Bethany Slams Kim Zolciak, Kroy Full Custody, Jackie Christie vs Brooke Bailey, Jonathan Majors

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Funky Dineva

Funky Dineva

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@elody30
@elody30 Жыл бұрын
As someone who lost both my parents,I felt that a lot of people decided not to reach out because of whatever excuse they made up in their mind about how I was possibly feeling. Everyone grieves differently and the best way to go about it is to let people know that you acknowledge their loss and that you are present for whatever they need.
@Brandi_.
@Brandi_. Жыл бұрын
Well said! I lost my dad last year. I appreciated everyone’s thoughts during that time. But I will never again in life ask someone “how are you doing”. It’s the stupidest ass question I’ve ever been asked when I don’t have my daddy anymore.
@melglenn6556
@melglenn6556 Жыл бұрын
Sorry for both of y’all’s loss. ❤
@elody30
@elody30 Жыл бұрын
@@melglenn6556 thank you ☺️
@HR-re6mr
@HR-re6mr Жыл бұрын
Ppl just don’t know what to do. It’s a touchy tone. I’ve lost both parents. Ppl don’t say anything and the bereaved feel like nobody cares but ppl feel like I don’t want to bring up anything that triggers the person. Then if you do bring it up too much then the bereaved is like stop reminding me of my loss. So I feel TH like A LOT of GRACE has to be extended in these cases. And as the bereaved you have to be willing to help those who care navigate where you are at a given point in time.
@puzzlite
@puzzlite Жыл бұрын
I lost my mom at 15. I hated all the fuss. I hated people feeling sorry for me. I cant even remember who reached out and who didnt but when you're grown, I know its important to at least reach out so ask "please accept my condolences," or if you are closer to that person, ask if there is anything they need or you can do for them at that time. It's just the grown thing to do imo. I dont expect it from someone in their 20s in college but someone in their mid 30s and up shouldn't be at a loss as to what to say. Aint nothing creative to be said. The script is already written
@jameelahbf4
@jameelahbf4 Жыл бұрын
Funky is so prolific. He is the only KZbinr that brings everything together beautifully with a lot of comedic relief.
@xotequila
@xotequila Жыл бұрын
This
@KrissyTheIntrovert
@KrissyTheIntrovert Жыл бұрын
🎯🎯
@averyshenandoah1637
@averyshenandoah1637 Жыл бұрын
He’s awful and he’s a racist plain and simple
@waynethepoet88
@waynethepoet88 Жыл бұрын
So happy you’re more active on your channel 😊Always good to see you, Funky.
@funkydineva
@funkydineva Жыл бұрын
I was in a weird place, I’m back now!!
@schaminkaweaver8217
@schaminkaweaver8217 Жыл бұрын
​@Funky Dineva I'm glad you're back ❤
@queenjj201
@queenjj201 Жыл бұрын
​@Funky Dineva, will you be reviewing RHOA?
@funkydineva
@funkydineva Жыл бұрын
@@queenjj201 probably not
@quitaquita79
@quitaquita79 Жыл бұрын
Yes gawd Nessa I second, third, fourth and infinity and beyond that motion. The Funky Bunch miss you
@glowingmyway
@glowingmyway Жыл бұрын
Funky, you just don’t know how much of positive impact you have made on me and my mental health these past 13 years. Keep doing you. 💜
@peterssister421
@peterssister421 Жыл бұрын
❤❤
@kimben3493
@kimben3493 Жыл бұрын
Yes a vibe and life❤
@charmanned
@charmanned Жыл бұрын
🥰
@mllange30
@mllange30 Жыл бұрын
Indeed
@missdiagnosis2530
@missdiagnosis2530 Жыл бұрын
Yes mam
@ColorisASMR
@ColorisASMR Жыл бұрын
I just love his commentary. I automatically tune in once I get an alert. ❤️
@reneemenzies4669
@reneemenzies4669 Жыл бұрын
😂 so do I
@Synquette
@Synquette Жыл бұрын
Facts! That’s why I had to watch Tea-GIF because I needed more Funky!
@simone2734
@simone2734 Жыл бұрын
Me too 😂😂😂😂
@zzizahacallar
@zzizahacallar Жыл бұрын
Funky has me rolling
@kerarants3550
@kerarants3550 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes they play with me because I ain’t get this alert. I watched another video and it popped up.
@MsValerie123
@MsValerie123 Жыл бұрын
I don't care what Kim and Kory do with their marriage; as long as Kim doesn't come back to #RHOA 😢😖😩😫😤🤢🤮🤧😷😮‍💨🤒🤕🤯🥺😳😲
@klp1009
@klp1009 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!! If she does every black person who watches better boycott the show!
@wendybradley2096
@wendybradley2096 Жыл бұрын
Oh she coming😂 this is what all of this is all about lol
@nicoleh.6352
@nicoleh.6352 Жыл бұрын
I agree a thousand percent... my white shoes are on standby ready for the March!!!.. the way she carried on when she left, snubbed her nose at all of them
@ameliajohnson4454
@ameliajohnson4454 Жыл бұрын
@@klp1009 I agree 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
@irissanders7487
@irissanders7487 Жыл бұрын
I bet Andy Cohen is going to try and lookout for Kim.
@HERE4THECOMMENT
@HERE4THECOMMENT Жыл бұрын
Now Funky, don’t be teasing us giving us Hot Topics! You know we the people is going to want MORE 😂😂
@NC-tt4gc
@NC-tt4gc Жыл бұрын
I also watch him on TGIF. I like their dynamic.
@Melanin360Studio
@Melanin360Studio Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!!
@TheSaintb23
@TheSaintb23 Жыл бұрын
Okay bc we DESPERATELY miss Ms Wendy! Only Dineva can give us the realness!
@mosparksss
@mosparksss Жыл бұрын
🗣️🗣️😩
@DoubleAA82
@DoubleAA82 Жыл бұрын
chilllee right lol
@Dr.JudeAEMasonMD
@Dr.JudeAEMasonMD Жыл бұрын
Based solely on what she has portrayed of her life, Kroy appears to be the more grounded parent. 🤷🏽‍♀️
@jacmac3294
@jacmac3294 Жыл бұрын
I believe Kroy has his parents’ support in this messy divorce and I don’t think Kim has money to fight this fight
@reneeyoung3186
@reneeyoung3186 Жыл бұрын
​@@jacmac3294 his parents truly did not want him to marry her.
@madenew5097
@madenew5097 Жыл бұрын
I'll wait to the divorce play out We don't know the cause of the breakdown and I refuse to speculate
@BuffyNoir140
@BuffyNoir140 Жыл бұрын
@@madenew5097 . Same here. This could be a publicity stunt, an attempt for a TV spin-off.
@Amodernelder
@Amodernelder Жыл бұрын
@@reneeyoung3186 Yes they saw what she was from jump. I hope he reconciled with them because they were estranged. I hope he qualifies for an NFL pension.
@deeduddie3335
@deeduddie3335 Жыл бұрын
If I don’t go to the Funeral I always reach out after when the dust settles, when they need it the most, when everyone stops calling.
@neeneeray3540
@neeneeray3540 Жыл бұрын
That’s what true friends do ❤❤❤
@missbae_
@missbae_ Жыл бұрын
When everyone else stops faking
@pimpindymepiece
@pimpindymepiece Жыл бұрын
YES
@b2bgood870
@b2bgood870 Жыл бұрын
@@missbae_ lol
@paige4128
@paige4128 Жыл бұрын
Exxxxactly!!! Once the funeral is over is when the real grief hits and that’s when folks need you the most. Great point, sis.
@SheniceSays214
@SheniceSays214 Жыл бұрын
I hated being asked, “how am I doing ?” when my mother died. Especially by people my mother and I didn’t deal with on the regular.
@stacyr4768
@stacyr4768 Жыл бұрын
So what should the person ask instead?
@asurles35
@asurles35 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@melglenn6556
@melglenn6556 Жыл бұрын
I never thought about this. I’ll stop asking folks this. I genuinely ask and want to know but perhaps there’s a better way to check on someone.
@beautifulqueen2579
@beautifulqueen2579 Жыл бұрын
So you have to deal with a person on a regular? In order for someone to simply ask how you are doing.
@jocelynlincoln2330
@jocelynlincoln2330 Жыл бұрын
@@stacyr4768 My suggestion: "I'm calling to check in and let you know I'm thinking of you. Whatever I can do, you know I'm here." And then let them talk. If they change the subject, they don't want to talk about it. If they talk and share, you listen.
@misterme9829
@misterme9829 Жыл бұрын
Yes this is what we need from you! More hot topics on the regular lol
@funkydineva
@funkydineva Жыл бұрын
I got you!!
@SILKBLOOMAS77
@SILKBLOOMAS77 Жыл бұрын
@funkydineva, I love you and your commentary
@zzizahacallar
@zzizahacallar Жыл бұрын
I love you Funky!
@Sponsorship4u2
@Sponsorship4u2 Жыл бұрын
@@funkydineva we luv ya Q! Hope all is well
@jennifermaynard3901
@jennifermaynard3901 Жыл бұрын
Yes Funky is back, this is how content delivery should be like 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@asktheglutenfreechef3072
@asktheglutenfreechef3072 Жыл бұрын
We love 2 see it
@prestonpfeiffer
@prestonpfeiffer Жыл бұрын
The last 2-3 videos have had a real old school Dineva feel to them. I like the nuanced,critically thought topics but I have missed you just roasting the girls into the ground 😂😂😂😂😂
@asktheglutenfreechef3072
@asktheglutenfreechef3072 Жыл бұрын
YESSSSSS
@latoyajohnson5488
@latoyajohnson5488 Жыл бұрын
When I lost my father I needed every call, prayer, visit I could possibly receive. Everyone needs are not the same. I will never forget the ones who didn’t reach out when the smoke cleared. Just being there was enough for me.
@rochwilliams4626
@rochwilliams4626 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. ❤
@Shalayah2010
@Shalayah2010 Жыл бұрын
And I’m sorry that happened to you, but I just read a comment about someone else saying their mother died and they wanted the opposite. Everyone grieves differently so it’s hard to navigate that when we all have different needs and wants during the grieving process.
@hamptonsfnst2014
@hamptonsfnst2014 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! The statement, "I didn't know what to say" is an excuse. Focused on the wrong thing. People need to learn to separate how they feel from how YOU think I may feel. What wrong could you possibly say to make one suffering a loss feel worse. Simply put be there for your friends and loved during rain or shine
@bt2598
@bt2598 Жыл бұрын
My dad passed away. I got a lot of flowers and gift baskets which were well intentioned but flower die (just like my dad did) and the food baskets always took up a lot of space and didn’t have much I could actually eat in a timely manner. I think the folks that helped the most were folks who came over to cover meals so I didn’t have to worry about cooking or going out to eat. I had one friend I could really lean on but I had several other friends tell me they knew I would be okay eventually so they didn’t bother to check in (which kind of hurt because it felt like people were rushing me to get over my grief on their timeline). Ultimately, a therapist or grief counselor is really the only person that helped. It was nice to have that safe space - because family would always want me to pray the grief away or tell me I am so strong. It’s tough, no one knows how to be there for people in the right way.
@rochwilliams4626
@rochwilliams4626 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. My mom died in December of last year. And let me tell you I still don't know what to do But I'm grateful for the calls, thoughts and prayers. That is how some can contribute. Also, my mom was well loved somehow other persons took it harder than me. Still do. But hey...she was a Goddess.
@kayskaht2052
@kayskaht2052 Жыл бұрын
Funky is the ONLY YTber who i literally watch every video from! I live for your commentary! ❤
@Havingthetimeofmylife2008
@Havingthetimeofmylife2008 Жыл бұрын
Him and @tsmadison
@brewhite7727
@brewhite7727 Жыл бұрын
I know that’s right
@kae7624
@kae7624 Жыл бұрын
Me too.
@chippope8984
@chippope8984 Жыл бұрын
Bethany got it right and said it right in the case of Kim and Kroy. Let it be a freaking lesson to all of us!!!! Thank you, Bethany. She showed us that you do not have to be a herd puppet.
@caligurl8770
@caligurl8770 Жыл бұрын
I mean no one can police other grown people Bethenny’s opinion is hers and whatever enemies or bad blood she creates is on her (and I don’t think she gives 2 sh!ts about a Kim Zolciak-2 completely different white women) it’s not like anybody outside of Bethanny and Kim have a dog in that fight so who cares its Bethenny’s opinion let her have it plus she ain’t wrong pay ur fuxkin bills Kim, alcoholic sh!t talker!
@beautifulqueen2579
@beautifulqueen2579 Жыл бұрын
Bethany is in Kim and Kroy business. Because her rat face ass, don’t have any business of her own.
@blesseddiva091
@blesseddiva091 Жыл бұрын
I went and listened. I agree
@cynique46
@cynique46 Жыл бұрын
I agree with Bethany she said nothing wrong
@tanyaeaston7884
@tanyaeaston7884 Жыл бұрын
She was right on everything and she is a 'Karen' with every right to talk about her fellow Karens!.
@FantasticFreaux
@FantasticFreaux Жыл бұрын
My mom’s best friend just lost her husband and my mom was lost on what to do to help her friend. I had to explain to my mom that sometimes you don’t need to do anything but show up and be supportive. Ask them how can you help or let them know that if they do need you then you’re not too far away.
@justdorcas3875
@justdorcas3875 Жыл бұрын
She could have sent a heartfelt card or flowers. Just to let them know you are praying for them or thinking about them. Jackie didn't do anything and calls herself their friend.
@jonsenejohnson3420
@jonsenejohnson3420 Жыл бұрын
@@justdorcas3875 But they were not friends. They were co-workers and they got into it often. I no longer go to funerals. If it's my kids or grandchildren, I will. Anyone else, the answer is "NO!". I didn't go to my grandmother's funeral. People over time realized that it was not a person's insult. When I worked as a nurse, I saw people dying all the time. Death is part of life and sad, but mentally I just decided I was done with funerals.
@vqvaughns5887
@vqvaughns5887 Жыл бұрын
@@jonsenejohnson3420 Did you watch the show? They both said they spoke on the phone every day up until her daughter passing. They were friends Jackie was trying to help Brooke save her marriage.
@fantasy2290
@fantasy2290 Жыл бұрын
One thing about Funky is his commentary is always well put together. The way he articulates his thoughts is A1 journalism in my opinion.
@TheeCoachg
@TheeCoachg Жыл бұрын
Bethenny has ALWAYS had a hard-on for the Atlanta girls. Nene,Kim, she even shaded the show to Kenya and only plays nice with Kandi because of her coin. It eats her up that Atlanta were THOSE girls who carried Bravo on their backs from seasons 1-6
@misstyra2013
@misstyra2013 Жыл бұрын
I agree
@AshleySpeaks09
@AshleySpeaks09 Жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@socialworkersanonymous
@socialworkersanonymous Жыл бұрын
And I oop 💅🏽
@javardstanley1521
@javardstanley1521 Жыл бұрын
RHOA was the number 1 show on Bravo from seasons 1-13. Not 1-6. It was Bravo highest ratings show from 2008 - 2021 then RHOBH took it place last year and now it Pump Rules as the highest ratings show on Bravo.
@prestonpfeiffer
@prestonpfeiffer Жыл бұрын
Bethenny is like Eboni. They can articulate a point masterfully and with the most sense but then they end up talking so much and get soooo self righteous that its like “GIRRRRRRL,OK WE GET IT! YOU’RE PASSIONATE!” Right messenger and message but stop beating us over the head with it.
@Specialkxxx
@Specialkxxx Жыл бұрын
Bethany can’t have a thought without sharing it on social media
@vradleymoore8398
@vradleymoore8398 Жыл бұрын
But isn't that most people. Especially if they are public figures
@gigilamoore2656
@gigilamoore2656 Жыл бұрын
Bethenny just always seems so miserable to me.
@BJsDaughter
@BJsDaughter Жыл бұрын
❤ your comment. But why I feel like I’m being attacked 😂😂😂😂😂
@Amodernelder
@Amodernelder Жыл бұрын
@@gigilamoore2656 I’ve been watching her since she came on the scene. She was miserable when she was on the come up and she is miserable now. She proves the point money does not buy happiness.
@mllange30
@mllange30 Жыл бұрын
Honest and relatable. I could listen to you for hours.
@busykenya
@busykenya Жыл бұрын
The way I clicked on this so fast! Hey Funky! You spoiling us!❤
@brownchanel93
@brownchanel93 Жыл бұрын
You’re right. Jackie didnt console her cause they are not close. She thought a call and text would suffice. If it would have been Malaysia it would have been different
@justdorcas3875
@justdorcas3875 Жыл бұрын
That is not true. Jackie is fake as hell and tells Brooke and all the ladies she adore them and they are her friends. Jackie fake ass pretends to be their friends and pretends to care about them but she didn't even show concern for her grandson when he was burned, so she definitely does not care about these ladies. She could have sent Brooke a card or flowers and didn't have to say anything to her, but she does not give a damn about these ladies.
@marsharosefort6366
@marsharosefort6366 Жыл бұрын
As much as I don't like Bethany, she has always been open about these housewives throwing money for no reason. She knew Erica Jayne was broke, before Erica Jayne knew she was broke. I was here for her reading them to filth. Bethany has never followed the trends. If she did she'd have all the wrinkles fixed
@NC-tt4gc
@NC-tt4gc Жыл бұрын
She got that jaw soften tho.
@arezoi
@arezoi Жыл бұрын
The Shade
@nishashawn2021
@nishashawn2021 Жыл бұрын
@N C and she needed too because her face was shaped like a leggo
@neeneeray3540
@neeneeray3540 Жыл бұрын
This!!! She came from humble beginnings. She did exactly what Bethany would do.
@asktheglutenfreechef3072
@asktheglutenfreechef3072 Жыл бұрын
@@NC-tt4gcbloop
@benmarshall3383
@benmarshall3383 Жыл бұрын
Dineva....you hit the nail on the head with the timeline of reaching out to someone dealing in grief.
@leevihemmings707
@leevihemmings707 Жыл бұрын
You cheer me up so much - thank you!
@shemene647
@shemene647 Жыл бұрын
Quinton you hit the nail on the head about the grieving process and how to handle/deal with it.
@karmencobbs4768
@karmencobbs4768 Жыл бұрын
I feel blessed every time I get a notification you are in the line with a new video ❤😂
@deseramaxwell2780
@deseramaxwell2780 Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU! THANK YOU AND THANK YOU FUNKY!!! YOUR SPEAKING NOTHING BUT TRUTH!
@Three_Diamonds
@Three_Diamonds Жыл бұрын
You pushing & pumping out these videos! 👏🏽💃🏽
@keshiawilliams9429
@keshiawilliams9429 Жыл бұрын
Not the pound & sausage lips I'm hollering lmaooooooo 😂😂😂
@kishajones841
@kishajones841 Жыл бұрын
I’ve thought and felt the same way as Jackie during someone’s passing, but I don’t allow those thoughts and feelings to keep me from doing something. I don’t want someone to feel even more alone, while losing their loved one at the same time.
@Papicub
@Papicub Жыл бұрын
Q it’s time to start a weekly 2 hour podcast!!!!
@yallisitme7292
@yallisitme7292 Жыл бұрын
I’d totally watch!
@lynndivinity7865
@lynndivinity7865 Жыл бұрын
Yesss agreed
@UnicornPrincess2U
@UnicornPrincess2U Жыл бұрын
Agree 👏🏾
@mllange30
@mllange30 Жыл бұрын
Yep
@aubreylawrence6771
@aubreylawrence6771 Жыл бұрын
Dineva live!! I miss that show.
@crownjewel832
@crownjewel832 Жыл бұрын
Grief is tricky.....but support is needed, priceless and always appreciated (even if not in the moment). I'd rather reach out, send food, gifts, money, etc to a grieving friend than to fall back and reduce contact out of fear that it may overwhelm them. That can actually be more hurtful. Grief is FOREVER so whenever you reach out is meaningful. Simply sending love or a thinking of you text can mean the world to a griever days, weeks, months even years after their loved one has passed away. The worst thing friends can do is disappear out of their own discomfort and presumption of what may or may not annoy the friend as they grieve. Let them tell you they need space or ignore YOU as opposed to ignoring them at their most vulnerable time.
@swilliams673
@swilliams673 Жыл бұрын
Completely agree. Didn’t agree with his opinion on grief at all
@IsntSheLovely007
@IsntSheLovely007 Жыл бұрын
Exactly he is full of it because he is that unsupportive friend
@LaZainabou
@LaZainabou Жыл бұрын
Bethany's divorce took SEVEN years....
@madea1012
@madea1012 Жыл бұрын
Really??? Dang!
@latoyajohnson8695
@latoyajohnson8695 Жыл бұрын
SEVEN YEARS?….. why so long lol
@treseon
@treseon Жыл бұрын
@@latoyajohnson8695 her ex was fighting hard for her money, allegedly
@latoyajohnson8695
@latoyajohnson8695 Жыл бұрын
@@treseon I bet he was lol
@jcelestine832
@jcelestine832 Жыл бұрын
And also custody of their daughter
@abriaangel
@abriaangel Жыл бұрын
Kroy is apparently asking for full custody and all financial documentation.
@d.c.5033
@d.c.5033 Жыл бұрын
Thanks. This is all I came for🙌🏾
@yoliopulence
@yoliopulence Жыл бұрын
See this the commentary we need Tuhday and I'm all ears!🔥
@CookiesandCream485
@CookiesandCream485 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 Tuhday, that's a good one😊
@sheis6978
@sheis6978 Жыл бұрын
Thank you on your insightful sentiments about “hollow” texts and empty communications when dealing with loss You have expressed what so many have not been able to
@BBBATX
@BBBATX Жыл бұрын
This was everything we needed!!
@Synquette
@Synquette Жыл бұрын
Every time I see Bethany I think about how Omarosa called her mediocre 😂
@ArtemisUnderscoreJ
@ArtemisUnderscoreJ Жыл бұрын
Lol the cupcakes 🧁
@reginadavis7499
@reginadavis7499 Жыл бұрын
Yassss this like 3 days in a row you rung our line
@aubreylawrence6771
@aubreylawrence6771 Жыл бұрын
Dineva…man, that grief section was SOOOOOO real. Lost my mom 2 years ago and people be asking me stuff like “how are you” and YES, YOU ARE EXACTLY RIGHT. F-ING HORRIBLE. Your candidness and honesty is just so refreshing. There are times I wish we could be friends- more people need to be this real and relatable. We get so caught up in social graces we forget the real human emotions we all go through. And emotions be messy and unpolished. We miss your hot topics!! Thank you for the videos 🙏🏽
@paige4128
@paige4128 Жыл бұрын
True! I stopped asking my friend how she’s doing because I already know. I just talk about things that I think she’ll be interested in, or send her a funny video that will perk her up.
@tracyr1468
@tracyr1468 Жыл бұрын
I feel you ..I can be a Jackie Christy too...for the very reasons you pointed out...I felt the exact same way when my Mom passed.
@shaneikamccray8718
@shaneikamccray8718 Жыл бұрын
Speaking from the part of this video with the passing situation. You are right it gets very hallow. When my dad passed a few months ago some people I really look forward to some people being there for me but was shocked that some didnt even send a card. But others stepped up in a great way. I do feel like ppl just dont know how or what to say and to be honest you truly dont wanna hear what they have to say because its nothing anyone can say if we being honest. Its just a hard place to be in on both sides. But ppl who werent reaching out to me on a reg I wasnt looking for them to reach out at his passing either.
@joycettabutler5692
@joycettabutler5692 Жыл бұрын
Funky Dineva, girl I'm on the line. U r giving us better than when u r on Tea G I F. Thank you, I love tuning in and listening.
@beautifullycreated3224
@beautifullycreated3224 Жыл бұрын
I feel the same way when people pass away. When i loss my brother i hated people asking me how i was doing!!! It irritated the hell out of me
@michellebaker2061
@michellebaker2061 Жыл бұрын
I feel the same way you felt when your friend's family member died. I don't want to remind the person when they are feeling bad.
@justdorcas3875
@justdorcas3875 Жыл бұрын
They are going to be hurting for years and you could just send a card or flowers and not say anything.
@famousnobody7574
@famousnobody7574 Жыл бұрын
That's a selfish coward way of thinking about YOURSELF in their time of need.
@shawtypooh80
@shawtypooh80 Жыл бұрын
The Kim and Kroy divorce is about to get nasty like Kim's duck lips. As a person who lost both a daddy and a fiance back-to-back, there are two things that I've learned. First, never tell anyone that is grieving "Let me know if there's anything that I can do"; that is the worst. And second, never force anyone to talk. If that person wants to talk to you about anything and it doesn't have to make sense, they will talk when they are ready. As long as you lend a listening ear, that means more than the world; you don't have to say nothing. So, on the Jackie and Brooke thing: I understand both sides but Jackie is more wrong. As far as Johnathan Majors, I agree with you, Funky.
@ZebraLens
@ZebraLens Жыл бұрын
May I ask why I shouldn't say "If there is anything I can do......"? I ask because whenever I have said that, I genuinely mean it, whether its a listening ear, or if that person needs me to help make some calls to help put some things in order, or any other situation that may arise. I say this because I ask as a way to check up on the person but I also understand that you in particular would not want someone to do that. So in your case, for myself and others, what is the alternative when it comes to checking on someone? Is it best to not say anything at all? Thank you in advance for your insight. I truly want an understanding. 😊
@Klgray7373
@Klgray7373 Жыл бұрын
It’s irked me for years when people say “if there is anything you need let me know”. The better approach is have a plan. Ask what day can I send DoorDash for dinner. What’s your grocery list? Can I pick up your kids today? Here is a casserole. Keep the dish. Let me walk your dog. Etc etc etc. come with a plan to help. The talking part is both ways. Call the person randomly & say can I help you today. Let me know if that means talking or errands. Some of us shit down about talking but what someone to ASK us.
@Nell_3
@Nell_3 Жыл бұрын
Not 🦆🦆💋💋🤣🤣
@shawtypooh80
@shawtypooh80 Жыл бұрын
@@ZebraLens hello! I can only speak from my experience so others may have a different opinion. Grief brain is real. When a loved one dies, you are all over the place, mentally and emotionally. You have a million and two things to handle and it's all at the same time. When you tell someone “Let me know if there's anything that I can do”; it's giving them something else to do or remember. You are in la-la land, very spacy, and forgetful. It feels like another job that has been added on top of the two million things that need to be done. If you want to do something for them and you know that they will need some assistance, just do it. And trust me, you won't be in the way. I hope that adds some clarity!
@shondadiggins21
@shondadiggins21 Жыл бұрын
Not the same one who has her own PUBLIC messy divorce. Lol 🤣🤣
@OfficialMsAsia
@OfficialMsAsia Жыл бұрын
She speaking from experience. I guess😂😂
@TeeTee-2016
@TeeTee-2016 Жыл бұрын
All the Housewives are having a field day about this. Kenya Moore is driving around Atlanta right now blowing her horn and I’m all for it. Kim is getting back everything that she threw at Kenya and Kandi. Now where’s Big Poppa when she needs him.
@cuzimjennthatswhy
@cuzimjennthatswhy Жыл бұрын
It only took her 10 years to get divorced! I think they were happy for 2, spent the next 10 in court 😅
@gigilamoore2656
@gigilamoore2656 Жыл бұрын
The very same. I am not even sure her daughter sees Jason anymore.
@yamomma6479
@yamomma6479 Жыл бұрын
A good friend's child died unexpectedly and I was at a loss of words. Not only did it trigger me thinking about my own child who was close in age, it was overwhelming...I was anxious about every encounter. I found it easier to send a text from time to time just letting her know I am here and thinking of her, and I think she understood I didn't want to bog her down with meaningless chatter when all I wanted to communicate was my support. Sometimes its the little gestures that show I am no expert in what you going through, but as a friend I am front and center. In the meantime, we all could use a little grace when it comes to these life experiences and lead with humility and understanding.
@MuddaSikIt
@MuddaSikIt Жыл бұрын
Was feeling really down today, an upload from you is exactly what I needed ❤
@Rae_rae81
@Rae_rae81 Жыл бұрын
I love your videos. They really help me decompress after a long ass day. Thank you so much for doing what you do!
@AmoMe2009
@AmoMe2009 Жыл бұрын
Funky, when I tell you…your last video (about Kim Zolciak) was so damn accurate and hilarious…I almost peed my pants while driving listening to your rant through my car’s bluetooth. That video was EVERYTHING! Looking forward to listening to this phone call to Nessa!
@HappyWorkinMom
@HappyWorkinMom Жыл бұрын
I loved every second of it!!!!
@AmoMe2009
@AmoMe2009 Жыл бұрын
@@HappyWorkinMom yes! Facts! Every damn second!
@thisthatmoreservices7646
@thisthatmoreservices7646 Жыл бұрын
Always the voice of reason. I enjoy your commentary and point of view about daily mainstream topics.
@TheMsjade1984
@TheMsjade1984 Жыл бұрын
I think it’s the fact Jackie presents herself so highly and proper. She could have did the typical and just sent flowers 💐 and a card and left it at that. I’m sure she has crossed paths with her daughter. Also it may be that Jackie has a jacked up relationship with her own daughters and really did not know how to support Brooke through that. 😢
@nijacarter2492
@nijacarter2492 Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad your doing more videos Funky this what the ppl and youtube needed ❤❤❤
@ybshadyii4375
@ybshadyii4375 Жыл бұрын
THE KICKER IS KROY, FILED FOR DIVORCE 1ST NOT KIM!!! 😮
@denisehunter2968
@denisehunter2968 Жыл бұрын
Wait what wow
@ybshadyii4375
@ybshadyii4375 Жыл бұрын
@@denisehunter2968 According to the Court Filing Date. He did it 1st...
@Msqueen_d
@Msqueen_d Жыл бұрын
Oh damn 😮
@moirabinfinity
@moirabinfinity Жыл бұрын
Ooop! 😮
@ELAKEAL
@ELAKEAL Жыл бұрын
Does not matter who goes 1st at all
@saphprimera
@saphprimera Жыл бұрын
I lost my mother 10 years ago today….i can’t even say who showed up at her funeral because I was heavily heartbroken…everything was a blur. Brooke needs to focus on healing and getting in a better space. Love you Q…you’re so intelligent and eloquent 🙌🏾🖤✨
@Hooten123
@Hooten123 Жыл бұрын
When my mom died in 2016 people were texting asking questions, that became very overwhelming but the day of her burial service I appreciated the people that I called my friend came to support me. I was disappointed that I didn’t see the one that I called my best friend, so I get what Brooke is saying.
@IsntSheLovely007
@IsntSheLovely007 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! so Funky being a friend who doesn't show up in a time of need, like a death, shows how true of a friend he is
@ElishaLoweRN
@ElishaLoweRN Жыл бұрын
Bethenny was being Bethenny. I've always admired her strategy around using the RHONY platform to launch her business. And then how she got a spinoff show around her wedding. She's messy as hell but she's right. One season she told told one of the women, while you're dripped in Louis' logo, I'm dripped in SkinnyGirl (paraphrasing) and building a brand. Those women were there for income, Bethany was there to create wealth, and she did.
@Feeee143
@Feeee143 Жыл бұрын
I love that you’re calling us more now ❤❤❤
@iam_pariss
@iam_pariss Жыл бұрын
I LOVE THAT YOU SO HONEST WITH US LISTENERS! WE LOVE YOU FOR THAT!
@bt2598
@bt2598 Жыл бұрын
Let me tell you, Bethany turned a bag into a billion. She really struggled and now the success she is seeing is tremendous compared to her peers. She really worked to promote her little skinny girl brand + other things and used her platform to promote her multiple businesses. I can give credit where credit is due.
@sherrigrant573
@sherrigrant573 Жыл бұрын
Yeah we all know that she's still a loud busy body
@XxMercuriiXx
@XxMercuriiXx Жыл бұрын
I’m not familiar with that show, how did she get the bag? Investments or just from being on the show?
@lisaswrld
@lisaswrld Жыл бұрын
Omgsh..You verbalized every point so clearly and rationally. Especially the Tasha k situation.
@sherocksweaves
@sherocksweaves Жыл бұрын
I hope this becomes a thing ‘cause we love when Dineva calls us with the tea!
@DESIGNSBYVEE
@DESIGNSBYVEE Жыл бұрын
@Funkey you are so right when I lost my husband I didn't want to talk to no one because I feel horrible and I didn't want anyone to comfort me. I just wanted to go through it and have my feelings so you are right about your feeling I feel the same way also about having a moment to yourself and then someone call and ignite the feeling that you weren't even thinking about at the moment. So thank you
@Hestia134
@Hestia134 Жыл бұрын
Everybody run them likes up 🆙 for funky 🙌🏽
@brittanym.1278
@brittanym.1278 Жыл бұрын
Great video! I totally relate to not knowing what to do when people experience medical emergencies and death. I always feel so awkward and generally freeze. Thanks for always being so authentic!
@axa5005
@axa5005 Жыл бұрын
Yesssss consistent videos!!!! Bring ‘em on Funky!
@SencerelyBeautiful
@SencerelyBeautiful Жыл бұрын
I get happy when I get my notifications that you’ve posted a video ❤‼️
@Havingthetimeofmylife2008
@Havingthetimeofmylife2008 Жыл бұрын
Yeah me too. I’m really into staying home but for work with these monsters out cheer shootin folk.
@tcnolan333
@tcnolan333 Жыл бұрын
@funky, I’m so happy to see you back on your channel. We definitely missed you and we’re excited to hear that your doing well with your health. Thanks for all your hard work with your commentary!!! I really appreciate you giving some insight on your journey with self care I’m going to try some facial treatments I’ve never done that before. Thanks for sharing ❤❤❤
@shick1979
@shick1979 Жыл бұрын
Your way of explaining your thoughts is just poetic....Great job, sir !!!
@Zu-Noma
@Zu-Noma Жыл бұрын
The EQ always shows itself,consistently👌🏾I agree re: liking genuine peace in my life & not seeking to start things with people I’m in close proximity with. I value lack of chaos.
@denisehenry3427
@denisehenry3427 Жыл бұрын
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂. It's a job hazard Q . ♥
@lanetajohnson9108
@lanetajohnson9108 Жыл бұрын
I had to stop vacuuming my floor to listen. Thank you Funky
@vanabarnwell5081
@vanabarnwell5081 Жыл бұрын
Bethany should have kept this as gossip amongst friends or comment off of social media. This is why I follow and subscribe to you. You are Real as real can get.
@ralphangel561
@ralphangel561 Жыл бұрын
It's all still gossip tho 🤷🤷
@KNickole
@KNickole Жыл бұрын
100% agree on Jonathan Majors. Unfortunately, if a white girl was swapped out for somebody’s black daughter, most likely her family and friends would tell her to handle it privately or lie to protect him since “we gotta stick together” and “protect the bag”🙄
@shawndraa.h1888
@shawndraa.h1888 Жыл бұрын
Right...enough said.
@reneemenzies4669
@reneemenzies4669 Жыл бұрын
You made a good point. A lot of these bloggers get there commentary from other bloggers beef. 😊
@IamAlchemy78
@IamAlchemy78 Жыл бұрын
And THIS is why I love you and your commentary!
@Verti2LuTaylor
@Verti2LuTaylor Жыл бұрын
Just told my daughter about you! Today is a great day!! All EARS😂😂❤u
@plt4life629
@plt4life629 Жыл бұрын
Your growth has been phenomenal to watch! There’s no explanation needed sir YOU ARE AWESOME!! Keep rising and being a upper level human being!! Peace to you always!! ❤
@mashadimsiza
@mashadimsiza Жыл бұрын
I really love your content and I can't wait for your review for the second season of Young, Famous and African.. I love it!!!
@forever__unbothered3758
@forever__unbothered3758 Жыл бұрын
Sir that last segment.. YES SIR!!!!!!! This needs to be said and heard on a larger platform.
@lisatotten4190
@lisatotten4190 Жыл бұрын
Didn’t Bethany go through a divorce that took years to settle!?
@famousnobody7574
@famousnobody7574 Жыл бұрын
Yessss! And as she said stated, SHEEE didn't get any privacy.
@100Stratusfiedx
@100Stratusfiedx Жыл бұрын
For those who don’t know Bethenny has been talking about lots of housewives news on her podcast EVEN though she said she’s tired of being associated with Bravo. She wanted attention
@armyofone13
@armyofone13 Жыл бұрын
I agree. To semi quote Ramona, we love the underdog-come up story and Bravo bolstered that narrative and helped Bethenny’s platform. I loved her for years and even more so when she started her charity. But her HBO show gave me pause bc they edited her differently, for obvious reasons and I believe more realistically. It helped me realize she is way more than the one liners and high level funny stuff and in your face truth telling that Bravo made her image out to be. She is also emotionally abusive, unpredictable, and overly demanding. I get that she is a business woman but she is NOT someone I would want as a boss. The next thing I didn’t like was her making this big deal about Harry and Meghan-calling them hypocrites for taking over their media and telling them they need to go away while she was also announcing a housewives podcast after she too made similar sentiments about the franchise. Ppl were calling her out for her hypocrisy. Lastly, suing smaller platforms for covering her -again while she feels free to make her opinions known was the final straw. She’s a total hypocrite!!!!!
@kktheonlyonestephens5097
@kktheonlyonestephens5097 Жыл бұрын
Thank Gawd u uploaded! I was falling asleep 😴 at my damn desk! Bless u Ness gurl😂!
@aprilhuff4207
@aprilhuff4207 Жыл бұрын
The way you explained how you process grief is EXACTLY how I feel. I could never find the words without it sounding “funny acting”. Thank you for guidance.
@ladytiff3610
@ladytiff3610 Жыл бұрын
I felt Brooke's heartache... She just wanted that presence of a Friend... like she said You could have just came and sat with me in silence that was powerful
@teedaniels4660
@teedaniels4660 Жыл бұрын
Right.
@IamDHP50
@IamDHP50 Жыл бұрын
And they were 'friends' They've both said they spoke daily. I've BEEN sick of Jackie. & Kim. & Jonathan's arse. ❌️ ALL 3 OF EM! 😂
@emilyd5377
@emilyd5377 Жыл бұрын
She called her everyday
@ladytiff3610
@ladytiff3610 Жыл бұрын
@@IamDHP50 right... I watched that clip and did not watch any of the season... but Jackie is wrong because if that were her she would have tried to nail any of them to wall... It no excuse to me... Come knock on my door and even in my pain your presence of you being my friend that I talked to daily... would have been enough... be there if I need to yell scream or tear my damn house up... Tell me I'm gonna get through this pain heck pray for me something
@lisawilson4332
@lisawilson4332 Жыл бұрын
You can tell a person how to grieve for another person. We are all different.
@truthladeekeesh
@truthladeekeesh Жыл бұрын
This is some of the most honest content on the utube
@snipforlife
@snipforlife Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂NOT DA WIG ATE OUT IN DA BIKE!!! I'm SOOOO dead.. I love it here😅
@IamjustDashtheCat
@IamjustDashtheCat Жыл бұрын
Your commentary is enjoyable and I like tuning in 😊
@gwendolynsurles8821
@gwendolynsurles8821 Жыл бұрын
Oh I’m glad you on early Chile the girls are in a disarray
@ogLynnloc
@ogLynnloc Жыл бұрын
I resonate so much with exactly how you feel when dealing the grief. Its hard
@necole30
@necole30 Жыл бұрын
Hey Funky and the Funky bunch crew ❤
@life.with.teetee
@life.with.teetee Жыл бұрын
Hey sis 😊
@nakuro2686
@nakuro2686 Жыл бұрын
26:21 so right!!!! And I have come across many a brother who have an issue or problem with keeping their hands to theirselves
@PanamaJones7
@PanamaJones7 Жыл бұрын
I always hit the LIKE BUTTON before he starts because I know I’ll like it 🤷🏾‍♀️😂
@shantehaigler7767
@shantehaigler7767 Жыл бұрын
You hit the nail on the head with the grieving and being there. I lost both my parents as well and it becomes overwhelming with everyone checking in and bringing you rotisserie chickens 😂😂It’s so hard because everyone grieves differently and we don’t know how the person is telling. I felt that comment so much!
@staylor824
@staylor824 Жыл бұрын
As a parent who lost a child, I discovered that most people either don't know what to say or say the wrong shit. So to keep from sounding insensitive, they stay away or wait until you reach out to them. When my cousin's son died, I texted her letting her know that I was there for her for whatever she needed but I wasn't calling her because she was already overwhelmed.
@shanadiego4291
@shanadiego4291 Жыл бұрын
I love to see funky. Thanks for the commentary
@torriebrown9607
@torriebrown9607 Жыл бұрын
Yessssss a Echo video is better than none. 😊
@shermainreed9561
@shermainreed9561 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your commentary on your experience with supporting a friend who lost a child… people will write people off who did what you did but now we understand… you may help to to restore and heal some friendships
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