I’m soft and the rest of my team at work is sharp. Sometimes I feel like such an idiot. I’m trying to be more balanced.
@kaisupreme23538 ай бұрын
Real! You'll get the hang of it!
@user-ri3oz1hi4k3 ай бұрын
Don’t feel like an idiot! If they wanna be sharp that’s their prerogative! Nothing wrong with being soft at all, people appreciate kind people these days. No need to change yourself unless you want to Queen 🫂
@dume42683 ай бұрын
Yeah I’m a young girl and I work with all older men I’m a warehouse I feel like I’m way too soft and get walked all over
@mikewrack32 ай бұрын
i feel the same way. luckily theres a good handful of us who are soft too 😅 but i still get jumpscared by the sharp people
@thehappyproject71174 ай бұрын
Crazy how balance gives off so much power and confidence. I see people like this and I’m drawn to them. I have a really bad nervous system from trauma so I’m trying to be more balanced
@chuuchuuutrain3 ай бұрын
on my way to becoming a nonchalant dreadhead 🙏
@ethangolightly252 ай бұрын
Oi oi oi!!!!
@ayyitscilla2 ай бұрын
@@ethangolightly25BAKA
@Defnotjivara2 ай бұрын
BAKAAAAAAAAAAAAA
@cameamanАй бұрын
😭
@No-sw5td3 ай бұрын
I act soft around anyone who I have a crush on and I used to beat myself up about it, like, “why can’t I sound more confident around him?” But I reflected on that and I decided that being soft is how I am when I feel excited and safe and happy and I should embrace that more :)
@babykrul2 ай бұрын
Yes you should!! Just be yourself and it will be celebrated by people who like you for you!! I’d only try to act balanced when I sense people will otherwise take advantage of me like with certain collegues
@LenaLaur3 ай бұрын
Girl, I hope you know how helpful you are to those who struggle to pick up on varieties of tone and on how tones can influence other people’s perception. Having them shown side by side makes it so much easier to catch the nuances. Thank you ❤
@Patience2dream3 ай бұрын
My students all tease me for being so soft, and the thing is yes I’m soft with them because once they graduate, the number of people who will show them softness will continue to dwindle as they grow older. I’m balanced with adults and soft with my friends, but if I’m upset I’m going to be sharp with anyone 😅
@user-bp3sn8iq1t3 ай бұрын
I wish people would be soft with everyone. It’s just nice to be nice. Of course that would work only if everyone was nice and not rude and entitled.
@sxnflowers8039Сағат бұрын
not everyone is naturally bubbly.
@froggedupp2 ай бұрын
I’m so glad your videos made it into my algorithm ❤️
@spiralsausage3 ай бұрын
I so need to study your channel, i struggle with being too soft and then I overcorrect myself and come off as rude
@smplmachines8 ай бұрын
Ariel. Would love to hear your perspective on Eastern and Western forms of indifference.
@rickn71738 ай бұрын
Nailed it🙏✅
@Shay.bae92Ай бұрын
Sis you’re going to get me ALL the way together. I’ve realized after several videos that I’m always sharp 😂😂
@beautifulrecovery23372 ай бұрын
I didn't expect to need hear youre good from a random nice lady on the internet. But it was extremely Soothing to me.
@je557773 ай бұрын
I love those little micro expression she does, she looks like a calm cat
@lilystarr2262 ай бұрын
This is so valuable!! Thank you!
@Sunshinesinging20233 ай бұрын
im always balanced, sometimes straight, and sometimes soft when i meet new people❤
@nickeyivy721Ай бұрын
❤❤ I love this content.
@zulli-bg4ht8 ай бұрын
Balanced is so soft for me
@maryastutzman56542 ай бұрын
This is so helpful
@lauraashes97523 ай бұрын
I have always struggled with tone. Thank you for examples
@kichiii_3 ай бұрын
Balance is the key to life
@KendrickLamarIsBetterThanDrake2 ай бұрын
Thank you, now i know how to be a nonchalant dreadhead.
@x3AnimeFanXD3 ай бұрын
I don't think I wanna change myself for others. I've tried doing it since childhood because I kept getting bullied way into college and stuff isn't changing 🤷
@AshleyMcFadden-y4n4 ай бұрын
Who, I feel like I can nail society with your perspective. Thank you for this view point!
@bridgiesue72 ай бұрын
All of your balanced things still seem really sharp to me. Like if someone said it to me that way I'd for sure think they were mad at me. Idk maybe I'm just too soft
@rageagainst_thePC3 ай бұрын
can we talk about how this woman absolutely EATS 😭
@giagia37333 ай бұрын
I love your channel so good❤❤❤❤
@laraclaa3 ай бұрын
She reminds me of rosa diaz from Brooklyn nine-nine for some reason
@cyraxthecyborg14403 ай бұрын
Incredible she finds the time to make these videos with her busy costume schedule
@Gtsg477 ай бұрын
You are so good
@aso_oreo3 ай бұрын
“i wanna work with the nonchalant dread head”
@limeylemonz3 ай бұрын
“no i wanna work with the nonchalant dread head !!!”
@MisaMisa-nq5fq3 ай бұрын
Thanks now I can be a nonchalant dreadhead🫶
@SplooTheAlien3 ай бұрын
Me realizing i’m way too soft with me approach when im trying to be relaxed 😭
@tanyamath87723 ай бұрын
Yeahhh I like being sharp 😂 idk im very kind and sweet and I’ve been told I’m the most thoughtful person someone has met 😅 I have a soft voice with a sharp attitude 😅
@Blueorchid1403 ай бұрын
I’m actually balanced? THANK GOD 😅
@EllieWillamsGirl2 ай бұрын
💀🙏im always sharp cuz social anxiety
@isiahadstrum85402 ай бұрын
I think I'm balanced but I know I'm sharp everytime 😅
@Laladreamgames2 ай бұрын
All the balanced ones remind me of Carmen sandiego (I’ve binged that show twice lmao) ik it’s a kid show but still
@beans222uwu3 ай бұрын
The 3 personalities my social anxiety is always tugging on all at once
@Luni-ew9qw3 ай бұрын
Same, exept that there is no balance. Im living in a constant state of extremes because im constantly under stress.
@gwenm24782 ай бұрын
i’m a nonchalant dreadhead
@supersarah56732 ай бұрын
Please tell me how I can be balanced. I would give anything to be balanced
@Souls-at-zer03 ай бұрын
I’m always sharp or soft 😭no inbetween
@myonee..7 ай бұрын
What thing is that we should do in this movie. Sharp thing or soft thing?
@bibinai8 ай бұрын
teach us more 😊
@opheliadays58032 ай бұрын
I just like you
@yeaitschar2 ай бұрын
am i the only one who thinks in sharp and balanced she kinda sounds like tori from cobra kai 😭 maybe im just a lil too obsessed
@z0mbifid_3 ай бұрын
Excuse me, ma’am ur bob is fye
@shelyven64557 ай бұрын
What’s ur accent? Sounds really cool
@BaianJadoa3 ай бұрын
Edna
@minecraftpig193Ай бұрын
She gives crazy woman vibes in all of them
@ameliabauman8833 ай бұрын
Anyone else think she kind of sounds like Tully from firefly lane?
@avagalebarrentine3 ай бұрын
Edna❤😂
@mimibunny1994Ай бұрын
Im sharp. If People dont like it then, well fu ig idk
@Teachmepleaseeee3 ай бұрын
Life hack to make it easier: get nonchalant dreads
@ceceliaaharmon2 ай бұрын
I don't like the term nonchalant tho like we need more excitedness and less nonchalantness these days
@meemzing3 ай бұрын
It requires a lot of practice to make "soft" look authentic - I would say the stereotypical, which is channel puppies or something relaxing! 😂
@ptmchildofgod83463 ай бұрын
God you funny
@-hesperidium-2 ай бұрын
The soft one feels so awkward (trying to act normal or cool ig) and sarcastic it gives off the wrong vibes
@vapidgasconade55052 ай бұрын
This isn't actual balance, it's tonal balance to those who are in the Americas, this type of tonal register is not balanced everywhere and you shouldn't feel bad or that you aren't good enough just because you don't sound like her.
@funkedupfrog3 ай бұрын
Or you guys could just not let someone that’s using their time to post KZbin shorts make you feel insecure about the way you’re perceived by others.
@NovaaTheGreat8 ай бұрын
Soft seems passive aggressive tbh
@fiftyfive2 ай бұрын
I’m sorry but I’d be scared of you even if you were soft - to me, you look intimidating
@zazu30063 ай бұрын
i don’t agree, ur balanced was sassy, where the balance at