Black American Woman Marries A Ghanaian King And Should Men Practice Polygamy In Ghana

[@logicalcritik2144]

I respect this sista. She was correct, this type of arrangement is not for everyone. Personally, I cannot be in such a marriage but I do not criticize those that are. I also respect the man, as he has made her his wife and is not cheating on his first wife. There are many women in relationships with men in the US who are not married to them; typically, these men have women 'on the side'; These are actually polygamist marriages, but without the paper.

[@Muko992]

Me

[@CWins-kf3fw]

Agreed! Different strokes for different folks💁🏾 #NotMe

[@realbeautyness25]

I agree with you I also don't want that for my dgt either

[@realbeautyness25]

O ps I don't agree with homosexual lifestyles just because I personally don't like polygamy

[@logicalcritik2144]

@@realbeautyness25 gotcha

[@assaa5069]

Polygamy is not for me. But to each their own.

[@missfreda7374]

I feel the same way too.

[@Ke024able]

@@missfreda7374 hope u dont have a side kick😊

[@missfreda7374]

@Samuel Akiwumi. No side kick😃

[@nezinez2694]

Samuel Akiwumi yes it’s definitely not for everyone and it’s probably exhausting 😩. But I’m glad ppl can make it work rather than sneaking around.

[@assaa5069]

Marcia Holness I appreciate you for respecting my opinion. I am not trashing or demonizing polygamy. It just does not serve me and what i am trying to do.

[@YvesDarbouze]

Moving to Africa. This American life is barbaric

[@bamashow3676]

💯

[@mrpc3128]

Are you ok?

[@josephineadebayo7959]

yes you are right i was telling my husband im ready to leave america behind

[@AnthonyMckinney-yu4lk]

@@josephineadebayo7959 wish my wife thought like you

[@josephineadebayo7959]

@@AnthonyMckinney-yu4lk awe not many women think like me in terms of leaving behind this Western lifestyle I travel to Nigeria alot which is how I met an married my husband an I tell him all the time if I could leave Houston I would but I have my kids here in school plus my husband never been here an he is on his way to America in 1 month

[@donquantum1615]

The african customs is already proven for thousands of years. A cheater is a liar and a scammer...take all the shadiness out of relations.

[@MrNgueyong]

As a Black Man married to a Black Queen, i am always happy when i see strong black couples and families around the world. We are so beautiful and powerful when we are in our right frame of mind.polygamy is not for every man or woman but it definitely works when there is transparency.

[@py20]

Stop spreading falsehoods, chief!!! I'm a Ghanaian too, and I know of no Akan or Ashanti custom that demands that a chief marries more than one wife. In fact, I know many Ghanaian chiefs who are married to ONE wife. It's a choice you have made; say so. Is polygamy an accepted practice in the broader culture, yes. But it is fast becoming obsolete, even among the most traditional of Ghanaians. So, tell your story but don't make it sound like you had no choice; you did and still do! Also, stop insinuating that in Ghana women can't think for themselves; they do! Several ghanaian women are as forward thinking and independent as women everywhere.

[@Yourstruly4.0]

He just want a green card and she wants land

[@py20]

@Maimounah Faizon No tension; simply corrected blatant falsehoods. He gets to tell his story, yes, and I get to point out false statements made about my people and culture. Isn't that ok too?

[@SistaCassie]

I am also from the Bay area married into Royal family in Kumasi💍👍🏾

[@SistaCassie]

I would love to connect with sis in the video if anyone knows her.

[@SistaCassie]

@Gibson Ampaw countless, it's a hierarchy, just like UK. So it indicates bloodlines more than wealth or power. In her case however, her husband is an actual King in Kumasi. My sister was able to meet up with them and are good friends now.🥰🇬🇭

[@purebreed9695]

🤣🤣🤣🤣,he got me cracking up when he said,I advise u to stick to one

[@paulkelly873]

but he wants two LOL!

[@ExistNNature]

@@paulkelly873 maybe 3 or 4.

[@BrotherReg]

I like how when Dynast said, “I’m ready”, the chief was laughing but at the same time shaking his head “no brudda”. lol Good luck in your search Prince! ✊🏾

[@laylahalgharib1892]

I saw Chief Daddy a Nollywood movie on Netflix. Chief died and women and children were coming out of the woodworks. A great movie.

[@olu7grubs]

Funny Movie I enjoyed it !!

[@ExistNNature]

That was crazy

[@starseeds6258]

I love this video, been in polygamy before..I was kool with it but hubby messed up..he and the other wives couldn't get along. I got tired of the drama they brought and left him with all of them fighting like mad. I was the first wife. I'm happily married again with Kids and my second husband does not want anyone else but me. Thank God! lol and my ex husband regrets taking those 4 women..wished he had stayed with me alone..smh too bad! Polygamy isn't easy: the problem is that the man must choose the right women with high moral conduct and for the right reasons; he must be a very fair and upright strong man as well. Polygamy is a very pure and beautiful path with the ideal individuals practicing it! It can also be your Hell...and majority of the time it's the women making the husband miserable or turning him against his other wives because of their jealousy and envy. For those brothers interested in practicing it plzzz if you want to be happy: do not choose clingy jealous and vindictive women with low self esteem.

[@ibarao8340]

exactly

[@reginaldknight7005]

Thank you for the advice

[@kgtimbers]

Brother Dynast, I really appreciate you showcasing this marriage. Both husband and wife are lovely. I love the sister’s very balanced and intelligent approach to her situation. It was also comforting to see that her husband was so open and receptive. He immediately understood that there was an ancestral connection as well. Beautiful! Bravo!🇬🇭💪🏾🥰

[@nclightworker4924]

“I want you in my life, but I don’t need you in my life.” As a woman who aspires to be married one day, I would never feel that way about my husband. American women that will be repatriating to Africa will have to learn how to shed some of their Western ways. It’s okay to let your guard down and allow the man to take control. Now mind you I said: shed SOME of their Western ways…NOT ALL. African men are all about building their Empire. The Chief is going to accomplish a lot with his wife as a life and business partner.

[@miraid06]

I understand what you mean. Let me clarify: I'm a retired Vet. I don't need him to provide for me. I don't need him for his wealth. I'm work him because we compliment each other. I choose him to be the person i do life with. Personally, I believe there is relief in being wanted and not needed. I'm thankful he understood what i meant because i can see how my statement can be taken in multiple ways.

[@Eniola0ne]

Nothing is new in polygamy is part of our Customs in Africa for thousands of years. I came from polygamy families. My father have more then one Wife. But my Mother is Senior Wife.

[@ReinaAfricana]

My family is the same way. However we women have more than one husband. As for me I won't be following the tradition of polandry and no way polygamy 😂. She better than me.

[@debradaniels6123]

@@ReinaAfricana Wow the females where you're from are allowed more than one husband!? That's extremely interesting. What African country/ethnic tribe are you from?

[@nezinez2694]

Reina Africana more than one husband???? 😳

[@frmoak2atl]

@@ReinaAfricana WHERE????

[@justcallmebrian793]

I never knew any society exist in Africa, but some ethnic groups or sub groups in Asia has such marriage arrangements one wife with two husbands.

[@Atakora13]

Dynast is a Prince! He can have more than two! 💪💪💪💥💥

[@marishy88]

Hmmm. Thank you for sharing. This was a very interesting video. My uncle says “All men cheat.” I don’t think all men cheat but I think most of them cheat and can’t stick to just one woman but I am not against polygamy. It is something our ancestors practiced. I don’t think it is anything wrong with it. Women out number men anyway.

[@TheCa007]

Monifa Osun Jumoke You are correct women that number man in the world in some parts 8 to 1 but no less than 2 to 1 in the world. 75 to 80% of all me and cheat It’s crazy and it’s sinful is better just to marry second wife

[@edengarden3568]

our ancestors are smart and unselfish. The white woman is selfish and not so smart.

[@noury5us]

Yes even the nature ruled for polygamy in a sense that all the women could get their fare share of husbands.

[@ugandabiker1932]

Always listen to your uncle

[@marthajones586]

She is so pretty with beautiful spirit. Love her honesty and living in reality, instead of pie in the sky view. Abundant Blessings and Joy to you both.

[@themandinkafamily]

Lol im glad u made this vid because I have a documentary coming on the true feelings behind polygamy. Most African women don't really like the practice. They're simply just accustomed to it. But they have the power to not allow it to happen.

[@themandinkafamily]

@@mlungisiwright which proves my point lol. Polygamy hasn't cured impoverished families and husbands still have the headache of fulfilling the needs of their wives

[@tok1879]

I like how you feel your experience it's superior to that of others. It will be so funny when you find out your husband cheating on you. 😂

[@firstblessings8777]

@@themandinkafamily Your knowledge is only half. There are negatives and positives like in monogamy. It's about the entendre in the union.

[@mlungisiwright]

@@themandinkafamily i think that it should be lega but strongly discouraged.

[@frmoak2atl]

When I'm in Africa, I've talked to many women about this. Many don't like it. I'm sure there are many that are ok with it. Depends on the person and their situation. I am a woman and wouldn't mind having more than one husband! LOL

[@sgreeni]

I love everything about this woman and her perspective on life. Yo go girl!!!!

[@ajikedeinbo2184]

To each their own, my Grandad, had 2 wives, God rest their souls❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️, my Grandad was an Oba, so definitely the norm

[@mr.ifeoluwa4591]

Bless them!

[@ajikedeinbo2184]

@@mr.ifeoluwa4591 😉🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

[@timnicole545]

My sis yr was just a small family my grandfather has 11 wives n they all live in the same house n all have children with him

[@joydnp1199]

She probably loves him alot. Not only relocate but taking the place of a second wife.

[@FamilyTravelDevotion]

Yep

[@janekoko3736]

I think it’s like staying in a marriage whilst the man is dating on the side. Somethings go beyond love

[@mr.africa8166]

I agree real love

[@theonetrueman666]

She was probably already a side-piece so why not make it official??

[@fadhilinayituriki1678]

@@theonetrueman666 u 're. a legend

[@muatagarai1593]

Great discussion. I've been married twice and do not wish for a third (unless she's native African). To say from the start that you wish to have two wives is like saying you want two possessions. Like cars. You want two cars. But women are not like cars. It's a romantic fantasy and it could work but fantasy isn't reality. The majority of relationships come with problems. Why multiply the problems?

[@marthacmd]

the Chief said "its not about love-its about POWER

[@bismarkadu8799]

Law not love .

[@marthacmd]

@@bismarkadu8799 law is Power my friend

[@Yourstruly4.0]

Damn

[@altheasherieel3724]

This was a really good vid. I can see how this Arrangement could work. Especially if everybody is working together as a group like she said a team. I love that she said she's more logical I identify with that. But I also love the fact that she said she's more business orientated. Then the other wife is more about caring for the home. So in this way the two women really get to do, in a sense what they're comfortable doing. I can also see if there is a balance between the two wives neither one will feel burnt out. Because sometimes as a wife you can carry a heavy load. Not saying the husband doesn't. I'm divorced & you can end up doing everything cooking, cleaning, sex, work & so forth. But if you had somebody else to balance that out, you wouldn't be so drained. Then you can avoid feelings of resentment, because at times you can feel your husband isn't doing enough been there done that.... Peace & Bliss

[@miraid06]

Exactly!! It's balance. I'm glad you understand.

[@sherriebumbray1748]

I love the way this couple communicates with one another. Everything is not for everyone, but they seem to have figured out what works out for their family unit. While I'm not sure I could handle being the second wife, I would much prefer that to having my husband running around cheating and making a mockery of our vows.

[@miraid06]

Thank you. No, it is by no means for everyone. I think it really is all individual. It is very weird to step into this. I'm happy I was well received by not only my husband's family, but even his wife's family. Her parents call me their daughter. Her father is helping build my new house. It's very hard to conceptualize having come from the western world.

[@amornesta9265]

@@miraid06 is shame they insulted the first wife like the second wife is better no respect for her at all this chief should be ashamed of himself, none asked you to marry your first wife

[@sherriebumbray1748]

@@amornesta9265 no one insulted the first wife. What did I miss?

[@sherriebumbray1748]

@@miraid06 One of my friends is the second wife. She and the first wife are now very close. The first is unable to have children. She loves my friends children as if they are her own. When you see their family all together, there is no mistaking that it was created by divine intervention.

[@miraid06]

@@amornesta9265 I'm sorry, when was she insulted? I'm very confused.

[@thedebunker1777]

Im totally against outlawing polygamy, it should definitely be a choice.

[@ajoaayebo6752]

It cant be outlawed in ghana. Parliaments cant make decisions gor tribes except if those pratcises are abusive to human.either than than,chief make rules in thier lands. Government dont own lands either.

[@Atakora13]

I completely agree with the chief! One wife bullies and manipulates, two will compete to please you at best or team up to kick your behind..lol..😂💥

[@miraid06]

Lol! I don't know about competing. At least not for me. I know the role I play. No need for games.

[@miraid06]

@Mark E. RIGHT?! lol!!

[@bintabee3409]

My eyes & ears were glued - I didn't want to miss a word.. YEAP I TOTALLY fulljoyed that! - thank you 😁✊🏾 - "please give us more teachment about this lifestyle Dynasty"

[@leticial3388]

I was thinking he was younger, great question? A team! This is interesting.

[@jackdon6926]

he is younger

[@Mindbodysoultv01]

I really enjoyed this video as an African in America planning to relocate to Africa this Queen (is she a Queen since she’s wive #2) dropped knowledge like at least he was honest about being married unlike most. Information I will be mindful of when I move to The Motherland. Cute couple they genuinely look happy.

[@kervinaham7375]

Even in Ghana their marriage will be not recognized iby the state, but customary Ghanaian society or law recognizes their union, as in many African countries we have two operating system, the colonialist law, which is state law and African traditional and customary law

[@janekoko3736]

for real 😳, in my country they ask at the registry , monopoly or polygamy before all present . Considering divorce process is as tiring as manual labour .

[@ExistNNature]

Hmmm!!! Africans want to wife you right away. My Nigerian friend scared the hell out of me with that "marry me" statement after a few outings.

[@joehouston2833]

Be fruitful and multiply

[@djpioneer937]

As a Black American married to an African woman, this interview resonates with me. When he referred to his wife's mind as masculine, it is so true. Many african women, especially from the rural areas do not have that assertiveness, confidence and independent mindset of american women. They aren't used to make decisions, planning or orchestrating things to the degree that american women are. Those type of responsibilities are traditionally handled by men, therefore women never get the chance to develop strong critical thinking skills and all the mechanics necessary to navigate society like american women do. It has really made me admire the autonomy and strength of the black american woman.

[@jessicacraddock5138]

Good point on this !

[@paulkelly873]

If any man cannot master the Wisdom it takes to live with one woman,,,, he Surely should Not have two! LOL

[@spandegwa]

Speaking as an African woman... It's usually very funny when we see a 2nd wife demanding her man not get another. That he got you he has tremendous potential to get another, if he doesn't marry another he will definitely have mistress. Also that she allows him to talk down on the 1st wife, she should know that she is next on the chopping board. When he gets a 3rd, her being a "man" will now be what he talks about with #3 as her weakness as a wife. In Swahili we say "Wembe ni ule ule" meaning "the same razor will be used"... The razor he has used to cut his 1st wife is the razor he will use to cut his 2nd. As number 2, she needs to show her man that he can't disrespect 1 infornt of her. She is snickering because she thinks she is the smarter and better one since #1 prefers to be a housewife.

[@onelove5572]

I agree .. he shouldn’t be talking bad about the 1st wife especially when she has his children.. Thus will not last .. just wait

[@bro.charles]

Insightful! Still watching so I haven't seen him talking about 1st wife, but that is bad. And you're right, if he's talking bad abut the first wife it won't be long before he puts the second wife down too - if he's not already!

[@Joi55]

How is she going to forbid this man from taking a 3rd wife? Lady!!! You married someone’s husband 🤦🏾‍♀️.

[@miraid06]

Simple. That was a condition of me agreeing to something that was so far out of my norm. It really wasn't me forbidding, it was a condition. He agreed. The first wife is happy he chose me and not someone here.

[@davlid100]

That's why you should marry a Christian..Christian's culture is the same world wide..muslims marries more than one so goes pagans..

[@Joi55]

miraid06 who’s condition was it?

[@firstblessings8777]

@@davlid100 That chief might be a Christian. Polygamy in Africa is not necessarily tied to religion, but more a traditional prerogative.

[@firstblessings8777]

@@miraid06 Hello sister, stay clear of the pettiness of clueless ignorant frustrated people on the Internet and enjoy your marriage.

[@omarblacksmith6147]

Good interview Dynast!

[@christinew3549]

Very interesting. That chief seems like a nice guy.

[@miraid06]

He is. Sometimes too nice. It takes a lot to anger him.

[@logicalcritik2144]

Hey, Christine would you like to be wife #3 ? 😊...just kidding!

[@christinew3549]

Nah, I'm good. I'll pass on the wife offer🤣🤣🤣 but I can see myself visiting Ghana.

[@africanqueen552]

Christine W Christine W yes I agreed he seems like it. One thing I get from him he loves the 2nd wife more in a good way tho. I’m like his 2nd wife for example if I was in polygamy I can accept to be a 2nd but it better NOT be a 3rd wife and if there is? Guess what? I’m too getting another man point blank. Although this is so weird and dejavu I feel like I have seen this video months ago 🤔

[@christinew3549]

😮😮😮

[@sgreeni]

This was very informative and entertaining. I wish them love, light and infinitum blessings.

[@goingup9901]

😂😂😂😂😭 lol they was cute. She looks like a woman but thinks like a man. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 I can relate.

[@mikeaman2008]

Dynast, it sounds like Chief is walking on a tight rope...its a very delicate balancing act...You sure you wanna join that club? lol.

[@africanstoryteller]

Polygamy isn't new in Africa. My maternal grandfather married 7 wives and had about thirty something children, and still had 3 mistresses.🤣My maternal grandmother was the 3rd wife. My paternal grandfather had 2 wives and 9 children. The beauty of it then was that they had the resources and wisdom to manage their large households, especially my maternal grandfather who was very wealthy. Modern day polygamy is scam though 🤣🤣

[@prettylittlephotons]

I feel on you that Ms.Grace...Im a Black American woman and I think it is doable - of course with much care and concern from all parties involved....many, many, many adjustments to undertake, but doable

[@Searchforuhuru]

Good grace you can be one of my wives

[@africanstoryteller]

@@Searchforuhuru 🤣 as number one or two? Which days will be mine? #scam

[@Searchforuhuru]

@@africanstoryteller Tuesdays and Wednesdays are good days

[@africanstoryteller]

@@Searchforuhuru two out of 7 days?🤣 Not enough. Try a better offer

[@BRUSEMISSIONTRAVEL]

Dynast I really enjoyed this interview it was helpful

[@nclightworker4924]

Dynast pausing the interview to order his food…hilarious!!!

[@faith3276]

Thank you. My mother worked at the UNITED NATIONS in NEW YORK. A King asked my mother if she would allow me to be his son's Prince Raphael first wife. I don't know what country or the Kings name. I was 14 and he was 16. I've always thought about him and how it would be through out the years. I'm 69 now. The King told me I would be the first of many and did I mind, I said no, But my mother declined it because I was her only daughter. Perhaps there's a King Raphael out there somewhere still thinking of me.

[@ibarao8340]

Good Discussion" Adewale go ahead' my father had 14 children's by 3 women he married 4 wives, I had an uncle that had 50 children and I believed he about 10 wives.

[@timnicole545]

My grandfather has 49 children with 11 wives n they all live happily is just today women act like is a bad thing

[@ibarao8340]

@@timnicole545 I am telling you" the problem is that we adopted Europeans mindset, unbeknown to most Afrikans, they have sex with dogs, boys and men primarily, if you study individual like Socrates many of his papers it is all about importance of boys and men relationships, they're homosexuals'.

[@latashastewart-estelle1363]

Absolutely fascinating. I had this conversation with my man when we first started dating. It works for them and that is all that really matters. I have some of these same issues with my man. Cultural differences between us, but we are working it out. And we understand each other much better now.

[@miraid06]

A LOT of communication. He and I both speak English, but not the same English. We are often clarifying meaning. We are more nuanced in our speech than they are. Silly and spoiled have more than on meaning and in the states, it's about context. Both of those words are a bad thing. I was surprised to know I was being insulting when using them. Imagine had we not clarified. It would be a disaster. Lol. It's not easy, but it's worth it!.

[@latashastewart-estelle1363]

@@miraid06 oh my we just had a similar blowup over the word BS. I used the initials in a rather loose way and he was very hurt. I'm like you are really blowing this out of proportion here but I realized that he was dead serious. I really had to apologize and even though I told him I didn't mean it as he was taking it the die was already cast. It definitely takes CONSTANT COMMUNICATION! But I agree, it is totally worth it. 🤐🤗👍🏾

[@fathiyahashi807]

so happy for you sis you marry your African king

[@niiamu3300]

The chief has a good companion for his business.

[@The19711943]

These guys r some of the wisest Africans you have interviewed brother!! Big up to them!!! Greetings!! Keep doing what u doing respect!!!

[@gantswood]

She is beautiful and I love her hair.

[@Atakora13]

Fantastic video as always!👏🙏💥💪💪💪

[@Searchforuhuru]

Please share

[@africa2890]

I grew up with my grandfather having three wives and we lived peacefully without a fight but many with just one wife fight and cheat all the time.

[@kareabarnes3586]

Her hair is beautiful!

[@person-xd3wb]

Consensual polygamy is more honest than current non-monogamist sexual mores and practices in America today. Polygamy has existed from the beginning of human civilization. Since Adam and Eve were expelled from Eden. Those brothers had to marry sisters in those early stages of human development. Procreation was a huge factor in agrarian societies. In industrial societies polygamy is not as common. Seen it function in African Islamic countries like Senegal. Seemed to function okay when men were wealthy; disastrously when the men were not. Knew of 3 lovely young women forced to polygamously marry men they hardly knew by religious and family elders. A friend "married" another girl to keep her from a forced polygamous marriage.l would not want it for my daughters. I believe biblical monogamy is best as rare as it is today.

[@laylahalgharib1892]

Great video. My cousin has three wives and 11 children and lives in Qatar by way of Michigan. It is drama but it works.

[@saintmathew2025]

This guy got expensive lands in a very decent area he is rich

[@ExistNNature]

Wow! I guess she found out and didn't mind being 2nd.

[@Browny241422]

@@ExistNNature Stop! Not necessary lol

[@badspellin4621]

@@ExistNNature true. The US Culture can never handle that. You can see the subtle moves on her part to get him to change that culture.

[@tmobiletemp9832]

Listen he doesn't need you to cook. He needs you to help him develop his village so you are doing exactly what he married you for. Transactional. Whether you are aware of that or not.

[@MsDee67]

Wow! That was extremely informative ... it gave me a lot of insight and a lot to think about.

[@xhalanga]

That arrangement has always been like that in Southern Africa too. It has however recently been teplaced by companionship, as the lady puts it, where both parties go to work and share everything including cooking, shopping etc. I think it's due to education. When everybody works and comes home tired there's no one who's supposed to be a housewife/husband. There's still a lot of this traditional arrangement remaining among many familes.

[@marthacmd]

Greetings from Ghana! I left US white nasty civilization/ part two please

[@bekreto]

Enjoy your motherland

[@baboucarrjitehbojang881]

Since time in memorial, KINGS in Afrika never have only one WIFE and that is a very strong culture in The whole of Afrika East, West, North and South. They --Kings in Afrika must have from one to four wives and even more, but the maximum is four wives. This is all about power and Afrikan Kings were once very powerful and even today they are powerful and culturally for that matter. Afrikan cultures are very powerful and they exercise it to the fullest. Thanks.

[@tonyadj6994]

Thank you Brother Uhuru, you can't imagine how much problem you have solved so easily with this video.....it's extremely contagious..at least more African Queens and kings coming back Home will find their proper places...as Africans with our traditions on the Continent....

[@freshdesign2026]

Dynast will kill me!! He is asking to the woman: Which days do you have!.... 😂😂😂😂 I was like dying out of laughter! Well I do not subscribe to polygamy but it is part of our culture. The negative sides of it in general are just too much for me. It's already hard enough in a household with two people, talk less of one with three, four or five people!!!

[@kennethsecrease8417]

Go for two dynast, be kind and understanding and it will work.

[@wycliffewaweru488]

As much as it sounds fun when you first hear it, polygamy is not a walk in the park, you ought to be prepared mentally,physically,emotionally, financially and spiritually.

[@cameronfranklin1436]

This was good. I love this sistas honesty. A beautiful couple. There are pros abd cons to everything. They are both intelligent. The sista is beautiful , intelligent and on point on things. Enjoy your life and your black king.

[@freshdesign2026]

That young chief spoke in code that few will understand. Not even dynast got it! Having 2 wives is attached to the power of a chief. They MUST do so, so that they spiritually acquire some powers. The more powers they get, the more mighty they feel they are. So... To each his own.

[@TheCa007]

I’m down for it under the rules of Islam. This was one of your best Dynast.

[@daviwilliam281]

Coz we didn't do it before Islam?

[@ibarao8340]

@@daviwilliam281 Islam is the earliest religious, if you go to the Yorubaland and they breakdown all the meaning of IFA saying only lead's to Islam or Allah, this is precisely why some that practice Islam still hold on to Yoruba IFA tradition.

[@ibarao8340]

Islam is a Black tradition.

[@TheCa007]

david williams no some tribes married multiple women before Islam. But Islam provides the religion, rules and structure needed to be in a polygamous relationship successfully while obeying G’d.

[@truthseeker7722]

Very very interesting interview. One of the best I’ve watched so far

[@bro.charles]

People don't understand that marriage is so much more than how we feel about each other, or how good the sex is. Its family, organization, community building and development, its social and legal contracts between husbands and wives, their families and communities, its dynamic and ever changing. Wives in African cultural polygamous relationships are not powerless, they can leave if they have unresolvable issues just like in western marriages, but unlike in western marriages the community around husbands and wives are supposed to be more proactive in helping and counseling them to overcome difficulties (I say supposed to, bc realistically they don't always). If I were in a better position financially I'd consider pologamy seriously. I think I have the maturity, mentality and level headedness/balance it requires. I know many women - some I dated previously and are now just friends with, and some are just straight friends - that I get along with who have children without a father in their lives and I see how it's affecting both the mothers and the children; they don't feel safe or protected, the children don't know a father's love, they feel abandoned; they don't have any standards to judge what being a good man is; the children are constantly around feminine energy and its having a polar opposite effect than it should - the boys are becoming overly effeminate and the girls are becoming overly masculine; the mothers are constantly stressed out and worried about money, lonely, angry, etc. It's not good at all. And as the mothers search for the western ideal monogamous relationship and marriage, they either expose their children to too many strange men or don't expose them to any men at all. We as Africans in 2021 need to come up with some solutions to repair our family structures and organize our communities and nations - and to the men, as the old folks say "stop thinking with your little head and think with your big head." If you don't think she's marriage material don't have sex with her, or for God's sake wear a damn condom! These babies out here are suffering.

[@suntemple3121]

I love it, it's a beautiful story I pray that they have all the best together.🍁

[@asanteakan70]

Lake bosomtwe ? That place is going to be booming soon.

[@pamelacharles4935]

We live and learn. There is no place like home respect to the chief and his family

[@aceace4660]

Interesting content as always from Dynast. Thank you for a real polygyny retelling😁

[@alexisfrancine4545]

I think it's sad that "thinking ahead" is considered "thinking like a man" in male dominated society. It's a strength and a HUMAN ability. Not a male job.

[@jar9223]

Brave man I can’t even manage one🤣

[@nezinez2694]

Excellent video. I’ll be living there someday. My future husband is there 🥰

[@kwabenayeboah4712]

Hurry, I am waiting but will also be settling down in two years.

[@nezinez2694]

Kwabena Yeboah lol 😉

[@kwabenayeboah4712]

@@nezinez2694 Inez, I'm single oo. Waiting for you. Let's chat on mail, [e-mail]

[@brodwellington1626]

Thanks Uhuru, This is very insightful. I believe in the Chief''s assertion that it could have been 'destiny' that brought them together. They do compliment each other. There's ample understanding between the couple and one can only pray that they have a jolly good go as trail blazzers !

[@karenricks5630]

Thank you because I'm glad that I saw that it lets me know that they really could love an American and be truthful to her too

[@Yourstruly4.0]

On Goblacktoafrica channel her story was DIFFERENT on how they met the night they met... I'll pass on Ghana, lotta shadiness

[@xhalanga]

Ex president of South Africa, Jacob Zuma, had several wives. The Swaziland king does too.

[@stephenokyere5216]

This is how Ghanaians culture shape a man life. Respected and loved you woman as your second mother. That makes them quite when they around women. Our culture tell as your wife is your second. Listen to her. Most women who don't have patience can see romantic and loving side of most GHANAIANS men. the chief is quite and respectful to let his second mother when she talking. I love that he knows is culture.

[@Sankofah]

I really like his wife, she is a master psychologist. She is in control he realizes it, but there is nothing he can do about it, because that is the way American women are. I think she is much stronger than her husband if only for the fact that she was in the military and has been through some stuff. All that aside, they really compliment each other and work as a team.

[@ositaurama2243]

From my school of thought, 3 wives are perfect if you wish to be happy in a polygamous union. 2 is the most dangerous.

[@kwabenayeboah4712]

Hahaha

[@shaypink40]

Great info, very nice couple, etc 😊

[@unguja64]

Very good and interesting interview, here. Look at the high number of views!

[@giaunique7806]

I cant and I will never ever ever ever. Share my husband .oh noooooo

[@charitynyanor6317]

I like this couple good job done I am happy that she has adjusted to the culture. My father married 4 wives and there were always misunderstanding between them.

[@richardredmond1480]

Glad my two wives get on with each other here in Sierra Leon.

[@NK-mi7oe]

Dynasty you are on the road of two wife's as prince...so get ready

[@XCocoaCutieX]

There's nothing wrong with polygamy so long as both parties are honest in agreement and have good communication. I have 2 husbands so...

[@logicalcritik2144]

You go girl!

[@logicalcritik2144]

@@AnthonyMckinney-yu4lk thank you, TURD FACE!😂😂😂

[@michelemobley6749]

Ok.i met an igbo prince..and we were friends for 3 years just texting ..talking and face time..i had a fiance. And when we broke up the prince said he wanted me as his own..his father died..his older brother died..now hes waiting to be installed as king. Id be the second wife if I agree. He said he wants to install me. Idk the gravity of that.as an American. I'm considering. I just don't know the restrictions I'll have..and I know there will be some..im researching.ill know for sure.before I move to africa..im moving to africa regardless if I marry him or not..that was always the plan...

[@imqueenbaji387]

The woman is brave! Whatever makes them happy Kudos and congratulations!

[@dionmyles2154]

He is 31 by time he is 65 he will have 7 wives.

[@FamilyTravelDevotion]

If they like it, I love it😆!

[@greenfaction4]

Lol!

[@bissy8172]

Wow! Amazing. That is the original tradition and customs of Africans.

[@born_supreme]

It's a no for me, big dog. Shit's weird 🙅🏿

[@kwakye7]

Wow Really, Chief of Lake Bosomtwe. That is BIG.👍🤗💥💥🔥🔥🔥. That is Ashanti Power House.

[@TonyaEL]

Very good conversation. He gave good advice because many men want more than one wife. However, they do not have the means, mentality, or fortitude for it. Everything has a purpose and he clearly said if he weren't a Chief he wouldn't have taken a 2nd wife.