BEEN HARASSED IN MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT | Solo female van life

[@marytremblay5002]

Time to move out of the area. Consider contacting the local police.

[@JimmieHamilton-x5k]

Why should she move?Call the police and let them move him or her or it.

[@katydidnt3906]

Unless sleeping in a vehicle is illegal in that jurisdiction.

[@herb-n-buckethomestead5874]

Need to call the cops. Let them know you're being threatened. They'll do a drive-by and maybe check the guy out. Get out of Dodge scary !!!!!

[@IzzyOnTheMove]

Yeah, I would have taken down the license plate. You gotta teach them a lesson or they will do it again. Back in April, a band of 7-8 teenagers where screaming at elderly people on the sidewalk on Denman Street. I called the cops and Vancouver Police were on the scene in 2 minutes chrono.

[@bevtrue6937]

Yes, but he has blocked her in so she couldn't get out, she said. I hate when people are jerks.

[@ShinyNickelBlades]

I had a creep in a white pickup truck acting similar to me out in the backcountry. Scariest night of my life. But in general, I agree with what you said about the city vs the backcountry. Animals don't scare me, people do.

[@trustinJesus_only-_]

I'm afraid of nothing but God but people are definitely crazy now a days!

[@lyndathomson2586]

You kinda know that animals do what animals do but crazy humans do it to make them feel empowered. So sad there are people like that. Glad you’re okay

[@LL-wu8zt]

You did the right thing. Better to be safe than sorry. That person was being a jerk.

[@tyson1fan487]

Get a dash cam and a back camera that records behind you! This way you have something. License plate and the vehicle and maybe what they look like.

[@BlessedThistle-iw3fy]

Yes, this is smart.

[@HollyofSooth]

Excellent idea!

[@k8k9vanlifeplus]

Great idea but not cheap

[@dawnlapka3782]

The truth of things nowadays is a single woman living anywhere isn't really "safe." Apartments, houses, RV's or Vanlife, tenting in quiet places or even living off-grid: even institutions of "safety," if you're a single female, there is bound to be someone who only wants to harass, frighten, or hurt you. You absolutely did the right thing, Emmie. Don't let assholes get you down.

[@tiffanylubeck3505]

Yeah even assaults at parks and gyms are getting bad, you're not really safe anywhere.

[@mauricepowers3804]

Women have Never been safe, look at history!!!!!!!

[@darlaseidel7767]

I did watch this when it came out, but I wanted to say I love your channel! And I'm happy you could drive away from that situation. Stay safe ❤

[@terrynewell8968]

I had a similar issue years ago. A guy followed me all around town, and I didn't want him to see where I lived. So I pulled into the local cops garage. While They talked to him, I went home!

[@margueritemitchell1829]

❤

[@stanbyme7874]

Momma was a cop. She taught me to always go to Police Station. Don’t need to go in. Just park. Once it was really bad so I went to the back doors where cruisers pull in & layed (laid🤔) on horn. Cops got him! He had rap sheet for rapes, assaults. I was 17 & looked like Pam Anderson. I’m so happy to be old, gray & invisible now. Anyhoo, always feel safer in back country. Far away from males (I know there’s awesome ones, too!) Stay safe! I have a feeling if an attacker came your way & had a bagel kitty would give you up in a heartbeat ❤

[@TCat13]

But I hope you keep in mind that "older" people can be targeted, too. Stay safe! 💜🙏😊

[@jessiehead6525]

Nah, Kelly would never give up Emily….Kelly would use those claws to rip that bagel right out of the bad guy’s hands, leaving him with nothing but bloody stumps and that would be the end of that guy!

[@martjebicker9168]

@@tiffanylubeck3505 she didn't dis the cops that helped her. But maybe she is tainted by being stalked by a known rapist at the tender age of 17. As far as her comparison to Pam Anderson, nothing wrong with that. Don't be envious.

[@justloirt2176]

I would install stickers on your van that say 'Smile, you're on camera'! Giving the clear message whoever approaches your van IS being filmed. And yes, add the rear, sides and front camera's with motion lights.

[@davegelormino3968]

Great idea!

[@LS-vo7hc]

Step 1.Get the license plate number. Step 2. Share with fellow Van nomads. Step 3. Vanlife posse forms.

[@kimprocarione5473]

I don't know about a posse 😂 But if it becomes necessary we van lifers will back each other up! Especially someone as sweet as Emi! ❤

[@living2ndchildhood598]

Step 3 should be contacting the Police/RCMP.

[@valeriehancotte-galan4790]

4. We fly up there and kick some a$&!!!

[@Kimbo_85]

I'm not a van lifer, but I would have y'alls back. ❤❤

[@Cali_Fornia869]

I agree with all of you, don’t mess with our girl, we can be like mama bears ROAR!!!!

[@detphemale]

Your decals advertise that you are a female in a van, possibly traveling alone. You may want to think about removing them. I was told by a police officer that there are things that predictors look for, to identify vehicles that belong to women (personalized plates, stickers and interior decorations, etc.). These things can make you a potential target. Just something to consider.

[@glenwithonein]

Seems to me like someone thought it would be funny to mess with a person. But you did exactly the right thing.

[@pippadot679]

Emi, I always meant to ask if you've ever had any scary experiences. Well here's my answer. I would have been frozen with fear. But you did exactly what I thought about doing. No mistaking this issue he in fact was stalking you. I'm sorry that happened to you,. Stay safe. Did Kelly sense something wrong? I bet she did.

[@patricialewis-payton7114]

Please be careful ❤❤❤❤.

[@turquoisewitch.wild-owl]

Glad you're safe!

[@abbigailclay4116]

Omg that was creeping like they say always follow your intuition. That is one reason Van Life KZbinrs don't disclose their location when filming or wait until after they film and then relocate. You did the right thing by moving to the next town and making sure you were not followed. Well done Emi!

[@conniegrace3853]

Men have been harrassing women since the dawn of time. As women we need to be watchful and vigilant. Always trust your insticts. I'm proud of you Emmie for using your head and getting out of the area.

[@gingw7333]

If you don't call the police in a situation like that, perhaps driving straight to the nearest police station is an option. I was harrassed by two guys on a 45 minute drive home from work one time. (Before cell phones) Finally reached a town and went straight to the police station. Those two turned around and hurried back out of town when they realized where I was going.

[@willothewispl]

Yes I had to do that once too. But it was an ex boyfriend. Very scary.

[@maineapple52]

So sorry you have to put up with ignorant people. Most likely they know you are a single woman, alone in the van. You might want to take the sticker of ' Cat Lady' off the van???

[@caronadams4486]

Get a security alarm that you can trigger from inside the car. The noise most likely will scare anyone off....then drive straight to the police station. I don't know what the gun laws are in Canada, but as a single woman, you might consider getting one. Anyone else have some ideas to keep Emi safe!

[@KittyKat-vb1nd]

I never understood people openly posting their KZbin channels on vans. It's too dangerous to expose yourself like that.

[@sandramayes8679]

Yeah, your getting noticed everywhere. We love you, but some folks may not. Don't let them know who you are anymore. It's sad, but you need to be safe. Yay, your so famous! Lol!

[@MsBerries25]

Removing "Cat Lady" off the van is a very good suggestion

[@caronadams4486]

What about getting decals you can change out that are visible from all sides of your van...don't show any of them on your channel! This will put some doubt in anyone's head about who you are.

[@jennp7]

Stay safe Emi ❤

[@kimperes5987]

Keep your escape plans off the channel Emily for your safety. Also, please dont show your license plate to us and the mean psychos out there. Stay safe.❤

[@tammyn9058]

Stay safe sweet lady. The world is full of devious people, and being a single female living the van life, you have to be extra careful. Sending hugs and prayers for your safety.

[@susanmcnabb2551]

They may be following you on this channel so don't post what you are doing or that you plan to do about this situation.

[@Hatbox948]

I'm of the opinion it's just not as safe now as it once was. That person could just have been getting his jollies harassing you, but they could also have been dangerous people with evil intentions. Be cautious, and stay safe.

[@travelinvanman706]

I totally agree...seems things are much worse than a few years ago ..especially with all the millions of Illegals they are just letting cross the border, third world countrys are emptying their prisons ...

[@bethan.gruffydd]

And yes, as others have said here, please be sure to remove the signage from the outside of your van so you can miminimize how recognizable your van is. I'm so sorry you were treated this way.

[@TheVintageSoul333]

You to please get an app on your phone that you scan to make sure somebody didn't put a tagging device on your van. The apps are free and you can scan it periodically to make sure that no one has targeted your van. I would have called the police immediately because if he is going to harass you he is going to try to harass another woman and we have to get these people identified

[@cindi7955]

Yes the police where suggesting that in my town about the app to check for tagging device. They had people doing this when a woman would go into the store and they would just walk by and stick it on. Thank you for posting that.

[@dawnmoriarty9347]

That's always a problem. If these people do it once, they're gonna do it again

[@BartleDoo302]

Geez ..glad to hear that you and miss kitty are o.k..❤❤

[@billymac7994]

Next time drive to the closest Police Station and also try to get license plate number 🤷‍♂️ stay safe Emi!

[@VanmaRuth]

Hey Emi. I'm glad that you moved! Thanks so much for the water pump, I am enjoying it so far! Much love and hugs

[@J3nn1f3r.r0s3_]

I always watch all day what type of vehicles are around me, you never know if they are watching during the day and follow like this at night.

[@californiasun162]

I hear you it happened to me last week three men in a vehicle one came out I yelled back if you get closer you won’t be able to make it back to your vehicle then I flash my big light on him and then I said you’re only gonna get one warning he got back in the vehicle they honked a few times flashed on high beams and left

[@laurakramer396]

I experienced that same harassment from a white van and they were honking at me and would park with their high beams shining in my van. That was a very scary night.

[@merlin0215]

You're the third one in these comments so far, including Emi who has been harassed by a WHITE pick-up truck/van.

[@tiffanylubeck3505]

I'm just glad she remained in the van alot of times guys try to get you out to attack you, it can get pretty scary the level of harassment and stalking

[@mjmcinnesincanada]

💐

[@Herb-and-Harmony]

Please be careful Emi

[@lynnnunezwhitlock1073]

Good reminder that you are alone and a woman.. someone should always know where you are.. I send a pin to my adult son and two friends wherever I am ❤

[@maryjarrell5824]

He could have seen you earlier somewhere! Always park near others or in trucks stops if possible! Wasp spray reaches 20ft & its cheap

[@rickeysilvers6373]

Praying 🙏 stay safe ♥️

[@jasongentle6446]

Weird people 🌍full of them stay safe 👍👍🇬🇧🇬🇧

[@simple-277]

Hello EMI and kitty ❤

[@kathyclark2394]

I hope that when you post where you are going is delayed. Another word, you are already gone from that area. Some van lifers have some kind of tent on window and windshield that make it harder to break in to. Put extra security locks on your doors. Have something for protection. Know your area, just in case you have to call the police. You did the right thing by moving. Be Safe!

[@landy531]

Sorry for that person that has nothing better to do in his life 👎 and Kelly looking beautiful.

[@Bluebobopbedo]

Same sort of thing happened to me in Cowichin Bay harbour. A bunch of guys in a truck did a burn out throwing stones at my van and doin donuts within inches of me. I was terrified. They chased me all the way to Duncan. Those back roads are pitch black at night. Never went back to Cowichen Bay again. While I was in Duncan some people surrounded my van and keyed it from one end to the other and stabbed my tire with a knife. I was inside and frozen in fear. Be vigilant always.

[@ThecatladyVAN]

I had problems there last year. A man was standing beside my van at 3am.

[@mtcklc]

Had the right idea...if your being harassed or followed, drive to the nearest police station. Also document the occurrence, date, time, and any description you can get of the vehicle and/or occupant...license plate, color, make and model etc. Glad you and Miss Kitty are ok!

[@tiffanylubeck3505]

You have never filed a police report I take it 🤔 it's amazing ppl really believe that works still. Enjoy that naivete I'll stick to my weapons for personal safety

[@cherylhuhn6180]

Omg stay safe Emmy and kitty..oh my

[@chrishemsworth8948]

Sorry for your disturbed night. Even Kelly was looking for her safe bed ❤

[@willothewispl]

Put outside cameras on all four sides of your van, also get those motion lights on all four sides. I would not go to the back country yet. Park around town for a few more nights ansd see if it happens again. Take your stickers off your van. I hope you have some protection in your van. Get a very bright, blinding flashlight and shine it back into the drivers eyes if it happens again. If this person is trying to get away from the bright light you might be able to get their license plate and a photo of the truck. Emi you are so used to nothing happening. Does not mean this will happen again, but please be extra cautious for a while. Might just have been a weirdo, might be someone drunk. Give it a day or two to see if someone is stalking you. Please be very careful. If need be contact the police. Especially in the day. Could be watching you and you miss it. Hopefully its just a one time thing. I have been stalked before. Be very, very careful for awhile. God Bless.

[@trisha3847]

😢 sorry you went through that

[@trisha3847]

Creep!

[@trisha3847]

U look pretty scared!!! That’s so sad I’m pretty angry for you

[@denisediangelo1902]

Glad you are ok.

[@margarethutchens5463]

I'm glad you were okay. I wonder if he was trying to see inside to see if he wanted to break in. Maybe wondered if the cargo was expensive. Going to a police station when being followeed is a good move any time. I've used that one in the day light in my car.

[@nanannyse]

If this was a true predator, they wouldn't have acted that way. They would have gone in incognito as a likely scenario. This individual or individuals wanted to scare you and make your heart race. They could have been casing the joint to maybe steal vehicle and or steal contents. I bet if they realized no one was home, they would have broke in. Glad you left. Getting harassed like that, I am so sorry.

[@kimorsel686]

Thank you for doing the video despite the lack of sleep and stress. Take care ❤

[@NYCHFAN]

I'd call the police at the first sign of harrassment. Kelly. Too cute! 😂😂

[@bobbyconway1257]

Had a similar thing happen to me. Thankfully I did a quick walk around my vehicle. They had put roofing tacks (nails) in front of my tires. Some people are just inconsiderate and cruel. I’am happy you and kitty are ok.

[@goingagainstthegrain]

I'm sorry you had to go through that, Emi. There are strange individuals out there. Not too long ago, my sister had something similar happen to her and this was during the day. Luckily, she called us. She seeked refuge in a big box store and told the employees/manager. In which, the police were contacted. I tell her constantly to be aware of her surroundings. Possibly, get a dash camera? Take care & be safe out there! ❤

[@irishgrandma]

Please stay safe, Emi!!!!! ❤️ 💙 💜

[@kittyCAT-r3w]

Glad you and kitty are safe. Kitty is too cute❤

[@BetsyaOfficialMusic]

I am so glad you are ok and you followed your instincts. May you be always be protected with kitty🦋🙏

[@margaretyourchuck6417]

You are smart and capable. Love to you, thank you for sharing. Weirdos abound.

[@PupsforLIFE9]

You absolutely did the right thing to leave where you were. ✅ So sorry that you had to deal with such a scary situation, and we are all relieved that you are safe! Hope it never happens again!! Take care and know that we all love 💕 you! 💕🤗💕🤗💕🤗

[@noras.5355]

There's all kinds of yea-hoo's out there. Lots of good folks also. But you did the right and safe thing, Emi. Move! So sorry you had to go through that experience! Continue to stay safe, and take care and enjoy your journey!

[@corristone962]

Stay safe!

[@sinastogner9118]

Y’all please be careful and stay safe 🥰

[@LiveFree123]

I can only imagine how unsettling that would be.😳 I’m glad you were able to move away safely. ❤ 🐈

[@loriaversher5477]

So sorry this happened Emi. I'm glad that you are safe and that you recovered from falling....

[@damonswanson3156]

Head on a swivel my dear! Take care and be safe.😎

[@lisamurphy5663]

Hope your packing some protection girl. Please stay safe!💜

[@yvonneireland8753]

Stay safe, there’s a lot of crazy evil people out there, God be with you ❤

[@patriciasancho8239]

Oh no. Sorry that happened to you. I’m glad you’re OK. Safe travels out there..😊🚐⛰️

[@aliciaangelwings4544]

Emi I hope you called someone to stay on the phone with you in case. Take care! Stay safe!

[@desertdara]

Oh Emi, I'm so sorry this happened to you, but I'm glad you got out of there! As always, go with your gut and stay safe!

[@SuperInsuranceman]

Next time park between two vans so it will be difficult to block you and you will have the presence of two vans in case of problems. You will then only have to honk your horn. The occupants of the two vans will get out and the guy or woman will run away.

[@roseshafer258]

Sorry, that happened to you Emi. A guy followed me all the way home one night, thankfully when I pulled into my driveway, my husband opened the door, the guy took off. I am glad you were ok.

[@ChanelThomas248]

My dad put socks on the drop down arms of his van bucket seats. Then all that needed to be done was to change the socks! It kept the grime off and made cleaning easy.

[@lindaharleygirl1]

You did the right thing.. leave!!! Glad you and kitty are safe

[@jacquelinenoble6640]

Omg! That was a bit scary. Take great care Emmy and Kelly. Take great care. 😊🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

[@derrick1964]

11:21 It’s cool to see Kelly communicate directly with you. 🐈

[@jennifferhurlburt642]

So glad you are safe and got away from that environment. 💖💖💖

[@debmartin8907]

Oh Emmi how scary. So glad you're safe! It's a mean world out there 😢.

[@aknudsen93]

I am so sorry this happened to you and am glad you are alright. Stay safe.

[@maryhight6030]

Well if they show up again please call the cops. You were smart to leave and drive around to make sure you weren't followed. Stay safe Emi ❤

[@BdManus]

I'm glad you're ok. You did the right thing by moving.

[@13699111]

Hornet spray carried in your cup holder always within your reach for self-defense . I'm 71 year's old I've used hornet spray many times giving me the opportunity to run . I started traveling across America/Canada / Mexico at a very young age back then majority of people were helpful and friendly. I always use to camp openly even traveling by motorcycle not so much in today's world.

[@dross24MA]

Yes, and the good thing about hornet spray is that it IS LEGAL, even across borders., whereas mace and bear sprays often are not legal.

[@Linda-xb5ol]

Oh Emi, it’s sorry to see this video. Yes if that ever happens again i pray it don’t but just go find a police station. Stay safe ❤❤❤

[@sharonoldham4374]

Either go to police station or call them needing assistance

[@BlessedThistle-iw3fy]

@@sharonoldham4374 100 percent agree! This should be reported & on record. might help someone else in the future.

[@willothewispl]

Maybe someone else around there saw what was going on and called the police. Either way glad you are safe. Hope it was just a one time thing.

[@nigelwarfield2346]

As long as you are safe is the main thing , take care and safe travels x 🙂

[@alannagod]

And maybe it was just an over-exuberant fan who wanted to wake you up in the middle of the night and say Hi! ❤😊

[@erobinson988]

I hope you called the police. He could keep following you. Don't leave.

[@cotter9751]

Thanks for the discussion after the fact (those jerks at night); and so much fun to see Kelly go for the bagel.

[@WanderingObbie]

Move beside another camper , be safe Emi

[@jackie7916]

You did right Emi, sorry you had to have that happen. Take Care

[@lorraineowen7978]

I don't understand the technical side of cameras but maybe a good idea for night vision camera. Bit strange this vehicle harassing you... Your a wise women and I know you will stay safe. Enjoy your travels 😊

[@sandym8953]

How scary. Bless your heart!

[@sharonb.9128]

The pickup truck driver was definitely being a threatening a-hole. I attended a training once where the instructor gave really controversial advice- “NEVER go with an attacker”. Resist where the attacker is most uncomfortable. The attacker wants to take you somewhere that he feels safe and secure to do whatever he wants. I wouldn’t have known whether to stay or go. I’m glad you did. As bad as it was, the driver was afraid to do more in such a public place. It’s also hard to guess whether you were his target or if he was trying to scare you away.

[@mauricepowers3804]

Sometimes people don't have the choice of NEVER going with the attacker. Not very sound advice. They weren't trying to grab her. Driving to police department is the best idea if you are in your vehicle.

[@lizharnisch4804]

So sorry that happened to you. People are crazy. Stay safe. Maybe they just wanted this 5 mins of fame on your channel. Just silly.

[@Oldhip1912]

Unfortunately it could very well be a subscriber that’s become obsessed with you. Happened to know your van and was trying to lure you out. Stay safe.

[@TheOffroadCamper]

The best thing to do with that situation is to remove yourself from the situation, although it’s also best to imply that more than one person in your vehicle this can be done by using remote switches to turn lights on a different areas of the van. Once you’re removed from the situation, then I would call RCMP or local LEO’s and report it. Luckily you do have cameras.

[@sharonoldham4374]

Wow ! So happy you're safe. There are lots of not very nice people out there. Seems like since the pandemic people are more inconsiderate than before. Take care 😊

[@willothewispl]

I agree, seems like people have just lost it. Was just talking to my sister about this kind of thing. Breaks my heart that all this is happening in our beautiful country.

[@VanlifeJernie]

Not cool, Emi. Not cool!! I think I recognize that white pickup. He parks there frequently when I've been there, assuming it's the same guy. If it is him, I'm not very happy about what he did to you. I'd say he targeted you deliberately. I have talked to him before, so I may approach him and mention that someone harassed my friend and if it ever happens again I'll be doing something about it. That's not acceptable behaviour from anyone. I don't care who they are. I'm glad you're safe, and that you chose to move on. If you park there again and you see my van, park close if you need to. You can wake me up if someone pulls this crap again. I don't mess around when dealing with idiots.

[@1anita1m]

I am so happy you are safe. Some people do not know how to be nice. Stay safe and enjoy your journey.

[@katydidnt3906]

I wonder if the RV called the police?

[@vickyschoeneweis4036]

That is when you pick up your handy-dandy cell phone, and CALL the police. OR start your van and drive to the nearest police station. EXCELLENT idea.

[@terry362]

Sorry that happened to you and Kelly. Hope you’re taking precautions to stay safe. 😻🇬🇧😻

[@paulakelly563]

Thankfully you are ok , that was scary , I would say the cameras in that parking lot would have picked up his reg, if you want to report to police , Leaving when safe was the right choice . Take care , 😊🦋

[@hermitcrabinavan7244]

How awful! 😮 glad you are okay.

[@kimprocarione5473]

Cats I know are attracted to the crackle sound of the bag. 😂

[@silentwitness333]

So sorry you had that happen, very glad your ok 🙏 be safe.