcakes

[@lauriecampbell9153]

Raising his kids she was busy raising his kid's!! She is entitled to half of what he made during the time she spent raising his kid's, do you think he'd be able to conduct buisness as he did if he was having to look after his kids full time??

[@iCuL8r-tz2uq]

Im guessing she never heard of... "TAKING THE MONEY AND RUN.?"

[@bttrade6286]

I don't know when this was filmed but his ex-hubby has since died and has been dead for 4 years now, impaled on railing spikes after falling off a 4th-story penthouse balcony. And she discovered her now late ex-hubby had ties with russian mafia and was very likely killed by the russian mafia and I dunno how much debt she is in now and she's still determined to find her late ex-hubby's hidden billions to get her 26 million pound settlement. Talk about perseverance. She should replace Theresa May in negotiating the Brexit deal with EU.

[@sourcheesepringles]

Or maybe they are pretending to be poor to avoid getting killed by the said mafia?

[@DaniHMcV]

She should have taken his £30 million deal but then again, that could have been Russian money and they’d all be dead now.

[@karstenlane6864]

It says he died at around 13 minutes into the video

[@AnneStenz]

BT Trade z

[@palimpsestransparent]

Did you watch the whole video? It talks sbout his death and the Russian mafia.

[@Weedybiscuit420]

These people are just greedy. Poor children.

[@dariadoo1]

Turning this into a job is not a job! 🙄

[@rmandel925]

She's a monster - her delusions of grandeur are off the scale

[@kfor47]

Raphael has delusions of grandeur. LOL This woman has committed no crime and yet you call her a monster? Her husband was a criminal (playing games with the Russian mafia, lying in court, hiding his assets) and yet you think he's the poor victim of monster? Raphael must be a 40-year old virgin who has had zero experience in relationships.

[@maureennjoroge6918]

This woman is super crazy, I've never seen such madness.

[@dianewomble527]

Ok. Completely irrational. Guy calls up and offers 25 M pounds, you have wiring instructions waiting on the table! Nonsense behavior.

[@kfor47]

Let me guess? You think the husband was MORE rational when he decided to engage in criminal activity with Russians? Diane, you're the one who is irrational.

[@JeffmChicago]

I'm liking the background music of Sting's 'Fragile'

[@charlottesmith7279]

This woman obviously didnt know how to "" cook stew""..

[@megawar6259]

Who is lending her so much money...

[@michramgoolam5829]

She could of made 30m for running some bath water and making him tea LOL

[@justinajones3000]

Mich, I know, not bad money for running bath water. What other babysitter makes $30 million?

[@mr555harv]

Extreme God Digger. Big Crocodile Tears

[@marmary5555]

Turn down the background music a notch. We can't hear the voice overs 😒

[@723-1A]

So she took out millions in loans and interests to sue her husband? Instead of just moving on and taking care of her children. Even in death, she still wants money.

[@maxwells2602]

She was completely unwilling to negotiate, it was her way or nothing. She was so use to telling her husband what to do, it couldn't be any other way. She expects what she demands and is extremely stubborn and can't see reason.

[@Dwightinho56]

All the clutter around her tells you every thing about her state of mind, but also what she actually comes from.

[@steved9244]

I love how they played the police on the violin 😂😂

[@ProductionJunction1]

They were a match made in heaven. Perfect for each other.

[@sandraalvarez592]

The money was lied and betrayed by her ex husband, but she was also as greedy as he was pursuing so much money after so many years and after his death. She should've taken the 30 million pounds when he offered it and moved on, but no, she wanted more. The man died and she showed no remorse either.

[@rebeccaard1]

He wasn’t offering it

[@rhubarb2301]

Ok, so running baths and making tea is the equivalent to making BILLIONS of pounds

[@halid36]

I know right and I bet she did not do that either she just told the maids to do it. Greed is not good.

[@patthonsirilim5739]

the guy was willing to offer her 30mil and multiple asset considering she have made him some tea back in the distant pass probably when she was a new wife i say that a more then a fair deal

[@guppy0112]

Like he doesn't know how to run a bath, or make a cup of tea, Lol! So he spent his whole life without tea or bathing, before this gold-digger turned up! Pleeeeaaase.....

[@mpazinambao2938]

I wasn't sure where this was going but I kept thinking at the beginning 'am I supposed to be feeling sorry for this lady?'

[@IK-te9rf]

Golddiggers asking for sympathy? HA! That acting could get you an Oscar, love!

[@tedcrilly46]

lol this barnacle turned down 30 million.

[@cryptogf]

she looks sunken in like a corpse bride

[@shootermcgavin4559]

Lol she had him killed

[@crownethorne]

BARNACLE!! 🤣😂

[@buckodonnghaile4309]

COMMENT OF THE YEAR!

[@talentscout7789]

Dude called her a barnacle hahahahaha

[@yougovirtualnow3439]

Never say no to 30mil

[@TonyMontana-sx6jv]

If someone phoned up and offered me £30 million I wouldn't loose the ability to speak.

[@alesiethedon]

This is very similar to what happened to me and my siblings. After my parents marriage ended after years of domestic violence and child abuse, my father decided to hide all of the assets that both him and my mum earned together over the years and because she wasn't on any of the titles and there was a conflict of interest between him and the judge, and my mum didn't have the money to fight her case, he got away with it and we ended up homeless for a few year. And now he's a multi millionaire the corruption runs deep in this country.

[@LaoZhang00]

She didnt work for any of the money

[@MPV919]

@@LaoZhang00so ignorant comment…I’m sure she do ,and even if she was a homemaker that’s a lot of work if you facture all the cooking washing ironing gardening cleaning chauffeur,make groceries etc etc …..even worse he left his own daughters on street homeless! Because of people like you I’m grateful to have laws

[@soysauce8114]

May I ask wich company does ur ex father work? Just asking

[@alesiethedon]

@@soysauce8114 im bit fearful to say. But he owned a property investment company in London and Lancashire

[@mrweed5300]

he offered her £25m and she still said no lol

[@bridgettleigh2912]

I actually sense that the battle for more $ may stem from anger, wanting him to pay for the hurt in her heart. Also carrying on a court battle can distract from facing grief.

[@dylanmorgan2752]

No she objectively sought out more and more money, because she wanted more money.

[@dylanmorgan2752]

Even after her divorced husband got publicly executed in a brutal fashion by the Russian mob, she still only concerned herself with gaining everything of his, even after he was dead clearly without a care in the world about how her children might’ve been feeling. Then she makes some crap up to use as a social crutch about how family courts don’t support women, when that’s literally what they were built for and what they’ve been doing for decades since divorce became popular, all because a judge couldn’t grant her assets that didn’t exist. Shes clearly completely delusional and I don’t see how anybody could make an emotional argument that this was to inflict pain on him, since he was already dead and in the worst way possible by being thrown off a building onto spiked railings by Eastern European hitmen. What sane or even very upset person would rightfully still continue to try and inflict pain on someone after that, I don’t care how many supermodels he fucked behind her back.

[@GA-ju7hf]

This is what happens when you become a consumption addict. Money kills your brain

[@GA-ju7hf]

LoriCiani love? All she talks of is owed money. This is a sad human being wallowing in self pity you're validating.

[@AxmanGamingHD]

Hold my beer - JEFF B3ZOS

[@ksd9889]

She should of took the 30mill now she had nothing but million in debt. She’s not campaigning for anyone but her self.

[@jimbeaux89]

True that

[@joannaradacina2585]

Time for a GoFundMe page, botox is wearing down......help

[@kylespringsrandomguy]

why does she feel entitled to half of 400 mil.... like did you make that money?

[@mllev.auxiliairesexuelle]

She supported him while he Was succesfull. 2 millions plus the divorce fées should bé enough. The law give her the right to live the same lifestyle she had when they were married.

[@kylespringsrandomguy]

@@mllev.auxiliairesexuelle Where does it state in human life that just because you lived a certain lifestyle at one point that you must keep living that lifestyle? Thats absurd thinking. Your husband died and lost his fortune, now you HAVE to keep up the millionaire lifestyle? Dont be deluded.

[@keenoled]

Why not, if she took care of his life and his home and their children and was supposed to be his partner, and then he betrayed her like that. And let's be real, what did HE do to make that money? No job is worth that kind of pay.

[@fredajordan5704]

Mille V. You are right, this is why I don`t udnerstand this issue here, her ex husband has to pay her a big amount of money if he wants to or not.

[@RussiaIsARiddle778]

Kyle Springs it’s the way the courts in the US divide marital assets. The spouse AND children are expected to keep the same standard of living.

[@nordette]

Lol 😂😂 what makes her think she's entitled to all that money? It's not like she even helped him scam it. She shoulda just taken the 30 and went about her business.

[@mgtowdream8972]

exact

[@dinopappous6639]

"Money can't buy me love"......

[@lialaliala2968]

Dino Pappous I totally agree with you but it’s good to have money😁

[@dinopappous6639]

@@lialaliala2968 It's better to have an Alfa Romeo Giulia Quadrifoglio !!!! FORZA ALFA BABY !!!!

[@gopalrajkumar7323]

I was educated in England where I obtained my first law degree (undergraduate). I moved to Australia where I earned a second and a third law degree (one at undergraduate level the other at post grad level). One thing I have learned about the Anglo Saxon British Westminster style of government is that especially in law and politics there is too much dependence on legal and political theories. The courts today have departed from the idea of justice and fairness. They are very dogmatic and class ridden to the extent that it is an unwritten code that those lawyers who come from 'red brick' universities regardless of how good they are have little pull in the courts (save for some exceptions). The system of justice is corrupted. (Moral turpitude). They dispense with justice instead of dispensing justice. Judges are political, sexist, racist and class bigots. But because they are the unelected arm of government they can get away with it all. I assisted an Asian tycoon whose wife "settled in the UK" then got a divorce there grabbing the bulk of his empire via a favourable court decision in London. At settlement I worked out a deal whereby the wife got a little more than she had bargained for. I selected the properties and business interests that were likely to subject the owner to hefty capital gains liabilities and others where the tax liability in terms of income tax would fall and let her have it. The woman's lawyers were a large multi discipline firm. I never thought that in their greed they would overlook such consequences of a large undeserving property grab. I also penned in an option whereby the client could buy back from the woman those properties and shares if she found it difficult on her at some time in the future. No sooner than the announcement was made the price of the shares in hais main earner fell by 62% in a week. She was also saddled with debt and calls on loans to the company as a result of being the largest shareholder and thereby its guarantor as well. She sold back 70% of what she had received in settlement for a song under the option my client took at settlement. She tried suing her lawyers in negligence but the responsible partner and associate had jumped ship and the firm threatened to counter sue her if she went ahead. This poor woman does not have a lawyer capable of enforcing a judgment and the courts fall shy of assisting. This is the legacy of Margaret Thatcher.

[@blackwidow4376]

Clearly the wife was too emotional to think clearly. When her husband called, she should have listened and let him finished. She should have accepted the offer and framed him in paying her up. That way she could have had the money and the evidence proving that he was keeping more money from her. With the legal fees and interest on loans she will end up with nothing.

[@Amoroussparkle]

But the money she would have taken would be illegal, and she would have accepted illegal money from then framed him and probably been seen as an accomplish. Then end up with her legal fees AND a prison sentence.

[@isaacjeffs5896]

@@Amoroussparkle Not really. It'd just be an out of court settlement, nothing illegal about that.

[@HarithZ99]

@@isaacjeffs5896 It's money he told the courts he DIDN'T have, he said he was broke. If he pulls up 30 million and gives it to her it would be illegal money unless he explains it which it's clear he couldn't.

[@talllala]

She should have taken the thirty million. The money is dirty money which she now knows, but she still insists she's entitled to it she doesn't care where it came from. She showed zero concern for his probable murder, even though at the end of the day he's the father of her children. Just all about the money.

[@othienoburton5432]

talllala well it’s dirty so it should be seizes

[@coldogno7]

mafia gangster would go after her and her family too,have u ever think about that?

[@surality]

Is it not a possibility that she had him killed, knowing that he had a life insurance policy 🤔

[@surality]

Good morning, afternoon and evening @Silicone Julie, well this lady will now have to hope her daughter's can find a rich man, to continue the lavish life style. 🤐

[@sheelahales4738]

@@othienoburton5432 Is been laundered, cleaned and now disappeared.

[@7555mac]

The husband with 43 millions or billions in money and assets he had enough money to pay off the judge and the whole system. She should have just ignored the phone call that he was cheating and use the next weeks to hire a detective to photograph him cheating, then freeze all the money and assets before filing for a divorce.

[@kerrya2128]

Control freak lady

[@kfor47]

@@kerrya2128 Wake up to the real world, kerry. Any woman who takes control of her own life and gathers evidence (to prove that her husband is cheating) is doing the smart thing. And yet you label them "control freaks"? Boy, you must have had serious issues in your childhood home. Abusive control freak father, emotionally distant mother, and some wonderfully old-fashioned (read: sexist, misogynist) grandparents.

[@thequestions9878]

"He always lived like he was under surveillance" while watching surveillance footage of his victim. Lol