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[@BehatiLife]

welcome back, hunnies! ❤ I'm so glad you're here! :) if you're single- are you open to dating? what are you using to date ( word of mouth, apps, matchmakers, etc) ; if you're in a relationship- how did you meet?

[@kristinadeturk]

I don’t want to get on apps 😭 so I need a plan I guess 😅

[@astoldbyjanesha]

I am single and open to dating but I am very traditional when it comes to dating. I’m a cardinal sign (Capricorn sun with a Libra moon) and I know that I want to be courted and approached by courting. I strongly dating apps because people are so comfortable with being superficial and pretending to be someone they aren’t but as soon as you meet that person in person and get to know them - you see the real person. I have a Scorpio rising and I refuse to settle for less than what I deserve. I met my former partner on Hinge and in turn, in 8 months it took me 3 months to find out who he really was and wasn’t. He portrayed himself as someone that was secure within himself but never truly was that. Also, a lot of men are very insecure and very sassy nowadays. I wish people would bring back speed dating or something of that sort where you can meet someone organically. Now, I am back on Hinge but like I said .. I am someone who is authentic as you stated, I date intentionally and move with integrity and I will most likely end up deleting my profile by monday because I cannot deal with the superficial level of consciousness that is on these apps. Plus, no dating app is designed to be “deleted” they are designed to keep you single and broke because they put the attractive (deemed by societal standards) being(s) behind a pay wall. Which is why they want you to pay to see for likes, swipes and etc. I’m an intense being and I want the deepest of depths when it comes to romantic relationships / partnerships; as you said, this ain’t it.

[@hopetyson1861]

Newly single and working on healing from my previous relationship

[@LexRex1800]

I'm literally just being here 😂 letting things happen ✨️ organically ✨️ I prefer to wait until my divine partner comes in (especially since I'm still healing), but I also don't mind the idea of just allowing myself to enjoy people's company and even using that as a way to get closer to my partner. I love your chickens, btw! 🥰 Edit: I'm catching all of these 222 syncs!! Ahh! 🩷

[@GKSQD]

Single and open to dating lol but no apps lol I’ve just been allowing my intuition to guide me on who to date when ppl approach me

[@NurseMercyMennie]

As a Venus ruled girlie, Libra moon/rising/ and Venus, I've been guilty of giving all of myself wayyy too soon and getting frustrated or lashing out when romantic interests didn't conform to my fantasy, commit to me, or put effort into me at all. I'd see it as a personal attack and victimize myself. I thought I was being open and vulnerable but I was not open to the journey and learning them at all, i was devoted to my idea of a love story. And that mirrored back to me men uninterested in learning me and being committed to a good time, not a long time with me. I've done so much work on myself to trust the universe and learn to take my time and learn people and keep myself sacred and enjoy the process. But now that I've grown in mindset I find it harder to find someone patient, honest, and interesting now lol I barely get approached anymore. I've done apps on and off but I don't like it. My most recent encounter though, the guy was really cool but we had differences in values and I was able to release much easier than I used to

[@BehatiLife]

Yesssss! You totally understand! 👏🏾👏🏾 it’s so true and it can incredibly hard to see that we’re not allowing love to unfold naturally… that awareness makes allll the difference and will immediately change the outcome of your dating experiences! Thank you so much for sharing!

[@Evangelina.Serbia]

Girl you just described me and my experiences!

[@freelyrenee3494]

This for me has been a touchy thing bc friendship and dating has been a whirl of roller coasters for me since childhood and growing up in a home where true intimacy and healthy boundaries weren’t always pleasant. So learned behavior of survival and shutting down by being emotionally unavailable was my safe place and not really going deep. I practically was a runner getting in and out of relationships quickly. It wasn’t until I had multiple close family members who died back to back that I realized somethings got to change for me. Now about a few years ago, for me I have been in solitude really trying to understand myself and getting in touch with understanding my own emotions and intimacy. I am now in a place where I am more comfortable and patient with myself to know what I want and to open myself up to love, closeness in friendships and in my love life. I can honestly say that I’m in my early forties but feel better than I ever did and it’s a great place for me to open my heart to receiving healthy relationships through and through.

[@teethenugget]

I’ve chosen to avoid dating apps because there’s so many toxic individuals that use it for negative reasons, and doesnt feel authentic to me. I’d rather meet someone face to face or through mutual friends even if it takes longer

[@princessleah888]

Love the poop analogy!!! 😂 my family is filled with doctor's, nurse, healers, too, so I truly appreciate it! Make perfect sense to me🫶🏾

[@BehatiLife]

🤣🤣🤣🤣you can totally relate to the medical humor and references ♥️♥️♥️

[@jbaby3585]

hey jess!! I remember a few years back when you use to post anything about divine partnership I would get soo excited because I was SO ready to love and be loved deeply by that divine counterpart but like your other video was saying my dating life has been DRY!!! its been at least 3 almost 4 years of me being single and not connecting with anyone so nooooww when I see these types of messages I started to feel triggered because It feels like its never gonna happen for me! but I know your messages are never generic and you ALWAYS speak truth and not just what ppl want to hear so i am trusting that hopefully something in the cosmos are finally moving in my favor!

[@BehatiLife]

I so see you, boo ♥️ I have my tarot cards here I felt like shuffling for you in addition to video message. You got The Empress card- you are so ready, so full just as you are. It makes allll things grow and bloom - especially love ♥️🤗 I’m excited to see where your own love journey is guiding you to now!

[@jbaby3585]

@@BehatiLife aww woow!! that is so sweet of you to shuffle for me! I really appreciate you taking the time to do that for me to give me that message! and yes you are right. I DEFINETLY feel very whole and complete as i am by myself for once in my life! although the time alone has been lonely, I really do understand how necessary it was for growth. thanks for pouring love into my life today!

[@melbelloracle]

I am in the same boat and really hope that great love comes your way in Divine right timing and brings you joy. It’s hard out here. ❤

[@Lauren-0777]

I was randomly provided with details of my SM while divining/tarot, and I haven’t wanted to romantically entertain anyone who doesn’t match the descriptions ever since. It actually pops out every single message & I’ve always struggled with being open and lighthearted in this way. It’s taking me years to shift my perspective to just going with the flow, learning and having fun. I’m just now feeling ready to date again and I will no longer be using the apps, which means I have to leave the house somehow

[@TruthGarden11]

Girl, if I could have had this wisdom a decade ago, my life would be so very different. 😂❤️ I have really just began to learn this over the past couple of years, lots of healing involved. I feel that so many of my relationships have begun with way too much expectation or too little expectation/ boundaries. Intimacy too quickly, and I feel that now, looking forward I’ll never make those mistakes again. Thank you for sharing and I hope that the people who need this (like my younger self) see this and can gain that wisdom. All a part of the journey, I suppose. I love your chickens! I’m in a relationship, currently going through counseling and advocate programs to help me get on my own feet and get out of financial entrapment. (Domestic violence shelters also help with verbal abuse, BTW if anyone needs that..) I have no plans of dating for quite a while but deep down I know that I know that there’s someone very special out there for me, when the Divine deems it right. I definitely watch these videos with the intention to have better wisdom and insight in the future. ❤️🙏

[@karenspann1992]

Dating apps have been terrible. Ive been single for almost 10 years. Right now Im just going on dates every blue moon with people I randomly meet. But, they get heavily vetted. My number one goal is to protect my energy and my heart. I would rather have "peace" over a "piece of a man" any day.

[@rachelballentine2757]

As someone who’s currently longing for divine intervention with someone I’m in separation with it’s been a struggle….I’m having a hard time with letting go of my expectations and projecting my fears and insecurities onto that Person to allow the universe time to work it out….sometimes feeling like I’m self sabotaging because sometimes I lash out at him to maybe kind of push him away before I get hurt again….we have a very long history and a family together, there’s been a lot of pain on both sides, but we clearly have a lot of love for each other….I’m not sure if I’m witnessing him trying to become the best version of himself for him, wanting to come into union with me or witnessing him moving on without me…I do want him to be happy though, and I want to be happy. theres not a lot of communication right now and the little communication we have had has been a lot of me projecting and trying to protect myself… idk if he’s moved on or what, I know before (a few months ago) we talked about focusing on ourselves and just seeing what happens….but I feel like I’m going a bit crazy sometimes, also trying to be gentle with myself and understanding towards him…it’s awkward for me to share this in the comments because I feel kind of silly being so vulnerable on the internet but when you asked what people in separation are experiencing I started crying….just feels like a lot of confusion and lack of clarity, really wanting to be patient with myself and the universe, but feeling a sadness and longing on a really deep level that I don’t have a full understanding of. I try to talk to others and date from time to time, but have no attraction what so ever to anyone else even if that person is an amazing person. For whatever reason I feel like I already found my person and I’m just waiting for spirit to tell us when it’s time….but I’m also not sure if I’m just completely delusional 🤷🏽‍♀️ maybe its a twin flame type of thing (whatever that means).

[@commandingbutterfly]

Really needed to hear this message. Thank you, Jess🙏🏽 The past 7 months I’ve been single and stubborn about not settling unless I was certain of someone and it created that pressure to the point of blockage like you mentioned. Up until a month ago I was not in a place to connect and begin the process of dating but now I am scrolling dating apps and enjoying getting to know ppl. Feeing like a part of the collective in a way that’s vulnerable and wanting to love and be loved🤍✨ Taurus sun, Gemini rising, Libra moon in case you’re doing any research, Jess haha. Sending my love in a white light🫶🏼💫

[@martanit]

Lately i was not prioritizing having a partner since i am feeling good now in my home and garden with my cats and my spirituality specially after walking through hell this past decade in terms of stability, relationships, roots.. ive been feeling a healing of my uterus chakra and Therefore my voice too, i was used and absued by too many people. I was so broken. i have been closing a cicle of heartbreak after heartbreak and things just not working out. And i feel that i have learned from my other relationships and my mistakes also, i feel whole and rooted in myself and i feel ready for my partner :] i Don’t feel that intensity i feel wiser/older and young at the same time. Thank you for the support these days and always ❤

[@BehatiLife]

♥️♥️♥️

[@ericasampson5001]

I love in the last video that you said you don’t have to wait to be fully healed to be fully loved. Thank you!! ❤️

[@peachybaby33]

The fact this makes me want to cry because of how heavily I've isolated myself for the exact reasons you've described....whew. spirit has been pushing me to be open for awhile now, so if Jess is saying it and posting about it, that means I gotta listen! Gonna be terrifying but I've been asking for it, so...gotta start somewhere haha

[@BehatiLife]

You’ve got this! It will be so worth it to open up - you have much to offer and a ton to receive 🤗♥️ I understand being terrified but also know that there are amazing people out here who are friendly, kind, and ready to meet YOU too! Big hugs boo ♥️

[@amberk412]

Thank you for your messages, I've been dating for 9 or so years and have so many stories met great people and learned what I want and ready someone that meets me there also I regrow food from seed, got 24 bell pepper plants from seeds from one Aldi pepper ! Abundance and I'm open ❤ love your chickens

[@BehatiLife]

Oh wow! Hopefully these seeds will grow too :) 🌱💦🫑

[@Kkbush78216]

Jess thank you for this message. I realized halfway through your message that a large group of people haven't ever (I don't think) had a genuine conversation about the STAGES of dating in this capacity (if that makes any sense). Or maybe I'm just speaking for myself LOL

[@NaNaxKimura]

I really needed this even if I didn’t know ❤ I chose not to date anyone because I’m just focused in my career and I think who is meant to be with me will be in my path inevitably. But listening to you I felt closed to dating anyone else that is not The One. And really… I don’t want to be like that. Because I wouldn’t like him to be like that. I’m going to open myself more to knowing people in this light way you were commenting on. I know even if we’re not for each other, there’s always something new to learn about yourself or relationships in general… In conclusion, I accept I need to practice more and not let all the work undone until the moment comes… 😅 and open to possibilities! Yes! Thank you Jess. For all that you do for us. 🙏🏽

[@lishamonique]

The warm climate state, outdoor backyard with plants, garden and a dog is something that I envision ❤

[@dedeesseofficial8788]

Lavender is gorge 🥰😌 Jess you’re not a dating coach but did you know that your authentic human approach to everything made your view of dating just a little more palatable than the advices we get on these internet streets ? Well, it did and thank you ❤

[@lydiamyers6234]

Yes! We get so invested so soon in the beginning at first date. Coffee and Tea are fine for FIRST DATES ladies.

[@rachelhise1558]

Ok. Ive been single for a WHILE now. Getting older and just getting to know myself, not even looking as I kiiinda gave up. I accidentally started this video as I was walking through the store to distract myself with a little hope. I look up and see red solo cups at the moment you said red solo cups! Taking this as a sign ❤ thank you so much for your service and the leadership you provide. Much ❤to you!!

[@eienshi]

i’m very grateful for this information and insight, so thank you for taking the time out to record this and share it. it’s timely and appreciated.

[@BehatiLife]

As you are so welcome and I’m so glad it is helpful to you 🤍🙏🏾

[@003angeli]

Thank you Jess for this amazing video! Love your kind messages. What a nice conversation started, wish we can vibe! Reading through comments… Ps. I like nature and gardening but I don’t FUQ with worms too hahahah 😅

[@BehatiLife]

Haha they’re necessary but omg boundaries 🤣🤣🤣

[@bdock507]

Jess it’s the wild Wild West out in these dating streets! A common thing that happens is when it’s time to decide where/when to meet up theres this painfully awkward silence and you can feel the anxiety on both parts. I’m particular and don’t want to go to a bar but I don’t want to go to “another restaurant” either bc it’s so low effort (to me). I would rather a partner feel like they wasted their time than their money; men can be scary about those little $80 dates if it goes awry. So a planned picnic, something he’s never done before etc is my vibe. Then I don’t want to dictate everything bc that starts a unbalanced dynamic…send help lol

[@penelopepenelope8740]

girlll…i love you i really do. you truly are an angel sent to earth

[@BehatiLife]

Aw thank you boo ♥️🙏🏾👯‍♀️ you are too :)

[@midnitqween8609]

I agree with this message 🙏🏾💞

[@browserflowers]

Resonating🔆

[@catecharlotte242]

Thank you ❤

[@Annherblady]

Thank you for this message

[@Resilient1sv]

Thank you Jess🙏🏼❤️

[@BryceRubalcava]

This was so helpful thanks!!! ❤

[@blacklillith4011]

I love your laugh!

[@ClayMastah344]

This was consoling ❤

[@MethodicalMystik]

Much love Jess 💜💜

[@bigcatenergy3707]

Thank you so much Jess, this was so helpful

[@ToffeeHugg]

love these long conversations

[@amcgee0668]

Thanks Jess, this message has been clarification.

[@Bri_Views]

Best analogy ever 😅🤎

[@sweettrippy]

i love to meet my partners in the wild! almost all of my parters have come into my life ib the funniest ways and i love to have those lil memories where i was just bee boppin around and ran into them. and i waver between having the mindset you described in this video where i know what i want but am very open and patient with exploring untill i find that, to wavering to being quite impatient and closed off to what doesnt fit what i want and in full yearning whats the point mode hehehe. dating is weird. im also quite socially awkward too jess so i feel you and it is a struggle! but its a fun process as well

[@Soulfullnuggets]

Loved this new style of video!!!! Keep them coming! ❤❤❤

[@chelseayoung1881]

Right on time Jess! Thankful for you always the most!

[@unlockingwealthwithin]

Appreciating the algorithm right now.

[@lindagoff7665]

Thank you very much. Clear, useful and focused on our current dating concerns.❤

[@cheridahartz131]

I appreciate these mssg’s so much… very helpful and enlightening ♥️

[@ambrosia1917]

your knees are so even!

[@goldenlifeunlimited]

Thumbs up for the seed collection. You had be at beautiful food

[@malcolmjames2659]

You did your big one with this one, best advise I ah e heard in a min❤ Thank you!!😊

[@kay_thePynk]

I absolutely loved this! And Agree with you. I Loved the part about how you broke down exploring the dating process.

[@justplayyyy]

This was so well put. I wish I had this in my early 20's😅

[@culby276]

I’m a nurse too and I fully understand your example ❤

[@senoje]

Awesome. I gathered the seeds from a green pepper I used for dinner today. Love that.

[@goddessthyme8388]

i love these sit in the garden & talk❤❤❤ thanks Jess

[@Resilient1sv]

Your chickens look so healthy ❤

[@11kindpunk11]

thank you

[@ChristaKronenburg]

Thanks so much for this video Jess, I loved the casual vibes, feels like we’re all just hanging out and chatting. ❤

[@mckenzieporter4555]

Thank you for this message, Jess. As someone who's ending one chapter and not been in the dating world for 12 years, i enjoyed and appreciated this very much. 💗🕯️✌️😚

[@goddessinnerg8654]

Franklin!!! I haven’t seen him in forever! Hey little guy! 🐶

[@rashaunetynes1522]

Thank you so much ur where right on the money. All the thing I needed to hear love 💕 thanks many blessings

[@renee7473]

Good morning and blessings Jess, this video was so timely and helpful, and I am so glad that spirit move me to stop and listen to it this morning. Keep up the good work.

[@didie97310]

Haven't seen the video yet...but your videos lately speaks a lot for me !!! The fact that this video is about dating, just after promising myself to be open to dates...my last boyfriend was 11 years ago...since then nothing serious...i know deep inside that i'm healing and i have to trust the process ❤❤ Thanks so much for everything ❤❤

[@simmssherry176]

Thank you. very helpful because I’m definitely been thinking about dating , but dating for divine marriage.

[@Peacekeeperoflight]

Your totally a Snow White energy! ❤ loving you! Thank you again for staying true to you girl! Great message!

[@sarahmarcel-rene7337]

So helpful. I set the intention for dating to be this way for myself. I get so anxious for first dates and dating but I’d love for it to happen organically in the process you’re explaining. It would be so much easier on my nervous system and I’d have plenty of time to figure out if this is someone healthy that I really feel a connection with or not. Thanks for sharing your wisdom!🩷

[@Laucalls2theriver]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏🏻 I personally find apps very distracting but used them plenty in my 20s. I’ve been leaning into myself and the creator these days knowing that I will be brought to the correct community and hubby 🎉

[@SamayaTonniRael]

Thank you for the message, it really resonated. It was a huge confirmation of what I’ve been receiving too around dating. I’ve been dating myself for 2 years and in the summer I shifted into this mode of moving through life with ‘are you my person?!’ goggles on. I had a couple very sparkly sparks with two men (a couple months apart) but it fizzled out very fast (for me), like you mentioned in the video before this one. Your point about going slow with the diving deep really illuminated for me why those connections fizzled. I really resonate with the approach/roadmap you outlined for dating. I am open to dating but am not seeking anything out right now, I just moved into a beautiful cabin by myself and am feeling really happy to be focussing on my relationship with myself, my business and my friends. I am definitely open to meeting people naturally, getting to know them and feeling it out. I do ultimately want to build a beautiful relationship with someone and have a family, I feel surrender around that process and divine timing more than ever before. Also, I do agree with you about the being intimate part. Thank you again for your videos!! So much love and gratitude Btw I love how distracted you get sometimes, it’s hilarious and reminds me of me. I also love Lavender ♥

[@lareina3194]

I believe you cause just this week I was about to comment and ask you what should we expect, I see you are glowing enjoying what seems to be a beautiful couple life. I was like Jess is out there enjoying it but not telling me what to do 😂😂😂…anyway I so appreciate you I am one of the day one fam hon

[@isomon5441]

Thank your for the message, Jess 🧡 I agree that dating can be extremely tricky and frustrating nowadays. There seems to be an agenda to a lot of dates nowadays so that you're being judged based on your appearance, your availability for intimacy that very night, your net worth, etc. I also agree with what you said that that behavior completely undermines genuinely getting to know the other person. I've given up on dating apps. I really don't have the time or energy right now to meet 1 decent person among 50 complete weirdos. I love meeting new people at friends' get-togethers. You have no pressure when you're in a group of people, and either it was a nice conversation for the night or you exchange numbers and meet up in the future just the two of you.

[@misfitted4874]

Jess I think you are an amazing light and so gifted. Thank You for all that you share I’m happy to be apart of your tribe. 🙏🏽😌❤️✨

[@jacynjames]

This was really helpful. 🙏🏻 Thank you so much, Jess. 🎉 I see the distractions as symbolism to the current dating scenario in the collective. There are a lot of external things clamoring for our attention and staying focused requires so much more effort. I laughed out loud at min. 24:31 when you said, “squirrel!” It was so timely and funny. 🎉 Thank you for this message. I really liked these two videos a lot.

[@sheWolf-er5dx]

For me I haven't dated anyone or been involved with anyone in almost two years. I've had a really hard time connecting with anyone. my daughter is my whole world and I know that anyone I involve myself with is potentially going to be in her life too..and because of that I'm extremely cautious with men.

[@user-lg6rp9ok9z]

OMG Jess this was so helpful! I love your cupid advice. I feel like we just hanging out being girls..... love this vibe.jess the ultimate advice giver.

[@BehatiLife]

Aww that’s how I felt too ♥️♥️♥️🤗👯‍♀️

[@cho.cho_]

I appreciate your honesty and even things you’ve mention that brought me clarity towards getting to know someone/dating💫 Getting to know someone/Dating should be fun, NOT a lot of pressure should be too present in it’s fresh stages in my opinion. Just enjoy the ride. Just enjoy the ride and as both parties get to know each other more and check in to see about making things exclusive then from there that’s when you discuss what’s expected (etc…). Also, it’s okay to ask questions to gain clarity of what’s actually happening therefore each person can know how they should be moving forward in the connection. I know for myself based on my experiences I HAVE TO KNOW what’s happening 😅 (Pisces rising, Scorpio sun, Gemini moon here 🤷🏽lol) it’s not about pressuring the person nor the connection itself, it’s about making sure that myself and the other person are on the same page and understand each others wants/needs. Knowing that makes it a smoother process to either continue moving forward in the connection or not with the other person.

[@BehatiLife]

♥️♥️♥️🙏🏾

[@mauricioquintero4657]

After being in a relationship for 18 years, I've come to understand the quote pertaining to the ultimate relationship what attributes are to be found it states," .....is one that provides food and fire for your body, as well as the mind." I think missing one of those components leads to a plateau, instead of a upward optimistic joy for life .

[@hq200]

Ok so yesterday's message didnt show up to me but this one did. It knew where to find my single self😮thank you for sharing❤

[@BehatiLife]

♥️♥️🙏🏾🌸

[@rouge971]

Gurl, that natural reaction 😂😂😂😂😂 when you saw the worm dwl..if it one thing, you are and have been so Authentic ❤❤❤❤😊

[@ShariceKyan]

Hi Jess. Thank you for this reading. I am in the process of separation from someone. It is a littll difficult because we're so intertwined, but my intuition tells me that our time is over. Plus, he belongs to someone else even if he tries to deny it. I know that they live together, sleep together, go on vacation together, split bills yet he says he loves me and treats me like a girlfriend. You reminded me not to settle, and I surely won't.

[@phylicia151]

I’m going through this same thing 😢

[@EmeraldSun_222]

Thank You🤍🌱☀️🐾🐓

[@allisonreese8984]

You are such a beautiful lady!

[@BehatiLife]

Thanks babe :)

[@Iquey]

I live listening to the chickens 🐔 clucking and grumbling.😊

[@missfaja]

I have been single for 3 years. I've recently been thinking about starting to date again and this video popped up on my feed. Right on time! I'm definitely not going on the apps lol. I have thought about consulting with a matchmaker. Right now I'm just open to the idea of dating. I want to feel safe to be vulnerable and to trust my discernment when meeting people. I do like the advice of "be open to the experience", for me that will also look like possibly dating outside of my race which I have never done. Lots to think about lol. Thank you for this video!

[@lishamonique]

Lavender is beautiful 🤩 🐓

[@Myral0ve]

I have been avoiding watching this video since you posted it feeling so blocked off from the idea of dating I almost kind of rolled my eyes every time it popped up cause it wasn’t the only one that kept coming in my face about dating, fast forward 2 weeks later & I’m meeting up with a guy tmrw for a quick bite, ha 😅 no expectations of “dating” anyone still but I’m more open to building connections. thank you for your perspective ❤

[@seasideaphrodite6042]

Lavender is cute, she loves your necklace.

[@BehatiLife]

Haha yes! She’s never seen it before ♥️ my chickens love glitter too 🤣🤣🤣

[@gamer_yt551]

There's a toxic hookup culture out right now but I can feel that people are wanting connectivity as well. 💯

[@BehatiLife]

Yesss, people do really want connection. The phase will pass but the realness can still be found ;)

[@gamer_yt551]

@BehatiLife yesss Goddess, tell em...I love you btw..you show up with authenticity and realness💖💯🌟💐🙏

[@chefcecygo]

How do you know all of the things?! 😅 I fkn love it!

[@sunstrengthtarot3666]

how much do you share about your spiritual beliefs and practices and how early on? really great advice btw!

[@CeeNstars]

"Oh goodness girl, you just threw yourself into the abyss"- my angels to me 😂 me too little chicken. Me too 😂😅❤

[@BehatiLife]

🤣🤣🤣

[@nessagrimm]

It's Lavender following the energy flow of your hand fa me🐓

[@cablestable7]

Puzzle pieces fit together easily when in the correct spot. ✨🧡 I'm completely open to meeting all the persons of my life. I'm ready for connection, openness, and intimacy with romance possibilities. I am currently in the separation stage of a long term relationship. I truly believe my openness is from all of the self-healing work that I've been doing. Setting intentions like you've encouraged. Meditating, more time in nature, allowing myself to completely feel my emotions, etc is helping me cultivate a constant flow of openness energy. I really am trying to accept the understanding that "things are always working out for my benefit". I am equally open to new partners in creativity, business, friendships, topic specific fun buddies, etc too. I am actively practicing enjoying interactions with others without expectations. However, I agree there's some weirdness going on in human interaction right now. Authenticity is being received as suspicious. It seems like no one has the patience to get to know one another. Yet, many claim to want deep connection. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@pistolbetty9075]

😂 🐿❤ thank you for sharing this.

[@Midnight_Myna]

Thank you for this message. I agree with you, even though I don’t want to date people I am not reallllllyyyyyyyy into. I need to be more open, but it’s HARD. And people can read my energy easily, so they can tell when I am not interested. And I don’t profess to be an interesting person, myself. My friends always say that I can’t find someone just sitting in my house. But that’s what I plan to do once I get ol’ dude, so…cats?😂😂😂 Seriously though, this was reinforcing what I know I must do.

[@SpiritOfLove333]

I met a few through online dating sites, and a few through online social sites like Twitch/Discord. I can say for sure that I do not intend to ever try the online dating sites again lol, even though they were some of my longest relationships...they were not exactly healthy.

[@user-zo1te8qj7n]

As an Aries Venus in the 5th……and Mars in Pisces……………….coffee is terribly boring 😅 But I see your point. I’d prefer a…museum. Or…local concert.

[@KimBeauty_]

So funny. I said to spirit last week I want to see a lavender car as a sign a relationship is here for me. And you keep mentioning Lavender 🐓 😂😂😂.

[@monicapeak5426]

Omg lmao you crack me up!!! That face when you saw the worm😂😂

[@BehatiLife]

🤣🤣🤣 it was so big too lmaooo

[@AlexPerez-gs7uq]

Love this! Ugh you get meee lol. so socially awkward 😅😂

[@BehatiLife]

Hahaha yesss! I’ve learned to just go with my own flow 🤣🤣🤣

[@nazali4480]

Oh Jess, thank you for this. I’ve only started to recently go online on a dating app it’s been a long time since I’ve interested in anyone after ending a situationship shall we say, last year. So I go on this up in the last few weeks and came across someone who I just suddenly have this crazy magnetic attraction towards, we haven’t met yet and I think that’s the plan, but he hasn’t come back yet… The thing is he’s American and he’ll be moving back to the US next year and I’m in the UK so I just don’t know why I feel so strongly about him and don’t know what to do really 🙈 I know it’s not going to be long-term but I just have these unexplainable feelings ( emotionally and physically it feels like something has ignited in me again) and I just don’t know what he’s thinking.. ♥️

[@GoddessLight.]

❤ Ashe’. Gratitude. I’ll just say I’m welcoming new love. No action rn. 😹

[@BehatiLife]

That is all the action that you need ;) I’m setting intention for you now - your love will find you now 🤍🕊️💍

[@GoddessLight.]

@@BehatiLife I receive it. I appreciate your beautiful energy, Jess. 💕 💕

[@melbelloracle]

Online dating is horrible. I just decided to back off altogether. The whole process was totally lowering my vibration and making me feel very sad and hopeless. I have tried so many angles and honestly, I guess he’s just not around yet. I was looking for something else when I saw this video come up but I hope it helps others. ❤

[@cheridahartz131]

At first I felt as if I was holding myself out from whom I am separated from because I feel as he is my person… but in catch 22 I also feel if an opportunity presented itself in another person for the possibilities of… then I’m all for it (life is so sweet but short). Sometimes, separation brings hearts closer. As far as intimacy, that can be a little tricky especially if it seems as if the individual is interested in only one particular thing. Honestly, if you are two consenting adults and the intimacy organically happens, connection comes in many forms. I’m an energy reader and vibe chaser, if the connection isn’t there, I’m out!