Revolutionary Road: He doesn’t want her to have an abortion

[@JoJo-mm8sn]

This is what happened when they both survived the Titanic.

[@LifeAdviceSite]

Oh my word. I was so into the discussion I didn’t even realize it was those two until I saw this comment. 😂😂

[@reem_aaa9392]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂you killed me

[@isminartikadang7717]

WOW TRULY SO SURPRISING

[@angelcanetemurillo4037]

hahahahahaah

[@ladob2011]

Omg😂😂😂😂

[@SJMJ91]

Kate's American accent in this scene was just incredible and to give such an emotional performance on top of it. Such a wonderful actress.

[@SK-ut6tw]

It's actually horrible.... You can her her posh British right in it. Not a bad thing just makes her words and emotions unbelievable because she has trouble with American tone. There is no really grit in her voice when she tries American accents. Idk wtf you're hearing lol.

[@cmdjk1]

I thought she was terrible here.

[@tmm4195]

@@cmdjk1She struggles using an American accent, but she has improved with it tremendously

[@cmdjk1]

@@tmm4195 Yeah she definitely struggled with the accent. But to be fair I’ve not watched this movie nor much of her other stuff.

[@G4_38]

⁠@@cmdjk1where’s the parts she struggled huh?

[@mimi-zj3br]

This movie is depressing... The most romantic couple in Titanic became one of the most toxic couples in Revolutionary road.🙂

[@Ikcj127]

Totally true!!!

[@bobbysochocki4521]

Yeah for real

[@femaleg4l546]

In titanic they are sweet but in this movie they always fights seems toxic

[@patriceaqa288]

@@femaleg4l546 there's nothing worse than being in a relationship where deep down you know it's utterly flawed and doomed. Trying to cling to it is a horror show in the making

[@onamattapeeya]

And in both movies the character Kate Winslet played was a B____

[@beth.darvell]

It's not so much that she didn't want the child, she didn't want that life anymore. She wanted the child if it meant they could still move to Paris and be fulfilled, to carve a new life for each other and their family. But the pregnancy represented being trapped in her life and she knew exactly what would happen. The mundane repetition of suburbia is what she wanted to abort and Frank refused because the unknown was terrifying to him.

[@applemoneroy7371]

This. She was willing to compromise and have the child as long as they could move to Paris but he wouldn’t budge and I felt so bad for her. She was trapped.

[@khazana24]

Yes, exactly. It didn’t have to do with the child, it had to do with that would mean for their future. She was desperate and ready to get out of her current life and the pregnancy just threw a wrench on that plan. People are unnecessarily conflating this with her not being grateful or not wanting to be a mother.

[@anneb889]

So the ultimatum of we move to Paris, or I abort our child….because I’m so miserable with the monotony of suburbia? What is going to be different in Paris? Frank will have to work, she will have three children to care for. Culture? She’s a train ride away from NYC, with all the museums and diversity of cultures there are. April would still be April in Paris….with all her mental health issues….

[@bravesoul5743]

I could totally relate to this point! This is exactly what Kate's character is going through.

[@bonniebrown1566]

Murdering people who get in the way of your “fulfillment” seems to be perfectly acceptable these days.

[@freddybonilla2472]

Kate & Leonardo's acting is so Strong and Powerful

[@mattewclubb5882]

@@freddybonilla2472 and the baby don’t forget the baby, he or she makes this scene

[@neorin4904]

I watched this movie before marriage and hated her character so much. I couldn’t relate at all why she is so unhappy, why she doesn’t want a child. Watching again after having a baby of my own, I see her now front a total different Point of view. Having a child when you are not ready is a traumatic thing a girl goes through . I get her, I feel her.

[@jeremypabalate9349]

But then again, contradicting to other comments here, April wasn't selfish. She did her best to make the family happy and have a better future by giving his husband a proposal that she knew could change their marriage. Sad thing, the husband chose to listen to other people and accepted the promotion compromising her wife's happiness.

[@carlaconnor8347]

Why would you hate her character anyway, you moron. She feels trapped and is suffocating from her life. She doesn’t need anymore justification.

[@szarahsshow5321]

We all go through traumatic things, it’s part of life. Us a a parents go through the trauma of having children as a sacrifice for them to have a chance at life. The innocent lives of babies shouldn’t pay for the mistakes we make as adults. She said herself, she made a mistake. She’s should be the only one to have to live with the consequences of the mistake. I personally feel I made the mistake of having my son too soon, but I would NEVER make him pay for my mistake. I will take everything out of myself & give it to him because that’s what his innocent soul deserves. I made the mistake, so I’ll be the only one to suffer, thank you very much. The dude in this video is right, no loving mother with a stable head on her shoulders would even consider for a second killing their own child on the off chance of living out and unrealistic fantasy. None of us would be here today if it weren’t for the sacrifices of our parents, & their parents, & so on. I have no respect for those who know they aren’t ready for a kid yet choose to have sex anyways. You cannot think you are responsible to engage in the risky act of intercourse, yet not take responsibility for the risky consequences.

[@emma_luce_1123]

So you're a selfish narcissist? You're exactly the same as she is. You don't value your child at all.

[@ldv02]

@@szarahsshow5321 well said

[@veronicaelizabeth2554]

He repeatedly trapped her and gaslit her. No wonder she felt lost and empty. Mothers are human too. Mothers have dreams and aspirations beyond caretaking. He was selfish to keep her there and too scared to think beyond his own comforts, and she was too disenfranchised to walk away.

[@josephinakeam6197]

​@Tyler J Abortion wasn't even mentioned in their comment, so I'm not sure why you felt the need to entirely dismiss their words in order to interject your thoughts on abortion, rather than respond to what was written.

[@InsomniacDreams]

@Tyler J Lmfao they don’t even know they exist. Stop reaching

[@abhidaddy384]

if she wants to move to paris and he doesn't its not his fault , you're a woman that's why you're seeing from her POV , why would a man abandon his well paid promotion in a job and rather shift to a whole new country where the man is unsure about the financial security of their family , even though if the wife can work and provide for her family on her own , it wouldn't be fit for the man to just sit at home

[@josephinakeam6197]

@Abhi Daddy Who says he has to sit at home while in Paris? He is free to find other work and/or other activities. I don't know if you watched the beginning of the movie, but he was miserable as hell. He felt unfulfilled and disappointed in the man he had become. His wife could see that he was miserable... that they were both miserable. If her husband was enjoying his life, she would be less likely to suggest a change. If you're unhappy, then do something about it, I think, is her point.

[@veronicaelizabeth2554]

@@abhidaddy384 Did you even see the film? He wasn’t happy either. He also agreed to go to Paris before his promotion. Once he found a way to make HIS life better, he disregarded what would make HER life better. A marriage is a partnership and he refused to compromise. Her tried to make her feel bad for wanting more for her life besides motherhood. Motherhood is not a goal for all women and it certainly wasn’t the only goal for her.

[@CK-et8gt]

Everyone focusing on the abortion hasn’t watched the whole movie, this is not about the child this movie is about the horrors of societal pressure and surburban life that they sold in the 50s. You can see both sides when you watch the whole thing, its heartbreaking.

[@vanesajalsovec4133]

Finally someone said it! I loved the way movie represents the psyche of the people who lived in that era but hated the characters they represented - so traditional, so self - repressed, most of them always trying to be so nice, that it is so horrible for them when someone finally says the truth about how miserable they are.

[@Ilikefrogs..]

The amount of gaslighting in the scene. You can love your kids and still know that you can't take care of any more of them.

[@alhouseine]

Jack and Rose arguing, that's so ironic.

[@CheerfullyCynical829]

Titanic = teen fantasy. RR = a little over the top but way more realistic.

[@MC32595]

this would’ve been jack and rose 20 years after titanic, if jack had survived 🤣

[@amoththatthinks]

@@MC32595 lol

[@lennygriffin2761]

​@@MC32595 not true that would've been so out of Character for a guy like Jack.

[@myliamag.6512]

@@MC32595 Are you 5 years old? This is called ACTING. Stop comparing these two to Jack & Rose. It's so beyond it. Kate & Leo are very dear friends and have such CHEMISTRY on screen, playing happy roles or traumatic ones. They understand and know each other's ways of acting/working. This is a masterpiece.

[@CatherineBirch-m5r]

You'd think that he was the one carrying the baby. Such a control freak.

[@sparkle-e6l]

Oh so it is a baby

[@Blooming_Crystals]

@@sparkle-e6l The point is he's acting like he's carrying it. Also its a fetus not a baby, a fetus is a clump of cells, they are not babies yet.

[@KO_116]

@@Blooming_Crystals they are definitely babies? Fetuses mean babies there’s no difference, we are all “clumps of cells” but that doesn’t mean we have no value

[@Alvinshotjuicebox-u2t]

@@Blooming_CrystalsFetus literally means “offspring,” not “clump of cells.” If it wasn’t a “baby” it wouldn’t be considered “double homicide,” when a pregnant woman is murdered.

[@ylangleygib94]

This is such a good movie. It's a little dark at times but their chemistry together is unmatched! True talent!

[@emilyl6746]

A lot of marriages are like this sadly. I was lucky to be single for a long time before I got married. Gave me a real chance to figure out who I was and where I was going before connecting my life to someone else.

[@lailabel5443]

Lucky u I wish I didn’t get married at the age of 19 😢 it makes me so sad to even think about it 😞

[@BekahMarie11]

I got married young because I got pregnant. I wish I would have things differently but it’s a choice now. I have to choose to love the life I have now. No one told me that.

[@jennahowell2127]

Whenever a man says, "we're going to fine. Everything is going to be fine." Just fucking run.

[@BekahMarie11]

My husband tells me this all the time 😂

[@mau345]

Haha depends. Sometimes we need someone to tell us this

[@Gabrielangelcastro1996]

Ok... so if he doesnt say it, you stay? Whats the difference lol

[@danan1313]

Empty positive promises without coming up with any solutions

[@turtleboy991]

For all of you teenagers watching this; if you insist on terminating your pregnancy, at least go to a licensed medical professional. History has shown that self performed procedures never have the results you're looking for, and more than half WILL end in you dying. I'm not kidding about that last part, seriously. And that's all I have to say about this

[@affel6559]

TO ALL TEENAGERS LISTENING. DO NOT GET AN ABORTION. IT'S MURDER OF YOUR OWN FLESH AND BLOOD.

[@affel6559]

@@bunkyd Praying for you. This is the reason for your mental health problems. Make no mistake about it. You cannot kill babies unrepentantly and live a healthy life. Please pray to mother Mary to intercede on your behalf. She will pray for you and make sure Jesus saves you from the devil. God bless!

[@whitepaws1338]

How about telling the teenagers to wear protection or not have sex at all until they’re old enough or married it’s not that hard

[@affel6559]

@@whitepaws1338 they should abstain until they want children. Sex is not only about pleasure. It's main purposes are obviously reproduction and bonding with your spouse.

[@turtleboy991]

@@whitepaws1338 Because they're kids and kids make stupid mistakes more often than you'd think. Not only that, they're just gonna wanna do it more if you tell them NOT to

[@millennialodyssey5956]

All they had to do was hear each other out. There was middle ground there. There always is. Very heartbreaking story that happens too often. Not necessarily with the same ending.

[@ni3070]

I don't think there is

[@Project1nol]

Nah. He is too deep in self deception at this point. No way to get him to say what he realy feels.

[@cherylhulting1301]

Frank so immediately dismisses April's proposal that they continue the move to France and she gives birth there. That in itself was a compromise.

[@animeruinedmylife9833]

​​@@cherylhulting1301prooting his career and risking financial security to move to France is not a middle ground LMAO 😂 I cannot with some of these delusional chicks in the comments who clearly just want to blame the man in the relationship for everything 😂

[@73cidalia]

@@cherylhulting1301That was not a compromise. A compromise would be figuring out what she thought Paris could give her and trying to recreate some of that. A change of place, a change of scenery, perhaps a trip to Paris, and some more support with the family so she can pursue a passion project, etc. Her entire life is being a mother, and while that’s a beautiful endeavour, she’s lost herself.

[@gloriajj]

this movie was a 2 hour argument...and i loved every minute of it.

[@maggnify7844]

I feel her pain when she says “i guess Paris was a pretty childish idea, huh?” Anyone who has ever lost their first love after they had planned their whole life out with that person knows this pain. While i know theyre talking about moving to another country, this part feels like it can be applied to love to. “I guess we were just 2 kids in love.” “I guess we were.” “You will be happier with someone else.” “I hope so. I really hope so.”

[@miaalvarez2007-g3o]

Omg, that made me cry

[@xxxmochibaby]

She didn’t just lose her love but she lost her freedom that’s what she’s mourning the most in that scene. But yes heartbreaking

[@kristeandreatujague7016]

I love her use of the world "childish" - ironic. Such a great script. 💙

[@mattewclubb5882]

@@kristeandreatujague7016 and yet she dosnt want a child because she wants to move to paris

[@veronicasantana6493]

It's always easiest for the man to discredit the role of a woman and all the sacrifices she has to make once they marry and start having children. I hated Frank's character from the beginning and I loathed him by the end. She might've killed herself with actions but she was thinking of everyone in her decision; Frank only thought about himself and what others would think.

[@cherylhulting1301]

I always notice that Frank never answers April when she asks him point blank if he actually wants another child. That speaks volumes to me.

[@angelcitygirl]

This movie is devastating. It's so depressing to watch these two people so full of hopes and dreams in the beginning and then....

[@judihart9658]

"&then."🤭👍😎

[@J4sse]

Take a shot everytime someone mentions Jack and Rose.

[@steppeman4712]

I know I'm replying a year later, but to conclude your quip, I'd be drunk to death by now 😅😂

[@lioness2000]

That's how you end up in the hospital lmao

[@jerryrooster22]

I don't know how many times I've have this argument. She's right and I cry my eyes outs every time.

[@KZ-mx7on]

Wow, he basically manipulates her into thinking she’s crazy, they both don’t want a child and he knocked her up so he could stay living their fake life

[@Nursegirlalexandra]

Lmao that is so inaccurate

[@garnachowoodutd]

the fact that she was going to kill their child without telling him is sickening and repulsive to think of

[@zeanes5953]

That’s not the thing at all

[@Luclllre]

@@garnachowoodutd I feel like you’re missing the bigger issue

[@jakklynnkkkk5722]

Divorce him

[@Vmtdj6848]

This is the movie that should have gotten Kate the Oscar

[@generalsheperd5864]

'leo

[@Vmtdj6848]

@@generalsheperd5864 both

[@jameskardys3452]

She DID win the Oscar that year, but for a different movie.

[@KrisWolf4]

Well, as long as he doesn't have to carry the child. It's all good when it's not directly affecting your life!

[@mattlagassa9084]

Exactly. Imagine how the child feels

[@theredstar6493]

18 years of child support would say otherwise But hey money grows on trees and he won't have to burn his body down working to earn that child support, right?

[@nooneasked32]

@@mattlagassa9084 pretty sure the fetus doesn't

[@mattlagassa9084]

@@nooneasked32 fetus is a Latin word. It translates to offspring. So, the attempt to make a distinction between a “child” and a “fetus” is superfluous. Given that the word child is synonymous with the word offspring, no? Also, if someone in a terrible accident lost all feeling below the waist, would that then mean it would be okay to saw off said person’s legs? Because your logic seems to be: as long as a Being cannot feel an action being done to them, then any action done to them is justified

[@nooneasked32]

@@mattlagassa9084 all i stated was that it does not feel. then ur over emotional pro life self jumped to conclusions saying that i stated something which i clearly did not. who knows maybe i disagree with abortion 🤷‍♀️ i've never said anything in support of it. All i stated was a fact. And yes there is a distinction between fetus and child. That's something ur taught in middle school sex ed.

[@ninatheresia1204]

Kate's acting is so amazing ... you can feel her breaking in your bones the moment Leo says: 'I guess maybe it was'

[@MegaPrincessviolet]

The way he trying to tell her she's crazy is making me so mad 😡

[@mermaidmomma3696]

But she was being dysfunctional. Esp. Considering the times they were in.

[@cherylhulting1301]

@@mermaidmomma3696 She was refusing to kowtow to social pressures to conform, something April and Frank talked about constantly. But when push came to shove, it was April who still had the courage to offer a compromise. Frank didn't.

[@cozy46]

That's gaslighting 101 right there. A person says how they're feeling and the other person calls them crazy. It's happened to me, many times.

[@Raquelwhatzhot]

Yes a woman having children is traumatic and takes her energy and life.

[@jout738]

But why did she has daughter, if she didnt want to have daughter. That does not make sence.

[@AlastorsShadowDemon]

@@jout738 Because back then, women didn’t really have that much of a choice. It was expected. Women *HAD* to settle down and pop out a bunch of babies, and be subservient to their husbands.

[@tcb6857]

My wife said having children was one of the best things she ever decided to do. Now she has two sons that love her.

[@Raquelwhatzhot]

@@tcb6857 I’m sure you are a way better husband then Leo

[@Nursegirlalexandra]

Then don’t get pregnant ?

[@jaymac8496]

Jack: You shoulda just let me freeze😂😂😂😂

[@joewhitehead3]

Considering abortion was illegal everywhere back then, I’m surprised they’re talking about it like it’s an easy option

[@AlastorsShadowDemon]

Abortion being illegal never stopped it, that’s why. It just made it more dangerous back then.

[@onamattapeeya]

​@@AlastorsShadowDemon a smart person would not try to do something so dangerous, a smart person would have avoided getting pregnant or just sucked it up and had the kid

[@AlastorsShadowDemon]

@@onamattapeeya Sucking it up and having a kid you don’t want isn’t smart. That’s how kids end up with abusive parents and living in a home where their parents hate each other…if they even stay together. Being smart would have been telling her husband to kiss her ass, then going to get a safely done abortion.

[@jillmayer9501]

@@onamattapeeya she is acting out of desperation. A "smart" person would have the ability to empathize with that. They didn't have the same contraceptives at this time that we have today. A smart man wouldn't have cum inside her.

[@onamattapeeya]

@@jillmayer9501 okay I actually agree with that hundred percent, smart guy would have pulled out

[@simsandwins8998]

You see Kate’s character much differently after you get married and have kids are your own. I used to hate her, now not so much.

[@MisstressMourtisha]

This is why choice is a big deal

[@emma_luce_1123]

Not really. Plenty of people still find her despicable and a sorry excuse for a wife and mother.

[@ehirimngozi7808]

This is a movie and not what you take seriously learn to understand reality from make believe

[@2legit2quit4u]

So true.

[@YeshuaKingMessiah]

Having had a baby, let alone several-drives home the fact she IS a sorry excuse of a person to go after her own baby.

[@leo_luvrr]

kate and leo are both SO talented

[@SteelRaider17]

What I will never understand is how men care so much about someone a life who is not even in this world rather than the actual mother who is carrying the child. The woman who is crying for help saying this unborn baby would destroy her mental health, not to even mention the physical trauma the female body goes through during pregnancy, birth and after birth and how painful and dehumanizing the process is; being cut up, tissues torn, bleeding profusely not being able to sit right for months. A woman can only do this if she's in the right mind, and if she chooses to go through the process again. It makes perfect sense if someone doesn't want to go through again for their mental peace, physical health and ambitions but men are more willing to care about someone who isn't even this world yet as compared to an already living breathing human and her emotions.

[@LuckOnLock]

This is so true. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@kelseyj.c7828]

The foetus could be male.

[@snehavermani5696]

This comment is so sensible 💯

[@pierrepasquel8957]

Aaah, pro-choice…. They consider someone who is in a woman’s body and not yet out is simply “not yet in this world”, then they say we pro-life are the intolerant and radical ones 😏

[@katlyndobransky2419]

Are you absolutely serious?! A man has as much rights to an unborn baby as a mother. An abortion should be both of their choices. Because the baby is both of theirs. An unborn baby is alive too…

[@kira24ist]

I feel for her and I am not a mom. To try to change the situation that you are stuck in and want out - but the other person doesn’t listen, and fills you with empty promises. They play the victim, when they can’t see how miserable you are feeling, and they even have the audacity to say “not now, give me time to process”. Well fuck, pretty sure she’s been processing and reprocessing this for years and feeling miserable. So no, no you don’t get more time! At the end of the day, the conflict is that the other person doesn’t know what they want. In this case Leo, doesn’t know what he wants, he wants to make it work but fails to see that its not working. So a change needs to happen but he refuses to accept it.

[@cydniyelldell7553]

Love Kate Winslet, one of my favorite movies cause of her. And her and Leo are so great together. Very relatable, so depressing yes lol but you sympathize with her. So sad that sometimes things can change and turn from love to this, but it can happen to anyone in any relationship. Communication is key though, even if it's hard to speak sometimes.

[@nehasamreen3563]

Leo's acting is just next level 💯 ❤❤❤❤❤

[@JhatemClaasen]

Yes ❤

[@BDavis820]

She brings out his best performances.

[@kaypandey7221]

They should have divorced. How miserable are they.

[@MC32595]

this is based back in the 50s when divorce was taboo

[@TDKiller415]

@@MC32595 Divorce still is taboo in some communities 🤣 You should've seen the L Word fandom complaining about why Bette and Tina were written as having divorced, pissing on Rosie O'Donnell when she was cast as Tina's new fiancé, and demanding that Bette and Tina remarry 🤣🤣 Lesbian community still lives in the 1950s where one woman has to be the dominant alpha male

[@onamattapeeya]

​@@MC32595 that doesn't matter, divorce has been around for centuries, that would have been the smartest thing for them to do

[@atheon596]

@@onamattapeeya At the time in the US, there were no no-fault divorce laws in any of the states. Back then to get a divorce, you needed to show evidence that the partner was at fault for the breakup. This obviously wasn't very helpful for cases of emotional or financial abuse since there's no way to prove that the partner said something unless you had a recording(technology being very limited back then, no tape recorders) and women weren't expected to have their own finances during the 50s so there is no way they could be financially abused according to them.

[@melaniemelanin]

From her point of view he wants to stay at a job that destroyed their marriage. He he hates it. She hates that it took all of his time from her. He cheated with her on a coworker from that same job. He promised her he’d quit. I think it was about saving the marriage more even if he hasn’t gone to Paris and had gotten a different job I still think she would have respected him more. She’s lost her mind but he helped her there.

[@sonofblessed]

We're gonna be okay, I promise, just this time don't push me off the door.

[@tranha3616]

"Dont I get a say in this?" Not really dude 😂

[@noseholekibi]

Such a heartbreaking scene 🥹💔

[@Someguythatlikespizza]

After careful thought and analysis. I don't think Leonardo Dicaprio wants Kate Winslet to have an abortion.

[@ariellaablang7511]

After consideration and evaluation of both the video and your comment, I think you're right

[@christinabaatz1204]

There are lots of men like THIS man making a woman feel bad or guilty for NOT wanting to be pregnant .😒 My ex- boyfriend would make me feel guilty for wanting to have a job. He wanted me to give up my job which I refused to do so. I broke up with him. I am happier being alone. 😊

[@michaal105]

It's immoral to murder a child. Abortion is literally the termination of a human in the womb. It's sick. Repent of your sins. Believe the gospel.

[@hotchocolate-x6m]

You go girl. Don't let men ☕ decide your life. It's "your" life... Embrace it!!

[@christinabaatz1204]

@@generalsheperd5864 Forcing woman into becoming a mother , when she does not want to be a mother is disgusting .🤢🤮

[@cherylhulting1301]

Smart choice.

[@christinabaatz1204]

@@cherylhulting1301 I thank you and have lernt that he didn't like my financially Independency . 🤨 I am free from control and being told how i should live my life.

[@moll5086]

She felt completely trapped

[@SweetJeopardy]

Sooo clicking on the comments section was a mistake

[@Joyful2320]

Leo’s acting is amazing

[@devesongs]

Proof ladies, follow your dreams and goals. Having a child isn't they only thing women are meant to do in their lifetime. Don't live just for YOUR MAN.

[@aryamanbhadauria1584]

But still is killing a child worth the sacrifice for a dream

[@bries285]

Preach !

[@cherylhulting1301]

​@aryamanbhadauria1584 Not a child until birth. And April offered to keep the child if they could still go to Paris.

[@anuugoo]

Turns out this was a very depressing movie

[@DMKnight1990]

Lol Jack and Rose in an alternate universe, where Rose shared the door and they both survived. Turns out Jack is just as toxic as Cal 😂

[@hotchocolate-x6m]

Jack is NOT Frank. Jack was an angel... Frank is just a regular human.

[@DMKnight1990]

@cimmerianfable lmaoo noted! Haha I've never watches this movie but now I know not to compare frank and jack lmao

[@moll5086]

The acting was superb.

[@jaileigh]

My story is the opposite. I was pressured into an abortion by him. Nobody at the clinic is prepared for that mentality. Who want the baby, but feel ashamed to admit it.

[@AshleyONan]

Thank you for coming forward w this. You’re not alone.

[@cherylhulting1301]

I'm sorry. I worked in a women's clinic as a defender and staff should be trained to deal with that situation. It comes up more than people know and is flat out abuse. I'm so sorry you had to go through that.

[@73cidalia]

All these two needed was the occasional break from the kids and the mundane and to find some time for passion projects and fun and finding themselves-the selves that got lost in the day-to-day responsibilities.

[@samanthaberglund]

Well this is the moment there is no longer Jack and Rose, instead it’s April and Frank 😢

[@onamattapeeya]

Kate Winslet is such a good actress she made it easy to not like her character

[@shawnarose8496]

@JoshyHush I agree

[@slysdeliveryservice]

her character has the right on not wanting to keep her baby so i don’t see how that affects you.

[@Lorena-wo2mf]

You didn't like her because she doesn't want another kid and knows it would be irresponsible to bring another child into the world she did not want?

[@onamattapeeya]

@@Lorena-wo2mf hi Karen

[@Lorena-wo2mf]

@@onamattapeeya I'm a Karen cus I'm prochoice? Mkay

[@TDKiller415]

0:25 0:32 Everyone talking about Jack and Rose 🤣 Am I the only one who thinks that Leo sometimes sounds like Christopher Walken? 🤣🤣

[@IDidntWantAHandleYouTube]

Christopher Walken played his dad in Catch Me If You Can, so that’s fitting!

[@TDKiller415]

@@IDidntWantAHandleKZbin True 🤣🤣

[@michaeldatch]

So naturally, so professional 😮 Great actors ❤

[@Ave1821]

Crazy to see how Jack and Rose turned out

[@luciatat4084]

😂

[@sumeetdhoat6747]

Jack turned into Cal

[@hotelmario510]

This movie is like a horror film disguised as a romantic drama.

[@labelmeposh]

I think it's very close to reality & sometimes reality is a horror movie

[@EEllis84]

Such a sad line when he says "We can be happy here,i can make you happy here"

[@pamelahermano9298]

Somehow I imagine this is the life Jack and Rose would have had if he had lived lol

[@Jules2439.5]

Jack would’ve whisked Rose away to Paris in a snap, pregnant and all.

[@saltycat662]

Lol, no! Jack would have listened to Rose because he wasn't selfish. Neither was she. He would have tried to save his marriage instead of holding onto misery.

[@theclownwholivesinthemoaville]

no way! jack is level headed and calm. he wouldn't let fights go this far, he's the type who is carefree and is also a little passive. he and rose would've had fights for sure, but not this violent, they would've made up quickly

[@kristeandreatujague7016]

Kate Winslet. 💙

[@Solistastyle]

This is what happens when women subscribe to societal pressure to get married 😪 People like Jordan Peterson are making this the norm, telling women these are their goals. And this is exactly why his wife and daughter have very serious mental health issues. This movie is so relevant right now.

[@rahmisyafura7773]

His wife and daughter have mental issues?? Really? 😮 ive never heard about that before

[@Solistastyle]

@@rahmisyafura7773 Yes and he was "suicidal, hooked on benzodiapenes and diagnosed with schizophrenia." His wife had cancer and depression, his daughter has "severe depression, OCD, and type two bipolar disease." (Wiki bio) And he is considered a "Leader" in the west. 🙄

[@helojoeywala6622]

No that is not what hes telling women LMFAO, all he said was find a partner before you get old and its hard to have birth and take care of children, he isnt saying to them to get married super duper early and have kids straight away, hes saying use your early life to get educated and know who you are then get a partner and have babies when you're ready. Some girls get mature faster and find a suitable partner earlier so they are ready and happy to have a baby early while others are different. What jordan says is that getting married is important because it gets rather lonely without a partner and kids at 45 if you have been working your whole life till then, money is not everything.

[@Solistastyle]

@@helojoeywala6622 and the point of this movie is, it's worse being lonely in the wrong marriage. Look up the work of Dr Paul Dolan, Emily Grundy, and Dr Matos Dr Dolan is an actual behavioural psychologist, not a fake one regurgitating outdated data. Women are happier single.

[@Solistastyle]

@Lindsay Karashay Sounds like you are. Peterson's Hollywood marriages don't look the way he speaks of them. His own women are a red hot mess. He has serious mental issues as do his family. And this movie explains exactly why. Meantime, as per Dr Dolan's studies, the real women in the world doing what they actually want are Happy. 🍻

[@andrecampbell5893]

This is 90% of all marriages right now....trapped in a life with a head full of dying ambitions and dreams

[@nunyabuissness8058]

I watched this last year but i remember being so sleepy i barely remember this part

[@kortni_animations]

I had a childish idea once. This movie hurts my heart.

[@DaRealSuika]

So thats why jack stayed off that door.

[@Aniela-qv2py]

Kudos to you!! Great comment!! I was thinking the same

[@DaRealSuika]

Dang, was It really that long since I commented on this video

[@zeldak718]

I always wanted to be a mother and after it happened, I can sincerely say that its the best thing that has ever happened to me. I have always wanted to go to Paris, but I would give up never seeing the Eiffel Tower for my son. With that being said I believe April loves her children and she was a good mother, however she wanted more out of life, she needed more, and that ok. But I can see where Frank is coming from too, he is content with the life he has and was going to Paris because he wanted to make his wife happy, I feel so bad for both of them! This movie is so good, but so tragic!

[@FranSanTeeth90]

It's not Frank's body.

[@JR-Weh]

​@@FranSanTeeth90 could say the same thing about april.

[@FranSanTeeth90]

@@JR-Weh But it's a passenger in hers

[@anamei9]

Paris is overrated trash anyway 😂

[@vacaspen5038]

1st of all she is the mother and that means cause to be. The baby is being developed and her body is the agent, Maintaining the functions up and will burp the light. It is her choice he is the extra prototype. 2. He just wants drama and it'd be all about him. Seriously she won't need to perform one since she'll be too stressed out from her yelling

[@dopeylopey7451]

Honestly, all this fighting and yelling. He will be the one to trigger the abortion. They need to relax.

[@-maru-chan]

@@dopeylopey7451 I'm all against the idea of a husband getting to choose their choices at the end like how it was in the 50s, but for this instance, this movie, April is just too selfish. How she cannot handle her own emotions and had to push his buttons. Like for godness sake, she shouldve been able to communicate it properly just like how Frank tried his best. Imagine, just imagine, doing an abortion for your own needs to be fulfilled. Also not to mention when she was upset after knowing that they were unable to go to Paris, it resulted on her sleeping with Frank's friend. Altho Frank is also at fault too, but he mostly tried his best.

[@dkg_gdk]

Reminds me of a real life case of a pregnant teacher who didnt want to have another child. She told her husband, her mother and her friends. They all dismissed her, told her she would want the baby when she sees him. She ended up developing postpartum psychosis and killed the baby a week after delivery. Now shes in jail and her other two children have no mother because nobody supported her in getting an abortion.

[@AshleyONan]

He doesn’t want her to have an abortion? Wow where does such a man exist?

[@c.barrett5114]

He's completely right. Although my heart breaks for how hard this must be for her too

[@cherylhulting1301]

In what way is he right? He's totally gaslighting her.

[@kerriann04]

"It is a poverty that a child must die so that you may live as you wish."

[@Aniela-qv2py]

That old way of thinking that every woman should be happy as a mother.... And if she has other dreams, she is crazy!! It's unbearable

[@gion3250]

“You make it seem like having children is some sort of * punishment.” Exactly how the pro-choice sees the next generation of human beings.

[@Happygabby12345]

yea you missed the mark

[@cherylhulting1301]

Sigh. No, pro choice means exactly that - you CHOOSE whether or not to give birth. Your attempt to present it as "pro abortion" is disingenuous.

[@gion3250]

@@cherylhulting1301 I like choices that don't involve dismembering children 😂...

[@CeramicShenanigans]

Roe v Wade was overturned today. This is going to become a more common scene for so many.

[@thelemurofmadagascar9183]

More people not being able to kill their children? Sounds great to me!

[@ashleyunderwood4855]

Oh shut the fuck up. Don’t have sex then. Abortion almost killed me.

[@JesusisHere777]

Yes, more children being born. Instead of killing them. Yes.

[@shayleibellew4309]

Thank goodness.

[@IDidntWantAHandleYouTube]

@@shayleibellew4309Definitely. Unsafe, “home remedy” abortions that result in accidental death are good for society.

[@Noel-0noah]

jack is that you 😂

[@BRUNETTECANARY]

Yikes😢 Looks like JACK wanted to have kids with ROSE, a lot more than SHE DID with him😅😅😅

[@reyramirez6362]

Just amazing, performances like these you barely see in movies nowadays

[@annemarie8483]

Jack and Rose finally made it to America

[@janniklingnau6875]

Why no one like her. She is just a human.

[@ΠαύλοςΛάμπρου-ω4ζ]

A shitty human from what I've seen in this clip. I haven't seen the movie, but from what I saw in this clip, I got the impression that she placed her dreams and wants above her children. And since she already had children, that makes her a shitty mother and a selfish person.

[@KS-bs8xt]

1:03 She: How long does it go on .. . . . Me: It will go on and on ....😂

[@jackiegregory7716]

POV: jack and rose both survived the titanic and jack is experiencing his first child experience a few years later and rose isn't ready and jack becomes the new cal

[@kc-se9ov]

Jesus loves y’all beautiful souls 🕊️🦋

[@generalsheperd5864]

Thx

[@Idgaf_24]

Jack and rose in a parallel universe!

[@thisgirl5933]

2:28 He is totally right. Whether you want a child or not, once it is conceived, YOUR CHILD LIVES. It's indide you, just really small. Abortion is murder, of your own child. It's fucked up.

[@Womanfemale12]

Yes but people are blind

[@wurzellicht6657]

No abortion is not murder. Also not every live is worth protecting.

[@saltycat662]

@@wurzellicht6657 You're not God. You don't get to decide that.

[@wurzellicht6657]

@@saltycat662 Your "god" doesn't decide that either. Society does. And the society I live in decided that abortion isn't murder

[@courtneyraefl]

@@saltycat662 According to the Christian god, murder isn’t always murder either. So it is up to humans to decide when killing is appropriate and therefore sanctioned by god.

[@JayS.-mm3qr]

April was a nut, and more ok the "wrong" side than Frank, but Frank wouldn't budge on anything. 1:35 damn Frank, she was giving you an out, and you refused to take it

[@Disney65Fan]

Jack and Rose in another alternative reality. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sepijortikka]

So funny, heh

[@trollmagnet8265]

Yelp exactly what I was thinking

[@AhsanRaza-i4j]

Real face of jack.. Period.

[@prlortakoglu9744]

Jack and Rose start fighting again.

[@cathychase663]

I have not seen the movie but I definitely know what it's like to be trapped. I wanted to be an actress as well and everyone (my fam) and just the society writ large- said no marriage and children, (I did the latter but my marriage became in ruins)....much the same...I took on my children and loved them. I also had an abortion (before my two) and regret it.

[@boci122]

This is based off the book. Aptly named Revolutionary Road. Its a story about a surbaban couple in the 1950s, who are very toxic and screwed up. They were going to move to Paris so April (Winslet) could work at the US embassy as a secretary. Frank (DiCaprio) was on board with it because they both felt they were too above 1950s surbiba to stay. But then Frank's boss gave him a higher paying position, he took it even though he hates his job. He also has an ongoing affair with a secretary at his office, and April has an affair with they're neighbor. April is also highly mentally unstable, and regardless of my views on abortion, was trying to have one so she could still live out her fantasy of going to Paris. They're both very toxic to each other, and it starts coming to a head here. Also, I love titanic, but jack and rose aren't in this. This came out in 2008 and both Winslet and DiCaprio talked about how much they've grown up since co starring in titanic. Separate the characters from their respective movies. This is not a pleasant movie, but its a powerful one

[@gustavohorn2194]

It seems people mention Jack and Rose for the sake of making jokes

[@larinbeesh626]

To me it felt like she would have been unhappy even in Paris. The emptiness she feels should be healed from within. Changing destination won't help in the long run. And he was a terrible husband too

[@winataven]

As a man myself, i do feel like Leo character is too much egoistical and at the same time scared of what their future would be like if they happen to move to Paris, i mean look at your wife, she's unhappy there, she feels trapped and everything else, cannot you at least lower down your ego and talk to her and at least try to find why and what scare her a lot that makes her even wanted to do the abortion in order to not stay here?, Jesus, he's so comfortable there while his partner are not and still he failed to recognize what's the problem really are. Such a self oriented person he is.

[@lizziebennet2084]

Exactly!

[@Candy_Mountain]

He’s right.

[@maryam.5191]

2:29

[@waytoguidance]

My daughter's name is maryam too :)

[@moirafatiaki768]

Seeing them as Jack & Rose!

[@LeoOrlando-yd2ut]

Well, I do think fathers should have a say in this matter.

[@cherylhulting1301]

They have a chance to share views. But no, there's no way one human or institution should have the power to compel another person to give birth. In the end, it's the woman's body that does the work and assumes the risks of pregnancy. A man cannot and should not make that decision for her.

[@BekahMarie11]

Moving to Paris probably wouldn’t have made me feel better. For a bit yeah. But she needed to fix herself.