Becoming an Empowered Orchestrator (Projector)

[@astroenergetichealing1820]

Caroline, this is a wonderful video for Projectors!! I took a lot from this, so grateful!!💖

[@CarolineSouthwellDotCom]

I'm so glad! Thanks for saying so 🙂

[@aspieboy74]

I'm a 4/1 spleenic projector. I recently discovered HD and it all makes sense now. What I need to do is start using strategies in daily life. My path is that of an empathic emotional healer(shadow work) / guide for the new world that's coming Yesterday, I started using these techniques and almost immediately a person came to me and I felt a terrible emotional pain they were struggling with. I just asked some open questions in an noon probing way, and they opened up emotionally, releasing their pain and we shared some tears. I helped them express the emotions they were repressing. It was beautiful. I felt my power and self confidence flowing easily. I watched the person visibly change and watch the weight of their problems leave them. So empowering. For projectors, this knowledge of one's processes and purpose, especially the permission/ invitation thing. My whole life I've always felt the need for permission. I also always accepted invitations, even ones that I didn't want just because I needed any recognition. I was a dancing monkey and wasting my energies trying to fit in by forcing myself on others and being desperate for attention. The energy/ activity levels make sense. I haven't had much trouble there, because I am fine being considered "lazy" and am good about taking care of myself that way. Thank you for your videos, I appreciate you. I also really appreciate your invitation to share. Love and light but didn't understand that that's why I was stuck. Now I know, I can work on strategies for getting invitations and also decline invitations

[@CarolineSouthwellDotCom]

Lovely, Vox. I'm so glad this gave you some things to play with and practise.

[@Eden_barry1616]

& Before I forget, THANK YOU for speaking on this extensively. Thank you, thank you.

[@nkiruogene]

Beautiful, beautiful! I missed it on Friday. Am glad it was recorded. Thank you, Karen Curry Parker, for this platform. Caroline, beautiful, thank you.

[@CarolineSouthwellDotCom]

You're so welcome Gloria!

[@SherriSimpson]

Pressing problem? Moving my way through the world financially and creating my own version of financial freedom.

[@astrizia]

Thank you so, so much! This was really empowering!

[@blackboxgoddess8747]

Thank You for helping me with my Son and his struggle with building long lasting friendships.

[@CarolineSouthwellDotCom]

You're welcome Black Box Goddess! If you haven't seen it yet, I did another show here on Karen's channel about making friends as a Projector/Orchestrator which will layer nicely on top of what I shared here.

[@annetteyoutube742]

3/5 Splenic Projector. --> I only learned about HD seven days ago, and five days ago I learned about GK. Since then, I've watched at least 50 videos, and I've learned so much.

[@SoulanaaBeautyy]

Hi! What’s GK?

[@LilithLi13]

One thing I always feel is a bit under expressed for projectors in the whole question of what do you do while you’re waiting for the invitation… Tuning into whether we’re on the right track with relationships, work, self-promotion, etc. is this: I see a deep parallel for projectors with the teachings of the Law of Attraction, particularly as expressed by Abraham - Hicks. One of the things I heard Abraham say awhile ago that really stuck with me is that you can’t get there, that pinnacle/dream goal/pleasure point, from Here, if this is a cranky/burned out/bitter/frustrated place. But what you can do is take one baby step at a time into a *better feeling* place. So IMO, this is what we do while we’re “waiting“-we are actually focusing on our own pleasure, fulfillment, creativity. Embodying what it means to be Present in the moment, grateful for All that Is. I’m looking forward to exploring your EFT method further to see whether I can give myself a good boost on this journey. Cheers, thanks again for all the wonderful work and guidance, Caroline! 🌟🙏🏼💖🙏🏼🌟 Renge’

[@CarolineSouthwellDotCom]

Hi, Renge'! As I think you've already seen there are a bunch more resources, especially for Projectors, over on my Channel. I think it's in my Projector Beginner Course that I talk more about what we can do "while we wait". And there are a growing number of videos on tapping and deconditioning over there as well. Look forward to seeing you other there! I 100% agree with this aspect that, really is the centre point of Abraham's teachings: we have to focus on feeling better. It's so important that I did a video on this regarding the process of manifestation just a week or two ago. If you haven't seen it I recommend you watch it! xxx

[@ShakeMyWay]

Great vid. I guess I just get stuck with visibility. Blog? KZbin? Facebook? Book? etc. I mean, are we ALL supposed to be creating our "brand" and our channel? If I don't, no one will find me, and FYI, I am awesome. ;) LOL!

[@CarolineSouthwellDotCom]

Hello! Realised I haven't been over here on this video in months but recognise your username. Good question. I'm not sure I've answered this in a video on my channel so I'll add it to the list and you'll find it sometime in the coming months over there.

[@agiszabo5556]

Thanks Caroline, this was incredible. It all really landed. I’ve been following and studying Human Design for a year now but this was so good to refresh what I already know and was so inspiring to listen to! So many gems ❤

[@CarolineSouthwellDotCom]

Agnes, fabulous! Glad to hear it :) There's a lot more HD content over on my KZbin Channel if you find that the way I teach really lands for you. Otherwise, happy applying/playing!

[@justsoph7899]

This was great Caroline. Loved the slides. So informative. Thank you 💛

[@CarolineSouthwellDotCom]

You're so welcome! BTW, if you're looking for additional resources for Projectors there is more on my YT Channel.

[@SherriSimpson]

2/4 Splenic Projector. In freezing cold Saskatoon, Saskatchewan Canada.

[@Eden_barry1616]

I only wish she wud have spoke more on mental projectors. I have no other areas defined other that my top two triangles. I have been my “not self” for months. Learning all I can. Being isolated does not help. (Not Covid, just moved back home to small town) struggling w addiction and life in general/ being my truest balanced self. Prayers 🙏

[@CarolineSouthwellDotCom]

Kayla, I have a video over on my Channel specifically about Mental Projectors. Clicking on my username will take you over there and then you can use the search function to look for that videos or scroll through the videos tab.

[@BeeKaye]

Brilliant! Thank you 💕

[@uzmaasayed9086]

6/2 Ego Projector....I am following HD since 5 years on and off... Right now struggling to start a coaching business

[@CarolineSouthwellDotCom]

The more you actively, deeply follow your Human Design and deliberately decondition the easier it gets to know what are the right things to start, when to start them and how to do them.

[@clientfunnels326]

Thank you - that was brilliant x

[@CarolineSouthwellDotCom]

Welcome!

[@BrianSullivanopus125]

Projector, Splenic Authority, from Brisbane- a few years . .and I wouldn't have clue of my life purpose

[@sam30317]

1/3 profile living in Atlanta. Im a mental projector and have been learning HD for 1 month. I am struggling with understanding and recognizing my wants and needs in life, such a seemingly simple task. To write it down in a list has been a little stressful Add: accepting deconditioned thoughts ans beliefs. Ive accepted more positive conditions yet, im in a fighting battle of letting go negative conditions because its what im used to.

[@CarolineSouthwellDotCom]

Hi sam30317, that sounds tough. It's a bit of a sharp wake up call in the early days of learning about our design ESPECIALLY as a Mental Projector when you have So Much Openness! Please know it's very common for anyone with a lot of openness (white) in their chart to struggle to recognise their own needs and wants. I recommend you learn as much as you can (at a pace that feels fun/empowering) about your design. There are a heap of videos on my KZbin Channel about Projectors and deconditioning. There's also a brand new video (as of today) specifically for Mental Projectors about how to make clear and powerful decisions (and therefore know what you want!). If you like the way I teach then you'll find the link to my KZbin Channel in the description of this video. See you over there!

[@sam30317]

@@CarolineSouthwellDotCom Thanks sooo much 😁😁😁

[@basmabwzr]

Prioritize Play !! I like

[@CarolineSouthwellDotCom]

Awesome!

[@ruudjw]

amazing video, only downside for me.... I have no clue what I love to do. I have zero self worth, I don't trust myself at all in anything. I am a 1/4 projector solar plexus & heart/ego defined (37-40).

[@Cuteanimals-up6pj]

I’ve successfully lived out my design but only a couple of times in the past few months so had to get a part time job to support myself for now until I get a better handle on this :/

[@CarolineSouthwellDotCom]

It's certainly a process! And it is important to support yourself in whatever way you're able as you make this transition toward becoming more and more your authentic self as a Projector. So great work doing that. Remember to be gentle, it's a process and it takes time.

[@Helen-ey7wj]

Splenic projector new to human design

[@RebelDarling]

Amazing!! Two thoughts after watching 1. HUGE REFRAME: Waiting for the invitation= "I'm over here doing something cool. You need to come and get me if you want me because I'm busy being awesome!" Love it!!! Maybe I'll go further and say waiting = attraction. Thank you, Caroline! That leads me to... 2. Question... I was a professional actor for many years and struggled with burnout. I found screenwriting and directing and I've found so much passion in it... plus, its way more aligned with my design as a 5/1 projector. I've been learning screenwriting for the past 2 years! I feel called to share on social media but I'm not sure what that looks like... any tips on going about how to make yourself seen when you still feel like you're learning/ haven't mastered your craft yet? Any guidance is much appreciated

[@CarolineSouthwellDotCom]

Hi Rebel Darling :) Glad you loved the reframe. It feels so different to this passive idea of waiting, hey? Regarding your question (which begs for its whole own video!) in short: Share what you DO know (you probably know more than you realise Ms 1st Line Profile :P) and make sure you don't try to share stuff you realise you DON'T yet know (so you stay in integrity). And as you keep learning you'll be able to keep sharing more and more!

[@RebelDarling]

@@CarolineSouthwellDotCom thank you! Yes my 1 line always wants to know more more more before being seen! Oy. Looking forward to a video on this one day ;) love your content , thank you again for your guidance!

[@CarolineSouthwellDotCom]

@@RebelDarling I finally recorded a short video on this today that might give you some confidence if you're still finding this tricky. Check out the YT shorts section of my Channel and you'll find it over there! Mwah!

[@kimberlyryan8618]

Im a g center projector 3/6 right angle cross of the vessel of love. I search every where to understand what "g" means in the term g center. I ask many people but never get an answer.

[@jonmcmahon90292]

thank you

[@deborahwiener5636]

How about projector executive functioning?

[@CarolineSouthwellDotCom]

Deborah, can you say more on this? I feel like there are a few ways I can take your question and to answer it I'd need to know what you meant by this. Can you clarify what you mean by "executive functioning"? Functioning as a high-level executive professionally or do you mean wanting to gain more mental skills to function better in the world?

[@SherriSimpson]

Been at this about 4 years.

[@CarolineSouthwellDotCom]

See my other comment on deconditioning! As I said in an Instagram post the other day: "The tool that helped me LIVE my design was not Human Design!" (That is, I needed to use other tools to help me get to where I am today).

[@kayesa44]

Emo 5/1 ,late 2019,steady income

[@tiggerscrunchies]

How to become a more empowered projector: 1) follow your inner authority.... me a 5/1 mental projector with no inner authority... ummm... now what 🤣

[@CarolineSouthwellDotCom]

Tiggerscrunchies: 1. Follow your Strategy. 2. Follow your Inner Authority. And yes, Mental Projectors do have an Inner Authority (despite what some charts might say!), everyone does. I recommend checking out videos that talk specifically about the decision-making process of a Mental Projector. I can't share a link here but do some Googling. And a very good rule of thumb with HD: If something feels unhelpful or disempowering the way you've heard or read it find a different teacher who explains the same part of your chart in a different way. Enjoy the journey home, Wise One.

[@tiggerscrunchies]

@@CarolineSouthwellDotCom Thank you, there is a lot to learn and being new to HD less than 6 mths, the more I read the more confusing it becomes. I have a defined ajna & throat, everything and everyone I have found or spoken to (so far) says I have no inner authority and am here to be an outer authority, they have related it to being similar to a reflector which confuses me further. I will keep digging, thank you for your response 🙏🏻

[@CarolineSouthwellDotCom]

@@tiggerscrunchies your comment inspired me to do a brand new video on your Inner Authority as a so-called Mental Projector. We all need simple and empowering information about how we're designed to make decisions as this is a critical skill in life. It is no different for you, even though your configuration is rare. I can't paste the link directly here because it's Karen's YT Channel (bless her for sharing my work with you) but if you pop over to my Channel you'll see the new video there. x