Being Invisible

[@jessi5924]

Lovely voice, lovely lyrics, lovely guitar, lovely person.

[@KarenKeating-t2p]

Amen💛🙏

[@madeleinegrayson8372]

Tom Petty classic.

[@TheWriterNW]

I'm glad I found this Patrick's channel. His posts his expertise... and the community here on the channel. We aren't alone. Sometimes it feels like we're alone... but this community has shown me that there's a lot of us. And I actually feel seen.

[@Johanna-bee]

Me too so thankful for Patrick and your comment ❤

[@sarahjmount9221]

@@TheWriterNW You ARE seen! You’re never alone on this channel. Patrick’s channel was the catalyst for my starting the recovery process from complex trauma. This was the first place I ever even heard of CPTSD! I immediately realized I was afflicted by it after watching some of his videos and reading comments from the community. It changed my life. I’m glad you’re here and wish you well on your healing journey. It’s tough work but it’s totally worth it. There are some really great other channels on the topic but Patrick is the best!

[@TheWriterNW]

​@@sarahjmount9221 Thank you!

[@TheWriterNW]

​@@Johanna-bee ❤

[@sarahjmount9221]

@@TheWriterNW Thank you for sharing your comment! That’s what makes us all “not alone”. ♥️

[@sarahjmount9221]

Thank you, Patrick. I appreciate your expressing our pain through music and very nicely, I might add. ❤

[@sarah.j.777]

Love it! Thank you for being awesome!

[@athlene110]

Patrick!! I teared up hearing you sing. Your voice is so beautiful!! I held my heart listening and just feeling so grateful to you and your therapist who helped you heal yourself and to your wife who I'm sure has been such a healthy support to you. I'm so grateful for the awesome work you do as a therapist and training others in RRP❤❤❤❤❤ I'm so grateful you claimed your gift of music and singing even though your Mom told you otherwise!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤ This is a BIG hug to you!!!! Edit: I just read the description and started bawling. I understand. Every. Word. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@sorkiemernie]

I love that you use music in your messages. Playing piano is one of the best things for calming my central nervous system when I’m derailed.

[@nemesister5109]

Amazing how popular that song was, and the lyrics so brutal. I never knew. Thank you for playing it, seems like I wasnt the only invisible soul growing up. Still reeking havoc in my life today, and anger issues as well. 🙁

[@earthlytable]

This is so true! I love how you use music to convey a powerful message.

[@mlebrooks]

Patrick I'm so happy you are in the world. This brightened my day

[@Red-hot-sonic-fan]

Love you voice. Thank you for your help towards healing❤

[@ladulcemusica]

Seeing you play inspires me to play again… but it’s bittersweet. Wondering if you could talk at some point about getting back to playing music or getting back to living life fully after trauma. How to life well rather than just survive. Thank you for all you do!

[@Flower-oi7eh]

Hi, When I did Patrick's healing community a while back, one of the books he recommended was The Artists Way by Julia Cameron. It helps with some of what you mentioned.

[@curiousnerdkitteh]

​@@Flower-oi7ehthank you! I'm sure that will really help me too!

[@coffeesunset1965]

Thank you 💜 love your version, beautiful voice

[@evaleveejets2527]

I didn't know I needed this

[@mikeymayhem5403]

Awesome to hear you sing Petty, Patrick! Thanks as always for your incredibly helpful, insightful and validating videos! 🙏🏻

[@EarthChild9000]

Never let anyone take your light!

[@TheTrueUntrueNic]

I love when you show your musical skills. Your voice, your playing, thank you so much.

[@skully0078]

You hit me in the feels the second I read your note, add the Tom Petty lyrics and your singing style and it all sunk in. Thanks Patrick.

[@rhyfeddu]

The way you sing that is so haunting and touching! You're very talented. 🎶 Music heals!

[@irenenelson6994]

This was great. Thanks for singing to our hearts!

[@Spunky072]

Wow, Patrick! You have an amazing voice! Thanks for posting! 💖

[@dshepherd107]

Very nice Tom Petty song rendition. My GenX self was singing along with you 🙂

[@keariewashburn4680]

❤❤❤ Wonderful Patrick!

[@ElanaVital83]

This is great!

[@blueshoes915]

Beautiful. Thank you for sharing! 💕

[@veryhappymondays]

Yay! Bravo! 👏😎 Rock on good Sir! ❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥

[@BallietBran]

Beautiful song Patrick! 🎵

[@rainbowconnected]

Such a joy to hear you sing! You have a beautiful voice. Thank you for sharing your voice with us. I know you had to work harder than most to do it. I'm so lucky to have found you and the healing community you've fostered here. You provided the guidance and reparenting role model I was missing. I've grown so much and can't thank you enough 💓

[@Treezp1]

Patrick, Thank You for being brave enough to share your voice (at least I think you are?) as well as everything else! You're an inspiration! ❤ Love Theresa

[@sarahteahan2329]

I’ve followed you for such a long time now but never had the courage to post. I live with my childhood trauma everyday. But I seem to attract abuse like a magnet. I’m 45 now & I say to people how can these things not be my fault. Their reply is “you were a child”. But I’m not a child now. Yet the same things happen by different people so it must be me 😢 (coincidence of your posts being so relevant to me & we have the same surname)

[@LesleyLow]

I used to think this too. But it's Not you. You have just got less detecting ability to spot the tricks, because it was trained out of you, very severely. I had to learn to suspect ALL FLATTERY, ALL HELP ( what's in it for them?), I STOPPED GIVING COMPLIMENTS, UNTIL I TRUSTED SOMEONE NOT TO JUST NEED ME, SO THEY GET BIGGED UP BY ME. NO BEING SOMEONE'S PET POODLE, NO TROTTING ALONG ON SOMEONE ELSE SCHEDULE.

[@sarahteahan2329]

@@LesleyLow Thank you for that. It’s really does make so much sense. Just have to learn to apply it now 🩷

[@kathycarlson7947]

How wonderful!! Love your musical expression.

[@Ordiornetide]

Wow. Very poignant. Thank you for putting music to my feelings and validating them

[@madeleinegrayson8372]

Wonderful cover of Tom Petty's, "You Got Lucky." It's an underappreciated gem.

[@liveliife999]

This is so beautiful 🙏🤍

[@FooothillsandFree]

Thank you, Patrick! Your music vids are my absolute favorites (and the What Happened to videos)! It’s so special to get to hear your voice too ✨ Thank you for letting us in!

[@tinaperez7393]

Omg sounds like Lindsey Buckingham! 😮👍

[@xyDamian]

Even though this isn't exactly my genre i gotta say you got some serious talent. Love it!!

[@fluffyclouds555]

Wow Patrick. The voice on you. Thanks for sharing your gifts with the world. Brought a tear to my eye.

[@janettemartin4604]

“Sympathy for the Devil” plays on my KZbin right after this short! lol,,,,, 😢😂🎉 GREAT JOB! Survived! Keep on SURVIVING!

[@ElanaVital83]

😅 my next song is the Johnny Depp Mega Pint remix

[@pointofnoreturn3103]

I guess that it depends on what you have recently listened to on KZbin. For me, it went right to Renata Tebaldi singing Giusto Ciel from Siege of Corinth...

[@suzyhomeacre]

You did Tom proud!🥹 Patrick, thank you for helping us, & in such a relatable & cool way. 🫶🏻

[@helenarubio3371]

is this your singing voice? WoW 🎉!

[@μαρουσωμανιατη]

How talented! It's a miracle you have found your real self!❤

[@saragates2255]

🫶👏🫶 More music! Love it!

[@user-CAB]

Ouch, great, I’m sitting here in tears, too much to even process let alone talk about.

[@Inug4mi]

I’m glad you were able to pursue music as a major in college. I wasn’t allowed to do that and I had to give it up which really killed me. Waste of money, you see. Great to see people who didn’t meet that same fate.

[@jennytaylor3324]

"It's never too late to become what you might have been." ~ George Eliot BTW, what's your instrument?

[@lisamagibiller1664]

Brilliant childhood trauma expert, talented musician…AND the voice of an angel. I’ll never be able to fully express the true depth of gratitude for all the healing I’ve experienced here and in the community. TY Patrick, for EVERYTHING! Listening to these lyrics in your voice makes them feel so much safer to hear…thank you for giving a voice to things I can’t say out loud yet. 🥺❤️‍🩹

[@annikahansen6879]

Thank you, Patrick. Your brave, vulnerable and deeply empathic presence here on an accessible channel is immensely valuable for a lot of us who… don’t have voices of our own yet, but strive to find our space, our safety and our freedom. I am deeply grateful for all that you choose to share, please know that it reaches many of us who can’t afford conventional therapy, or somehow are restricted from it due to relationships, geography or other temporary obstacles. Best wishes for the future, to you and to everyone else ❤️🍀

[@b.garland1826]

Fantastic. I would like to title this one, "The Abuser's (lame a$$) Script." When my counselor described for me some typical patterns across abusive romantic relationships -- and then guessed lines much like your lyrics as things my husband had indeed said, I was convinced he would follow the rest of the patterns. Seeing the script was enough to convince me to leave. Being able to recognize that my ex-husband had zero creativity stripped away much of the power I had been attributing to him.

[@debralawsonpascua9632]

Thank you Patrick! You are a pretty neat human being. Very cool. I felt invisible for a number of decades - disconnected. One day, I met someone who mirrored back to me, my expression of my emotions. That was amazing. It brought up a ton of emotion, like my life blew up. Lolol. But for the first time I was able to not only connect with that person, but more importantly - I don’t know. Hard to describe. Not only was I seen, but I was unmasked. This song by Tom Petty is definitely a good one. I am glad that you enjoy your talent.

[@Jo-whoknowshowmany]

Superb

[@mikesmith6594]

This song resonates with me I too feel invisible!

[@ladylost2792]

Yup! And man, I went, and haven't looked back.

[@jessamari159]

So real, thanks for this reminder of our inherent self worth ❤

[@CatFish107]

I came to the channel for insights and to grow my understanding. I stayed for the surprise musical performance. Wow! That was very lovely.

[@joysofnatureart]

Beautiful rendition and meaningful! Also, Refugee and I Won't Back Down are good. Jumping medium to music hits where it counts. Thank you.

[@donovangray4246]

It always amazes me how talented he is and yet he's a counselor too 😂

[@cocoxtina8366]

I know! I'm definitely impressed😊💕

[@jules2713]

bravo!

[@breemee1234]

Man if only I could stop being triggered long enough to afford a home studio as my coping mechanism 😏 vicious cycle

[@Dee-qg7mz]

Patrick is the greatest Councillor ive ever known out of the many ive talked 2. 😊

[@jenmulvaney]

Fucking LOVE you, Patrick!!! ❤️‍🔥 I feel like we would have totally been friends and hung out if we had met back in the day. You feel like soul family. Thanks for being fucking rad 🤘

[@auntshelly]

I love this so much! This man has helped me heal in so many ways. It feels like such a blessing to be able to hear his music and voice.

[@LimitlessThinker]

You have a great voice and this was excellent!❤

[@lisah1687]

When is your new album dropping? 😉

[@pointofnoreturn3103]

Lovely! I like your singing voice! Thank you. Susan

[@mikesmith6594]

I resonate with this song I feel invisible.

[@miiab9487]

That is AMAZING to me that you are so open to be yourself and post your creativity to KZbin .. that just shows how much healing you have done ♥️ I’m so nervous to even post pictures of myself 😢

[@joanajacinto5310]

Thank you. ❤

[@MonsieurChapeau]

Just so inspiring, thank you 🙏

[@karasmusic123]

I love it!

[@ClancyKeegan-f4v]

Richard Rohr, everything is a gift on You Tube 🙏

[@wowthatwasit]

Thank you for sharing your gifts, Patrick.🌼 🎶🎵 Your gift of healing has been the most help in my life. Rock on❗️

[@-starlight-88]

Loved this ❤. Thank you for posting.

[@utkarshtripathi7118]

Awesome

[@curiousnerdkitteh]

Beautiful and inspiring! Now you're really making me want to get back into playing music myself, something I haven't done in a long time.

[@aimeelee1233]

Can we get your full version? This is just lovely.

[@the51project]

That title was my childhood, teens, and much later in life, 'being told who I was.'

[@momentsoftruth7712]

Lovely chords...😘✨👌

[@orielwiggins2225]

Love this. Thank you, Patrick.

[@with_compassion]

Hey--you've made it your own!-and well ! Thank you for sharing. I process and express thru music lyrics/all kinds of art as well. There are many aspects that feel similar in which you share/touch on--guess it's the flavor of trauma we kids here have in common. Just need to figure out how to get the songs out/down on paper. It's hauntingly beautiful- this song. One can feel how much the meanings hold. The way you sang this, made me think it was lyrics of your own at very first, then i realized. Good choice-or perhaps it chose you! Thanks again/you do more than you realize for everyone-past, present, and future... i'm happy for those that stumble upon your works that are there available as support. Be well, rock on.

[@redwingrz]

❤TP✌️

[@thegamingguy1]

Wholesome!

[@Ewa19750928]

"You got lucky that I found you" is a beginning of a relationship with an abusive narc. I sensed manipulation from the first words. Whoever hears this from a potential partner, should run away fast. They will play romantic and sing to catch their victims in their spiderweb but it is all fake. Obviously apart from your talent Patrick.

[@helenaromanishyna3986]

Beautiful

[@Whipporwhill]

So good! Love it!💜

[@TheQueenCode]

Thanks!

[@patrickteahanofficial]

Thank you!

[@TheQueenCode]

@@patrickteahanofficial You’re welcome

[@22RosesGrow]

You have a great voice.✨

[@youtubingbabs]

Most songs are revealed to be highly distinctional since therapy! Lol. It's freeing to enjoy them the way I did as a kid. Just a song!

[@corinnawinkler1872]

Good job! ❤

[@julierstjohn]

I feel worthless all the time sucks, because my mental health

[@LesleyLow]

You're even better than Robert Plant! Amazing!

[@cathylowe3404]

Wow, you have some pipes!!

[@heatherlynn3438]

Alright!! 😂👍

[@Numina_]

❤

[@iCaretoomuchh]

Wow so talent

[@lauramalone3158]

🖤

[@philliptraum2788]

Big U2 - One vibes.

[@Chapps1941]

I've never had worth. I was born on probation. It was revoked at 6 months old. What is "worth"?

[@cairosilver2932]

Yep, we stole our own continued existence

[@evaleveejets2527]

You haven't got the worth you deserved. Be that first person that gives the respect and worth that gives you.

[@Chapps1941]

@@cairosilver2932 we stole it? My conception caused a shotgun wedding. But on the night of the wedding she, the alleged mutha, consumated it with another man. She 'sold' herself till I was 14. I never had a mum. Consequently I've never known love.

[@Chapps1941]

@@thinkforyourself518 thanks. I spose I'll just get up again tomorrow morning.

[@kya9895]

​@@Chapps1941A life story so painful - Experienced by many, but few will tell. Thank you for sharing. We are not alone.

[@Sophie-ur2qb]

So beautiful 🩷 Also, I love your setup! The lights are so pretty ✨️ Your voice reminds me of a famous singer, but their name is not there 😅🤔

[@Socialwatch2025]

❤😊

[@tahwsisiht123]

[@AvaGrail]

🙏🏼💜💜💜