Beginning the process of Clearing my Clutter!

[@Ladybug-uf7uh]

Hello! Tomorrow is my 70th birthday! I have been decluttering seriously for the last couple of years and the enormity and sentimentality of the task is much more than I realized. I did decluttering/cleaning at my daughter's house after she died and cleaned out for my mother and mother-in-law after they passed. For myself personally, it is much harder because of all the memories. Good Luck to all of you cleaning out; don't despair - we can do it!

[@yvonneiversen8749]

Happy 71st birthday to you!

[@susanorfila9152]

Hi Kate. I love your videos! Here is my clean out story. My mother was an award winning knitter and I inherited all of her sweaters, scarves and hats. It’s been 9 years since she passed, so I gave myself permission to donate some of her sweaters to my local thrift shop, which I did reluctantly. When sitting in church one Sunday, I saw an elderly lady wearing one of my mom’s beautifully made sweater. I was so happy to actually see it being worn by this dear lady, and was glad that she could use it to keep warm. Good luck with your clean out!

[@lucyl.4356]

Phone your knickers.......oh my gosh Kate thank you for that. You have caught me off guard and laughing so hard my eyes are tearing. I needed that belly laugh. I just love you Kate!

[@leannemori9688]

Don't beat yourself up, Kate. Listen to your body and take care of yourself. You did quite well with your editing of your wardrobe. That's a real accomplishment. The clothes that fit but not keeping, you could make a memory quilt

[@happyheidishow-2s268]

My dear Kate, YOU spark joy, even when you don't feel well. I know I don't post much, but whenever doing stuff around the house, I love to take you along and have you talk to me. So around here, between my husband and me, you've gotten the nickname "Come-along-Kate". Thanks for being the lovely human which you are!-

[@083purplecola]

When severe back pain gets me down, oftentimes I will start the video list from the first and listen (I can't watch often due to eye health). Hearing her calming voice is soothing.

[@happyheidishow-2s268]

Amy Adkins I so agree!!

[@katehenry2718]

Thank you for taking us through the ordinary. Not everyday is spinning beautiful yarn or glazing beautiful pots. We enjoy those tremendously ))). ..but you inspire us to do the ordinary as well. Clearing out the not-wonderful is rewarding. It lets us know we are worth beautiful in every aspect of our lives. Our not-wonderful can be someone else's perfect. Permission to let it sit for 6 weeks in the middle of the doing is reassuring that what we do is enough. The really ratty can be transformed into carbon for the garden. I love your choices of music. They are calm even when there is a bit of spice. I am so glad the lime green sofa extends all the way to my house. Hugs on you Lady. )))

[@munchkinheaven]

Hi Kate, so glad you feel you have returned a corner and have a little more energy, the danger is trying to cram everything into that small window of energy and crashing, the aftermath of overdoing any fatigue syndrome is depressing as you are then having to rest and watching things pile up again and back where you started. It’s a bit like learning to walk again, baby steps. So glad you feel that you can vlog again, it’s lovely to have you back! I have been watching a newer channel to the crafting, knitting, sewing and crochet world of KZbin and i think you will enjoy her podcasts as she is relaxing to watch and unintentionally funny, and reminds me a bit of Alan Bennett’s talking heads series, but she is unscripted of course. You may have already found her channel, it’s “Stitched by Mrs D” and her name is Paula. Take care of yourself Kate and remember, baby steps lol X

[@annbarnes5172]

Great to see you Kate. Here's an idea for you. Take that lovely tunic you made off the body form and hang it in your blue section (even if it isnt hemmed), THEN, choose your absolute favourite non-fitting joy sparker from the pile and drape THAT on the body form. Tah Dah, a bit of joy every time you enter the room. Lose the rest, since there is SO much more joy to come. Take it slow and easy mate xxx

[@bon47ful]

Your video isn boring, Kate, because YOU’RE not boring. If five minutes a day is all you can put to the task, that’s a start. Set a timer. Get done what you can in five minutes, and then rest. Then put in another five minutes again tomorrow. I read a book called A YEAR TO CLEAR by Stephanie Bennett (or Stephanie Vogt Bennett) which you might enjoy and which might be helpful. It addresses all sorts of emotional/psychological issues behind our *collections* of things, especially for us crafting folks and hobbyists, but not in a heavy-handed way. Most of the chapters are only 1 or 2 pages long. It really helped me focus and prepare to move out of state several years ago. God bless you on this journey. 💞 May your health continue to improve. 🌸💐

[@martaaberg3330]

There is a lovely woman in Australia called Evelyn Wood. She is a seamstress and a keen opponent of "fast fashion". She teaches sewing and refashioning of garments. Last year she started something called Monday mending. Every Monday, we chose something out of our mend pile and deal with it. Of course, you could do more if you wanted, but just knowing every Monday I will fix one thing has been just the little boost I needed to actually conquer some mending. I did what you are doing earlier this year. My closet contents shrunk down more than 50%. It was wonderful. Even if it was something I loved, if I wasn't able to wear it, I focused on moving it along to the charity shop so somebody else could love it. I am glad you are feeling better, and shall hold you in thought and prayer for a complete recovery.

[@glennarenner4239]

Just now watched your video on down sizing. I have spent the whole Summer cleaning out the basement after living here 60 years. It's been exhausting ! Now I need to tackle the main living area. It's hard letting go of things. I am a perfectionist and parents saved everything as they went thru the depression. Kate is a delight to listen to her U-Tubes.

[@lynnlange1147]

My friend recently fought off something, too (not flu or Covid) and her doctor had her take extra iron because your body is working overtime! You keep us inspired, you know, so take care of yourself! I finally got rid of a wonderful desk my daughter wanted me to save but never managed to take with her last week. I could have moved some things around to "make room for it" but I didn't. It felt pretty good knowing someone else is going to need it, especially with so many kids doing school at home. You make me want to go through my closet again (I have done it several times since I retired and still have too much!) and I just wrote it down in my "must do" list for the week!

[@nancyblackstock3278]

WE moved out of our home for 13 months several years ago to do a big renovation on our house, we only took what we needed for six months (that is how long we thought we would be out of the house). It was surprising how happy we were with none of our 'treasures' about. Since back I have had a big sort out and given away or sold many things. I now have a yearly routine where I give myself a month to tidy one room and remove that which I haven't used or don't need. I have a couple of empty drawers from the last tidy in the lounge!! I am a crafter so still need to keep stuff for knitting, quilting sewing etc. Love your Vlogs, so while you get better I revisit your older Vlogs. Take care, with love.

[@yvonneiversen8749]

I enjoyed this video, because we all must face the beasts in our home that Rob of of our joy and energy. I too am ill at this time the desire is there but the spirit is weak. I did start my 1st crib quilt last night at class. The top is cut, one complete square is sewn, and the rest pinned and ready for sewing. I felt accomplished in that. The baby shower is April 10th so less than a month away. It's a simple 9 patch x 6. Unicorn's. I'm happy I have finally done it, attempting to learn, as I started this endeavor in 1975 Kate! How time gets away. Glad you're starting to feel better in this video.

[@mariesewell8020]

Agnes’ quilt has a touch of Monet Water Lilies about it from a distance

[@janetvisochi-baum7572]

in one of your videos that i recently watched you had asked us to mention how we found out about you - well i can't believe that i see the item that brought me over to you - its only seen in the beginning clip and the ending clip - well all the way on the right - in the back of your room - there is a window - and on your window you have this opened quilt curtain - from what i understand you can hand it in a doorway or on a window - i don't know what it's called - but my friend Becky watches you - and she made it - and was very proud of how it came out - so she told us about you AND lol - i am sooooooooo happy she did - you are the only one i've been watching all day - every day - for the last several days - you do everything that i love and enjoy - quilting - cooking - pottery - baking - making things lol - i am so glad to know you!!!

[@jamiethrogmorton2540]

I really like the way you work on the big projects…steadily or when it suits you, and you do finish! Agnes has the love of 100k+ people in that beautiful quilt! She is well loved.❤

[@wendywilson1736]

I have been working on that for years. It intensified about 9 years ago, when we ended up having to start clearing out my parents home. I try not to acquire anything, unless I really need it, now. Your storage area is not bad at all. It is nowhere what we had to clear, which took us almost 5 years. After working on their house each time, I'd come home and want to clear out unused items at home. When I am recovering, I like to sort, and purge, since it keeps me from thinking about what I was feeling like. Even one little drawer, one box, one shelf is something. Then I'll read, or maybe stitch, or watch videos..

[@sandeebrown9860]

Today is the first day that I watched your KZbin presentations. I live in Michigan in the lower peninsula on the very very tip of the mitten. I am 77 years old. I have absolutely BingeWatch today I love your program your presentation your house your activities your talents your garden all of it I have been watching everything randomly I have nothing in order. You are so amazing I just love

[@jodietheaccidentalhomestea2846]

So glad you’re finding your way back. We miss you, but do be careful and don’t overdo!

[@margarethastings6010]

Morning Kate, so good to see you back again, don’t push yourself to hard, take it easy, know offence but we aren’t getting any younger I’m (73), 🙈 so know what I’m talking about, when we get ill it takes our body a little longer to get back on our feet, so you take it easy, and take good care of yourself, it’s just great for all of us to see you back again, blessings from Scotland

[@charlottesutton4373]

Dear Kate I’m sure you can tell by the many comments we have missed you terribly. Continue getting better and take care. Hugs from the USA.

[@joycesandifer3779]

I have so much stuff, I bought all kinds of crafts when I was working to have when I retired, you can over 80 years accumulate, but I don’t consider myself a hoarder. I rented a small booth at a collectible shop and have put in all my downsizing things and for the last 6 years kept it stocked. Last year was a challenge with COVID. In 2019 I had the virus and hospitalized awhile and it took me a year and am finally feeling better. Hope you are feeling well. So enjoy our visits

[@elizabethprior4968]

This has so many reverberations for me, I can sympathise with your lack of energy. I suffer with fibromyalgia and often have periods of exhaustion and it becomes so frustrating when you can’t do what you want. You have to slow down and pace yourself. Long hard days like driving down to your dad’s and back you will find very draining. I have the same problem with junk - it’s finding the energy that’s the problem definitely a case of the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak. Just take your time and you’ll get there. Take care, big gentle hugs, pace yourself and don’t overdo things

[@StitchingtoHealMary]

I get the energy (lack thereof) and fibro thing. I say what is most important to do today. Sometimes I get to it sometimes I do not. I don't worry about it.

[@madhattersoriginal6258]

Kate, I have what you have exactly. In bed watching this video cos I'm so sick. Not Covid, I was just tested. My thoughts on memory clothes...Cut off pieces and make cushion covers, book covers even a tote or storage bag. Just fast, easy organic none perfect. So many old outdated clothes don't sell at charity shops and go for scrap even if they aren't even worn. Then you can Spark joy as you sew. Hope were both better soon. 9 weeks sick for me so far. Hugs Kate in New York. 😍

[@claudiarios6587]

Hello Kate, while I ,a am decluttering my big house, I started by the open floor plan areas, as in case somebody visits, it is more presentable. I am now also going through old albums from which some photos were out of them. I have envelopes per year for the photos around in boxes and again other envelopes. Then I write down per album the year and places in a notebook. Sort envelopes by decade and slowly but surely the photos are going back to where they belong.I also stick a paper tape in the back with the year and have the albums per year in my book case. Easy to find a year. I watch your videos while doing this at my desk. Enjoy your day. USA.

[@PHJoy]

If you're like me the socks are still on the bed... Hopefully you have a spare ;) Great work getting the clothing items down to 15! This is definitely NOT a boring "conversation"! I find your perspective very helpful. Not all approaches to clutter work for everyone. Factoring in emotions, attachments and the potential burn-out looming are part of the process, indeed. Observing yours helps put me in the mode to tackle mine with a balance of persistence and patience. Chipping away at it! Ebbing and flowing, as we must!

[@sandramyer7081]

I’m here now to be back with you, Kate! I feel I’m here with you and am careful who you - I live in Florida but I use to lived and started quilting, Massachusetts- hope you are better and good and I love seeing you every day- 🥰Sandra Myer🐈

[@djrich96]

Agnes' quilt is really coming along, it's really beautiful.

[@irenehulston3635]

I watched that young lady too, it really worked for me big time. I emptied my home, the most blissful thing ive ever done. Ps my knicker drawer is the talk of my family. Sooo tidy ❤

[@kathyvelasquez3682]

When I purge, I try to think how happy someone else will be to be able to find this at their local thrift store. I know, if I kept stuff and cut it up I would just end up with more stuff I would eventually need to get rid of. So out the first time!! Wipe my hands of the mess!!

[@krismorris1810]

Kate, all I can see is some nice material, ready for a memory quilt! Nice to cut up, but still have! I did this when my husband died, using his shirts and buying suitable fabric to coordinate. It kept me busy in dark days for a long time, good luck All love, Kris

[@DottyGran247]

kris morris that’s a great idea 👍

[@rachelburgener819]

kris: I think that’s a wonderful idea! As you said it helped you to reflect, cherish, heal and mend your heart and soul🥰 Gods blessings❤️😀

[@ginnybambino8117]

That was my thought exactly! Just cut a square or two out and then slowly stitch them together when you have a minute or two to make a nice quilt that will "spark joy" because you really liked the garments. In the end, you will have a very special quilt just for you. And, boy do I really need to do what you did. I actually do have a couple bags of things to be donated but in the covid environment, there haven't been places accepting donations. I just received an email today that one charity is beginning pick ups so I need to be brave like you and make a pile of the rest of the stuff in my closet and make some more donation bags.

[@annrubino6252]

Those darned brick walls are popping up everywhere, Kate. This was so inspirational to me as I have experienced the very same 'syndrome' this past year and everything just exhausts me to even think of it - not our normal behaviour, is it. I too, will persevere and try to deal with just one thing at a time. Thank you.

[@karinaeichmann1595]

Be an essentialist, keep what you need and love and toss the rest, but keep what is essential to Kate for Kate to be happy and healthy

[@210dixiedee]

I have clean out my clothes and any cotton shirt I cut up for fabric scraps. Then when a make a quilt for family they have a part of me in it.

[@joharmon2148]

I was thinking of this while watching her pile the clothes up.

[@lindiuys4327]

Kate, I am so so glad you're feeling better. I really missed you. I'm a nurse, in South Africa. Doing the terrible swabs for the Covid. Love Lindi.

[@chokko4912]

Thank you !I very much appreciate your work!

[@AdiarraS]

Stay safe, Lindi! *HUGS*

[@083purplecola]

Stay well, Lindi! 💙

[@debbiepowell4677]

Recently moved from a three story house to a 736 sq ft cabin in the woods. No closets. I have a small wardrobe so purging was a must. I truly understand the emotional task this is. I do feel very good now that it is done and dressing in the morning is so stress free! Love your videos and hope your health will continue to improve. Love and blessings from the USA.

[@twyla2575]

Yay!! So glad to see you again. Kudos to you for not succumbing to being totally "Kondo-ized"!!! I admire your independent thinking and realization that de-cluttering is more an emotional process than simple re-organization.

[@cynthiamoon4315]

The word tights is so perfect. These days the tights are made so that the waistband doesn't cut you in half but my memory from the 70s tells me that all tights cut you in half and I put off wearing them even though I need them and have several dresses I love. tights tights tights tights.... I need to start calling them another name. I've had to do many purges over the year but I'm impressed with 15!

[@ladyrevivalstudio]

I have been very sick also. Actually since February, some days with zero energy. My doctor was convinced my results were a false negative. I had not decluttered in 30 years and I had a resell business and enough sewing and craft supplies to open my own store. I started decluttering so my kids wouldnt have to clear out my mess. The trick to getting rid of stuff for me, was finding a place to donate where I knew it would truly be appreciated. At first the sparking joy thing elluded me, but after I did it a while, I knew exactly what it meant and it made it easier for me to let go of things. I have donated five or six vanfuls so far and havent skimmed the surface. It has been a very slow go because energy is a huge issue. Some days, I may only clean a small drawer or bin, but it all adds up. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

[@sherirae]

Go gently with yourself Kate. I understand the desire to remove stuff from cluttering your life while also holding it in your heart. I have just done the hardest declutter. I resigned from my paid employment. It's scary but good. Time to tackle everything else now.

[@paigemckelvey8781]

You can bet that many of us who have just watched this video can relate. Fun to see that you are saying things like "doesn't fit but still like" and so on. Really enjoyed this video, made me chuckle a couple of times.

[@wendymaddock7705]

Kate it like me I went into my craftroom last Monday pulled everything out put my book shelving into my bedroom then went into the living room tipped all my boxes out and went through them all that part all done now I gave craft stuff to my granddaughters while they are in lockdown my daughters are classroom assistants so will have a lot of fun making things xx 😘

[@nancymandle5215]

Congrats on the progress you made sorting - we don’t always give ourselves credit for the exhausting decision-making process. You have done well with specific categories, and are well on your way! A delightful video!

[@brendaclark4152]

Good job kate. It’s hard to let go of THINGS. It is for me. The English paper piecing quilt is really coming along and I love the colors. Just take your time and try not to overtire. Love brenda😘

[@rebeccafoust2963]

glad you are improving. Thanks for the update. May you continue to improve and return to our regular visits. You are so missed. Take the time you need.

[@HumbleVoyager]

Hi, Kate! So good to see you. The nice thing about decluttering or whatever you choose to call it, is that it all waits patiently for you to be ready! My purpose in decluttering is to reduce what I have in preparation for moving. I moved to where I live now 39 years ago when I married. After all these years, it's my turn to have him uproot his life and move to where I want to be, which is right back in my hometown of Dallas, Texas! But if anyone thinks I'm moving 39 years worth of stuff, they have got another think coming!! Best wishes to you, Kate! Be well!!!

[@elizabethglenbentley7882]

Don't ever feel bad about slow progress especially with the task you're into Kate. I've done this many times over the years when I was well and also when I've been just tired. We don't realise it but this is emotionally draining and consequently physically draining. Do what you can. Just stick to the goal in your own time.

[@bothybird]

"Hello, is that my nickers?" = we erupted with laughter! So glad to see that you again. Do hope that your return to good health is slow and steady. Baby steps hey :)

[@embroidnurse]

Wendy Kemp England 😂

[@annieoldfield1]

Made me laugh too - so good to see Kate laughing again even if it was pre-recorded.

[@pattiecoxey]

It's been said that if you don't use it in a years time you don't need it🤷 I don't know and I am 67 yrs old with clutter as well. Funny I watched this video because I have been sorting my fabric and re-folding it to organize it's cupboard. I thought I would destash more than I did. I think as we get older it is much harder to let things go. I hope you feel better soon. My husband and I did have Covid this past July. It was awful but no hospital thankfully. I have some lingering side effects though. I hope that sorts itself out soon. Dr says it will take time. I spent this last summer buying a lot of new fabric since I haven't quilted in over 10 yrs. We had a terrible wildfire scare almost had to evacuate. My Juki and fabric were what I packed along with a few clothes. I got the sewing bug again and can't wait to get on with it as soon as I get things in my sewing area put back together without the cobwebs haha! 😊🙋🦋

[@donnamariecorrigan]

Agnes's quilt looks like Monet's Watergarden ...lovely. Hope your energy starts to come back I had something similar and lasted 10 weeks...no fun. So glad you are doing what your body needs a day at a time.

[@reginakeller3038]

Listening to you going through this issue feels like you have a window into my life! I'm struggling with this issue now, needing to rethink and decide on how to declutter for the first time in over 30 years.....It's tiring, yet making space that's refreshing. As I continue, room by room, knowing you're doing the same, my tasks will feel lighter. So glad to see and hear from you again. Love to you in all your endeavors ❤

[@djh1775]

I keep checking to see if Kate is back, so I was thrilled to see your face. I miss seeing your regular videos. For your sake (and mine) I hope your energy grows each day and you get to feeling good again. Maybe this series will inspire me to clean out my house too.

[@Ladythyme]

Many Blessings....I learned a bit of a guideline where clothes and things are concerned from my aunt who always seemed to have a “Tidy” home...she once said to me... “If I don’t use something in a year to a year and half... I get rid of it. If I needed it or liked that much I would have used it within that time” ...and oh has that helped me! We have four Seasons here in the NW US so I’ve always had a problem thinking maybe I’ll need it next season but what she said cover all seasons and made so much sense.

[@carmenbailey1560]

Hi Kate, hats off to you for starting the process for downsizing your material things. Maybe you starting this will motivate me to do the same. Happy to see your on the mend, stay well & rested. 👍❤️😊

[@angelaw1317]

I've just found your channel Mrs. Kate. I am a quilter of 23 years now. I truly enjoy your sharing your thought process. I am aware this is an older video, but the clothes that really bring me joy are usually just worn out. So I find a way to use the fabric in a quilt. Thank you for the time and effort you put into making these videos. God bless.

[@Teresasblaze]

I went through a few months of unexplained tiredness last year that I put down to long covid. Declutering is quite refreshing when it’s done. Glad you are better know.

[@r.bennett4970]

Kate, your video is truly inspirational, but in ways that you don’t really know. Getting rid of things are usually not really easy for many reasons and for many of us. But it should not stress one out. Take your time, tomorrow is always going to arrive and you may feel differently about things. De cluttering is like life... take it one day at a time. Organizing is in the same category, too. Be well, take care and stay safe. ❤️ many blessings.

[@grumpy_poo]

If you are thinking of' tidying up' the cats... point them in my direction . x The way I get rid of stuff when I'm in a get rid mood is... I go to each room pick one thing that I haven't used for months ( years!).. and put it in the Charity shop or freecycle.. 5 rooms = 5 things less ( usually more than 5 if I'm on a roll ) ... plus If I get something new, something old has to go out.. otherwise I would be the hoarder next door... but there's always room for a recycled cat or two.... Chins up, you may hopefully start to feel better now the weather has cooled...

[@Lynne-G]

Hi Kate, I'm happy you are on the mend. WOW was this timely. I have been wanting to go through the clothes for a long time and just can't face it - mostly because there is nothing wrong with the clothes other than they don't fit hahaha (but not really funny). Anyway I made a start today and I emptied the shelving part of my wardrobe cleaned it all down and placed things back that I wanted and still fit. Then I tackled the stuff on hangers. Some was so hard to give up, but the reality is when will I ever get back to that size again. I have kept hoping and hoping but all that seems to happen is more weight. I didn't get through it all today, I couldn't face trying some of the things on so I was kind to myself and stopped and I've given myself permission to take comfort in that I got a start. Take care Kate and everyone here on the sofa!

[@tbrown2302]

I must have been tired because I couldn’t stop laughing when you called your nickers. It was so nice to hear your voice but be careful and continue to rest all you need. Of course now I’m motivated to go through my closet and apply your theory of what to keep or pass on. We recently began de-cluttering big items and my craft room in anticipation of selling our house to downsize and I can honestly say I don’t miss the stuff except a few crafty things which are in temporary storage. Blessings.

[@lyndasnart7823]

Comfortable kicking back on the big green couch watching your fight with energy levels ... really identifying ........take care see you again soon 😷🌍👍🇦🇺☕️

[@cathafloat1519]

You’ll like this...... keep your unwanted tights for when you render your beeswax. We put all the manky wax from old frames into a pop sock/cut off tights, tie a knot in the top and suspend it on a stick over an old jug (we have one specially for this task), put it in a warm oven to melt, just over 64 degrees C. The clean wax will drip through. We pour the melted wax into a takeaway container and, hey presto, you have an ingot of lovely clean wax. The tights and manky bits can just be thrown away. We can trade the ingot for new foundation wax at our local bee supplier shop. 🐝😘

[@AdiarraS]

What an AWESOME way to reuse those tights!!!

[@sylviasidwell8949]

brilliant! step by step is the way to go. I have been doing this, don't rush. I have a list, jobs most needing doing at the top. one job a day is important,, no more, too exhausting. you have less overwhelmingly down days. you won't get to the end if you keep wiping yourself out. I has taken me 10 months but all sorted now. just one job a day. miss you but only want you back when you are well and strong Sylvia xx

[@karentzn]

Hi Kate when I retired and got much bigger I kept some of the clothing I really loved and put into bags. I’m now a diabetics and glad I saved some of the clothing. I’m now at the stage where I must buy new smaller clothing. I gave my sister a large pile and the rest for charity. Felt so good. I love the spark and joy idea of clothing

[@amyinboulder]

At 20:52 you said the word that I always say to myself when cleaning out my clothes closet: Ruthless. I just take that as my mantra and the two year rule - if you haven't worn it in two years, you probably won't wear it again. Just be ruthless, Amy. I guess it's just a way for me to get honest with myself and really do the task at hand. Now the real challenge is to be honest about the new things I bring in!

[@LizStevens-o6v]

I am so with you sister! Did my clothes downsizing & it was very emotional but put my lovely things quickly into the car & went off to the charity shop were someone else will get to enjoy them. No chance of changing my mind!

[@zanhoward4368]

Lovely to see you again. O know what you mean about feeling overwhelmed with clothes etc. I live with my husband of 53 years,. My son, daughter and granddaughter lives with us too. We have a four bedroom house that is packed to the rafters. Clothes, clothes and more clothes. If they aren't in the wash basket, they are I the washing machine or on the washing line or in the ironing basket! Their warobe's are full,. Shoes are everywhere yet they buy more stuff. I totally overwhelmed and in despair. My granddaughter is due to move to live with her brother in Tenerife. At least the washing basket may not be as full. Sorry for the moan. Take care love to all your family. Xx

[@alisonhaviland1090]

A friend of mine, over dinner this evening, told me about you and your videos. Your videos kept her going and sane during nights of intense pain before and after a hip replacement a few weeks ago that was originally scheduled for 4 days after lock down. She just loves your videos and after watching one this evening after coming home from dinner with her and her husband, I am so inspired by you. I have just watched the one about decluttering. Well, that is something I have to do, sooner rather than later. But its the wonderful natural way you are in front of the camera, no airs and graces, just you being you. As my friend said this evening, it's like we are in the room with you. Many thanks and I look forward to watching more of your videos. I really hope you are feeling better. Really best regards. Alison x

[@anitabarra810]

I read Marie Kondo’s book while on a beach in Aruba way back in 2015. I was with my sis in law, and we laughed and laughed at some of the techniques in the book to get rid of stuff. Came home and went through my clothes. Got rid of half. Her “Sparks joy” does work. I’m with you on the folding. I like my underwear drawer in a jumbled mess because it looks like there’s still lots of underwear left and then I am not anticipating the time to do laundry again. My daughter-in-law law folds all her sons’ t-shirts, pants and shorts like taught in the book. It’s amazing.

[@mrsbobbinlacer]

I have dropped the ball many time because of illness, some time you get back at it later. Never feel guilty life is just a journey to learn from. We love you and have learned much from your sharing and my life is richer for your kindness.

[@patricia753]

Hi Kate! Such a Real video here!! Dealing with times we really don't feel well, physically and emotionally. Overwhelmed with years of stuff, yet Our stuff, and so hard to let go. Thank you for being so honest. I can relate! ❤

[@motherhenn8850]

I found the " spark joy" thing wasn't enough for my decluttering. I ended up identifying what the "container" is for whatever category I was working on and asked myself the question, "what will I keep?". That really helped the process along.

[@rachelburgener819]

Now that’s another school of thought ❤️😀

[@brideoflevi]

That's the idea with "decluttering at the speed of life" a book by dana k white!

[@katherineh3206]

Hello, this is your knickers! Come find me, I'm in the trunk with the laundry you forgot to bring in. Hello, this is your knickers makes complete sense to me. And no perfectly rolled and folded socks and T-shirts. Having a clear path through rooms is a good goal. I just purchased 2 gorgeous quilts, one large and one smaller, at the Quilt Shop which is going out of business down the block. I am so proud...of whoever actually put all those blocks together so beautifully. I told the owner I'd bought most of the fabrics that the quilts are made of, but somehow they have not made themselves into quilts yet so I bought these sample quilts and I'm taking credit for that very good idea. If you love a piece of clothing for its colors or textures, but aren't going to wear it, just hang it on the wall as "fabric art." You wanted it for some reason so repurpose it and keep it if it "sparks joy." Make scarves out of bigger pieces? This must be why I don't get rid of much?

[@pattweimer9268]

Keep at it kate, you know best about your recovery. You are inspiring me to "EDIT" my house. At 75 it has become time, or perhaps past time. 1 Sept., 60 years antique dealer, 47 years making ( sometimes selling), quilts, knitting since i was 4 yrs., 12 years rug hooking, a avid reader. That explains the enormous clear out I'm facing. You keep at it and gode me on, please. Best wishes, good health, great life.

[@jennjenn0316]

It's hard, Kate. I did it two years ago, and now do a big declutter every October because things sneak in the house and other things become unuseful. I get sad and happy in October. But overall, it's a good thing and I feel much more free. Xoxo.

[@Cdees57]

So happy to see you this Sunday morning Kate. Yes you can tell you were still sick when you made that video sorting clothes. I totally understand the fatigue as I deal with that constantly and literally have to push myself to do anything anymore. I have fibromyalgia which causes a lot of the fatigue but also my pain issues drain me. I thought your hair looked great in that clip.. I. Still have not gotten mine cut. Sure needs it. Good thing I'd gotten it done very short just before the shut down here. Miss seeing your videos but wanting good health for you. Just don't do like me and add a bad fall to your issues. Oh yes I fell this past Wednesday in my living room. No real reason just bam and I was down. Still dealing with the soreness of it. God bless you dear lady and all those on the Lime Green Sofa. See. Ya soon

[@adahathaway88]

I'm a garment sewer so getting rid of clothes that I have made is really hard. It's time for some of those things to go. They don't fit. When I switch out my summer clothes I'll do the purge, however there are a few items that I absolutely love so I'll keep them. Glad you are feeling better.

[@francesjackson2511]

Kate, it's wonderful to see you back and looking so cheery and bright. Don't overdo. Everything will wait for you. i and all your other friends on the lime green sofa want you to be feeling fit and strong.

[@TheSabinewalkden]

Everyone on the lime green sofa is delighted to see you Kate. We have kept your seat warm by doing a rota system! We all have been in the same situation regarding having a sort out. I am pretty ruthless with clothes.. If it has not been worn in a year - donate to charity, if it does not fit - donate to charity. We all tend to hoard clothes regardless of wether they fit etc. I recently cleared out a lot of my patchwork stuff and donated some quilts to a charity called The Linus Project. I felt a sense of 'joy' in doing so. I also got rid of many bits and pieces which I held onto for no apparent reason too. Well, It has been lovely to see you this afternoon and I am now off upstairs to clear out some clothes I need to give to the charity shop. Sending you love and best wishes for a speedy return to regular health. XXX

[@carlabaker849]

Love the quilt. After watching you I had to sit down and have a glass of ice water. It's hot here and humid. I am wishing for cooler weather but won't be for awhile. Keep on resting and I will keep you in my prayers.

[@mecraftytoo]

Loving Agnes’s quilt, the colours are gorgeous. Whatever you had certainly did knock the stuffing out of you, but there is no need to rush, we women always want to get things done in a hurry, take your time and listen to your body, and rest up when you feel the need. That way you won’t regret throwing out something you really didn’t want to. Hugs x

[@judyzeigler3980]

Kate, you did the right thing by taking a break even if it turned into a long one. You know you don't feel well. Take the time to help your body heal. It is a very sensitive time for your body, and as we get older, it takes us a lot longer to heal. I think you did well with going thru your closet. You have time to finish when you're better. Life's too short to worry about the small stuff. That stuff will still be there when you are feeling better or you will just do it another day not a biggie. Much love, get well and take time to small the roses. Love your videos, but would rather see you on one well. Thank you for all the time you take to share your talents and you interests, I enjoy them so much. And known that you get a lot of people thru their days too, when we are sad or just can't figure life out. And we (I) wish I could be there to help you. You are a very lovely person, just your voice cheers me up. And you are so loved by so many people. I feel that way about you too. We have never met, but am sure if we did we would be best friends. You are BLESSED and very much loved. Feel better.😊

[@083purplecola]

I'm two videos behind - something that hasn't happened since I started watching (the first Hercules Candies video). As I've said before, I've limited screen time for eye health reasons... but gosh I've missed you! Glad you're healing; continue to take care of yourself please. Love you!

[@esthervonepp8908]

So glad you are back..missed the lime green couch and your cheerful chatter and informational moments

[@janesmith716]

I work in the medical field Kate, have them check your heart also, some conditions can present as fatigue. Hope you feel better soon, summer is such the busy time with the yard and garden. Take care.

[@christinesellar3866]

Thanks for sharing Kate. Clearing out ‘stuff “ is hard always. Taking care of you is more important. Stay safe and cheers from cold and wet Melbourne.

[@donnabecreates]

So glad to see you! I just recently found you in the last couple of months, so have been watching some of your older videos. I truly enjoy them. I'm suppose to be doing 'something' around the house right now, but had to sit down and watch your video. That is great you are sorting thru your stuff. My father-in-law passed away last year and we moved our mother-in-law to a senior apartment community (she's 87 and doesn't drive). We spent many weekends sorting thru their belongings in their house which they lived in for over 60 years. BUT easier said than done, I have a hard time parting with my stuff especially my craft items, but am trying to do better! :) Take it slow and take care! Hugs from Illinois!

[@annielord4151]

Hello Kate, I've just discovered your wonderful channel. It's so odd but I've had exactly the same experience happen to me. I recently decided to declutter my overstuffed house, full of wonderful, creative, crafty things that I would use "some day" I too came down with this mystery illness that the doctor thought was the dreaded lurgy. And like you I got a negative result. That was six weeks ago and I'm only just recovering. I spent 21 days in all, in self isolation from my family, which I spent sleeping in my sewing/ guest room and have got rid of things that have been awaiting there "useful" day for several decades. It's been a surreal few weeks that I'm glad are coming to an end, fingers crossed. Like you my energy is still very lacking but I am slowly plodding on. And the house is definitely feeling lighter and so do I. I'm so happy to have found your wonderful creative world. Like you I have Many diverse creative interests. Nice to meet you Kate. From Annie xx

[@DeerheartStudioArts]

Yes your energy does see to be picked up. I ca really understand that fatigue because I’ve been going through similar weeks and slowly picking up. Congrats on your state of recovery! I’m soooooooglad to watch your vid! Love you, little sister!🦌💌❤️☕️🦌💌❤️📚🦌💌🐝💃💃💃🙏

[@patriciasweet9102]

So glad to see you Kate. Love your grand babies quilt in the background. Take care and please do rest when you need to.

[@nelsonshakespeare2881]

How wonderful to hear yoir voice again Kate. Glad to know that you are moving to the better end of things. I have had Cronic Fatigue since 1998 and i kniw fatigue is so difficult to adjust to when you are used to being active. Cuddle the cats and know you are in my thoughts. Looking forward to hearing from you soon as you have more energy. Bless you and yours.

[@maryhopewatters5758]

It’s so nice to see you looking better! I have missed you and the kitties and your garden and your home...not to mention all your beautiful quilting! 🐈🌸🤗

[@lesleyharris525]

Hi, glad to hear that you are feeling better,you did a great job clearing out the wardrobe, we all know that when you're back up to snuff you can carry on, just look after yourself.Thanks for sharing your adventure so far.

[@janettebarr6538]

Hooray your back missed you and the cats 🌹please take care stop worrying about your lack of energy it’s part and parcel of what was wrong with you where I live loads of people started off with the cold when it didn’t clear up they then said oh it’s the flu when that didn’t clear up oh we think it’s pneumonia when that didn’t clear they were sent to the hospital for x-rays that was in October last year through to January this year and believe it or not some are still very weak and they don’t know what they had at first I thought it was hooping cough because I had it 8 years ago and it took me months to recover my husband ended up in hospital with it we both have had problems with our chest ever since so just rest as much as you can xx

[@cindycoile5989]

The good thing is All the stuff will be there when you are feeling better! You are looking better, but be careful to not overdo things. All of us are here on the lime green sofa sending you all our thoughts and prayers. Love you lots !

[@angelaevans8632]

I see a Delft ware quilt in that blue collection Kate.😂 There’s a children’s story book called My Grandma’s Quilt. The story is about a patchwork quilt where each patch holds a fond memory of something. I am a new subscriber and so didn’t realise you have been unwell. I must just mention that both Arne and Carlos both got COVID but Arne originally tested negative although a later test proved positive. Your decluttering can surely wait a while until you feel stronger. I hope you feel better soon. XAngela

[@happinessis2111]

My first time watching. You are delightful to listen to. I am glad you are feeling better. I thought I would do some cleaning out as well. After I started it dawned on me that where I live here int the States everything was closed and even though they were still taking items you had to leave them next to a bin on the ground. I couldn't quite to that. What if a dog were to come along and wee on my things? Not happening! Funny how we get attached to things. I suspect it's the memories and not the things themselves. Best wishes from for a full recovery and your project.

[@suedale1865]

“Pandemic de cluttering “ Because of lockdown many have had time to look at at stuff in their homes & hopefully de clutter Reality check for me was if anything should happen ! My lads will have such a mess to sort WELL I started on drawers & cabinet of paperwork really cathartic burning in my small incinerator masses of old papers 👍 I half sorted some clothes so next big project will be your method all on a bed & be realistic of fit & need Thank you Kate Ps: glad to hear your being sensible on listening to your body & taking it all at a slower pace Virtual hug 🤗

[@blue-penmisty-dawn3682]

Stay safe, dear Kate. What a good reminder to keep on with our sorting out. Big vertical hugs & blessings to all ❣💞💐

[@dr.glendabaker1998]

It is glorious to see you back, and seemingly better. Take life easy so a relapse dosen't happen. You are a joy, you know:)

[@rebeccajourney3183]

I did read her book (Marie Condo); however, I limited myself to one closet at a time, one chest of drawers at a time, one bathroom at a time. I could not fathom emptying three bedroom closets of clothes, having lived here 30+ years! I did do all of it though after my husband passed away. I actually did his clothing right away!! I do so hope you are feeling 100% these days, and Agnes quilt is gorgeous!! Love the colors❣