HOW TO WIN AGAINST NARCISSITS

[@shikumwaniki7417]

"Speed up the healing. When you finally have your peace without them, the game is over". Powerful!!!!!

[@wivinesubgura1754]

More grace 🙏🏽🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@maureenakoth1940]

Healing from narcissism is not that easy. I had to shut the door despite blackmails. I refused to fall for blackmails and painting my image wrongly to please people. I decided to let people hear from him but find my comfort and peace. It's 4 months now. He just reappeared on 1st this year wishing me a happy new year. I had to ignore it.

[@tabithakasina3711]

How you expound this word to get into our ears is so selfless of you. Your heart really bleeds for this generation to see them free from poverty and from manipulation from con lovers.We are grateful.

[@miria659]

The funniest thing is that narcissist call their victims narcissist coz they can't see their mistakes they are very clean according to them.

[@emmamoimbo8796]

How can i gree to this 1000 times..

[@mayruthuganda1910]

I have just discovered your channel and I can't stop learning from you!

[@scared-scar]

Benjamin you are the Jesus of our generation...may God ease your part,shower you wisdom and greatness .. personally I was broken but although iam still limping emotionally I have realizes light in me

[@lachie79]

What you said is so true I lived with one for years and I had to run for my life and children. They don't change and they live a delusional life. I was so broken did several counseling and prayers to heal. May The Almighty bless your work.

[@maureenakoth1940]

I decided to start over . Forget about the huge loans am dumped with, the bills and the belongings i lost. Am finally peaceful despite struggling financially. I owe this healing process to God Almighty. Infact i was trapped, he rushed me into family introduction and we started living . Narcissists indeed traps. I thank God for giving me tactics of getting him out my life

[@TalithaCumi1]

I am also struggling financially but I thank God I am now free and peaceful at last..The embarassment,disrespect,dishonesty,violence,torture etc these people come with is unmeasurerable. They even act to love themselves so much but we survivors already know that Narcissism is shame based fear of being ordinary, It has nothing to do with self love but has something to do with grandiosity driven by high performance and self hatred. #God will restore everything we lost in the hands of narcissists#

[@kendijackie1358]

This is is my life now

[@evakamau483]

I can assure you God will restore you. He has restored me after I lost 8 years of investment. Money. Time. And Peace.

[@mwanjpret]

Thank you especially where children are involved. It's terrible, they'll even ask why that parent is no longer coming home yet they have put it in them to ask you.

[@kishcomedyskits]

Thank you Zulu...I'm now one month old away from a narcissist woman,(wife),,u can't believe the peace that I'm having nowadays 🤗🤗 truly I was in a prison..

[@blessed-bless359]

😱😱😱😱 I can't imagine if there are narcissist

[@kishcomedyskits]

@@blessed-bless359 khaaii....aki u jus pray u don b a victim of a narcissist....u will go crazy koz of toxicity and poison... always proving even their mistakes wrong and twisting all back to u as the bad person,,,,,, it's a hell mazeey...

[@blessed-bless359]

I pray God not to mit one .I really value my happiness . Am sorry for ur experience

[@elizabethkamau8663]

Gaslighting it is!!

[@pamgeorge5679]

Indeed its' so draining... Thank God you noticed the signs earlier...

[@evakamau483]

This is such an eye opener. COUNTER- PARENTING has been my experience😒

[@marynoah5345]

Am awed I planned my exit in silent he became aware after 3 mons then I went no contact am happy I did it for myself. Staying damages the children kindly exit asap

[@ednahchirchir1924]

Thank you so much. It's a process

[@lynetteadhiambo9482]

God bless you Benjamin. This was a real deliverance service

[@mayruthuganda1910]

💯💯💯💯 deliverance service

[@Pet_K]

True. A deliverance piece of advise.

[@abukalilian6505]

Benja iam married to a narcissist I hv suffered my dear,I feel like running away

[@margaretwachoro7532]

The topics that i love more...thankyou soo much for this

[@micryn1212]

This is great news

[@kaswekaikumbuko9228]

Dealing a narcissist, somone almost died from no this new year Eve. I openly told him, hes very difficulty to love and am not willing to risk it. After 6 months of muteness, he wanted us back. Kikkkk I told him I don't have peace around you. He blocked me. Am happy he knows how I was feeling.

[@simonnikodemus6986]

Discipline save you from disaster👍

[@oinoemma3034]

Have realized my mistakes now.... I rushed

[@yangasivunga466]

Thank you may GOD bless you Zulu.

[@estheroluka8598]

Thank you Zulu.

[@marynoah5345]

This is so true.thank you Ben u have helped me in my healing journey. God bless you sana 🙏

[@estherwangui4274]

Three ways narcissist come to be.1.too much spoiling.2.too much lack of sth 3.conditioned culture eg family of male chauvinists that think men are superior hence as a male in the family he thinks he is the "alpha wolf" if he is a man example in some luhya men never work , women do everythng literally

[@mayruthuganda1910]

I and 3 are the worst