Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone

[@targetegrat]

Great video. The only way to be consistently successful is to get comfortable with being uncomfortable.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@dwohntanywilder6889]

Once again on point. Been reading the Art of War, Book of the 5 rings, The Samurai code, 48 Laws of Power and the Art of Seduction to work on my mind game. Really been trying to get out my comfort zone in who I've dealing with. Not to say I'm better than anyone, but I want change especially dealing with the same type of women. I want better.

[@RomWills]

Those are good books to help you get out of that comfort zone.

[@dwohntanywilder6889]

Rom Wills Thanks

[@vpfilms-dailyself-improvem2084]

People who settle for less call people with high standards “picky”. So many instances where I was persecuted. Whether it’s food, clothes, exercise, or women. If you feel a drive in you to press a higher standard, don’t be afraid of it. So many individuals who just accept what ever, then they wonder why their life sucks. Strive for better, always. In order to attract different, you have to first take DIFFERENT action.

[@razorbacks1983]

People thought I was weird when I was younger I'm 34 now. But when I was a teenager a use to read the encyclopedia for no reason just to learn new stuff and see how other people live. Different cities,countries etc. Now I'm older I make good money I've seen a lot of these places and I'm from a small town Nashville Arkansas Google it. And I got outta there. Outta my comfort zone

[@RomWills]

That's what's up.

[@rebelmnk2382]

Total agreement. As far as food goes, Men should learn to cook their own food and explore different varieties that way. It saves hell of a lot of money!

[@RomWills]

Agreed.

[@darknova7863]

My mindset on everything "How can I put value on myself?" Learn new skills, try new things, or just get more information on stuff. Hell even change your appearance, people in general will vibe toward you if you do this and you don't even ask for it.

[@RomWills]

That's the way to be.

[@majestyrockmics]

Im "comfortable" and stuck where Im at. Unsatisfied, especially romantically. Driving a school bus and party bus because these jobs are as laid back as me. I grew up a hyperactive. I dont know what happened. 35 years of age. Boring wife. 3 children. And i just feel like a young looking old man.

[@RomWills]

You have to make some changes. Think about the things you can do to change your life. Include the family in the plans.

[@mrfake123ify]

A very relevant topic. I'm 19 from London, a new subscriber and boy your channel has opened up a new world for me in self development. Thanks for shouting out Ethiopian food too, it made my face light up because my parents were born there. Much love Uncle Rom ✊

[@RomWills]

Ethiopian food is great. I love the lamb and eating with injera bread. I need to make a trip.

[@believe12ofwhatyousee68]

G why Ethiopian food look like someone vomit it out?

[@YAHKHOV]

Ethiopian, Moroccan and Nigerian food--the absolute best cuisines on the face of the planet. Greeks do aiiight too...minus all that damn pork.

[@YAHKHOV]

It "looks like vomit" because you're still in a comfort zone. Trust me, you'll find something you'd enjoy if you tried it. A few glasses of Tej (honey wine) to start you out...you'll be fuckin' that food up in no time.

[@believe12ofwhatyousee68]

i hear you bruva, ill try it one day.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

I'm doing it right now. Challenges and me are one. Improving as a human be in general is key to move forward in life. As a strong men you're the future and it's time that we understand that for 100%.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@jholliday3]

That Sun Zu reference on point. Must know your enemy & self. Versatility is key

[@MrOriginalMan]

This brotha's mindset is on another level.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@thekyomethod]

Uncle Rom awkward and uncomfortable situations lead to evolution great video per usual uncle rom! Rommiyo the g.o.a.t!

[@RomWills]

Thank you fam.

[@henrygarner4649]

Greatest video I have heard from you yet; and only because I have and still am living it Bro Rom! Comfort? I laugh when people (especially women) say they want a comfortable life. I ask what it means and when they tell me what their definition of 'comfort' is. I tell them "You're gonna have to WORK for it! No such thing as 'comfort' (not long term anyway). Always have room to grow and another level to reach. Thx!

[@RomWills]

I've dealt with several women who wanted to be comfortable. Many people find out the hard way that there is no real "comfort" out here.

[@henrygarner4649]

Another comment that makes my blood curdle is when a woman tells me she's "satisfied" with her life and where she is in it. To me that means you have done all you wanted to do (couldn't be that much) and the only thing left to do is die! Dumbest thing I've ever heard! Onward and upward!

[@darrickbrisco5016]

U right when u expand your mind u gain more knowledge it's a beautiful thing what kills me is when u express this to some ppl and they act like they go beat yo ass lol but I see it's more due to that they just scared to go there unwilling to gt out of comfort zone

[@RomWills]

Correct.

[@MT-vp5xo]

Great message to hear " especially at this point in my life!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@TSquared2001]

Always a timely message

[@gorjusgorillawitz2459]

20 years of cooking in all types of restaurants.....that scene became monotonous (I WANT MY OWN)quit and wanted to experience something different...moved to a small town in WISCONSIN!!!!!... totally different than VIRGINIA(still home sick)...bought me a $2500 17fter truck...started delivering furniture...got some independent contracts with furniture companies and church congregations... and NOW bout jump into CODING(programming/developer)....due to the way the economy is about to change....and shit I'm getting too old to be lifting heavy as furniture HAHAHAHA...but yeaaaaah man Rom...as NEELY FULLER would say "STILL LEARNING"...getting better...HEY MAN ANOTHER DOPE VIDEO....

[@RomWills]

Thanks fam. You have definitely jumped out of your comfort zone.

[@gorjusgorillawitz2459]

I think it would be a good trade if you make it something that cant be duplicated...like each finishing job has your artistic impression or passion that cant be duplicated....that saysYOU and only you did this service...something that makes the customer feel like they are the only one who has this product or service youre providing..thats what cant be automated....expression...individualism...finishing is an art form...hey youre in a good position...a great position..

[@gorjusgorillawitz2459]

yeah man...if theres no competition because youre the only one who can do WHAT YOU DO...damn right...you now it dont have to be the only thing you do...but if you have finishing know how under your belt at least you know you will never ever go broke...that is what can never be taken away from you..

[@jayanouni]

Comfort is death of creativity !

[@RomWills]

Very true sister.

[@shawnhazel8208]

I love to get away from tourist traps - than you see the real country - most cities and countries outside tourist areas are not paradise as the media advertises

[@RomWills]

I agree.

[@brewsterdbilly]

You're actually right it's start with men first. I'm going through this process in bettering myself first and than everything else such as environment, mindset and places changes around me.

[@RomWills]

It's how you have to do it.

[@darrenhawkins9040]

What's up Big Rom, its amazing how people complain instead of letting life take it's course if it's not beneficial to them personally they don't even try for expanding their life experiences and wonder why they are so miserable looking for someone else to make them complete.

[@RomWills]

True.

[@YAHKHOV]

This is some SOLID counsel, Unc!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@schoolshiiit1409]

Truest story ever told. I was kinda forced out of mine. Nothing major tho.

[@RomWills]

That's how it's goes.

[@jdbailey442]

I love Ethiopian food is awesome❤. So is Middle Eastern, Indian, Thai, Japanese, Vietnamese, raw vegan, Afghan, and Trinidian. As an fyi with Russian food perogies are yummy.This was a great vid for men!! I find too many men who are always asking me why do you do that? What is the point? I could never do that? That seems hard. Which is fine because it makes me realize we are not compatible so I keep it moving. Everyone should always try something new hobbies, foods, read new books, travel, move to a new city, etc. You are so right that the men who complain most tend to take the lazy and comfortable route with the women they involve themselves with. This was a great vid, Uncle Rom. I truly hope men take the entire vid in and not just selectively hear what you are saying. They need to join your paid site and get your books too.

[@RomWills]

Men are supposed to be the risk takers but too many are becoming complacent.

[@donavonmarshall2641]

Great video Rom. I did a video touching on this comfort zone subject a few years ago when I was 18, it is the first video uploaded on my channel.

[@RomWills]

That's what's up.

[@underrated7725]

Once again Rom you hitting hard where this heart is G. Got to do better. I will do better. Thanks again man forreal

[@RomWills]

You'll do it fam.

[@Marcus2839]

This is gold material right here!!!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@allanjoe5407]

Rom, you're are exactly what men need in this crazy world get out of their own way everything else will follow.

[@jholliday3]

Inspirational video...needed to here this

[@therenaissance7158]

While dating the chemistry can be there but your just outside her comfort zone.....

[@RomWills]

That's a reality.

[@gorjusgorillawitz2459]

replay this video and really listen to what Rom said in the beginning...the first 3 minutes...

[@RomWills]

Exactly.

[@alanfreeman7374]

Thanks bro. This was right on time for me.

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@SikkDiggy]

Good video, Uncle Rom. Accurate on all points. Another thing you have to consider is that certain men are on the edge. What I mean is that there men who are in a really bad situations. It could be due to substance abuse, a disability, mental health issues, dealing with certain traumatic events from their past (PTSD), they have a certain strike on them, debts, etc... I'm not excusing them. What I'm saying is that for such men their comfort zone is a very deep hole. So, the will and ability to get out of that situation won't be a one man job, but would require some kind of support system or supportive network of friends and family. On a different, you like Ethiopian/Eritrean food? Well, the DC area has large Ethiopian and Eritrean communities.

[@RomWills]

You're right about some men needing help. It is what it is. I've visited many Ethiopian restaurants in the DC area. All of them stayed crowded.

[@SikkDiggy]

In deed they do. In fact, some men are ticking time bombs. One thing that's never discussed is how some men can just snap. It just shows how men are dehumanized. As for Ethiopian restaurants, I'm sure in most of those places there was a lot of music being played in the background. Especially, the old school joints. That will have some of the patrons nostalgic from the motherland.

[@nelsoncruz184]

Rom , sounds like you were at La Perla in Puerto Rico . Thanks for the video .

[@garrybutler6598]

Appreciate u Rom

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@villonworthy958]

Powerful nuggets brother Rom if definitely getting out mine when it come to women going after what want and not caring about rejection period a changing of the guard for me in 20/21

[@charlesmerchant4762]

Good nuggets in here, Rom....

[@RomWills]

Thank you bruh.

[@michaeltaylor9316]

Rom The Bomb Romulus, this video resonates with me because it would have helped me when I was younger. I had to learn the hard way through the skin of my butt and also upside the head, the message of the video is true and powerful. I appreciate all of your videos, they help to get a knowledge of the game which is power that we all need. It also says in the book "The Art of War", "power perceived is power achieved". Thanks.

[@RomWills]

You're welcome family.

[@Hbsmooth]

Man i really needed this bro .

[@100footsie]

You got it

[@CuriousGeorgePhotos]

Wow I really needed this! My life has always been the same thing, I'm always afraid of change. I want to move to another state and make something of my self but I have no clue how to do it. 1. I wouldn't know anyone. 2. How would I find a job in a new city I've never been. I'm the type of person that says... This year is my year then 2 years go by with nothing to show for it. Hate my process of thinking.

[@RomWills]

Sometimes you have to jump.

[@100footsie]

Getting out of my comfort zone has always been a challenge for me mainly because it hasn't gone great for me. However your point is very valid. By the way Hurricane Irma will be making landfall tonight. Luckily the eye has shifted west and has weakened to a cat. 3 storm. I survived Andrew 25 years ago and we are a lot better prepared now so I will keep you posted brother. Peace

[@RomWills]

Yeah stay safe down there fam.

[@dudewat212]

isaiah parks .... Did the Hurricane do more or less damage for you, than expected ?

[@100footsie]

hey dudewat212 sorry it took me so long to respond because the power is still out. But to answer your question it did less damage here in Miami but having said that there is a significant amount of damage in terms of trees and power lines being down. The main thing is having no power but im handling it fairly well being a hurricane Andrew survivor and all.

[@Edgebot]

Black Miyagi you're the man

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@SAMack-xd2fn]

Indian food is good too

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@EJChevy]

Man you have to check out Palma Majorca, I think you'll enjoy it.....

[@RomWills]

I will.

[@moshar12]

Puerto Rico, La Pearla! In San Juan...yea man 😂 I did the same! I went through and every one was cool with me down there! The women I was with said you don’t go down there 😂

[@RomWills]

A man just has to carry himself right.

[@joefromdc]

Good morning Uncle ROM you can't make me get out of my comfort zone hell no I won't go hell no I won't go lol I truly enjoyed leaving dc and living in Italy for five years change my life the food and the women

[@RomWills]

Traveling is really good for men to see what else is out there.

[@larryhurt6805]

My brother once again you give excellent advice. I am trying to get out of my comfort zone and own a business. Fresh out of college, young, just got a job but its not enough for me to survive. Any tips or advice you can give me would be greatly appericated. Also I would like the name of the books you written to better help me along my journey.

[@RomWills]

Check out my website, www.romwills.com. Starting off save 10% of whatever you make even if it's tight. Think hard about what you REALLY want to do with your life. Get a library card because you can find all the information you need for free.

[@dtm9792]

Hey Rom and interesting video idea would be to make a video on the women in the shaderoom comments on Instagram

[@RomWills]

I haven't really dealt with Instagram yet. Check back with me in a few months.

[@triniqueentx]

Yep! U got to..same poop different toilet is not whats up..u gotta move to grow..100..

[@RomWills]

Can't stay still baby.

[@Alchemygem]

Hey you should do some live shows or get on one of angryman or oshay podcast lol

[@RomWills]

I'll get around to doing that. I'm working on some other projects now.

[@MsJoyce31202]

You don't like the woman you are dealing with?! Yuck! Be by yourself, gather your peace. Look for peaceful women if you just need a woman. Enjoy yourself first, reintroduce good people and weed out THE BAD EVERYTHING!!!

[@TerryShabazz]

Hey uncle rom can you talk about dealing or trying to build with someone who has bad credit and can't manage a check book or don't pay their bills and in debt.....I don't know if you touch that topic or not

[@RomWills]

I talk about that on my business channel, kzbin.info/www/bejne/hae3noinjtWNeqM

[@KurtisStryker2015]

me I never would dislike ur video to.me the videos you make is always great

[@RomWills]

I'm honored brotha.

[@KurtisStryker2015]

Rom Wills yes brother

[@PutYourselfOn100]

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[@IamKarryanne]

😊

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@sagetscippio8878]

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[@Eric-pu7lp]

Rom what advise would you give a 23 year old guy who is depressed

[@RomWills]

Get professional help.

[@Eric-pu7lp]

I tried Unc I think it’s more to do with my low self esteem I have a great resume but I always get rejected at the interviews I don’t know how to express my value into the market place and it all has to do with my confidence

[@Eric-pu7lp]

The rejections are getting to me at this point I don’t tell my family if I have an interview I also struggle with pornography

[@RomWills]

I'm not a mental health professional so I can't help you.

[@sagetscippio8878]

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