Ella loves her Asian Zaddy | 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days

[@maylynbayani]

I applaud Johnny for not forcing a relationship between this woman and his child. He needs to check if this relationship actually works before involving a child.

[@thatweirdblackgirl4259]

Mhmm... too many ignorant people throwing their children into potentially dangerous situations bc they'll let just anyone be around their kids 🙄

[@candycane1744]

@@thatweirdblackgirl4259 looks at Nicole

[@matrixmommy]

100% agree

[@melt2947]

Exactly correct

[@melt2947]

@@thatweirdblackgirl4259It’s infuriating and heart breaking

[@Allison_Hart]

Bruh she really said "I can't believe you married a Thai guy when you don't even like anime" 🥴

[@HelloNewMoon]

Imagine just marrying someone b/c you love them

[@AeliaM16Lake]

I bet she can't tell the differences between mainland chinese AND chinese people from other asian countries like Singapore, Malaysia etc either. I would love for her to meet me (SG Chinese)

[@jocelynsmyth6604]

Oof that's painful...

[@unusedrock308]

"I can't believe you married a white person. You don't even like football!"

[@Carlos-ll7bz]

Lmsoooo ya

[@ArtingFromScratch]

Did she legit give her friend shit for just falling in love with a guy... and NOT having a fetish

[@牙仙本仙]

as a chinese person, this makes me so uncomfortable. i've seen and experienced fetishization projected to asian women, first time seeing how fucked up it is on male.

[@la.mu.sa10]

How? I see it everyday to korean guys, just the way asian guys have a fetish with white girls, and white dudes have a fetish with latinas and so on...

[@loopymomy2532]

I don't see the issue. He seems obsessed with westerners/americans. You know, some chinese people absolutely appall their own culture and embrace american lol. I met those people.

[@melaniefeltsfagan1227]

It makes me uncomfortable too…but more because it feels like these people have a fetish for a certain race, body type, etc and not for the actual person. So that would make me think they don’t love ME at all. As long as I stay a certain age, weight, race (haha kind of hard to change that but hopefully you see where I’m going here), etc the person will stay interested. What happens when Naruto isn’t a thing anymore. Does she stop liking her man and get into whatever new fantasy she has? (also isn’t Naruto Japanese and Johnny Chinese? Totally different cultures!!). Anyway just seems like it’s a huge fantasy and not based at all on reality or the actual person. For both of them.

[@Cj-up7ge]

@@loopymomy2532 fetishizing and appreciating are so different

[@loopymomy2532]

@@Cj-up7ge he’s not appreciating. He went on a site for Asian man white woman. He wanted a white girl and was obsessed with American culture.

[@poji222]

That blonde girl was hilarious when Ella needed help putting that wig on. "It's too early for this" lol

[@beeg9423]

She was tired and pissed 😂😂

[@xkelliesays]

The potato wipe every time he said Idaho had me weak

[@carebear_xo]

As an Asian woman, I can confidently say that this woman does not "appreciate" Asian culture... Not all Asian cultures are the same. Don't like the way she said "Indian guy" like Indians aren't South Asian and how she reduces men to their race. Like, is there nothing important about who they are as people? All you care about is whether or not they're Asian? Why is she making fetishizing Asian men a personality trait?! Girl that shit ain't cute🤦🏻‍♀ also, her friend saying "he was born in Thailand so he's Asian" giiiiiirl just say he's Thai lmaoooo being born in a certain country doesn't always mean you are that ethnicity or race 😭

[@fataldolly]

literally ! i don't get how people can be like this- i don't think ella realizes that indian is literally asian lmfao

[@psychonaut13]

wisdom

[@jvanausdeln]

She’s from Idaho… I mean come on. I think we’re all expecting a bit much from her.

[@kimberleyoliver8335]

Yes! I love different cultures but I know the difference between Japanese culture and Vietnamese culture for example. And it’s a deep respect not a fetish.

[@thazzyyloo]

Tbh TLC just hit the jackpot of how unhinged this woman is towards asian men 🙄

[@stephaniemoody355]

I think he left his child behind because he probably wants to make sure when he gets into the states his would have a roof over his head and have a safe space to let his kid grow up . He mostly going see if he compatible with this woman and to see if he can have a job opportunities to provide for his kid. Like you wouldn’t wanna bring your child in a situation where you would not be able to provide them with food or basic necessities. Especially a home or apartment.

[@jellyluver22]

glad he decided not to uproot his young kid just to meet a random woman! there’s a lot of cultural and language barriers as well as an unfamiliar environment

[@agenaw2877]

Maybe but his kid that you mentioned is actually his son not daughter

[@yuvinabarboza3304]

I am glad that he isn't immediately telling his son that she is his new mother. It didnt work out too well for Darcy when she forced fatherhood on Jessie, or Danielle with Muhammed, or Nicole with Azan....the list gones on and on!

[@hollyhenry51]

China has surpassed the US as the richest nation in the world, & more people World wide are learning Mandarin than English . With China graduating over 9 million peeps a year out of University & Asian countries leading in Education I doubt it's a US job he's looking for . He's going to feel like he's stepped BACK in time when he sees the condition of US bridges, highways & airports compared to China's. not o mention the use of packages food, frozen food instead of fresh. Even US milk doesn't taste real compared to milk in glass bottles. The US doesn't know what they're missing without markets, butchers, & bakeries.

[@JanJan4Infinity]

Thank you for mentioning this. My dad did this (except not for a woman or romantic reason he already married my mom) by going to the U.S. and Canada to see which would better fit his family before bringing my mom, my brother and I to Canada to live for good.

[@emmamiller1226]

Lol it’s so funny you brought up how TLC made the caption seem like the doctor was saying “overweight”, I turned to my mom and said “that’s not what she said” as soon as I saw that scene. She said 太胖了, word for word literally means “too fat”.

[@yoitsshortstuff]

It should also be noted that Johnny and his wife are divorced. Unsure if she's completetly uninvolved but she should've said that they gotten divorced. Also, Johnny's parents have Stoney because Johnny travels a lot for work so they take care of him. Ella omitted a lot of information.

[@t.j.7789]

I'm curious WHERE Johnny's parents & child will live when he gives up his apartment to move to the USA?

[@watermelonqueen1755]

Thanks for sharing

[@danasandoval624]

@@t.j.7789 good question. He supports his parents and child, where is he going to get money for them for three months while he is here?

[@9teen9t4]

@@danasandoval624 I'm sure he thought of that before making the plan and likely has some saved up for this reason.

[@yani4349]

@@t.j.7789 If I remember correctly, he can bring his son to America with him if he gets approved for the K-1 visa. But I think he would have to be a citizen to bring his parents with. Don’t quote me though, I’m not 100% sure 😅

[@Wendy-Williams-NC]

I wanted to root for this woman BUT....she isnt JUST into cosplay, fantasy and anime....this girl has lost touch with reality and lives in her own fantasy world!!! I think the entire Johnny relationship is pure fantasy and shes made it up in her mind as such!! People, this woman would be a MOTHER should they actually make this work!!! That is something she isnt prepared for and that kid is gonna really cramp her make-believe, fairytale romance with her ASIAN ASIAN ASIAN prince!!! Just NOPE!

[@kaitko]

She has absolutely projected all of her fairy tale hopes and dreams on this guy. It's so easy to do that when a relationship is solely online. She loves the idea of him, but maybe that won't align with how he really in in real life. I just think Ella doesn't love herself enough right now to be able to be in a relationship.

[@heatherlynsey3092]

Yes!!! Not to mention that it is gonna take a lot to raise a child between families in two different continents. Shes not mature enough for all that for sure.

[@kyladent6302]

She's just a mega weeb. She wants all of her anime husbandos to come together to be her "zaddy" but just settled for the "closest" thing. I think this is what my parents are scared imma become when I get older. Just another bad anime representation. Also love ya dude just subbed love ur vids also LOVE your Cowboy Bebop shirts you sometimes wear.

[@adrialee8149]

Husbandos lmao

[@meganmarie5]

I love how the weeb cannot pronounce shang hai correctly but the friend whose married to the Thai guy says it with perfect pronunciation. Ella is trash lol

[@festerizzy69]

Sounds like she wants Kurama from YuYu Hakusho

[@kyladent6302]

@@festerizzy69 I mean he does look like a combination between Kenshin and Sasori also personality wise he IS the perfect guy ig....I never got the hype personally but I guess I understand. Plus ngl when he said Korean prince I cringed

[@shaquille_0atmeal69_]

You were the first account I’ve seen with an anime pfp that’s actually cool😂

[@itslexii2121]

Omg the potato going across the screen every time he says Idaho is killing my 😂

[@EspadasYCopas]

Could you please explain the joke? I'm a foreigner

[@cynthiam3720]

@@EspadasYCopas Idaho potatoes 🥔 they grow potatoes there lol

[@ho-leesheet5923]

@@cynthiam3720 I didn't get the joke thanks for clarifying 👍

[@madi554]

@@cynthiam3720 We don’t even get the good ones too, the nice potato’s get shipped out

[@HafuPrincessSea]

As an Asian, I feel like these kind of people aren’t really appreciating the Asian culture so much as fetishized it… I grew up in Indiana and the school I went to had a Japanese club and class and the “weeb” kids would alway ALWAYS wanna be around me and ask me weird questions. I always felt so weird about how people would only wanna be my “friend” bc I was one of the only Asian people in the school. I get that it’s interesting to wanna know about a different culture and stuff like that, but when people introduce you as “my Asian friend” or “my Japanese friend” like it’s a trophy… it makes it pretty weird… I get that I’m Japanese but I have a name lol anyways, this kinda stuff just bothers me, it’s really not okay to be like this lady, it’s just rude, creepy, and wrong…

[@africanamericanflash5147]

You're not Japanese, you're American. And that's the thing those kids refused to understand or accept That fact that those kids saw themselves as "real Americans" (when they're prolly from Europe) and viewed you as an accessory to their cartoon entertainment is just disgusting. Fetishes have bad consequences

[@kb8511]

Omg. I totally agree with you. As a Japanese American girl, I had so many weebs just want to be with me just because I am Asian/Japanese. It’s like I’m just an idea or concept, not a person. They just assume that I love anime and become very confused when I tell them I’m not into anime.

[@heatherlynsey3092]

Wtf I can’t believe people actually introduced you as their Asian friend, that’s terrible. There’s for sure a fine line between being interested in a different culture and completely obsessing and romanticizing it.

[@2shadowcats2]

My boyfriend is Japanese. I love Asian culture... but I have spent a lot of time in Japan,and have a true appreciation of the people, language and culture. I think Ella is going to get a rude awakening if she actually meets her Johnny. Johnny is a real person... not an anime character!! I actually like Johnny, he seems decent!!

[@stefansodbinow6300]

As a Mongolian guy I completely get it. I still hear “oh you’re Mongolian? Ghengis Khan is cool bro”

[@jenniferdean2095]

And I thought Deavan was irritating with her obvious koreaboo ways…

[@t.j.7789]

hahah koreaboo!!!

[@miynmo]

@Sam L fr

[@jkimva703]

I dont like deavan but deavan doesn’t even try to learn the Korean culture or anything. This girl is going too far playing with samurai swords and playing attack of the ninja samurais in her backyard. Gross

[@emmylou4431]

The fact that you mentioned amberlynn is hilarious

[@GIRLINA101]

Right?!?! I wonder if Foodie Beauty is on his radar, too?

[@emmylou4431]

@@GIRLINA101 same I’d love his take on them 😂🤣

[@RuSiriusBlack]

Overweight woman here-whenever I connect with somebody on a dating app I’m 100% sure to send a full body shot. People have different preferences for body type and if I’m not their thing, that’s okay.

[@griffinschiavo]

For the record, Ella’s crush is not a Kenshin/Naruto mix, but is actually Kurama from YuYu Hakusho (It’s funny because Kurama is also the name of Naruto’s fox haha)

[@yohalibahena7798]

Finally! Someone who got the character right 😂 it's definitely kurama from yu yu Hakusho

[@kyladent6302]

That's the first thing I thought. My sister has a crush on him lol I'm more of a Hiei kinda girl myself but at least I know fantasy from reality 😬

[@momokurama]

Confirmed. She is actually active in the Yu Yu Hakusho group page on Facebook and has recently posted in there. Someone had posted a screenshot of her in there describing Kurama and when some people in tbe comments called her out for her fetish with Asian men she came to her own defense.

[@kyladent6302]

@@momokurama Dang bro. I'm not even surprised at this point. Y'all sure are quick with y'alls stuff too.

[@j_me]

Omg my bad, I thought she was talking about Gaara

[@breadams23]

My bosses when I was 16 were from China, they left their daughter for over a year back in China, their explanation was "she's taken care of by family until we can assure she'll have a good stable life here, shortly after they went back to China to be with their baby.

[@U-Gozoo]

I love Johnny he is a gem 💎 leaving his son behind isn't irresponsible, not bringing him over to a situation that may not work is actually what anyone would do..

[@rlord7053]

He's so kind to be concerned with her health. I think his heart is in the right place

[@laur7247]

hes so kind to be leaving his son too

[@rlord7053]

@@laur7247 I mean then he would get shit if he would have brought the kid with him. People will be judgemental regardless.

[@stephanieclark1487]

He does seem like a nice guy. I hope the attraction is there in person. They could be a good couple that might actually work. Especially since she wants to be a mom to his child if they work out.

[@littlesantana402]

I think he does too. Unfortunately he does seen to have a tad bit of an issue with Ella’s weight. He says he wants to help her lose weight but I hope the only reasons for that is because of possible health issues and because she has such a complex about her size. Hopefully this guy can help boost Ella’s self-esteem to the point that regardless as to what happens between the two of them she can learn to love herself & not feel that she constantly needs a man in her life to feel valuable. My heart kind of breaks for her. No one should have to feel the way she does about themselves. I honestly hope these two last

[@agenaw2877]

@@littlesantana402 well IMO if she has such a complex about her weight why hasn't she done anything about it? She could get the surgery like Angela did look how old Angela is and she has lost weight from it, my cousin was about Ella's size and also has been fat all her life and she is now down to about a size 7/8 and she's in her 40's. So she can either do something about it or stop her whining about it.

[@debragodwin7408]

Absolutely! Either do something or quit bitching! That drives me crazy. On 600 pound life. People crying as they mash food in their mouth. WTH!

[@MmmKayHuuNay]

Uh no, did You not watch? She’s racist. HE DESERVES MUCH BETTER.

[@MmmKayHuuNay]

She definitely shouldn’t be around an Asian kid being a damn racist. Ew.

[@juliapalmer2344]

Why can’t she lose weight on her own? Why does she need Johnny to do it for her? He is making such a big sacrifice quitting a good job, leaving his child and parents without financial support. Yikes. How can he do that.

[@MyNameIsCurrentlyUnavailable]

Becaue she manipulative. That way when she fails or the relationship fails, she can use him as a scapegoat. No accountability for Fatgirl

[@jingyun4323]

He’d like to go skinny dipping in the white pond

[@agenaw2877]

Exactly 💯 %

[@AeliaM16Lake]

Its a risk anyone in a international relationship takes, I would love for Ella to come visit Johnny in China too.

[@Sunset553]

It seems like the weight loss plan is just his idea. Even if she does know about it, I think it’s a sure fail.

[@TammanaSultanaFood]

I think he is leaving the kids behind in case things don't work out, he doesn't have to struggle his way with his kid. plus this is an online relation. He might even be cautious and leave the kid behind for that reason.

[@youtuber6185]

In China it’s very common for kids to stay with their grandparents for even a year or two at a time while their parent moves for a career. Super common.

[@snooganslestat2030]

Yeah you dont abandon your child to go abroad but you also dont take them to a totally unpredictable situation with someone you have never spent time with. I was disgusted by Nicole and how she treated May during her disastrous non relationship with Azan(not sure i remembered his name correctly). I wish all parents would quit introducing their children to every person they date & even worse having the child refer to them as mum/dad.

[@MissHoneyBadger]

I love how you said what was on my mind. This girl is lumping all Asians together and that is just a very wrong thing to do. I love Monsta X but I won't look to date men that look like them or any Korean who will have me. There's a difference between having a physical preference and romanticizing/fetishizing an ethnic group.

[@gracedlm]

rt i like k pop and korean music.. and anime BUT I'm not going to go out of my way to make sure i date a Korean or Japanese guy T . T they're hot yes b every other race is hot

[@ivoryorchidfemme]

FACTS!!!!

[@Nachoza]

Stan joohoney

[@1977jenna]

Well I'm sure she really likes Johnny as a person too. We all have different types, hers is asian men. For me that would never fly, I love latino men... And it doesn't matter if they're from Argentina, Cuba, Costa Rica or whatever. I'm just attracted to the way they look and the spanish language.

[@gracedlm]

@@1977jenna yeh its still a fetish lol wat drove her to d8 johnny was the fact she was looking for asian men to date her having a fetish doesn't mean she doesn't like him as a person but the fact he is asian is what sexually attracts her to him...

[@betamuniz000]

What a healthy relationship 🤣🤣🤣

[@ccorleans3063]

😆🤣right?! Lol 😂

[@betamuniz000]

@@ccorleans3063 just waiting for the train wrack 🤣🤣🤣

[@jvanausdeln]

I’m not sure one exists anymore anyway so

[@MyNameIsCurrentlyUnavailable]

Bahahaha!

[@sarahjaneg8323]

What could possibly go wrong 🤔 🤣

[@merrbear5104]

When you were talking about her catfishing the Man from India, all I could think of was Azan’s confessional right after he met Nicole for the first time and he said “ Yeah I was happy she was pretty and cute but, I…1 was a little disappointed because she is a little bit bigger in her body.” 😂😂

[@TheRimbaldine]

The whole time I was wondering how Ella can be so active (horse riding, prancing about with a fake sword) and yet morbidly overweight.

[@pamelaz.7659]

I agree. I Just hope the horse she rides is big enough to carry her weight. Just because you can get on one and ride dosen't mean you should.

[@maybeequestrian3698]

I don’t think she’s horseback riding at her weight, horses can only carry a maximum of 20 % of there weight an horses only usually weigh 1000 lbs so that’d have to be one big horse to carry her just sayin 🤷‍♀️

[@kaitko]

Overweight people can be active. Weight does not equal health and vice versa.

[@Kthb80]

@@maybeequestrian3698 There was a big long scene of her riding horse, she lives on a ranch I think she rides regularly, we were all feeling bad for that poor horse

[@pamelaz.7659]

@@maybeequestrian3698 I agree, I don't know how big the horse was she was on, but she was riding it.

[@aldenwashington3285]

there's nothing wrong with interracial relationships and it can be a beautiful thing to invest in someone else's culture but when the relationship is heavily based on a fetish or trying to escape something.. yea you might need to unpack that

[@NostalgiaMan]

why is that woman trying to be a Samurai? Good lord the dojo is now in shame.

[@girisha_laxmi11]

😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@nursedebbiespaghetti9886]

Love your commentary! I just lost my son and really needed to laugh today...thanks!

[@desiraeduah3343]

Sending big hugs your way!

[@agenaw2877]

Sorry for your loss 🫂

[@nursedebbiespaghetti9886]

@@desiraeduah3343 thank you so much xo

[@nursedebbiespaghetti9886]

@@agenaw2877 thank you so much xo

[@kyladent6302]

I'm so sorry for your loss! My uncle's funeral is tommorow so I understand how you feel! Hope it gets better. Stay say and take care!

[@dangalanga6941]

Oh damn….. daddy is in for a huge shock in every way imaginable

[@TheKaiTetley]

I worked with a big, fat woman. Vietnamese guys called her a princess. They were enamoured with her.

[@dangalanga6941]

@@TheKaiTetley I was referring to the lifestyle differences between China and America, along with quitting his job while being a single father

[@FunYl]

He's about to become a cowboy starting on level hard: riding a bull

[@bethanywilliams8011]

Ayyyyyye! I've been waiting for this couple!

[@ChiefKene]

Racial fetishes are something else… just like who you like for the shared interests not because their “Asian” lol. This couple will be the most funniest unintentionally

[@famouslastwords0791HR]

He seems too good for her in every way. And with her whiny child bs personality, i don't think this will last long

[@erinjean2695]

Ok the potato going across every time you say Idaho is hysterical

[@ShanteRoxxane]

Johnny does have a nice smile though and in that picture his teeth looked really white and straight so I don’t get how that was shade.

[@felesnigra]

I have a feeling that Americans like only all straight teeth and hate even a little imperfection. He doesn't have any crooked teeth on anything...

[@jenniferdaulby5519]

There's a shot of Ella on a horse at the ranch - omg that poor bloody horse! Imagining Johnny out there mucking out & dealing with farm animals is just fantasy on Ella's part.

[@sunday.mourning]

Pretty sure if you’re over 200 lbs you shouldn’t be riding most of not all horses because their backs can curve abnormally and break if there’s too much weight on them. :(

[@ccorleans3063]

😩💀Not Asian Zaddy‼️🤮🤢😩😆😂😂😂😆💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You got me Hollering over here lol 😝 ♥️❤️

[@stilljocelyn_]

I love your commentary, you are a white man that gets it, when it comes to the racial fetishization. The mix is solid insight and shade throwing is everything.

[@Sinsteel]

Yup, but let's see the finger pointing on all sides then.

[@YaoZerZ]

It's normal in asia. Parents leave for months to years at a time to go make money to support their family in other countries. The grandparents are given the job to raise them. They dont want too, but what else can they do, but go and make money. And make sure theirs kids have a better future. I know this cause that is what my cousin do in thailand

[@Michellef1117]

It'd odd that she's so obsessed with the culture but doesn't know a bit of Mandarin. I was a surrogate for a Chinese man and I learned some Mandarin...

[@2shadowcats2]

Ella can't even tell the difference between Chinese and Japanese...I doubt she has even tried studying Mandarin... (I have studied both Japanese AND Mandarin...) I find Asian men very attractive... but don't fetishize!! Asian countries have rich cultures. I spent a lot of time in Japan, and I truly appreciate the culture. Ella seems to know ZERO about actual Asian culture!!

[@feelswithmeesh]

It blows my mind when I tell people I’m Chinese and they say”but I thought you were Asian?” 😂😂😂😂

[@candycane1744]

Funny bc when people think of Asian they think of Chinese

[@SB-fh3sv]

i lived in London with an Indian family and he referred to himself as asian (which is technically correct but I never used the word Asian to describe Indians) and then he referred to people that i would label “asian” as “oriental”. Random information there but found it fascinating how we identified people differently

[@SY-ok2dq]

@@SB-fh3sv It just goes to show you that people of other ethnicities can also be just as insensitive and uninformed as "white people" like Ella from Idaho. Chinese people are East Asians. Indians are South Asians. Oriental is a term used to describe objects, like rugs that are Oriental. It should not be used to refer to the people of East Asia.

[@SB-fh3sv]

@@SY-ok2dq I am American and would never use Oriental to refer to people but maybe that is an American sensitivity. The term itself just means from the Orient which I don’t think is bad.

[@SY-ok2dq]

@@SB-fh3sv I'm not American. But I don't like the use of the term Oriental to refer to the people of East Asia, or citizens of Western countries of East Asian heritage (which includes me). I'm sure people like my parents, who grew up speaking no English and with very, very limited knowledge of Western countries and their culture, and surrounded by people of the same ethnic, linguistic, historic and cultural background (i.e. everyone in their country being the same - no minorities or native peoples or immigrants) would not have found anything offensive or ignorant or outdated about the use of the words Orient and Oriental. They simply didn't understand English well enough, or the history of those words, to find it offensive. Likewise, they wouldn't have understood what's so offensive about the word "negro." In fact, that's the term they would have heard white U.S. servicemen using all the time, when they were stationed in their home country (with U.S. military forces and bases having a large presence there following the end of WW2). Now let's say an Indian guy went around the U.S. - Baltimore, Detroit, NYC, etc. - using the words "negro" and "colored people" or "coloreds" or "mulatto"? What kind of response would he get? Doesn't "negro" literally mean "black/dark"? Not the word "nigger", but the original word "negro" that was widely used throughout the U.S. and Europe. So what kind of response would that get? BTW, I once knew someone who grew up in North America, in an immigrant family that came from the Indian subcontinent. He would correct anyone calling them Indian or referring to Hindus etc. He would emphasize that they were Punjabi, from Punjab, and are Sikhs. That's a different religion to Hinduism. Of course, the part of Punjab that they were from - the east - IS in India, so in terms of nationality, it's correct to call them Indians (citizens of the state of India). But the area of Punjab, and the history of the groups of people who lived there, far predates the modern borders of the star of India.

[@shamicagray4014]

Johnny is too cute he really wants to help her and be a cowboy 🤠

[@nico-ob6wj]

This season is going to be lit!! With gino and all, I can't wait

[@cbliss]

I'm a big woman, not as big and getting smaller. My "men" are always after me to not lose the plump curves. Way too many men are into obese women. My bf is into me feeling healthy and good about myself. Hope I never lose him! We are brand new.

[@5050TM]

That's so good! It's gross when men care more about how a woman's weight turns him on instead of looking at the woman as a human being whose health matters.

[@t.j.7789]

Good luck!!! I'm shocked myself at the muscle men I pull hahah unfortunately, none are looking for a relationship.....but they love the curves!!!

[@Heylailacruz]

I can already see the potential problems they would have knowing how big of a difference two cultures have but if they compromise I honestly think they have great potential ish 😂

[@karlaangel7164]

Over seas workers are very common. Both mothers and fathers if given the opportunity to provide even more for their families will take it even if it means leaving the family behind. The biggest issue I would see if it were to happen is if Johnny were to come to see her for the first time and brought his son with him. As a parent you have to put your children first regardless of your own issues. So if he brought his son to see her right away and hadn't vetted her properly before bringing his child around her; then that could create issues for his child. It's especially true since his son is very young.

[@avolovo]

Chinese parents living away from their own children doesn’t seem to be too uncommon. A friend I knew in high school lived with his dad, who opened a restaurant, and two brothers, while his mother lived in China with his two other brothers. When my friend turned 12, everyone moved to the US and finally lived together. Another friend lives in Venezuela with her husband while her two kids stayed with their grandparents. She told me she preferred that her kids were educated in China, and the business they have in Venezuela helps pay the bills.

[@nathanthebeeman489]

The only problem I would have about the Asian thing is it sounds like she doesn’t care about who he is as long as he’s Asian

[@afrochadwithabiggestbbc6491]

Go to hell with your racist mind

[@Nevergiveuponyourself]

Love the advice about being ready to support a child when you have started a family. Reminds me of the other 90 day fiance couple Nicole and Azan "hey, this is your new daddy and TLC is my job now... thanks mum and dad for all your rooftops and support" where the hell was her daughters dad.

[@skydaddysaidimintrouble9949]

Probably like 17

[@flavavicious]

As an Asian, I am here for this train wreck named Ella… because I like cringing… PLUS all the anime she prolly knows are from Cartoon Network. KID YOU NOT.

[@maylynbayani]

I remember a quote i read before about how the cost of dreaming is not living. I think this applies to her. I was bullied as a child too and has spent most of my time immersing myself in anime. But aside from that, I joined a gym, actively socialize, join a choir, a theater and a journalism group. I also worked towards a career. Im still totally an anime fan. Even my husband recognizes that when im sad i most likely am just too enmeshed in a fanfiction im reading ahhaha. Point is, you just cant fantasize all the time. I empathize with her because I was in that route before but she needs to face reality and actually work on her issues

[@Wanoiyori]

Rooting for her weight loss journey.

[@roojistanr5015]

Nick,dude you have nailed it on this analysis and yeh me and my mates are exactly like that..the banter is so much fun and witty.

[@dianekuroda8513]

Enjoy your videos...thank you. I am from Hawaii also: retired RN from The Queen's Medical Center and married into Japanese Hawaiian family from Hilo side... Japanese culture is very formal and critical of those who don't fit in... she would be ridiculed. " the nail that sticks up gets hammered down"...is their motto.

[@maylynbayani]

He's chinese though. Less formal but more intrusive lmao. And very superstitious. I love my in laws and I actually dont mind that they call us almost everyday, guve advise on our marital problems and have the craziest superstitions but I grew up with that and accepts it. I hope she can adjust.

[@SailorSlay]

I don’t think it’s a bad sign that he’s leaving his kid for a few months. If he wants to make a life with her he needs to be sure. So to me it’s fine for him to vet her and his new life for a new life to be sure it’s what he wants

[@evonekky3672]

Leaving his kid at home for the first time meeting this person in another country was definitely the right thing to do!

[@catarinamendoza5351]

I’ve been dying waiting for his coverage on this couple😂😂 especially because of his love of anime haha

[@thisismeww]

When the friend made the comment about Johnny and Ella I completely lost it lol

[@daniellecorrea7835]

Red Hair, Green Eyes and Fox Demon inside actually relates to Kurama from Yu Yu Hakusho not Naruto but not far off since the creator of Naruto actually admits that Naruto's inner demon is somewhat based on the Kurama character from Yu Yu Hakusho.

[@JdTbby]

I love the way my guy has some funny things to say but I really appreciate how he lifts these ppl up too and gives them credit for the good things too not just focusing on negative stuff.

[@sakuraa1770]

So after koreaboo Deavan we've evolved into weaboo Ella.

[@gorgeouzgaltiara3711]

I watched your videos, ALL your videos, ANYTHING that said Yourwet socks, repeatedly n I mean REPEATEDLY. You r SO FUNNY n BRUTALLY honest! So refreshingly FRESH!!!!!! Keep supporting you Nik!!!!

[@KH0LRA]

Ella and Johnny are probably gonna have moments like Brandon and Julia with the ranch stuff, and child related problems like the Nicole and Azan situation. These two are gonna have crazy situations..

[@deavanclegg717]

Well I never thought I say this. Good video my dude.

[@dancing.panda.studios]

These ppl make me cry 😭 she probably thinks that there are only 3 countries in Asia too

[@shakeeranoel4320]

I'm so glad I found this channel 🤣🤣love from Trinidad 🇹🇹 ❤

[@Dinokreechur]

As a witch, lemme just say this: NEVER USE SPELLS TO ATTEMPT A BETTER DATE.

[@AeliaM16Lake]

Genuine curiosity, what's the rationale behind this and how does it backfire, if it does?

[@cristinas1234]

Agreed, as a lightworker the universe will only permit ascending after learning the lessons

[@ShamelessFox]

Of course not. That's what vodka is for. Well, vodka and a friend to give you the emergency "something's wrong" phone call.

[@preciousoh705]

@@AeliaM16Lake Commenting so I can read her response later

[@froggywithaheart]

ik that you shouldn't attract a specific person, rather attract qualities...dropped this comment to their reply😅😂

[@jenniferliu5026]

Hi love your videos! I love how you brought up the fact how TLC altered the translation for what the doctor said. That’s quite subtle to be noticed. Also I think he left his kid behind probably because his kid needs to keep up with the school work and if he came to the US he wouldn’t able to get back that easily with the current travel restrictions that China has (at least 28 days).

[@PnoMonies]

Dayuuuuum these dudes really want that Green Green! Homeboy from Taiwan is really working for it. He’s like the Asian Michael lol

[@maylynbayani]

Work on your geography. Shanghai is in China.

[@PnoMonies]

@@maylynbayani if you’re going to be nosey work on paying attention. Ellas friend with the short hair she went to lunch with has a husband from Taiwan. My point is these dudes are out here really working hard for that greencard.

[@officialgothicbarbie]

Honestly its hard to get an authentic vibe from someone through youtube but you seemed down/ low energy a few months ago its nice to see you back to you happy unique self

[@yourwetsock]

I was going through some shit but my life is in a better place now thanks! 😄

[@meameam]

The name Virginia actually existed before the State! It was the name of an important character in the last period of the Roman monarchy, before the Republic.

[@hommefataltaemin]

OMG THE CLIP OF LEE MINHO FROM LEGEND OF THE BLUE SEA! You, sir, have wonderful taste. The infamous “disgursting, shat!” line… 😂😂

[@TanukiOkiyo]

I lived in China for 2 years . Lots of kids are in the care of the grandparents for many reasons , including the parents are migrant workers and go to big cities like Beijing to find work as housekeepers , construction or nannies. Grandparents are a huge part of raising the grand babies , especially if they’re male children.

[@christinatyree2280]

Her fetishising him is so annoying.... Like love and like who you want but she's so outta pocket for this....

[@saltyriz7734]

YOU'RE AMAZING SERIOUSLY!! I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS

[@SneedburgerSyndrome]

She likes samurai. He likes cowboys. It's like poetry, it rhymes.

[@khadijah3519]

LMAO You are casting spells!! This is to damn much. Johnny has a very sad and lonely chic on his hands.

[@MyNameIsCurrentlyUnavailable]

They deserve each other. And yes, she’s EXTREMELY lonely and desperate

[@ava.and.jasper]

*Asian Prince Boyfriend* sounds like a movie with english dubs and a totally wacky storyline, I'd watch, sounds great

[@katthefantastic]

Suh dude, mad love to all. I'm excited about this couple too. I feel Jonny is very sweet and only wants her to be healthy. I just hope she doesn't see it as a controlling thing, but that he just wants a long life with her. I like him more then most on this show so far.

[@holly3147]

The Raj cut away made me spit out my coffee 😂😂

[@EmoRiverGirl]

So excited to see where these two go from here.

[@awddry]

Dude the timing of your editing is GOLDEN

[@Gamer528]

I think Alina was the biggest catfish on the show so far with her head and shoulder only shots. Can't wait for you to do an episode on her and Caleb! 😂 Edit:well looks like Alina and Caleb hit it off. She rode his disco stick so all is good 😂

[@EvelynJoy]

She and Caleb were talking about how she is a little person and uses a wheelchair before they met in person.

[@JamiesLife]

Ik I agree and it's so annoying how she acted and her lame friend too I felt so bad for Caleb's mega catfish him

[@Rebeckula]

Ummmmm didn't nicole use her sisters pictures?

[@Abdeybebe]

I agree.. poor Caleb he seems nice. Oh and her friend is just too much trying to make Caleb feel like crap for not kissing her and not pouring her water first. He should mind his own business. 🤷‍♀️🤔

[@Kthb80]

@@Rebeckula Who is Nicole?

[@WhatAMessJada]

the scenes where she's doing witchcraft with her friends took me OUT omg

[@kellyhenderson9972]

That is not gonna go over well with his parents I’m sure

[@karenlauj2103]

I think she was talking about gaara, except gaara doesn’t have a fox spirit 😭

[@j.daemin]

I THOUGHT SO TOO! 😭

[@tea13]

I believe she was talking about Kurama from YuYu Hakusho. Long red haired fox demon boy with green eyes

[@karenlauj2103]

@@tea13 oh yeah huh, he’s so cute too 😭😂😂

[@tea13]

@@karenlauj2103 He was the anime boy crush of the 90s so I knew immediately haha

[@Anthonydavis65]

No she meant Kurama from Yu yu hakusho

[@caylahtaikoi]

Yes to the Legend of the Blue Sea reference! 🎉 that scene is hilarious 😂

[@kaylarae4403]

She lives in my hometown actually😂 I’m actually so surprised she’s a weeb and into Wiccan culture like I am because it’s not a very popular thing here.

[@allieSunl]

Off topic and random af, but I love how much you talk with your hands, Nick!

[@momokurama]

She is actually describing a different character (Kurama from Yu Yu Hakusho) who predates Kenshin and Naruto but is your mixer of the two 🥴 but if you need more tea on this chick there is a Yu Yu Hakusho Facebook group she is. Since she has made that description alluding to Kurama the group has been rampant with screenshots of her. We found out she was active in the group when some people were calling out her Asian fetish and she had responded to them. I have screenshots if you need them lmao

[@raaaaaaarr]

I want the screenshots!

[@thefinal-teenspirit]

Not me getting a Chinese food ad before the video 💀

[@Abdeybebe]

Youre right my sons dad left us after a horrible accident that he caused. But then he moved on with sum girl that used to date his brother and he would post pics with her and her daughter that was not his daughter, but he would post pics all happy with them. And ignore his real son our son that has same name as him and all.

[@msteele674]

She doesn't even use the Katana properly, it's blade is meant for slashing/cutting not stabbing

[@beaglemama7928]

She's crazy.

[@yilz123]

I’m Chinese, I can tell you that a lot of the bluntness is cultural. Unfortunately in Chinese culture it’s pretty normal to comment on someone’s body. Growing up in that culture was pretty painful.

[@2shadowcats2]

Ella doesn't seem to understand that being overweight is not looked on favourably in most Asian cultures.

[@kellyhenderson9972]

In any Asian culture. Specifically China. They are very focused on weight. My coworker used to comment on how thin she thought I was all the time. And that she would bring me food from home lol

[@lucy-in-the-sky9292]

“It’s easy to lose weight if you want to”… yes, but does he even know if she wants to lose weight? What’s gonna happen if she doesn’t want to? This screams Azan (or whatever his name was) and Nicole all over again!

[@thomasm1585]

She is a buffet's worst nightmare.

[@aaavvviii3]

HAHAHHA

[@jenniferdaulby5519]

Poor Johnny should have checked whether he'd be able to import the Chinese medicines. I know here in Australia these preparations breech quarantine laws because of seeds, etc.

[@chadspro]

"Because the quiet kids drop 20 bombs" lmfao you just earned a sub my dude