I'm Pregnant! Finding out, telling my husband, first trimester symptoms

[@HP-pl7gh]

I’m pregnant with #3 and man was the first trimester tough. My husband owns his own construction business so unfortunately he had to work 10-12 hour days mon-fri. I had a very humbling moment throwing up into the toilet with both kiddos (18 months + autistic 3 year old) jumping on my back. 😂 Whenever I would make them lunch, I would have to run to the bathroom to throw up at least once. I remember thinking there is absolutely no way I’m going to survive this, but here I am, at 14 weeks and I did it. 😌❤️Im still getting mild nausea in the evenings, and also during the day if I don’t eat enough but I’m past the hardest part. I can now just look forward to welcoming another little blessing into my family and I couldn’t be more thrilled! Congratulations to you and your family. Babies are a wonderful blessing. Praying that everything goes well in your pregnancy as well. ❤

[@growthwithgabby2223]

Love how you are modeling to your kids that it is important and okay to take care of yourself when you need it even when it may be frustrating others because they want you to be your self again. It’s so important for kids to see this self care and self love and I’m so inspired by how you say “Yes and I need to sit while doing it or lay down and accommodate for your needs. That’s such an important example. Go mama 🤩

[@jmobennett88]

Congratulations!! I felt DONE after 5. I'm currently 10 weeks pregnant with my 8th.

[@PinkCupecake]

I found you because of your miscarriage video.. I just had mine at 10 weeks, first pregnancy…Your videos give me soooo much hope for the future!! 🤞🏼🍀🍀🍀 ♥️ All the best from the netherlands to you and your beautiful family! ♥️

[@keaganschmidt]

I’m 18 weeks and have been listening to old seasons of your podcast as I go along so it was so funny to hear you’re now also pregnant again! Congrats ❤

[@alexdepriest6371]

This is my exact experience with my second pregnancy. Weeks 7-9 are brutal for your mental and physical health. Thank you for sharing.

[@gM3d09]

Congratulations!!! I totally understand how you feel. I hate when people ask how I’m doing because I feel bad telling them I’m miserable, but I can’t hide it. I’m almost 17 weeks and my symptoms have not gone away, but I can’t wait to meet this little girl 🥰

[@rachelthooft7817]

Week 17 is when my first trimester symptoms really started to subside. It could be anytime now for you!

[@Wsl8991]

I’m 11 weeks with my 3rd and totally relate to everything in this video. The first trimester is so hard and got worse for me with every pregnancy. Hoping to feel better soon. Thanks for sharing your journey!

[@elizabetho7654]

Studies show that parents of 4 and more kids are the happiest!! Congratulations!!

[@rebekahlcherry]

But those who can’t have that many are still very blessed ❤

[@elizabetho7654]

@@rebekahlcherry of course 😊 every child is an immense blessing from God.

[@rebekahlcherry]

@@elizabetho7654 🫶🫶😊😊

[@kat2878]

4 is a great number!!!!

[@courtneyo5140]

I have 4 and it could have been me speaking in your video about feeling different, possibly done. To the point that I would start crying after he was born because part of me knew I wouldn't have more. But! by the time he was 1, I felt such a peace and happiness about moving on to the next stage! And you're right, it's not because it feels harder, its just a weird peace and knowing that we are done!

[@taylor.m.24]

I’m so happy for you! I’m 16 weeks with my first and I’m listening back through your old podcasts right now 😊

[@livpaige]

Congrats!! I’m 11 weeks with my second and you and I have had such similar first trimesters. It’s so hard. Can’t wait to watch this new journey of yours 💕

[@machaelaailene]

I'm currently expecting baby #4 and this pregnancy I feel like has been harder than my others. Just like you said, I am super thankful to be pregnant and am enjoying every minute of it, but it doesn't change the fact that it's hard. The first trimester certainly kicked my butt....Congratulations on your little blessing on the way.

[@k2schill87]

Congrats Mama! 🎉 I have 3 boys and would love another eventually..but feel a little overwhelmed at the moment! Looking forward to hearing more about being pregnant with #4 while managing 3 littles at home and going from 3 to 4 once baby is here ❤

[@melb5665]

I’m not pregnant but really enjoyed listening to this Becca, I have 3 kids 8 and under and I won’t lie, this video has left me caught feeling somewhere between being “done” with babies and very broody 😆 I will say, I had an anterior placenta for the first time with my 3rd baby and my midwife (over here in the UK) basically told me to disregard that info when it comes to feeling kicks, and to always get checked if I worried the baby was having a particularly quiet day and not just chalk it up to my placenta being at the front. I found it to be helpful advice. I also noticed the kicks did actually feel different too, I felt a lot of knees and feet strongly down the sides of my belly and never in the middle! We were actually convinced for a while that she was breech due to this, but thankfully a scan showed that she wasn’t and I had the homebirth that I had longed for Anyway I wish you all the best and look forward to any future updates x

[@juliegernand5354]

I also had a similarly rough first trimester and this video is so helpful in making me feel not alone. Thank you, Becca, and congratulations! I'm pregnant with my third and due just before you!

[@brookejackson1920]

Congratulations! You described the symptoms so well. This was exactly what I experienced with all of my pregnancies too.

[@jazlynnesmith804]

I really appreciate you posting this video. You literally described my first trimester and I dont think I’m strong enough to have another baby. You give me hope. Also very holistic but took unisom in pregnancy (we call it something different in Australia) I don’t think I would of survived mentally without it. Congratulations 💗

[@jennyprd6288]

Congratulations!!! This is spectacular!! I hope you’re feeling fabulous !!!

[@Sarah-ky6jm]

Congratulations! I'm excited for another season of the podcast!

[@CarmenAlmeida90]

Congratulations! I hope you have a healthy happy baby. I have been watching your videos since before you got married and it's been really nice to watch your journey in life.

[@iheartmakeup23]

Congratulations! Looking forward to following along your journey. Thank you for your honesty about not feeling well. I am almost 20 weeks with my third. I was so sick until 13 wks with my first, 14 wks with my second, and 16 wks with my third. Always had afternoon/evening sickness. Terrible nausea and vomiting and it was so hard! I totally agree that it’s hard to see the end in sight when you feel so awful. Hope you begin to feel better soon!

[@jessfrost9257]

Matt’s reaction gets me every time 😂 Like Sir you’ve had 3 kids already you know how this works by now hahaha

[@candicetawa2238]

Love this! I’ve been watching you since before you had children and now that I’ve had my first one a few months ago, I enjoy your content even more now :)

[@meganrose22]

Congratulations momma! 🎉pregnant and 13 weeks currently with our 5th! Definitely a surprise this go around and your pregnancy experience is almost mine to a T. Plus severe food aversions. I’m finally having moments where I’m feeling like I can get over the hump soon. Looking forward to watching this journey for you. ❤

[@chloemichelle7335]

CONGRATS BECCA!!!! So happy for you!

[@caitlinandrew6946]

Soooo excited for your sweet family Becca!! I have two girls and was sooo sick with both of them too. It felt so isolating and depressing (despite being so thankful). Your videos helped me so much ❤

[@feminotlady7208]

Congrats!!! I’m listening to old episodes of the pod as I progress through my current pregnancy 😂 33 weeks here!

[@xroseimogen]

Amazing! Been watching since 2017 and it’s lovely to see your beautiful family growing again💖 congratulations

[@kaitcohen]

Thank you for sharing your journey with us :) my husband and I have struggled to get pregnant and are going through IVF. I’ll be so excited to reach this point of first trimester someday ❤

[@jchoco453]

Congratulations!!! Super exciting, you’re such a wonderful mother! Can’t wait to see content around baby #4! 😍❤️🫶🏼🎊🎉👏🏼

[@laurenkate7162]

I really appreciate you openly sharing how hard it’s been for you - it was the exact same for me with my son and whenever I told people that I hadn’t actually thrown up they got confused like I mustn’t be feeling that bad then! Like no I definitely was debilitated and felt like death 😅 Congratulations and I hope you’re feeling much better soon! ❤

[@nattyjo]

Congratulations! So happy for you! Love your channel!

[@danielleallred9625]

I had my first 4 pretty close together, so I was either pregnant or nursing for the first 6 1/2 years of my marriage. Then I took a 4 year break before the next baby. I needed it 😅

[@achavez7511]

Congratulations!!! Many blessings!!!! Thank you for all the great content!

[@kristenmicula9337]

First! 🎉Congratulations btw! So happy for you!

[@christaknell2580]

Ohhhh congratulations ❤ I am so happy for you all!! ❤️ 😊

[@allisonrodriguez1834]

You really sum up first trimester soooo well. It gives me ptsd lol

[@Shadeydey]

Congrats! 10 weeks 5 days here…. First trimester was so draining but it’s finally getting better.

[@laurahogg2954]

I just had a light bulb moment! When you said you didn’t do your morning routine! I was wondering why it was a mental challenge! Those weeks of 6 to 9 were truly mentally exhausting.

[@azlynnhill2417]

Congratulations! When I saw you post that on IG I was sooooo excited for you guys!!

[@melissanavarro9296]

Congratulations to you and your family! 🎉😊 I am currently 16 weeks pregnant with my 1st baby and I thought the first trimester symptoms were never going to go away. The morning sickness was horrible and I felt like I didn’t have any energy to do anything until my doctor recommend for me to try the unison and b6 to help with the nausea and it does help a lot. It was so hard but like many people say in the second trimester you start to feel more like yourself and I think I am finally feeling more like myself. Congrats again 😁

[@bipolarinsomniac]

Congratulations 🎉🎉 I am so glad I'm not the only one going through a rough 1st trimester. Only 8wks today with my 2nd but this is definitely the last baby. Pregnancy is so rough

[@lilin7767]

Congratulations!!! ❤

[@machaelaailene]

I can relate to this on so many levels. I feel like there is a lot of similarities in this season of life for me as well. Pregnancy is a beautiful journey to be on. And I absolutely love it! ....I have always felt the first movements by the end of the first trimester, but with these last two pregnancies, I've felt them by 8 and 9 weeks.

[@CrystalLisle]

SOOO happy for you guys!!🎉🎉🎉

[@maricris0603]

My 4th is now 2 years old. I felt the same as you did and still do. In my heart, I’m done. But I can’t say it out loud. Our bodies are tired. I would if I was 5 years younger and I as able to be home. I just turned 40 and I just want to focus on me for a minute. I feel you!

[@slyhead66]

the way you're so chill about having your fourth kid and im like not even sure if i can handle more than one 😂

[@lifeon77]

Congratulations! ☺️

[@zulaica1]

That’s great news, CONGRATS!!! 🎉 happy that you’re felling better and wishing you all the best throughout this pregnancy. Wanted to ask whether you could do a video on what supplements you’re taking during this pregnancy? Is it the same as the last supplement video? Thanks so much ❤

[@Thefunfamily_3582]

Congratulations!

[@annamariebrock9500]

Congratulations to you and your family.

[@ksmegs6786]

Congratulations!!!

[@daisysummersgill2944]

Totally relate to the debilitating nausea … this is how I use to describe it to people. Congratulations x

[@amandarockwell7559]

So Happy for you all !!!!

[@olgag5649]

Veins on the legs it’s a liver problem Milk thistle plant (dry seeds), ground on coffee grounder and eat with water It’s safe in pregnancy and help Also apple cider vinegar drinking with water and honey That’s what I did during pregnancy And also apple cider vinegar use for legs , with cotton rounds like a massage

[@miss.amy.q]

Oh my gosh, congratulations!! I was just watching your birth vlog of baby #3 yesterday.

[@mirandawhaley3822]

Currently pregnant with 5th baby (number #3 is my angel) I'm 9 weeks 4 days, slowly starting to feel normal. This baby was a big surprise and I can't tell FOR SURE I'm done!!! When you know you know!!😁😉 Best wishes to you and your sweet family!

[@Lgeezie1995]

I’m in my second trimester with twins and didn’t have 1 day of nausea for entire time - a complete anomaly for twins especially - just out of breath. So weird how people are so different

[@emmasexton4578]

I had severe nausea 24/7 with my two kids and it was BRUTAL so I totally get it! UNISOM and B6 saved my life! With both of them I could also only stomach refried beans and pizza 😂 I also did crave alcohol during my pregnancy with my son which was weird because I NEVER drank 😂 Congratulations on your new baby 😊

[@tiffanyd8171]

Congratulations❤❤ 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@Isa94able]

You described my nausea in pregnancy TO A TEE! Thank you for sharing, makes me feel less alone and that I can do it a second time 😅

[@jeannetteholohan5771]

Congratulations 🍼🎉

[@TaniaDTV]

Congratulations!!!!! I just had my first baby 11 days ago ❤

[@rachelkate1514]

I’m considering going for number 3 but I’m torn as I’m about to turn 42…all the unknowns…risks, costs, time management etc. Any advice would be so much appreciated!

[@lindaf3874]

Your video was so honest … it is do much appreciated

[@kat2878]

omg - congratulations!!!!!!

[@brittanylynnwest]

Matt’s reaction has me dying laughing 😂😂😂😂

[@TheFreshkid0]

Ahhh congratulations 🎉❤

[@hayleyneedham6095]

Yes! I knew it! Congratulations!

[@raylaklein4255]

Love your channel! Such good content ! I’ve had a very hard birth, and I’ve always wanted my kids close together, my son is turning two soon and I am so conflicted, what would you say made you feel totally ready, and excited?

[@Shogal3yon]

Im pregnant at 13 week too ❤❤ congratulations 🎉

[@erikagia]

Congrats!!🎉 👶🏼I have 3 girls and like you have said in other videos 3 kids keep you very busy and you have to be in a routine at all times or it’s chaos! That has set me back with having a 4th. So please share how going from 3-4 kids is for you! Also having 3 and pregnant! Looking forward to more videos! ❤

[@k2schill87]

I feel the exact same, I have 3 boys! Want a girl so bad but feel a little overwhelmed with 3 at the moment! I have heard so many people say that 3 to 4 is like nothing but I still feel uneasy about adding another to the mix right now lol

[@erikagia]

@@k2schill87 I have heard that too, even that 3-4 is almost easier. But I can’t for the life of me picture that! I feel very content with my girls and would almost be anxious if I was having a boy next. It’s more that I feel sad to say goodbye to the baby stage and feel like I have more of that type of mothering left in me. 😌😩 it’s so hard.

[@Romyshaww]

❤🙏🏻 thank you for this video!

[@shb8212]

We had our 3rd babies within a couple weeks of eachother and here we go again! Im 21 weeks though. My 1st will turn 4 two months before this 4th baby is due!

[@mori.kurogawa7936]

Almost 9 weeks here, woke up in the middle of the night to puke. Since week 6 it has been really bad and I've been taking Doxylamin the whole time (I NEED it for sleep, but with the hormones my sleep has gotten even worse). Stomach only accepts white bread, ripe cheese, tomatoes, cucumbers and ice tea - that's it. It hates my supplements. Been feeling a bit better for a few days and gotten excited to be a human again but noooo 😅 I've had the same experience, still, that adrenaline and distraction whilst travelling takes it away for that time. Congrats to you and a healthy baby 🍀

[@robyn3083]

Congratulations! People announcing 2024 pregnancies and here I am still pregnant since 2022 haha

[@LauraPaige]

ahhhhhhhhh congratulations!!!

[@kristinhaag842]

We need the NA beer recommendations!!

[@karem4804]

You need to try the hop teas! They have them at giant. My husband says it tastes like an IPA

[@sofialorena7704]

🎉🎉🎉Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉

[@jessisamazing100]

Can you go more into depth in regard to the lovenox injections? How did you do it with your 3rd pregnancy? Did they switch you over to Heparin at 36 weeks? Sorry for all the questions 😅 I have not been able to find a video on this. I have had 2 miscarriages and am pregnant currently and on lovenox injections. My obgyn says that he will recommend to induce me at 39 weeks and that my probabilities are much higher of having a c section due to the fact that there is a limited time frame that one is able to be off anticoagulants and the risk of a still birth. I know the overall goal is to have baby here, but I want to hear positive vaginal birth stories as well while on this blood thinner. He made it seem like it may not be a possibility for me.

[@TheTidyNest]

I am 8 weeks with our 7th baby. Absolutely everything goes out the window for the first trimester. 😅 All I can stomach is pizza rolls, toast and pretzels. My kids were wondering what was wrong with me because I bought them cereal 😂 and water tastes like soap! For some reason drinking it ice cold out of a metal cup makes it drinkable.

[@lenajazuk4231]

Congratulations!!! Is this the last one?

[@slsmith-xp2hq]

You said "join our crew" ... im like thats it! Thats your baby name for a boy!!!! Baby Krew ❤

[@amyann47]

How do you manage anxiety after having a miscarriage? I’m nervous to try again, even though I had 2 kids prior to my miscarriage.

[@rachelriviello3838]

Meat, cheese, and beer… That’s soooo great! 😂😂

[@msrobin2u2]

😍CONGRATULATIONS😍

[@rebeccabrose7875]

My mom craved a tomato beer everyday with me. She would get a nonalcoholic beer and pour tomato juice in it

[@sushi603]

How old are you.? I am 36 years old and i want a baby but still wondering if its too late now.? I already have two beautiful girls aged 8 and 10...

[@brittanyspence7650]

Are you taking beef liver this pregnancy? Congratulations 😊❤

[@lilycaboverde116]

I'm 8 weeks and I have the same story. Lol ovulation strip detected pregnancy at 3w5d. So to avoid finding gender - do you tell them not to test XX/XY chromosomes during NITP . I'm high risk and have to get it done in 2 weeks (along with 12 week NT scan)

[@gM3d09]

You can just tell them to not tell you the sex.

[@lilycaboverde116]

​@@gM3d09thank you for your amswer ❤. I'm a first time parents so I'm clueless

[@gabrielaramos3245]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@theelizabethan1]

Ladies who've not born children, nor ever experienced a pregnancy, will find your narrative here engrossing....it is so real.... Because a huge chunk of the female experience, and what is truly encompassed in the woman's childbearing process has been missed in their lives, your insights shared here will enable them to more fully understand and sympathize with their pregnant sisters. Thank You for your honest monologue. And Thank You for surrendering to the unique female role and creation journey of bringing to the planet your new little humans.

[@Makeupyourworld629]

Actually Elizabeth I'm not having any children and am still plenty a woman

[@alibhg3063]

I'm not missing anything Lol. Who are you to speak of other women who aren't pregnant? That women who aren't pregnant don't sympathize with other pregnant women? Odd.

[@TheChocolatelegZ]

Ahhh I hope it a boy 🎉🎉

[@dorado99]

Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@freyachandra1869]

Congratulations!!!!

[@guesswho2042]

Congratulations 🎉