BLACK GIRL DOES HAIR IN JAPAN II SHOCKING RESULT! 😲

I am Nigerian and my hair type is the typical Afro 4C type. On the other hand the typical Asians/Japanese are used to very straight hair and so this is the case also with the hairstylists over here. Its been years down the line now and i Cant tell you the struggle is over, so i understand the concern of those asking about practical day to day life activities like this over here other than 'book'. In this video, i made an appointment with a hairstylist that has never done a 4C hair type before. This helps give you a realistic view.
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[@Chilotalks]

Hello friends, I brought back this inquisitive and amazing hairstylist on a recent video. He has never tried doing crochet hair before, so this was his first time ever😁. Link below 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/imazaX9oh7KmmNE

[@mmolokilopang7396]

Wow he is the best am proud of him

[@tonysmom6349]

Thats a No go lol stiff AF

[@alwochlotus942]

I swear

[@Kuro_darling]

Awww he is so adorable-love the energy 🥰🥰🥰

[@MoonT11]

Awwww Chilo!!! THIS is so BEAUTIFUL... what a DIFFERENCE in his RESPECTFUL ATTITUDE about SERVICE And openness to LEARN. I AM Mexican born and risen (my mother is Mexican and my Father is from Haiti 🇭🇹). Just a few days ago I needed a haircut and I am living in the Mexican Caribbean (recently moved) all my life experienced that hairdressers would said things like ohhh your hair is soooo curly, etc. This time an ignorant hairdresser with a terrible manager with non sense of empathy refused to give me the service... the lady that was supposed to cut my hair said ohhhh this afrio hair I haven’t do haircut on someone like you.... pffff Thanks to the refusal.... I ended finding MY GIRL a nice lady with a completely different attitude and paying very little. Thank you for sharing your experience... it reminded me when I lived in China and they where nice!

[@ky5723]

PROTECT HIM AT ALL COSTTTT HE IS SO CUTEEE

[@Chilotalks]

😂😂😂😂

[@rikotakashi2541]

Yeah🤣🤣

[@ky5723]

@Ange Maffo i love yours as well

[@tarusake7326]

Hehhhh

[@ImLazz]

IKR❤️🥺🥺

[@littlericecake8690]

You can tell he was ready to learn a new type of hair texture. It’s like he’s been waiting for that moment his whole career 😂

[@Chilotalks]

I know right 😂😂

[@kokonadosian]

🤣🤣

[@greylove2064]

🤣🤣🤣

[@jaylenef4982]

🤣🤣

[@opeoluwabeloved]

And I guess that's all we Africans want, sincere openness to learn about our uniqueness, hair, melanin, languages, culture and all.

[@ceciliareyes9485]

I'm not surprised cuz in Japan they strive to satisfy their customers they'd never give up on a client or do a half assed job.

[@Chilotalks]

you are absolutely correct. They work so hard

[@ceciliareyes9485]

@@Chilotalks yeah I wish it was like that in the states

[@taetm8868]

@@ceciliareyes9485 state just messy ignorant arrogant lazy i wish i could nuke and fly away💩

[@latanyawhittaker4754]

Even with the mask on you could see the happiness in his eyes. It sounds weird but, there was a beautiful light. So attractive.

[@regina0273]

@@taetm8868 it’s bad but Memphis is the worst lmaoo

[@catman6089]

she said "thin sections" and he took that to HEART

[@elizabethnwachukwu5310]

Literally, very considerate . ❤❤🥰🥰

[@jjvstspk]

He did so amazingly

[@devilmecare]

Thin sections flat iron better and it lasts longer.

[@BleachedPeehole]

When you’re still repping the roachdoggjr profile pic ❤️

[@DylanRomanov]

You should always do ruin sections for flat ironing but he did amazing

[@roche8395]

You know he’s a good hairdresser when he gets excited

[@Chilotalks]

Very true

[@Stopfollowingmeplz8]

So true, I'm in the US and can walk in a salon and see the stylist get that scared look in the eyes, know that's not the spot for me. I grab a card, say thank you - I'll schedule later. Then never go back lmao

[@dazzle3264]

Yess I went to get my hair cut short and my hairdresser was excited because she likes cutting hair short.

[@SomeoneNewLikeYourMother]

@@Stopfollowingmeplz8 good advice

[@Lenaa____aaa]

Yesss! You've said EVERYTHING

[@nevaehsarchive_]

I love how he was treating her hair like it was worth 1 million dollars Edit: wow thank you! so many like I never got this many before and if you see this may you be bless and happy

[@Chilotalks]

Hahahaha....it was so nice

[@noirmative9293]

It is. :-).

[@M5TABBYCAT]

I thought so too

[@homodeus8713]

Afro hair is the most delicate hair on the planet. Very fragile.

[@lingai7743]

Yeah I had the same thoughts

[@Jamieisastar]

Once he masters the “silk press” technique he’ll be unstoppable!

[@Chilotalks]

Absolutely 👌

[@kyra3782]

I soo agree😊

[@jjwsvtk9987]

Righttt

[@vidahpaz5921]

Unstoppable and rich!!!!! Know howany black people in Japan will flock to him???

[@midekuts]

True

[@soulaikamaarouf3617]

Everyone talking about how handsome polite, handsome and excited he was and all I’m thinking is that hair massage with shampoo he gave her must’ve felt so good

[@md4885]

Really! My scalp started tingling just by watching!

[@LadyK4233]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@penneyburgess5431]

I would go twice a week if that was an ‘average’ salon. 🥰

[@justarni]

THATS WHAT IM SAYING 😭 I wish somebody gave me that kind of message I’m too broke to go to a salon 😩

[@aissatoudiallo2834]

Same

[@reignajoyce]

He's not a 4c virgin any longer. You took your time with him, encouraged him, made him feel secure and you were gentle. Hair love was made🧖🏾‍♀️🚿👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Chilotalks]

😁😁

[@okeenowilson9558]

This took me out but FACTS💯

[@ann-marietucker2414]

Omg i felt it

[@bullynoir1207]

I'm rolling 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

[@eliani1326]

I think this should be printed on a tshirt

[@Val-db6vp]

not gonna lie, i fell in love with him, his personality, his manners, his HAAAANDS, his hair, his style. Nope, now my dream is to go to japan and let this guy do my hair

[@palladium607]

Me too. From the minute I saw him he just radiates excitement and pure joy

[@willaliburd9834]

Same!

[@SORTbyZINNY]

Oga oh

[@Iissad]

Everything about him was perfect except for the way he laced his shoelaces.

[@fayfay3152]

HIS HANDS!

[@falonsherrard6004]

You just know he bragged about this to his friends for weeks too lol. He's so excited, patient and willing to learn.

[@lifeisgood9026]

😂😂😂

[@leirs126]

😂😂😂 yes you know

[@diana6041]

Aww

[@bungarin4041]

Thats cute

[@mochi_is_cute_116]

Yessss😂

[@lizbethgomez2506]

The moment he said he was excited with the biggest shy luagh was adorable. He definitely treated you with lot's of respect and im so glad he was able to experience this to learn!

[@moniquewrites9046]

Legend has it, the hair dresser is still smiling to this day

[@scarq4995]

With faith we believe so

[@moongi852]

I mean why not 💜☺

[@ricetonja86]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Bumbita]

Had me laughing... imagine that!

[@DivergentWizdom]

Well done. You are MVP! Comment is hilarious!!!

[@emiliemoe]

Since no one else is saying it, that man looks FOINE

[@Chilotalks]

😂😂😂

[@wedsarta4345]

RIII

[@ronellepatterson4176]

He has cute hands🤭

[@lester2588]

Girl yasssss!!!! 💯😍

[@alanahorne4578]

I agreeeee

[@irener8661]

You know he went home that day and dove right into the silk press corner of youtube. You can tell he's so excited to learn

[@geekygirl01]

Definitely!

[@arlenehutchinson9259]

💯💯💯💯💯♥️♥️♥️♥️🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 yesssss and I'm sure he's going to call her to ask her to try again ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️💞💞💞 more of these kind of people PLEASE SWEET LORD 🙌🏾

[@sheeshneesh]

Loooooool!

[@jules1599]

Lol from experience I know Japanese people will do this and also buy books about it and find ppl with the same interest/meet up groups. I remember seeing a dude on the train reading about the basics of footsal. 😊 I love their eagerness and sense of compromise with things.

[@RatsRatsIsthebest]

Lmao

[@safiyakhan8473]

Asia has many homogenous countries where people have hair that is either straight or wavy. It isn't surprising he wouldn't know how to do your hair but he didn't act in disdain or give up and shut you out. You were a customer and he was excited to learn for the future and it showed that he cared.

[@hottanqueray]

Exactly. And I love that he listened if she had any advice as well. I mean, how else are we gonna learn about each other.

[@vida.junction1823]

I just love the way the hair washing process was.infact it was perfect.

[@CrazyJodice]

I love that the hair technician didn’t seem scared of the hair but seemed excited. Like he was like “ Finally a Challenge!” I wish people over here in America were more like that.

[@Chilotalks]

Thank you 😊

[@morbidlisa292]

@@tinajsews2835 who asked u?

[@remy7663]

a lot of hairdressers are like that tbh, they always get excited to work on uncommon hair types

[@sleepythemis]

@@remy7663 Idk man, never had that experience personally in America and I'm not even the worst of my sisters when it comes to serious curls.

[@toad7371]

@@sleepythemis me neither lmao I don't even have coily or kinky hair and every time I've gone to a hairdresser in the US it hasn't been that great. I started cutting my own hair because of it. Can't imagine having to care for type 3b-4c hair

[@SL-lz9jr]

As a non-Black person, I’ve come to realize my favorite stylists are those who genuinely enjoy a hair challenge. Not the lazy ones who wants simple and easy but still charging you an arm and a leg. The true hair artists want creativity, want education, want opportunities to explore. Hair is their medium. This guy fits that mentality. He truly enjoys his job

[@wisperianeyes]

My mom is a hairstylist and I know she would really appreciate this comment

[@angelawilliams479]

So true!

[@dinavienna]

So true !! I ve been seeing the same hair stylist for more than 20 years. He still styles my hair way longer than he cuts it .. you can see he truly has visions and enjoys his job

[@lelaalise2034]

I mean but this is a different kind of challenge tho. Honestly I don’t want anyone to do my hair that doesn’t know how to do my hair. That’s like going to a chicken place and ordering seafood and expecting it to be good.

[@andrearandall7540]

Or the cut it off ones 😀

[@baakojernigan7095]

THIS is how humans are SUPPOSED to get along

[@maryannanderson1744]

Amen

[@JohannaLiljegren]

Yes!

[@womanface3684]

Amen

[@assala6796]

YESSIR

[@gertrudesatekge2635]

YESSIR

[@misojimo2154]

this is a pretty typical Japanese attitude/mindset - always trying to do the best job you can do and paying attention to the details, being very careful and hardworking. it really shows in the way japanese people do things

[@kuroneko7022]

You are so right. Always being polite and respectful and willing to please their customers no matter what. That’s what sets Jason apart from most countries.

[@kayjulist1016]

Other ppl don’t do this?

[@AshleyMagnolia_]

@@kayjulist1016he didn’t say that. Stating a fact doesn’t mean excluding others, she’s just focused on Japanese culture in particular.

[@kayjulist1016]

@@AshleyMagnolia_ I never said they did. The way they said IT made it seem like they did tho considering they said “Japanese mindset” which makes no sense😐..

[@kayjulist1016]

and hie is it a “fact” when blk ppl with her hair get declined 99% of the time bffr

[@empresscrafts689]

I'm not gonna lie, I clicked because your hairstylist was looking good in the thumbnail😅🤩🥰

[@Chilotalks]

🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣

[@empresscrafts689]

@@Chilotalks Well... I said what I said 🤷🏾‍♀️😂 and your video was good too btw - can't miss that out ❣

[@swaaroo]

Same but the fact he was getting use to natural hair too was getting to me as well

[@empresscrafts689]

@@swaaroo yh he was so precious and comfortable with the new challenge🥰

[@gabrielasaucedoflores1231]

I thought I was the only one 😭I was looking at him most of the video 🥰

[@oldsoulyt4757]

I've never wanted to hug a man so much in my entire life he's so precious

[@Chilotalks]

😁😁

[@leahhudak8793]

Hi i don’t know who you are but you look so pretty in your profile and i just needed to tell you that ^^

[@angelicelly_904]

@@leahhudak8793 Hi, I don't know who you are either but your profile pic looks so beautiful too 💖 you look so sweet.

[@Solitude11-11]

He’s just adorable ❤️

[@ronnieferguson9337]

IKR!

[@gerrard5676]

He's a good dude. There are good human beings everywhere around the world regardless of what the news tells us. I like how excited he was.

[@Chilotalks]

You are so correct 👌. Sometimes people let the media make them not to be open minded about different people. He was really excited and it made me so excited too.

[@gerrard5676]

Yeah. If you ever do more vids like this, I will be watching.

[@HushSenses]

Beautiful words my friend. You are 100 percent right!!

[@igotthis402730]

There more good humans than bad in this world. You don’t need the news to tell you. Not really sure what your point is.

[@jackiekearney]

Japanese are mostly very nice people.

[@Komnini]

For someone who had no idea right from the start, he was very receptive to constructive criticism, was willing to try his best under the circumstance (instead of just saying sorry we don't do this). He gets tons of thumbs up for his honest effort, and I hope he continues to learn so his skills sharpen and your next visit there will blow you away ♥

[@PrettyGlory]

I love a stylist that doesn’t have that “we don’t do that type of hair” attitude. All stylists worldwide should be taught all textures as part of their certification from now on.

[@senoracheapee1864]

I don’t know about another countries but in America they do learn all textures regardless of why they say they don’t do

[@mariadiallo6719]

@@senoracheapee1864 not always have been turned away plainly of time cause of my texture

[@girlieluuv94]

@@senoracheapee1864 you don't learn all textures in America. Depends on the school.

[@Katara0403]

@@senoracheapee1864 Nah because I went to a stylist and it was very clear she didn't know how to do my black hair because I looked like a pyramid when I came out....

[@caij8456]

@@senoracheapee1864 fun fact: everyone actually isn’t taught how to do black hair here in America which is why people get turned away and all. I know someone who went to hair school and had to teach herself to do hair like mine. It’s trash right because I also thought that it was. I think it’s slightly gone over but not enough to do that hair.

[@nhazarr]

Can we all agree that he’s going to binge watch videos on how to do handle 4c so he’ll be more prepared next time 😂😂

[@stratocheese]

100%. He was prepared to satisfy his costumer 100%. He's also hella beautiful

[@belieall9974]

adorable

[@Marinaaduran]

He did well

[@gabisasmr]

At least he didn't lie about that he never worked with afro texture hair some of them be lying and then ruin your hair

[@Chilotalks]

😂😂😂😂

[@yukiefromoz2573]

The Japanese are pretty honest ppl man...

[@aki9059]

@@yukiefromoz2573 not everyone’s going to be honest dude

[@yukiefromoz2573]

@@aki9059 Ofc not, I meant in general 🙄

[@giomaynard8493]

They just for the money n don't even care about the client

[@jmb4408]

He's so attractive bec of how he presents himself and his personality and attitude 😩✨💖

[@localpossum2690]

I had lived in Japan when I was a kid and I loved getting my hair done there. I’ve been told all my life that I was nappy headed by other American stylist and then I go to Japan and they are so gentle with detangling. Even when I got my hair braided, I felt literally no pain. Eventually, my mom found someone who could do a silk press and I looked cute for days. I distinctively remember that every time I got my hair done and it took longer than expected, they would always give me juice and candy. It was a very good experience.

[@Chilotalks]

Wooow...this is such a beautiful experience 💕

[@wheresthetreasurechamber760]

you don’t live in Japan anymore?

[@localpossum2690]

@@wheresthetreasurechamber760 no, not anymore. My mom was in the military so when she got orders to leave, I went with her.

[@a.j.w9992]

Was your hair damaged at all bc of their inexperience with you hair type?

[@KeleWele23]

That's sad! When I was a teenager I wanted my hair cut in a certain style. The stylist that came highly recommend by friends was a white man. He owned a hair salon in a predominantly African-American area. He was very talented & he understood how to care for Black hair! The relaxer & cut he gave me looked just like the style in the picture I showed him. Now I am all natural & strictly maintain my natural hair, but he was definitely one of my top stylists!

[@agathaduarte3677]

You can see that! He is smiling behind the mask. I love Japanese people.

[@Chilotalks]

Same here 🤗

[@Miasofia101]

❤️🤧

[@navymirror_]

i smile a lot, but its covered by my mask so people thought i ignored them :"D

[@mangakuota122]

@@navymirror_ you can wear the transparent one 😉

[@itsrai3230]

@@mangakuota122 i never knew they had those!

[@sabrinaestwick9091]

He wouldn’t be able to wake me up after that head massage and eye cover

[@Chilotalks]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Kiitanseditopia]

Sameeee

[@edireftemsi511]

I died😂

[@azarymelekh]

Right! The best part of the video was the hair washing experience.

[@adrianaluna8721]

Oh my God. that head massage looked amazing. I think I felt the relaxing vibes.

[@25marshalyn]

They should all learn to style black hair because its the most versatile. It curls, it stands, it straightens, it puffs naturally! The hairdresser who masters this should be an asset in these salons.

[@kathleenking47]

It DOES have the most BODY

[@doll.ov.poetrii4682]

True. Afro hair is hands down the most versatile hair.

[@BVBsoldier01]

He was so sweet and respectful but so were you!! You were patient with him and taught him along the way, honestly this whole interaction is really wholesome!!

[@Chilotalks]

Yes....it was really a mutual respect and it made everything so nice

[@ronaldray1130]

Yes. The mutual respect for each other and learning about our differences just through hair. Imagine how much further we can go just by trying.

[@IAmCierraDawn]

It really was and it was just beautiful!

[@that_auntceleste5848]

Yes this was exactly what was most beautiful to me about this video -- the mutual respect and openness you both had. Your absolute trust that he would do his best, his genuine delight with your hair, so so cool.

[@vvskiitlesvv]

That’s my favorite part of this

[@johannanavarro115]

I just KNOOOOW that head massage was BUSSIN 🔥

[@Chilotalks]

It was so nice

[@MultiDaisy1995]

Right! I was like “Okayyyy! with the steam and everything!” It looked like it felt amazing!

[@evanrachelhood]

Fr fr

[@Michiko783]

like i felt relaxed just watching it...im in deep need of a good head massage

[@biadefaturiyele8600]

I almost fell asleep watching it !!!

[@LadyRavenB]

The fact that he is eager to learn how to handle different hair types, is the mark of a good stylist.

[@Chilotalks]

Exactly

[@Nutellix]

Edit: OMG, I WASNT EXPECTING MY COMMENT TO REACH SO MANY PEOPLE! THANK YOU FOR THE 600 LIKES, GUYS! 😳😭😭💕 Let's take a moment to appreciate this man's kindness and dedication. - He asked for her PERMISSION before taking photos. - Complimented her - Asked her if the temperature was bearable for her - He didnt scrub her scalp very harshly, he took all his time - He asked HER which comb he should use, how to section her hair...etc - He straightened her hair very slowly Seriously, we should all have a hairdresser like him.

[@keroki932]

idk where you live, but our hairdressers are all like this

[@valley_sock_zero]

Agreed!!

[@Tamaki742]

Man. What kind of hairdressers do you guys have this whole time??

[@PJ-gi1vw]

He’s super super kind and patient. He is kindness. Japan is cool. Very polite.

[@AnnaLexi]

*_Yeah I definitely got good vibes from him the second I saw them interact!!_*

[@soundsprism4487]

That massage & steam looks so relaxing. He did great. His excitement is everything

[@Chilotalks]

Very true...it was so relaxing

[@annhenry-reynolds4845]

I was thinking the same thing for real 😊

[@sophieanc2184]

And steam is actually very good for our hair! He did great! He was triying hard and was open! Even better than in France! I would love to experiment! 👏🏾

[@elisalukasik6334]

Why is this masked man SO attractive. Those arms and hands and smiling eyes tho

[@diana6041]

Ikr lol

[@laurenelizabeth7525]

Lol! I'm a nurse and I can't take my eyes off of those juicy veins on those arms and hands!!! But, yes, very handsome...mask and all!

[@kenneathhill9473]

I know right🙂

[@Buffpork]

Simp-ly inlove with him

[@bana_nafish]

Yeah... He is so good looking even though he is wearing the mask😍💓

[@296jacqi]

When he said “I’m excited!” it made my heart sing. He was born to give tender care to hair.

[@adaobiudeze7123]

💞

[@MiyaGeorginaJoi]

Sooooo cute 🥺

[@Firespawnable]

He's adorable got being excited to do a different hair texture 🤣

[@windler763]

@FREAQU genuine question: what was harmful about the techniques he used? i've never looked very deeply into natural hair but i know it needs a lot of moisture so i'm wondering if it was mostly the heat of the straighteners

[@windler763]

@FREAQU thank you so much for replying, i understand now that were was so much done wrong. so many hairstylists are unfamiliar with black hair and seem to hope that a black person never walks through their door so they dont have to learn how to work with it. almost like its a taboo. thanks again for teaching what he did wrong, i hope more people see this and take it into account

[@ala492]

I love how he treated his customer like a queen irrespective of any bias

[@julia-x1579]

I'm a hairdresser and i love the fact that you giving him space to learn. Some customers are really mean when they see your not doing it there way. I mean we are all people and sometimes its possible that someone can not do it correctly the way you like it. But i love your patience girl ❤️

[@Chilotalks]

I really need to pin your comment because you spilled facts. Thank you so much for this

[@savvivixen8490]

@@Chilotalks Yeah that's sooo important, and some customers (especially in the same field) forget that. Truly, kudos to you for your gentle guidance.

[@marissag.Vs_winterbear]

I'm glad that they could both vibe while she helped him through the process of straightening her hair. I would honestly do the same in her situation. There's a pandemic going on and he was willing to try something new. He deserves a stress free zone.

[@taelerrwashington9712]

The thing is I get what u are saying but at the same time it’s just irritating that most of the time black hair dressers can do everyone’s hair but anyone that’s not black doesn’t know how to do black hair and what are the chances of me trusting a non black hair dresser that doesn’t have experience with my hair texture? Probably like 0.5 percent if I’m being completely honest lol

[@savvivixen8490]

@@taelerrwashington9712 You're very justified in feeling that way, especially for your stated reasoning. It's because of those very issues that I feel it important to gently encourage those outside the culture who really want to learn our hair from the roots, and equally important to have helpful volunteers when it's time to truly test their mettle. 💜

[@Joywyd]

For some reason I really hope they became friends cause they vibed so well together😭

[@Chilotalks]

Yes, we are actually 😁😁😁

[@Joywyd]

@@Chilotalks YAYYYY

[@kiaevans7142]

@@Chilotalks know that’s right 😩

[@zeexkins2252]

@@Chilotalks awee he cute too, period😂😂

[@melaninchocolate6552]

So glad to see this!!

[@Holly220U]

As a hairstyle he did everything correct including making you feel comfortable. For his first time doing a black women’s hair he did really well.

[@jazz8388]

Yuhh

[@tara30792]

He did scare me a bit on the blow drying part though. But he did an amazing job for his first time on a Black girl! 🙌🏾

[@kristendomingo4786]

@oof actually, kinky hair should be blow dried in sections and tucked away after each section is done. (Twisted or placed in a small bun) However, I do agree that he did an amazing job for someone who has never touched kinky hair.

[@kristendomingo4786]

@oof It's important to enlighten yourself. That hairdresser showed how open he is to learning. You should follow his example. Have a nice day.

[@Nick-dx2pt]

@oof "females be taking hair too seriously" idk but I see your internal misogyny lmao we take care of hair since it's part of our body and appearance is important for job's etc also please refrain from using "females" we are humans too not a different specie when talking about your so called "females" pleaseeeeee use women unless your writing a biology exam/ a scientist, also Women are not the only one's that should be taking care of hair and being "picky" Men should too we're all humans after all

[@laurengayle6543]

U can tell when someone truly love their craft and is a true professional. Because some people wouldn't even try. But because he actually loves doing hair he was willing to try something he had never done before. I give him A for effort. Obviously he couldn't really do the styling part but that MASSAGE made up for it. Also he had a great attitude. You always want someone with great energy doing your hair because they're working on your head.

[@leahsanchez9501]

lmaooo! his reaction was like"damn! i did that" your hair is lovely tho.

[@Chilotalks]

Exactly 😂😂😂. Thanks for the compliment

[@leahsanchez9501]

@@Chilotalks no problem sis.

[@chichirockin13]

I love how willing he was to learn. He tried his best and he did great! There are even a few Black hairdressers who dislike working with 4c hair, or find it tiring, smh

[@Chilotalks]

So true 👌

[@elisejackson2854]

Lol more than a few sadly.

[@hopeworld9515]

Maybe it can get tiring when you have to do this everyday, multiple times a day. For the japanese guy its his first time dealing with 4c hair so its a new experience for him, something new to learn, but not smth he had to do all the time. That said, its still not any reason to be rude to the customer.

[@ThatOneGirl505]

That's so sad! As a stylist myself, I love working with different hair textures, I may not be great at it (just not enough people to practice on), but I certainly enjoy it!

[@zitronentee]

Passion and patience.

[@patticakescreates2795]

I love that when he initially touched the hair you could see the curiosity and desire he had about understanding the texture and how best to treat the hair. I know people are completely ignorant and rude to poc about their hair but he just seemed so genuinely excited to learn and do his best for you. It wasn’t that “can I touch your hair” it was like, “can I understand your hair?” And “I’m gonna take care of you.” It was so sweet

[@patticakescreates2795]

Your hair not the hair **

[@ninoslanguagejourney6002]

Well to be fair I think specially in asian countries there are very few foreigners so they tend to be very curious and excited to touch foreigners haurs. I'm white and when I went to a chinese hairdresser they could not stop playing with my hair. They maid a beautiful S shaped fishtale braid into my hair just to get some more time to touch it haaha

[@LavendrSkies]

He is also a POC. 4C is Black hair, not poc hair.

[@arachnidfingers]

exactly!!

[@name9171]

@@LavendrSkies what is poc?

[@annthomas4491]

He is fantastic. I loved how he was honest in saying he had not done black hair but "we will try". True artist.

[@yamigurl822]

Not everyone in the comments being IN LOVE with the hair stylist 😂❤️

[@quensij4198]

Absolutely 💯🥰🥰

[@takiyahchery]

😅😅

[@priscilarosario1891]

The first thing I thought after seeing the thumbnail was "He fine"

[@Linda7647]

Yeah, he's a cutie. Just wish I could see his whole face. But I love his hair.

[@jewels24k]

Girl! When he was doing the head massage I was getting ready to book a flight! ✈

[@leratomanana917]

Who else clicked because they saw the hot salonist?😂❤

[@Chilotalks]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@adeysisay8607]

Girl you know I did😂

[@thatchiqfaye9154]

Me 🤣

[@JoeyisDREADful]

✌️

[@kalikav434]

Not going to lie, me!! He's freaking gorgeous 🥴🤤

[@christinea6318]

I don’t know if it’s just me, but I loved the way he touched her kinky ponytail in the beginning. He looked so fascinated.

[@vvskiitlesvv]

It was adorable. Reminded me of my daughter’s friend who had 4c hair. My daughter never seemed to notice it until her friend had the cutest little fluffy pigtails (instead of the braids she normally had). She scrunched them and they both giggled. She was around 2.

[@jenayac8191]

Really reminded me of school when all the kids told me I reminded them of a poodle and touched without asking

[@Firespawnable]

I liked that part too he seemed so fascinated by her hair 😂

[@chema2150]

I like how he touched his hair afterwards to feel the difference in texture and he was in awe

[@theosymommy]

Yes.. It didn't offend me, lol.. He was lovely💖

[@nandinisunkara]

✨His veins✨ He was soo kind, and you're gorgeous as always

[@EdugeBDroN]

Im a "hand" girl and instinctively I just could not take my eyes off this guy's hands..... somebody get me a fan

[@catonkybord7950]

The star tattoo did it for me.

[@joanjm3342]

I thought I was being weird🤣🤣🤣

[@klaudiawrona5439]

Omg same, I couldn’t stop looking at his hands 😳

[@PajaCZ]

Yes! Same here 🤗 Love it.

[@preshmah178]

The veiny hand🥵

[@LivxLaughxLove]

I think that a lot of hairdressers tend to be like "I know what I'm doing. I don't need you to show me or tell me nothing" so it's refreshing to see a hairstylist so ready and willing to take the time to learn something new. He was so excited and smiling so hard the whole time. Remember everyone, we are all students of our craft even after we leave school. There's so many experiences that school just cannot prepare us for. Remain willing to learn.

[@Chilotalks]

Very true 👌

[@esthergaby4913]

Well said!

[@joanjm3342]

Spotting ARMYs everywhere I go😌💜

[@catherinemadeinbrasil05]

Exactly!! I thought the same when I saw her giving him directions and picking the comb... I was amazed at both! Her for having realistic expectations and be willing to teach! Him for having the patience and excitement to learn so much! The fact that both were patient, polite and smiley is what makes this video so wholesome to me 🥰 Plus he was so cute (I mean his attitude)!! And them vibing to Maroon 5?! 💘💘💘💘💘💘

[@shadowboxing7029]

I live in a predominantly white country so hairdressers tend to cater towards that hair. My daughter and I have Polynesian hair though, shit is curly so I try to learn them something but they all think they know everything and they end up knowing fuck all. I found one recently who kinda listens so I guess that's something lol.

[@sweetsamia6257]

THIS is how we move mountains. Accepting that we are different but getting familiar.

[@terrypate6448]

Yeeeessssss👍🏽😎❣

[@blackmoon3325]

This 💜✨

[@shaughnegonzalez6814]

That's the best part of this video for me 🙋🏽‍♀️❤ 2 ppl from different cultures, but w/ so much more in common...now if we can all do this on a global scale...I always think of John Lennon's song...Imagine...✌🏾💯

[@vvskiitlesvv]

It’s a beautiful testament to humanity

[@cc-uv7eu]

This!🙌

[@tracyrain4941]

I'm not finished watching yet but had to comment. Isn't this how differences should be treated? With excitement and awe. Love it 😊

[@poisonkiss201]

I love how genuinely happy, excited and ready he is to work on your hair and to try working with your hair type for the first time.

[@Chilotalks]

Exactly...me too and it was so contagious that it made me feel so relaxed. Thanks for watching

[@lyndsay._.x]

Is no one gonna talk about his hands? Like 1. They are perfect and 2. He has so much care and he's so gentle.

[@lexialevi2147]

OMG RIGHT?! amazing

[@thatwitch8151]

IKR?? 😱

[@cproteus]

He’s totally beautiful. LOL

[@Cooltink101]

He's so cute

[@tatimarie8277]

Honestly they had wide tooth combs and a pic which is what caught me of guard (in a good way). He also was really willing to learn which earns my respect any day

[@2008MrsKim]

I hate when people say you can't see people smile behind the mask... I saw his smile bright and clear!

[@backho5882]

Phuck the mask though,

[@HaNa-eq1uy]

@@backho5882 umm... 😐

[@verycoolpersonguy]

It's all in the eyes :)

[@Soul-zq6hu]

Facts lol

[@Rose-cq3bf]

What they actually mean is that they can't fake a smile not that they are worried that pple won't see their happiness

[@evie_rosie9804]

I loved his attitude! He was so willing to learn and to accept your advice!

[@ladygigi9097]

Why did watching him treat her with such care get me emotional?!

[@purplerose7318]

I know right! And the way he massaged her hair 😭💜

[@autumnwysh8713]

Because everyone deserves to be treated with such care 💜

[@mokakuma7329]

cuz she black...and it's rare for this ethnicity to be treated like that

[@toniclarke7398]

I think it's because under the impression that they don't like us much as a culture

[@mokakuma7329]

@@toniclarke7398 so the fact that they don't like blacks it's included in culture

[@ForSpicy]

I lived in Japan for 7 years. I NEVER even considered going to a Japanese salon. Always did it myself or my mom did it. But let me tell you, his attitude was everything! Not shying away, accepting challenge, his care, not wiping his hands after touching it (from what I saw!). Attitude is half the battle. Love this! 👍🏾

[@ABookerM]

Right...I noticed that too. He even touched his hair right after he was initially examining her. Not a care in the world just wanted to give her service as she requested.

[@Circusgirl_aj]

My mom had her hair done while in Japan but she had a relaxer in her hair. So it was a wash, blow dry and roll brush curl. Her hair was very soft and light feeling 5 days later when she arrived back in the USA.

[@andriathompson7566]

Excuse my ignorance, please. Why would he wipe his hands?

[@aksmith2001]

@@andriathompson7566 Some people think that touching our hair is dirty, hence wiping their hands if they have to touch it.

[@andriathompson7566]

@@aksmith2001 thank you for your response. I love hair, and his reaction made my heart sing! I'm not a stylist, but I want to touch everyone's hair, lol. It's a beautiful curiosity. 🥰

[@Beautyinwverything]

I'm half black and half Japanese with 4a/4b hair and I am soooo proud of him. He was so excited LOL

[@serenity2655]

Awwww that was so sweet.

[@lilmanq7746]

Damn half Asian half black u must look unique

[@riyukisadamoto639]

No way i am afroasian (half african quater maya and quater japanese :p ) too thats actually so cool ive never heard of anyone else like that.:))

[@donedexx7424]

Same except I’m half Vietnamese

[@arina4030]

lucky

[@ruchibhagat8900]

I really love this Japanese hairstylist and ofcourse his efforts as well as passion for work is outstanding!

[@lalablack6038]

I use to live in Japan I taught a few ladies how to braid and they ended up opening their own braiding shop. If I hit the mega millions I'm moving back.

[@Chilotalks]

Woooow

[@sherriv4860]

What's their shop called?

[@layloniefoluke155]

I want to be move there too.

[@missdoojy]

I hope you got paid for teaching them braiding

[@dgenral7]

Stop giving away our culture you would have had to pay millions to learn how to do something that was culturally there's yet we give away our technique next thing you know they'll have shops overcharging black women to do their hair

[@kenaleonegape]

Many black hairdressers don’t even get this excited for black hair 🥺that massage 😍

[@ms.hjohnson6820]

Why would they? It’s normal to them..

[@mkknight9619]

Caribbeans do, especially if you have major shrinkage like I do. After a big chop I went in with an inch TWA to get it trimmed. She washed and blow my hair out and said “where did all this hair come from, when you walked in your hair looked so short “. We were cracking up... I also went to an Asian American salon because of the neighborhood I lived in, and guy who cut my hair twice was very nice but the lady who colored it was very rude on my last visit, so I never went back.

[@charleyMcCaw]

I know right

[@Vanvanah]

that massage looked heavenly

[@livingfinance]

My dear lets not exaggerate, you guys do a little too much when nonblack people do anything black related, have some dignity please.

[@sophiaadu-gyamfi36]

I could feel the massage through the screen. And i looove his enthusiasm and friendliness. A* for effort.

[@Chilotalks]

The effort 🙌🙌

[@ladiiyb]

Saaame. It feels sooo good despite I'm not the one having this experience lol. The massage look really like therapy

[@mamamememoo]

I want him to shampoo my hair and treat it. He looks like such an amazing hair stylist. Wow.

[@daughtersofsunshine4350]

I'm not usually a fan of these kinds of videos because they are SUPER cringey. But honestly... I feel like this was such an educational experience for him. You are awesome.

[@notyouraccount7497]

He's going to share stories, many generations, about the day he saw a woman with raven sponge like hair- that didn't feel wet while washing it, curls smaller than his pinky nail and that grew infront of his face While he straightened it. Legends are born when diversity is embraced.

[@laylayrawrs]

Love this 💜💜💜

[@kaoutermouslimhaliba7145]

Wow what a beautiful way to describe things.

[@notyouraccount7497]

@@kaoutermouslimhaliba7145 thank-you

[@notyouraccount7497]

@@laylayrawrs 💖

[@autumnhomer9786]

🎀Beautifully written.🎀

[@captainMAE]

Idk how the KZbin algorithm got me here but I’m so thankful. I got a bit choked up watching this. I know it’s just a simple video of going to the salon but to me it went so much deeper. The hospitality to those different from you, looking at something new as amazing, seeing challenges as exciting, the openness to learn. Hair is so dear to black culture and his attitude towards you was everything to me. Everything! God bless him and his business. I hope he reaches success, he deserves it. And thank you for giving those who aren’t black the opportunity to learn.

[@Chilotalks]

Your words are so kind. Thank you

[@chelseavuchinich4859]

Same, so wholesome and heartwarming. Also, I wish I could go to him!

[@roor6846]

Same, I have thin, ruler-straight hair, but I'm a little teary at his excitement to work with your hair. He's like a child experiencing something new and exciting, but with respect and maturity. What a delightful person.

[@kirstend9390]

I love this comment! I agree too, it was lovely to see.

[@DevineMissMerlin]

Yes!!!

[@kairilaicreampuffs]

He’s like “this is my time y’all!!!!! D:

[@Chilotalks]

😂😂

[@HairOlgine]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@zhanna767]

He shone! Idk if that’s even a word oh whatever ❤️

[@emanuelly.santos]

He was so gentle and respectful, how sweet 🥺💘

[@Beautywithapurpose4]

I think he did a very job for it to be his first time doing our type of hair :)

[@Chilotalks]

Same here...he did too good for a first timer ❣️

[@FuzzyLittleWolf123]

I have to commend your patience and willingness to educate him knowing that it would be outside of his comfort zone! He was so sweet and enthusiastic, I'm proud of him for taking on a new hair type! Do you plan to visit his salon again soon? This is my first video of yours and I love your personality

[@Chilotalks]

Thank you so much. I will definitely visit again when I can. I really appreciate your warm words

[@MsSade-ue7qq]

*Different hair type

[@Coolguy-mk7hg]

@@MsSade-ue7qq it's a new hair to him so why can't he use that word?

[@tashatasha171]

This is why I don't get mad when people ask to touch my hair. Its such a versatile accessory we have and everyone's is different. His reactions were so nice to watch and your steam/massage looked heavenly z

[@Chilotalks]

So so so true 😍

[@bbkix]

A hair stylist is welcome to touch my hair of course but strangers at the grocery store? Noooo ma'am! They better keep those Covid fingers away from my scalp! 😂 If they're so passionate about different hair textures they can go to cosmetology school...this isn't a petting zoo.

[@user-om2kw2dc9d]

@@bbkix that’s what I’m saying. He was gently studying her hair while others pet us like huh-

[@ForestSen]

Honestly I’m a hair person. I absolutely love playing with people’s hair. BUT! I would NEVER ask someone I didn’t know and that we weren’t comfortable with each other. It’s such a personal thing. Hairdressers I’m fine with cause it’s their job. But strangers? No.

[@user-om2kw2dc9d]

@@ForestSen you have my respect

[@marfialennox2642]

I guarantee he’s ready to go to a school that teaches how to do ethnic hair. His excitement was contagious. I smiled through it. I give him an A- because he gave it an excellent try

[@lekzimatamang9382]

more like me crushing on a random japanese hairdresser for an entire video 😭😭😭

[@ananya4177]

Me too sis me too

[@pastamvaidehi8684]

Bruh same 🤣

[@xpatriciadanielle]

Wanted to place a comment just like yours. I mean.. look at him! 😍

[@lekzimatamang9382]

@@xpatriciadanielle ikr gives me dazai vibes

[@karen7108]

Same 😝

[@cam8462]

Why is this so wholesome to me 🥺 I think is because he seems so excited and ready to play with your hair, this man has been waiting for your type of hair his whole career and he is so receptive of what you tell him

[@Chilotalks]

Thank you 💞

[@PatriciaAbijah]

He’s so friendly

[@Chilotalks]

Exactly... extremely friendly o 🤗🤗❣️❣️

[@antoleo97]

He’s so cute while trying to learn.. so respectful.. this is such a beautiful video.. the fact that you are willing to go there and the way you respectfully guide him .. and the way he does his job.. this video is heartwarming..🥰

[@rimshajehangir3395]

He's so beautiful and attractive.. His smile under his mask.. His eye wrinkles..the star on his finger... The care he manifests in the whole process... And please in the start of the video when he quickly touches her hair and gets excited as if a kid is given a new toy... This man is so cherish able.. God protect him 🍷✨

[@spiritedforeva]

Yess!

[@alanasimionato7931]

omg everyone in the comments are going gay on him UHFSUFAHSDUAHD

[@spiritedforeva]

@@alanasimionato7931 lmao ikr.

[@rimshajehangir3395]

@@alanasimionato7931 it's called love 😌✨

[@lalisaaaa5529]

YALL LMFAO BUT TRUE

[@vvskiitlesvv]

I like how you go in knowing that this will likely be a new experience for a typical Japanese salon. People can be be very sensitive when it comes to their hair and something like this would terrify some people I know. You went in with a smile and faith and blessed this man with a brand new learning experience. I just love the positivity!

[@Chilotalks]

Thank you so much 💓💓...I had him do a full massage on me in my new video. Pure ASMR vibes this time 🥺🥺

[@exoticalBecky_Miami]

Yeah...I'd be terrified

[@sassytheclassy_rose9778]

@@exoticalBecky_Miami Why? It's not like hair stylists know how to do their own race's hair😂. I quit going a long time ago. One time I had a chick cut bangs so thick it was almost half my head as bangs. Was a sad day

[@Balderhash]

It's not 'sensitive' it's not wanting to walk out with dry and damaged hair like she did.

[@DVSLEO]

He is definitely on the right track. Once he learns that you have to place a heat protectant on the hair, then, you have to blow out the hair as straight as possible, then do chase method for the press, he will have all the folk in Japan coming to him. Cause you can do this on all hair types. I am so happy he was willing to learn. I hope he dives into it. For his first attempt, good job!

[@Chilotalks]

Apt 👌

[@Veehouse720]

I absolutely LOVE watching people with this hair type get their hair done, in any way, it's so satisfying and always beautiful outcomes! I didn't know that about 4c hair.. there's so much other cultures don't know about each other and it's awesome getting to learn about other people & all the unique ways we're all so different but, still a lot of the same.

[@pencilsniper]

I'm sure she spark some interest and inspiration as well as motivation in this man. 😌

[@jordanabeaulieu2530]

The massage alone was amazing 😊

[@heartofmythril]

1. That hairdresser was super adorable. 2. You are super adorable. 3. Thanks for sharing this with me. 4. Thanks for sharing yourself with this hairdresser. You could've made assumptions. He could've made assumptions. Y'all didn't and came together to teach each other. Well mostly you taught him. But I love that you did.

[@SersiSus]

He’s sooooo cute 🥺. It’s the “ohhhh Much better” and “I’m so excited” for me 😭

[@Chilotalks]

You also heard it? That was so cute to me too 🥺🥺

[@williamsims383]

See, the Japanese aren't afraid to learn on the spot and challenge themselves while applying all the knowledge they have and striving for perfection. Its just their culture, brilliant.

[@sarab6237]

Ur absolutly right,and arabic culture is the exact opposite.

[@micholrichardson2692]

Japanese will not stop until a job is done properly. It’s remarkable.

[@micholrichardson2692]

To the best of their ability at the time anyway.

[@watchlovestanexo]

@@sarab6237 lmao why you bring Arab into this? Not all people are like that :) there’s always a good and bad in every culture

[@Magnet12]

NOT AS GOOD AS CHINESE CULTURE!!!!!!

[@deekay10]

While you'll are here admiring the handsome man, I'm already at his Instagram.

[@Chilotalks]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@ellah2303]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 we mooove! Dead

[@winniesnetwork1717]

Beta Nigerian

[@blyourwaytolife9935]

Danm you at me dying

[@fashionista12rw]

And his Instagram isss??👀

[@Holychichos]

He was so amazed when he saw your hair. He was like, “woooah, no I’ve never” but he was so eager to learn and give you the best customer experience at the same time 🤧💕

[@Mar-velousMarlenak8]

The amount of patience and care that he took, you could tell that he genuinely didn't want to hurt her while trying to comb her hair through. What a wonderful hairdresser! He was so excited to learn something new also. I wish more hairdressers were like this man rather than seeming annoyed at being paid to cut or style your hair.

[@miscalotastuff733]

Mines great. I actually go in early because she spends more time on it. Mine is short but nappy.

[@Mar-velousMarlenak8]

@@miscalotastuff733 well hold on to them! No matter what kind of hair you have, finding a good hairstylist is like finding a unicorn.

[@lieutenant_maow0590]

So is nobody going to talk about his looks....

[@Chilotalks]

😁😁

[@beachblues2155]

Ikr? 🙂

[@jessegizaw755]

Definitely!!!!!!

[@libbyclayton1649]

his hands are so pretty!!

[@Eyg5050]

Ain’t he cute as hell 😍😍 him being so sweet made him even more attractive

[@HeartsofPearl]

I dont think we are talking enough about the beauty this man holds yk

[@tamiajohnson5061]

Was anyone else getting sleepy when he was massage the scalp. He did a good job being his first time. He has kind eyes.

[@Chilotalks]

I still watch it and feel that way too 😂

[@YahairaLikesTurtles]

I love the way she’s helping him and he’s actually paying attention and taking notes Instead of acting like he knows everything about hair like how most hairstylist act. And his Lil dancy dance 🥺🥺You can tell he genuinely loves what he does

[@allisongahan159]

I think he was so endearing, Japanese hair is so obtusely straight, black hair is it’s complete opposite. Having never done hair like that before, maybe thru lack of opportunity, he was gentle and gracious as she was too! Lovely video! 😌😎🌈

[@mpazinambao2938]

he seemed really nice

[@MaresBarres]

@@fraise_fraud Northeast Asian*. Rebonding/relaxing are some of the most common services out here in Southeast Asia (Philippines, Malaysia, etc)

[@shavondarobinson8474]

All black hair isn't the same My hair is mixed texture It is wavy straight.

[@thebookwyrmslair6757]

I love "obtusely straight"! That's an excellent way to describe my hair. It laughs at any curler that comes near it.

[@aliciakozume5928]

@@thebookwyrmslair6757 If you ever wanna try to like curl it I definitely think the 2 day method works for "I'm not gonna curl hair" start 2 days before even wash it and let it dry in neat, detangled and uniform hair and then finger separate if this doesn't work try to curl and after each section braid it or twist it wait til cool and take them down worked for my friend with "you think you can curl me" straight hair . Good luck 🤣

[@stacir.8965]

He did a great job for his first time. And I love how excited he was to learn. That was so cute and honestly surprised me. Simply because of how Japan is. Absolutely loved this.

[@yessiraheem2560]

This is why i never understand why there is rasicm in this world. Look how enjoyable being different is! I love every single second of this video! Thank you to the both of you and the cameraman ❤

[@mrsloveydove4579]

I have no idea how racism started but the most racist people I’ve met were also extremely egotistical and narcissistic in the first place. It was most likely born from superiority complexes. A lot of people think they’re better than people of their own race for stupid reasons, why not think you’re better than the entire world for simply being different? Sounds absolutely ridiculous but it sure tickles a lot of morons’ jollies...😒

[@camzcampbell6075]

Control and power

[@ArtByEmilyHare]

Yes! Variety is so thrilling and beautiful!

[@JustEndah]

Yessi, agree. I love how you put it in words.

[@victry1nolan319]

There are ALOT of miserable people in this world and want to remain that way.

[@amandakappes3884]

PROTECT THIS MAN AT ALL COSTS 😩❤️

[@markemaker7707]

@Stacie Ricoh piss off stacie 🤣 Why you making a problem out of nothing

[@hoshi6423]

@@markemaker7707 YESS BABES POP OFF

[@hoshi6423]

@Stacie Ricoh Stacie u white washed or sum?

[@wantor-yesuliamngee2569]

Oh please.

[@wantor-yesuliamngee2569]

@@hoshi6423 no she ain't, she speaking the truth

[@Calamity_Jem]

Never thought I'd cry over a video like this but oh boy, seing loving human interactions is priceless nowadays

[@Chilotalks]

Now you are also making me teary with your comment 🥺🥺. Thank you so much

[@Neenerella333]

It was such a coming together of hearts and hair! He was willing to listen, but you were very patient. He was willing to be filmed in his profession, and you were willing to be his teachable moment. Made me all cozy inside. You met a lovely professional and you got your massage!! All my best.