So comforting hearing some of these things. I just had my first competition and I choked BIG TIME. Feels good knowing that im not the only one
@kwalters41708 жыл бұрын
I was in his situation as a white belt with one strip for my first competition . I won my first match and that was based on pure luck. On my second competition, I got 3rd. keep pushing and be well determined. Losing is a part of life. I expect it.
@marceldouwstra58478 жыл бұрын
First tournament had exactly what Stephan described. Weigh in on time, you hit the floor and then have to wait 3-4 hours before your first match. By the time your match is up your mind is tired from hours of adrenaline, your body feels weird and you haven't eaten properly.
@PeartSkirtAndSpunky2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! Signed up for my first WB no gi sub only- this is refreshing!
@MrJAS19828 жыл бұрын
Great video...Stephan, I'm a new blue belt and I have a competition this upcoming weekend. I completely agree with Rob and Matt and I have competed in 5 or so competitions myself. I am nervous every time! Some comps I did great, others were good learning opportunities...I am curious to know if the nerves ever go away or at least reduce over the years of competing?
@highsoflyify8 жыл бұрын
it depends on yourself. I became a little more calm during and before competitions over time. But I´m far away from being totally relaxed. But I know even Blackbelts who get nervous before every fight/tournament.
@iamXavierLee5 жыл бұрын
I think it boils down to confidence. I notice the more I trained harder and smarter and got beat up in class or failed why training the more confident I became. So when I go into competition I am not nervous. I let my body go into a flow state and I’m in auto pilot. Daily, I give my self positive affirmations and auto suggestions. Encouraging myself and uplifting myself. My hard work is what gives me confidence. So when it’s time to shake hands and begin if the person across from me wins it is solely because he is the better man that day. Not because of something I didn’t do.
@rfrancoi8 жыл бұрын
Awesome wisdom.
@MarcusAye7 жыл бұрын
Starting BJJ this week and plan to compete in a months time. Probably get destroyed but oh well.
@stefandarkveil46647 жыл бұрын
You will, but that's very good experience. I have 18 months of training, never competed. Although some guys at my gym are hell to spar with, I still feel something is missing...
@FireFun637 жыл бұрын
13:25 great point
@ethanstover98592 жыл бұрын
Prioritize listening to your coaches, it'd hard during the adrenaline dump but I've beaten technically better competitors because I'm able to hear my coaches and use their advice
@korriestar6 жыл бұрын
My last tournament is more than likely forever going to be my last. I was really nervous for this tournament last March because it was open belt round robin. I was versing a boy who was a green belt and i being a girl with A grey belt I was overly nervous. About 30 seconds before our match ended he got an arm bar and I stood up in the arm bar and I lost my grip. My arm was once at the side of my body and was now extended the wrong way just for a matter of seconds. I tapped and went to the medic and than the emergency room. I have a torn ligament now. And I have tried to go back to my academy. What should I try to do or participate in to continua doing what I love?
@bbs-pig_benis4345 жыл бұрын
Listen to your doctor, take care of your health take the time to heal up 100%. You can always go back, the human body is amazing at overcoming things.
@MatChronicles5 жыл бұрын
Rest up, jiu jitsu will be there when you’re healed up
@YourBoyEobard5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this.
@matthewbrun89235 жыл бұрын
Wow, as a white belt competing for 1st time, I'm very discouraged my efforts don't really matter and it's a roll of the dice.
@martinplocker55003 жыл бұрын
How that Champ? Good work will defenetley pay of, maybe just not exactly as you intend I guess
@Skerrry8 жыл бұрын
Where is Kesting from?
@crispycronch7 жыл бұрын
North Vancouver, BC
@Crystals100005 жыл бұрын
@@crispycronch hes been to my gym a few times ive seen
@Omidion2 жыл бұрын
12:09 literally my coach three days ago...
@medicineandbrazilianjiujit85113 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@richard0shay7188 жыл бұрын
and it goes black in a street fight.reality comes back as blue n red flasing lights!!
@keepmoving11852 жыл бұрын
White belt says thanks!!
@hnryclemente18 жыл бұрын
awesome video. very helpful
@mmaiqbalpatel38495 жыл бұрын
Nice
@pcprinciple37745 жыл бұрын
0:38 - "50% of the participants lose in their first match" - oh dear #mathsfail
@matthewdonoghue3215 жыл бұрын
Sorry that isn't a math fail, its math reality right?
@goemon93788 жыл бұрын
it's all good...it's not like a lot of ppl are watching or anything at bjj tournaments