To Anyone Feeling Like You’re NOT GOOD ENOUGH | Stop Limiting Beliefs + Overcome Perfectionism

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

Hey ya’ll! Click "like" if you needed this today. ★I am going to share ways that have truly helped me stop limiting beliefs, overcome perfectionism, stop procrastination and more habits. These things have helped build a flexible mindset. These have also helped me with my self care and growth journey. Thumbs up and subscribe please! TURN ON NOTIFICATIONS so you know when I upload 😘 ★Find all the items I mention in my Amazon Shop: amzn.to/2E8U0Pb​ ★My mentorship memberships is now live: drninaellishervey.com/membership

[@hollydavidson350]

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[@deshonebonyrowland-ward4552]

This video is so needed... With today's climate there isn't a black person alive who shouldn't be in therapy.. Just waking up and reading the news and watching people who look like us be murdered everyday... The trauma we see.. It's hard.. I myself am in marriage counseling... I have my own therapist.. And now I'm encouraging my son who is 22 to also go.. Therapy is a tool that is just as important as going to see your PCP... So needed...

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

Thanks for sharing! You are right!

[@Hope-eq9ut]

God really has perfect timing,I needed this .Thank you❤️

[@Rena-zv2ub]

God always knows the right time to give us a WORD,thank you for sharing,God bless you sister

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

So glad!

[@melaninqueenfit]

Yes he does!!

[@joycestyleofcooking]

Hello r sister-in- law from Chicago is here watching and listening. beautiful 😁👍👌🙏

[@melamoris6728]

You're on a two day streak with these videos cause I've needed them. God's timing really is perfect.

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

AYYYE! Thank you!

[@nancymoore342]

Amen

[@SimplyShev_hair]

Psalm 139: 14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. Thanks for the encouragement sis💕

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

Wow, thank you

[@shamar2482]

I had a VERY bad Day. Thank you for your words of wisdom. When I try my best it is not enough and I get really bothered to see that people who do the half of what I do get more rewarded than I do.

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

Yes, and thats a normal feeling. Your time is right now. Keep moving!

[@peachesroyale]

I don't feel up to par for MYSELF! Discipline and consistency is my DOWNFALL....I NEED to be better for me‼️

[@tmv1209]

Same here

[@07ikkin]

I struggle with social anxiety. I haven't had a friend in about 7 years because of it. I've tried volunteering, meetup.com. , therapy, reconnecting with old friends/acquaintances, church groups, nothing works. I'm glad I'll be off the next 2 months. Got a social anxiety workbook and self love workbook that I'll be working on. Can't continue living like this

[@lizziee6559]

I bottle so much up because I don’t have that person I can talk to about the lows and it hurts so bad. I needed this because I feel like I can breathe and let some of it out

[@ULuvJanae]

Sis, I needed this. I'm 24 and feel like I can't pick a career path, dating life nonexistent, comparing my journey to everyone else's etc Ugh...I needed this, thank you thank you thank you

[@Chocoldiva]

This video was a recommendation for me and I so needed to hear this. I just broke up with my boyfriend, I'm at a crossroad when it comes to my job, and school as well as taking care of my mother. Sometimes I feel so trapped and sometimes I wonder will I ever get married and have children. I'm 35 years old and I just feel like I'm a failure but this video is giving me hope.

[@summerwright9365]

You’re not a failure you’re amazing and the Lord has you a good man to marry one day! Your just so special and beautiful he wants to take his time and make sure you get exactly what he wants for you! I know I don’t know you but I just wanted you to know your best days aren’t here yet and your gonna have an amazing and beautiful life one day with kiddos and a good husband ❤

[@delibabydel]

I will be 35 on Wednesday and there are some much things I still haven't completed. I would like to complete me degree and start me own business, been putting it off due to finances and time but really need to have faith and start believing it would all work out in the ending.

[@nicolerichmond6046]

I am grateful for this video . I have a great successful career for the past 20 years and I am thankful ! However I secretly feel embarrassed ,about being over age of 40 , single , never married ,no kids and that Society labels me not good enough and sometimes I belief god has forgotten me. But I am grateful for words .

[@kimberlybowser7215]

I struggle every day with feeling like I'm stuck in a dead end job, pigeon holed in an industry I despise. I have a degree I'm not using. Have a boyfriend who I know isn't on my level at all...but feelings of inadequacy plague me constantly. I am diagnosed Bipolar Type II and medicated. But, haven't been able to attend therapy in several years.

[@yamiiloway187]

I'm on the same boat, I'm married and I just had a baby. But you know what God is good my fuse is on God that's my first step.

[@misspenn81]

you're voice calmed me down!!!!!

[@HiJade]

I have been struggling with suicidal thoughts. Life feels so overwhelming and I am tired. My best efforts still feel like it’s not good enough. I am praying for a breakthrough.

[@dawniedee1071]

Reach out to the therapy Dr Nina spoke about❤️ peace and love to u sis

[@senaietmesgun4404]

You’re always enough just by simply being here on this earth. I have to remind myself of this too sometimes. Please reach out to someone for help if your struggling. I don’t know you but I’ll be thinking and praying for you.

[@kristinthompson5025]

Praying for you, that your your breakthrough is coming. Believe that it has already started. Believe that the LORD can and HE will. Blessings my sister, miracles and blessings!!!

[@HiJade]

Thank you so much ladies for the your support and encouragement. God bless.

[@nikkimd78]

Healing, comfort and peace in the name of Jesus❤️

[@tabithathewholistic]

"Stop seeking validation from those who are invalid." What a WORD!!!!

[@noreehix5714]

I’m at the very beginning of my health journey and I’m always hard on myself because I’m nowhere near I want to be. This video is right on time.

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

Keep pushing sis!

[@jeanettedalton7391]

Thank you Dr. Nina, yes; I'm enough. I'm almost 59yrs old& I'm a lifelong student. I try to do positive activities daily for my mental well-being. The world is hard to maneuver, but I know that there is always someone/something worse off. You're very inspiring with no bullshit to muddy the waters. God's blessings always.🤓✌👍👏

[@IyaNla03]

This is why I love you, your channel, it promotes positivity. You are Women Empowerment that doesn't put anyone else down. Your whole message is how to help the "You". Helping Women focus on ourselves. Peace lays behind our eyes and not what is in front of them! Thank YOU! You are Bless because of the Good you are putting out in the world. I Love you Dr. Nina, Thank you for making your channel, always brings peace!

[@PrettyGirl-jd9jl]

I have everything and nothing at the sane time. I’m so sick of being alone. Every time I think Ive found someone they start to flake on me. I have no family where I live. I never see my friends. Mentally I have no one. I’m drained.

[@jlewis2787]

I’m going through a stage of fear of the unknown. I have been isolating myself in my bedroom, and that isn’t good. Thank you very much for this year.

[@brendajohnson1]

Beautiful, Beautiful, Dr. Nina... You are truly a blessing. I'm literally in tears, because I needed this, this morning. I was searching for dry brushing, and you came into the feed with this powerful, and inspiring talk. Everything you said, I've either already experienced, currently experiencing, and more. I'm currently a stage 4 lung (non smoker, or drinker) cancer patient, that has given so much to others, yet, during this time, the people that have stepped in, are not the ones that have benefitted from my help the most. I know I will survive this season of my life, because Jesus is the foundation of it, and I'm determined. But, those detours to always take care of, and be the answer for others, will be changing. I'll always be loving, caring, compassionate, and helpful, but on this journey, God is reminding me, and showing me, the sincerity of those around me, and I'm listening. Thank you, Dr. Nina, and God bless you 🙏🏽 💐 Oh, congratulations 🎊 on your engagement, and marriage... you deserve it! And, I will be looking into your mentorship program, I need people that will inspire, push me and encourage me🌹 💎

[@ggtights_com7661]

To all the BBBD bellas, please please please be gentle with yourselves. My mind needs hawk like supervision. The second I relax, negative thoughts spill in. So I’m just working on GENTLY redirecting my thoughts. I feel like a prisoner to the past (for now), feels like I’m chipping away at the wall with a little spoon. 🥄. I be like Kell, stop thinking about ish that happened yesterday. Stop punishing myself because people don’t like me. Like eckhart tolle said, just stop thinking, period 🤣 I’ll be checking out the Cerebral link for sure, can’t wait to get couseling . I’m 44. Bless 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Thank you for still helping us thru your wedding season 👰🏾‍♀️

[@roserosewood5478]

I always feel like me being Sullivan and practicing absences it's like a plag to others a try not to let people know what's going on with me. I'm working on me, and it's nothing wrong with that. There is nothing wrong with working on you and waiting on the right man that's designed for you.

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

Working on you is just fine!

[@nikkisouthernbelle8820]

I am definitely in a funk right now and this is totally my struggle.

[@ashleynicole2980]

Dr. Nina is definitely a woman I look up too because this is the place I have now arrived at in my life.

[@Asabawigmaker]

Thanks, I needed this plus i need new friends and workout buddies 😒

[@janemuchiri5946]

The video is so timely, 😍

[@timmismith988]

Videos like this makes me wish KZbin had a “Love “button! Right on time as usual

[@Kikkibaby]

I really needed this ❤️ Lately Ive been feeling down and under accomplished in life. Im also recovering from narcissistic abuse. I just wanna get back to the old me.

[@MzCrystal-7]

Same here with everything you said.

[@theobjectivist1771]

Yeah. I feel you

[@fdoctor79]

Feel your feelings and say "thank you". A whole word! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@spailpin710]

you have such an amazing energy and great advice! Following :)

[@s.crockett5457]

WHOAAAA...GOD IS SO GOOOOD, this is right on point and on time...I was JUST having the conversation about "comparing" our lives to others in certain areas and allowing/not allowing it to affect us or have any bearing on our lives. I l♥️ve you Dr. Nina and anyone who reads this, with the l♥️ve of Christ💫🙏🏽✝️

[@AiyanaT93]

I swear by therapy and I wish it was bragged about more. Thank you Dr Nina ❤️

[@Breakthrough9]

Dr. Nina, you give the best advice I've heard. I have ADHD but have never been diagnosed due to alcohol abuse and at this time I can't afford therapy but I am taking steps to better my life because no one knows me better than I know myself. I have limited my alcohol intake, started eating alot more healthier, in the gym more and using meditation as a tool to focus and get intune with my inner core. I'm determined to have a better life and listening to your videos also helps me. Thank you beautiful woman!🙏🏼❤💯

[@ThisThingIsThat]

God’s timing is ALWAYS PERFECT‼️‼️🙏🏾 I truly needed to hear this word‼️‼️ Thank you for all you do and continue to allow God to use you to blessed others‼️🌸🌺

[@Naomisheynell]

Something I go through daily is anxiety. And fighting thoughts in my head saying I’m crazy or Im a mess up, im worthless, feelings of my life is just not getting better etc…. And the reason I clicked on your video and am watching it today is because I’ve had enough of me feeling like this and I just want to know what I CAN do to actually make my life better

[@splifsis25]

I wish I had ur strength. I'm 38 and don't know who I am or what I want. All my life I've only taken care of everyone else's needs. Not so easy to change now.

[@theobjectivist1771]

Yes. Same boat here. Need to practice self care. People are selfish and never satisfied. They will take your soul if allowed. I’m slowly pulling away from toxic people

[@TruckinGal-by1so]

OMG I LOVED THIS! ❤❤❤❤ Thank you so much for this.

[@ms.holmes9368]

Right on time 🤎😌 Being a mother can catapult me into selfless mode all the time if I’m not aware! I’m learning to diminish negative talk and hyper self criticism. I’m enjoying allowing myself to choose not to care about things/people that are unhealthy to my mental, spiritual, emotional and physical well-being.Embracing this journey with love is fun, empowering and very rewarding! I deserve it 💙 I send love to each one of you and your self love path ☀️😎

[@indi1omccoln565]

Yea I don’t know anymore I’m over and tired of people looking down on my profession as an educator I’m over working well over daylight to still be seen as nothing I’ve been in a constant funk for 3 years now beating my head up against the walls trying to support me and my family with integrity in a world that’s falling into disrepair I’m tired of being rejected and seen as disposable I work hard!! And I just want to cry so bad but then what? For what? I don’t even know what to build on anymore without falling apart

[@babygirltdi]

First, thank you for addressing this topic because this I struggle with this daily. I feel like I will never be enough for my husband. I left him for four years because I felt we were a toxic couple. No physical abuse just mental, emotional, and verbal abuse. While apart I found me and lost 70lbs. I went to therapy and found me for once in my life. I lived life and lived for me! We recently got back together and thing's started off good. Now we are right back where we where we started! I gained all me weight back and the constant feeling of depression. It is not worth all of this!!!:

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

You got this! Listen to yourself and keep your faith.

[@marissabraithwaite6425]

The teacher sure will arrive when the student is ready. This past week left my esteem feeling so battered from constant critism from those around me. This was encouraging.

[@thekristaleffect]

I’m in a sad spot and found this. Thank you 🙂

[@breewright8702]

We need this message 🌹🌺🌸❤️

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

Happy it helps!

[@williamhumphrey7124]

You don't know how much I needed to hear this. Thank you!

[@sweetbaby00000000]

This is so on time. I really need this. God will give you what you need when you need it. 🙏🏽🙏🏽 You have no idea how you just blessed my soul. Thank you thank you thank you from the bottom of my heart. “Edith you are enough”

[@NYCCHOCOLATE7777]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽Sis l Feel The Same Way. We Will Get Through This

[@felynnsoleil]

"You are Enough" is one of the affirmations on my mirror! I love this video, it was much needed 💛💛💛

[@kalimorong]

Thank you for this I needed this

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

Happy you're here!

[@ceoofhoneyconjuredlash7326]

fear of being alone forever,keep meeting the wrong men an feeling like im not good enough to find true love just started my lash an bundles business an things are moving too slow with it trying to get out of being an( s.w ) that's why i started my business in the first place

[@Self-helper415]

Feel my feels yasss!! Stop looking for validation from invalid people... whoo that’s a word!!!

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

Amen!

[@offdutywithmo4132]

Definitely a word! Love it 🥰

[@nylorac1984]

Thank you for this message Dr. Nina. I am saying,"Yesss," waving my right hand high up in the air. So many gems here. What I needed today was, " Everybody ain't go like you!" Thanks again

[@yahushuaschosen4129]

I needed to hear this today. I am holding on to every word. I am a caregiver, 24/7, and have been for 21 years. Your words of encouragement and affirmation was the key ingredient I needed today for fulfillment. I receive strength and fulfillment from above, daily, all praises to the Most High Yah! I thank him for people like you especially on the days like this, when I need more confirmation. I have learned a lot from your channel, and am truly grateful that he has chosen you as a vessel for his glory and giving you the strength share, uplift and inspire others. Thank you for all you do! Peace, love, and continued prosperity to you and your soon to be husband, my beautiful melonated sista..... 🌹 CONGRATULATIONS on your engagement!!!🎉🎁

[@SonAng113]

Thank you for all the nuggets Sis, I so appreciate you. Everything you said I can definitely relate to. I am on a journey of rediscovering me. Getting loose from the shackles of people pleasing and self sabotaging. I absolutely love what you said about gratitude!! I have always been a grateful person, but today I do it more consistently and more intentionally, and yes I am learning to be kind and give myself grace. It is not always easy, but little by little I am taking steps to become my authentic me. ❤❤

[@angelross1562]

Watching 4 months later, and this is right on time 💕

[@JourneyWithAjah]

Whew it me. I never used to limit myself, I thought I was going to be the first Black (insert every goal here), and IDK when I started thinking I wasn't good enough, but I needed this video.

[@Giggles50]

Black people have accomplished a lot. I just learned about another hidden figure, a black woman at NASA who made 3D movies possible. Be proud. Set a goal and go for it. Even a small one and change. It will give you confidence.

[@amara_ranze]

Dr. Nina you are a God sent to me because this message is totally for me every single bit of words 💓🥰 i appreciate you and your aura 💓

[@Bambis.Gaming]

I’ve been struggling and for awhile now, I’ve just felt stuck, it’s been hard. I thank you for your video and words of wisdom, this was definitely needed. I truly thank you and appreciate that, even though you may not know us, you’re kind enough to tell us that we are enough. God bless you.

[@manders9323]

This video couldn't have popped up at a better time. Thank you for this. I'm also newly discovering God and Jesus Christ again. It was so nice to hear you say that you aren't religious but spiritual. I feel like that's me as well. And thank you for validating that for me. Keep doing what you do. Much love ❤

[@pennyhutchins9101]

I’m so grateful j found your videos many years ago your growth has shown me strength and grace thank you your are a bright light in my life😍❤️🙏

[@jamaciag09]

Intro still playing and I've already hit the like button AND thanking God because this is JUST what I need right now. Love you Dr. Nina. You're a gem❤

[@MzCrystal-7]

I always felt like I wasn't good enough everytime I entered a relationship. Also I feel like I'm a failure still finding myself being over 40 years old I'm very unhappy at times.

[@theobjectivist1771]

You are not alone. Praying for both of us

[@elaibesummers906]

I am at a phase in my life where I am just doing me and taking time to do what I want. I do not care now who says what about me, I am over it now at my age. People always have something to say and at times will only say negative things. I agree that sometimes we waste our energy on people who are not suppose to be in our life. I have been through a lot in my life. I stay positive every day where possible. Therapy does help.

[@antoinettecaston3148]

Thank you Dr. Nina for this out really showed me what I am doing to myself. I blame myself for my failed relationships, tried to please everyone and forgot about me. So you gave me another teaching to live by thanks and continued blessings

[@Dingutifunati]

Wow, thank you for the kind words. I have been struggling to commit to my writing. I keep thinking I am not good enough, and I shouldn't make an effort. So your video came just in time when I am pushing myself to get something done, and it has giving me something to push forward.

[@alanamcmillian5810]

I needed this! I've been struggling with school lately. I am majoring in Business Administration. I have gained weight back because of a situation that happened with my foot a year ago and it devastated me. Watching me gave me my motivation back.

[@BeautifulLivingHome]

This is a beautiful message with perfect timing🌺 Thank you🙏🏽💗

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

So glad!

[@lilmommamish1]

I REALLY NEEDED THIS‼️ Thank you so much Queen. Peace & Blessings🌹❤️🤗

[@francesharrigan1374]

Dr. Nina I have to put this video in my playlist and watch it every day! Thank you for sharing your heart and thoughts with us. 💕🙌🏽

[@luisabatine4018]

Thank you so much for doing this video- it really spoke to me. I know God used it to speak to me. I never comment on videos, but I just wanted encourage you that this message is so needed. Thank you for all your hard work, and congratulations on your engagement.

[@angiek.2198]

I really need this conversation thank you so much but keeping it real.

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

So happy it helps!

[@chemirem.3934]

Never stop the hustle. 🔥

[@abigailnorfield111]

thats right shine bright like a diamond...

[@monaedawson4523]

💜This message 😊warmed my soul. I've been subscribed for years now and have truly been inspired and informed by your journey. The advice was therapeutic in itself. I've applied so much of your content to my life. Thank you Queen 👑🙏

[@jacquelinebryson9820]

Thank you for this video I felt like we was at a table having a one on one girl talk. I feel much better now.

[@diedrerettig-hill2104]

Sista friend this is on point PERIOD..thanks for your MOTIVATION, your CONTENT, YOUR VIDEOS..SO, YASSSSS WE ON A JOURNEY OF BEING "SELF " FOR SELF 😘😘💕💕👌🏾👌🏾

[@BrownSugarNCurls]

Hey Dr. Nina! Coming through w/ 💎’s today! This is definitely needed! We love and appreciate you! ♥️

[@cammycamm76]

Very beneficial and you … you’ll be my online mentor and I’m hoping I can share my journey and elevate people

[@lazygirl8877]

She’s so inspiring 🥰

[@heatherroark8585]

I love you Nina! Your videos are amazing! ♥️♥️

[@leahjeffers2516]

So thankful for your channel. I needed to hear this today!

[@keesha1232]

Excellent information!😊❤️

[@allegraacuff9723]

Aman Dr. Nina.. thank you!

[@iamvictorious9940]

I so needed to hear this. I asked some complicated questions which resulted in a breakup. Thank you so much for this word!

[@Lrossqu2imani1]

Thank you❤

[@kianawalters5006]

issaaa worddd Dr.Ninaaa 👏👏👏👏🙏❤

[@angeldr1987]

Thanks for this I am encouraged. :)

[@franklynjames2408]

Reframe the regrets!!! YESSSS!!!

[@rachaelharper3778]

Greate video thank you so much!!🌟

[@paulac7281]

Thank you, thank you, thank you Dr. Nina! I really needed this video. Your words are so encouraging and enlightening. I am so thankful for your honesty and transparency. Peace and Blessings Sis and much continued success in ALL aspects of your life!

[@eboneeburgess7496]

Thank you so much for all that you do ❤️ God bless you I pray that he keeps covering you and using you. It takes courage to pour into people despite your own obstacles! You rock girl! 🤗

[@offdutywithmo4132]

Love the message in this video. You are so inspirational. I truly hope you understand how much of a positive impact you make, it’s so needed for us Sis. 💕

[@Loverly7922]

Thank You Soo much for this very much needed🙂

[@Explorista102]

I love you, Dr. Nina. You have been my go to for years. Thank you for all you do expecially the inspiration. As women, we need to stick together, through the good and the bad. Godspeed 🥰

[@ReRee7976]

Thank you

[@melindapear4798]

Hi Ms Nina thank you so much you really helped me out a lot.

[@seauxfetch]

Thank you Dr. Nina 💚💗

[@franklynjames2408]

You preachin in this right here!!! THANK YOU!!!!

[@MsMadnotMad]

I so needed to hear this

[@tamerunrob6510]

Thank you for this video . I shared this vide with my daughter and son. They need to hear this.🙏🏿💛