BEST Recap: FINALE! And Life Update from Whit & Ry

[@user-mv6cu2os5h]

Thanks you for being vulnerable with the viewers, Ry. We definitely don’t deserve an explanation but it is definitely appreciated. Hope for full healing for you, your son, and your family. ❤ There’s no shame in opening up your heart to someone who led you on to believe they were as faithful as you. Sending all my love!!!

[@msmit152]

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[@soniam6101]

Well said. Both Whit and Ry are strong women and blessed to have a great support system. Never forget not to blame yourself for someone else’s mistakes. We all learn with these experiences. Take one step at a time for healing. You will get through this. 💖

[@maiazook8616]

You both are such amazing women!! Ry I am amazed at your strength to share and help others! So many prayers for you and your son going forward. I love your videos girls! Love the sister dynamics!!!! We all love they way you are (when you ask why are we the way we are)!!! I’d love more life updates on you both! And momma Shay!

[@shirleymeyers511]

Wow

[@BilingualBoyMom]

I know I speak for anyone who actively follows your KZbin channel when I say you guys are so down to earth and personable. I never feel like you post for likes, follows, or clout. I appreciate your vulnerability, and even though we, as viewers, are not obligated to know every detail of your personal life, we will always be here to offer our support. You guys are hilarious, and I would watch literally anything you post. Thanks for doing the finale, even though you are obviously still going through a lot in your personal lives. Lots of love!🥰

[@shh-care3353]

I have so much to say but maybe space is limited. 1. LOVE that you were on for finale. 2. I am a mental health therapist- specializing in grief, trauma, and women empowerment. 3. I found out my ex was living a double life after 7 years. I felt destroyed, but also had the mindset to act quickly. Good for you. 💜 4. So normal to look inward and feel humiliated and more. The one big thing to grasp is “ahh, I’m not to blame. I loved well. But why didn’t I see it? Oh, because even though I’m an intelligent human, he was just very seasoned in his double life activities and that has NO reflection on, or of me” 👏🏼 5. Wow, there’s no limit of characters here? So I can keep writing? Ok! 6. The road to healing requires patience. Give yourself that permission. 💜 7. Lastly, yes! I would love to see recaps of Love is Blind. I can see similar quirkiness that you’d put out on recaps of those!!! As much as I love your skin and stuff, the world is showing their get ready with me and skin care routines….ugh. No more! Just put vitamin E and vitamin C oil on and call it a day! 😂😂😂😂 Much love and healing sent to you as this can be very triggering along the way. Whit, hoping you are ok as well. We are all here for whatever you want to and don’t want to share! 😘😘

[@BoricuaGirl69]

I love this comment so much 🫶🏽

[@humankaleidoscope4989]

Agree with everything about this

[@heatherm6522]

I would love to see your take on Love Is Blind! And I’m so sorry, Ry. It’s really hard to identify a malignant narcissist early in a relationship. They know what to say and how to say it to gain your trust. It’s not your fault. We can’t hire private detectives to research all of our relationships! Sending you so much love!

[@humankaleidoscope4989]

I said the same about wanting to see them react to love is blind!

[@ameliamorgan40]

I agree! I think you guys would really love Love Is Blind :D

[@Heatherrrbeee123]

Yes to lib!!!

[@ania5038]

Wow I didn't even know as I haven't been to this channel in a while but wanted to check in. Sending you so much love Ry!!! And yes, I would LOVE to see them watch LIB I was about to comment that seeing as it seems to have taken over as the top dating/reality show people are watching and talking about.

[@mommybreakdown]

Ry, your vulnerability is beautiful and I wish you so much peace and love moving forward. (and I just adore you two together as sisters in support through the laughs and tears…thank you for sharing your lives with us!!)

[@yinhuili9095]

Ry, thank you so much for sharing your story. I myself am recovering from a breakup. I, too, sometimes felt humiliated, but then I realized that I should not let someone who isn’t worth my love make me forget how much I am worth. I've been doing things that are good for me and I feel like I have seen the light at the end of the tunnel. I know you can, too.

[@shirleymeyers511]

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[@seasonschange8320]

I would watch anything you ladies put out here on the YT.....you ladies make my day! Ryann I'm so sorry to hear this :( you are such a beautiful soul who deserves so much. I was tearing up listening to you.

[@spideysim3892]

We love you Ry! It was very powerful for you to share even a snippet of that story. I wish you nothing but the best and you have an incredible support system.

[@nancygeorge4030]

As someone that is most likely a similar age to mama Shay, and who also has a daughter, my heart hurts for you and in the same breath I am so proud of your courage, vulnerability, and for the way you are handling this. Sending hugs and prayers to you, your son, and your family for healing and happiness. You are amazing! ❤

[@snappykrab]

I just jumped back to see when the last time I saw your videos. I am sorry Ry. I am happy that you are surrounded by love. ❤

[@tylercook2138]

I really appreciate you both for being here, filming & releasing this! I've said before & I'll say again, you two are some of my absolute favorites to watch, and I'll absolutely wait however long it takes for y'all to deal with personal issues, heal, and come back stronger! Mental health is never talked about enough, and never really acknowledged, so HUGE thank you to both of you for shedding a tad of light! To Ry, thank you so very much for sharing and putting yourself out there. I can't even imagine how terrifying it must have been to film and share this with the world. You are an absolute inspiration to women and humans who just need to know there's light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you for being brave enough to share and brave enough to do what it took to get you and your son out of bad situation. You deserve all the best things in this world.

[@annarusso8192]

Thank you for sharing your story when you didn't have to. You are clearly both such kind and caring people and I'm so sorry you had to go through that, Ry. For video ideas, maybe a Love is Blind recap?! Or just stories about your lives, careers, advice, etc. I would watch anything! I have no kids but even if you talked about kids I would still watch. Wishing you all the best during your healing process 💜

[@anavillar8807]

OMG yes!! Would love a love is blind recap. But yeah, it doesn't really matter what the videos are about, they bring me so much joy. I'd watch a video painting mandalas. 😂

[@efrngt1234]

Love is Blind season 2 and 3 were hilarious!!!

[@goosebump801]

Samesies! @Whit & Ry I’m very interested in hearing more about your lives - whatever you’re comfortable sharing. And Ry: you are so strong and resilient. Grief does come in waves…and then they recede. I’m so glad you have such wonderful people around you…and you’ve got this! ❤️❤️❤️ - Jenn in Minneapolis 💐

[@veracity-]

I'm so sorry Ry! The only person who should feel humiliated is the person who betrayed the trust of someone as kind, caring, smart, and wonderful as you. Thank you for sharing and I hope this year will be great for you.

[@starrynight8118]

Thank you for sharing your story, Ry. Sending all the good vibes to you as you heal. ❤❤❤

[@eikcaj-1924]

I missed you guys! You guys can recap anything and I will watch it! Ry deserves the world and I’m sorry you had to go through what you did. I feel like you guys are my friends and whatever you feel comfortable sharing with us we are here for you ❤ love you guys❤

[@adalia1959]

Ry, my heart goes out to you, you deserve so much better. Thank you for your vulnerability. Sending love to you, your son, and to the rest of your family during this challenging time ❤ We appreciate you ladies for still making this even with everything going on.

[@valerierucker4345]

Great recap! So surprised to see you back! Ry, thank you for your willingness to share what happened. You are not alone. This happened to me as well after 10 years of marriage, 2 kids, etc. It’s shocking how they can lie, deceive and try to ruin your lives. But we are woman, hear us roar! You’re a great person and you’ll survive this. Look forward to seeing you both on June 26! Take care!

[@anavillar8807]

Sending hugs. How traumatic.

[@louaguado995]

20 years and 3 kids for me. It takes time to heal and trust again, but it is possible. Some bounce back quickly, others take sometimes years. If only people were honest from the start they would save us genuine people so much heartache and wasted time.

[@michellemyallen]

You have our support Ry. You are never alone, as Whit is testament to her love. Bravery is a beast and you have shown life defining courage. Your exuberance hasn't shifted or waned. You are powerful as a mom. Powerful as a force that can lift up hearts! Thank you for being candid and finding strength. You have it!!!

[@allygator3957]

For starters, thrilled to have you ladies back. I'm so sorry to hear of the trauma and betrayal you are all currently feeling. You don't owe us anything and if you are not comfortable sharing more in future, don't. Lastly, it would be hilarious to see you review Love is Blind. Season 4 just started and it's treacherous in all the best ways and I would love to hear your take on it. Sending prayers your way Ry! ❤

[@Foghorn-tr1je]

Ry, I am so sorry and you didn’t deserve this treatment from him. Thank you for your vulnerability. Sending you virtual hugs.

[@ShifraTheFox]

Im not one who usually comments, but I watch y'alls recaps religiously and admire you both so much for your wit, humor, and kindness that shines through. Ryan, you are literally stunning, both inside and out, and I am so glad that you know that his actions and treatment of you are totally independent of you! I am sorry for the pain you are going through, though in the long term Im not worried about you at all; you are an absolute catch and you have left yourself open to the possibility of someone great arriving. You are gorgeous, hilarious, caring, compassionate, and just a ray of sunshine, there is a guy out there who is not gonna know what he did so good to deserve you- not that you need a guy, but as a romantic myself, I think while men are not necessary, a good one deserving of your affection can spice things up! You just focus on all your blessings, like your son, your wonderful sister, and your cute mom, and time and chance will do the rest

[@HostileWorkplaceEXPOSED]

I had to re watch. Yes please make a gif of it. That could go viral

[@chappellgroan]

You’re so brave for sharing your story, Ry. And I’m so sorry that happened to you. Wishing you, your son and the rest of your family the best ❤

[@alisonm3946]

Thank you for the fun and witty-as-usual recap, but special thanks to Ry for your authenticity and openness. I'm so sorry you've gone through such a hurtful betrayal. We've all experienced (or are experiencing -- raising my hand here) grief and hardship in one way or another, especially over the last few years, and it helps to feel supported and less alone with it when witnessing someone else bravely share their story. Truly, thank you for that. I would welcome an episode that shares more about your lives and stories if you're comfortable doing so. Sending warm wishes and support your way.

[@skater5696]

Ry, I'm so sorry. That's the last thing I expected. You deserve every happiness. Bless you and your child. Love and hugs. ❤

[@loren0486]

As someone who has been in such a similar situation I applaud you for how you have handled it Ry. I wish I had your grace when I was going through this myself.

[@rowinginfaith]

Everyone needs a Whit in their life! As I watched Ry tell her story I could feel the justice-seeking fire coming out of that well-composed face! And Ry, I have been there, too, so you aren't alone in this. You did nothing wrong and the best revenge you could ever get is to heal and continue to love well because that speaks of your character. Congrats to you for seeing and acting and being so responsible with your truth! And as for other videos...for me, I am team Whit and Ry for life so I would watch you two sitting and watching paint dry because you two would make it a delight. But for sure, you two deserve your own reality show. Big hugs, much love, and all the best!

[@DignityDoulaJC]

So worth the wait! I belly laughed 21 times. Ry, your vulnerability will help others for sure. Thank you girls for all you do for us, you deserve an Emmy!

[@sarahwhite6341]

So glad y'all are back! I'm sad to hear about how Ry has been mistreated, but I'm so glad she's doing ok and on the road to healing. I do look forward to hearing the full story whenever you're ready. I will take any and all Whit and Ry content...I love y'all! ❤

[@karinpienaar7315]

My sister and I don't watch the bachelor anymore however we still watch your recaps. We are also blond and brunette, we feel like you're the American versions of us. Devastating to hear of the absolute heartbreak you and your family are going through. All our love.

[@thequestioneverythingconfe9263]

Glad to have you back. Not the same without you ladies. Sending my love, support and prayers.

[@fisrebel]

I've been watching your channel since Hannah Brown's season. Thank you for all the positivity you put out there. Your humor, resilience, and commitment to love always shines through. Wishing Ry all the strength, healing, and self-grace. Sharing your story makes such a difference.

[@jewely9757]

Brutal recap. I can be snarky but even I was in tears. I don’t know how you can laugh at people’s very real pain.

[@DawnIsrael-sc3eu]

Hugs to you, Ry. Thank you for your vulnerability and sharing even though you do not owe anyone an explanation. So glad you have an amazing support network and many people who have your back. Love you both ❤

[@fienvervoort]

Hugs from Belgium!! Been a fan of you two for awhile....thank you for including us and giving a behind the scenes of your personal life. You don't owe anyone an explanation so thank you for sharing. Strength for your healing journey.

[@janemarner7092]

Very hard to hear that someone hurt and betrayed you. It reflects on him NOT you! This will take time to grieve so please give yourself the time to do so. You are worth so much more. There are good people out there…keep the faith. Don’t let him take anymore of you. You are 2 amazing woman. Thank you for sharing your lives with us❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️.

[@NancyLearyFischer]

Oh Ry, I am so sorry for what you have gone through & what you are going through. Been there, done that. You are in my prayers for healing 🙏 Take the time you need to heal. It’s obvious that you have tremendous love to give. We all love you, Ry! Love you both❣️

[@karak9184]

Ry, you are so amazing. Thank you for sharing. That was very brave. You deserve the world and will get it eventually. You are a bright light. ❤️

[@TaraSL8r]

It was so great to have this recap with you both and thank you Ry for sharing. Sending hugs!

[@doggonepositive]

I can totally relate to you Ry. I was with somebody years ago, living a double life, too. All along I was the supportive spouse only to find myself homeless and penniless. It’s not your fault. There are some evil people out there, and it is easy to get manipulated when you love with all of your whole heart, it will heal, and so will you, thanks for being vulnerable. I’m glad you both are back.

[@lydiamitchell6814]

You two ladies are my favorite of all Bachelor recaps!!! My heart goes out to you! Big hugs!!! 💖🌷

[@purple_giraffe24]

Thank you for sharing Ry. Sending you love and good vibes. Take time to heal! ❤❤❤

[@gracegriffith945]

Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing what’s going on in your personal life, you are truly such a sweet woman and will continue to be a badass and amazing mom regardless of your relationship status or what’s happened to you! Sending you all the love Ry!❤

[@marykim-garrity9358]

Ry, take your time, love your family. Let the light in, everyday. Keep moving through your grief. You are beautiful Soul. I would love you guys to recap during the seasons. But honestly, I would love to see you guys every week. You guys helped me through heartbreak and loss as I lost 6 people in 18 months. You made me laugh and I am grateful 🙏 ❤❤❤

[@gabbyford1670]

When someone passes the test of kindness, that kindness will always come back to them.

[@tinachristian239]

I’m so happy you two are back. I understand why you have been gone and so sorry you’ve had to go through this, Ry. You deserve so much more! You have the best family to support you so lean on them when needed. You are strong!!! ❤

[@lisatigert6544]

Adore you both and always enjoy your recaps. Ry, turning a personal experience like that into a blessing for others reveals how truly kind and generous you are. I wish you peace as you close this chapter and move on to a better one!

[@richferringtondreamvacatio6443]

Ry. You are too good of a person to have experienced what you did. Stay strong and know that you have our support!

[@JuliaK-H]

Ry, I'm really sorry. How awful. I admire you for sharing and being so vulnerable, you have nothing to feel humiliated or ashamed about. You have so much integrity and for your determination to continue to love people well and for giving it your all you can feel so proud of yourself. Sending lots of love and hugs. ❤ You both seem like you're such fun and kind people, I'd love some videos on your lives and parenting!

[@shelleynowlin1402]

You are amazing and will come out the other side of your pain. Big hugs to you and your family. ❤

[@monicaleatherwood1036]

Thanks for coming back for the finale! And for being so vulnerable. Would love to hear your reviews of Farmer Wants a Wife!

[@forgettingtothink]

I am so sorry that you went through that, Ry. Watching your show brings laughter and light to my life, and you are such a beautiful and positive person! It truly seems like the worst things happen to the best people, and that really sucks. Sending wishes for healing and peace your way. On a lighter note, this episode was hilarious and I can't wait for more. Love you ladies!!

[@allisonkatayama8725]

Ry! You are so strong and so brave. You absolutely did not deserve any of that BS!!! I don’t know you personally, but I know that you are an incredibly loving mother and person. Your son, your family and the world is lucky to have you. If you read this, I hope it brings a smile to your face from one mama to another! ❤ Also, I’d love to see y’all recap Love is Blind!!! 🙏

[@farniceh9090]

We love you Ry. Thanks for sharing and so sorry you had to go through this. wishing you nothing but best and happiness. You both are so great and lovable. I’m grateful that you guys are back. Sending you warm hugs from Canada ❤

[@elizabeth_9746]

Ry, I am going on 7 years of my healing journey after the same exact thing happened to me. I was so humiliated. I cannot fathom how someone could betray me that way…but what still actually hurts is for a brief moment in time my precious children had a real father figure in their life, and it disappeared for them overnight. I still can’t get past that and I’ve chosen to not date. Maybe one day I will, but right now im so very much at peace and happy with just me and my kids. Love to you all!!! ❤

[@kathryn513]

So glad to see you ladies back. Ry, while you didn’t owe us an explanation, I admire your courage to share this and to be so vulnerable with your viewers. You are surrounded by love and support, from your family and friends, and the ‘rest of us’. I’m sending you a big virtual hug. I’ll be here ready to laugh along with you and Whit, whenever that may next be. Oh and if you want to know what I’d like you two to cover…it’s Bachelor in Paradise Canada 🇨🇦 Starts May 8!!! Can’t help it, I’m a Canuck. I’d love to hear your take. Be well. Be strong. And as you said Ry, be nice!! ❤

[@gardeningwithoutboundaries]

Ry, lots of love and hugs, thinking of you!❤

[@waitheranjunge3766]

I'm so sorry Ry. You should definitely take all the time you need to heal before you share, and you don't have to share more if it is too much. And be proud for loving earnestly and with your whole heart. I would love recaps on other shows.

[@pegahmotaleb4586]

You ladies are awesome! Sending you healing vibes Ry.

[@cmarty327]

So sorry about what you went through Ry. Really miss you guys during the season and hope to see you back in June! Take care!

[@kaisahulkkonen1166]

I felt physical pain hearing Ry’s story. You can hold your head high girl and I am so incredibly sorry this happened to you. Thanks for sharing. ❤

[@jenninscho1980]

Love to hear both of your beauty tips like your haircare routine, what products you use-you both have great hair and skin. Do you use vitamins? Good to see your finale recap and thanks for being vulnerable and open. You have such a strong sister bond.❤

[@anastaciawilliams6094]

We love you Ry! You are so incredibly strong and brave for sharing what you and your son have been through. You’re a strong, fierce woman! Love you! Glad to see the two of you back! More Whit and Ry stories! Mixed in with some Love is Blind recaps perhaps. ♥️

[@thishandleisnotclever]

Thank you for sharing your story. Do not feel badly or that you aren't smart. Some liars are very skilled. I have been there. Glad you found out sooner rather than later. And also glad you have a strong support system. Much love and support to you. ❤️

[@rhondahewett4287]

Ry, I am so sad to hear this, but thank you for your vulnerability in sharing. I appreciate your words, you loved well and will continue! That’s powerful and strong. It’s not your fault he is disturbed to be able to do such a thing and you did not deserve that! Will be praying for you and your sons continued healing. And I am with Wit…her sister love is strong.

[@crystalclarke6331]

I'm so glad you did a finale recap. He was the worst bachelor and treated the women so terribly, especially Gabi and Ariel. Basically he confessed to it for Katie. He knew for a long time. Ry, I'm so sorry you're going through this. I feel so bad for you and your son. Be gentle with yourself... He is the one who wronged you. Sending big hugs. ❤

[@lucbordage7291]

Agree. These dudes get away with 1niStds before making their final picks. He should have stuck to his words (no sex). This was Clayton all over again. These dudes expect the women to not have a problem with this? They need bachelors who have self control, not players.

[@mariegomez6627]

Thank you for sharing, Ry 🥺 you deserve so many round of applauses because you really are helping people by sharing and being an awesome person. You are so strong and your circumstances do not define you ❤️

[@theresa9925]

Ry...I am so sorry that happened to you. It was very brave to share...however you probably helped someone else that is going through a difficult time too. Sending you & your son hugs & love. Theresa from Florida

[@insideoutbeauty3170]

YEAH !!! your back. Sending love and love, so sorry for what you have been through, your courage to speak with vulnerability moves me, watching you both together, beautiful sisterhood (:

[@christinemiller1967]

Ry, you are human. Please show yourself patience and grace as you navigate through this learning and healing process.

[@tarag2705]

Oh Ry I’m so sorry that happened! I went through something similar years ago and it was brutal. You are so incredibly strong and setting a wonderful example of resilience and strength for your son. Please never feel ashamed or like you should have seen red flags, they’re easier to spot when you’re outside of the situation. Remember to give yourself grace and to forgive yourself. One day you will meet the absolute love of your life who will treat you like the Queen you are and all this heartache will have been worth it. It may be difficult to believe now but you will be okay! Sending you all the love, support and positive vibes! ❤❤❤❤

[@tsawasanchez9571]

Ry thank you for being so vulnerable, can’t wait to see more of y’all’s videos❤️ you got this Ry!

[@KristiSavvy]

Thank you so much for your vulnerability, Ry! I am praying for you and sending good vibes! You are such a strong woman! 🎉 We are all rooting for you 💕

[@WhitandRy]

💖Kristi💖

[@elexa1624]

Prayers and love for you Ry. You are such a strong person. I would love to hear about your story when you are ready to share. ❤

[@poke_bowl]

Ry, you are a beautiful soul and deserve the very best! I am so sorry someone was dumb enough to hurt you (and your little one too), but you will absolutely come out even stronger on the other side. Sending love to both of you ladies. It made my night to see you return and do a recap. :)

[@teabean7]

So good to see you ladies again. Ry, my heart goes out to you. I am so sorry for what you are going through and as a mom, what your son was dragged through. Sending you strength to get through your healing. ❤️

[@thelastchurro8237]

Thank you so much for being vulnerable and brave with sharing your life update. We know it must be hard and how rough this can be, but know you are strong!! His actions do not reflect badly on you and his bad character speaks volumes on himself!! I wish you all the love and strength 😢💗

[@carinamoszek7482]

So much love to you and your family. Of course, you don't owe us explanations, but I hope we can be an additional support system while you grieve. I can't wait to keep watching the channel! Would love to hear your guys' thoughts on Love Is Blind.

[@kellyscruisingagain7310]

Huge hugs Ry. Be kind to yourself while you heal. You got this 💓

[@leannabeat2406]

Love Whit's sweater. The look in Whit's face during Ry's explanation, is every pissed off sister, trying to hold it together! Glad you are back. I would recommend, Love is Blind, as a show to review.

[@nelm7526]

Oh Ry😢 You are such a beautiful soul inside and out!!! I am so sorry this has happened to you. You are in my thoughts on this new journey. You were already remarkable but this will make you unbreakable. You will be in my thoughts as you heal ❤

[@mimmarocks1235]

Ry …. We love you and Whit to pieces. I hate that this happened to you and your child. You seem like an incredibly strong, kind, Beautiful mother, and that is more than any child could wish for. I know that Whit and mama Shea have your back, but IF you ever need anything, your friend from NYC is right here ! Love yourself and take good care. Xoxo Mimmarocks

[@mariannepetersen3985]

You're sure right Ry. Love is a gift, a most beautiful gift that we should never be ashamed, or embarrassed for giving. You did absolutely nothing wrong! The person who took advantage of the pure gift of love from a women and her child has to live with their deceit. Your strength for your child and yourself will carry you through and will allow you to help many others due to the unfortunate pain you suffered. I'm very sorry you had to go through this and am so happy you are now healing! I honestly didn't mean to ramble but I went through something kind of similar. Now I am with the most wonderful, strong, loyal, honest man who's also soooo handsome-bonus! My son and daughter couldn't be any happier for me... You will be fine and will find happiness! Good thoughts and prayers coming your way!

[@MissThaliaFiala]

Thank you for sharing. So proud of you for staying strong and keeping your head high.

[@plcumming]

Ry, thank you so much for sharing your story. It’s been 15 months since I first found out about my husbands betrayal after 12 years of marriage. I know just how much it hurts and how hard and long it is to get over. Like Whit said… it isn’t your fault and you are not to blame. I am sending you all the love and support all the way from Canada.

[@LaceyFlatt-oc5py]

Man, I missed y’all!!!! Ry, sending you love and prayers. Keep your head up momma! You are awesome and so deserving.

[@tracimcmillen3835]

Ry you are so amazing! Thank you. I have been going through the same for three years. I have been with my husband for 30 and it makes breaking up so much harder. Just know, you are not alone. There are people who will listen and never judge. I understand the humiliation as I only have shared with one person. Cheaters are narcissists that leave nothing but destruction. I wish you love and peace ❤️

[@francescad.135]

Ry, thank you for sharing your story with such a grace and vulnerability. Sending positive energy to you.

[@delagonz4295]

I realized I was crying along after the vid ended, in my office…. At work! I’m so sorry for your loss, it is grief and it is painful. Get well soon

[@jess4reallyreal]

So sorry that happened to you 😢 ❤❤❤❤ I went through difficult divorce many years ago from a very short lived marriage and we now coparent fine so sending you love and hopes for resolution

[@lilianaoaida732]

So sad to hear you are going through something so heartbreaking, Ry. Sorry for both you and your son as well. Take all the time you need to heal and move forward. Sending strength & hugs 🤗

[@renatoriz]

Ryann, you're gorgeous! I'm sorry that you had to go through that, but he's the one who should be ashamed. Wish you the best!!!

[@TMK1971]

Ry thank you for sharing I’m so incredibly sorry for you and your son! You are right you have an incredible support system and you are very strong!! Sending love from OR ❤

[@MathPiHanan]

Dear Ry, thanks for your transparency. Remember that regardless of anything you uncover in retrospect, back then you operated based on the information you had then. We do the best we can with the information we have. Stay sane 💗

[@WhitandRy]

Just seeing this. Thank you so much MathPi 🫶🏼

[@tigrezangel]

So glad to have you back girls!! Sometimes life sucks, and I'm glad that you have a great and strong support system. And whatever show that you watch, and want to share your opinions with us, I'm here for it.

[@Skeptique]

Don't be humiliated Ry, we have all been there sister. Much love to you and your son. xo

[@Derbonne]

I vote Rhy to be the next bachelorette! She deserves so much love! You are amazing. You will find happiness and the right guy will come along. Just keep the faith. One day at a time! We love y’all.

[@Candace488]

You two always make me laugh with these recaps. Thank you! Ry, I am so sorry to hear about your situation. I’m glad you’re getting help and working through your feelings and emotions. I think talking about it is a great way to not only work through things like this, but also help others in maybe noticing warning signs and things. Thank you for being vulnerable and open. I wish nothing but the best for you and your son. Sending love from California ❤

[@clemontinediva]

I have to say, everytime you guys pop back in my feed - I get excited & happy cause it’s always like seeing old friends again! Ry - I’m so sorry for what you’re going through, but your honesty, vulnerability, & resilience is really inspiring to see. Just know Cathy from NYC (me!) is cheering for you! As for what type of videos you can do between seasons - if you’re open to reacting to another “dating” reality show - this current season of Love Is Blind has A LOT to react to. But honestly, whether you want to share more about yourselves or just dish about VPR - I’m here for it!

[@ItsKandiGirl]

Happy healing Ry! Glad you're safe.

[@rhansen2651]

Thank you for being honest and open with us. I think it’s really important to hear other peoples’ stories about this type of thing. You’re awesome and I hope everyone else in the world that are going through this can give themselves the same grace, care, and love.