Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World | John Gray

[@DiversifiedMachinist]

Just read John Gray's first book a week ago (I'm 52 and on my second marriage...25yrs now) and it saved my marriage. I knew I had to change, if not for my wife then for myself. It made perfect sense and it explained so much about how I feel and what my wife feels. I'm completely grateful for him and his books.

[@tangle1300]

Happy for you. Truly awesome!!

[@rebeccajones8628]

So true. A stressful job puts a woman way on her masculine side. It is real......

[@Sbannmarie]

Randy, I've heard DOZENS of interviews for John Grey and this hands down is the best. Well done sir!

[@sheeba8334]

Mee too I have been listening to him for the last 2+ yrs I never miss... always on repeat.

[@debralorton2429]

Tell my mister all about it please

[@melissataylor7063]

Same!! Totally agree….

[@jacquelinenoel2992]

I absolutely love Dr. John Gray. He’s fun to listen to, full of insightful ideas, and motivational. This interview was great!

[@Lichfeldian--Suttonian]

04:03: Randy Alverez: “Are these emotional and psychological differences, do you think, in-born or acquired?” John Gray: “They’re biological... Well, everything about our behaviours are taught, okay, so behaviours are taught, attitudes are taught, what it is to be a man, what it is to be a woman, etc. These are conditioning. But what I focus on is really the differences that are universal at every country in the world, that is spoken in fifty countries”. I am a gender egalitarian. If ever there is any difference between social/cultural conditioning and the natural human condition, there it is right there. Truly gold!

[@alaalfa8839]

Both genders have masculine and feminine side. When woman uses her masculine side as a short term tool, setting boundaries in friendships, it helps her to build her feminity, or stay in her feminine energy, her soft personality. Her masculinity is a short term tool to be in her feminity. She shouldnt use her masculine side when her relationmships are working. When men use their feminine side short term, listening to the clients, with empathy, kindness, interest, giving them advice, be a vulnerable for a while, be patient etc, it supports his masculinity, it increases his business, because it makes him better leader of company. So he uses his feminine side as a short term tool, to be in his masculinity, later and build testosterone, getting enough sleep, watching football etc. and use his masculine goal oriented tools too.

[@petritamallorca]

I so agree to that! Me time is very important to me to get back into my feminine, bc my job takes all masculine qualities to pursue my goals and being successfull, which I love, but I have a hard time to get back into feminine. More if I have a clingy man, who has nothing to do without me... which my last relationships has transformed to. i need a very strong self concious and goal focused man on my side, who sees me really when I´m in my feminine and isn´t scared when I´m in my masculine- able to build a bridge, a balance to get into me recieving mode and to be feminine. It´s very clear to me. :)

[@Gigi-Anai8c7l]

I'm curious about what motivated Randy to contact and interview John Gray? I mean it's great and perhaps we can tap on the same type of motivation for other men.

[@alaalfa8839]

Listening classical music is also very healing for moods and soul, it increases brain capacity and memory.

[@petritamallorca]

a must have! I´ll order it tomorrow! read the first one and it blowed my mind!

[@margauxwashington5609]

Great video! Thank you for all the questions you asked Dr. Gray. I haven't read his books and this was a great overview. I will be purchasing his book and learning more. Thank you.

[@stephaniefortney22]

This is such a Wonderful interview…I purchased your new book , not done with it but so enlightening Thank you !❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@smr4219]

John is a treasure! I am so happy to get to know him and his profession via these interviews.

[@sheeba8334]

Love this.. much love from Eastern part of Africa

[@diehardtats6510]

Yes 40 years been strong all blow up. Im learning to be female fradgia and l cry whenever.and im happy

[@BillBrutzman]

Randy is a brilliant inerviewer.

[@Mich2Paris7]

What about when a man doesn’t work and the woman works, how does that relationship work? As in stay at home dad, I wish he could address this

[@yordanosteklu6156]

Wowwwwww...Amazing messages !💝💖👑

[@monaper3114]

❤️very interesting,I learned so much 🙏🏻 Thank you!

[@Sbannmarie]

Oh great question- yes John teaches this method when needing to talk to our man, “It’s not a big deal honey/sweetie …” But what about when it is? I’m thinking in terms of safety for example there are some guys that fly by the seat of their pants! Literally.

[@petritamallorca]

😁the antennas... totally true! love this!

[@NarrelleChain]

His latest videos comments were turned off, i am in Australia, i thought it was because he told truth a out CIA etc.❤

[@anaseinitaka9223]

2018 just starting to read it.... I'm loving it...

[@sabaghide8139]

But thanks you motion these titles, because we women's are in journey to fill out empties

[@d.bcooper2271]

What?

[@ShaneGilson-q3m]

Exactly right.

[@johnkosinski4884]

The best

[@sabaghide8139]

The solution is I need to see women's by quantity and quality to see as leaders, that is their experience will be almost the some and they can understand , that non understable will be understable

[@waitwhat8001]

How could there be 6 thumbs down?

[@johnkosinski4884]

I'm first to comment

[@egorizzagor9305]

pervonah)

[@alethalbich3775]

Up to 20min

[@ShaneGilson-q3m]

In born, but conditioning can make it feel wrong. Cultural conditioning social engeneering which does not always work. Just create friction

[@petritamallorca]

The moderator didn¨t get it...

[@d.bcooper2271]

Why?

[@petritamallorca]

we expect a man to make a choice for us in a date. Is that so dificult? Mostly we give you hints!! :)

[@d.bcooper2271]

The most frequently expressed complaint men have about women is that, women are always trying to change them. When a woman loves man, she feels responsible to assist him growing, try to help him improve the way he does things. She forms the home improvement committee and he becomes her primary focus. No matter how much he resist her help, she persists. Waiting for an opportunity to help him or tell him what to do. She thinks she's nurturing him while he feels he's being controlled, instead he wants her acceptance.

[@sabaghide8139]

Example Doctor men easily can understand with the doctor women's because the experience is the some ( the experience is the some ) if they understand each other they can understand in every Field

[@d.bcooper2271]

Totally lie

[@mariankeller5852]

Common sense tells you.. two different people from two different background and genders will NEVER be equal..what is important to men ( their job..friends..sports etc) and whats important to women ( relationship...family..security) is not and never will be the same ...we are wired differently and run on different hormones..that because of DNA and genetics cannot be altered

[@sabaghide8139]

My comment is men experience is in office with knowledge more comnictat with different Peaple but women they are in the kitchen with pots and kitchen mean wth kitchen items I can say womens life is Lock in small room ,so the experience is in different fields .now we don't tloret at these time.we are in journey to fill out place , means the world is 1/2 men and 1/2 women so we are the the 1/2 society if we are missing the world is not full world .do you know we are the lights of the world, we are the maker of the society, we are the the continuation of the new generation So if men understand these ,then open the door for women's ,be by their sides

[@d.bcooper2271]

It's like you can *impregnate yourself*

[@Byrial]

Im in permanent cave-time, don't know for how many years it will last LOL

[@sabaghide8139]

When all humans came from our mother we are the some like the white pepar no words ,how the world faced us differently we are become different,these different is humans made different and we con fix we humans

[@kerrikalverda6340]

Does this interview talk about masterbation? If so, where? Thanks!

[@Gigi-Anai8c7l]

it's so funny and also nice to see this guy understand that men do not have to give advice (unless requested) and just listen...hahaha men are like little neanderthals...this guy comes from a good place tho, hopefully more men would be interested in learning John's teachings as well

[@melissaclarkson479]

❤

[@meteor901]

I just don’t see where he considers women in the workplace in this common era. Nothing is as it was.

[@eileenstack255]

🙋‍♀️🇮🇪🍀☘️🙏🏻

[@jillianhood668]

How is the interviewer oblivious to the fundamentals from Johns first book? Instead of John going into his new book he has to regurgitate everything from previous books to the the guy interviewing. The interviewer is a goober! Randy ruins it.

[@ALk-hu5mi]

I respect this man, but all he says sound like theories of the 50s..we're not there anymore

[@ShaneGilson-q3m]

I can repeat everything she says.