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[@brucebaker111]

On the serious side, I’m one of those parents with an estranged child, and during this holiday season, it is so hard. I’ve been praying daily for many years, but I admit I’m losing hope of an door opening in this situation. Your words today come as a lifeline. You reminded me that there are people on the periphery of my life I can reach out to, people I could create a tighter bond with. It gives me a sense of something to do, a way forward, instead of retreating into the loneliness I often feel. Thank you for the encouragement. I really needed to hear this today. Doors can open up, usually when we least expect them to. God is good, always good!

[@BecomeNew]

You are so welcome Bruce - don't give us - God hears your prayers Bucky

[@paulkick7870]

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[@brucebaker111]

Thanks, John, for a great laugh this morning. I saw this online. Welcome to the annual family feast, where optimal personality compatibility ensures everyone survives the turkey coma. Each family member will be seated scientifically to minimize debates (looking at you, Uncle Bob) and maximize gravy-sharing efficiency. The code includes critical guidelines: one plate of food at a time (leave enough dressing for Aunt Carol!), a whipped cream limit of one dollop per pie slice (you’re not building a snowbank), and no political discussions until at least the second serving of mashed potatoes. Signing this code is mandatory, with penalties including dish duty or explaining the Wi-Fi password to Grandpa. Family harmony is just one signed pledge away!

[@BecomeNew]

Thanks Bruce for sharing - you painted quite a family feast!! Oh Boy!!! 🫣 Bucky

[@jmjj8437]

Oh my goodness! I didn’t know how extremely Blessed I have been during my 82+ years! from childhood with relatives a mutual agreement was that we alternated the Thanksgiving and the Christmas date for each side of the family. I only remember good times. Then when I was to Chicago to school, I remember the times I was to Albin & Florence’s home (when I couldn’t get home to KS). I was so welcomed to Fran & Dell’s home, sisters of Florence. Never did I get any sense of serious disagreement. Rick & Dale. The sons of Albin & Florence and their families. Plus another sister of Florence and their family! I was welcomed to the long table that spread into 2 rooms! I remember appreciation expressed in many ways, laughter, stories, all good stuff with the delicious food! These times were between 1960 & 1964! I seriously don’t think John remembers me, but I remember the young boy sitting on a chair quietly observing what was going on with adults. Only good memories. Tell John I still appreciate him and his family as they all welcomed me during that time and since.

[@BecomeNew]

Such a beautiful and heartfelt recollection - thank you for sharing with the Become New Community. You have indeed blessed John Thank you Bucky

[@paulkick7870]

"God, help my mouth not say stupid things."

[@BecomeNew]

PAUL, you (and with God's help) Got this!!! Have a blessed day Bucky

[@ewencameron4269]

I blew it yesterday when I was given a task at the end of a long day to admit an old man to a nursing home and instead of just accepting it I blew up for a minute. The task giver was just a messenger and the task was wholly appropriate. I felt bad about it all night. I did the task and funnily enough as I spoke to the old man at the nursing home I said you're a very content old man whats your secret? He said "I know Jesus" True story

[@BecomeNew]

Beautiful story - thank you for sharing your heart with us Bucky

[@kellypatton1261]

Once again John put me in my place. Thank you and love you all. God is so good!!!!!

[@BecomeNew]

Kelly we are so grateful you are with us - thank you so much for listening Bucky

[@vinoo1946]

Hi John,.... Very thoughtful and heartwarming exposition of the deeper meaning of these scriptures...You make it so easy to understand the hidden gems that are these verses.... With sincere regards,..Arnold. (UK)...

[@BecomeNew]

Thank you for sharing we are glad you enjoyed it - we appreciate your thoughts Blessings Bucky

[@traceyyeo5647]

Thank you for a lovely measage today. I pray God turns my heart back to my ex husband to make it easier for my sons tonhave a relationship with me and please help me not tonsay anything horrible or cutting

[@karinknutson8447]

Laughed out loud on seating chart!!!!

[@BecomeNew]

Karin - can you imagine 🫣? Have a blessed day Bucky

[@terriwerning3477]

Always practical ways we can use in our lives right now! Thank you, John!

[@BecomeNew]

You are very welcome - we are glad you are with us Blessings Bucky

[@chillycheeks5318]

Just love ya Dr Ortberg! Just love ya. Love from across the pond, complete with American accent! ❤

[@BecomeNew]

We so appreciate you being with us from across the pond and sharing your day with us Bucky

[@elaineh1041]

good morning ☀️ “God bless them, God change me.” My constant to keep my mouth 🤐. oooh, Fritos~love the BBQ kind 🥰🙏🏻💕🍃

[@BecomeNew]

So good - you have very good tastes!! Thanks for sharing Bucky

[@elaineh1041]

ha ha ha!😂

[@johnmcmannus]

Excellent and Helpful! Thank you.

[@BecomeNew]

Glad it was helpful John - thank you for sharing your morning with us Bucky

[@lvshope]

Prayers for family relationships. May I do my part.

[@BecomeNew]

Amen!! Thank you for sharing Have a Blessed Day Bucky

[@windy633]

I'm prayerfully considering what you shared as I have pulled back from people pleasing in recent years. It has seemed to me that the Holy Spirit is encouraging me to trust HE is at work and I need to let go & put my trust in HIM. Thank you for sharing this - in Christ we trust 🙏 His blood and resurrection has won our victory!!!

[@BecomeNew]

I'm so glad you watch along with us. Yes, follow that encouragement of God's Spirit, to let go and place your trust in him! - Brad

[@tracykamemoto4602]

Great message!! ❤🙏

[@BecomeNew]

Thank you Tracy - we appreciate you sharing your day with us Bucky

[@mistysmith2378]

I haven't spoken to my father since February 2018. Its part of a pattern that has existed since I was in my twenties. I disappoint him, he cuts me off. Now I'm 58. Previously, I was always the one who reached out, this time, I couldn't do it anymore. I vacillate between feeling as though I should contact him and not wanting to go through the same thing again. My father is 83 now, and we're running out of time.

[@BecomeNew]

Misty - it is never too late - may God be with you to give you courage and to guard your heart - he is with you!!. Be Strong and Courageous Joshua 1:6 Bucky

[@revannekh]

You honor God, Misty, with your effort to connect with your dad, even if he does not respond

[@daniellemeadows8291]

❤

[@BecomeNew]

Good Morning Danielle - may you have a blessed day! Thank you for faithfully sharing a part of your day with us 😉 Bucky

[@terriwerning3477]

Always practical ways we can use in our lives right now! Thank you, John!