Before You WASTE Another Year Of Your Life Away, WATCH THIS! | Gary Vee & Jay Shetty

Jay Shetty sits down once again with Gary Vee to talk about choosing to fight for your passion over what other people have to say. When you allow people and their opinions affect how you live, you give them control over your life. You are giving them the power to decide for you. You can change that but choosing how much of your life you want to share and to what extent is already considered an intrusion into your private life.
Gary Vaynerchuk is a serial entrepreneur, and serves as the Chairman of VaynerX and the CEO of VaynerMedia. Gary is considered one of the leading global minds on what’s next in culture, relevance and the internet. Known as “GaryVee” he is described as one of the most forward thinkers in business - he acutely recognizes trends and patterns early to help others understand how these shifts impact markets and consumer behavior. Today, he helps Fortune 1000 brands leverage consumer attention through his full service advertising agency, VaynerMedia.
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What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
01:39 “I do a good job of making my Dad popular.”
06:41 If it works for you, you can juggle multiple things
12:33 “I’m very happy because I’m very simple.”
18:11 We have demonized losing when losing is the best
22:26 You’re in control of your life
26:50 Leveraging family and personal life lacks authenticity
29:54 Lack of accountability is leading to so much unhappiness
34:29 What is your most worthy pursuit?
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[@AwokenEntertainment]

Two of my favorite humans talking complex ideas.. you can pick up so much from this conversation ❤‍🔥

[@Connectionsqueen]

This is such a great conversation! 💙

[@jessieberry6955]

Putting these two together is the amazing content. Real talks %100

[@brainstormd]

Don't aim for success if you want it; just do what you love and believe in, and it will come naturally. - David Frost

[@NathalieLazo]

So true! Love this! Thank you for sharing :)

[@brainstormd]

@@NathalieLazo 🙏

[@priscillatse1332]

Is the the same David Frost that does stocks ?

[@NathalieLazo]

@@brainstormd 🤗

[@CDSXCalibur]

💯💯💯💎

[@shikastormcrow6224]

Love how Gary mentioned we are in control of what we give the world permission to talk about by controlling what we put out or give out. So easy to forget there is a lot of control we do have over our lives, and it really is a matter of shifting our mindset, then in turn our actions. Thank you for sharing this Gary and Jay

[@NathalieLazo]

Beautifully said! We reap what we sow. I 100% agree with you. Happy it brought so much clarity in your life, Shika

[@NathalieLazo]

This message is for someone who needs to hear this and will fully understand it... You are not define by your circumstance or your past. It’s not what happened to you that determines your success in life; it is how you deal with those circumstances that determines your success in life. You are strong, you are capable and practice forgiveness (Forgiveness is for you; forgive your parents or anyone whom we have chosen to hurt us, to begin the process of healing and freedom. Remember: Forgiveness is for you to be freed, healed and happy. It’s a RESET BUTTON) and practice gratitude everyday. This will change the course of your life forever. Love you always and I believe in you wholeheartedly no matter what ✨❤️ - Nat

[@anjc8348]

Thank you Natalie............Stay Blessed

[@NathalieLazo]

@@anjc8348 Thank you so much, friend. Wishing you the same! :)

[@YasinNabi]

“The pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity. The optimist sees opportunity in every difficulty." - Winston Churchill!

[@Poetry4Peace]

Big up 🥰

[@eye9productions]

Really needed this reminder. Two of my favorites on a crucial topic in my life rn. Thank you 🙏🏾

[@thk929]

“Shut up everyone and let me speak” Gary Vee to the world.

[@ruthdesinta]

"Happiness comes in a lot of forms."

[@techychef]

The Dad moment was just so amazing... Gary, been an OG fan, so so proud of what you're doing... blessings.

[@YeseniaGuzman]

I loved this interview. wow. i have been listening to jay for a while, you have introduced me to so many amanzing people, with so many insightful and impactful testimonials/experience. Gary Vee was so trasparent and so knowledgeable on current social issues and ideologies. I related so much to the concepts of "and", "purple", and taking accountability. truly empowering

[@NathalieLazo]

Yes the whole podcast is very empowering and so was Gary and Jay. Thank you for sharing! I agree with you 100%! :)

[@lenagarman9677]

Couldn’t stop lol when Gary says about ‘being a trash man’! So 80’s and…. Btw we Need trash men!!! Loved this one. Going to listen again. Being a parent you feel as if you want everything for your kiddos- but listening to this material makes me realize I need to get them off the tit and let them flourish to the beings I helped mold. ( some good… some not so great! ) Thank You again. I always share these with my adult kids… hopefully they listen. ✨💝

[@dreamjok]

Love the parenting talk as it encourages me. I have told my 16 year old ever since he was young that “I will always be smarter, stronger and tougher than him. Prove me wrong.” He continues to progress in all three and it pushes me to continue to get better as well. (Don’t tell him he is probably smarter than me already but I make up for it with experience. 😂)

[@lauradeletant6243]

You two are so real ❤️ Thank you!

[@armikstepanyan9677]

Typing this before watching the episode, so I might be surprised, but honestly Gary's glorification of hustle culture is one of the things that made my life miserable for several years. Hustle did I as he "prescribed" only to realize that all I was thinking is working more and harder, money and all the relationships (family, friends, romantic) were marginalized. Very hard to rebuild what I destroyed and get back to balanced life but I am working...

[@NathalieLazo]

Thank you for sharing and being truthful! You're on a path to rebuilding, my friend. Call people up and ask for their forgiveness -- some will forgive and some won't but forgiveness is an important step into freedom and rebuilding - for you and leading by example because most won't take this vulnerable step into freedom. You'll feel lighter for doing those actions. Thank you for being honest with yourself; not many people look within themselves in taking full responsibility for our lives. I may not know you but I'm proud for deciding to rebuild and I admire you for sharing this. I believe you will. :)

[@Zimboprenuer]

In life learn to eat the meat and throw away the bones.

[@TheEuantf]

Well that’s the tightrope that he walks between being very selfish and very selfless Can’t continuously do just one of those because you’ll cause harm to yourself and/or others

[@jardenkt2763]

Yeah you should watch the rest of the video. Self-awareness is huge.

[@DannyBlair_]

IMO Gary doesn’t glorify hustle culture. I think his messaged is often misinterpreted and/or taken a little to the extreme.

[@mindedempath]

This really spoke to me! OMG I have a job...Not full-time but I am employed... But I am also running a six-figure business and now I am starting to teach spirituality. People tell me to quit my job all the time because it doesn't make sense for them to have a successful business and have a job. And now put spirituality in the mix and they lose their minds! And I am also super private. So much so that I don't even show my face on my platform. Yet, people still find value in my words. You can do it all if it is in your path! God will put the puzzle pieces together so easily for you, just watch!

[@btceth9409]

all the very best! good day :)

[@ReyRey.00]

Jay i've been always a fan of the podcast and you . And recently a fan of gary too . The combination of you two and the conversation is always amazing and eye opening for me , thank you 🙏❤️

[@relaxingserenitysounds]

I really love this podcast. Thank you guys so much!!! 💞

[@staceylouise2412]

The timing of my viewing and hearing the content in this chat has been a blessing for sure❣️

[@whenthemomentchoosesyoupodcast]

You give the world permission by what you share. You are in control! I love this-just starting out and love this conversation!!!

[@figward]

“I think eliminating merit and demonizing competition has been a misstep.” Absolutely!!

[@rhondabenson2629]

This hit home about stop judging. Not up to me to decide how someone else should act or be.

[@Vinny_108]

Always so much insight. Working on so many of these things. Learning to be more patient with myself.

[@yasmina120323]

I have attempted to meditate many times in my life and prior to this CD the only success I've experienced is with live guided meditation. kzbin.infoUgkxzpa8CIfZcihW4Z0F_ja0QF3W9KIatrsq This is the first CD I've used that cuts through my unmedicated ADHD and enables me to truly relax and experience a quiet and energizing interval. The instructors voice is very soothing and pleasant to listen to. I am easily able to sit successfully through the entire CD, and for quite some time after. I cannot adequately express how tremendously helpful this CD has been on my spiritual journey!! Two thumbs up and 10 stars!

[@whenthemomentchoosesyoupodcast]

So many golden nuggets…love the part about not narrowing focus when your passionate at more than one! We must be willing to fail!!so much

[@LoganKilpatrickYT]

Jay, just came across your podcast for the first time, and I loved it! Thank you

[@NathalieLazo]

Oh wow that is awesome! Congrats :)

[@abdullakhan2461]

Awesome Podcast, Gary is Always Splendid Human!!

[@AnjuliMack]

Adore you both! Thank you

[@gg-xb5pu]

You’re a great interview. Thanks for sharing

[@VibesndCulture]

I love listening to gary vee 👍

[@treytheriot]

Jay is the man monk mindset is sought after, definitely recommend to give his book a read if you're on a spiritual journey as well as life in general.

[@tanyamostowaya]

Love you guys 👍🏼🙌🏽 great podcast 🌸

[@aminaakram6779]

purple 💜i wasnt ready to hear you guys until now as I probably wouldnt have taken any of it in as it didnt resonate with me and my situation. It does now and I could listen all day to this level of conversation. I wish my 15 year old could listen and really hear what you are saying. I will ask him to and even offer to pay him to listen as I feel this is necessary education... just found you Gary and love your energy and your patience.

[@carolynnyakush2024]

Excellent. Listened to twice. Really helpful. Thanks so much for every word!!!

[@00Sherry0]

When he said "everybody just pointing and we just have to start with ourselves" that was really powerful words .. you can`t change your life until you realize it`s about you not others . Thank you so much that was so informative

[@causecaos]

This was such a good conversation, really hit me about sharing! Thanks 😊

[@NathalieLazo]

That's awesome! I can relate with you! What has hit you the most? :)

[@staceylouise2412]

I love you both, thank you 🙏 😊❣️

[@BritBratTV]

This is by far my favorite one you have done, thank you so much! You guys are incredible. I create content and listening to your stuff always motivates me to make better choices. THANK YOU!!!

[@TheGardenofEdun]

Two of my faves chopping it up! We love to see it 🙌🏿

[@lowpolar]

amazing interview! deep yet so clear and easy to take in.

[@andrewcabiso]

Love this podcast!! Thank u Jay

[@NathalieLazo]

That's great! Same! What did you like about the podcast, Andrew? :)

[@AidaMemisevicTV]

Ohhh... I so resonate with much of what is being said here!

[@brymaezaya]

2 of my favorite people!

[@newsonscale]

Dopest piece of content I have heard in decades! This needs to be listened to!

[@VariousLayerz]

This is AWESOME!

[@joemeyer9654]

So much happiness when I saw this pop up in my recommended...

[@christophergibbon7676]

This! Cemented some of lingering thoughts I have been having

[@artwithjenny]

Thankyou Gary and Jay. THIS has resulted in a breakthrough for me. PURPLE has solved something that I struggled with for a long time. Love you both!

[@juliusliek9698]

Love it! Wish it last for 3 hours!!

[@ruoqiishere522]

Love this one!

[@newgvan555]

Awesome advice, we think alike G 😊🙏💗🌍

[@qba1999]

I was not expecting Gary on this show. This is going to be the greatest episode ever. Also recorded at Garry’s office 😍

[@NathalieLazo]

Yeah, likewise! It was great seeing them both share ideas from two different perspectives! -- WOW! 🤯

[@nichetechhd]

The best PAYBACK is getting yourself together and NEVER looking back!

[@DhanushRajGN]

Superb conversation. = Feeling no 1 Insightful + Intriguing = Feeling no 2 Opened up a new world to me = Feeling No 3

[@theodorawedgeworth8500]

Doubling down on core. I really like these words.

[@zorasabacka3368]

Thank You ❤️

[@chung-han]

this talk is deep, really love it!

[@ayyubjazeem2077]

Two of my favourite people on the screen at the same time…

[@UpwardKev]

This was an enlightening episode with none other than the man @garyvee. There’s so much value in this 36:38 min chat.

[@PassionLovePursuitPodcast]

Absolutely love this! So valuable

[@NathalieLazo]

Extremely valuable! 🤗

[@adhdfitgirl]

Best podcast I have listened to in a while 👌🙏thank you

[@plutoplexus8656]

Agreed

[@HappyLifewithMaria]

Jay you are an inspiration 👏🙂👏

[@newgvan555]

Great interview Jay 😊🙏

[@joanneshalit8494]

so helpful to listen to. I feel like it isn't too late to make the future interesting.

[@EludeStalwart]

Gary's perspective on success and Jay's ability to "go there" with regards to pretty much any topic of life is so refreshing! Thank you both for allowing the world to be a fly on the wall during these talks. I always tell my son you need some fiber in your diet if you wanna help your body flush out them toxins (hot cheetohs 🤣), and I equate listening to either one of these GOATs 🐐🐐 to fiber for our mind. Much love and respect 🙏💯

[@NathalieLazo]

LOL! That's funny :) That was a great due for having both on this talk for sure! Thank you for sharing! :)

[@overarch888]

Great questions Jay so considered 👏

[@ajewonline4588]

These guys are the best!!!!!!!

[@NathalieLazo]

They really are!! Loved how they were on the same show together! :)

[@tysonhaldane6719]

i learnt a lot from this.

[@vibewithdipen8473]

Thanks to Jay for for digging in deep and bringing different side of perspective from Gary, usually the host questions the similar type of questions and Gary ends up speaking same stuff over and over again which is not his fault that's just his truth. But listening to this felt like a breath of fresh air, so much value packed in.

[@DeDoDiDoBundo]

Width × length × height ..deep ..Loose style boundaries ..What an independent approach☺️ ..A concept that can breathe..and can jump and smile ..Love you; Both of you I think 😁🤗 Thanks so much for good day😍😇😎

[@sigilpop]

The most amazing guest in On Purpose!. I enjoyed the interview. Honestly the title of the video doesn't do justice to Gary. He never makes moral judgements about how you use your time. He even encourages to take long periods off if you truly need it. Gary is not your average "motivational speaker" and sometimes it pisses me off seeing him portrayed as such. Other than that, excellent interview Jay!

[@Goddessattractor]

Great way to start the day!

[@NathalieLazo]

Absolutely! I agree with you, Dana! :)

[@varungupta5706]

Fabulous 😍

[@heathergonzalez6890]

Thanks for the shout out to Garbage Men. My dad was one for many years. Great interview!! Purple and and also getting comfortable with loosing. 👍🏽

[@DrPatrickKingsep]

Hi, such a valuable video and content Jay and Gary. Shifting your mindset can create such major life changes right? Jay, thank you for finding such inspirational people to interview and then sharing the content with people far and wide - you ask such poignant questions and you are so authentic too. Thankyou!

[@DariuszTech]

Such a great interview. Really enjoyed watching and listening to you guys 🙂

[@sachinthanabandara2885]

Great episode 😊🔥🔥

[@paytonrooster972]

PURPLE!!!

[@dlaublock]

you guys rock lets get that purple life out there

[@jimicunningable]

THIS ISN'T A MENTAL HEALTH SHOW, YOU STAR !@#$ER JAY!!!!!!!!

[@hanzdownsports]

Great convo. I like the part when you guys spoke about winning and losing. I always talk too my son about these things b/c he hates too lose.

[@10unitrader]

Finally Get some valuable lessons ☺️

[@PRIYAJAY-SHETTY]

Love to watch Garrrey

[@TheSportsandFilmFellowship]

Do what you love ❤️

[@NathalieLazo]

Absolutely! ❤

[@EludeStalwart]

12:48 Cheetah on the left is like "One more time for the kids in the back!" 🤭🙏💯

[@fred-nu8in]

Legends 💕

[@NathalieLazo]

Truly the best, yes!!

[@shreeaar]

Omgg so excited for this podcast 💞🙏

[@abdulafeelgk9337]

Jay you are doing something incredibly important for people like me🙏🙏

[@NathalieLazo]

He really is. He's extremely inspirational!

[@fieldtofounder]

Absolutely love this. Thank you ❤️‍🔥✨

[@thexclusivek]

Reading the book right now Jay Shetty. I remember when your first video on Facebook blew up.. I never shared anything before then. But I shared that video so many years ago. It put me one journey to self awareness, thank you! 🙏 - Kaiz

[@NathalieLazo]

Oh wow that's incredible! Thank you so much for sharing! :)

[@fred-nu8in]

Legend

[@NathalieLazo]

Extremely! Incredible people :)

[@Poetry4Peace]

Gary vee is amazinf first time heard him n love the fail talk being in competition constantly and not lettin parents jus babysit u for ever as that's where i am in constant demon mode and don't get any good convos with my Dad no wisdom nothing no matter however HARD I TRY TO make something work out👀✋⚠️😷😫🤒

[@imDonDiestro]

Love this episode. I wish Gary would explain what he means by he struggles with candor. Everything he stands for by definition is candor. Is he just mistaking the word for something else? 🤔

[@formisfunction1861]

Accountable Ant = powerful!

[@graceygracey2764]

I feel in every episode Jay shetty find explainations of his own confused questions and justification of his own through others person

[@PRIYAJAY-SHETTY]

Patience is to key sucess not wastage to ....

[@marble.lionne]

❤️

[@CDSXCalibur]

Good Shxt bro

[@Emakjiji6]

Don’t pursue success, attract success

[@Shipcars_with_Daulet]

28:44 I’m one of those 500 people Gary 🤣