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@VC0L3 жыл бұрын
lmaooo dj heavy sigh
@katjaofdenmark12463 жыл бұрын
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@arcotholusanalcyst76683 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna quit breathing air
@jarred333Boss3 жыл бұрын
It was a good video mane
@VincentChan3 жыл бұрын
@@jarred333Boss thank you sir!
@joedirt26553 жыл бұрын
You know it’s time to quit when you spend your day off dreading going back to work.
@SpaztasticSheep2 жыл бұрын
Thiss!
@radeonblue18162 жыл бұрын
I worked as a Technical Support Job and yesterday was my last working day. Everyday of the job was full of anxiety and depression and thank goodness I quit that disgusting job.
@brendaechols59292 жыл бұрын
And don't want to go to sleep cause u don't want your weekend to end
@radeonblue18162 жыл бұрын
@@brendaechols5929 You nailed it.
@smokegames11792 жыл бұрын
@@radeonblue1816 im a tech support in verizon in the philippines and im just trying to enjoy it. but its toxic if your gonna let it be toxic every job is toxic in my opinion haha
@TheCoookieCrumb3 жыл бұрын
"I dont want a fancy car, I dont want a big house... I just want time to live my life" -> Subscribed 😉
@bigdisme56223 жыл бұрын
Unsub for this. I want a ferrari, porn star and an awesome house.
@penguinssos22443 жыл бұрын
@@bigdisme5622 :v
@gvalleygrl20072 жыл бұрын
@@penguinssos2244 Is my life now or never--I am not going live forever sounds like a song
@abellyold485911 ай бұрын
Sometimes it's not about big house or fancy cars, but providing for one's own family, that forces people to endure the grind at work.
@RickJamesY05 ай бұрын
This Is all I want
@joedirt26553 жыл бұрын
Once you hate your job it will only get worse, get out before you lose your dignity.
@bluejay75863 ай бұрын
So true!
@KairamzenАй бұрын
Before you lose your sanity
@BangBang-hk4rg3 жыл бұрын
I quit my job several times a day. (in my mind)
@misterellystudio3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 We are friends
@sakura02913 жыл бұрын
👋👏🏻
@TheRoyalMarsBrothers3 жыл бұрын
@@sakura0291 Lol Yes! So do I! I'm watching this right now instead of working because I quit!...Until an email comes through with someone asking me for something...
@daisyporto17783 жыл бұрын
Same 😂😂😂
@Jaybearno3 жыл бұрын
hahaha- this comment is the precise reason i scroll down (and am disappointed 98% of the time)
@Shellsvaldez3 жыл бұрын
I quit my job 2 days ago and I’m thinking back to my fear based mentality... but I am happier than ever before. I’m excited for this new chapter in my life, I know I am going to be blessed & my future is full with abundance
@misterellystudio3 жыл бұрын
Wishing you all the best out there
@piyush97759432943 жыл бұрын
You will have a rude awakening one day.
@Shellsvaldez3 жыл бұрын
@@piyush9775943294 why’d you think I quit my job ? Lol already happened
@LanSolutions4You3 жыл бұрын
wish u all the best.
@luisalberto14563 жыл бұрын
You got this girl
@WillR-Cincy3 жыл бұрын
I did that, Quit my job at 29. Became an Entrepreneur & had some failures but eventually became very successful but more importantly I DID IT MY WAY!
@rivensleyanelas48903 жыл бұрын
What is your company?
@henrytep88843 жыл бұрын
What did you do? Don't tell me you yolo into shiba inu coins .
@fabio.13 жыл бұрын
Following
@Cal-El3 жыл бұрын
Also following
@low_etc3 жыл бұрын
@@henrytep8884 That seems like the fad nowadays.
@saywhatnow573 жыл бұрын
I can relate to all of this but I'll give a perspective from someone a little older. I'm 41 and I left my last position working for someone else back in my 20s. I saw your other video and your story is almost identical to my own. I started my career right out of college in an amazing position, at a great company. Five years into my career, I was sitting in a pointless weekly Monday morning status meeting and all I could think was "this is wasting my life." I got up, walked back to my desk and wrote my resignation. I started my business the next day. But I was ready. I had savings. I had leads on contract work I could dive right into. I had a business plan I'd been working on for months. That was just the day I'd officially had enough. I did have a marriage, a kid on the way, and a brand new home. But I was prepared. I always tell my friends about how prepared I was when they talk about quitting their jobs. But it's completely possible. I actually did it the exact same way my dad did. And my life as a kid was better because I had a dad who worked for himself and I wanted that same life for my kids. 13.5 years since I turned in that resignation and it's still going great.
@victoriaduran14773 жыл бұрын
That's important, that you are ready and with enough savings
@idalinawin3 жыл бұрын
I already have enough savings, but still hard to thinking about what could I do/make after quitting... I know I want to be my own boss 🥵
@hove7853 жыл бұрын
superbe story, thanks for sharing
@Native7223 жыл бұрын
I'm scared to start my own business
@akshitarawat35832 жыл бұрын
@@Native722 you are not scared to start your own business, you are scared to fail in the business!
@ThanhMaiOFFICIAL3 жыл бұрын
It’s 2021, if your job isn’t giving you that satisfaction and fulfillment, time to move on. Life’s too short and unpredictable to stay in a job you’re not happy with 🤨🧐
@VincentChan3 жыл бұрын
100% agreed thank you
@1sexysportsfan3 жыл бұрын
Covid has shown us exactly this. Almost 700,000 people whose lives were cut short.
@dollarbilllife39053 жыл бұрын
Couldn't have said that better. These jobs don't pay, or appreciate their employees that's why so many are rage quitting, and I am going to be one of those people in 2022.
@Nite_coder3 жыл бұрын
starving to death and being homeless isnt very fullfilling either.
@andrefecteau3 жыл бұрын
@@1sexysportsfan that's BS...notice how every other disease suddenly ended? Tool of the MSM, even at 700K it's 18 people per day per state...more likely to die of shark attack, 1 in a million..smoking and "legal drugs" kill 2400 a day...so stfu with your lame numbers
@captureitonvid3 жыл бұрын
I want to quit everyday because it seems like every company I worked for(especially the current one) hired or has the worst upper management, and I wonder how some of these companies started with such disorganization.
@VincentChan3 жыл бұрын
yeah management is super important in the happiness of a company. there's a quote that says “employees don’t quit their job, they quit their boss,”
@CA2SD3 жыл бұрын
Yes to this a thousand times! I feel your pain. Hang in there until we have a new direction.
@kathyramos29243 жыл бұрын
Start going to interviews and do shadowing and then you might have an idea what you looking for!😃
@kaleidoscoped83 жыл бұрын
i relate to this strongly. i quit my job two weeks ago. i worked at walmart, and the store i was in was very disorganized and it had poor management. they even wanted to take me out of the position i signed up for to another position, work more hours without any pay raise. i felt like i was getting drained mentally and when i quit, my family was like ‘what happened? why do you always quit your jobs?’ and i could NEVER find somebody who understands how i feel. i don’t know if it’s because people are so fixated on survival that my decision to them seems irrational… or if this is me seeing the truth for what it is and deciding what’s best for me!
@John_Connor5563 жыл бұрын
@@VincentChan one of the truest idioms since Corporate America started w/o question.
@thelegendnotmyth70713 жыл бұрын
I quit a few weeks ago my job of 8 years . . I made about 21$ hour but it was a very physical job… highly replaceable… started doing Uber I was matching the pay with less hours worked with just working in peak hours so now I can pursue a career in personal training y’all wish me luck 🍀
@evanslawrence882 жыл бұрын
Good luck! : )
@Killerqueen-oi7si2 жыл бұрын
Good luck wish you well 🤙🏿
@thelegendnotmyth70712 жыл бұрын
@@itsDjjayyArt pretty good got certified and I have 6 clients so far my goal is to give the 6 clients great results while trying to a acquire 4 more
@xyz-pg3zd5 ай бұрын
@@thelegendnotmyth7071update? Thanks for inspiring
@davidchavez91813 жыл бұрын
I quit my job July 15th. Best business career decision I have ever made.
@u2short4853 жыл бұрын
What?
@eatem73 жыл бұрын
That's awesome. How come?
@jarred333Boss3 жыл бұрын
Good
@VincentChan3 жыл бұрын
that's awesome david! What are you up to nowadays?
@davidchavez91813 жыл бұрын
@@VincentChan Currently taking the summer off. I have a lot of offers but for now I am going to take my time before entertaining a new opportunity. I'm in no Rush and the way things have been its best to make a good calculated decision before I jump into a new adventure best thing for me right now is to just take my time. My field is Sales and I can bring the business to the table I just want to make sure my future.moves are with the right company.
@natashaj91693 жыл бұрын
Balancing gratitude without settling is definitely a helpful tool for the journey.
@VincentChan3 жыл бұрын
Totally agree!
@DaniellaNwakonobi4 ай бұрын
I just got my dream job 3 months ago, and now I just handed in my resignation letter. After the first month of work I never had time for myself, I don't eat well or sleep well and my body became weak, I once almost collapsed when I went to the market and my weekends were literally another weekday. At first I thought it was normal and it would get better, it didn't and I got scared because I just started and nothing was improving and my boss would complain I was lagging behind even when I was at my sleepless night best. I couldn't even keep another job because this job took up my full day everyday, I had a conversation about it with my boss and tried to explain why I was lagging behind and I was told I'm not the only one with other things going on in their life and nothing improved if anything it got worse and I even got verbal insults. Now I've handed in my letter suddenly working became better and I got scared I made the wrong choice to quite. Honestly it's talks with friends and more experienced people that helped my put my foot down in leaving my job. I really hope this was the right step
@geraldm.s.16673 ай бұрын
This is me at the moment Daniella. You're not alone. Things will get better once we prioritize our well-being.
@skepticbb932 күн бұрын
I've been around a long time. When interviewing or even just researching a job the red flags are there. Lack of respect for work life balance. Political environment with less capable managers. A 90 minute or 2 hour commute with logistical issues. Or bad tech / systems they will make you use. Whatever it is, trust your instincts. Shop around. There will be another opportunity with similar pay and no flags.
@nguyenngocmaihuong39423 жыл бұрын
OMG the toxic impact... exactly what I felt in my last job. It's like it turned me into a beast lol. Guysss other reasons can be reconsidered, BUT NOT A TOXIC JOB THAT AFFECTS YOUR MENTAL HEALTH, PLEASE QUIT!!!!
@greent163 жыл бұрын
I hear you. The constant anxiety, the dread in opening emails, accounting for every minute of your day... its soul sucking
@kathyramos29243 жыл бұрын
🥳🥳🥳 I was in one .. and thought it was no longer toxic because all those created that inviroment left . But after I quit 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️I realized it was just bad .
@bandobandit3533 жыл бұрын
That's where I'm at. At first I told myself the changes were just temporary and that things would improve. 18 months later and my mental health has only deteriorated. Not to mention my life was filled with all kinds of personal goals and dreams that I put on pause to focus on getting through a difficult patch at work. I'm beginning to realise that I haven't put those goals on hold, I've thrown them away.
@claudiakarbachinsky91533 жыл бұрын
@@bandobandit353 feel you. I have recently changed my spending habits and started saving up that cushion. I am so scared of failure it’s crippling but I feel like if I keep doing this toxic job I’ll just get a heart attack at 24 or something. Only thing keeping me going is the thought of leaving prepared and quoting at the right timing…. I should have done it ages ago.
@agr5512 ай бұрын
Its hard to say because you need that money...but you know you have to scarifies your life....
@beez77582 жыл бұрын
I quit my job and my mental health and life has gotten better. There’s so much out there!
@RetirementContentment3 жыл бұрын
9:20 Distinction between running from and running toward, focus energy on what you are running toward. This is the pearl of this video. Brilliant.
@whynot60587 ай бұрын
“It could always be better” that’s a powerful statement
@charleshurstreinvention39593 жыл бұрын
You have to carefully assess yourself. This is my weekly topic for my own subscribers. Career. One thing that can really bring a person into depression is 40 hours a week of hating their job. The job is literally almost half of the waking life. The problem many people have is that they have a craving for security. The person will tolerate being unhappy if that is their normality. People would rather have secure bitterness than the fear of stepping off the cliff. The fact is that you can change your career anytime. At 40 or 50. I once knew a car salesman of 30 years who did really well but started to hate his job--so became a nurse at 57. He is now a travel contractor. His friends told him he would be 57 by the time he got licensed as an RN. He told them he would be 57 anyway. So he will now spend the next ten years doing something he likes instead of something he hates. But you have to decide if it is life on the sea you hate or just that ship you're traveling on. In other words--do you hate your trade or just the company you're at? But whatever you aren't happy with you must change and continue to advance yourself. Hope this helps someone---Charles.
@lorrainebazydola8162 жыл бұрын
He would be 57 anyway.. Wow..perfectly said.. I'm 58 now..time to move on for myself!
@samphanhsoxayachanh51802 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this perspective! Really needed this today!
@charleshurstreinvention39592 жыл бұрын
@@lorrainebazydola816 And you always can----Charles
@charleshurstreinvention39592 жыл бұрын
@@samphanhsoxayachanh5180 Keep being great----Charles
@jamieyang16263 жыл бұрын
I want to quit my job for mostly the same reasons as you did. I feel like my job serves no purpose. I'm not accomplishing anything, moving toward anything, and I feel no passion for my job. Everyday I get to work I spent 8 hours doing menial work, sending template emails to clients, making coffee, and planning meetings. Being in lockdown the past few months has made me realise how much I love spending time with my family and having time for myself instead of being at work from dawn til dusk. Life is too short to do something you're not passionate about just for the money right?
@preciousprecious75813 жыл бұрын
OMG this is exactly word to word how I feel after the lockdown.i don't have enough time to spend with my family,including my parents. I feel no passion and not adding any skills
@perkyb12133 жыл бұрын
At work, many of us are forced to be around people we would not let in our circle if we had a choice. That’s the main reason working at a company can suck. IMO. I long for freedom from this, and am trying to figure out how to how to retire early.
@Richard-sx5hs3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!!
@themiddleclasstaxslave6513 жыл бұрын
Have you considered homesteading?
@perkyb12133 жыл бұрын
@@themiddleclasstaxslave651 um. What’s that?
@themiddleclasstaxslave6513 жыл бұрын
@@perkyb1213 :) …. It’s your ticket out of the rat race. Buy a piece of land in a state that has loose homesteading laws, and you live off the land. You can still have WiFi, etc but you are basically debt free. You build your own house, get your water supply, grow your own food, have minimal financial bills, And enjoy time with nature, your spouse, family. You don’t need to work a job to make X amount of $. You could skip the college route entirely if you are this type of person. I’m just about there myself but I’m a keep going a bit longer. If I was 18’again, I would do this from the get go.
@jeremynelson37523 жыл бұрын
Facts
@heidihoiting3 жыл бұрын
The reason why I wanted to quit my job in hopefully less than 8 years is because I wanna be the owner of my time. When I work for a company/organisation, it feels like I sold the ownership of my time. And I wanted it back ^^
@katmenor83393 жыл бұрын
Same
@AlizaRockParade3 жыл бұрын
Same
@thiagovilla9703 жыл бұрын
Yep! 100% agreed
@greglawson80013 жыл бұрын
🥺🤗🤗🤗 I'm glad to see others feel the same
@pudge98458 ай бұрын
Same and I'm nearly thinking of it rn
@zelmv34463 жыл бұрын
hey just quit my job. I think youtube’s algorithm sensed it and lead me to your videos. Scared but excited for the new path I’m going to make for myself.
@pinaysinglemom-uk72428 ай бұрын
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@kingdeguzman50333 жыл бұрын
due to the pandemic, I lost my job and was forced to do business, I thought it was the end for me due to financial problems, but after sometime my business grew and as of today I already have 3 branches of it. The lesson is that, at first we thought that we lose something big but then we realize without losing something we cant gain something which is destined for us to be better.
@chasinggreatness6390 Жыл бұрын
Wow ,, your story is very inspiring
@Tattoocoldbrew10 ай бұрын
I don’t mind my job, it’s my manager. A classic narcissist. She often raises her voice at me over the smallest things or things that aren’t my fault, she mocks my disability and doesn’t respect it all. I’ve only been here 5 months and reporting her to HR and letting them know I’m looking for a new job. They have had issues with my boss in the past but haven’t done anything. I’m out once I get a new one.
@mercedeswilkins55665 ай бұрын
Get out now. Most ppl quit their job cuz of bad management
@scccchhАй бұрын
HR is not there to protect you, they are there to protect the company.
@robertsmith-cj6gl3 жыл бұрын
Never quit your job. Tell them that you no longer need their services and just leave
@TheMagicTaco3 жыл бұрын
I quit my job 3 weeks ago.. and it was the best move I did.! Your right when you say it drains all your energy.. now I'm happy working for my self.. it's one step closer to freedom!
@VincentChan3 жыл бұрын
That's awesome! What are you working on now
@pushapt3 жыл бұрын
what do you do now? If you don’t mind me asking?
@pushapt3 жыл бұрын
What do you do now if you don’t mind me asking?
@nevvo29723 жыл бұрын
I want to quit my job for one simple reason. I’m tired of feeling like the struggle that younger me went through to get this far was a waste. I promised myself it would be better and I’m determined to keep my promise
@ronnieortiz91382 жыл бұрын
🙏🏼🙏🏼
@CHARLESSBRONSON3 жыл бұрын
My last day is this Friday September 3rd. Been working in the same field/company for 17 years. I'm done with my job , like he said in the video I don't hate my coworkers or the employer etc.. but I AM DONE. It's time to move on to better things an not just the same old routine anymore.
@itsDjjayyArt2 жыл бұрын
What's your plan
@CHARLESSBRONSON2 жыл бұрын
@@itsDjjayyArt my plan is to not go back into the work trap as i once fell deeply into, Take care of me For once , enjoy being a father an enjoy life. Embrace every single moment, even the hardest painful ones, because those are the lessons of life. Take care my friend.
@annamargaritaarguelles6923 жыл бұрын
I needed this so much. I have been working with the same company for 7 years. I work as an online English teacher . And within those 7 years, I have been shouted at and cursed at by my students. I told management about it and they did nothing. They said that students will either like you or not and that I should never take it personally. I came to a point wherein I forced myself to work, making matters worse. I cried myself to sleep and I developed work anxiety. Thank you for being the voice I wanted to hear these years. Now I'm sending applications to different companies. Anxious to start again but I need this. I have to do this for myself. Planning to move back in with my mom for the time being to save money and stop renting for the time being until I can financially support myself again.
@sohinimukherjee48382 жыл бұрын
How can students curse at teachers? 🥺 The experience might have been horrible I hope you are now in a better working environment
@reokagro3 жыл бұрын
Ive been looking for a new job, I work at mcdonalds and get treated like shit all day from customers and managers every day and they constantly switch me from morning and night shifts and always call me in on my days off and all for minimal wage. i just got yelled at by a manager for clarifying a customers order which pushed me to look for a new job, every night after my shift i just feel like ima start crying.
@dollarbilllife39053 жыл бұрын
Keep going you will get to a better place.
@ready401113 жыл бұрын
Get out of that job! I felt a heavy negative feeling just reading how you’re treated at your job. Jobs nowadays are a dime a dozen! What good is the money if you’re miserable earning it. I’d rather be poor and happy.
@davidalves68133 жыл бұрын
Just read your comment and decided to leave with you my best wishes. Hope your life is all better now, friend.
@SunFlower-fx8rv3 жыл бұрын
Hope you didn't stay. My daughter worked at MacDonald and was treated poorly. Please quit! She is in a better job! Never tolerate being mistreated. Nice people get taken advantage of but find a good ones who would appreciate you!
@fgonzalez789599 ай бұрын
Update its been 2 yrs..how's it going for you?
@mizael39253 жыл бұрын
Alright Vincent, you've convinced me. I'm quitting my job.
@ezeekl3 жыл бұрын
You're getting really good with the comedic writing man, love the growth! Had some great moments in here. Great content as well. Might not quit tomorrow, but it's coming
@VincentChan3 жыл бұрын
thank you so much :) hope i got a few chuckles from you
@JorisVanDeuneghem2 жыл бұрын
I want to quit my job because i have other passions in life. I want to spend more time with my family and i want to travel more with my family. With my passion of photography i also want to help other people, thats why i started a YT channel about photography. I hope this will grow so big that i can quit my "normal" job. i don’t want to be dependent from somebody else to get food on the table for my family.
@peppydude96563 жыл бұрын
Great quality content! Not everyone can just quit. Proper planning and Need that 12 months safety net first is required
@VincentChan3 жыл бұрын
100% agreed, gotta do proper planning first
@briggsharington82673 жыл бұрын
I hear you loud and clear. Quitting tomorrow morning!
@doomtomb33 жыл бұрын
Holy crap you hit the nail on the head about the heavy sighs and irritability right after work lol
@lorrainebazydola8162 жыл бұрын
Yeah and then some guy behind me honks at the cars in front of me losing his temper. And I'm like why do I drive an hour to work in this snob town, which happens to also be my hometown lol?!
@nancyb.36349 ай бұрын
OMG! I always do the heavy sighs. Now I know why. I also do alot of deep breaths to help me calm down and keep me from jumping across the room and slapping my boss.
@tatianabeatty98212 ай бұрын
OMG! 😢I am almost there ! I have zero desire to climb the ranks. I have a greater purpose to help everyone
@hassansyed60877 ай бұрын
I'm glad I watched this. There are so many people just casually quitting their main jobs and it brings on this ease for other people to think that they can do the same. My situation is not someone else's situation. Each situation is unique
@dknown2 жыл бұрын
For whatever reason, this video is recommended to me. Everything resonated with me, especially the toxic part. I caught myself waking up angry because of work, I start raising my voice and speak very fast every time I talk about work. I think it's time to leave, but that fear of not having a steady income is making it difficult.
@ThunderousNinja5 ай бұрын
Amen. I'm so sick of working in a restaurant. I get constantly burnt out and am anxious, I snap off and am depressed. Overworked. Never work in a bar.
@toplespecah666Сағат бұрын
Did u quit?
@ThunderousNinjaСағат бұрын
@toplespecah666 I decided to cut my days down to four days so I can work on enhancing training or going to barber school. I'm proactively taking care of my health and opportunities. No more limiting beliefs
@st9183 жыл бұрын
I’ve been wanting to quit my job for awhile now but I’m still holding to it thinking that maybe it’s just temporary feeling or I’m being too emotional but after listened to u I have every signs that u mention. Now I’m taking the risk management seriously and hoping I can quit by end of this year. Wish me luck 🙂
@evanslawrence882 жыл бұрын
@S T Hello! Its been 6 months. How is it coming along. Did you make the big leap?
@serginebelance94782 жыл бұрын
Yea did you
@marijaolivija2 жыл бұрын
I hope you are free now!
@FIFII Жыл бұрын
hope you're free now!
@meiniuma3 жыл бұрын
Also a professional quitter here as I just quit my job last Tuesday, feeling so liberated now
@marieado96253 жыл бұрын
😅
@Crocus19793 ай бұрын
I quit and became a freelancer, almost a year passed and it's great! I take time to do whatever I want, take vacations to travel when I want to, without asking for permission of my boss. No toxic work colleagues. I chose my clients. I usually work also on weekends, but can spend a whole day on Monday doing private stuff I have to do. Love this life.
@azid902 ай бұрын
currently working on this. pray for me
@Alaska_Gal2 жыл бұрын
True story. In 2013 I quit my job to fulfill my dream of owning a home in a state almost halfway across the country. I didn’t have a job lined up & drove my son & our dog to our new place. I chose not to work for 7 months (was financially able to do this) & landed a great job. Still at this job after almost 10 years, but I’m feeling that pull to get up and go again. My son is now 23 & has been living on his own. My job values me (even gave me two raises totaling 18% within 10 months time, but I am no longer feeling fulfilled or connected to what I do. I just told them yesterday that I want to cut my hours & they agreed. Luckily, I also accrue a LOT of vacation time, so I’m going to use that time to figure out the next chapter in my life. I always feel the most anxious when I ignore what my inner voice tells me. I have found that when I follow my heart, things always work out & it’s OK to break out of my comfort zone & try new things.
@Alaska_Gal2 жыл бұрын
@thecustomkit awesome. I ended up giving 1.5 months notice in May & my last day was on 7/1/22. I feel free & less stressed. I worked in a very dangerous area, so putting $, stress & safety concerns over my life & wellbeing, was not worth it to me. I know I did the right thing by leaving. They tried to get me to stay by offering to hire me an assistant, but I said no. Thanks for asking!
@ritikaroy16393 жыл бұрын
I quit my job last week and I feel satisfied with my mental peace. Now I can learn what I wanted to. I'm also a college student and I feel you in this video.
@itsDjjayyArt2 жыл бұрын
I feel college is a waste if you're not planning on being a doctor, scientist, psychiatrist, bio engineering stem Field, lawyer ect....
@JaneGo2 жыл бұрын
@@itsDjjayyArt Agree. I studied design in college and feel like it was unnecessary. I could have learned design online in less than 4 years. I should've gotten a science degree to make it more worth it.
@theglassarrow_ Жыл бұрын
@@itsDjjayyArt Agreed. Started my career at 19, at 21 I'm now changing jobs and making 60k. Everyone around me has degrees but I hardly got out of highschool.
@CA2SD3 жыл бұрын
New subscriber and I'm on a Vincent marathon. LOVE your channel! Funny, how I just watched "I quit my $120,000.00 job" and now I'm watching this. I'm working at a corporate world and I can vouch everything you said Xs 100. I am trying to strategize my resignation. People leave management NOT their job. I work at one of the most toxic workplaces where abuse of power is rewarded. Management constantly schedule unnecessary ZOOM meetings just to keep their jobs.
@CallMeRose2 жыл бұрын
Time for me to quit. LMAO. I sigh EVERY DAY. I dread going back. Thank you. I want to quit because I want to live my life to its fullest - doing what I love. Which is being a full time KZbinr. Having my own schedule. Not having to answer someone else or feel bad when I take off. I’m running towards my dreams/goals/aspirations.
@clover73592 жыл бұрын
I left the Army after 5 years of service. The first 3 years were pretty good. I had good community, good learning experiences, and I felt like I had a purpose, sort of. The last 2 years however, were what you described. Toxic workplace that wrecked my mental health, toxic leadership that wrecked the community (everyone looking out for their own best interest instead of the good of the group), shifting away from structured and purposeful work to more degrading, meaningless details wrecking my basic desire to apply myself. It made me realize that decent pay and benefits are worthless if my mental health is in the ditch and I'm never happy. Decent pay and benefits are well and good if you can be happy, but it's more important to be happy, even if you have to sacrifice your buying power.
@lilkirsche3 жыл бұрын
Everything you said was me the last 6 years. I luckily saved money and quit my job this year. I was depressed, almost burned out, didn't want to talk about work, the work environment was and still is toxic and just my coworkers were awesome. I was thinking about quitting for one year, so definitely nobody should do it without being sure. Thanks for your awesome videos. ❤️ And I'm definitely running towards being a successful, self employed artist. I also do not need fancy things. I want time and live. ❤️
@itsDjjayyArt2 жыл бұрын
That's why u have a ABCD plan in place
@nikkian92546 ай бұрын
That's so great you were able to save enough money to quit! Curious if you found another job/work stream or were able to retire completely with the savings?
@lilkirsche6 ай бұрын
@@nikkian9254 I didn't retire completely (the money would have lasted for 2 years, so enough time for me to heal) but I only work part-time now and this is the best solution for me. But I am saving money again for the future and in case I need it again. I can work on my passion (art) and still have the safety of getting money each month. Feels good currently 😊
@Steve-go6oq3 жыл бұрын
My savings technique: first I saved for things I wanted but once I saved enough I'd move the goalpost. Then I saved for freedom, enough to replace something if it broke, then I saved to buy back my time and give myself breathing room to make my own decisions about my life. Money for rent, food, school for the kids etc. We saved enough that we can quit (my wife did and is employed again) or move overseas towards new opportunities. Most of the money I spent was done trying to make myself feel better about my work so I saved to buy back my own peace of mind and freedom. :)
@rahimgowani62693 жыл бұрын
Been through the same situation in 2019, glad I saved something and quit that toxic job. Although 2020 was difficult and seemed like I made a bad decision or wrong timing, but feels much better now. The longer it takes you to realize the fact that corporates are renting out your lives and you are nothing more than what you contribute, the more painful it gets.
@jackjia42303 жыл бұрын
I quit in April 2021. One downside of quitting has been daily activity structure without external pressure. In many ways I am institutionalized to let the work determine the day. Without it I have not been as productive on my own
@FIFII Жыл бұрын
I did it. Boss was shocked but life is too short to not follow your dreams! Working in something I'm actually interested in now and I'm so excited for what's to come!
@mercedeswilkins55665 ай бұрын
Your boss was shock as in he/she really didn’t care. I’m glad you found something better
@FIFII5 ай бұрын
@@mercedeswilkins5566 shocked more so because it was such a quick turn over
@imherwerdio685211 ай бұрын
Why do I want to quit? Not enough pay, too fast-paced sometimes, several or more toxic, insensitive, and narcissistic employees, lack of accountability and communication, high turnover, and no real room for advancement.
@HeduAI2 жыл бұрын
"Are you walking away or towards something?" - what a powerful question!
@nerdonabudget3 жыл бұрын
Oh my god, I have that exact same bad habit you talk about at 6:00, my wife is constantly catching me and saying "what are you sighing about now?!". I feel like you're my twin, in every aspect lol. Saw your "Quit my $120,000 job" video and came to this one after. It's funny how the timing of it worked, because I JUST did most if not all of these things right before coming across your channel. It's great to watch these videos shortly afterward, which reinforce my thoughts and decisions :)
@levelup20143 жыл бұрын
U don’t have a wife
@nerdonabudget3 жыл бұрын
@@levelup2014 lol, k
@ohyesitslizzyb3 жыл бұрын
I do that sigh as well, lol
@BR-hx4hb3 жыл бұрын
Man, the part where you mentioned how you realized that your work environment / work is toxic … I resonate so hard with that.
@charlottet75482 жыл бұрын
This just autoplayed on my KZbin. I realised long ago (when I was 15 and did 2 weeks work experience in an office after which I vowed I would never work in an office again) that I hate being employed and have been avoiding having full time jobs for other people for years. I really enjoyed how you present all this info - you are so entertaining! My life mantra is similar; keep your standards high and your expectations low. (+Multiple income streams are the key!)
@Markus_Aurelius_2 жыл бұрын
Tomorrow’s my last day at work been sitting on quitting for a couple months, I’ve got money Saved up and I’m going to school. Was pretty nervous about it but excited to see what comes next. Really like your videos and what you’re trying to do, good luck to you and everyone who decides to do the same!
@aswinunnikrishnan9519 Жыл бұрын
Howz life been bro ?? Do u regret the decision cz i jst took a similar one and would like to know ur opinion
@charleshurstreinvention39593 жыл бұрын
Same advice I give on other posts. This is my weekly topic for my own subscribers. Career. One thing that can really bring a person into depression is 40 hours a week of hating their job. The job is literally almost half of the waking life. The problem many people have is that they have a craving for security. The person will tolerate being unhappy if that is their normality. People would rather have secure bitterness than the fear of stepping off the cliff. The fact is that you can change your career anytime. At 40 or 50. I once knew a car salesman of 30 years who did really well but started to hate his job--so became a nurse at 57. He is now a travel contractor. His friends told him he would be 57 by the time he got licensed as an RN. He told them he would be 57 anyway. So he will now spend the next ten years doing something he likes instead of something he hates. But you have to decide if it is life on the sea you hate or just that ship you're traveling on. In other words--do you hate your trade or just the company you're at? But whatever you aren't happy with you must change and continue to advance yourself. Hope this helps someone---Charles.
@zoeteo37583 жыл бұрын
Fantastic post!
@charleshurstreinvention39593 жыл бұрын
@@zoeteo3758 Glad you liked it---be great!!!---Charles
@wendynoble65452 жыл бұрын
Running from Vs running toward was critical for me. I stuck it out until I had a plan of where to go to. I changed my career direction significantly, gained greater work life balance. I am so much happier.
@thebrotographerscollective64922 жыл бұрын
Brooooooo! This video was awesome! The “sigh” beat was so good. Hahaha. I just quit my 9-5 job due to my creativity and happiness being sucked out like a dementor. Stoked for the future and loving your channel. Get it!
@lifeasbree341 Жыл бұрын
This resonates with me on such a deep level!! Not only am I doing the sighs but I’ve also moved to migraines due to work. This video was much needed
@hs-pj8ho3 жыл бұрын
love this type of mindset, I have zero interest in climbing the corprate ladder too,everything is superficial in the corprate world, risk managment is key if you want to free yourself diversify income is the best way.
@homokira3 жыл бұрын
I hate it- I need to vent this. I don't think I can take it anymore at what was supposed to be the "dream" position- I finally got a full time job as a Media Marketing Coordinator at an animal organization- PERFECT for an animal lover and creative person like me, right?....At first, I was SO excited and ready to learn and improve my skills. What really ended up happening was a disorganized mess, crappy communication, and a workload meant for an entire team is composed of TWO people. From start to finish. I finally realized how badly it's affecting me because of the physical signs like losing weight, hot flashes, heart palpitations, uncontrollable shaking, and more that I couldn't shoo away or ignore. Even visiting my parents noticed how frail and terrible I looked and were so upset to see me like that. I work so hard even worrying about my work outside of paid hours, getting calls and emails when I'm supposed to be off...I don't think there's room for compromise- I'm taking the risk and lining up a new job (scary) and once that happens, I'm gone.
@mariakordyukova77154 ай бұрын
Wishing you best of luck to find a good alternative very fast, go for it!! Your health is so much more important
@caddymac33 жыл бұрын
I'm quitting my job. In order to pursue my real estate career full-time. I've been trying to juggle a full-time job and do real estate. But it's to much. I'm a good worker. And being a good worker always comes with more responsibilities. Then management starts to depend on you more. And they want you to work more. So it takes time away from me building my business. It's time to go all in.
@solodondolo58903 жыл бұрын
Omg 🙏 I felt this, they always shitting on the best employees
@eddieortiz8733 жыл бұрын
@@solodondolo5890 me rn
@OUrNit033 жыл бұрын
Have you quit yet?
@caddymac33 жыл бұрын
Nope. I was about to. But they allowed me to hire a person to work the weekends. So I'm going to wait until I have my 6-8 months of bills saved. Then I'm out. How's your progress going?
@OUrNit033 жыл бұрын
@@caddymac3 That's a solid plan. My wife and I just have been trying to be more discipline with sticking with a budget to cut down on debt so we can eventually build an emergency account. While that's going, am working on additional earnings outside of the 9-5. Gotta get out of this rat race. It's all consistency and discipline. We'll get there brotha..
@PierceJPeterson3 жыл бұрын
That red bull flip was too smooth 😂
@VincentChan3 жыл бұрын
LOL thank you
@bigbaby27752 жыл бұрын
yah your right, what is value of money if it swallow up your whole life... I have to find something that I can still spend time for my self while working. not feeling a robot at all.
@vernapopo99853 жыл бұрын
I chose to quit my job because I had placed my dreams to the wayside and I was "helping someone else build their dream."
@gammie10176 ай бұрын
You just validated my frustration. The sighs, discussion about work post work, I felt this!!!
@pinkheartquiltingembroider65053 жыл бұрын
I hope this new endeavor works out for you. A lot of the things you talked about really made sense to me. I was laid off from my job after 33 years in corporate America. I was lucky enough to leave with a severance package that allowed me to take a step back to consider my next move. I have quickly realized that I should have left the company several years prior to the layoff. After 10 months at home feeling frustrated while trying to get a home business off the ground you are making some really good points. I will continue to watch your videos for inspiration and guidance as I too move along this dark, scary new path. Thank you!
@cb21323 жыл бұрын
I quit my job this year twice, the pandemic has pushed so many people out of their jobs to get better jobs and the better companies are surviving and right now employees have the advantage and can pick their employer. I don't know about the entreprenaurialiship part though, but I speak for the job change and minimalism.
@mschan35723 жыл бұрын
I quit my job a year ago and I couldn't find a job. I feel a bit regretted because I don't even know if it was the right decision.
@itsDjjayyArt2 жыл бұрын
@@mschan3572 that's why you have to have a plan have u looked into FBA or shoppify I'm trying to grow my custom shoe business
@sirvelasque3 жыл бұрын
my reasons are simple, high blood pressure levels , some bosses say you good, others say you do not anyway, I know this work is not something i'm really good at and last but not least, is taking the most of my time and my energy, this is stoping me from follow my dreams to become a programmer, and right now there is familly who can support me by the 10 months i need to made it
@CAPS_AMERICA2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your insights, dude. Like you, I just want to wake up on a Monday morning without dreading to go to work, or basically just have a good Sunday night's sleep without anxiety which keeps me awake all night just thinking that work week is coming and I'll be facing my toxic boss and colleagues.
@PS-lv1mr Жыл бұрын
that’s me this morning. Barely slept
@CAPS_AMERICA Жыл бұрын
@@PS-lv1mr what's your nature of work?
@PS-lv1mr Жыл бұрын
@@CAPS_AMERICA Programming. I came to the conclusion that I don’t mind the job itself, it’s just the commute and sitting in a cubicle all day. So I’m looking for fully remote roles right now.
@michellejanerobles2659Ай бұрын
this is so me
@tamtamz87333 жыл бұрын
The intro is great. 😂 Water was definitely a better option, lol.
@VincentChan3 жыл бұрын
I think so too haha
@netjavier75592 ай бұрын
My favorite part is your honesty of your background first. Puts things in the right context...❤
@phongstar7513 жыл бұрын
I'm working on a new job right now. I wanted to walk out of my current job a number of times because of the idiotic decisions from my boss to upper management. I'm literally the only one in my department with the most skills and they have failed to bring in someone who is similar. I am financially stable. I can live for a year being unemployed if that happens. I'm like more than three months ahead on my mortgage.
@jeancheng53323 жыл бұрын
Glad you made this follow up video sharing more realistic wisdom…I did quit my managerial job 3 times with 3 Fortune 500 companies even though I loved my jobs. First time was got married n had to move where my husband was getting trained. Second time quit to move to where I want to spend the rest of my life in beautiful San Diego after living 4 yrs in cooooold Rochester. Third time I quit to have more time to raise my kids while start my own business, be my own boss which was a dream I always had in the back of my mind. I always been frugal n hard working n a people person . I used the money we saved to buy my first apartment building in 1984 , then another then another. I create nice comfortable dwelling suitable to my tenants, take good care of them . In 37 yrs met a few bad apples but generally very rewarding mentally financially n gave me time to raise my two great kids with a husband with busy career and richly rewarded on my own right… I’m still frugal n hard working at 70 … your advices are all very wise for those ready to take the plunge or jump ship into a more rewarding life. Best wishes to you and your viewers who are contemplating career move.
@Jeah19113 жыл бұрын
I climbed the corporate ladder, made it to executive director in one of the top investment bank but I can’t take it anymore. I have saved up and can provide for the next 2 years but I have not build any other income stream over the years. Moral of the story, the more you wait, the harder it gets… more responsibilities at work, family etc. Regardless, I’m ready to move on and live the rest of my life on my own terms.
@VincentChan3 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for sharing Jea
@massiecure84222 жыл бұрын
i quit my job almost a month ago, makes me feel worthless a bit but after 3 years of hating my job i decided to take the time for myself
@05catrinajoy2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video. I'm finally submitting my resignation tomorrow after 2 yrs of pondering. This pandemic really awakened me.
@cw79112 жыл бұрын
how did it go?
@Pilkkukatti2 жыл бұрын
How are you now?
@05catrinajoy2 жыл бұрын
To all asking, unfortunately.. it didn't end well. I don't want to share specifics but I'm devastated. This is a great learning curve for me.
@sharonpaulson3127 күн бұрын
More info please @@05catrinajoy
@NirmalaHembram3 жыл бұрын
Wow I really loved this video. You articulated everything so well with examples from your own life. I've been feeling so drained and burnt out for the past year and I can relate to everything you said. Being an MBA grad I have everything I want, and yet I just spent all my time stressing about work and treating everything and everyone around me in a shitty way, which is very unlike me. I don't want to live like that anymore. I've now watched several of your videos in a row and you've gained a new subscriber in me. Keep it up and can't wait to watch all your future videos.
@johntan25823 жыл бұрын
MBA - wow ppl keep asking me to further study 📖
@VincentChan3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Niru! welcome to the family
3 жыл бұрын
Start a youtube channel :)
@FreedomofSpeech8653 жыл бұрын
Doing meaningful work, yes, that is the reason I went into my career. I have gone so far away from that goal in my current job. I am definitely doing something about this.
@VincentChan3 жыл бұрын
I believe in you!
@kingplutomania27032 ай бұрын
5:53 I know how you feel, to the point you don't want to speak to anyone, even my own son ...😢 This work is not worth my relationship with my son
@koppeFL3 жыл бұрын
The reason I want to quit my job is I’m not getting paid respectable amount. I know mentality of this company is. “Who do you think you are?”
@moonrise9873 жыл бұрын
this is THE MOST relatable video ever - man, u spoke my mind. ive no words. let me sit in silence and ponder on my life now..
@VincentChan3 жыл бұрын
thank you for watching!
@ghiottodavide3 жыл бұрын
I completely relate to the "sighs" scene. The _Heavy Sighs_ remix made me subscribe instantly. Quickest sub of my youtube "life"
@eastsideozzy3 жыл бұрын
the hero that we didn't know we needed but glad we got!
@vanesasredkova43513 жыл бұрын
Technically, I don't want to quit my job - I don't have one. I'm still in high school, so I think it's kind of normal. What I want is to get educated as far as possible about financial freedom, side hustles, investing and how to be able to control my own life. With that being said, thank you for all your amazing and helpful videos, you're doing a terrific job!!!
@TohmaYuu Жыл бұрын
I've just recovered after having a breakdown a few minutes ago because I'd have to go to work again tomorrow. I've tried everything to motivate myself, watched a lot of videos that tell me to be rational about my decisions. Still, here I am, lying in bed having drank my calming medicine and the thought that tomorrow is coming still fills me with dread. I think it's enough reason for me to quit. I don't even want to pursue happiness. I just want to escape this hell hole.
@PS-lv1mr Жыл бұрын
If you’re “calming medicine” is alcohol then that’s a sign you meed a new job bro
@ladytamara1503 Жыл бұрын
Start looking for an alternative source of income, when you have that, you will have the confidence to move on from that job
@uranblut3 ай бұрын
has your situation improved?
@acevisionaire86213 жыл бұрын
I don't mind getting up early it if means working on things that are productive and will increase my skillsets. But commuting to and from work along with the amount of time I spend there is a waste of time. It does not teach employees about financial freedom or the importance of living to your full potential. I don't plan on quitting anytime soon until I have enough streams of income and wealth built to where I don't have to look back.
@VincentChan3 жыл бұрын
Exactly! and that's a great plan, best of luck please keep me updated
@Meeloficial Жыл бұрын
I can’t tell you how accurate you are to me right now
@raymondcunanan11353 жыл бұрын
This is so good that i didn’t even notice i already finished the whole video. Nodding my head to everything you are saying .
@VincentChan3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha thank you raymond
@spaniencoachen3 ай бұрын
After I was 40+ I quit my dead-end ageist job and turned my know-how into 5K days. Now I see more zeros on my paycheck than ever, and I teach others to do the same. Turn your talents into a money-maker folks.
@gabrielng053 жыл бұрын
You had described what I felt everyday at my job before I quit
@Srstein842 жыл бұрын
YES toxic workplace is the #1 reason I left my job. Super deep sighs all the time
@Kanetsugi2 жыл бұрын
Damn… tbh I thought it was because of my smoking gas but now reading all of these comments I wonder if it’s my job…
@annielin28943 жыл бұрын
Yes Vincent mental health is also very important
@Ryu_Shotokan2 ай бұрын
It's not realistic to quit your job. These days there isn't much out there. I wish I could just do that.
@Repulseer2 жыл бұрын
I just found your channel, and I have to say, having left my dream job due to overwhelming mismanagement I became drained and passionless. I slowly recovered and realize that people always have the worse case scenario view of me leaving a good job after job hunting for over a year. Time passes and I accepted that I need a better job that respects and values my expertise.