Being married to a Japanese woman as a foreign man

[@takashiifromjapan]

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[@INFP-T50]

She looks like a Japanese American born in LA. Basically, Japanese people do not marry foreigners. Few of them are married to black men.

[@MyRinto]

Hi Takashi I am from india kerala .I love to marry a Japanese lady ,how to find a Japanese girl ? Is there any special dateing websites?

[@MyRinto]

@Aki Ami Masen hi

[@MyRinto]

@Aki Ami Masen how are you ,

[@saradc7020]

Hello would you consider making an interview to explore the muslims females experience during job interviews in Japan, especially those wearing headscarves. Arigatogozaimashita🙏🙏

[@yafeeme]

TAKASHI, your English has gotten so much better, it's insane. You seem so much more comfortable with the language.

[@Aminthekingson]

Asian women do not like black men

[@nvmoe]

Can we just pause to appreciate what an absolute KZbin genius Takashii is? Seriously. As a viewer who subscribed when he was only at 20k subs in late 2021, I've followed his growth for awhile now. He's at practically 1 mil subs in under 3yrs, he uses no B-roll, no music or SFX (n hence saves on subscriptions), he does very basic video editing which saves time n effort, and doesn't use any copyrighted content at all so no copyright claims. With >170 million views in the last 6 mths, his Adsense revenue must be fantastic. Not to mention sponsorships and affiliate links. As for content, yes he used to spend hours looking for interviewees but the content is basically generated from them with some well thought questions from him. Meaning little (if any) time wasted on scripts and storytelling, no studio set-up, no props, no costumes, no website, and very little gear which means low expenses. This is just what I see as an outsider. If anyone ever wanted to succeed on KZbin in one of the most resource efficient ways possible, I would highly recommend them study Takashii's channel. Congrats Takashii! Looking forward to what you've got planned next! 🎉

[@tribzman3977]

@avocado8952 Fully agree! Very superficial indeed and really hate that he only uses westerners for profit only, but not interested with making friends from those who are essentially paying for his livelihood. Ughh....

[@Lo-to7zh]

What revenue you think he made ?

[@ssjkaryuusennin]

@@tribzman3977 they talk for a few minutes mate, also most of his videos are interviews of japanese people

[@maxsmart99]

💯

[@walkwithmama]

Being Japanese mother who raised biracial (African American/Japanese)children in North Carolina, my husband and I had to make sure that our kids were raised in multicultural and diverse environments including schools and neighborhoods. They were always raised to be proud of both race/ethnicity/culture. They are now adult and very balanced individuals and we are extremely proud of them. Good luck!!

[@in5minutes556]

"They were always raised to be proud of both race/ethnicity/culture" you sound like a hypocrite here. You you also support White kids being raised to be proud of their race/ethnicity/culture? If not, you're a disgusting human being

[@dutchylondon]

did the 1 drop rule apply? what I mean is dk they identify are African Americans rather than Asian and have black partners?

[@walkwithmama]

@@dutchylondon In 1990s, people (usually black people) used to tell us that my kids should not identify themselves as 1/2 Japanese due to the 1 blood drop rule you just mentioned. My husband and I didn't pay no attention to those people. We are in the South (= NC), so people were still very closed-minded and believed such an old rule at that time. But for the past 15 years or so, we have not heard anyone say things like that. Time has changed.

[@dutchylondon]

@@walkwithmama but do your children themselves identify with being black? you can tell by the friends they keep, their wife/husband normally, political point of views etc. I very rarely see balanced biracial people, tend to lean to one side only. I get the feeling the guy in the video would like his kids to identify as black. both of them speak English to each other so when the child lives in USA she will forget Japanese very quickly anyway. he mentions his family is important but didn't stop to think what about her family in Japan, her parents etc

[@walkwithmama]

@@dutchylondon Our children claim both races and ethnicity if asked. They always identify them as biracial or multiracial. They love being black and Japanese. They are comfortable being identified as both races/ethnicity but sometimes people around them are not. So I understand what you are saying. :) If some people would like to raise their child as black instead of biracial, I believe they have the right to do so and I wouldn't judge them for that. :) I was only speaking for my family. Although it was not easy at all, we enjoyed raising them and we are extremely proud of our well-around kids.

[@boopboop9356]

I just gotta give a clap to the lady at 6:48 for spraying the ground with water where her dog peed. 👏🏽👏🏽 I love the Japanese culture of consideration it’s so amazing.

[@Aminthekingson]

Asian women do not like black men

[@dutchylondon]

iam. sure she will stop doing that in USA lol

[@dutchylondon]

@須崎 ask them yourself I don't wear face masks when u don't need to

[@MrBorington]

Even before the COVID, the Japanese wear face mask when they don’t feel well, afraid of spread illness to others, basically being considerate. And it could be due to the pollen season over there too. You may say why don’t they stay home. The work culture in Japan is you try not to take sick leave, because your coworkers will have to do your stuff when they are busy enough already.

[@ideus3718]

@須崎 because in Japan, it’s well ingrained in the culture to wear a face mask if you feel unwell and are out in public. It’s literally just consideration for the people around you, and minimising the risk of spreading a cold or illness to others unnecessarily.

[@karenmonson9893]

This was a really good interview. They seem very genuine and love their daughter very much. Appreciate how they want her exposed to different cultures and ways of life. They were honest in saying it would be difficult for her getting older as a child of different race parents.

[@joshdagoat9284]

It wont be difficult at all were in the Gay age no one gives a fuck my nigga they literally got a lgbtq month 😂

[@twnb7733]

The West is completely destroyed by the diversity. That’s why the black man came to Japan. The Japan will lose his soul? The africanisation of the world is the tragedy to come.

[@peacefulminimalist2028]

I agree, but parents should also be careful not to project their own experiences onto their children or assume that because a country is homogenous she will have problems . It's good that they are aware of issues that may arise, but also let the child be their own person and have their own experiences. Guess what I'm trying to say is don't make a problem out of something that might never happen, but intervene if it does. Some biracial kids in Japan never get bullied, feel japanese and have japanese friends, while others have a different experience. Being multicultural will bring about some identity "crisis" no matter where you live.

[@YaakovKadash]

Thats wrong, being multicultural on brasil is completely normal

[@yayan.8441]

I think this is one of your best interviews yet. I feel like the couple were very straightforward with their experience.

[@Johntheking78]

Asian women do not like black men

[@arbsan8366]

I’m so happy for them! And this interview was very interesting to hear especially towards the end where they talked about how you never really know your partner until they become a parent. Interesting perspective!

[@fearless2567]

That truly strikes a code... " You never know your partner until they become a parent"

[@untitled1464]

in elementary school i had a classmate who was Japanese from her father’s side, and Mexican from her mother’s side. she was super pretty and I’m ashamed to admit I was jealous of her because all the boys liked her in class. But she was the sweetest. I always wondered how it was for her growing up. I don’t think it was too bad because we were all very welcoming of her. the last time i saw her was 13 years ago when we were teenagers and i was walking to the bank and she quickly recognized me and greeted me. i hope she’s doing okay.

[@Glazyfuv]

Does she know Japanese and Spanish?

[@nevion5533]

I understand what if feels like to be jealous of other classmates when someone you really like is overwhelmed with attention. When you're at school or in your teenage years, really makes you feel that sometimes you aren't worthy of that person's recognition

[@Tinatina-m7h]

That’s very true、not all mixed children are being miss treated、 it’s depends on the balance of appearance and the language. My father was Japanese and my mother was Taiwanese with quarter of Dutch blood、I had been living quite long time in both Japan and Taiwan and people will only slightly pay attention to that I am not fully local but all were simply friendly.

[@ivyfeenix]

Love how genuine this interview was. The parents didn’t attempt to sugarcoat things. I’m very interested in the perspective of an interracial couple made up of a foreign woman married to a Japanese man. Especially a woman of color married to a Japanese man.

[@mookiestewart3776]

yeah those relationships tend to be even more rare

[@jollygoodgordon5580]

japanese are ''of color'' too tho? see how gooft this american idea of color is?

[@malanala7371]

​@Jolly good Gordon It's not considered that way in Japan, especially when some cultures aren't too fond of darker skin tones. So no, Japanese aren't considered as poc in Japan.

[@jollygoodgordon5580]

@@malanala7371 so what,.. Japanese in Japan consider themselves white skinned or something? Hmm I guess they are, lol I mean many are even paler than white people

[@darthwater999]

@@jollygoodgordon5580 why you dumb people criticize every form of language slightly different from your one-way view of the world? Shut up please, don't be annoying

[@nufrontierII]

Menya is truly an amazing guy and I've tuned into a lot of his videos, which goes into a lot of detail about living here in Japan. He's truly a very intelligent and humble person who I think a lot of people can be inspired by! Great interview!

[@animo9050]

Menya

[@Jon-p4g]

But you don’t know him. He could be abusive and a druggie.

[@Blueslyfox]

@@Jon-p4g You mean like the stereotype you want him to be? Even though he clearly doesn't embody the behavior of someone from an inner city nor does his wife or child look to be in any distress and babies that young don't hide shit his daughter would be 10x less playful

[@Jon-p4g]

@@Blueslyfox So people don’t put on an act in front of the camera?? Hunter Biden looks clean cut on tv with his sharp hair cut and suit. But did we ever know that he was into strippers and drugs behind the scenes??

[@ben-taobeneton3945]

Wow! Phenomenal interview! Parents like these that are aware of their surrounding are very, very rare these days in my opinion. A lot just swallow it and cope with the difficulties but these parents were honest about the reality that they are facing, their child is gonna face and other challenges that will come. The best thing that they said which I wholeheartedly support is to _'broaden the perspective of the child'_ - have more freedom for the child. I respect that so much.

[@jonalfa117]

I’m Mexican/American and my fiancé is Japanese. When I first met her parents they were so welcoming, they didn’t speak English but they tried their best to communicate

[@Aminthekingson]

Asian female do not like black men

[@Glazyfuv]

That’s very sweet of them

[@Riskbloq]

I love how their daughter is just minding her own business 😄Proper toddler behaviour!

[@Chicago2714]

😂😂😂 frfr

[@MarkMcKlee]

Sasha OBM💝listens to LATE NIGHT SHIFT by Nigerian rapper, Big NoVie. ~TML🍽️❤

[@davidbetancourt4028]

I loved seeing the dad dote and pay attention to their little one. You can just tell that the little girl is just the light of his life. Just so sweet. I also love how thoughtful and measured his speaking was.

[@Johntheking78]

Asian women do not like black men

[@akealahlindsay708]

Even white girls hates that family 😂

[@pepoCD]

what a lovely family! the dad in particular is very intelligent, thoughtful and well spoken. I wish them all the best of luck!

[@MalikWilliams-k2u]

Asian female do not like black men

[@BondofOblivion]

He seems like he takes himself too seriously.

[@Marcel_Audubon]

@@BondofOblivion all soi-disant "influencers" are like that ... still, he was thoughtful and articulate - the perfect interview subject

[@londonmmc]

​@Mochichi we don't know him personally. No need to judge that deeply. And not everyone is the same. Some people take themselves seriously, it's not wrong, just different from you and I

[@BondofOblivion]

@@londonmmc it wasn't deep and I didn't say that it was wrong. It's was an observation. "Seems like" because yes, I do not know him.

[@robertdomlim9357]

Filipino here married to my wonderful Japanese wife who I met at work here in the Philippines ❤️ Could not be any happier with my life right now with her and our son!

[@MalikWilliams-k2u]

Asian women do not like black men

[@johnwick2577]

brilliant!! happy to hear that

[@stevenobinator2229]

Probably because your child isnt an African

[@TheFlatEarthChannelcom]

How does your son feel about being bi racial? Any acceptance issue ?

[@suppernova1184]

@@TheFlatEarthChannelcom are they biracial couple though ? both are asian

[@Tianainflow]

I really enjoyed this interview. Their marriage is full of communication which is amazing.

[@Johntheking78]

Asian women do not like black men

[@yeskev]

Excellent interview! Beautiful family! I always enjoy the longer 1-on-1 interviews. Keep it up!

[@gordonbgraham]

I've been married to a Japanese woman for 20 years. We have 5 beautiful, happy, healthy kids...largely due to her. I couldn't be happier with how things turned out. She was a motorcycle cop who pulled me over for dangerous driving...I gave her my number...She gave me a brilliant life!

[@MalikWilliams-k2u]

Asian women do not like black men

[@eliter3aper641]

Wow

[@serg30Dallas]

Nice! 😂

[@MalikWilliams-k2u]

@@serg30Dallas Asian women do not like black men, go cry about it lol

[@Unstoppable724]

5???? Wtfff dude. You want to create a Mini Japan in your house.

[@Bianca_Thatcher]

Your interview was absolutely amazing. I loved the personal interaction and their openness to their situation. I definitely can relate, being biracial and Japanese myself. It's never easy when you're born with several different ethnicity but in time, you learn to adapt. Well I hope you all have a fantastic weekend.

[@Aminthekingson]

Asian women do not like black men

[@DrUmarJohnson1]

I hope you're seeking an African male Bianca. Marrying a Japan man will present obstacles you're not equipped to endure.

[@Ap_twsh]

One thing I did not particularly like about what the father said was " its going to take a long time before the Japanese accept diversity". We as foreigners have to accept that other countries are not like our native home and we shouldn't push our ideology on them because that creates resentment and hate. I can already tell these couples goal is to influence Japanese society to be more diverse, that ideology is almost colonialist.

[@matrex187]

I have a deep appreciation for Japanese culture and the unique way things are approached in Japan. Despite being 50 years old, I hold onto the hope of one day being able to travel there, if my finances permit, before the end of my life. Wishing for the best.

[@Aminthekingson]

Asian women do not like black men

[@Fuerwahrhalunke]

All that will die the more mixed Japan becomes and the more foreginers move there. Speaking from experience. Better visit now or as soon as possible.

[@Aminthekingson]

@@Fuerwahrhalunke Asian women do not like black men, go cry about it

[@princemiranda9456]

@@Fuerwahrhalunke i see what you’re saying regarding safeguarding the japanese culture. Keep in mind that given the current japanese birth rates and current economy that seems to be stuck, if they stay homogeneous the country will not grow, that means standard of living will decline and poverty will rise

[@Fuerwahrhalunke]

@@princemiranda9456 Problem is; Germany made that mistake before. Taking in millions of foreigners to keep the economy going/kickstart the economy without anyone returning afterwards. Now there are parallel societies, crime, clan structures of foreginers into the highest institutions and the more there are of them, the more demanding they become which in turn eradicates indigenous cultures, archtectures and peoples. There has to be a law that tells these people to get back home once Japan is on route to having stable birth rates. There has to be immediate action taken. I don't want Japan, for the sake of the Japanese, their culture and their country to end up like many parts of America, Europe and Germany specifically. Diversity is not this happy utopia every daydreamer thinks it is. Sooner or later nothing but problems (For the normal folk) arrive and by then it will be to late.

[@abeck0856]

You did an outstanding interview with real life situations and challenges with interracial couples in Japan. Hats off for the couple for truthfully answering with tact, diplomatically and frankness.

[@Aminthekingson]

Asian women do not like black men

[@PamelaH_HappyVibes]

Great interview! This couple are great at communicating.

[@francy80]

💞 Great interview Takashi! I really liked it. A nice family with an open mind! I wish them much happiness. See you to the next video ! 🤗

[@英会話フィットネス]

It’s so awesome to see people I’ve actually met. That couple inspires me.

[@Johntheking78]

Asian women do not like black men

[@minervaloves]

What a beautiful family!!🥰🥰🥰

[@montypython4743]

I know Menya and Risa. They are a beautiful couple. Menya's daughter will be fine because she has such a positive father figure. He is genuinely one of the nicest people I met in Japan.

[@sillyghost25]

This guy is very articulate and well worth listening to. Thank you !

[@Johntheking78]

Asian women do not like black men

[@jbm990]

Takashii, a larger microphone is a good tool for your arms safe. Tho, you're so hardworking on bringing us all these interview about so diverse topics, so keep going!

[@stealth_meister4939]

This has instantly become one of my favorite YT channels out there. I was raised in Iwakuni, Japan for about 5ish years. I'm planning on going back one day if I'm able to get into college so I can learn Japanese properly (I only know how to count and certain phrases from when I was little) and teach English in Japan. I love seeing these videos since I see Japan as my second home. I never got the opportunity to learn about Japan as a nation/culture/society since I was so little, but these videos definitely help! Keep it up!

[@MalikWilliams-k2u]

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[@wm6549]

If she is American, this marriage isn't that unusual.

[@rickyurena2569]

100%. We don't care that much (if at all) lol

[@blasianking4827]

She is ethnically Japanese, so she will generally be perceived as Japanese by other Japanese people. They're still an interracial couple in Japan, so learning about their experiences is valuable.

[@Yuien0]

@@rickyurena2569 you obviously did , you felt triggered and commented and showed just how much you cared lol

[@minervaloves]

@@rickyurena2569 That's why many people like Americans and would love to live in the US. You can marry whomever you want and do whatever you want (I mean as long as you don't hurt others).

[@darthwater999]

@@minervalovesthat's also why many people dislike them 😊

[@MsBrooklyn11232]

I always look forward to your videos Takashii. You are almost at 1 Million Subscribers and I am happy for you! Keep your videos coming!

[@MalikWilliams-k2u]

Asian women do not like black men

[@lobodraco]

GREEEAAATTT VIDEO!!! Very informative and interesting! 👍 Thanks Takashi San!

[@Calcifurr]

You can just tell how amazing these parents are from how they talk about the reality of the future for their daughter, to what they plan to do for her to so she can be successful, and to how they look at her and smile at her. Oh and did anyone see an old lady walking her dog in the background? Her dog peed on a pole and she used a water bottle to hose it off. I wish people in my country would learn to be more courteous like this.

[@kyrectx2]

not my life but i hope when they move to the US they ensure japanese is spoken at home so she can grow up bilingual

[@stevenobinator2229]

Daughter will just say she's black 100% hate white people and blame them for even a rainy day

[@anticommunist-sg3cn]

why bother with that communist chinese language? English is the language of the world. we don't need other tribal languages from commie marxist countries.

[@jmbickham]

They are rare, but find a place with a Japanese international school. It will make a huge difference over 補習校 for their Japanese language skills and likely with their math skills as well since they’ll learn math in both languages.

[@stevenobinator2229]

@@jmbickham There are more international schools in Bangkok than all of Japan combined

[@jmbickham]

@@stevenobinator2229 He is from the US and she has lived in the US before, he talked about being closer to family and specifically talked about possibly moving back to the US. So I don’t really see the relevance of there being more international schools in Bangkok than all of Japan.

[@World-Wide-Will]

Such and interesting and compelling interview that hits very close to home for me. I am a product of a African American father and Japanese mother so I know the exact insights, from a middle-aged mans perspective. Next time in I am in Japan Takashii, I'd be happy to share my personal experiences with you.

[@Aminthekingson]

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[@user-cc4rn6om4i]

Blasians are so funny because they never look asian

[@Aminthekingson]

@@user-cc4rn6om4i Asian women do not like black men

[@KL-gq4yj]

Im from hawaii (hapa hawaiian) wife is born and raised Japanese from japan. We have 2 boys together and are currently living in hawaii. I wish the couple the best of luck moving to the US, be ready to pay all the fees for your marriage it adds up fast. My Wife and i are doing the opposite were moving to japan, i feel raising our two boys there is the better option.

[@angelesvarella1461]

Hawaii is a very expensive State. Very different than others here in the US.

[@dreammingpoetry]

I know what you mean I could never raise a family in America , it's getting crazy here.

[@KL-gq4yj]

@@angelesvarella1461 it really is! The saying we hear is "it cost alot to live in paradise" funny thing is we can't even enjoy it because we're working double time just to get by....now that I'm a father I'm considering the lifestyle of living here in Hawaii, crime has been going up like crazy, it was never this bad when I was a kid.

[@KL-gq4yj]

@@dreammingpoetry it sadly is..I love my country, I work for my country, but I fear the direction this country is headed. With violent crime on the rise we are more concerned about petty social issues.

[@angelesvarella1461]

@@KL-gq4yj I'm sorry to hear about that, I'm in Arizona, not perfect but not that violent. Hope you and your family find the best for you. Keep safe!

[@Koiva232]

I know Japanese kids have to CHOOSE a citizenship when they turned 18(?) but in the meantime, they should make sure she gets all 3 of the citizenships she is entitled to - USA, Japan, and Kenya

[@mithos789]

lol kenya

[@onobonono]

It's always fascinating to learn how people are able to make such a unique lifestyle work out. Thanks for the great interview, Takashi.

[@Johntheking78]

Asian women do not like black men

[@yoanjapan6751]

Thank you so much for the video as always!!!! It was cute how they danced around the word 'racism' 😅! Both were pretty articulate and honest. I've seen (few) healthy and happy international couples in Japan. Their secret? Talk honestly about thoughts, goals, plans and feelings. Which bear in mind is not necessarily a thing in Japanese culture, where you're supposed to understand your partner more 'instinctively '

[@NicoDoesLP]

My gf is Japanese. We can discuss things like this relatively freely. She's pretty much not a typical Japanese girl, and she mostly uses English since her English is great. I can speak Japanese but she prefers English. I'm just so happy that she loves me and I love her too. My life wouldn't be the same without her

[@Blanketz_]

Love the channel. Keep up the great work and I can't wait to visit Japan!

[@JoshJames-yj7ej]

Asian female do not like black men

[@containeduniverselow4790]

Excellent interview! I love how they just say it how it is (honne) and not hide it (tatemae). Outstanding people. Japan can be very, "don't stand out" and "do as everyone else does without question" from a cultural standpoint. Here in Boston, MA, there's a ton of Chinese people. The state has one of the largest populations of Chinese people in the country. There's a good amount of blasians as well. It's a great thing for different cultures to experience and learn from each other.

[@MalikWilliams-k2u]

Asian girls do not like black men

[@tomsmith7785]

Takashii San……this was a great interview. Two wonderful articulate people. How do you find such subjects to speak with? This was one of your better topics. Congratulations on the increase of viewership.

[@jltplease]

5:25 I greatly disagree with that opinion on Japan. He speaks like homogeneity is a bad thing. It comes off as not in touch with Japan and spreading a foreign idiology for personal reasons. BTW its not because he's black. So dont reply to me with racial slurs and crap like that.

[@DXcellence718Returns]

I agree, anyone making this a thing cause hes black is being disingenuous and dont want to have a genuine discussion. If im visiting/living in another country i should be prepare to follow whatever rules are set in stone for such country. I think you can have some sort of diversity as long as it doesn't overtake the homogeneity of the country. IMO if people were so worried about diversity they should just stay in america lol.

[@cthaxter1999]

This is a really good, in-depth interview!

[@Aminthekingson]

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[@LukasAllgood]

They're both super intelligent and well-spoken. Great interviewees ^^

[@MalikWilliams-k2u]

Asian women do not like black men

[@ericstrickland9866]

Good interview. I remember in growing up in USA in high school , I had a friend she was an exchange student from Japan. I wish we would have kept in contact or even married today, she was such a good lady .

[@Aminthekingson]

Asian women do not like black men

[@mish422]

The husband is thoughtful & well spoken. Both seem nice.

[@りきぴ4649]

I grew up in Japan and moved to USA at secondary school age. I can honestly say that Japan’s living standards are much higher

[@obryn]

That Japanese girl sounds more American than anything which leads me to believe they’re both American who moved to Japan. Intercultural relationships are tough but if you’re an expat, that’s another barrier.

[@seb-astian-design]

On a sidenote how his outfit, how he carry himself, takes care of his daughter and how he speaks is amazing...looking up to that.

[@gdr88]

these are just two americans...

[@sweebos]

Awesome interview. Really enjoy different perspectives. 🙂

[@rina5407]

Love your interviews. I feel like I learn a lot watching your videos.

[@SkhumbuzoMathabela-wq8ug]

This child is blessed and rich of heritage 3 in one Kenyan/american/japanese/biracial. Wow! Her hair is more African though which is good for the man

[@leylamaxaley5325]

Wow that was good honest interview 👏🏾👏🏾

[@Johntheking78]

Asian women do not like black men, go cry about it

[@xLadyRaine]

Their baby was so vocal. So cute

[@TheHumbleBishop]

Great interview!! Thank you so much for your videos Takahashi-san! They are always so well done, informative and pleasant to watch!

[@stevenobinator2229]

No such thing as an african american..... you're either african or american...... you are in ZERO ways african just because you have black skin......your brain is still american.....M O R O N

[@broGabiza]

I love your channel because it touches on many relevant topics for biracial and mixed kids. Thank you for your interviews. I have just flown through Haneda Airport on mmy way to my fiance in Philippines but the topics raised are universally relevant

[@Liacasri6871]

Such a beautiful couple 👏🏻👏🏻🌹

[@Aminthekingson]

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[@StanSensei]

Hey Takashi, next time can you please ask Japanese women what's the max age difference they would consider when dating a foreigner?

[@johnathanbrown5244]

PLAIN AND SIMPLE Their blessed 🙏 What a beautiful family Much ♥️💯

[@Aminthekingson]

Asian women do not like black men

[@Marcel_Audubon]

so, so interesting! Best of luck to the couple and thanks for sharing your insights and personal experiences with us

[@ldbtech3849]

I grew up in Algeria we tend to speak at least three languages without including English. So, it is kinda easy when you have parents who speak different languages so by the end of primary school oneself can already speak more languages fluently.

[@Aminthekingson]

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[@jonnyh5858]

This guy is awesome. I love his honest view about the racial/xenophobic and career problems which plague Japan. Even if you don’t consider insane issues like mandatory fax machines and family inkan/hanko, Japan’s “unique situation” is an aging, and (frankly) legacy economy that is burdened by a society that sees any hint of western influence as dangerous or disruptive. Truly a nation in desperate need of reform. Tradition and culture are worth protecting, so “preserve” them in a museum. Don’t pretend that stifling “outsiders” or suffocating your youth’s economic future is noble. ✌🏻🇯🇵

[@JoshJames-yj7ej]

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[@darthwater999]

>plague

[@猫月-v7x]

アメリカに行けば、薬物汚染と銃や暴力、医療保険の悩みがある。 どこに住んでも天国は無い。 日本は海外にこうしたら良いとは言わないのに、本当に余計なお世話だな。 米や麦を自動で刈り取る機械をクボタが開発したし、トヨタは革新的な自動車を発明してくれた。 レアアースの採掘も始まる。 日本の事は日本人が一番心配しているし、なんとかしたいと思ってるよ。 ハンコとかFAXとか、いちいち干渉しないで。 他国の事より、自分の国を良くする事を考えたら？

[@user-cc4rn6om4i]

Outsiders aren’t needed and yeah the west likes to destroy what it touches

[@soulweaponx6644]

Great interview. I am not surprised. The world does not take blended relationships very well no matter where you go.

[@user-cc4rn6om4i]

That’s how it should be

[@kansairobot2015]

they are both americans...

[@Perhapsawiseman]

Powerful family!!! 💪🏻

[@G_L_2023]

This couple is gorgeous

[@alphaeligon9226]

Amazing segment, Takashi! Keep up the great content!

[@Johntheking78]

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[@spikytoaster]

I love those guys they really seem like some real chill and nice people and I genuinely wish the best for them

[@Aminthekingson]

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[@davidalfaro1429]

Hell yeah ❤ this just what I needed.

[@Aminthekingson]

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[@Kris-ym2zr]

Great episode, thanks for making it. Solid questions and very insightful and engaging answers.

[@strife2746]

I mean she is ethnically Japanese but they're both from the US. So culturally you can't really call it a bicultural relationship either. I'd more like to see an interview with a bicultural couple where the Japanese man/woman actually grew up in Japan.

[@josephrobinson1652]

Takashii-san, thank you so very much for this video! I am in a similar position as this couple: African-American married to a Japanese woman with 2 kids that will be moving to Japan very soon (temporarily). As you've been told many times over already, this was a GREAT interview with the family being so open, honest and forward. We've been to Japan many times, but I have never lived there, and with my daughters being bi-racial, there have obviously been many concerns that have crossed our minds. Again, I appreciate seeing things through this greatly articulated perspective. I have subscribed to your channel and look forward to more great content! Arigatou gozaimasu!

[@GlitchFairy]

What an attractive adorable family ✨

[@Clarenceisgoat]

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[@jepa8]

Negro

[@BWT599]

Interesting interview even though some have commented that she's technically American, yet their challenges remain within the microcosm of Japanese society/culture. I'm Chinese and my wife is Filipina/Japanese and we live in Canada. We traveled to Japan several times and my sister in law just moved from Japan. Another issue that can arise with foreign mixed couples is that the foreign man, as an example, is not part of the "formula" when combined with their child and mother. Child + Mother might = 1 + 2 but the father will be 0. So this kind of situation has lead to those issues of Japanese moms taking the child back to Japan and the father has no say in terms or custody rights etc. We met an American dad who was trying to find his child back in Japan and we heard once he did, he had no rights to fight for custody for the child. We met an organization that was representing such parents a few years ago so I hope they have made some progress on behalf of such foreign parents. Asian Boss recently did a video of a similar case in Korea.

That was great!

[@Umi_Oni]

Great interview man. Thank you for sticking to this channel. As an American, I find his perspective to be very interesting, and he's very well spoken and thoughtful about his position in Japan. He seems very caring and thoughtful of Japanese culture, yet willing to question the obvious wrongs of implicit racism.

[@Aminthekingson]

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[@TonyVsSportsShortsandMore]

Great video! Just recently discovered the channel and always enjoy the content. Your interviews are always very thoughtful and interesting. Thank you for all the hard work.

[@MrBlackBono]

Love this video, great Job TAKA

[@operator0]

Her English is impeccable. Her dad must have spoken it to her a LOT when she was growing up. If I didn't know any better, I would think she's from Ohio or Nebraska or something.

[@Johntheking78]

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[@marllon9786]

I'm pretty sure she was born and/or raised in the United States.

[@kinggg504]

THE HONESTY IS AWESOME. WISH THEM WELL 🙏🏽

[@kelsthevibe]

We need to get thus man to 1M subs

[@memyself4ever1]

The baby was so cute and animated! LOL!🤣🤣

[@Aminthekingson]

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[@matthewramon-wr9fo]

This is an amazing couple.. .I wish they're experience could be had by many in Japan.

[@Aminthekingson]

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[@johnchallis5408]

Love the videos Takashii. And, I love the fact the father picked his child's bogey then wiped it on her sock! Classic dad move 😂

[@Aminthekingson]

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[@amirhazeri7689]

14:13 The way she held her is funny and like a cradle.

[@Johntheking78]

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[@Ekam-Sat]

From personal experience (with exceptions, of course), Japanese women are often considered highly attractive to Western men. However, it can be challenging for Western men to be with a Japanese woman in the long run, as Western men typically desire more affection in both emotional and physical forms, such as hand-holding, hugging, and general intimacy. This can become an issue in relationships with Japanese women, especially after marriage or having children, which contributes to the higher than usual prevalence of sexless marriages in Japan which is a killer for most Western men. Western men may in the beginning of the relationship not realize that they are usually more expressive in showing affection because they are so deeply smitten/attracted to their partner. Personally, I also appreciate mutual words of affirmation, but Japanese women, in general, tend to offer fewer compliments (or usually none) which may also feel awkward for men. There's also a notable difference in communication styles between Western cultures and Japan. I hail from Western Europe, where open communication and freely expressing emotions are common, which is quite different from the cultural norm in Japan. It's often customary in Japan to keep emotions in check and avoid expressing them until a point where they might explode. What we in the West might perceive as giving someone the silent treatment appears to be very common from what I experienced. Western people are sometimes seen as more direct, and this straightforwardness can be seen as negative by some in Japan. However, many Westerners value honesty and direct communication over suppressing emotions and building resentment. Also; I grew up with Christian ideals of love and forgiveness, which seems foreign in a Japanese context. My ex once mentioned that these values are rooted in Christianity and don't necessarily apply to her culture. I've observed that Japanese people often keep their emotions inside to maintain 'wa' (harmony) until one day they might reach a breaking point and then there's no way going back. It's important to remember that every person is unique, and these are just general observations based on personal experience. While having an appreciation for a different culture and an admiration for their beauty, it doesn't guarantee a perfect long-term fit in a relationship. It's crucial to evaluate your relationship objectively, especially before considering marriage. Being deeply infatuated can sometimes cloud your judgment. In my case, I too over-the-top "smitten" with my Japanese girlfriend so quickly got married, spent over 20 years in the relationship, and eventually divorced because I was suffering internally due to a complete lack of affection, compliments, physical intimacy, and sex from her part. However, I am grateful for the beautiful children that came from that union. I wish everyone the best of luck in life and love.

[@EfrainRiveraJunior]

If you meet a Japanese woman wearing a Grogu t-shirt, you marry her!

[@tritruong8125]

What a lovely family

[@Aminthekingson]

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[@DragonKingGaav]

Almost 1M subs! Your channel has really exploded!

[@MalikWilliams-k2u]

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[@xKINGDREx]

Takashii! I just watched your video “What Do Japanese Envy About Foreigners” and I noticed a lot of the Japanese men feel it’s harder for them to grow their muscles. I’m commenting on your recent video hoping you’ll see it and be able to give them these 2 pieces of advice. I’m African American and when I graduated high school i was about 72 Kg and when I graduated college I had been working out for football and weighed 95Kg. 1. I found that it doesn’t matter how hard anyone works out if they don’t get enough nourishment especially Protein they won’t have the resources to grow the muscle. Exercise tears the muscle but in order to rebuild that muscle bigger and stronger you must eat more than you normally would. Aim for 1.2g-2g of protein per kg of body weight. The excess nutrients are used to build more muscle fibers. The protein doesn’t have to come from meat. I personally supplement with plant based protein from Ambrosia Collective. 2. SLEEP. It’s important to get as close to 8 hours of sleep as possible. When you sleep this is the time the body can stop focusing on other functions like digestion and moving around it. The body is most efficient at repairing and improving any damaged parts when we are asleep. Thats pretty much it. A bonus tip: when exercising specifically weightlifting or calisthenics make sure you’re using a moderate amount of weight and doing a moderate amount of reps 8-12. Make sure each rep is slow and controlled so you don’t use momentum instead muscle. Hope this helps!

[@Aminthekingson]

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[@mkelly4400]

Takashii San I really enjoyed this video. It was very interesting to hear both their perspectives on marriage and parenthood. I am curious about what is the change that happens once international couples get married and become parents. Also I am looking forward to hearing the perspective of a foreign woman married to a Japanese man.

[@JoshJames-yj7ej]

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[@stevenobinator2229]

Might be hard for him to find

[@mkelly4400]

@@stevenobinator2229 That is very true but I hope Takashii San is able to do so. 😀

[@marklongley5738]

@@mkelly4400 Hiy Steven, Im a Kiwi boy, living in japan and i can tell you from my experience of the topic that you’re interested in. If you would like to hear my story id be happy to share with you.

[@LMLification]

@@stevenobinator2229 Actualy, no. Either Takashi or Nobita has actually interviewed a number of interracial couples consisting of Japanese men and black women. It does happen more than what the media wants to portray.

[@darlenesimmons6065]

very beautiful good couple happy for that family thanks for sharing

[@anonymous6594]

Interesting. Please do more of these interviews.

[@sombatkhnor5720]

It's not going to change, Korea and Japan have the same mindset when it comes to being diverse.

[@ch2la61]

Exactly. Both of your aforementioned counties have an adequate level of sense to recognise that the heavily promoted “diversity”, is actually a death sentence to their nations.

[@Diggi1027]

All I know is there was this girl in High School who was Japanese and Mexican. I actually went to 8th grade with her as well, her name is Oyuki Hernandez. Bruh was she absolutely gorgeous!!!!

[@thebruhnetwork]

okay

[@shinzoux5912]

Gorgeous couple 😊

[@scarecrow8201]

I feel this guys arm pain holding the mic so far out 💀

[@MalikWilliams-k2u]

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