Ben is a bad Christian and Mahogomy is a catfish | 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days

[@crimsonpony]

Ben's ex wife should totally set up a fake online persona and catfish him to prove a point. Then the next time they have a family dinner so Ben can tell his family that god found him another soulmate, she can just slap all their messages on the table and walk away while laughing.

[@oumeey]

😂😂😂😂

[@bridgetmurphyv]

@@oumeey cat fish 🐱🐟

[@oumeey]

@@bridgetmurphyv she's definitely.she also too shy to vedio chat he just stupid

[@Blorb-v3y]

Ok guys I think we need to do this ourselves and let his ex sit back and watch

[@oumeey]

@@Blorb-v3y do it we have no time to wast lol

[@boochi7087]

I'm not even religious, but most of these people will really call up God's name as an excuse for every horrible thing they do. It's tiring.

[@snooganslestat2030]

Yep. My least favorite type of hypocrite.

[@bridgetmurphyv]

@@snooganslestat2030 I can't stand Ben and I'm also not religious

[@snooganslestat2030]

@@bridgetmurphyv same. I grew up evangelical.

[@prittyugly86]

I'm a practicing Catholic and no... most protestants have OCD or are super hypocrites. Like they hate abortion but have never had a child concieved in wedlock and wanna call any pregnancy a blessing even though that's called an accident.... or a bastard. I was concieved out of wedlock and NO SHAME to your walk of life but that holier than tho bs bothers me personally.

[@amyqb117]

@@prittyugly86 how is what you described only for Protestants? I know catholics that are worse. Everyone can be a hypocrite just this way honestly. I guess the reason you feel this way is because your environment.

[@LindsPatz10]

Ben’s ex wife is an absolute savage and I want her to read all the other show participants to their face, too.

[@kjkalways8470]

YESSS!!!💯🌟👍 Me too!!!

[@249Bubbles]

SAME I actually love her LOL

[@hhholly]

Lmfao yes girl

[@uhuraenterprise6372]

She's the best

[@yelloandy]

She’s not savage, she’s pragmatic. She probably divorced Ben cuz he’s such a himbo and idiot.

[@ChatteNoireBlanche]

I love how even his kids feel disgusted of him leaving her wife for a woman half his age who might not even exist

[@kingayy9267]

Apparently this isn't even the first time he's tried this!

[@theunveileressreginaecaeli5772]

The faaaaace his youngest daughter made was EVERYTHING

[@lyrastrseed3343]

It’s traumatizing, I feel so sorry for the children.

[@313-lee]

@@lyrastrseed3343 the kids look disappointed, maybe even disgusted with their father.. but not traumatized. People use that word so loosely to the point it doesn’t even have the same meaning anymore. 😂

[@FGC-ku4ez]

Men going through a mid life crisis are like the human equivalent of a train wreck. No self-awareness whatsoever.

[@penguinZ85]

God is probably shaking his head like, don’t bring me into this mess.

[@soniagrindstaff2416]

Exactly

[@cheniseflowers8143]

Lol 100%

[@girisha_laxmi11]

GOD WILL BE THINKING I DON´T WANT TO BE NOTHING TO BE WITH THIS MAN

[@kimberlyelliott7933]

LOL right?? Hahaha 🤣

[@melissaweber4622]

100% He was in a Baptist cult grewing up...? That was a cult for sure never been to a Baptist church like that.

[@jenniferfrias2920]

At first i thought maybe his ex wife was just bitter, but now that I see he started spending less time with his kids and forgetting about them, i think that's what her anger is about. And I completely understand. I'm not a mother, but I can only imagine if my partner started ignoring our kids for some woman or new partner I would be LIVID. Offended for my kids, and beyond disappointed. He claims to be a good Christian and it's okay that he got divorced, but disregarding your kids like that is unacceptable. I don't have sympathy for a man who isn't a good father. Hope he values his children while they still love and care for him.

[@mygwt1489]

My father did exactly this! Just awful.

[@Eruanne]

I felt exactly the same way myself!

[@Poison_Ivy22]

I really disliked how he gave his son who kindly took him to the airport a half a** hug and didn't even say "I love you" but will quickly say how much he loves Mahogany all the time and will use God as an excuse to follow his selfish needs .. "God wants us together" *uhm no God would rather you take care of your underage children first before chasing after women half your age online* he gives me creepy vibes. He's very delusional too. If God wanted anything from him, it would be that he didn't abandon his family to lust after much younger women. I can't feel bad for him. He gets what he deserves.

[@jenniferfrias2920]

@@mygwt1489 my father's doing it right now :/ it's fresh so maybe I'm sensitive but still so messed up

[@jenniferfrias2920]

@@Poison_Ivy22 10000%

[@priscilaguimaraes2732]

“They don’t have electric toothbrushes in South America” you’re so right. Whenever I try to buy one from Amazon, the neighborhood monkey steals it and throws it in the ocean.

[@nyawilson7393]

Lol some people are incredibly ignorant about what people in other countries have access to 😂😂😂

[@yvonnetaylor9331]

🤣🤣🤣🙈

[@tinamindel6864]

Oh my goodness, ha ha ha. Well said!

[@DocBree13]

😂😂😂💀

[@kimberlyelliott7933]

Hahahahaha

[@nico-ob6wj]

Lol "everyone deserve a chance of love" he said in front of his chance of love he abandons for the second time

[@missamylynne86]

X wife sitting back knowing she will find real love, or at the very least continue to have the respect of everyone either way. She deserves love more then he does!

[@nico-ob6wj]

@@missamylynne86 yeah her and the kids seems realy nice and grounded

[@mpro9446]

@@missamylynne86 I’m

[@heatherlynsey3092]

@@missamylynne86 1000%!!!! If she never meets anyone else in her lifetime, which she will no doubt, she will always have her self respect. That’s more than Ben has. Their kids will always know who put them above anyone else and it’s not their father. Sad af.

[@anuterinen5304]

Trying to FIX issues with Kids and ex-wife would Be More Godly way to deal with The past.

[@CR-tc2zv]

Honestly if a 50 year old man travelled from another country to meet my 24 year old daughter, I would punch him in the face.

[@Afmedic85]

Most of the fathers just see dollar signs.

[@bodhisattva2348]

@@Afmedic85 us 24 yr Old$ see them as dollar $ign$ too 😏😎💸

[@wroger6746]

@@bodhisattva2348 That’s why we flex the cash and sell you the dream to get hookup. Then ghost you.

[@bodhisattva2348]

@@wroger6746 not me, I never fall for that shit. If more women move the way men did they'd b In a better position.

[@wroger6746]

@@bodhisattva2348 Well enough do take the bait so it’s a easy strategy. Nah women shouldn’t be doing like men do cause no man gonna like that masculine type energy. That’s actually what feminism does is try to make women act and think like men. Look how well that’s working out for them when they are forever single at 35 with their cat/dog talking about “I had my fun and looking for a serous relationship now.” Haha like where was you 15 WHOLE years ago? I’m looking for them but the 21 year old version of them. Not the “experienced” emotionally fried out version that some bald short guy can go ahead and be the janitor for that mess.

[@tobyarcand2522]

His whole family is trying so hard not to start laughing

[@amarieoflothlorien]

the eye rolling of the children says it all, he is so full of shit.

[@samuelreed2994]

They think he's a joke

[@FGC-ku4ez]

Or crying. He's humiliating them on internatuonal tv.

[@serenastanley443]

... Laughing, or gagging.

[@cherryloid1062]

The ex wife is an absolute Savage and I love it, she is saying no lies

[@tarski7732]

I wonder how he would feel if his daughters told him it was God's will that they were with a man his age?

[@Blorb-v3y]

Yessss

[@sophien5416]

He probably wouldn't wouldn't give a fuck, because he seems like an uncaring dad.

[@if8133]

"I want to model a good relationship for you guys" uhh

[@sarahfuller5482]

Ben is so manipulative whenever he brings up god and the lords plan.

[@kimberlyelliott7933]

My mother in law is exactly like that. For 33 long years...safe to say I keep my distance.

[@5050TM]

Wdym? God didn't want me to do a line of booger sugar off a giggalo's bigalow? That makes me sad.

[@martinjacket2637]

like every religious person ever !

[@kimberlyelliott7933]

@@martinjacket2637 true...religion should be a personal thing in my opinion. Like I would NEVER try to push my own beliefs on ANYONE not even my family. My faith is a part of who I am but I try to let people see me by my actions, decisions, they way I live my life you know? Religion makes me sick... However I consider myself a spiritual person and my faith and beliefs are private. So sorry I have no idea why I literally wrote you a book lol Anyway nice to meet you!

[@leahmoonbeamflower333]

Yeah… you can see the weirdness in his eyes… especially in pictures. He probably has so many skeletons in his closet. The veins in his neck have skeletons in his closet. He just seems like a old man weirdo. So rehearsed… so dumb.

[@munamohamed430]

4 children one of them doesn’t want to be on camera, I think she’s embarrassed of her father and doesn’t want to be involved with his mess

[@thechanges2327]

I've known people like Ben who use God as a reason or scapegoat for their shitty decisions, and it's one of the most hypocritical situations ever. This isn't God, this is you. Stop bringing the Lord into it because you look arrogant, pompous, pretentious, and completely delusional toward your own ridiculous behavior. Ugh. Just discovered your channel WetSock, so I'm on a binging spree. Love your vids, bud!

[@kathiesaunders8069]

Couldnt of said it better. Well done. You can see through his b.s.

[@Justamama9]

Exactly!!!!

[@cloudsunicorns194]

I feel like you just described wetsock in his previous engagement 🥴

[@Mattisttam]

100%

[@bleachlowery295]

Hit the nail on the head

[@laurenr9659]

Ben really tries to gaslight everyone into believing him but he's so bad at it his 14 year old isn't even convinced.

[@Rosierose902]

I feel like he genuinely believes his lies. I’m not search which is worse that or gaslighting 😫

[@Blorb-v3y]

😂

[@Blorb-v3y]

@@Rosierose902 I think he’s manipulative.

[@Rosierose902]

@@Blorb-v3y Do you think he is intentionally? He just seems EXTREMELY naive to me it’s hard for me to believe it just yet

[@kingayy9267]

That's not gaslighting. It's being manipulative, sure, but not gaslighting.

[@jly697]

Was friends with a guy that was the same way, super "religious" and self righteous but only chased young hot woman but hid behind God. So creepy!!!!! Shockingly he was an egomaniac that worked out constantly and was as shallow as a puddle.

[@249Bubbles]

Maybe he and Ben are in the same youth group *cough* I mean bible club?

[@jly697]

@@249Bubbles 🤣🤣🤣 Fantastic idea!

[@jessica_jam4386]

I am a Christian myself, but I’m very cautious of men who constantly advertise how much they’re Godly, follow His will, etc. I dated someone who had a social media profile with lots of lines like that and I was younger and thought he was being genuine. He ended up pressuring me into all kinds of physical situations that I was very uncomfortable with. I still remember the first time it happened and how I was shaking and scared but had on a fake smile and he was trying to tell me “don’t be shy you’re beautiful!”. I had such bad self esteem that I thought that was an ok way to be treated at the time. I’ve become very careful about who I allow into my life now, and I am determined I won’t be fooled again.

[@jly697]

@@jessica_jam4386 That is beyond terrible and makes my stomach churn. Freaking predator.

[@katsuramatsumoto5320]

If my ex called to tell me about "the love of his life" I think I would slap the ever-loving sh*t out of him. That is so disrespectful!

[@virginia3222]

The kids get to hear that their mother wasn’t the love of his life. He made 4 kids with her, but the love of his life is someone else.

[@veror5516]

“I am proud of the progress I’ve made…” Oh, you mean going from a 28 year old to a 22 year old? Ok got it 🙄👍🏼

[@Blorb-v3y]

Oh my gosh lollll

[@FGC-ku4ez]

He's regressing emotionally and intellectually. This is by far the most disturbing "couple" on 90 Days.

[@oc2538]

The daughter's face was priceless when he mentioned Maplewood or whatever she's called

[@ks77728]

😂😂😂🤣

[@BreezeAtDawn]

Mayyyyyyyplewood. My god 😂

[@katvillecollections3709]

Mahogany 😂😂😂

[@idkjess2677]

🤣😂

[@debbiesturch5193]

That's her sister, her name is plywood.

[@annab.6805]

It seems like almost everyone on "90 day fiance" wants to get exploited. They are literally begging for it

[@KH0LRA]

Exactly. No movie is complete without the actors, even with the people behind it. This is a whole different level since its real people 🥶

[@colettespencer3357]

Omg...the kids reaction is priceless. They are so smart. They know their dad is a lunatic.

[@kingayy9267]

They remind of Michael's kids Max and I forgot the daughter's name (from a few seasons back). Their father _also_ went after an early-twenties model but at least his was real and ended up temporarily step mothering them.

[@Liv-br9th]

I’d laugh if the person catfishing him this whole time is his ex wife 😂😂

[@hpp867]

Baaam! That would be hilarious!

[@ammcd2012]

Thank you for showing so much respect to his ex-wife. She gave her youth and body to him and he disposes of her to chase women who look barely legal

[@daniellehayes3798]

Yeah as soon as she gets older and starts aging he disposes her like she is trash. I hate men like him. They act as if they cannot have a woman who ages.

[@emiliefleur9180]

He does look better than her, a lil younger and good physique. It is messed up he ditches the mother of his children and his children for someone much younger and how naive and immature he is for his age. No grown woman would stand him. I feel for his wife and kids having to witness all this go down. His Frollo creepy ass. 💀

[@FGC-ku4ez]

@@emiliefleur9180 Consider that he didn't have to birth or even completely raise his four children, who live with his ex-wife. Of course he has time to be selfish and devote to working out. He belongs in a dumpster.

[@maresdreams8731]

This.

[@nathanielwowchuk6880]

Who barely look real* there i fixed that for ya

[@JdTbby]

Thank God this dude bailed on his family bc seriously these kids are so obviously more mature than their own father. Great Job Mom!!

[@jondara32]

Giod tosece jode

[@maescreativespace444]

Telling you abandoned kids that your in love with someone 4 years older than then HURTS! He’s a PRICK

[@alongfellow4147]

Turns out she's the same age as his daughter

[@MsKiprusoff]

Ben is a creepy old man going for a woman half his age

[@inegbenoseosose982]

More than half of his age since he's 52 and she's 22.

[@manalab1628]

@BusinessBabe im guessing you're another creepy old man?

[@famalam943]

His ex is a straight *savage* Respect ✊

[@flavavicious]

Ben needs some therapy because he’s living out the younger years he never got to have.

[@miryamamar5442]

Well, whose fault was that?

[@barbiepriestley9898]

He’s very self absorbed and just wanted to rub his family’s nose in it ugh not a big fan of him

[@barbiepriestley9898]

@Linda Lowther and his kids even said that he had dropped them for his last young one too

[@Blorb-v3y]

Yes! That is spot on! Like he’s super special of something

[@meameam]

Elijah won the genetic lottery not only on the looks, he also got some neurons (probably from the mom's side)

[@Dahmerxx]

At his age he's already 10 times the man his father is.

[@jodidonaldson2923]

The moms face when he tells the kids he's in love with a 24 yr old in Peru! 🤣 love it!!

[@animaladvocate8938]

He betrayed his wife and 4 children. He is an absolute embarrassment. What a jerk.

[@hpoplick1]

he likes it because she feeds his ego and tells him crap he wants to hear...

[@expectopatronummf]

Works every time

[@lizk2378]

I can't decide which outcome I want more for the catfish: a tatted up dude standing next to a computer, Lana's comeback, or actual Satan. All are acceptable. Also agreed, ex-wife did amazing job raising those kids with a savage sense of humor. He's a POS, feel sorry for the family.

[@darkmatter5940]

🤔

[@Pinkflamingo138]

You’ve never heard the term nuclear family?? I thought everyone knew what that was…

[@rachellerockwell3702]

I literally thought the same thing. Maybe because I’m 35 and he’s only 20-something…?

[@Pinkflamingo138]

@@rachellerockwell3702 true…. Maybe it’s not a common phrase anymore…. Lol. Us elderly people 35 and over 😂😂😂. I’m 42 😂😂

[@lexilex3690]

I’m 26 and have never heard of nuclear family lol

[@munibahq19]

i’m 20 and we learnt this term in high school

[@meameam]

I'm 23 and English is not even my first language but knew the term 😅

[@jonsmith5058]

Ben: ‘She loves me unconditionally’ Also Ben: ‘she won’t meet cause her Dad doesn’t approve’ Sounds like her love for you is conditional on her parents approval Ben. If she really felt strongly for you her parents approval wouldnt stop her. Shes chatting shit to reel you in, its empty platitudes.

[@espressogoblin]

How... do people get on plans to meet someone without ever video chatting with them! No FaceTime = Catfish

[@natkitty420]

But she's "shy". Lmao ok. 🤣

[@650shar]

the cover of you singing "he's a runner, he's a track star" had me in a COFFIN!!! LMFAOOOOOO

[@GypsyCrymson]

Pastor Yourwetsock has once again brought us together for Ben, 'Our Lady of Perpetual Rejection'.

[@karawilliamson106]

☠️☠️☠️

[@peachyy666]

Dying lol

[@snooganslestat2030]

Amazing 😄

[@allysonf419]

Maybe another $1000 will change her daddy's mind! Go on Ben! Pay up! 😂 It's God's will!!!

[@M0nst3r0711]

No no no, $5000. Then it’s legit.

[@cathy_clarinet]

Exactly! Usually the cost keeps going up!

[@Poison_Ivy22]

What thirsty old men will do for young 😸 that doesn't even exist 🤣🤣

[@cathy_clarinet]

@@Poison_Ivy22 I cant wait to see what happens. I still think Mahog is a large Peruvian man 👨😂

[@Poison_Ivy22]

@@cathy_clarinet lmao it's probably another old man in Africa.

[@QuinnieQuin0408]

Damn that’s heartbreaking thing his daughter said!! Most kids don’t think that, their mom is doing a good job!

[@amarahsrabbitry1073]

If he’s really a devout God-pursuing Christian he would have known that “God hates divorce” and only allows it in the case of “infidelity”. I seriously doubt it was God’s will that he left his wife

[@annconforti9294]

Thank you and No Real Christian woman would have such provocative pix online or even taken, period. So bogus

[@fishvideos-5039]

I honestly think the wife just kind of embarrassed of him which I would be to at that point because you know they're tethered for life now because of their kids and it feels like any decision he makes is kind of a reflection on her since she was married to him even though it's not

[@cathy_clarinet]

I’m so glad you reviewed this couple Wetsock. It’s priceless. You’re a hoot! The mahogany board 😂😂👏👏 The ex wife is one of the best characters on the show. She’s 👍

[@cristania]

I'm waiting for the tell all episode so i can hear her. Oh i really hope she made the catfish

[@cathy_clarinet]

@@cristania 😆

[@Ridgeman715]

“God’s plan” = My excuse to do whatever I know isn’t right, but want to do it anyway. Dude’s apparently abandoned his family in the past and is trying to do the same thing again.

[@jennkincaid1428]

6:34 how ridiculous is this man! She doesn’t even know your kids, but loves and prays for them 😂 what a straight up idiot. So embarrassing for his family… she won’t even FaceTime with him

[@michelleallred8521]

Like how he swears he's not having a midlife crisis while tweeking up his new motorcycle 🤔 🙄 😒

[@theresaroth3954]

tweeking up...😂😂🤩

[@LPSlittleproductions]

You make 90 day fiancé actually watchable, thank you 😂🙏🏻

[@timeforchange6818]

I wonder if one day he'll realize what a fool he is.

[@kimberlyelliott7933]

Don't count on it!

[@faithmiller1437]

Doubtful. No self-awareness or desire

[@JukeFairy]

Honestly it seems like he enjoyed being younger and having this young attractive girl. But wasnt prepared to grow up and age with her, like she was with him. Seeing as he clearly has a type and a history of going after young women that probably all look alike in their photos, and even like his ex=wife when she was at that age.

[@sophien5416]

That's not a type, that's a perversion. This guy is superficial and creepy.

[@pamelameadows9717]

Reading the comments and listening to this video again made me realize that the wife is the one who actually never got to feel what it was like to be loved or feel loved.

[@incharak1927]

Honestly

[@martinjacket2637]

I questioned Mahogomy's intentions but as soon as Ben said Mahogomy prays for them I felt a ease LOL

[@CptInsano835]

Wow this makes me appreciate my parents who never went through these types of insane stages and stayed consistent my whole life. Must be hard to have Ben as a dad.

[@mollyfarr6981]

I feel bad for Ben's kids.

[@toocutepuppies6535]

His kids can see right thru his bulls**t and feel like their dad is telling them one more time that God's appointed Dad to do whatever he wants, and they don't matter as much as he does.

[@wardoctor15al73]

There’s a theory that the girl that’s supposedly the “real” mahogany is a paid actress. This way tlc doesn’t have a second catfish scandal. Either way, this is so entertaining 😂

[@shewolfinubaka]

That’s EXACTLY what I was thinking I think someone is using clips of this woman and just posing at her

[@chelseacowan4413]

You’re so entertaining. Haha. And everything you said was on point. He’s such a frustrating, delusional, person. Really stunted. It’s sad

[@Eruanne]

I legit wish the TLC producers wrote into Catfish on his behalf instead. Like this is the most cookie cutter Classic Catfish scenario, I can't even.

[@darkmatter5940]

What a tongue twister. I loved the alliteration!

[@themagicalfox6]

This guy is on the wrong show 😂

[@eleanorabell1579]

Ben tells his kids Mahogany loves them. Really? Without having met them? I married a man with 3 kids, who I raised with him, and I am here to say it was not instant love. I had to build relationships with all 3 kids before there was love between me and the children. It is absolutely not automatic, it takes hard work and commitment on the part of both parents. I could say something about God but I won’t because I don’t want to be disrespectful.

[@lesliesmith5797]

OMG, WETSOCK, I was roaring when you had those glasses on and were talking like Ben. Hysterical. Ben is a complete knob and your making fun of him is the best 🦋🦋🦋

[@amycompton4303]

His ex wife and his daughter calling him out…amazing.

[@lighttheway5088]

Betting that he has given her more than a thousand dollars.

[@hannagotnerves]

Why is it so hard for me to find a man but easy for a dude to get a mail order bride 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@thebatgurl10]

cause we have standards

[@narcoasa3968]

Turns out Mahogany IS a common name of Spanish origins. However, I still think he’s being catfished. 🤣😂🤣

[@darukona7218]

Really ? No joke ? Omg..

[@narcoasa3968]

@@darukona7218 swear to God! Lmao 🤣 I actually looked it up after the 1st video he did, only to find that it’s a name of Spanish origin that means “rich, strong”.

[@maricelats957]

Is not a common name in Peru though

[@girisha_laxmi11]

I LIVE IN SPAIN IS NOT COMMON NAME.

[@girisha_laxmi11]

@@narcoasa3968 IT IS COMMON IN AFRICA AND MINORITY COMMUNITIES NOT FOR SPANISH LADIES.

[@kinkkee7628]

Reading some of the comments from kids whose parents have walked away from them breaks my heart. I've lost a lot in my life, but I am so blessed to have parents that are my best friends; even going to Knebworth in June with my Dad. My sisters ex, has a new baby, his 3 with my sister (his wife) see him occasionally now...Heartbreaking.

[@bigpapanacho4033]

I can’t believe people like Ben even exist.

[@TBen-sx7lt]

I just wish all these older gents would come clean and say exactly what's happening--they like getting a young attractive woman who is majorly out of their league --even if they have to go across the globe to get a gold digger.

[@oishiidessy]

the ex wife flamed his ass up 🤣🤣🤣

[@lynnbriones445]

No, no, no! Midlife crisis?!?! He's 52, well past midlife. Maybe he'll live to 104.

[@Areniapixie]

Ugh, I hate people who use their god as an excuse/reason for everything 🤢

[@kimberlyelliott7933]

Ugh I hate that!!!

[@pamelameadows9717]

Instead of the ultimate Bible or The Book of Mormon we've got the alternate book of Ben. He is right about one thing he's not having a midlife crisis he's too old for it to be a midlife crisis that would have been 10 years ago LOL

[@Blorb-v3y]

🤣

[@Zoot_of_Anthrax]

“We have a spiritual connection” but we cant speak to each other as neither of us can speak the others language, and im sending her cash. Yup. Definitely ordained by god

[@girisha_laxmi11]

LOL WHAT A FOOL BEING BUSTED SURELY IS A YAHOO BOY ON THE OTHER SIDE.

[@kittycommentary1594]

I personally know Ben and Lisa. We were I college together and hung out all the time. Ben perused Lisa and wrote her these long drooling love letters. Lisa was and is absolutely worthy of all those letters. She was and is to this day an amazing person. Ben has always been in love with himself. She was a very supportive, loving, forgiving wife. Trust me, Lisa got to do a lot of forgiving about big stuff. She has been gracious toward Ben. There is so much she could have dumped on him in that short clip where he blindsided her and the kids. She is always thinking about how what she says and does will impact the kids. Ben’s own daughter summed it up when she said that when he gets a new girlfriend he forgets about his kids. She is rightly afraid that they are about to get left behind because daddy sees a shinny new tail. Lisa has been the rock that those kids can count on. I am truly astounded at how spot on your commentary is in both videos about Ben with such a small amount of information.

[@julietteoscaralphanovember2223]

Never been this early before either. This guy is off his rocker. He's not proud of the past decisions he's made but he continues to keep making poor decisions while hiding behind God. If I were his ex, I wouldn't be sitting there listening to his bs

[@lauraduncan3677]

"Ben's in college wild'in out in his mid life crisis"!!! Tytyty, I haven't had a belly laugh like this in AGES!!!

[@Basilicum_Raspberry]

"So is she scamming him or is she scamming him?" C: all of the above.

[@joycek6556]

Pastor Ben - the only thing that matters is hooking up with a young lady - forget your kids - that's what god guided you to???

[@colleenschaffer1889]

How many people think that Ben is doing this for clout 🤔 His modeling career?

[@jes2276]

God leading me is so weak. I used to be in a church where the pastor said that all the time. It was used to justify anything.

[@Hubti]

That clippppp she absolutely shitted on him lmao.

[@suziechampagne357]

Wanting to start a family with a person you have never even met in person ??? That right there in itself says it all about Ben. DUDE, why don't you start doing your parenting business with the ones you already brought into this world.

[@Gmoviesmoothie]

4:05 yeah well the best way to make peace then is to rub her face while on a show about running after an online persona you're infatuated with more than being with your own children 🙄 how Godly

[@ImJustGoingToSay.....]

Ben gets on the flight ✈️ and still goes to Peru 🙈

[@lbehymer82]

His kids and ex wife are thinking “you are an idiot!”

[@cynthiamarie2023]

Dude, I couldn't stop laughing when you said he was as red as Larry the Lobster, LOL 😅😂🤣

[@taylormaegarner8758]

“I can’t wait for this simp to touch down in Peru!” 😆😆😆💀💀💀😅😅😅

[@barbarakroos648]

I think Mahagony is an elderly man who operates from a basement somewhere in a foreign country. I think she said she cannot videochat because she is deeply religious 🤔😳

[@paulashelgren5696]

Notice when Ben talks to his family about Mahogany he doesn't make eye contact? He says God is leading him towards this relationship God doesn't have anything to do with it. 28yr age difference she could be his daughter.

[@kidflix5879]

Wtf lmao 🤣 😂 This guy is a complete nut job!!! She loves them n prays for them but then she doesn't even know this man let alone his kids!!!!

[@alexh3153]

Your Scrubs reference was 🔥 couldn’t agree more

[@n.g.l.]

Nope nope nope. That man left his wife because of a “mid-life crisis”……. Baby that’s a man following his personal desires not Christ. I have some narcissistic evil people in my life, and they claim to be followers of Christ. You’ll know them by their actions and obvious Ben is not following God’s way.

[@MissChiefMoxie]

He said he WANTS to put them first, not that he DOES.

[@saraskye760]

Ben seems to think that he's God's gift, but the fact that he actively dates so far below his age range makes him look like such a creepy old geezer to me lmao. It's very sad that at 50yrs old he is still so deeply arrogant, and self-righteous. You would think after escaping a cult he would cultivate a soul, and leave using 'God's Will' as an excuse behind. What's also weird is the girls keep getting younger apparently (the last one was 28 - this one is 24? UM...?). I wager to guess if she is real and actually is 22 and that's revealed to him, he'd think he hit the jackpot. Kudos to his ex-wife for reading him to filth - there's a clear winner in this divorce, and it isn't the GAP model stalking the IG pages of 20yr olds. Thanks for the updates!!

[@pinecrone8991]

I feel so bad for those young people. How awful to have that as a parent.

[@smhatheworldwelivein]

I'm a legit Christian.... Please don't base a relationship with God on this mess

[@l.c.7955]

What makes you a "legit christian"? Self proclamation?

[@smhatheworldwelivein]

@@l.c.7955 Ummmm the fact that I have a relationship with God. You can too.... but you have to be open to the idea.... everyone wants to be excepted...and are offended by everything thing especially if you mention being a Christian... this is what happens... I believe that Christ died for me. And rose on the 3rd day and is coming back. If you really want to know the answer you'll seek the truth. Also, don't judge right?? Oh unless you're a Christian

[@smhatheworldwelivein]

I treat people how I want to be treated with kindness and respect... I share the word of God. But, nobody wants to be held accountable for what they do. However, I know without a shadow of a doubt that God is real... because I stood in front of Him... He told me that it wasn't my time.... to go back and share with others that time is short... So here is your warning in black-and-white time is short... you better get right

[@smhatheworldwelivein]

@@l.c.7955 I'm not perfect and don't claim to be....but I know where I'm going when this life is over. I am only passing thru...

[@smhatheworldwelivein]

And I'll scream it til the day I die... GOD IS REAL. I'M A CHRISTIAN SAVED BY GRACE.

[@chadspro]

So glad I found this channel last week. You're videos are great man much love from London

[@veronicamarrs]

Everything happens for a reason and sometimes that reason is you're stupid and make dumb decisions

[@cleanseandbloom]

Ayyy arch angel gabriel must be blessing your throat chakra cause you’re in such a flow state with these videos it’s such a good vibe to watch you these days

[@kariola123]

Yes, I wanna see a show with Paul for sure, but first, I wanna know what happened with Paul and Karine! Please, make a video about it!