Best Conversation Starters

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Shimon Davis

Shimon Davis

Күн бұрын

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@yuorion3056
@yuorion3056 10 ай бұрын
"are you afraid to die?" the accent he put on that 😭
@BoyPlaZma-BP
@BoyPlaZma-BP 10 ай бұрын
💀
@xottnk
@xottnk 10 ай бұрын
the strings after were so impactful too 😂
@Mr-Raptor
@Mr-Raptor 10 ай бұрын
not gonna lie I would do that
@unboxmenicely116
@unboxmenicely116 10 ай бұрын
I died laughing!! 😂😂
@GeorgeHope-s4h
@GeorgeHope-s4h 9 ай бұрын
Haha I know right 😂😂
@ElSticks
@ElSticks 9 ай бұрын
“If that doesn’t help you…… Im gonna still find a way to help you..” You a real one for that.
@hardtocontrol3468
@hardtocontrol3468 9 ай бұрын
yeah i thought he was gonna say "I don't know what will" but him saying "im still gonna find a way to help you" made me trust him so much more this guy is an absolute king
@SuS_s
@SuS_s 9 ай бұрын
1500 likes and 1 comment Let's fix that
@DamanThomas
@DamanThomas 2 ай бұрын
​@@SuS_sfr
@DamanThomas
@DamanThomas 2 ай бұрын
That hit different
@YarrowAchillea
@YarrowAchillea 10 ай бұрын
This guy looks like a prince
@AskShimon
@AskShimon 10 ай бұрын
LITTLE RED CORVETTE🎸🕺🏾
@m7tips
@m7tips 10 ай бұрын
@@AskShimon yo can u help me
@salmasalma2p662
@salmasalma2p662 9 ай бұрын
Nigerian prince
@tuna.warrior365
@tuna.warrior365 9 ай бұрын
@@AskShimon fart on me
@pmdchi
@pmdchi 9 ай бұрын
hes smooth
@damnsonalabanca420
@damnsonalabanca420 10 ай бұрын
thank you for advice jimi hendrix
@save02
@save02 10 ай бұрын
LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOO fr he has that peaceful vibe
@helpwanted134
@helpwanted134 10 ай бұрын
THAT'S LITERALLY WHAT I WAS THINKING LMAO
@nomadx4520
@nomadx4520 10 ай бұрын
bro i literally thought the same exact thing lmao
@IGNACY-fp8zo
@IGNACY-fp8zo 10 ай бұрын
Prince
@jblocker01
@jblocker01 9 ай бұрын
He’s Himi Hendrix
@decptionq1700
@decptionq1700 9 ай бұрын
half fake laugh to straight face so real
@Dealpickle
@Dealpickle 7 ай бұрын
4:05
@boxerimis
@boxerimis Ай бұрын
5:45
@joamhn
@joamhn 3 күн бұрын
he got the "my bad teach, my bad" laugh
@josefernandez4423
@josefernandez4423 9 ай бұрын
I believe this guy. he's got the charisma and the rizz. he's the type of guy that can start a cult.
@ibader6248
@ibader6248 9 ай бұрын
what
@ΚρανίΩ
@ΚρανίΩ 9 ай бұрын
yappology
@pukkss
@pukkss 9 ай бұрын
you used charisma twice in the same sentence
@Obamna42069
@Obamna42069 9 ай бұрын
Tf are you on 😂
@sunnyithink420
@sunnyithink420 9 ай бұрын
If he had a cult I’m following
@habidaone
@habidaone 10 ай бұрын
Summary - Love language: how they want to be loved, mught be physical touch, affirmations...etc and follow them -Food, drinks and snacks:buy her some food that she loves as it can also be a future date idea -Curiosity: ask questions that show genuine interest in them and ask them for their opinion + Conversation starters are talking points that are gateway to know the other person.Dont rely on them + Youre not gonna be compatible with everybody
@RetroLodge
@RetroLodge 10 ай бұрын
thank you bro means alot
@mostloved_treso
@mostloved_treso 10 ай бұрын
W
@hittitheza
@hittitheza 10 ай бұрын
thanks man, i lost my social skills in 2020 this shit helps
@habidaone
@habidaone 10 ай бұрын
It's my pleasure everybody. Ik it helps a lot especially for us who have ADHD and I try to do the same on other videos. I'd you find them leave a like :)
@habidaone
@habidaone 10 ай бұрын
@@hittitheza It does
@skalk6137
@skalk6137 9 ай бұрын
this is like talking to my best friend bro. this guy is so chill.
@BrightLufeyo
@BrightLufeyo Ай бұрын
It feels like i'm having conversation with someone i have known for ages
@evan4192
@evan4192 9 ай бұрын
Remember it’s not always your fault, some other people just aren’t good at it or couldn’t care less. So if u feel as if a convo is dry don’t worry too much
@amdiary7
@amdiary7 9 ай бұрын
Facts
@rioriorio17
@rioriorio17 7 ай бұрын
And not everyone is gonna like you (now if no one likes you that’s on you, what’s the common theme there) you don’t gotta please everyone 😎
@Pinky-qv9mi
@Pinky-qv9mi 9 ай бұрын
Conversation is great honestly. I talked to this girl once about my interests and her interests and she said she couldn’t get me off her mind. We’re dating now.
@Pinky-qv9mi
@Pinky-qv9mi 9 ай бұрын
@hidetakamiyazaki1825It’s one and the same if you want good conversation ask how said person is doing. Then regular conversation should follow!!
@shuaybw3138
@shuaybw3138 9 ай бұрын
are you an actual horse
@groverkiinmuppetborn714
@groverkiinmuppetborn714 9 ай бұрын
what a very human experience
@ΚρανίΩ
@ΚρανίΩ 9 ай бұрын
@hidetakamiyazaki1825i had. basically what im doing is seeing everyone as humans instead of girls and guys, that way i don't get the wrong idea or intention about a girl, you know being friends with girls and guys is awesome, just be open about yourself and smile. makes all the difference
@urmotherangel9462
@urmotherangel9462 6 ай бұрын
Lil advice needed was it just you asking the questions or did she also or was it more U. If it was u feel u was interviewing them
@eleveli2437
@eleveli2437 9 ай бұрын
I don't think a straight girl in a relationship is part of your intended demographic, but I still watched the whole video. Your vibe is so comforting, and I still took a couple things away. Keep this up, you're really helping a lot of people! 💗
@latexerror4315
@latexerror4315 9 ай бұрын
where is your pfp from? is it from an ado song?
@yogo3181
@yogo3181 9 ай бұрын
It's always interesting to know how the other side flirt. We're all victim of curiosity.
@ang695
@ang695 8 ай бұрын
our partners are ever changing and we should never stop getting to know them :)
@masu5781
@masu5781 9 ай бұрын
The point you make about shallow people is very interesting because these can be people who are scared to open up because of past issues. If you manage to get past their shell then they may end up being a really fun talker!
@James-xd1rf
@James-xd1rf 9 ай бұрын
This is what I was thinking, some people just have a wall up because of the past. I’m currently working through this in therapy
@nerio1227
@nerio1227 9 ай бұрын
This and probably they didn't have much common things to talk about. I had people I could talk with for hours and ones we just stood silent where every questions / answers were really awkward. I don't think not being able to communicate with somebody makes us shallow.
@James-xd1rf
@James-xd1rf 9 ай бұрын
@davidd836 Yikes, good luck with your past traumas my man… I resonate with a handful of things you’re going through so I get how hard things can be.
@SonnyofValor
@SonnyofValor 10 ай бұрын
You're the big brother we all need
@xottnk
@xottnk 10 ай бұрын
i lost my big brothers at 5, didn’t really know them. this helps.
@SonnyofValor
@SonnyofValor 10 ай бұрын
@@xottnk You have my condolences dude. Stay strong.
@Bingodingoshpingo
@Bingodingoshpingo 9 ай бұрын
​@@MichaelFields-lu5duthis ain't trauma dumping.
@PanagiotisPolitis-bl9xj
@PanagiotisPolitis-bl9xj 9 ай бұрын
40 years later than our predictions but big brother is here
@bammboozled4484
@bammboozled4484 9 ай бұрын
@@MichaelFields-lu5dudo yk what trauma dump is ?
@Ziggle-ky9kv
@Ziggle-ky9kv 2 ай бұрын
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
@clc_uzi8890
@clc_uzi8890 9 ай бұрын
seeing other dudes feeling empowered from your videos without blaming everything on women and everyone else around them makes me feel better for our future, keep doing your thing man
@trippmaher275
@trippmaher275 9 ай бұрын
This guys whole vibe is amazing💀
@Punusso
@Punusso 9 ай бұрын
Fr
@TheHappyStickman
@TheHappyStickman 9 ай бұрын
Bro really said🕺🏾
@9x177
@9x177 7 ай бұрын
Straight out of the 70s ahh
@improbablytheguy
@improbablytheguy 10 ай бұрын
Purple is a great colour and it suits you I think, those guitars are pretty nice too.
@AskShimon
@AskShimon 10 ай бұрын
Purple is my favorite color❤️and thank you
@Rocky-od5my
@Rocky-od5my 10 ай бұрын
Bro didn't focus on the video but the color he was wearing.. I had to watch it twice to notice it...
@yohanalexander3962
@yohanalexander3962 10 ай бұрын
@@Rocky-od5mycan’t focus on both?
@tuna.warrior365
@tuna.warrior365 9 ай бұрын
@@AskShimon give me that johnson
@eliasjuan4513
@eliasjuan4513 9 ай бұрын
same@@AskShimon
@dalemcbride3530
@dalemcbride3530 10 ай бұрын
To be honest to tell if a girl is really into you the conversations are gonna be really easy to have especially on her side. She’s going to ask you questions and trying to figure out what you like also so take that in mind.
@josefernandez4423
@josefernandez4423 9 ай бұрын
yep that's what to look for. if she ain't talking to you and trying to know you, move on to someone that does.
@I_like_sk8in
@I_like_sk8in 9 ай бұрын
yeah i just had a 2 hour convo. 😂
@ΚρανίΩ
@ΚρανίΩ 9 ай бұрын
@@I_like_sk8inW
@SoupySouper10
@SoupySouper10 9 ай бұрын
I agree with this unless she's shy, awkward, or just nervous. She might really want to talk but may be afraid to embarrass herself, as a girl who knows a lot of girls many are pretty shy around guys they like. Of course just by vibes you can kind of tell if she's shy or just disinterested but do keep that in mind
@officialthomasjames
@officialthomasjames 9 ай бұрын
Exactly. Nothing to sweat.
@laolu1151
@laolu1151 10 ай бұрын
i really feel that on just not saying nothing to your girl for hours & being comfortable in silence, enjoying each other's company.. you basically just start communicating with touch and affection, don't need all that talking for the most part, y'all basically telepathic now. takes work to get to that point tho like you said. & these are some very fye pointers to get you towards that if you really vibin with said person 👌🏾
@ModernDatingMastery
@ModernDatingMastery Ай бұрын
*Asking open-ended questions that allow her to share stories instead of just yes/no answers is such an effective way to get her talking.*
@beehive983
@beehive983 9 ай бұрын
watching a dude with the most disco looking setting i have ever seen, with the voice of the most chill person you have ever met talking about how i can interact with people is the best 12 minutes i've have all month, thanks man!
@jonathanpanga1382
@jonathanpanga1382 8 ай бұрын
Go to church
@TheJayson8899
@TheJayson8899 8 ай бұрын
Disco?
@TheJayson8899
@TheJayson8899 8 ай бұрын
@@jonathanpanga1382go to bed
@SillyRobot
@SillyRobot 10 күн бұрын
@@TheJayson8899I think it’s because of the afro, shirt, and lighting
@assastral1248
@assastral1248 9 ай бұрын
"THE REAL POINT OF THIS VIDEO IS TO JUST ASK" BRO IS SO REAL, INSTANT SUB
@ClandestineMax
@ClandestineMax 9 ай бұрын
this guy made me realise when to leave people and move on w life. you a real one bro.
@Yoyo-pr3iw
@Yoyo-pr3iw 8 ай бұрын
if you think hes real you live in fake reality.
@UltraViolet750
@UltraViolet750 9 ай бұрын
This is the first advice channel that I actually like and just feels like a conversation with one of the homies and not a lecture
@marcellessanchez4035
@marcellessanchez4035 9 ай бұрын
Listening to him feels like kickin it with the homies💯
@angelthecat2663
@angelthecat2663 9 ай бұрын
Couldn’t have said it better
@lilnonono5942
@lilnonono5942 8 ай бұрын
your voice, features, space, gesturing, hair, clothes, thought process is all so endearing. hope you're having a good time man. people around you are lucky to have you as a friend
@dot_zer00
@dot_zer00 9 ай бұрын
this was actually pretty helpful, i do admit i am embarassed to be here because i cant start nor keep a conversation going because i am so awkard
@thomazsouza77
@thomazsouza77 10 ай бұрын
Today, after a long time, I had an interaction with a woman and I spoke as if it were a conversation between friends! I found it very inspiring and a step towards being someone who is very sociable ❤️🙏🏼
@supercat2087
@supercat2087 10 ай бұрын
W but this comment made me laugh 😂
@jewel_throne2950
@jewel_throne2950 10 ай бұрын
when I feel like a loser at one point in my life I’ll remember this comment to remind myself how many losers exist on this planet
@josenava2050
@josenava2050 10 ай бұрын
​@@beags9995100% facts
@Gatozparty
@Gatozparty 10 ай бұрын
Awh that's good! I'm proud of you, also some of the replies here are kinda harsh, you did something out of your comfort zone, so just continue doing that!
@viceanterra3
@viceanterra3 10 ай бұрын
The replied to this comment are so uncalled for. That's crazy. Good job my guy. (Was that so hard y'all? Damn!)
@ultramemeguy1013
@ultramemeguy1013 9 ай бұрын
Brodie making me crack up then locking in like bro I can’t stop laughing 😂
@ultramemeguy1013
@ultramemeguy1013 9 ай бұрын
I miss her
@ultramemeguy1013
@ultramemeguy1013 9 ай бұрын
She didn’t leave me or anything I just don’t get to see her a lot and it eats at me
@jjjj3186
@jjjj3186 8 ай бұрын
@@ultramemeguy1013 i have a crush on a girl from my school and i want to be with her idk how i get so in love for her i feel like u bro
@jjjj3186
@jjjj3186 8 ай бұрын
@@ultramemeguy1013 hope u got more time or something to be more with her 😿🫂
@bigmeep07
@bigmeep07 2 ай бұрын
“Everyone from River Ridge is a slut” 👿
@Fjdgwyb
@Fjdgwyb 3 ай бұрын
I feel like if I ask a girl “what’s your love language” she’s gonna feel creeped out 😭
@AskShimon
@AskShimon 3 ай бұрын
Try it and see … you can edit the question “what’s your idea of love … how do you like to be love ?”
@rajaun5413
@rajaun5413 3 ай бұрын
Thanks you ❤
@hobosnake1
@hobosnake1 10 ай бұрын
I'm not even personally in need of a video like this, but you have some good advice and your calmness/chill factor is through the roof. This had me smiling cus its just good vibes and you don't sugar coat it.
@TheyLuvShield
@TheyLuvShield 9 ай бұрын
start a podcast
@brain-ot7dc
@brain-ot7dc 6 ай бұрын
Truuu he should fr
@CaEkJu
@CaEkJu 4 ай бұрын
Yes 100%
@persuisixh4804
@persuisixh4804 6 ай бұрын
“Most people like to talk about themselves, and those that don’t, really do” Fr lol
@czecharmy8722
@czecharmy8722 10 ай бұрын
Something I learned recently (and always know just didn't want to admit): if you express your feeling toward her and she says she is scared or still healing from the past or not ready for a relationship, it means she doesnt want to have a relationship with you! Girls like this will usually just use you as somebody that they can dump their emotions on, and if you start thinking that you could fix her, mabye, but it certainly didn't work for me. We even cuddled once but if she doesnt text you first and doesnt text you even if you dont text her for a couple of days, it just means shes not into you. Move on. I guess this is kinda a message for myself lol
@jackhollis7787
@jackhollis7787 10 ай бұрын
i feel you bro, get you someone who cares, all love brother
@reno_reno_reno
@reno_reno_reno 10 ай бұрын
Not necessarily true, turned into a good 3 year long relationship for me
@ashasha451
@ashasha451 10 ай бұрын
True for girls too. I understood that my favourite had't loved me, because he chose not me for conversations at free time. Have you telegram? I want to talk with you.
@czecharmy8722
@czecharmy8722 10 ай бұрын
@@ashasha451 i do, but I'm not sure how it works. Wanna conntect somehow?
@ashasha451
@ashasha451 10 ай бұрын
@@czecharmy8722 @Ust78888 It's my nickname. My profile photo is huge crocodile.
@SemiiXB
@SemiiXB 9 ай бұрын
He had that river ridge comment ready 😭❤
@anthonyespinoza4889
@anthonyespinoza4889 9 ай бұрын
the song in the background is what got me i learned so much and i hope i dont become an npc when i do talk to her.
@heyitsmayalol
@heyitsmayalol 9 ай бұрын
this guy makes me feel so calm and gets rid of anxiety lol
@Abstract_YT1
@Abstract_YT1 7 ай бұрын
I like how he has his own style to a topic so most people would give a list of convo starters instead of telling how to learn how connect with people
@imSovi
@imSovi 10 ай бұрын
I’m a senior in college, been single for about 4 years now and just been off the grid I kinda forgot what it’s like to really interact and get down to earth wit a shawty, your words reminded me of that process and brought back some good memories Maybe I’ll get back out in the field one of these days, thanks for the reminder
@alexcerv
@alexcerv 9 ай бұрын
I’m a sophomore and been single for a yr and a half, honestly I feel the same way. If you ever take the leap can u slide me some advice?
@DiamondVeena
@DiamondVeena 8 ай бұрын
Being off the grid is so real 😭😭 I’ve been so boring lately
@unology1
@unology1 9 ай бұрын
I came up with a FFFACTS method for myself. (Family, FUN, FOOD, Art, Career, Travel, Success. This is enough to learn a good bit about a person's energy on a first date. I normally go for more love and existential questions on the 2nd date (Fears, love-type, beliefs, preferential communication, memorable past experiences) . Remember, it's to find if this person is compatible with you. You'll find out alot more on future dates if you both decide that you want to move forward, but this helps avoid the awkward silences. If yall cant keep a convo with these.... maybe its not a match and that doesn't say anything about who you are. it happens.
@AskShimon
@AskShimon 9 ай бұрын
This is brilliant
@unology1
@unology1 9 ай бұрын
@@AskShimon preciate it. You’ve covered some of this too. Feel free use for inspiration and keep helping people develop healthier connections. All love.
@japanesecinema6736
@japanesecinema6736 8 ай бұрын
So like... You ever experience existential dread? ...
@2percentmusic204
@2percentmusic204 9 ай бұрын
I’m an extrovert who is learning I have kinda narcissistic tendencies. I am very self centered out of a place of insecurity. So this was helpful because I’m trying to learn to be curious. I wanna understand before I’m understood. I wanna be understood through my energy and open to engaging with people where I don’t always have to relate it back to me. This video helps. Giving me good questions to ask will help me extend myself more than be self centered. Thank you sir!
@noahgarcia111
@noahgarcia111 9 ай бұрын
you aren’t narcissistic if you can recognize your flaws big dawg
@marcelkuhn5310
@marcelkuhn5310 9 ай бұрын
Best things that help: Be aware that silence is okay aswell Be aware that you are 50% of it and not 100% you cant influence how others act you can only try to get into a convo. It wont work everytime.
@tiahorne4724
@tiahorne4724 9 ай бұрын
he is so serious but he silly wit it and i love it. and this man has actually helped me so much with many of his videos and i didnt realize that until a few weeks later when i was in a situtaion where his words were something that happened so, thankyou.
@emmaaxtell798
@emmaaxtell798 8 ай бұрын
1:46 I love that you said to ask these kinds of questions bc I want to ask these, but I never do out of fear that they’re tropey, overdone, or uninteresting
@Luca_Talis
@Luca_Talis 10 ай бұрын
New Shimon video 🎉
@AskShimon
@AskShimon 10 ай бұрын
celebrating🏆🏆🏆🏆
@Blindbatman221
@Blindbatman221 10 ай бұрын
@@AskShimon🥳🥳🥳🥳
@tobyv6087
@tobyv6087 10 ай бұрын
@@AskShimonIs it pronounced like Mike Tyson trying to say Simon? (Like a speech impediment?)
@AskShimon
@AskShimon 10 ай бұрын
@@tobyv6087 shuh-mon
@koroshyeganeh9267
@koroshyeganeh9267 10 ай бұрын
1:44 1:44 1:44 1:44 ​@@AskShimon
@LyndlEndique
@LyndlEndique 9 ай бұрын
I keep laughing after he laughs then puts on the serious face. Guy's hilarious.
@benjurmind1318
@benjurmind1318 10 ай бұрын
Bro you're funny as hell 😂 But also serious and getting the point across smoothly. Good vid.
@urielsmith3248
@urielsmith3248 9 ай бұрын
Right 😭🤣
@sickdorito999
@sickdorito999 9 ай бұрын
This video felt very personal and it feels like I’m genuinely talking to you I’ve never seen a video achieve this in the way you have and it’s actually helped also I love the whole purple vibe thank you
@yert6516
@yert6516 9 ай бұрын
9:06 i feel like the person he is describing right here. i feel uninteresting and shallow, like someone could use these conversation starters on me and we’d have maybe 3 sentences back and forth and it would end. people try to start conversations or small talk with me and i just draw a blank or i just awkwardly laugh because i never know what to say. i used to be so confident and charismatic and i could have a room of people laughing, but after i graduated and all my friends moved off to college i only talk to my girlfriend and her family every day and i can barely even talk to them. my conversations with my girl get drier by the day too, i find myself just repeating simple phrases like “you’re my favorite” or “ilysm” instead of any kind of coherent conversation. all i do all day is work, hangout with my girl, and maybe play video games for an hour, and it has been this way for over a year, just the same looped day. what am i supposed to talk about? life sucks, how can i not complain? nothing makes me happy anymore, i’m losing myself and my mind slowly, and this is just a cry for help that will be ignored
@Adversity-ki9xb
@Adversity-ki9xb 9 ай бұрын
what makes you happy? I think you should just find a few things you love doing, take it easy and try to find yourself amongst them
@Mxd_void
@Mxd_void Ай бұрын
4:04 bro locked in 😭
@anabaptist5194
@anabaptist5194 9 ай бұрын
Whenever the convo starts to get dry I just say "activating free will power" and then walk away and then pretend like it never happened when they ask about it the next day
@Dannylamp
@Dannylamp 9 ай бұрын
Subtitles said “And when I told her to fart” @3:52 😂😂
@sspaghet4080
@sspaghet4080 9 ай бұрын
i had to replay to make sure i wasn’t seeing things, that had me laughing so hard
@masu5781
@masu5781 9 ай бұрын
I’m in a long distance relationship and pretty much everything you said still applies! The hardest part is having our love language be touch, but not being able to do it yet.. I hope we can make it to that point!
@seyenxeditz5002
@seyenxeditz5002 9 ай бұрын
Long distance relationship always end up not working 99% of the time and I hope you're ready for that, you'd thing well there's still that 1 percent left but remember it's that hope that kills 🙂
@masu5781
@masu5781 9 ай бұрын
@@seyenxeditz5002 Yep, I went into it knowing I wouldn’t get to have physical touch for awhile and that it usually doesn’t work out.. but we both want it anyways. We’re both far from perfect but I think in the time before we meet in person, we’ll both be able to develop and make it work. Pray for us?
@seyenxeditz5002
@seyenxeditz5002 9 ай бұрын
@@masu5781 I will pray for you guys but I have 1 tip to share that anyone on youtube on internet rarely does on Ldr(Long distance relationship) , Even if your Ldr works and you guys get to meet just remember and prepare for it before you meet, at first you guys will be very happy to meet but somethings may not match up as of what you had them in your mind, because whatever happens you can't really tell about a person by just chatting because you have all that time to type and a confirmation of sending it and video calling at the right time when you both are in a stable emotion condition, Because sometimes we have the significant other in the mind as something else but irl when we meet it's often disappointing so maybe both tou discuss about that and keep an open mind to that, Always look at the intentions and not the words cause intentions speak much more those words. In love we just ignore their flaws but some are important to look at that if it works you have to live with them your whole life. Good luck to you guys and I hope you guys prove me wrong and get married at stuff if you're ready for it in the future.
@haso323
@haso323 7 ай бұрын
@@masu5781 how are u guys?
@markio4755
@markio4755 10 ай бұрын
Im good at conversions its just the people i talk to be dry asl an by them being dry it leaves me speachles 😂😂
@DuhAnimeProtagonist
@DuhAnimeProtagonist 9 ай бұрын
FACTS its always so refreshing when you meet someone who actually isnt afraid to show their personality...
@angelthecat2663
@angelthecat2663 9 ай бұрын
Literally omg
@AveChristusRex789
@AveChristusRex789 9 ай бұрын
Soo true
@Rakiyah-io7jy
@Rakiyah-io7jy 8 ай бұрын
Took the words outta my mouth fr 😭
@markio4755
@markio4755 8 ай бұрын
@@DuhAnimeProtagonist facts
@thecaravanpilot
@thecaravanpilot 5 ай бұрын
bro is prince, hendrix and purple rain all at once, love it!!
@PhantomOutlaw
@PhantomOutlaw 9 ай бұрын
I saved this to my watch later so I can come back to this video and rewatch it whenever I need,not only does Shimon have good advice but he’s got the vibes and the energy,dream blunt rotation material
@jessewright8930
@jessewright8930 10 ай бұрын
Yo you funny as hell “are you a afraid to die?” 👀uuuh yea 😂
@m1tr1chh
@m1tr1chh 9 ай бұрын
I dont really need any advices but man i find his voice just so calming and chill i just listen to him and be like "ye same"
@AustinSM95
@AustinSM95 9 ай бұрын
4:00 bro immediately realized how weird that sounded 💀💀🤣🤣. Honestly this video helped a lot, but most of the stuff I do in a conversation already, although improvement is much needed and this video still helps me, thank you very much.🔥🔥. In a way you gotta be slick with your questions as well, like you did ask them, write them down, four months later she's like how did you know, or like you can ask "What is your favorite place to go", if she says mini golf, then like a bit later down the line take her out mini golfing, do it when she least expects it. P.S sorry for yappin just wanted to expand on your point.
@malayahcole2461
@malayahcole2461 5 ай бұрын
bro thankyou. I depend on you to line up with my conversation skills. something I really want to know is how to communicate boundaries with family. like my dad went through my stuff when I wasn't in the room and i wanna let him know about my boundaries without being disrespectful. and I'm super grateful for your content, the tribe is on the rise
@wienerproductions5172
@wienerproductions5172 10 ай бұрын
3:00 "They hard to pet" got me gigglin 😭🙏
@Aleeeex
@Aleeeex 8 ай бұрын
This sudden wave of KZbinrs/content creators giving real, human advice like if they were parents/older siblings is exactly what I like to see here.
@MacEliam
@MacEliam 2 ай бұрын
She playing hard to get fr, she got a restraining order on me 😂 I’ll get her soon
@essentialsATAesthetics
@essentialsATAesthetics 9 ай бұрын
'you got a bunch of great words in your dictionary man , great deep down warmness in your voice ' Thankyou..
@Jayde00-x
@Jayde00-x Ай бұрын
7:35 You just made me afraid of dying…
@britmarwick156
@britmarwick156 8 ай бұрын
I want this man or some version of him, he knows what's up and that is so important to me!
@afrofaeries
@afrofaeries 8 ай бұрын
Fr! We need more positive masculine icons for young men. My brother put me on this guy and it explained his calm nature
@britmarwick156
@britmarwick156 8 ай бұрын
Yes, this exactly! @@afrofaeries
@durandus676
@durandus676 10 ай бұрын
I recommend the book “get to the point” for people really struggling with text and email. Works for professional life too
@joytogo7478
@joytogo7478 9 ай бұрын
I honestly appreciate how you just get right to the point from the beginning. No wasting time. I love your videos.
@joelstevens-be8lf
@joelstevens-be8lf 9 ай бұрын
4:05 lock in was impressive
@BenTheCuber
@BenTheCuber 9 ай бұрын
11:16 such a great part
@TheScoobisGaming
@TheScoobisGaming 9 ай бұрын
I’d probably end up asking someone where the go to school while talking to someone from my school
@japanesecinema6736
@japanesecinema6736 8 ай бұрын
This shit made me die 💀
@tali2225
@tali2225 6 ай бұрын
Bro seems so chill to be around
@bruxasso
@bruxasso Ай бұрын
4:05 "anyway."
@eemfunnyasf
@eemfunnyasf 7 ай бұрын
everything you named as an example is already what I’ve used on this girl i’m getting to know currently, two other good ones are: - If you were reincarnated, what animal would you like to return as? (pay attention to what animal they choose and they likely has similar morals/character traits that relate to said animal) -Something you do that negatively affects others, that you wish you could fix?
@ilanavishay1508
@ilanavishay1508 10 ай бұрын
Glad that I found you out. You are like a secret treasure that I found that has the best reward out there. Keep up the good work you are doing an amazing job
@percjamoX
@percjamoX 10 ай бұрын
Pause gang
@Raven_Sol
@Raven_Sol 7 ай бұрын
that jacket is hot like fire my dude hoooolyy
@yo_grrtt
@yo_grrtt 10 ай бұрын
the tough part about some of this is that a lot of girls (at least ones you might match through dating apps or whatever) avoid these genuine conversations , at least early on, but maybe those are just the ones you don’t wanna be around - not sure, but the dating scene is impossible rn
@Ian3485.
@Ian3485. 10 ай бұрын
real, i just wanna get to know ppl and have genuine conversations with them, not have those weird text convos that feel fake/dry a lot of the time
@yo_grrtt
@yo_grrtt 10 ай бұрын
@@Ian3485. so true, it’s all the same conversation
@fatherchris4004
@fatherchris4004 9 ай бұрын
how can we all be so connected but yet so disconnected?
@thraxx-q
@thraxx-q 9 ай бұрын
Facts real life is easier by a long shot if you don’t have copious amounts of money
@Cyyzza
@Cyyzza Ай бұрын
Biggest mood killer: "Whatve u done today?" "Nothing" "..." "..." Boom convo gone dry
@nathanlowe4797
@nathanlowe4797 10 ай бұрын
Jimi Hendrix fit is hard asl
@MatMal007
@MatMal007 10 күн бұрын
Bro is like that one friend who gives you 'all the secrets to fix a girl' but he actually knows the secrets 😭
@briannawebb7070
@briannawebb7070 2 ай бұрын
I’m really struggling with the confidence to talk to men. I want a man but cannot talk to them properly. I’m really shy.
@OfficialIndiglobluez
@OfficialIndiglobluez 9 ай бұрын
Bros personailty and humor is majestic af
@TheR3DMist
@TheR3DMist 10 ай бұрын
The ending had me losing it 😂😂😂😂
@DaRkPlUm
@DaRkPlUm 6 ай бұрын
"You don't really have nothing to talk about" is probably the biggest pain point for me. Like, the fear of people finding what I like to talk about boring or too much or whatever to just be the reason I hardly ever talk. The pain in the past has been so bad, that I just forget I even exist around most people now. It's probably why I'm here, listening to some smooth guy 10+ years my younger trying to tell me what to do.
@AthleticCoast81
@AthleticCoast81 10 ай бұрын
He's back
@AskShimon
@AskShimon 10 ай бұрын
and better
@AthleticCoast81
@AthleticCoast81 10 ай бұрын
Like every single f day
@AvantPierfax4
@AvantPierfax4 Ай бұрын
Why this dude so majestic😭
@Peace-kd9wf
@Peace-kd9wf 10 ай бұрын
Thanks alot my guy, your voice as well as your words really comforting and strangely enough, it's a breath of fresh air, atleast from the content I mostly view for these sorta stuff- I think I can actually do something and have that genuine energy I'm seeking in that regard.
@mrboots11
@mrboots11 Ай бұрын
close enough, welcome back Jimi Hendrix. 🎉
@azul4904
@azul4904 9 ай бұрын
finally a video like this that’s actually considerate towards the other person instead of just saying things that’ll keep you talking. when you’re just saying stuff so the conversation doesn’t die the other person will notice, so try to be genuine and actually listen to what they’re responding. worst thing you can do is spend the time the other person’s talking to think what you’re gonna say next, instead of actually paying attention and engaging. anyways, that’s just how i see it :)
@alpacaperson1629
@alpacaperson1629 9 ай бұрын
I always done that way. I’m not very social able and pretty shy person. I’m not great at talking and having a full on conversation with someone. I thought it would help if I was thinking what I should say next so the person I’m talking to wouldn’t think I’m boring or dry. But now I saw your comment I realize it wasn’t genuine and that way is wrong And I pay so much attention to what I should say next I didn’t even think of paying attention what the other person is saying and just engage. Also sorry for this long paragraph I just wanted to say thank you and you made me realize what I’ve been doing is wrong just really wanted to take a moment to tell you thank you and I hope you have a great day and doing good and thank you for listening to me
@alpacaperson1629
@alpacaperson1629 9 ай бұрын
I mean taking the time out of your day to listen to me
@azul4904
@azul4904 9 ай бұрын
@@alpacaperson1629 your comment was so sweet, thank you. i’m also quite introverted so this used to happen to me all the time, but then i realized the conversation actually flows so much better when you’re engaging. it took me a while to understand that i wasn’t letting people know me or know them because i was living in my head instead of being present. anyways i’m glad it helped 🫶🏼
@xthe.angels.h0rnsx582
@xthe.angels.h0rnsx582 7 ай бұрын
Theres this guy i'm starting to really like and we clearly have some sort of tension going on every time we meet. I don't know what he personally wants, if he would like a relationship or nah, but i've really been wanting to get to know him and our conversations only consist of playful teasing and flirting so far. I normally never watch those types of videos cause i personally believe that they never really give you natural advice but i really like what you put out there. All of this is super helpful and i'm going to use it!
@paccymaccy235
@paccymaccy235 10 ай бұрын
"Life is a movie but it's not those movies" one of the hardest lines I've heard
@jeremymerejeremy
@jeremymerejeremy 9 ай бұрын
i dont like talking about myself cause i'm scared i'll tell them something that puts them off, or i dig in too deep into memories from my life that i've been trying to bury for ages
@cheems474
@cheems474 9 ай бұрын
Idk if you remember me from when you had like 1.5k subscribers and i told you you'd blow up soon, I just saw your channel again and now you have 100x the subscribers in like 2 months congrats
@iamramelltaylor
@iamramelltaylor 9 ай бұрын
i needed this video because JUST LAST NIGHT i was talking with someone for about 2 and a half hours and we discussed love languages and it was my introduction to the true meaning of that word so when i clicked this and that was the topic i was like wow… and i’ve been seeing this video on my timeline for days and never clicked it the timing is crazy
@marrmus1c
@marrmus1c 10 ай бұрын
that Stratocaster is gorgeous
@DinoMan_6
@DinoMan_6 9 ай бұрын
He’d made a good comedian. A calm style with some sprinkle of stoicism and awkwardness.
@Thisisusfans
@Thisisusfans 10 ай бұрын
It'll be a good meme. 4:06😂 Thank you, my bro. we do like your videos, keep rising 🙌🏾🔥
@Thisisusfans
@Thisisusfans 10 ай бұрын
@@txstdmmy9774 😂😂
@ClandestineMax
@ClandestineMax 9 ай бұрын
Ikr
@Artemi-gl3me
@Artemi-gl3me 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for the advice, the drummer of Roots. Btw, this man can single handadly save this generation of young men from becoming a bunch of loners and virgins. This man can teach them young men how to be men. I salute him 🫡
@I_Am_Tman
@I_Am_Tman 9 ай бұрын
This felt personal as hell, enjoyed every second of it, I will be subscribing
@REAL_8lue
@REAL_8lue 5 ай бұрын
First met when we're new students of senior highschool, the excitment for meeting new friends with new vibes of teen made me always wanna talk to sb, especially if they had known what inside of my heart my feeling. It was really joyful than being innocent or always keeps your feeling to afraid of strangers.
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