becoming 20 years old.

[@KaiNotebook]

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[@KeoTsang]

As an Asian I can confirm that I need to write a page-long report before I am allowed to dine out

[@IsHeLickuid]

Keo!!!!!! 🥲

[@xylolife7613]

I saw the fork microphone and assumed you would be here somewhere

[@nameera8636]

THE MIC ON THE FORK HJSJSJSJSJSJS 💀💀💀

[@merakii4130]

keo tsang

[@surprisemanganyi9297]

i have been looking or this comment

[@stanbtsormarryjaywhypee472]

Sneaky sushii....huehuehue

[@theweirdgrove]

@Helloissocool123why does it matter they copied or not its just a damn fork holding a mic 💀

[@emilijadikinaite4386]

Kai owning a property is too much of a responsibility and honestly why make a goal that's no realistic. I just turned 21 and since 19 years old I did a few things. 1. I fell in love and going on to a 2 year anniversary this sunday. 2. Traveled in my country but to other countries (London and Copenhagen) with friends but also by myself to nice in France. 3. Got my license and a car and finally 4. Finished uni. Your only turning 20 its not the end all of sorting your life out. I always have 1 main goal that's actually achievable so I can feel good about my progress through life. Keep going Kai xD

[@melanienev]

I turned 20 two weeks ago and i still feel like i'm 17....i still don't see myself as an independent adult, but i can say that i kinda feel more comfortable knowing other people are having the same struggle as me :] and we're all going to get better. I wish you all the best outcomes!!

[@RizerLegend]

Bro I turned 26 and I still feel like i'm 17.

[@Vibricks]

i turned 20 in june and feel the same way, i wanna mature and be more independent but it's so hard, idk where to start and i hate it.

[@breadjinnie8347]

Hey Kai, I'm turning 20 next month and i also agree with you as i believe at this very moment i don't know if i'm adult or a teenager. I feel mature yet reckless thoughts still roam around my head but thanks for sharing your thoughts about this topic with us. It is really lovely to see a fellow 20 years old shares the same thoughts. I wish you all the best for your upcoming endeavour.

[@adr3anna]

I turned 20 a couple months ago. I think it makes the most sense if we call ourselves “young adults”. We can’t even legally drink yet in the U.S.

[@anonloki3]

I'm 22 but I remember still feeling like a teen at 20 but that's ok because you were a literally teen just a year ago or in your case a few days ago so take things day by day honestly we don't really become true adults until we become like 24/25 and even then we sometimes struggle just enjoy it

[@inyourdreams7754]

I had the same feeling the moment I turned 20. As I grow older peer pressure starts to build up as well. But then I realized every person has their different timeline. I shouldnt focus on theirs, rather I should focus on my own. Life is a journey brother, and people have their own “world quests” or “chapters”. Where you are right now or whatever you have achieved, be proud of it because there is more coming.

[@ArmyflameGenz]

I hope your 20s be nice and peaceful and I hope you feel at ease Congratulations turning 20 I hope you have fun enjoy life

[@ilohoa]

I will be 20 this year too and I resonate with a lot of things you said in the video! So good luck to us I guess

[@eggytoasty_]

Awesome video! Thanks, Kai, 4 your opinions and thoughts on "feeling to be in their 20s". Take your time; I'm also gonna be there soon, and sometimes I feel like; Time has passed super quickly. - I try to be understanding 4 myself. Even going through some things in life, I still want to enjoy myself as much as possible. You can do this, Kai!

[@aikalu]

Hi, Kai! I would say I can definitely relate to what you're saying. I'm also turning 20 this month, the thing is I have already separated from my family since I went to college in a different city to take a pre-med course, but prior to that I have also started taking care of my things all by myself since I came from a fil-chi family and my parents are very strict when it comes to being disciplined on knowing how to handle things your own. I would say, it's really quite overwhelming but you'll definitely get used to it. Learning to do things on your own would make you accountable for all of your decisions, but just keep in mind the phrase "matuto kang magtimbang"/"learn how to weigh", well i think it's a good phrase to keep when making decisions, esp when trying to figure out what's better in some situations. Well, given your situation now, I would say you're ready to conquer what's coming for the real 'adulting' life. Supporting you from a far! You can do this. lotsa love!

[@eggytoasty_]

About weight, everyone is different. Generally, taking care of your mental and physical health is good. And doing things in balance. I practically don't have a diet, nor do I work out much. I try to eat at least 5 meals a day (I also count my snacking as part of the meals). Sleep, and check the flow of your emotions when it is a time of the month or just feeling like: nah. If you feel like meditation works for you, yoga, and so on: try them out. If you watch videos, please focus on something other than kcals (not the healthiest mindset). I would rather keep it simple, do my own research, and take the key points from others (if I listen to podcasts or watch videos), to help me learn something.

[@deeptojit_c4561]

Hi Kai. I'm also turning 20 this year and live in an Indian household with my family. I'm also an introvert and am going to start university next month. I feel an odd comfort in knowing we are of the same age. Anyways, I love your calm and aesthetic videos and wish you good luck for your 20s.

[@SOWNDS1052]

congrats seth happy 20 !!!

[@sugu.]

turning 20 isn’t too bad. Yeah you’re an adult now, you’ll have to be much more independent, but it’s nothing to crazy. well, depends on the person ! I’m 24yrs old and I’m still trying to be independent, i still live with my parents but i do things on my own at home. I hope next year I’ll be able to grow better as a person and live alone. the world moves fast but never ever rush yourself to settle down like most people do, it’s okay to take your time! / until you are ready

[@randomdude1011]

I can really relate to this video since I had a very similar realization the moment I hit 20 last year. Certain goals I am making progress towards while other goals not so much but that's life I guess. One thing I can help with is trying to put on mass. I've been going to the gym for a few months now and learning quite a bit when it comes to developing your physique and stuff like that. The advice that I have is to try to eat calorically dense foods like peanut butter for example. However, just don't go overkill with it and try to get enough protein so that the mass you do gain isn't just pure fat. I recommend trying to find your daily maintenance caloric intake(there's plenty of tools online for it), and then just eat at a slight surplus of that.

[@its_ya_c]

I also moved back to the Philippines and living independently and I gotta say living alone is hard!!! one thing I wish I had did when prior to moving back was doing the little things to build my confidence in being independent. Its no rush suddenly becoming "full independent" especially since ur still young!! No shame in still needing your parents sometimes

[@KaiNotebook]

IT'S NOT MY BIRTHDAY BTW

[@abbssaa]

HAHAA love how everyone is telling you that

[@availablity3173]

Congrats Nice earrings

[@arkaprava2561]

I feel you, we are same , 20 , can't believe I'm so old .

[@yellowceiling]

omfg I feel this so hard…I’m also turning twenty by the end of this year and holy heck it’s terrifying. I’m gonna be going to a doctor’s appointment at uni (which is across the country from my hometown) BY MYSELF and I feel like a lost chick 😅 I’m also a chronic procrastinator and trying to build up a channel…which obviously requires consistency, so I look forward to hearing if you make any revelations about time management as a student/content creator (or if you have any tips now I would love to know your thoughts!) so many things to juggle smh. also, happy very early birthday lol 🥳

[@abbssaa]

You're the kind of person i really want to be friends with. I love what you do, (im also turning twenty this yearrrr), keep it up! Much love from Argentina!

[@jaymigue4726]

Heya, as a 22 year old i think the best advice I can give you is to NOT PRESSURE YOURSELF, that be with anything in life, this is when you REALLY start to develop yourself so your independence part was really good. Stuff like work, school and relationships are going to be very impactful and its where you really need to pay attention and like I say to my friends (we are not at the age to keep wasting time), have fun, enjoy life but really keep in mind what are your goals,. im on my 2nd year of computer science and I just now know what direction I want to go. So just be patient and enjoy but keep your eyes opened

[@whatsup2595]

i hope your 20th goes smooth and happy

[@sukh____]

जन्मदिन की शुभकामनाएँ 🎂

[@bushilao]

Happy Birthday in Advance, Happy Belated Birthday & Happy Birthday 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@trxlly]

Happy 20!

[@PokhrajRoy.]

I really want to see a replay/rewind video a year later. I’m sure you will succeed in your endeavours 👏🏽

[@thawzinminwhotalks]

Happy birthday Bro.🥰

[@yasmijn2.0]

Happy early/late birthday, Seth!!!

[@qu4tre_]

Hmm about the diet, probably try changing for food higher in proteins, and doing slow and constant exercices to build muscles (i guess you're already doing it) I'm also learning korean btw good luck (i mean if you're planning on learning it????)

[@junekafaltiya4514]

I turned 17 this year but already at grade 12th and preparing for med school entrance exam which will be held at the end of the year, I belong to a small town with not so amazing clg or uni, if put it correctly I am preparing to get into country's one of the most prestigious med university, if I get a sit in this uni I will directly become an miltry doctor and also the fees is low, (as i dont belong to a rich family who can afford the fee of a private med school it's like a necessity to me) so i am working hard to get the med school that is out of my town or state, but as someone who belongs to a Asian household I can relate with you even if I get to go in a uni my parents will be handling all the financial and living aids, and being in touch with the family is so important in culture, I dont know what it's like to be 20, but the feeling of being responsible for yourself is very well under stable good luck! Hope things turn out well for you

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Being Gen Z is fun (atleast in principle) but the worst thing is how we’re expected to earn a living from childhood. What would be feasible in our 30s is now expected of in our 20s.

[@kalebrosetaylor]

Rules for being an adult from the perspective of an American 28 year old: 1. You define what adulthood looks like for yourself. 2. Go at your own pace. Do NOT compare yourself to other adults. 3. Move out of your parents house ONLY when it is a fiscally responsible decision. DO NOT RUSH OUT OF THAT HOUSE WHEN INFLATION IS ONLY GETTING WORSE. Make sure you can 100% afford everything on your own. That means you do not depend on the income of a significant other, because relationships can end. 4. Take your education seriously while you’re still young. You’re not going to want to live the way you live at 20 at 28, trust me I would know. 5. Mentally prepare yourselves. It’s not easy at all, but it doesn’t mean that you can’t do it. There are a lot of things mentally that comfort you about being young and having time that you simply won’t have as a fully independent adult. Even grocery shopping for the first time without my mom felt weird but I learned that that is normal and okay, and whatever mental changes or challenges you’re going to face are also normal and okay. You may need some help in adjusting to the totally new life, but once adjusted, you’ll feel normal again just in a more prepared way. 6. Take your time with your goals, but don’t procrastinate. Time goes fast and you do NOT want to try to work full time and be a student full time, and be a home maker full time, and maybe even a parent full time all at once. Things have to happen gradually to make sense. 7. Start budgeting NOW. Start saving your money aggressively if you can. 8. Just because you’re getting older doesn’t mean that you can’t have fun. Still take time to prioritize your mental and emotional health, and remember that your happiness is the most important thing. Also remember that just because you’re getting older doesn’t mean that you can’t still be you, and enjoy the things you’ve always enjoyed. 9. Always have a plan, and always have a backup plan. 10. Always remember you should feel like you have control in your life. If your bills/debt/job are eating your soul, that something needs to be reevaluated and that’s totally normal and okay. Adulthood is not linear and sometimes we go in bad directions but you can always come back from it. Everyone, you’re going to be okay💜

[@popcornxo]

Happy Birthday btw 🤞🎂🎉

[@KaiNotebook]

thank you! although it's not my birthday 😅

[@popcornxo]

@@KaiNotebook in advance then 🥲

[@PokhrajRoy.]

I did my first solo trip at 19 and I can’t recommend it enough.

[@larissah003]

love the microphone on the fork. turning 20 this year too, and feel like crying every time thinking about that day 💔

[@atrigueros2450]

Imagine🤧....but congrats wish you luck🎉🎉

[@Zakariyae_ourraoui2004]

Happy birthday

[@KaiNotebook]

thanks! it's not my birthday today tho... hehe

[@kiesolo6872]

Spoon collab at last 🔥🔥🔥

[@josephamuthanamalajenishad3560]

Wah 😭you have grown fast 😍well I hope u enjoy ur current adult life 😍

[@yangjaerich234]

I'm turning 21 this July 8 and I'm still processing everything since time flies too fast

[@fatmaismail6120]

Wow I turned 20 on july 7

[@mlktstudy]

Thanks for the mic 🎙️ idea 🙂

[@Jiminsboost]

It’s the fork for me that got me interested new subscriber

[@asawer6540]

هاي السنة راح يصير عمري 20 و راح ادخل الكلية و شعور غريب 😂 و اتمنى اضافة ترجمة ❤

[@kaspor_vanova]

Hi guys though i m not turning 20 but yah i m going to be 17 this month and i don't know it's only me who just think so much in small matters .....i am not a kind of person who takes decision very clear i m so confused in life about my ambition i just don't understand what's the purpose of my life .

[@qu4tre_]

I think it's best to not think too much about it and just do as you've always done, taking things slowly and changing things you wanna or gotta change one at a time! That's at least how I'm seeing things when i'll turn twenty next year yea... It's giving me anxiety just thinking about it lol

[@rentvph]

Wow Im glad you are young become succesfull ♥️

[@starcreator499]

Mee too mate

[@milad_gholipour]

im turning 20 this year too. just a bit scary to be an adult especially when you feel like "im not ready for this" :)

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Milestones don’t matter because there’s a crisis for every age that’ll keep you occupied. Although, you seem sorted so you’ll weather every storm relatively unscathed. I wish you a great 20th Year!

[@sia2997]

You're cool man ✨️✌🏻

[@xerxesYt123]

Im above 20 but still in college 🙃🙃. Parents pressuring me to earn money, other peers graduated, other peers having sidelines... eughhh. I just wanna be thanos snapped right now lol

[@reaspace]

REALLLL coz as sm1 entering as a freshman this sem, i’m moving out on my own space that’s nearer to my uni and like i wanna live and provide for myself independently but at the same time i really can’t since i’m not financially stable yet and the asian culture, specifically the filo culture, where u are taught to be family-oriented 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

[@5fbycdgfdr]

I will 18 on 12th July

[@fannerbuoy3688]

Hey Kai, if you want to gain weight, drinking mass gainer shakes might help! It's pretty much just liquid calories, I've personally been drinking it and it does seem to help. I personally use Serious Mass, but you can probably find other brands out there and as long as you do it consistently and don't cut on what you're eating you should see gains. If you don't like drinking, you can also add it into recipes btw

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Kai, I’m not doubting your ability to get property. You’ll do it eventually.

[@Lukas-xh2li]

Good one, thank you! Which software do you use for video editing please?

[@maycanro156]

I just turned 20 this month

[@PokhrajRoy.]

10:21 You love making videos and we love watching them. Also, you’re kind of cool ❤

[@gopikaaaaaa]

Don't get old!!!!!

[@PokhrajRoy.]

1:58 Or as Nicki Minaj put it: “I’M A HUMAN BEEEEEEING!”

[@kaths_rockxbye5601]

Im gonna be 20 this October. and due to the virvs I feel 18. The fact that my age will start with a 2 is wild

[@ArmyflameGenz]

I'll be 20 next year I'm so scared and nervous 😓 the Pressure of becoming a actual youngster adult is scary to me I wonder what's gotta happen the future is Scaring me halfway to death

[@yamsang0__0]

I just turned 20 too man. Feels weird.

[@abbssaa]

Ahhh a friend's birthday is todayyyy, he's turning twenty!

[@diannepavila3416]

Dude this is only the second video ever I have watched of yours and i already wish we were best friends. 🤣

[@harsh-tt7er]

Tomorrow is my birthday and I'm turning 20 😨 scary

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Omg you’re a crochet Boi? Omg that’s cute. (This applies to everyone across the spectrum)

[@ramirojimenez7384]

nevertheless happy birthday

[@marigoldxoxo]

I'm also turning 20 this year and honestly it's kinda scary 🙂🐻🪵🍳

[@kingramonkd6689]

Im also turning 20

[@corvusway]

WELCOME BACK MR. FORK and welcome to the channel mr. crochet hook lmao

[@PokhrajRoy.]

1:02 It sounds like a Quinceañera but for older teens.

[@tonystarkmowa]

I turned 21 this week! But still I'm like a 15 years kid no change in my life and grades.. I'm feeling like stuck

[@lamnguyen765]

20 is gud time

[@imyourstaa04]

Turned 19 2weeks ago and I'm already stressing over my twenties

[@jonzferraren4297]

I feel you but... when you are in my age which is early 30's you will realize that 10 years backwards I'm still young and many things in this world still I don't know, stop putting pressure on yourself just finish study first and everything will fall into place trust Me😂!

[@Yes-No-Mabye]

The cough during the start is the most random thing 😭

[@maulanayusuf5730]

you 20 and making this KZbin and I'm also 20 instead I'm being an office boy, idk why but I feel you bruh

[@tae_kook0504]

I turned 20 on 2023 18 April 😁😁

[@rsq1597]

One year left until I turn 20 😢 what im worried about is not finding a job after uni🙃

[@pavelkupka7324]

Download a calorie tracker and track your calories. About 200 calorie surplus is fine to gain weight.

[@kriseu9579]

same same same same

[@sudeshna000]

fork is back again 😂❤️

[@Zoo9]

Bruhh this year 🎉 Metoo turning. Twenty 😂

[@AhrasRS]

🎉

[@Nischal_Shrestha002]

I thought you were already 23-24. Damn you're quite young

[@intheeyesofrevin]

I'm months older than you??? I just turned 20 last February.

[@yuuuuuuuuukkkoooo]

Everything will be fine, Kai. Move at your own pace and enjoy ur life. We luv u (⁠つ⁠≧⁠▽⁠≦⁠)⁠つ

[@someone.9905]

About gaining weight, invest money in GYM more than food, you need to work out hardly not to eat. Even if you eat alot all you would have is fat not muscales.

[@met_chii]

bros aunties are for sure gonna go bully Kai as he is becoming 20 and still no girlfriend yet

[@jjjayyu3440]

you cant say stuff like that bro, especially since no girl would fuck you even with a 50ft pole on their hands

[@theforeverdark962]

Are you telling me that we are the same age and I thought that I wanted to be like you when I grow up??? Bro💀😭

[@AnaainJanjua]

Why the heck I am getting notification after 2 days ??? Ahhhhhhh

[@oli-iq1yx]

HUHHHH IM A 17 Y/O SAGITTARIUS I THOUGHT HE WAS LIKE 22 ALREADY damn i feel old and unsuccessful lol

[@popcornxo]

I'm 20 nd still figuring out how to earn

[@NoorNoor-ks5dg]

I am turning 30 in August .... 😂😂😂😂 haven't achieved anything in my life except government job 😢

[@xjomasuxph369]

July 21 is your birthday right?

[@KaiNotebook]

nah ;) it's gonna remain a secret

[@xjomasuxph369]

@@KaiNotebook Hahhha of course you would say that Hahahaha jk 🥰😘

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Haha not me in my later 20s relating to the Asian experience. Disappointment but also great food.