Benny Blanco's Journey From Recording Music in His Bedroom to A-List Music Collaborations

Today, Jay sits down with Benny Blanco. Benny has made an indelible mark on the music industry, contributing to millions of album sales worldwide. He's worked with stellar artists like Ed Sheeran, Justin Bieber, and Katy Perry. As a solo artist, his albums "Friends Keep Secrets" and its sequel have amassed over 11 billion streams.
Benny talks about how he got his start and stayed positive and motivated despite facing challenges. We also take a peek into his life outside music, he opens up about his relationships, his passion for cooking, and more!
In this interview, we discuss:
00:00 Intro
03:43 What’s the First Creative Thing You Put Together?
06:15 I Never Cared About Failure
10:33 Developing Amnesia to Failure
14:22 How Did You Meet Your Mentor?
18:10 “The Boy I Mentored”
23:42 How Do You Show Up After a Rejection?
26:51 Love Can Be Felt Through Music
29:56 What Do You Do When You Wake Up?
32:02 Why Do You Struggle with Meditation?
33:28 Why I Went to Therapy
38:25 The Pressure of Perfectionism
44:49 Do You Love to Cook?
47:20 Do You Eat Healthy?
48:47 Finding Comfort in Food
54:42 What’s Your Sleep Pattern?
56:40 Friendships Built Over the Years
59:19 Multigenerational Friendships
01:03:44 Better Relationship After Divorce
01:05:52 Benny on Final Five
01:15:57 What’s Your Vice?
01:17:53 Do You Take Supplements?
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[@JayShettyPodcast.]

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[@user-sl3ow5ul8v]

I dont know what failure means

[@delana9398]

@JayShettyPodcast I live for when my notification goes off because you dropped another amazing interview. Benny is such a positive soul with such fabulous character. He is so right... If more people in this world practiced LOVE and KINDNESS this world would be a much better place. Much love Jay 🫶🏾 Keep shining your bright light, we appreciate you more than you'll ever know. And send my love to your beautiful wife, I'm such a fan of hers ❤

[@adebimpeabiola1447]

I learned a lot from you guys tonight, watching from Nigeria ❤

[@LorindaSmith-vy9xh]

Just be you fully. You never fail.

[@angaragunurbileg1808]

Don’t be afraid to fail

[@lauraboredom2168]

i love how many questions benny asked you too, he genuinely seems very interested in connecting with you and getting to know you more

[@kg0148]

Yes! I was thinking that too!

[@jenniferponder3230]

I find it so rare for men to actually ask lots of questions! Benny seems totally interested and listening intently!

[@BellaEstrella7]

why is benny the best & most relatable person jay has interviewed of all time.

[@tinashemoyo9776]

I learned that you should not care about failure but use it as a stepping stone. That's a very powerful thing to do.

[@JayShettyPodcast.]

THIS!

[@LorindaSmith-vy9xh]

OK, I see it Selena, his soul is so beautiful too.

[@user-fb6tc1gl5v]

I was thinking the literal same thing.

[@jennaroark]

Selena is lucky to have him, great interview!

[@user-gu1ej2xy8n]

I see a lifelong friendship brewing between Benny & Jay now. Both are amazing men. I really enjoyed this interview.

[@user-hd2hx8kx6w]

Now i know why selena choosed him to be her boyfriend

[@Celebri265]

He amazing 😻 love him

[@Ajeynaamdhaari636]

Not chosed it is chosen my dear

[@gaia-papaya8772]

I never had a doubt why she did, he’s such a cool dude ❣️

[@gaia-papaya8772]

@@Ajeynaamdhaari636not choosen CHOSE!

[@gaia-papaya8772]

Chose ✔️

[@rashellpacheco224]

I love how Benny is all over the place when he’s talking 😂 his curiosity is great

[@Blk_Waldo]

This is one of my favorite conversations Jay had this year. I never knew who Benny was before this beside him working with SZA but I love his energy and his genuine interest in Jay as well. He seems like the kind of person that could get anyone to open up during a convo.

[@belindaferreira7445]

The interaction and getting to know the interviewer is something that show how amazing Benny Blanco is. Not a selfcenter. Always caring about other. How can not love him?

[@leslyalfaro76]

Love how Benny asked Jay questions too! 😅 he literally got invited knowing nothing about Jay! Love that

[@Thelady1201]

I never watched a podcast from beginning to end. I did it with this one. I feel like I just came out of a therapy room. Good job 👍🏼

[@soprismatic]

I loved learning more about Benny. I feel like theres so little we know about celebrities and we just assume they're 1 way or another... love his take on failure. Its no big deal...just do it again, find a new way to go about it, or try something new. We all need to try this thought process!

[@JayShettyPodcast.]

Agreed!

[@Darkmode9]

I like the way he talks, OMG I love his mentality.

[@AIUncover]

Can’t wait to listen to this. Benny is such a talented and humble artist

[@JayShettyPodcast.]

Agreed!

[@Celebri265]

I would spend hours listening to him super genius

[@Joe-rb8ju]

I don’t think it comes off well in interviews, he is so kind and caring. Through out all the chaos he never not had a smile.

[@Joe-rb8ju]

@@JayShettyPodcast. I apologize for not being able to watch the whole podcast. I don’t know if it was because Benny was so young. I have never seen him Discuss Dave and him not taking his mental health meds.

[@aromanianknitterinnorway]

My best friend died this time last year. I am 42, she was 77. We met when I was 19. I miss her so so much and at the same time I feel blessed for having her in my life. One thing she told me many years ago, your best friend is the one you might not see for a year but when finally meet is like you just talked yesterday ❤

[@casslarkin4567]

What an authentic guy. I love that he interviewed you, too, Jay.

[@xbeol7451]

Watching this because of Selena Gomez ❤❤❤

[@Noppy_ug_09Debaddest]

Me too darling

[@virginiaortega8586]

One of the best interviews! I could listen to you both all day .

[@AlinaAlineta]

In this Jay Shetty podcast, I learned more about Jay Shetty. Thanks Benny Blanco. And Benny, you're a cool, down-to-earth guy. I would be very glad to have people like you in my close circle.

[@nolwazizondi1306]

Love how clueless Benny was about the podcast and Jay 😂😂😂 his curiosity is 🔥

[@denised4422]

This was one of the best interviews between you and Benny. It flowed so easily, like we didn't want the video to stop. As always, Jay, you really hit the mark on interviewing someone whom I feel has been so judged by people that know nothing about him. Thank you both, great tips on keeping trying when you're afraid to fail, etc..❤

[@JayShettyPodcast.]

Thank you for watching!

[@nayirab]

The way Benny keeps asking Jay questions at the end is somehow so funny😂

[@user-fb6tc1gl5v]

I literally love Benny Blanco after hearing this interview. I didnt know much about him. Im not a fan of the celebrity or famous world for obvious reasons. Literally would love to be his friend. Totally get the match with Salena. Both deeply amazing people. Im so glad there are well known people with good hearts for everyone to look up to these days.

[@ayishab7416]

The moment when Benny drinks his drink and saves him from asking the same question twice ❤

[@Rybarra13]

I think we need a Benny / Jay collab on a track 🎶

[@JayShettyPodcast.]

😂😂😂

[@meverly7834]

I can’t help but feel like these 2 will be friends for a long time after this.

[@ScottThePisces]

Benny is a massive influence to me, especially his earlier work behind the scenes in the pop industry. Literally the blueprint for who I want to become! Great interview as always!

[@1heart1mind]

I can see why Selena fall in love with Benny. A beautiful, humble, interesting and talented being. I wanted Benny continued asking Jay questions 😂 incredible energy

[@fatboyannie]

I love they consider cooking as creative. I always thought that until someone put me in the box and said cooking is not creative. I never accepted that. Anything you do that is not following one's instructions, add your own personality to make you happy, you are being creative. Do you!

[@JayShettyPodcast.]

THIS!!!

[@lizpease2544]

Your home in ad is gorgeous and so cozy with amazing colors/ textures! Loved it.

[@adebimpeabiola1447]

I love this, thank you Jay for bringing Benny to your channel ❤ Benny is so awesome and free spirit

[@brittaniaespejel]

I’ve watched all the videos on this channel & have learned so much but this video has given me the motivation to start all over again. Thank you Jay for what you do & Benny was so authentic & wonderful.

[@JayShettyPodcast.]

❤❤❤

[@yvettetrann]

Only ten minutes in, this is my first time hearing from Benny and his vibe is AMAZING. As someone who is only first trying to to get their foot in music professionally, i'm SO glad to see someone like him to be in the industry. Reassuring and inspiring. Amazing video, definitely favorite podcast by far. Thank you Jay for making this exist.

[@StudyfyTV]

This podcast is awesome but this episode is helping me have less fear to start something, like anything without a 100% expectation of being successful at the first try. Keep going please 🙏

[@Star-ix8mc]

I loved hearing how he values each moment. He knows how to live life! So inspiring!

[@ivethsierra2903]

He’s a beautiful human being . Thank you for the conversation

[@JayShettyPodcast.]

Thanks for watching!

[@jeannie-2172]

I love how Benny keeps going after having failures. He’s resilient. 😊

[@nivianedwards6871]

This was a very fun, playful, and interesting interview. I love that Benny was just as curious in Jay's life; it led to a great conversation. I wish you had more time. It would be interesting to see where the conversation would go. One of my favorite interviews. I love Benny's energy.

[@denised4422]

I so agree with you. Awesome interview ❤

[@JayShettyPodcast.]

Thank you for watching!!!

[@nafisahissaka5056]

Love love Benny and his mindset!!

[@Jake-bh1hm]

Benny is inspiring

[@JayShettyPodcast.]

Agreed!

[@lilallivert]

this was such a worth it podcast to listen to, such a vibe 🤌🏽

[@jamiee6672]

Benny Branco has incredible tenacity

[@Star17png]

Wow Benny you are awesome!! This is my first time listening to Benny Blanco at all, and I am so inspired to keep creating ❤thank you so much for this!! I am hyped for life aka the best part❤ the journey ❤ that’s what I took from this.

[@nancysmith3400]

🧡That was pure JOY, didn’t know much about BENNY, he is a brilliant live wire, thanks!!!🤗

[@lauraboredom2168]

was just rewatching selena's interview (one of my favourites, comfort watch) and got this notification! talk about timing, excited to watch

[@fannylehane5926]

Thanks Jay, thanks Benny! What a beautiful way to look at life ❤

[@user-chrisgou]

Αν αυτή η συζήτηση διαρκούσε άλλες 3 ώρες θα την παρακολουθούσα ευχάριστα .Ωστόσο ήταν λες και ήμουν και εγώ εκεί και έπινα τσάι ❤.Και εγώ τα ίδια με την βιταμίνη d είναι πολύ χαμηλά στον οργανισμό μου και να την παίρνω γιατί αλλιώς νιώθω πολύ κουρασμένη.Γνωρισα τον Benny μέσω της Selena γιατί την ακολουθώ χρόνια και την θαυμάζω για το έργο,την ειλικρίνεια της και κυρίως για απενοχοποίηση που έφερε πάνω στα θέματα ψυχική υγείας που τόσα χρόνια τα κρύβουμε σαν την σκόνη κάτω από το χαλί .Χαιρομαι που ο Benny είναι τόσο ειλικρινής , ξεχωριστός,ευχάριστος άνθρωπος και αντιλαμβάνομαι ότι σαν άνθρωποι και σαν ψυχές έχουν πολλά κοινά.Και αυτό δεν έχει να κάνει τόσο με την σχέση όσο με την συνάντηση δύο ψυχών,δύο ανθρώπων,δύο φίλων.Σας εύχομαι τα καλύτερα ❤❤❤❤❤

[@Sabian_Lau_]

Another day, another opportunity at growth-thank you Jay Shetty🙏🏼

[@JayShettyPodcast.]

You're welcome!

[@golamkibriaofficial320]

His podcast is really an outstanding one to be an expert in listening. I have been learning English since for 2 years, and (have) watched thousands of videos in English and enjoyed them. Still I was a problem to understand conversation when two people conversated into a new topic. His channel really helped me absolutely, and I am also learning new updated things that I have never ever known.

[@user-og7gx6uw1j]

Me too But i started to learn 9 month

[@camuchanomellini903]

I HAVE NEVER HEARD of Benny Blanco but what a down to earth sweet hearted man 💕 💕 💕 I truly enjoyed listening to him ~

[@crystalmarie3166]

Its always the most unexpected people that really get your soul. Never knew who Benny was until he started Selena. I'm pleased to say he captivated me with this conversation. Super deep and interesting. Loved it!

[@kg0148]

Jay, thank you so much for these interviews they are so important. There are thousands of shorts many edited that only give the perpective from the person who posts it. These interviews give an introduction into these humans which I think we sometime forget they are human just like us all. Excellent interview as always.

[@california_camperva]

This interview blow my mind! Love this guy and I understood why Selena Gomes is with him! Maybe it is not one of handsome guy but his soul is rocket! It was good to listen Benny Very kind, sweet guy! Love it!

[@michellemunoz71023]

Wow, this is one of the best and most interesting interviews I've seen!!! 👏❤😃 I even told my daughter about your podcast by far the best out here on KZbin! Thanks again for this amazing interview.

[@mariadoussou3507]

benny u will look simple and magical boy, positive energy flows around u

[@annawi888]

I love his mindset like don’t care just go with the flow. It is what it’s meant to be. This was a good one, thank you guys! 🤍

[@elmariedercksen7218]

Just love this guy. Benny has the softest, most beautiful eyes. Windows to the soul do not lie. Well done Selena ❤

[@selenasuau2613]

I love his voice and his persenality....he is confidence❤❤❤❤❤i love him❤❤❤❤❤ Belena for life❤❤❤❤❤

[@roadrunnerfam]

This is the best podacast i ever watched.❤Benny Blanco

[@UnwrittenPodcast]

I love the fact that Benny asked questions as well. We don’t often get to see this perspective from Jay. And it’s hard with this societal pressure once you’re known for something to be anything but.

[@frances840]

You're a good man Benny Blanco...continued success 😍🙏

[@annjohnson8437]

Benny seems like a very cool person! Great interview! ❤

[@user-uk3vn7zj5o]

i love that benny asked jay questions too!!

[@JayShettyPodcast.]

Same!!!

[@meeshelcaminero8420]

Jay got interviewed by Benny, for a change. 😅 Amazing men

[@crystaljacobs9720]

Benny is so great!!!! I loved everything about this!

[@Supriya_user]

He seems to be a no show off pure heart ❤️...great for Selena 🌟

[@gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489]

My favourite speaker Jay genius l love his speech very much ❤.

[@AndreaGarcia-ne6fi]

This human is very unique ❤

[@mine4933]

Benny is amazing

[@JayShettyPodcast.]

Agreed!

[@lilavati5012]

Benny ❤ 😍 thank youuu, i love your story, so encoraging and empowering, you describe how being joy in everything and follow the energy ✨

[@selenasuau2613]

Thank you jay introduce Benny Blanco on ur show......he is talented,funny and gentleman❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@JayShettyPodcast.]

❤❤❤

[@angelachavez5892]

I loved the conversation between the two of you, especially how he turned the interview on you!!! love love love

[@JayShettyPodcast.]

Same!!!

[@Pantherlynn]

He has a point people talk for a little bit but then move on and move to the next drama then clap for you're growth its so hard when its on on cam and public view

[@jenniferponder3230]

I remember being with Pat Summitt, who was one of the all-time greatest college basketball coaches, when she won the NCAA tournament. She said after she said, after having one it six times before, you enjoy it that night and the next day it’s back at working to do it again! From the outside, it looks like you would bask in the glory forever, but I don’t think most of the joy is in the winning, but in the journey.

[@brianabarajas8739]

Jay, his wife, Benny & Selena would be the ultimate double date! Great convo and food 👌

[@jyotishrestha7442]

This is one of my favorite podcast.. Felt like a therapy to me..Thank you so much..❤

[@hellcats113]

That was from far one of the most interesting podcast I have listen recently ! I love the lesson about failure

[@madaimendoza5621]

Love Benny energy, happy for Selena she choose wisely 🤩…….. please Benny treat her nice do no break her heart ♥️.

[@genevrajean1658]

Loved this one! Thank you guys xoxo

[@jackyluvs]

The firt guest who doesn’t know that jay was a monk. Shock! And I love it because he doesn’t talk about the beginnings that often and I didn’t know the story 🦢💗

[@Argentina744]

Benny is a wonderful person. ❤❤❤❤

[@JayShettyPodcast.]

❤❤❤

[@jenniferponder3230]

I love Bennys curiosity!!! that is a characteristic that is so rare in people who I meet in their later years

[@pamelawolfe6308]

Selena and Benny are a beautiful couple they both deserve real love and happiness 😊 may God bless them always ❤️

[@MylaCA819]

Interesting that in this interview, it seemed as if Benny Blanco was the one interviewing Shetty; it just ships how Jay is into himself, because he tried to make the interview about himself. Benny Blanco is such a humble, intelligent, and a truly very likable man; He is amazing!

[@frommetoyou3262]

I loved this episode Very helpful for when you procrastinate about trying something new and sharing your creativity with the world ❤

[@tc0306]

Best podcast ever ❤ I get why selena loves him. He's the most down to earth guy amazing energy personality 😊

[@TryandreamzVlogs]

I finished listening to this interview like it was 10mins! Inspirational! ❤

[@ECUADORMAMI4LIFE]

I love this. a true convo. I love how interested benny is in Jay and vice versa

[@hellcats113]

I love the hit factor , the way he said it , the spark

[@savannahschaffer4100]

Thank you for bringing him on!!! He’s so dope! ❤

[@JayShettyPodcast.]

❤❤❤

[@charmaineg6667]

This is my favourite conversation on your poddy so far. ❤

[@CtalK2000]

He taught me to try something make mess and figure it out ❤ luv him!! New fan.

[@lorindaoconnor1680]

Great video. I find Benny to be very genuine and I love that he asks Jay questions and he really listens. I am 60 years old and when it comes to s to Selena, if someone ever mistreats her, the mama bear comes out. I am so happy that Selena found such a gem with Benny Blanco. ❤️

[@psalm9166]

After this interview Benny has my blessing. (Like it matters)😂

[@JinkyAgarwala0]

No one cares if you fail. 💛 Very nice podcast. Thank you, Jay!

[@farahabusalem9679]

I love how unique he is but instead of trying prove he is unique or different, he teaches uniqueness

[@TheSunnySideofCoffee]

Wow I am learning so much from this guy! Things that I can use in life. 💥