Big Girl REFUSES To Be Rejected | THE BUTTON

[@MastaApachi]

I'm surprised Aba didn't remember the asian woman that came on.

[@AbaNPreach]

Even Aba forgets people in this Cut/Jubilee cinematic universe

[@dfredankey]

Where’s the replies@

[@dfredankey]

@@AbaNPreach 🤦🏾‍♂️ he’s human after all

[@FlatTireMG]

@@AbaNPreach It's the blue pill dummies!

[@splyketv7386]

Don't blame you

[@TheAVJ2]

this is slowly morphing into a "who can hit it first" game rather than a dating game

[@ResidentReveler]

Always has been *points gun*

[@TheAVJ2]

@@ResidentReveler lol

[@glennestrada3736]

It's like musical chairs!

[@agentk5991]

Thank you!

[@sumayyahadetunmbi4347]

Fr

[@redclayscholar620]

I would never watch any of this button cringe content on my own but these guys make it so much better with their commentary.

[@LadyCoyKoi]

YES! I don't even know this exists!!!

[@movements5000]

So true I tried to watch this without the commentary and it don’t hit the same

[@OrderOfTheDragan1429]

Facts.

[@devus9793]

That goes for all jubilee type content they react to for me at least.

[@ericschwegler7514]

facts

[@Cyberthug2000]

The embarrassment of POSSIBLY being rejected is more powerful than that of POSSIBLY finding love. Humans value fear more than hope. This is crazy. Your pride can be your worst enemy.

[@balorthedreamer6792]

But that's only until only hope is left keeping them going........ you'll see people cling to it as it's their lifeline.

[@malomemadman]

Religion is responsible for heinous BS. But a majority of faiths warn against this. This is why I am honestly a misanthrope. "My pain. My fears. My insecurities. My narcissism. My pleasure. My prejudices. My this. My that." People are too batshit insane to resort to reason. Facts. Progress. I have been in...COUNTLESS arguments. Countless situations. Where I was like... WHY??? Ofcourse I know why. But it still feels like a dick punch to the brain. Only a matter of time. We deserve extinction. Our hubris is going to end us. And I can't personally wait. Ttash. Just.. trash.

[@abdiabdi1990]

@@malomemadman wth are u talking about?

[@johndavis9321]

Big facts

[@Orophile_303]

exactly.

[@Vitone22]

It’s sad that most people see rejection as a bad things. It’s ok if not everyone likes you, life goes on.

[@coreybrown1817]

DAM right

[@davemccage7918]

The guy that hit the button so hard he broke it is my new spirit animal…

[@IndellableHatesHandles]

Part of it is that the show makes it so that you're disqualified immediately

[@lighter_than_some]

What about if you get rejected by every single person.

[@s3rye306]

​@Rainbow_Bea, then the problem is you. If you get rejected 10 times by 10 different people. Than the issued isn't those 10 people. It's you

[@thedevilsadvocate3710]

I love human nature on display. None of them even wanted to really get to know each other. They just didn't want to be rejected.

[@973newarkavelli9]

💯

[@CoachMacho954]

Pretty much sums up today's dating culture.

[@Reggdoesstuff]

@@CoachMacho954 just said this to myself. Its a damn shame

[@markbach2085]

Goes to show you how much physical attraction is the main factor at play

[@TheSilentserpent]

All those wman were: tattoed, fat and even if they were not those 2 things i only saw 2, 3 and 4 on looks the 4 is for the Asian but with the tatto is a 3.7.

[@b0nez89]

This is turning into a game on who can press the button the fastest rather than finding someone to date lol

[@__-bz7wh]

It's just cringe

[@pantsenfuego9986]

Successful dating shows don’t the clicks. Have to admit, the cringe this show provides is much more entertainment worthy.

[@loves2smooch384]

They're Soo afraid of rejection , it's very eye opening

[@SoullessFN]

Stupidest show of all show

[@user-uq7sk9yg9i]

🤣

[@MrLthr1]

The Button is a very cringey category, but, I do like watching you guys decipher everyone’s actions and reasoning and seeing how spot on you are.

[@Soldierzero0]

Jeffrey Dahmer: when he sees Black people *video on my channel*...

[@av4781]

They need to go on that show

[@tedwallace9828]

@@av4781 I don’t think Aba can handle the cringe 😂

[@lossnt557]

Category

[@sorina9130]

I'm 666 like have a good first of October

[@neskii7005]

5:43 after numerous rewatches of this video, I just noticed this girl gave bro a homie handshake LOOOOOL this girl was unserious from the jump😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@fizzledwar]

My first wife was Asian I'm white. Her parents weren't thrilled I was white but they told her "at least he's not black". So ya Asian parents are not shy about that. Y'all were 100% right about that...

[@redacted461]

Most people are like that even Arabs and Africans. Dating out is taboo

[@reke9942]

@@redacted461 True but there's something about Asian women compared to other women when it comes to black men. Example i can walk up and talk to women from any race and more than likely they will be cool about it but when it comes to Asian women.... most of them get easily intimidated. And this is not even in a pickup way! This has been my general experience for years in the UK. I find it so weird because when I talk to Asian guys our cultures are so similar and we get along so well.

[@RedDevilStudio]

@@reke9942 think it depends on what you do. If your a lawyer, doctor, banker, professor etc then you'll have no problems

[@Mr_Archer15]

@@redacted461 Africans are waaaaaay more open to dating out in my experience than a lot of other races

[@reke9942]

@@RedDevilStudioI run by own creative business and teach at a university, so I dont see my proffesional background as that big of an issue. It just seems for the majority of Asian women black men are last on the list in terms of potential matches. I know Abba was joking when he talked about "levels of disappointing parents". But this bias is true from my experience. Also this isn't me complaining. It's just my general observation on the matter.

[@AZrakoon]

This game is a reflection of real life. Everyone is so terrified of rejection, they reject others before they could be rejected. Regret is worse than rejection.

[@ArchThaBoss]

HIT THE NAIL ON THE FUCKING HEAD!!!

[@AZrakoon]

@@uk9383 good point. We need to love those who value us, not value the ones we wish we could have. My hope is that all of us learn that lesson. Sadly some will never understand.

[@xelloskaczor5051]

wasting time is even worse, nobody you meet on the button is ultimately worth anything

[@imgettingold9407]

@@uk9383 wow... that is deep... so true...

[@TheDarkGBJ]

@@xelloskaczor5051 more than likely but you never know. Asian chic looked aight to me 🤷‍♂️

[@freshlysaltedfishing8500]

This show shows us how much people are really afraid of rejection they will hurt others just to not be hurt themselves. "Look ma im famous"! lol. Nah fa'real though, Almost 10k like thanks everyone!

[@semanticalman7802]

Reminds me of the quote "The best defence is a good offense"

[@rondz1234]

More so People are full of shit...... They know the sec they see someone its Yes or No...but theyll go along for the ride...

[@LoneStoneMaalik]

Soft ass shit. Rejection don’t feel good, let’s be real, but I’d rather be rejected, than someone lie/pretend to like me. Or lead me on. Low self esteem & low self worth is real out here.

[@pantsenfuego9986]

Quit acting like you’ve never had impossibly high standards.

[@hiroshi7025]

I feel sad for the big girl. You can see she's not living it easy. Hurt people hurt people ig.

[@dredpool3927]

8:12 it honestly might be an ego issue when people rush to reject you. Their pride might allow them to say, “Since I pushed the button, that means I rejected you and it was up to me if we got somewhere or not!” But when it comes down to it, it makes you look insecure now that I think about it.

[@rhey81]

Something about this game brings out something primal in us. Its like why go through the structure of the game to meet someone. If 1 of the cast was feeling somebody, screw the game, go talk to them when filming is over with. Why do you feel the game is the only way your gonna meet someone?

[@rooknado]

@@rhey81 They don't "feel the game is the only way your gonna meet someone", that is LITERALLY the point of the game.

[@jamaldawkins6321]

This show also emphasizes how easily people will lie as to not “hurt” feelings. Those dudes know they would’ve rejected that big girl from the start given the chance

[@theezenriarinze9203]

Well when you say ppl you men because women generally don't hold back.

[@ceciliai.ogwude2845]

Word

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

**Moto Moto Theme starts dropping...**

[@av4781]

A lot of people are just shameless cowards

[@eddieb1995]

@@av4781 because we don't date obese lard balls? Ok I'm a coward. Lol silly wamun

[@ariella1454]

This is a good social experiment to show how afraid people are of rejection.

[@Dylan-yh3yk]

Or people are afraid to be seen as a dick by immediately rejecting a heifer

[@evonne315]

Thier spiteful. Like preemptively.

[@stephengallagher2209]

Afraid of rejection and exercise and salads and soap.

[@shernetteanthony1359]

It's usually the rejectees outside the experiment that try to hog the buzzer! They have that desperation the whole time , pretty sure they wear it everyday!

[@jaxcoss5790]

​@Dylan-yh3yk what is a heifer?

[@kiley679]

Please keep doing these. Especially with the redpill pickup lines. My mom just had brain surgery today and I saw y'all posted. Kept me sane in the waiting room.

[@anim8dideas849]

Good luck

[@chippyonline001]

I hope you and your mom are okay.

[@TheCaznut]

Godspeed to you and your mom!

[@endonyxoneaudio8644]

Wishing your mom a good recovery 😊

[@TheReelLifeOfStacey]

Much love to you

[@amberlightrunner4696]

"Is it yourself or has no one ever pursued you?" The eye narrowing that happened on her part was lethal lol

[@Gnomkiller2000]

I'm seriously wondering when companies will understand that me being forced to watch a 15 second add will push me away as a customer

[@dexterwilliam6941]

Soon brother, hopefully soon

[@michaelh878]

If there are not watching ads you are not a customer.

[@TomaszDK]

They are not trying to make you turn off the vid, stand up, and go out to purchase their product. The more times you see the add, the more their product is placed in your mind. So when it comes to buying something, you would have forgotten the add, but remembered the name, and you will go "ohhh I've heard about this company/product before, it must be ok then". Try next time you go to a store, and pretend you are there to pick up something you would never need, for example tampons. Go to them, and see which name your brain tells you to buy. We hate ads, but they do work. Source: 3 years of Business College with a Higher Commerce Degree (HHX in Denmark)

[@YoutubeDictatorship2024]

@@TomaszDK this right here. It’s the same tactic dictators use, except in a very different way. Keep telling the same lie over and over and eventually people will come to accept it, even if they know it’s a lie.

[@samuelmeier1617]

Hate to break it to you but the youtube- servers aren't run by air and love. Go buy youtube premium. If not , you should be glad companies are willing to subsidise your free video streaming I guess...

[@EnraiChannel]

The button is 100% a show to laugh at people rather than them actually trying to form pairs.

[@tengoodquestions]

And im all for it

[@GIO77ification]

Remember the game shows back in the day? This is pretty much the new form of them lmfao.

[@trippen4391]

@@tengoodquestions facts 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@trippen4391]

@@GIO77ification lmao

[@EyeofValor]

Not to mention majority of these people are criminally insane.

[@chrischahin578]

she literally went as far as she did because she had her hands close to the button. She knew she was going to get rejected.

[@u.s.s.chucklefucker1657]

Yeah if she held her hands anything further than 10 inches away, she'd be out after she rejected the dude who was into her.

[@GIXXRBRAH750]

Obviously she deserves it

[@TheWoodfordreserve]

Well yeah, fat people are really good at figuring out ways to exert the least amount of physical effort, the closer her hands are, the less work she needs to do!

[@tumaggz]

Says a lot about how she handles rejection in every day situations..

[@asiakym]

Omg! I spit coke all over my keyboard when he said, "You have brought dishonor on your whole family..." lmfaooooo!

[@redram5150]

The title made me believe the big girl would flat-out refuse to leave the stage. And, honestly, that would have been more enjoyable

[@amritashar9592]

that's what I thought 🤣

[@shmazpootaz4331]

Well they’d have trouble moving her off stage XD

[@Yellow.1844]

idk, they made her do more exercise by leaving than she does in a week🤣

[@kbill4478]

She couldn't get her fat ass off the chair lol

[@roastedtoast5461]

Same lol

[@thevanicant5364]

In my teen years I was very scared of rejection and it really messed with my self esteem , and as a guy I didnt know how to deal with it I just took as a "Im a weak gent and I got to toughen up". Legit after years of tryna my best to fight that fear it just clicked one day "why am I tryna gain some mf approval" and for no reason my confidence just sky rocketed. To whoever this may concern, bruv if you love yourself for who you are rejection doesnt sting that much. love u for u and stop gaining ur worth from others ppls approval.

[@steezgawdextraswa6906]

im in my teens and yeah, same problem

[@joshuaiyanuloluwa2256]

Do you think the years of training also helped in that realisation? Most times people know this advice, but it is hard to get out of that state without action being taken. Maybe the years of proving yourself to YOURSELF, through training accumulated into what you saw as a eureka moment?

[@codemiesterbeats]

I wouldn't consider myself shy but I am probably picky...not really into many girls...based on character. Really am fine being to myself but never shot many shots. I am no good at small talk. Like a divine comedy, there is a gorgeous gal at a place I eat often... I am trying to crash course but most likely I will look like a blithering idiot but I plan to chit chat next opportunity.

[@thevanicant5364]

@@joshuaiyanuloluwa2256 I believe I added "worth" by learning new skills(I started playing rugby and training dogs) and these new skills gace me confidence as I gained more experience from them and as a person I just found myself. Like I said it just flicked... I just cried from pure relief when Saterday when one of my friends just hugged and she told me she has seen me change over the years and its impacted her. So I really believe it was a gradual change there was no instant transformation, I merely just noticed after some time.

[@andergarcia4953]

Man I just started shooting my shot more and getting used to rejection is whats been helping me.

[@thenextbondvillainklaussch3266]

Aba is like a clairvoyant , he literally looks at these people , and gets it right 99.99999% of the time.

[@thedappermagician6905]

Goes to show that if you have development in self awareness and have made it your business to interact with people as they are, the majority of humans are not difficult books to read by any stretch of the imagination. Why need to read everyone's story when they share the same templates and tropes 99% of the time?

[@thenextbondvillainklaussch3266]

@@thedappermagician6905 Yeah true

[@johndavis9321]

@@thedappermagician6905 all facts

[@PaddyMcMe]

I imagine watching the video before hand helps too...

[@TondrilaTube]

@@thedappermagician6905 =srtrrssrssa rate rater rye t rye r6

[@joydip5106]

8:11 this is what I've been trying to say, but you put it exactly how. It bearks my heart thinking that I belong to a generation where there's less love and more convenience. People have completely misunderstood "Self love" and "Self worth" and they are going so far away from the version of love I believe in, that i feel scared about not finding love ever - even worst , being with someone I think in love with me but in reality , I just happen to be the best OPTION for her. I wish i was not born in this era of internet

[@HelloKitty-iq8tt]

“Belong to generation” Boy what stop pitying yourself you’re a great person (maybe) don’t let a stupid thing like that define you?

[@whattheflimflam]

So glad I'm in a relationship. Everyone is seeking perfection in their partner when perfection isn't a thing. It's so hard out there in the dating world.

[@M67v]

So true in my experience a lot of my female friends say I have all the right qualities to be in a good relationship and yet I’m so overlooked. I bet it’s the same for many many men out there, youre practically invisible.

[@ANPC-pi9vu]

I recommend trying to find someone through mutual interests. That's how my bf and I found each other. I know it's a lot harder on the male side, but if you meet women through mutual interests instead of bars, clubs, and dating aps, you will have more chance of connecting with someone. I wish you guys luck.

[@M67v]

@@ANPC-pi9vu Annoyingly, none of my friends want to put me on 😑😑😑😑 gatekeeping mfs, but that sounds like great advice tho. I feel like that would def work. I appreciate it.

[@Stop_Gooning]

The best relationships are when both partners improve each other.

[@mammymountain2057]

Facts

[@lucasbroome1048]

The Button is basically The Good, The Bad, & The Ugly. The viewers watch in suspense as we wait for one to draw their weapon and see who can fire off their shot first

[@Dr_Hoops_McCann]

Damn, I like that comparison!

[@ninjabreadman8166]

@@Dr_Hoops_McCannThough a heretic, you are correct

[@CoOlKyUbI96]

I think this video in particular also highlights how ridiculous some of the questions/remarks can be. Like what were they thinking when asking that guy to talk dirty to a stranger in front of a camera for the whole internet to see???? Tf???

[@davipenha]

They are all the ugly!

[@DoobieKeebler]

"The Good, the Bad & the Button". You can thank me later.

[@judethemave]

I feel like the button would be a better segment if participants didn't know when the button was pushed. Like 2 participants have their personal clickers that they conceal in their hand, and then they can click it at any time during the interaction. The catch is, only the viewers know who rejected who first. It's such a plus because it'll be fun to see at what point each participant loses interest.

[@leilava8965]

I actually fw this idea

[@bluevillsplash]

I like this

[@fionabrennan9148]

I like that~ currently it just seems more like a competition of who can hit it first

[@T-bellll]

Oh man, awesome idea!! The would change the whole dynamic of the show for the better!!!! Maybe email the creators and tell them to hire you lol. Seriously good idea

[@judethemave]

@@T-bellll thank you. I'm glad you fw the idea. I should consider emailing the creators tho. I'd want to get into show running

[@GG.Sanchoo]

“I’m only 27 I don’t know what I want” you’re not that that young and you don’t know what you want, that’s a sign of immaturity

[@jcgamer1650]

"I rejected him because he knows what he wants" Like what? You rejected him because he planned out what we wants in life? 💀

[@s3rye306]

​@@jcgamer1650 like what... you reject other people because they know how to plan there future. If you still don't know what you want at 27. Than you have some issues. At 27 you should have a general idea of what you want. At 20 I know what I wanna be doing by 25

[@sonderexpeditions]

It was 🧢🧢🧢. She didn't want to say the truth.

[@rhey81]

​@sonderexpeditions if he was a white guy shed be down. I live in San Diego. Asian and hispanic are our biggest minority groups here yet youll never see them coupling up. Im mixed, moms black father is white but i look Mexican. I learned the hard way why I could never land an Asian girl. She didnt hit the buzzer early because it would have been a bad look. If he buzzed her, she had an out, she at least looked like she was game but when it got real she showed what everyone already knew. Shes trained well but actions will always speak louder than words.

[@old_dan]

This is basically a competition on who can reject who the fastest. I'm so glad I'm out of the dating pool because this is depressing.

[@buckaroobonzai2909]

I'm out too. Dating just isn't worth.

[@Metalbringer92]

Count me in. There's so much to discover in life other than finding a partner.

[@gasserhegazy1267]

Arranged marriages are better

[@AllMyGabens]

@@gasserhegazy1267 Lol. "I can't figure this shit out on my own so I'll have Mommy and Daddy purchase me a bride."

[@gasserhegazy1267]

@@AllMyGabens yesssssir. It's like I'm shaking a dice. But it's not like they forcing me to be with that specific someone. Or they forcing the girl. So I think it's ok. If both parties wanted this

[@mattdiliberto4967]

Man, she's pretty quick to reject people for someone who's never had a boyfriend

[@Hi-fd4cw]

Hey don’t blame her, she just knows her worth! Obvious sarcasm just in case you weren’t able to tell

[@myyt3824]

She’s the reason why.

[@noname-ip9xe]

We know the answer why she never had one.

[@iwillgowiththatcat8667]

I mean idk what you want from people I haven’t had a boyfriend only crushes and interest but I would reject others bc they didn’t seem the right to me

[@physicalgrafiti12345]

@@iwillgowiththatcat8667 Sure.

[@Arcadia6227]

Lets be honest. This show has nothing to do with relationships or getting to know eachother. Its just kill time until you press the button

[@Sophia-q4x]

I saw a comment about how this game would be better if pressing the button meant you leave, not them. That way rather than people being encouraged to reject each other as quickly as possible they would be encouraged to finid things to like about each other. Thought that was not a bad idea (but def less entertaining).

[@xsomewhattoxic]

@@Sophia-q4x Show would be cancelled within a month, no drama = no clicks = no $$$ from ads. It would need to have a double blind variable, otherwise people would just game the system even more and lie to keep themselves in "the game" longer. It's not about finding love, it's all about inflating one's ego, but yes the person who presses the button should be the one to leave; especially if they press the button more than once.

[@pascaleelliott63]

That girl given one final chance to buzz heard "Dishonor on YOU! Dishonor on your COW!" and snapped!

[@vcassol6989]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 🐲

[@jaylenlenear3944]

Props to Carlie for admiting she pressed defensively

[@Joshpower57]

Why?

[@henchme976]

The honesty is respectable. It pretty much serves as an admission that she thought she was gonna get rejected. But she was honest instead of trying to save face.

[@Michael20]

is carlie the fat cow? im just skipping around to the good parts

[@dys1525]

She is smart. Smarter than pushup bro for sure. Not smart enough to lose some weight though.

[@citrusbutter7718]

@@Joshpower57 Because most of them would dance around the truth acting like they're too good for the options for why they keep buzzing the button, but she at least says why she kept reaching for it.

[@IceQeen1011]

We need a reverse button - person who presses first loses and leaves. Would love to see how crazy the contestants get

[@purpleseer5323]

Exactly that would make more sense, if you not interested move out. This is just a competition of hitting a button.

[@tinyflyingdragons9432]

Yes yes

[@rabiahahmad6466]

Great Idea

[@paulagonzalez5286]

Bc then people are gonna act terrible to get the other person to leave first

[@eddv6090]

Then would be less awkward to escape the situation, and way more cringe to the people who stays watching everybody leaving (LIKE THE POOR GIRL WHO GOT A FURRY)

[@bilalkhares4932]

No one wants to be rejected so everyone rushes to the button. The bigger girl was quite crafty in how she got the guys to be away from the button like getting one guy to do push ups and then the other guys moved back to do the armpit farts.

[@louisnaika0]

I think she actually liked him but she made distance Incase he didn't like her.

[@ferrisbueller9991]

Fat chicks have to be witty. Honestly I really don’t have too much sympathy for her. She has a pretty face, she isn’t cursed as being unfixable. And this show is like tinder... I'm certain that she has an easier time getting dates than I do despise my healthy body type. Goes for the average guy overall, she has an easier time. She shouldn’t be expecting to have a chance with a dude who also isn’t obese OR a guy who is a chubby chaser. She could cop a guy from a chubby dating sight who is well built.

[@yingyang7448]

@@ferrisbueller9991 Ngl, she'd prob be traditionally a real looker if she lost weight.

[@Rowsy91]

@@ferrisbueller9991 yeah reminds me of this girl Kayla that went to my high school. She was the fat one that hung out with nothing but 8 or better popular girls. She was the one nobody ever took a swing for in the group Then one summer, prob started actually a couple months before hte summer the previous school year, but she came back from summer break a total knockout. Once she had a good body you really noticed her face was gorgeous. Def was a lot of guys upset they didnt put in good ground work before the change lol

[@v1nigra3]

@@yingyang7448 that’s like most fat people out there lol

[@carlysheree3130]

HAHA! Oh boy! I literally just discovered you guys and I have tears of laughter streaming down my eyes! You guys are refreshingly honest and deliver comedy through the understanding of peoples behaviours. As a white girl I find this content gold! You’re not afraid to go to places where others are uncomfortable to go. You both say things as they are with astute deliverance which in todays cancel culture is a diamond in the rough.

[@starboythekoolkid]

That button press from the asian chick was brutal.. "It's an evil world we live in" - Future

[@silentmeklar1783]

Bro I didn’t expect it. When she did at the very last second I was like 😯

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

Bruh.

[@irritatingtruth9121]

Honestly, I’m just here to laugh at all of it. But that made me pause and go, “That bi+ch”. Bro she is 27!!! And the words outta her mouth is, “I don’t know what I want”…..WHAT!? Isn’t that why you date? See if that’s what you want? Idiot cat lady.

[@Arcangel2992]

@@silentmeklar1783 bruh she smiled the whole way too lmfao

[@jayclearmen411]

@@Arcangel2992 Facts She was Treacherous!

[@attkdriver]

It has to be impossible to hangout with you two. I’d be laughing nonstop.

[@EsthiexLy]

Forrealllllll💯💯💯💯😭

[@Rebel084]

Deadass lol

[@xquetzalo]

That's how you detach a rib

[@nadeenzamora]

LMFAOOOO 😂😂😂 💀 these two had me ROLLING at 11:42-11:59. I replayed that part FIVE TIMES and i kept laughing harder & harder. They are too much hahahahahahah

[@joeyg29jgjg]

The only thing more sore thank my belly would be my jaw lmao

[@AA-qt1hi]

This game is sinister as fuck. I don't care for that feeling of rejection. I wouldn't go out of my way to make someone else feel that so would be one to say hell no to this weird ass dating game. People are just trying to out smack that button while maintaining a fake sense of getting along with another. Nah..pass me with this shit. I am so good with being on my own and not suffer the foolishness of other

[@Reshme77]

You are smarter than most of the people here.

[@derpwadder]

Word how did this show go on for so long

[@veryshortclips9039]

This is just reality, stop being soft

[@e.starling141]

I mean... they have to be paying these people to do this right? I just can't imagine volunteering for this punishment.

[@LethalByChoice]

@@veryshortclips9039 It's called courtesy and respect.

[@elderxemo92]

That damn laugh and the hyena edit had me dead what the gudge yo! 😂😂😂😂

[@thewhat6219]

First dude looks like a life sized Chuckie doll. Sounds like one too.

[@ElvisMarrero]

Hahahahaha😂😊

[@thomasarnoldcoe6527]

The laugh was a bit much

[@brettstarks1846]

“Is it yourself or has nobody pursued you?” LMAO. Seriously though, in a more honest society, those men would have pressed the button ASAP.

[@dreadheadgarage]

And the fact she got pressed just goes to show the answer to that question💯💯💯 nobody can be honest with themselves anymore tho, always have to have an excuse for themselves

[@datboiashy2957]

I feel as if The Button was really just an experiment on human psychology, just advertised as a dating game. Because it’s extremely hard to get to know someone with such shallow interactions and one-sided conversations.

[@kabirchohan335881462]

A good fix for this game would be to not allow the guys to all sit together and to not allow the girls to all sit together either. As soon as someone gets rejected, they go back to the main room and then the guys/girls want to just reject the other person to get some pride back for their gender 😂

[@happilyevernever4289]

That's smart. But I'd say separate girls and guys sitting with each other before going in as well. Otherwise it's easy to figure out which gender is getting rejected more.

[@smellme6313]

Or… or… the person that presses the button leaves? They are incentivized to push the button right now. It’s stupid. If you find someone you like, you win. It’s like they are encouraging losing.

[@timboslice9905]

This show is a reflection of how fake people can be. Person 1: Oh my God! I love your hairrrrrrr! Person 2: Oh, God, your nails are so gorgeous! Person 3: You have pretty eyes!

[@etttie1]

True

[@404GameAndMusicProducer]

1 Oh wow girl you lol look good in that dress 2 Gurrrllll thank you know it b1tch 3 i know right slay b1tch slay Sounds so fake asf Me thinking too myself okay So is that a date

[@AdaHazard]

Fake, or polite?

[@timboslice9905]

@@AdaHazard If you’re giving compliments to cause a person to relax so that you can reject them before they reject you, would that be considered polite? How would you perceive it?

[@londiswamkhize1064]

@@timboslice9905 I get what you're saying but I don't think they're doing it to make the other person relax (if that's what you meant). I think it's just because of not having anything better to say or anything else that you like about the person so I think it is just being polite because you want to say something nice as opposed to just sitting there and showing that you have zero interest or initial attraction to the person. Of course nobody wants to be rejected first but I don't think it's linked to the compliments given and it doesn't mean the compliments are fake.

[@Tsimak]

She played herself 😂 She pressed the red button on the only man who was actually kinda into her. The problem is that we never ask if we are our 'type's' type. As in am I the person this hot man I like would actually pick out from a line up of girls to date.

[@vivek27789]

True.. Very True...You hit the crux of the matter. 👍

[@lslewis]

"Flesh and blood did not reveal this unto you."

[@johndavis9321]

Big facts

[@J_Chips]

Introspection is a skill many people lack it seems.

[@Lhoyte1]

I think girls do that moreso than guys

[@rizingpho3nix]

As a man being rejected is a normal thing that has helped a lot of us get tough skin. Damn this show is 109% about the fear of rejection.

[@blondie9422]

I’m a good looking woman (so I’ve been told by lots of people) but am mildly autistic and have also faced much rejection and abuse (once they talk to me and realise I’m a bit off it is like the enthusiasm completely drains out their faces) I will not let it defeat me. Although at time it has definitely weakened me. I will always get back up again. We can do this ❤

[@simppolice944]

@@blondie9422 w femcel

[@marcusanark2541]

​@@blondie9422100% Great attitude!

[@blondie9422]

@@simppolice944 Nah not really. I have had long term relationships (it’s just been a bit harder for me to find other ND people) I think my previous relationships have been ADHD of some sort. I also don’t dislike people when they do reject me as long as they aren’t really nasty about it. I’m not everyone’s cup of tea and that is absolutely fine. I’m just saying that people shouldn’t internalise self hatred if they’re a bit different and not for everyone.

[@blondie9422]

@@marcusanark2541 Thanks 😃😃❤️

[@traek8742]

This show just shows how bad the dating world has gone. No one is willing to give the other person a chance, they base their shallow opinions based on appearance and not on personality. This is not good for future generations.

[@topshelf5032]

Thats how it should be

[@smellme6313]

If you’re fat, I don’t want to date you. Millions of men would agree because it’s unattractive. That’s biological and I honestly don’t care if that’s offensive. Telling people “it’s 100% their personality” is pathetic gaslighting.

[@zaer-ezart]

Don't pretend like you're any different my guy. We all do that, you, me, everyone. It's only natural

[@samuelcorriveau3216]

The problem with this show is not cause by the fact that people think that everyone is disposable. It's the consequence of 2 things. First, people don't like being rejected, and second, people are guided by there first impression (or feeling) , which include physical attractiveness and perceived status or group identity.

[@Errdaystock]

It’s gets so deep, because I feel like we all have had an experience where we didn’t like someone at first but we grew to love them, But perhaps the opposite is worst. Loving them at first and finding out they suck.

[@slyguy2572]

@@Errdaystock loving and finding out she sucks is worse. Denial is a bitch. Imo

[@nathanw9770]

They need to do a blindfolded episode

[@kellynantonacci7885]

Humans are visual creatures. I’m not saying the person has to be your version of a 10, but there has to be some physical attraction there. For both you and your partner. It’s nice to be desired by your partner and for you to desire them. I, personally, don’t want to force myself to try to get aroused by an ugo.

[@tomferguson9250]

Yup, they build up this whole scenario in their head of who/how the person & relationship *could* be, then when that doesn't happen, they get upset about it. This is the real world, not a Disney movie or some stupid rom-com.

[@bensmith6773]

The Asian parent thing hit a little too close to home - meeting my Asian girlfriends grandparents was brutal, no English was spoken but damn I could just feel her almost getting disowned...and I'm a white dude.

[@100navat]

That's surprising usually Asian parents love when they bring home a white boy

[@hado.uken_]

@@100navat *Grandparents* and they don't speak English. That's too big of a generational leap. She may have been pushing her luck. But maybe the parents didn't have any issue tho.

[@bensmith6773]

@@hado.uken_ you are correct, the parents were completely fine, the only one with the problem was the grandfather specifically - awkward situation to say the least.

[@tengoodquestions]

You should’ve shat on his front door to exert dominance

[@RavenTeamCharlie]

Yup, I feel for you brother.

[@generalagony]

I’ve never cried in y’all’s videos from laughter but the red pill pick up lines had tears rolling down my face. Good shit guys. Keep up the great work.

[@dredpool3927]

Bro Aba didn’t even keep a straight face on that first one🤣😭💀

[@symbolgames1670]

the first guy makes his voice sound like "like zoinks scoob, i'm going on the button man! like, velma broke up with me scoob, i need a rebound!"

[@morganwhite2176]

The ‘big girl’ that is referenced in the title - it wasn’t her size that was the problem, it was her character. Horrible. She was mean to the nice guy and then when she got the guy who she fancied, he just thought she was overweight, so she pretended to be all nice to try get him. Karma.

[@remssa]

she was honest, unlike everyone else in the video

[@finfog4590]

@@remssa She has a small pool to draw from, so I think shes insecure.

[@edith_ing]

@@remssa I don't think she's honest. She seemed fake and looked uncomfortable. It's like she was trying her best to make the guys to like her but she's very afraid of rejection, and that's why she rejected them first

[@dumbfoundedkiryu9468]

No, her size is also a problem. Fat women and dudes are nasty lmao

[@zawarudo1041]

Size is the problem here as well, it indicates at least issues with managing healthy habits and diet too

[@AliFrostinho]

The lack of courtesy people show each when rejecting is crazy

[@PaddyMcMe]

I GENUINELY SCREAMED when she pressed the button at the end. That was ruthless. I don't know maybe it's a result of my lived experience but I just couldn't imagine a woman doing that to me when the vibes felt that real.

[@lelelew2735]

When people say racism isnt real just show them this lol. If colorism and racism wasnt a thing then there would be no obvious expectation for a certain group of people to reject you if you have black in you. Black is seen as tainted its ingrained in alot of cultures minds. Yet we cant admit racism still exist.

[@PaddyMcMe]

@@lelelew2735 ... Was this comment meant for me?

[@lelelew2735]

@@PaddyMcMe yea

[@IcE-_-Kidd]

@@lelelew2735 What Does Race Have To Do With Her Hitting The Button? She's 27 And Doesn't Know What She Wants So Instead Of Getting Into Something Without Solving Her Personal Situation First And Potentially Ruin Things She Decided To Hang Back Remember If You Love Something Let It Go If It Comes Back It's Meant To Be

[@lelelew2735]

@@IcE-_-Kidd she pressed the button because she wants a husband she dont see her family accepting a black man lets not be naive thats why most asians dont date black

[@J.J.Jameson_of_Daily_Bugle]

"I am 27 and still figuring things out" You've got to be kidding, when you're gonna figure out shit, when you're 60?

[@Zeverinsen]

I still maintain that the button thing would work out so much better if they would be excusing themselves when pushing the button, rather than rejecting the other person. *I hope they change it!*

[@dominichoward4833]

Great idea...

[@Masked_SVincent]

Nah I’d rather them tell me straight up

[@ergoth154]

You should be limited to 1 button press

[@bekejakab]

We can all agree this show's not about dating. It's all about rejection and revenge😂

[@3dinasaursgaming658]

I have never seen that show, but you guys showed up on my feed, and now I'm hooked. 😂😂😂

[@Irichan08]

9:54 brotha is slick. He kept his hands close to the button so he can beat her to it. He had it planned out the moment he saw her. She was playing checkers while he was playing chess. 😂

[@thegamingkitchen8429]

They should've called this show : "I'm scared of being hurt soo let me hurt them before they hurt me."

[@AmrYousef72]

15:34 Top 10 anime betrayals BRUH

[@gh0rochi363]

Why she even say that second date nonsense 😂

[@natman2939]

17:04 I’m legit pissed. I’ve never seen one of these stupid red buttons that actually went to a second date and I was really really rooting for that guy

[@Arteolike]

They need to split the button somehow. Only let one person press it at certain times, this way it takes away the insecure retaliation-rejection from the opposite side.

[@josephatherley]

Let each person have a button below the table so the other person can't see

[@cheesesteakphilly]

Or a person who already pushed it once cannot push it again. Or you push it to eliminate yourself.

[@freerights6695]

@@cheesesteakphilly naa

[@hotmess9640]

Or they both press a Button in front of them and whoever presses their own first wins

[@ralegade7710]

Just give each of them a clicker to hold.

[@ekco64]

17:41 PREACH: “Twenty- too old!” 😂😂😂

[@theone77443]

16:05 “you have dishonoured our famiry”😭😭😭

[@docmcfly3933]

The zooming out while Aba and Preach die of laughter is one of the funniest things I've ever seen.

[@purplewavs1277]

@ 5:42 Are we not gonna talk about how Carlos dapped Carlie up!? lmao When he saw her he knew she wasn't in his preferred dating range.

[@coryjayeu]

Shit had me dying 😂

[@animeandninten]

KING CARLOS

[@profitablepat9374]

I saw that 😂

[@17libni]

He speed ran through it

[@AliFrostinho]

To be honest, some of those questions from the button are certified relationship enders. I mean who is armpit farting and talking dirty to someone on the first date? Those things barely pass when drunk bro

[@e.starling141]

Yes! Thank you. I was questioning those prompters as well. Almost like they WANT to embarrass people.. 🤔

[@maxhatush5918]

Wrong. A real woman is fine with gettin real down n dirty after just meeting

[@samsonthewyrm9396]

@@maxhatush5918 are you ok in the brain?

[@maxhatush5918]

@@samsonthewyrm9396 excuse me?? Pls elaborate…

[@samsonthewyrm9396]

@@maxhatush5918 no

[@LethalByChoice]

The people who do this are the kinds of people that die alone. You HAVE to take rejection in order to find somebody. Period. End of story. If you reject before you get rejected, you're just shooting yourself in the foot and self-sabotaging, and therefore you deserve your own fate.

[@Vasilia4]

In this game you definitely need to make sure to press the button first if know someone will reject you. Otherwise you cannot meet anyone else

[@LethalByChoice]

@@Vasilia4 I mean why? What's the point? Why waste your time? These people should just go on a dating app or actually meet people in controlled spaces who are likely to be their type like in certain social groups, because idk if you noticed but Cut has a tendency to bring on the worst kinds of people who most people wouldn't touch with a 10-foot pole in the dating world. Just seems like its a waste of time and they're setting themselves up for failure. They should just walk away and do something better with their time than sit and play some rinky dink dating game show to embarrass themselves and other people, a dating game show that's literally designed to use people's feelings for entertainment. 🤷‍♂

[@kingmo565]

I love when the big girl says she's 24, and asks him what his normal age range is. You know he was thinking "my normal weight range is definitely under 200lbs"

[@arielwesley5794]

😮

[@TheSpeedyTouch]

"I'm only 27, I'm still trying to figure it out" Oh boy, this one's gonna hit the pavement hard.

[@thewatcher9546]

Catch her then

[@XanderZ0ne]

You know a video is a banger when it starts with an empty room with Preach's God gifted laugh

[@cynthiaisako]

Absolutely !!!

[@EsthiexLy]

Lmfao💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@ogfallingoverthemoon]

I was having such a tough night, you guys absolutely lifted my spirits so much. The editing in this video is *muah* chef’s kiss!

[@DogsCoffeeNJesus]

9:25 That's respectable. That's the truth for most people that we're too ashamed to admit, but it's natural. Nobody likes being rejected, you can say you don't care, but deep down inside it hurts, especially for someone who may had been repeatedly rejected before or otherwise has insecurities. Ideally, we take rejection as a normal, neutral thing, some people will love us some will hate us, understanding we can't be people pleasers nor win them all, but in reality we struggle with it and rejecting others before they reject you is a defense mechanism that can escalate to something destructive.

[@steve.mcbride]

RedPill pick up lines had me crying. One of my favorite moments from you guys.

[@deshaunmuhammad52]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Le0xo]

Wow that Asian girl pressing the button on dude last second fucked me up. Almost screamed bruh 😭 💀

[@jakesimp3583]

She's ASIAN. It's in their DNA to hate dark skin while worshiping our whiteness 🤷‍♂️

[@ssky-rt9nm]

This episode had me in tears. You guys are on point every time.

[@hawkboy000]

Hahaaa I’m dyinggggg “fufu nigga” 😂😂😂😂 My parents are from Ghana

[@visitstothebank]

The button just shows how some ppl will rather self sabotage and take a chance and find love

[@gdurand]

First guy reminds me of a girl that wanted to drink my blood while we did the deed. Got heavy chills.

[@newsavefile]

Where can I find women like this? Asking so I can avoid them of course.

[@Oreocycllo]

🥴

[@arandajose20]

What?

[@strongmonk5094]

Don't know about the chills, but homeboy had some feminine energy

[@damnedifido1062]

Vampire women do be hittin different

[@Manullus]

I'm honestly disgusted and saddened by that show. It just reflects what dating has become and how afraid people really are of rejection. To make a game out of it and broadcast it on youtube sickens me.

[@geminikid609]

Because it shows the realness of humanity?

[@dalehoward3704]

@@geminikid609 or rather the flaws of humanity.

[@Rowsy91]

its at least a real reflection of the dating experience. I see no issue with that. If people want that to change then all they can do is change themselves and hope others grow and do the same. But fear of rejection is the #1 motivator for lack of action in the dating scene for most people

[@ovielleburgan5673]

Man y’all take everything personal , I just simply showing human nature it’s really not that deep

[@mcevan1222]

@@geminikid609 id say moreso what society has devolved into, dating was never this bad until the past 20-30 years 🤷‍♂️

[@unclelink]

6:45 she looked like she wanted to beat him with that button! "How dare you ask ME questions? I ask the questions here!"

[@rosemerk1015]

I am crying 😂 love these reaction videos

[@AuntTDoes...]

The way you two make me laugh is therapeutic😂

[@hexedits369]

😂 💯

[@bxi1547]

No it’s seriously overkill.

[@AuntTDoes...]

@@bxi1547 If by overkill, you mean dying from laughter, then yes.

[@bxi1547]

@@AuntTDoes... No how hard they’re laughing at stuff seems forced.

[@AuntTDoes...]

@@bxi1547 Oh, I see what you are saying. I didn't see that. I laughed out loud. But we all have our perspectives.

[@sugarskulllyfe5890]

im glad to hear she admitted shes 27 and doesnt know what she wants. people should openly discuss that more

[@Rcurtis777]

That’s a regular thing too it’s so weird that people don’t admit it

[@FirstnameLastname-yc2mt]

You believed that? That was a bad answer if I ever heard one. If that's the case, why is she even there? So she can meet someone who also doesn't know what he wants and be in a confused directionless relationship?? Maybe it was race, maybe it was something else, but that's a cop out if I heard one

[@iMsOiNsO]

@@FirstnameLastname-yc2mt could be that’s why she’s there. People who DONT KNOW what they want clearly can end up in any situation….why? Because they DONT KNOW what they want. Wether it be they start joining threesomes, hoe around, play around with peoples emotions….anything

[@FirstnameLastname-yc2mt]

@@iMsOiNsO you sound like some teen who watches too much sex stuff. That answer made literally no sense. You're not equipped to give any kind of advice or wisdom

[@iMsOiNsO]

@@FirstnameLastname-yc2mt Lol yes go towards made up assumptions in order to attempt insulting someone. Very predictable 🤣

[@MichaelBurnsGuitar]

This is fucking savage, Karleigh and Josh BOTH reaching for the button after a single minute of totally normal conversation? WTF

[@Gringorican]

16:08 DISHONOR! DISHONOR ON YOU! DISHONOR ON YOUR COW! 🐉😂

[@zawarudo1041]

The armpit fart guy has quite outstanding technique 😂 that was quite profound 🤣

[@justv7370]

The first guy scared the hell out of me, gave me ted bundy vibes 🤣

[@NickM_FirstofHisName]

Conceited anger.

[@justv7370]

@@NickM_FirstofHisName yea 💀 having a high pitch forced reactions is a dangerous sign 🤣

[@NickM_FirstofHisName]

@@justv7370 I don't know about the high pitch, but as pointed out by ABA and Preach, his face lacked expression. That was concerning!

[@moonie1825]

Wasn't ted bundy like some handsome smooth talker

[@mickethegoblin7167]

@@moonie1825 yes he was. This person has no idea what they are talking about

[@xXxPurplePillxXx]

It just shows how quickly we decide if we find someone attractive or not. Literally one glance and finito la comedia.

[@thekid8224]

That's why people talking about the beauty standards is dumb to me because everyone knows what an attractive person looks like

[@MJ-py7dm]

Finito la comedia 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I was having a bad day, this was my first laugh 🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤩

[@xXxPurplePillxXx]

@@MJ-py7dm lol now imagine me saying this with an Italian accent

[@junichiroyamashita]

Should be "finitA la commedia" since it is feminine.

[@salineaddict9850]

“The other one knows what he wants, and this one.. doesn’t know anything” LMFAO Aba that was gold

[@herewegoagain4041]

9:37 if you watch her eyes. She was upset that he positioned himself very close to the button. She knew she was done at that moment.

[@misskizzz]

I saw that too! 😂 Her entire demeanor was a turn off; defensive & sneaky with getting them to move away from the button so she could hit it first 😑

[@redlikerum]

Carlie being 24 was a HUGE shock. She looks older

[@Sesshomaru474]

Drugs does that to people. By drugs, to me I include alcohol and cigarettes. And I this is a hot take/suspicion... Being loose also does that.

[@savagefarmert]

I take the suspicion that she’s just overweight and that naturally makes you look older? She doesn’t look like a drug addict to me

[@omega0195]

@@savagefarmert yes! Because she's fat

[@christiansoto9755]

@@Sesshomaru474 what? lol. she just needs to lose some weight.. Overweight makes you look older naturally.

[@Laoriginal718]

@@Sesshomaru474 she wasn’t on drugs or a heavy drinker. She’s white. We all know white ppl age like butter milk in 90 degree weather.

[@miguelheat]

That little voice "you have brought dishonour to our family" cracked me up 😂😂

[@erichodge567]

Only the truth is funny.

[@dredpool3927]

15:36 BRO FUCK THAT BUTTON, BUT WHY DID SHE SAY NO?!!!😭😭😭🤣💀

[@shiftteamzo9980]

I’m sorry did anyone else see Carly and Carlos dap each other up like they was homies around 5:50 😂

[@sylents8005]

She lasted 1 round too long. None of those guys wouldnt even talk to her otherwise let's be honest

[@Abandoned2377]

She hasn’t had one boyfriend. Why is she there. If she’s looking for a dude at 24 and hasn’t had one relationship she needs to get some help.

[@CB-rv2lj]

@@Abandoned2377 I need help in my life. I'll admit that. But the only help she needs is a gym membership and self control in the kitchen.

[@Jacob-ed1bl]

@@Abandoned2377 She not only needs mental health but also needs to drop at least 100 pounds. She's only going to get bigger and have an early death.

[@foxyroxytm]

@@Abandoned2377 it’s her weight, 100%. I was overweight most of my life and extremely insecure. I lost 90lbs in my mid 20’s and met my now partner of 7 years shortly after I lost weight, because I believed I deserved love at that point and wasn’t terrified of being rejected because of my weight. I would have never put myself out there otherwise.

[@mylem6234]

@@Abandoned2377 She needs help because she’s looking for a guy at age 24?

[@tilled6695]

you can really see the true happieness yall have making some of these videos.

[@ipolhss928]

Starting with his laugh is a big.I love you guys