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[@InflatedEgo92]

I'm a College graduate and working professional just moved into my new apartment I found it amusing how you mentioned that you lived on "4 dollars a week" I am currently in the exact same position waiting for my next paycheck living on 4 dollars. Thing is I aint worried at all because I believe in myself.

[@RomWills]

That's how you get through those periods.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Definitely believe in yourself and don't forget if you can't believe in what you are capable of how do you expected that others will do? Think about this one people.

[@RomWills]

Real talk.

[@thebodyweightking6203]

You are a wise man my friend!

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Thank you my friend.

[@youngking2067]

I've been hated on by mfs I never spoke to just because I keep my head high and with swagging walk . I believe in me . Dudes hate and women choose for your confidence

[@kelvinrice7872]

Believing in yourself is the only way to make the best of your dreams out to become realities. If don't nobody else believe in you, you have to believe in yourself inspite of all odds that are against you! No matter how much negative energy and discouragement is sent your way by people even close ones, you have to have strong will power and mental strength! Especially when you're doing something that most people aren't doing and don't have the guts and courage to come of the box and try something different and start your own business/empire, those are the same ones that'll try to kill your dream! The only way to fight through all the adversaries, keep telling yourself that you can do it as well as taking the neccessary steps to achieve greatness, it takes a strong individual to step out on faith try something different and become highly successful and create real financial stability for yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@RomWills]

Well said.

[@artbunker]

Believe in yourself . I know a guy who got more tail from regular clothes than namebrand. He was always told you need X shoes or Y shirt to bring the ladies in. He would keep up his stuff though and wear it very well. He never looked like a bum. He dressed more business casual wherever he went. He did buy some neck chains and a few bands. But thats all he needed. He was no a guy who was flashy. He believed himself and didn't care what others thought. he would dress for the occasion. This man got more tail on campus and in the real world than me and most of my friends combined. He taught me about keeping shoes clean and pressing shirts . Hell he helped me out of the pussy Matrix as well . The guy wasnt the most flashy, but he didn't need to be . He believed in himself and got lots of quality 8's and 9's.

[@RomWills]

That sounds like me. Simple but clean is my style.

[@artbunker]

LOL its a guy back in the 90's lolol. He was a natural. I would say only saw him fail 5times. FIVE times out of probably 400. Thats a good average

[@Zioni21]

You get me mad hyped Brother Rom! I honestly don't know whether or not to dog tf out of 95% of females, date them whilst keeping options open, date multiple, never get married or just go all out man hoe mode.. The way you've been breaking down the game man it really enlightens people and opens eyes. Alot of us act like we know it all but aint nothing wrong with REFINING it, especially with your books and videos. Mad props!!!

[@RomWills]

Thank you brotha. We're all learning including myself.

[@xavierjohnson6311]

A 9-5 definitely isn't for me, I am gonna make my business soon when I know what I am going to do lol

[@RomWills]

Do what works for you.

[@Quincy82AAC]

Thanks for the video Rom. I wrote down a list of 23 things that I achieved in my life and I am blown away and happy in what I achieved and started to believe myself despite that fact that I had family members and school teachers telling me that I wont amount to shit in life and I had people wanting and try and kill me and that I thank god that I am still alive despite the bullshit and problems that I went through during my 35 years on this planet.

[@RomWills]

That's what's saying. If you are still here, you are winning.

[@Quincy82AAC]

Thank you John. I am a fighter.

[@Quincy82AAC]

Yes indeed Rom.

[@itstayaaa8280]

Thank you again . This has been my biggest challenge in life . I’m naturally confident about life . But I get attacked to the point where it made me depressed. Now I’m just doing me . Chatter is chatter people will always talk .

[@RomWills]

Gotta fight through fam.

[@jaytoakpark]

Great message! Life can turn you into a very secure and successful man if you let it.

[@LordBanzai316]

Awesome message bro. Believe in yourself, go and achieve your dreams. Believe in your strength and might. Seek and associate yourself with greatness, ALL that is in you. Achieve your success and more! Rise brothers, rise!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@SikkDiggy]

"Quit believing everything you God-damn hear. Believe in yourself. I don't believe in shit 'til shit happens." - Bernie Mac, The Original Kings of Comedy True indeed, Uncle Rom. Every man should believe in himself. If you know who you are then you have the perfect foundation to build on in becoming the best version of yourself. Secondly, when you own up to your flaws people can't use them against you. When you know you truly are, nobody can tell you anything. Just like there's a story among Native American tribes about people having two wolves in life. One's white and the other is black. Which one do you decide to feed? For example when a man buys his dream car and a woman tries to dismiss it as the man trying to overcompensate. Should he feed the black wolf negativity or feed positive energy to the white wolf? Also, consumerism is all about preying on people's insecurities and sense of inadequacy. Especially, those of women, which is why they are often the main demographic for exploitation. An accurate example would be in Africa with all those skin lightening creams that many women buy hoping to attract a goodbar type. You can see this with members of a cult as well. They have their identity and self value based on the group and group think. Hence, they rely heavily on the group for validation. More so that of the cult's leader. kzbin.info/www/bejne/qnuZYpWvaamao7s

[@RomWills]

Great comment.

[@Geyme971]

Wise words as always. This is the school of life. Thank you sharing all this knowledge with us. Support from France !

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@alexandremonteiro1250]

Thank you very much for this great motivation video thats is why try to be different than the average black Man

[@RomWills]

Be the best you that you can be.

[@desstopp91]

That’s so true man. It’s sad that you have to feel that kind of energy from other’s just because you’re proud of yourself.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

With women is difficult because most of the time they don't know themselves that well. Women should put more attention to strong men that believes in them.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@FieryPhoenixxx]

This is true

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Thank you.

[@dontex7]

I need to watch this every morning 🙏🏾

[@darrickbrisco5016]

It all starts with self the mind controls everything we do if u go around saying u will do it or achieve it nothing will stop that from happening as long as u keep telling yourself it won't happen common sense is it won't happen because u don't want it to period ppl psyche themselves out as well too more so than other ppl I agree with u there are those who try to rain on your parade just get a new umbrella and then put they ass in trash can lol

[@RomWills]

Correct.

[@perrystanislas948]

Great video..Know the evidence of your life like nobody can. I know I have no problem attracting very attractive women..Why? because the evidence of my life shows that no matter what other people think or dont think.. I know I am an exceptional leader generally and specifically in my business and life generally..I know I am more courageous than most men..Why? ..Because the evidence of my life shows that..Know the evidence of your life..Once you do why do you give a damn what other people think or don't think..Nobody can rattle what you know for a fact..You know the evidence they dont..

[@devohnmitchell]

ROM you preaching today man hey I'm on my piano right now and I just hit an E flat Preacher chord walking it up to the 4 and to the 5!!! WELL!!!

[@RomWills]

Thanks for the accompanying.

[@Jader83]

11:18 Rastaman vibration always positive and uplifting. Great message. Thanks for sharing.

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@taesteed9603]

We all need someone to listen to to help pick US up mentally, financially etc. Who do you listen to, to help pick you up? And thank you for your motivational videos.

[@tstyles9690]

GREAT MESSAGE👍 I work w/ many Women/Men w Low Self Esteem/Insecurities/Miserable. Its So Sad and it results in them being Messy/Dramatic.

[@milliondollarmindset9867]

Powerful!!!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@C.Douglas777]

Great commentary OG!!! Belief and Trust in self go hand-in-hand and they concurrently produce confidence that U talk about all the time... not just 2 captivate women but also 2 create and attract positive energy in the life of that person.

[@RomWills]

Yep. That's what it's all about. Creating that life.

[@IamKarryanne]

I enjoyed listening to this positive message! everyone needs to hear what your saying, I don't agree with everything you say but your message is original! My dad was a rasta and looking back, he was confident as hell!

[@RomWills]

Thank you sister.

[@mimia8388]

Great motivational video. This video is a nice tap on the shoulder. So to speak.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@mimia8388]

Rom Wills you are welcome

[@robertg7521]

I'm a longtime listener and now a subscriber. As always I learn from you and enjoy starting my Sunday morning with your positive uplifting messages. Thanks, Rom!

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@SuccessIsCertain]

This joint was subtle yet powerful, Big Ups Rom Wills...

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@gorjusgorillawitz2459]

REWWWIIND!!!!????...good food Rom....breaking bread...REWIIINNNDDD...FAITH....REWIINDDD!!!!....in the mornin before you head out the door...after you play that song "KEEP RISING TO THE TOP"...

[@RomWills]

That's a good theme song.

[@MegaPsycho84]

Thank you for this message. I needed to hear this. Being that right now, I’am in that “$4 a week” before my pay check comes Friday situation, currently lol. I have lost girlfriends, so called friends, and even family members because of my firm stance on principle. And I will not let that stop me from achieving anything. If anything, I use it as fuel, motivation. And it has helped me in my studying and teaching thus far. Self evaluation, self reflection, self inventory, and self investment is key to keeping oneself in check. Shift your attitude towards the positive outcome of a win, and learn from the negative outcome of a L. The main purpose is to make progress, no matter what. It’s not so much of where you’re at, but it’s where you’re going. So focus, and take action...by any means necessary. Love your channel brother, keep it up. Us young brotha’s need this type of knowledge.

[@RomWills]

Stay on that principle. Real talk I could make 6 figures working for this millionaire I know. The problem is what he does for a living though legal goes against my principles. I'd rather work a minimum wage job than violate my principles.

[@MegaPsycho84]

Rom Wills Exactly brother lol. That’s so true. I really appreciate that response.

[@emmanuelogunyemi7698]

Rom, you’ve been like a father to me. God bless you ❤️👑

[@RomWills]

You honor me brotha.

[@darrenhawkins9040]

What's up Big Rom, to have faith is to believe that anything is possible I can remember my first rehab on this house that I did nobody thought that I could do it and told me I should just bulldoze the house to this day I'm living rent free and development in my community has started one block over phase 1 with the National Gard Intelligence company several blocks away my home is one of the few that been refurbished and they are building homes for 280.000 and more I have a choice to stay are go eitherway I'll win if I was to take the buyout or enjoy the knew community.

[@RomWills]

You won out having faith in yourself.

[@judekabongo282]

Needed this thank you Uncle Rom!

[@Bigcdt80]

Brother ROM happy Sunday to you bout to listen now

[@RomWills]

Morning brotha.

[@lbsalwaysdoinsomething506]

Beautiful 🔥🔥🔥🔥💥

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@bambam9315]

Exceptional content. Uncle Rom, you are among the best, deepest and wisest on the internet. Thank you Sir!.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@francorodriguez160]

Great way to start off the day. Thanks Rom! 🙏

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@michaelangelo7310]

I'm glad you mentioned favorite teams lost, that could definitely be a very traumatic experience for me (not kidding). Great message as usual.

[@PeterElliot125]

Great vid and thanks for making it. I honestly think this is the kind of help a lot of people need most.

[@iloveyou281000]

Very Encouraging Rom. Thanks for the motivation. Need it, cause its real out here !

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@numeraluno8148]

Pure knowledge👌

[@elftower907]

i have extreme emotion and resentment with the women/ people i want to connect with and I always let it be the reason I don't go for it. i always feel I am toxic and need to work on myself more.

[@Bigcdt80]

Alright fam here's my thoughts on this first powerful message we need more male youtubers to promote this type of message.... Confidence and believing in ourselves are 2 of the main things we're lacking in today's society (I. E.) You had a hobby that you know you were good at and when someone notices your work and praises it for some reason we'll fall off on it but when we thought no one noticed it we were dam good at it... I for one was guilty of that throughout my life I was good at a few things but soon as I get acknowledgement I'll slack off and I think reason a lot of us are like that cuz either we're afraid what someone will say or a lot of us jus don't wanna progress we're fine with well enough... And far as the money thing bro I've been in that boat plenty of times so I know how you felt anyway great vid fam

[@RomWills]

Thanks fam. My thing is building up men. We have believe in ourselves and everything else will fall into place.

[@Bigcdt80]

Rom Wills absolutely brother absolutely

[@eebehuur]

I agree with what you are saying. Self sabotage is prevalent in the black community by design. The collective subconscious has been hacked for a millennia and the archetypes of failure has been installed. We can moderate our conscious mind, but, the subconscious usurps that, and the unwanted behaviour that has been lying in the background waiting to be triggered comes out to play.

[@Bigcdt80]

Eebe Huur preach

[@jeremywhitfield4556]

Well said

[@hustlemanriem]

Thank You! Your Words Keep Me Inspired & Motivated✊🏾

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@sosadesigner8813]

Uncle Rom, you reprogram me then I run into problems in real life...I come back to your channel to fix the bug. This was one of those videos.

[@anubis8840]

Thanks for the inspiration....as always ...blessings

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@FlemZ2322]

Thanks Unk for the wonderful video sir. Enjoy your day

[@RomWills]

You're welcome fam.

[@nulink7341]

Great message to start the week!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@MsJoyce31202]

Nice smile, Rom. That's what you do while believing in yourself. Anyway, media has its place, but take some things and leave others, especially when you feel yourself falling for that 'you are nothing unless you' part. Many people do leave home feeling good until they run into that someone special. Tee hee. BELIEVE in your self the way you did before that negative comment was spoken.

[@FoxxAddamz1]

🔥💯 Peace.

[@wizeguy26]

Yes it is true but for children and preteens they need extra encouragement. Nothing i despise worse than an adult calling someone stupid.

[@RomWills]

I agree with you about children. That's an entirely different video.

[@user-fh6ed5xt8x]

First, your always going in. Big up uncle rom

[@RomWills]

Trying to help folks.

[@hunn89]

4.5 out of 5 stars on this one brother Rom (.5 is for the 'human factor' lol) GREAT message for 'now time'...

[@RomWills]

LOL. I'll take what I can get brotha.

[@alanfreeman7374]

Thanks bro. Good stuff.

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@jojobens]

rom this video help me alot. thx brother. i need to hear some like this.

[@RomWills]

I'm glad to be of service.

[@schoolshiiit1409]

Well Said...

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@tajhlee6134]

Very much appreciated

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@31manhood]

Man i bought your book sexualy chemistry .what amazing book .thank you rom wills really thank you

[@RomWills]

You're welcome. Thanks for the support.

[@alexjackson2235]

That some beautiful shit Rom

[@dwaynebarnes6686]

I needed to hear this

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@ms.ajones7168]

Wow! This really came right on time. I just woke up to use the rest room, it's 4:20 AM, I can not go back to sleep, so much on my mind, I'm sitting here doubting myself, clicked on U tube and this was the first video that popped up, I really needed to hear this! Thanks! I just love your channel🖤

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@skinfanjay]

Truth be. Told RW

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@zeinalbasam4733]

Ya I'm 18 and ppl always try to make fun of me saying I look like a 13 year old and I tell them then when I'm 40 I'll look 20.

[@lbsalwaysdoinsomething506]

PF Flyers...Bam...💥💥🔥🔥

[@munajmursheed1238]

thumbs up rom

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@itstayaaa8280]

Morning Unc ROM .

[@RomWills]

Morning fam.

[@spyder6736]

PF flyers, are you talking about the "Sandlot" shoes?

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@princediamond5763]

💯✌

[@PutYourselfOn100]

💯

[@GokuBlack-sn5dr]

I just finished university and now I'm broke as fuck with 10 dollars in my bank account

[@RomWills]

Just temporary.

[@mikeprat1]

💯💯💯

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@mikeprat1]

Rom Wills Appreciate you brother. Make this chapter the best💯

[@ianstud6006]

Hard for me becuase im mentally unhinged for the past 2yrs.. i started to doubt who am i ??? especially during confrontation ?

[@RomWills]

Just take it day by day. Get professional help if necessary.

[@ianstud6006]

Thank you so much Uncle rom nuff resprct

[@D.Anderson]

GM Brethren☕Amen🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤

[@RomWills]

Good morning Brethren.

[@walterbassiv7170]

two 👍up on this

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@BlkKidWithTheGlasses]

If everybody wins at what you win at is it really a win though?

[@RomWills]

Yeah because the only competition is yourself. Forget what everybody else is doing.

[@josephBC3652]

BlackKidWithTheGlasses Yes it is

[@marlonmitchell355]

👍🏿✌🏽🙏

[@PapaMurphBeatz]

#instantclassicrom

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@Tambura330]

Lol, PF Fliyers Rom, then came Chuck Taylors

[@RomWills]

That's what they were! I was still slow after getting them.

[@Tambura330]

at least you had a pair, I never had them. I did lust for them! Lol, "run faster and jump higher"!