Black Woman GOES OFF ON Black Culture for DESTROYING Black Women | The Officer Tatum.. REACTION

[@itsmelanieking]

Lol Y'all are a mess. This was too funny. For the record, it's not all black women. The women I surround myself with are not this way. It is definitely the overall culture that encourages black women to do things that harm our image. We don't have to allow that. My goal was to point out some of the things that are holding black women back from getting what they want out of relationships. Growth and change starts with honesty.

[@vapor7549]

Fellas fellas… rage against the machine, know your enemy. Please review

[@JoeKnows44]

@@vapor7549 Perfect time and place for that request.

[@TheDylls]

The fact that CF pinned this comment shows what they truly feel, I think! ANY conversation about ANY group of people, no matter what metric you're using to compare them, is going to be SOOOOO much more of a Bell Curve than the relatively B&W terms used to discuss generalities

[@bazkiller]

You say it's not all black women are like that ,the same way us white men say no I'm not a misogynist racist homophobe transphobe bigot? And we are not, and we know it's not all women and that there are few white men that are actual demons, but the left lashes us all with that shitstick, and it's not nice ... the left wants all women hating or dominating all men because the left leaders are all either toxic feminist representatives toxic trans representatives or toxic gay representatives. Not all gay trans and women are, but the ones doing the work in law and government are their reps. I mean, what is a woman today . Men are treated as if they beat women to death every day from the day they were born .kids are treated as if they were born to be the opposite sex they are born with ? The left are destroying the natural way of things both moraly and in how tmwe mix as a community I'm sick of them and I used to vote left regardless. I'm glad trump came along because, like him or lump him, he showed us that the 2 parties. are just one big corrupt gang of criminals but we gotta vote so I'm voting for way of life ghat wasint great but we could talk openly save money for holidays know that money was safe in the bank and nobody could take it .but with Democrats now they can seize you bank if you owe them in taxes or even protest againt their policies . We could go on holiday knowing we would be safe nowadays crime is si bad ,and everyone thinks the worst about everyone else and Democrats did that to say look we are the ones to sort thuz out but the price will be you obey or we will look for any little thing you ever did wrong and use it agaist you . Rant over ... for now .. 😅😅. I honestly hope we can get back normal civil life were we always just accept people as they are

[@MatrixJockey]

Cardi B is Dominican aka “Black”

[@laurenklafke5618]

Raised in the hood, left IT AND my crazy family. Went to college. Started a business. Married my husband (who’s white), and have 5 kids. All kids created and adopted after marriage.

[@cariaus3758]

So wonderful to read you have a successful life and got to adopt some kids too. Bless you all.

[@ericpalmer2754]

Awesome ...keep it rolling

[@joxyjoxyjoxy1]

Wait a minute. Wait just a minute. Are you saying you decided to value education, hard work and family, and this somehow led you to a life of prosperity and fulfillment?

[@amyproud]

No matter what that’s extremely impressive! Kudos for taking life by the balls and making shit happen🙏🙏🙏

[@4rl0ng]

Damn, thanks for rescuing those kids, ma'am.

[@scottcummings4249]

My now deceased grandma, who was born in 1921, once told me that she found modern entertainment disgusting for both the quantity of sexual content and the way the sexual content was portrayed. Her words, "Young people today think they invented sex. People were still having sex back in our day, but it was done with discretion and class. People didn't go around talking about their personal business."

[@theeggtimertictic1136]

She sounds like a classy woman.

[@samcaranol4102]

Yup

[@truthwins3065]

Forget it I can’t pay attention because they’re all talking over each other. Can’t make out what one person is saying.

[@joycenagy3140]

Amen! Grandma was certainly right.

[@joycenagy3140]

​@@truthwins3065 That's why I'm depending on close captioning. Not great, but them I'm mostly deaf to begin with.

[@jeffreyvescera9840]

You never need to apologize for learning and growing and making up you’re own minds with all the information. Keep up the conversations, you all are killing it.

[@bernicetorres8384]

Don't ever apologize: "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.” - Dr. Seuss

[@IcePurpleX]

So be a 304 and let your feelings control your life, facts don't care about feelings

[@ivetterodriguez9628]

@@IcePurpleX It's called being balanced and having normal social skills.

[@IcePurpleX]

@@ivetterodriguez9628 I don't think you even know what you are talking about lol, balance? I don't think 100 days of riots where black people killed more black people than the entire year of what they protest which was black people getting killed by police so what balance are you talking about, Social skills what like black people commiting almost 60% of all crime and violence in the country, and running up and shooting random innocent people in their cars, or having the highest abortion rate it being so high more black babies are killed than being born, or social skills like black on black crime running rampant through black areas, yeah that's real balance and social skills talk about delusional 😂😂😂

[@cdio78]

This citation promote not being accountable. Those who matter, mind but don't speak up.

[@chrisvillarreal2752]

Oh wow that’s all kinds of wrong 😂

[@jazshas]

I'm 64 years old and my mom is 96. Black women did not carry themselves with such poor conduct like they do today. We faced more racism and didn't have as many privileges, yet we carried ourselves with dignity and respect. Brothers back in the day wouldn't use profanity around women either and if one slipped out, they would apologize. Also, men would offer you their seats on the bus. Women back in the day covered themselves too. My sister's girlfriend showed up at a family party wearing what they called back in the day a "sizzler." 😊 That was a super short halter dress with matching panties. My mother told her she needed to cover herself because the women did not like the fact she was walking around half naked in front of their husbands! 😄

[@dreddykrugernew]

I really like what you say, im white but i think even saying the N word to each other even like these guys do is the beginning of the end, why isnt there a community of black people that dont tolerate the N word being said because I just think its not the word what it means but on a bigger scale you dont see white people saying whats up cracker, do people think when Denzel or Morgan or Idris are saying the N word when they are around people, can you imagine Denzel or Morgan saying on the red carpet at the Oscars "yo shout out to all my N's" its not that these guys think they are better or anything its just not normal for a productive environment...

[@jazshas]

@@dreddykrugernew I was just thinking about this the other day because I saw a group of brothas calling each other "N" and I didn't like it.

[@delg1211]

@@dreddykrugernew ..how about setting your sights little higher. The biggest disappointment in modern history was the U.S. having a black President who only made racial conflicts Worse. He squandered the greatest opportunity in American history to help his people, instead he ignored it. How much effort did he make to address the Cultural problems in the mirror- at Least Talk about them, raise awareness? 🤦🏾‍♂ I bet one of these fine chaps on this channel would have done a better job. 👩🏿‍🤝‍🧑🏻

[@robeltoburrows8109]

SO WHO DID THEY LEARN THIS BAD BEHAVIOUR FROM,,,? IT MUST'VE CAME FROM A CHAIN REACTION,,, THEY'VE ALWAYS BEEN BAD,, THE DIFFERENCES IS MAYBE KNOW, THEY HAVE CHANCE TO SHOW THERE TRUE COLOURS,,,,?

[@kickstar1]

The real racism your mom faced being 96 makes the faux racism of today look like a joke I imagine.

[@elizaaragon7627]

You guys are 3,000 away from 500k and I’ve been here since 1k !!!! I’m proud of you all

[@TheOfficialCartierFamily]

❤

[@baileybowman2449]

Me too ♥️🙏🏼♥️

[@elizaaragon7627]

@@TheOfficialCartierFamily YOU GUYS HIT 500k I’m proud !!!!!

[@ZolotoyPhoenix]

And only a year later they’re now almost at 1 million, y’all are the best!!!

[@km47804]

I HATE HATE HATE the way the word “submissive” is used as a desirable quality in women. What men want is a stable, supportive PARTNER that encourages and supports them instead of nagging, dominating and emasculating them.

[@D4PPZ456]

Submissiveness basically comes down to trust in your partner. What men are generally asking for is women that don't resent them for making the necessary decisions when they need to be made. All too often, men are called upon to have the final say on something in a relationship, and the non-submissive woman will be quick to anger when he takes that role, as well as when he refuses to. This no-win situation is the dread of all men, and they avoid it in any shape or color it presents itself in. Pick a partner that you trust to have your best interest, and the best interest of your family, at heart when they make decisions.

[@IcePurpleX]

You know what's worse than the word submissive, is the raggedy woman that moan about it so much

[@lirpa2300]

Encouraging and supporting your husband (being a helpmate) is part of being submissive as a wife. I notice most people who hate the term submission are coming from comments from women. An unsubmissive woman is an unruly woman and usually has a Jezabel spirit. A woman who can't or won't submit to her own husband doesn't fit the qualifications of a wife.

[@km47804]

@@lirpa2300 you are ridiculous. Y’all talk about “submissive” women when in reality, you want your wives to take care of every little thing from children, to vacations, to food, to finding your wallet for you every day. Women would LOVE for their men to step up, lead by example and help with the life they are supposed to be building together…when in reality most women build it, take care it, and all the people in it. I promise you, she would love it if you would pack the kids lunches and plan a date night. That’s how you get a grateful wife. Grow up. Submission is a kink for man children with giant egos. Partnership is for those who want support and gratitude.

[@lilyovererrantjam9397]

@@lirpa2300 Because they also want their husband to support and respect them in turn, that's your blind spot. It's a transaction, like all relationships. Love for love, respect for respect. It's so weird from both men and women, i just wonder why are you getting married if you don't respect each other?!?

[@wkrpcincinnati3495]

I am a mid 40s white guy. I was brought up in a 98% white farming community. I was not brought up to be Racist in any way. I know the African American families in town and am good friends with one family of them. Since I know them there is no racial component to our friendship. However whenever I meet African Americans I do not know I immediately assume they dislike me and blame me for everything wrong in their lives. Due to this I avoid them and try not engage with them. I am not afraid of them. I am not racist but I have never felt more of a racial devision in this country. I am concerned where all of this heading. African Americans want their own legal system. They want their own culture that I am supposed to stay out of. They disrespect our National Anthem and now have their own. This all is leading in one direction that I absolutely don’t want to see. Thankfully there are ones like you that are facing this issue and hopefully waking people up. I love your channel and will keep watching. Thank you

[@user-bb6li9jm7z]

I agree. Listening to these and other video’s has surprised me. The black culture really lives day to day dwelling on hating white people, while the white communities are not thinking about this at all. Not anywhere that I have lived. We kind just go to work, live on and move on. Our family consists of multi cultures, black, white, Asian, but not once has there been a gathering of name calling.

[@taylorcrawford6156]

This is how I feel with Emos but just try no to assume everyone thinks that way and prove them wrong by your king personality! And just like there are mean people in the world their are Christ centered people. You can do this pray about it!

[@CoolpapaKelz]

😂😂😂

[@1snakemanvrod]

blacks dont bl pame you for anything...just want to be treated fairly brother...we pretend we dont notice people ignoring us or not speaking lol ... try being one of only a few families your color in and entire neighborhood..consider that we have to deal with it and ignore the negative vibes and love everyone... whites have the luxury of moving to almost every state and be in the majority... not anyones fault just a reality... if you want to know how blacks feel try visiting Atlanta..where blacks have power, money, influence...where you would be the minority in some places... our realiites are different and at the same time true... my dad went to vietnam... his white commander told him on the first day, i dont like you people and im going to try to block your promotion ..my Dad went over his head and talked to black major..to get problem resolved...my grandpa fought in WW2...and dealt with so much..yet he loved everyone...had neighbor accuse my daughter of stealing from his mailbos as she walked by lol hes renting and im making over 100k and got muliple houses .. did i blame all white people? ..i was at a former job last year .. I over.heard co worker saying n word...and none of white people said anything or mexicans.. I told that racist those days are over.. i wasnt surprised i could tell he was a racist when i first saw him...they normaly give you that look of disgust and dont realize it..and try not to speak at all costs.. do i treat all white people bad because of my experiences? heck no.. I speak to people, smile and continue to take each person case by case... you need to get out of your comfort zone ...trust me blacks know that you are avoiding them especially if you work with them lol... my best friend since 5 years old is white...we need to understand each others point of view...it starts with meeting new people...

[@teresamcclendon9029]

Quit apologizing to your haters!!

[@annado9444]

Haters gonna hate … that’s their problem .. only

[@orokusaki1705]

💯

[@counterintuitive7406]

This! ♥️♥️♥️ It only furthers their emboldenment. Some people wake up every day and tirelessly search for things to piss them off. We should all ignore the outrage mob...

[@kayk2956]

That’s exactly what I wanted to say.

[@divergentsenior]

AGREE!

[@Mr05Chuck]

Don’t be afraid to have common sense. No need to apologize to the people that have none.

[@GeoffNelson]

Yup!

[@Tcrror]

Republicans?

[@antoniocamarena784]

@@Tcrror Yes! Republicans have more common sense. I'm surrounded by Dem liberals and they don't know much.

[@darkfatekod3962]

@@Tcrror Democrats?

[@Raverraver9999]

Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul. And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created. From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it. For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created..

[@KristinJohansen1]

I think the real issue is that a lot of these women with these attitudes are raised to believe that they must ALWAYS be ALL powerful and always STRONG. But strength is also knowing when and how to be vulnerable, when and how your strength shouldn't be about putting yourself first (which definitely does need to happen sometimes) but your mate, kids, family, friends, etc. Being strong and powerful isn't always about fighting ("Do you want to be happy, or do you want to be right?") to get your way or to prove that you were right in this or that instance. Being strong and powerful is knowing when to pick your battles in all relationships be it home, work, or play. It is a sad culture, a terrible byproduct from several circumstances such as poverty, one-parent homes (more so in the case of one person leaving the other rather than a death), parents with mental issues and/or addiction problems, abuse and/or neglect, etc. These are the times when it takes a village - everyone in a child's life must provide stability, support, unconditional love, guidelines and guidance, and must model good relationships in all aspects. Loving, compassionate, kind, good communication, acceptance to a point (kids need structure and to have boundaries, so you can't accept that the sky is brown when it's really blue, for example, we have to be honest and factual), and so on. I'm sure that these 'educated' 'black' men marrying out of their 'race' aren't racist, they just found a partner who perhaps wasn't raised in one of those previously-referenced circumstances or something similar. Being a "queen" doesn't mean that everybody else becomes your subject, in other words. Women should always treat men with the same respect, etc., that we desire to receive from them. Men aren't toxic. Some men might be, but 'men' aren't, and all women need to know and remember that. I'm extremely blessed and lucky to have an amazing daddy, a (nearly) perfect husband, a wonderful and compassionate grown son, and a great and loving grown nephew, not to mention the many male friends I have that I trust implicitly. Men and women need each other, and our cultures need to get back to understanding that.

[@koenwijnen9186]

Theyre also not strong and powerful to begin with. Theyre hysterical more so.

[@GusMac-kv7zi]

It's BS put up by the media, the celebration of the single black mother, she may once have been noble, good and hard working but even this has disintegrated over time. Now she is just as likely to be a gangster girl in behavior and instilling this into her young children, I've heard shut up little N from mothers talking to toddlers. There is nothing calm about this kind of mother, quick to anger and degrade her own children especially sons. This begets a man who exhibits the same over emotion because he was hardwired to it by his own mother.

[@staceyb7351]

I'm a 63 year old white women, and I am Really enjoying your channel! Its Great to hear young peoples point of view in This ever changing culture, and you are all very respectful and obviously educated young men, and its great to hear a group of young black mens perspective!

[@TheNameisBash]

That woman is 40 years old, that's a grown woman. Good show fellas.

[@brianmincher716]

Yeah, she said she was 41 on the show and my jaw dropped. That right there is what women should aspire to be boys and girls. I was super impressed with her, loved that episode. Really appreciate you fellas. It’s fun to hang out with y’all and watch these videos together. Feels like we’re in the room with you. Good stuff. And officer Tatum is awesome, too. I find myself agreeing with him like well over ninety percent of the time, and find him entertaining and engaging 100% of the time.

[@GodBeforeMoney]

Being for truth, and common sense is now “conservative”. 😂

[@bryant475]

Yep, I'm a proud conservative :)

[@cristalscott3309]

@@bryant475me too! I am very conservative in my personal life but Libertarian in some political view.

[@gonzoyork1908]

True

[@gonzoyork1908]

@@cristalscott3309 me too

[@coleycole5344]

It is. Conservative means conserving traditional morals and values.

[@jamesmccarren3857]

Friendship is so important -- especially for men. Heartwarming for me to see these young men like each other, be affectionate towards one another (non sexual affection), and laugh together. They are stronger because they share and care. Please continue to value and build good and strong friendships.

[@bb3ll07]

She was right.. The truth hurts a lot of people! Many black women think they represent Christianity but degrade themselves on the Worldwide Web. That’s a bit scary and it needs to be addressed because high school kids do it now in these big cities 😢 I know because it used to be me. My hubby took me to church with him and I met other married successful boss women that raised successful kids! I found real leaders of the community!!!! I got baptized 12/2013 and I now 28 and I am married with a son. I had to make a change ❤ Marriages that have God will save the black community. ❤ STOP IGNORING THE 70% SINGLE PARENT HOUSEHOLD RATE!!! That is not okay! BEFORE GOVERNMENT, in the 1920s blacks were the most married until the 60s 😢

[@nw6866]

It's how you were raised. I'm a black woman, but my father and step-mother raised me to be classy and I am. I'm married (he happens to be white), and I've never had kids (I am a step-mom). I'm educated and successful. There are a lot of negative views of black women. Some of it's earned and some not. The danger is not treating people individually. We have a lot of wounded women, but I could say that about a lot of other races too. I'm seeing more white women having children out of wedlock now too,. It just seems that promiscuity goes across the board for a lot of younger women. We made this feminist fantasy that sexual empowerment is one of the most important things and that has translated into promiscuity and overtly hating men as well. It's going to be interesting how that plays out. People need to make better choices. When you don't have a good foundation or family unit, you learn to make bad choices and then people just become that stereotype. That's men and women.

[@LiberalsRuinEverything.]

Exactly this existing generation in the 20 something year olds in the ones graduating from high school are so promiscuous and proud of it. And yes it’s infected all cultures that come into contact with ours.

[@Jo-cf4tn]

Right on

[@lorikoenig6111]

You’re spot on ! It’s definitely the way you’re raised. I’m a white women and I know white women who act classless. I’m so thankful I had parents who taught me hard work, self respect and respect for others.

[@vibez.no.cartel]

You think being a step mum is a win, caring some other woman's accident???

[@sonianugent6429]

True story

[@phyllisaustin9853]

You boys stay true to yourself and continue to do what you do. Stay free thinking and continue to have open unbiased conversations about all things

[@cameron_fairchild]

💯

[@Tcrror]

"free thinking" if you're referring to Republicans, that's hilarious.

[@antoniocamarena784]

@@Tcrror Do you ever see Republicans protesting and smashing windows to stop college speakers?

[@kkandola9072]

@@Tcrror you have to think so binary because you don’t have the capacity for nuanced conversation.

[@DoubleBeezy]

@@Tcrror they mean free thinking as in not believing everything off the media which most likely will be a right leaning or middle person

[@riverzala9186]

You're not leaning toward the conservative side , you're leaning to THE SANE side ❤ 🎉

[@vincenzobonadonna4556]

Well, in comparison to modern society, those two have almost become synonymous

[@mwfmtnman]

@Vincenzo Bonadonna oh please, that is a ridiculous and inflammatory statement

[@joealyjim3029]

@@mwfmtnman not really. When the left becomes the faction of ‘men can bear children and women can have penises’ then the conservatives become the faction of sanity.

[@edwinamendelssohn5129]

@@mwfmtnman it's factual. Democrats are not factual

[@samantharose1144]

Congratulations on 500k guys, it is well deserved!!!!🎉❤

[@niretorrente9319]

Class is not tied to color or money it's your choice and your conduct.......thus your privilege and consequences PERIOD

[@Misael8924]

In this world it is. Economic ties of Middle class, poor or rich is tied to income. This also shows behavior formalities. You can be all those others things, but eventually you'll end up living in a neighborhood of class, that is more suitable to yours. Data doesn't lie. Everyone is not ment to live as one. Borders exist. Nation's exist for a reason.

[@jxstified7558]

Its just a culture thing their are some fine ass black women in the world but I choose to not date them as a white dude because A LOT of them are aggressive and not submissive and not wife material for me specifically because I would rather have a traditional wife who has not slept around a lot.

[@JoeKnows44]

Class isn't tied to money?

[@TheDylls]

​@@JoeKnows44 I'm thinking they meant that class is, but being classy isn't... The latter is the only one you get to choose

[@niretorrente9319]

Class as in behavior being elevated, moral, and self-respecting as opposed to base, immoral, and self-deprecating.

[@donhays582]

Do not ever EVER apologize for your content and your views. If you are conservative, which you all seem to be, you don't owe ANYONE an apology for that.

[@tina50ify]

I agree. You need to realize that being a conservative is NOT a bad word. In fact, wear that badge with honor.

[@hilldj15]

They've said they don't identify as conservative. Most of them say they don't identify with either party. They just watch stuff to have discussions.

[@Curveball]

@@hilldj15 It doesn't matter what you claim to be. How do you think and what do you want? Do you believe in God? Do you hope to one day own a house and be wealthy? Do you think you should have the right to have a gun to protect your family with? If you said yes to even two of those, you are Conservative. Democrats removed prayer and the 10 commandments from schools, they want socialism which is a push for everyone being equal, not rich, and they want to take your guns away. Democrat policies lead to division, bigger government, and authoritarian control over you.

[@chrisortiz8072]

Most people in general are in the middle. It’s just the extremes on both sides that divide us more.

[@enotra]

If you play into the left/right dichotomy, you're probably part of the problem.

[@markoszoli2185]

Aussies here! You guys are hilarious. My wife came across your channel. Thanks for the laughs today lol.

[@SI-qp7cm]

Shout out from Australia, love this content seeing the boys going nuts

[@BensSoZen]

OPEN MINDED AND REACTING TO ALL "SIDES" .. intelligent people get this; judgmental or dumb folks have a harder time with it

[@Huge_XG-Xpop_Stan]

“Intelligent people get this!” 🤓

[@sarah.606]

On Point 👉

[@py_a_thon]

One being possessed by a singular ideology is susceptible to bias, manipulation and being used. Ideologies are more like tribes in the intellectual landscape, than abject truths. Diversity of thought is equally as important as diversity of race, gender, sexual orientation and religion. That is why censorship bothers me so much. When you remove the ability of someone to speak, then all they have left is their fists. And if remove the diversity of thought, then you create an easily exploited system of mind control. (You cannot say that --> You cannot think that --> Now repeat after me...)

[@py_a_thon]

Also, as an addendum: not only knowledgeable or intelligent peoples. Also those with accrued wisdom of life experience and knowledge. Intelligence is not really quantified well, other than the simplest form.of processing speed of thought. (And the capability to quantify creativity) I have talked to some really stupid smart people. And I have learned much from many lower IQ individuals.

[@BensSoZen]

@@py_a_thon True, as the dumbest people can still be the wisest people, with time, experience and a modicum of self-reflection

[@jamesbrock7461]

I just discovered y’all a couple of days ago. I haven’t enjoyed myself this much in a long while. Keep up the great work !!!

[@kandysowards2850]

Never apologize. You guys are raw and honest and you make me laugh 😂.

[@kabyone76]

You guys becoming my favorite KZbin channel 🤣 I’m 22 and Mexican. I’m the old type of woke not the new liberal woke. I see all the crazy stuff goin on in this weird world. You guys keep goin man. You talk about being famous? Start a podcast and react to actual things in the news and not just videos and give your different opinions. People would love that. Good luck to you all and god bless. I’ll be watching 💪🏽

[@srhodes6963]

I’m 51 and a white dude and this channel is getting to be my fav too. No self censorship, no getting stuck on narratives, just open minded, well adjusted dudes trying to fairly judge the world they live in. But it’s the love and the friendship that really brings me back to their vids. It just feels good

[@MILlz0]

Hell yeah brody

[@cariaus3758]

Great idea about doing the news! But they all talk at once I'm missing a lot of what they're saying, and I want to hear it all lol I'm also an old type of woke the new ones are just so radical, I'm no activist.

[@e50s65]

Hell yeah i agree but honestly a lot of the stuff on youtube is more trustworthy than the mainstream news nowadays

[@py_a_thon]

The craziest aspect, from my perspective is how tied down into identity everyone here is. As a autistic jazz drummer navajo german...I am very disappointed lol. (Yes, that comment is in fact a joke. Or is it?)

[@cwell510]

It's definitely the culture, guys. This same thing was happening LONG before social media existed.

[@svengangert2683]

Yes, but to make your point even stronger, there has been a time, when it wasn't like that AT ALL!

[@maxinefowler1186]

A Culture? Elon Musk RICH AND WHITE HAS BABIES MOMMA'S ETC. I am a Black Female ,and a New York City Banker raised upper middle Class in the Midwest with married Black Parents. Every Black Women isn't FROM THE HOOD & HAS A BUNCH OF KIDS! Many other Black Women who are Professional and in upper Echelon Positions really hear too much stereotyping. So many People pretend that all Black Women are the same daily, I have been asked publicly, if I was I sure that I didn't have any Children many times! Unbelievable! STOP this stereotypical talk about Black Women it's being repeated at our Jobs by Whites, especially White Women trying to be ruthless & vicious!

[@VanBuren0926]

​@@svengangert2683 Indeed! Blacks used to marry at a far higher rate than whites.

[@dexterdahmer]

@@svengangert2683yeah that’s why I don’t like the term ‘black culture’ it’s just ghetto/hood culture

[@atodaso1668]

Its how poor people live no matter what your skin color is. You grow up quick when you grow up poor.

[@cindzz47]

“If you want to change the world, go home and love your family”

[@melaniesmith5681]

Love watching you guys! Never hold back saying something that's your opinions! Some people will have a problem with your opinions simply because it doesn't agree with theirs! That's a huge problem with some people these days, that if an opinion doesn't agree with theirs, they're wrong! Nothing is resolved if we don't listen to each other. Maybe that's an ideal world. There's all these Segregation Headings, regardless of what it is, that some people have to slot us into. It's creating divides and at the same time (for some), possible excuses for their behaviours and excuses for the way their life is. There's nothing fair, in any instance you feel that's problematic, blaming people generally, even though they've no part of in any of it. Idk. But I hate the views that we all have to be divided under these headings. No divisions can be solved if people keep putting people's under them.

[@euphoricmonk]

After talking with many trolls and angry people I realized they are just fighting their OWN ignorance and ego, not you it's them.

[@annesmail4129]

This takes a lot of courage for her to say all that. It is true and in a larger sense it’s true with many women across the board. Stop twerking and giving up sex without a commitment.

[@froyokid]

It’s not true that bw are easier and have more sex though! In fact, bm themselves say ww were easier and were more adventurous. Ww set the bar and bw follow to compete but it never works out cause most of y’all don’t truly like bw and use any excuse to get away. Also just because someone twerks doesn’t mean they are easier 🙄

[@RC-jr4in]

Applies to the men as equally too.

[@user-jc7wl6ki7m]

​​@@RC-jr4inshush, plus men apparently can h03 around(sarcasm)

[@dcarr-kr7hk]

"Stop twerking and giving up sex without a commitment." The only real commitment is marriage.

[@user-yc9fj8qz7m]

Was just introduced to your channel. 1.5 hours later .... I'm still here! Also, thank you for reintroducing me to Officer Tatum!

[@sharonodom6423]

You're ALL wonderfully refreshing❤️ This is the only group chat type show I watch & I'm very interested to see the growth & development that's coming! Young ppl need to watch y'all, if only to witness a typical, traditional discussion between competent young men/or peers🤯. You guys keep asking & posing QUESTIONS(even the hypothetical & comical encourage ppl to think for themselves)! Our language is being twisted, so that any attempt at conversation is like playing tag in a minefield?!? Kids are falling into depression, just miserable & end up unknowingly joining hate groups--just to get to speak & socialize???!!! Best part is that you don't seem to take a strong stance on the issues! Instead, you come in open-minded, respectful, & curious about each other's thoughts--the friendly banter & playful teasing while discussing hot button topics should appeal to many, especially young adults that are tired of being constantly preached at, lied to, manipulated & ignored(all at 1x)?!

[@mbrstntn]

“My sister is black” got me

[@savsmiles3042]

My ex, who is half black, never knew his black dad and his white(Italian) mom was crazy. Most of her family was nuts bc they were raised in an abusive household and they learned to be dependent on the government and the brother(his Uncle) was a criminal. Doesn’t necessarily have to do with race but with culture. He also stated abusing me so I left and he’s been in and out of prison. The cycle of abuse and neglect is sad. It will only stop when they want it to stop. Can’t help anyone who won’t help themselves

[@freetobeme6013]

Fully agree as more young black girls here in the UK conduct themselves far more decently than their white peers. They are concerned with disappointing their families. The white girls couldn’t care less. It was the same in the 90s when I was growing up and holds true now.

[@maxinefowler1186]

I am a Black Female , and a former New York City Banker. I am Ivy League. The majority of People RECEIVING WELFARE IN THIS COUNTRY ARE WHITE! GOOGLE IT! Stop stereotyping all Black Women! I was raised upper middle Class in a rural Midwestern Town. My married Parents were together for 42 years, then my Father passed away. I have a good Friend just like Me, well Educated and She is Black. So , She is suing where She works for Her White Female Supervisor saying those stereotypical things to Her publicly on the job! Nothing is ever said about White Women, (they have multiple boyfriends) . Many White looking European IMMIGRANTS GRANDPARENTS IN THE PAST WERE CLASSIFIED AS WHITE BY OUR GOVERNMENT, GOOGLE IT! We both hear this crap on our jobs, and very tired of being stereotyped as having a bunch of kids. Not true.

[@alluringbliss4165]

My opinion but I think you should reflect and see what red flags you missed for getting it involved with him

[@jsgr5382]

You have to look at percentages and statistics. It usually matters. Culture and race matters. So many fatherless homes matter. I get it you dont fall under that category but you're an exception to the rule

[@MelloYellow2099]

culture will ALWAYS matter more than levels of skin melanin

[@DeepCaseExorcisms]

My grandparents divorced, my parents divorced, and my husband and I have been together for 17 years.

[@MishMash22]

Love the passion with these young lads. Lots of love from the UK!

[@tinaboksa3642]

Stop worrying about other people, guys. I watch content from both sides myself. I like listening to both otherwise how am I supposed to be informed.

[@samcaranol4102]

Truth hurts

[@uria2001]

exactly. Im open to the idea maybe I'm wrong. Let me see how my view stands up against opposing views. Basically, like a scientist would do hypothesis. it has to go under scrutiny to test if its true or not. it ok to be wrong, to not know everything, or to simply to change your mind on a view. You won't know this by only listening to views that line up with your own .

[@JayPlays792]

Your father Tina if you had a father who guiding you for marriage you wouldn't be out here for the streets!!! You act like this is new y'all black women had a 50 years to do what you want an now you pay for it!! My advice avoid your own because I'm not moving in a way that I care...!!! You see you can't be both an if you ran the numbers up it's to late!! That's why y'all are in this position!! Unmarried but smashable!!

[@lukecullingworth6484]

@@uria2001 facts. I reckon the problem with society today is both sides are too engrossed in their own opinions. They think and agree with what they are told to think by bigger people in their groups without doing their own research. Both sides have shit to learn from each other but they be so blind to it🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[@RE-bg9ds]

Exactly

[@shelbyjacquin8252]

I think when a woman has a no father its difficult for her to be emotionally vulnerable and trusting with a man. Women tend to destroy internally and men externally. You'll find boys raised without a father tend to get into trouble more and have trouble regulating their emotions.

[@savsmiles3042]

So true!

[@verothomas1524]

There’s much truth in your statement.

[@alluringbliss4165]

That’s true, my father was not in my life and I had serious low self esteem amongst others things. I suffered from GAD.

[@cross-eyedkitty7025]

I raised 3 boys (not my own) as a single individual working full time. I did the very best I could; gave them a lot of love, paid big $ for tutoring, went on many adventurous family vacations, provided a nice house, clothes, electronics, etc. They had everything but a father. 2 of the 3 turned criminal. I really believe them not having a father had much to do with it.

[@bryant475]

Yep, it was all by design due to welfare pushed by the dems!

[@frbyrd-tg5co]

Congrats to y'all for making it to 500K !! Keep on keepin' on!!

[@joeybagofdoughnuts1732]

I love you guys, so relatable even if we do come from different backgrounds. Keep up the great conversations and the great work!

[@tiffanykim2773]

React to whatever content you guys want to. The stuff you cover currently is already vast and different and it's exciting to see you guys step out of your comfort zone and widen your perspectives and minds.

[@WakeUpWaverly23]

Yall doing some good stuff here, I think it helps start conversations that the mainstream media rather us not have

[@nivekoghr387]

Hey you guys are doing a great job and setting a very good example for others to see you being open minded and learning from all the various voices out there to make sure you are informed. Right on!

[@seanward3759]

I’m an old, white, husband, father, and Conservative in Oklahoma. Started listening to the agreeing with conservative current events. Wondered about what you guys are about. I just want to say this was your best video of yours I’ve seen because I got to know you guys. I don’t know if you were drunk or what? I just feel like you guys were just being yourselves. Had fun guys. Keep it real but based!!! Good job

[@rogerrabbit5110]

Brandon (in the orange) and the gentleman in the purple are well-reserved and mindful when speaking.

[@CaseyQ]

They are definitely the most mature

[@lizmccarthy-edwards2115]

Purple t-shirt dude's name is Ross, and I absolutely agree with you: very mindful, articulate and open-minded.

[@MrG__2]

💯

[@evahanson7681]

I love Brandon. I mean, I love them all. But you can watch Brandon soak it all in and process the information.

[@mechellestewart8439]

I want to hear what all of them are saying...but it's difficult when they try to talk above each other. It would be great to hear each one's thoughts on the subject.

[@thatgirlfromktown]

I am so glad my husband got me watching y'all. Y'all give me hope for the future. Also, y'all remind me of my oldest daughter's ex, and dad to her son (I know that sounds bad). I still call him my son, and he and my daughter are still good friends and co-parent very well together. He could have me in tears from laughing so hard & y'all have my ribs hurting at times laughing at y'all. Y'all are truly a great group of guys & I know your parents must be proud of the smart young men you all are. Sending love ❤ & blessings 🙏🏼 your way from NC. (I said "y'all" a lot)😂

[@jameshouse9627]

Everytime I watch you guys videos I feel like just an average dude hanging with the guys discussing topics and learning. It's an enjoyable experience compared to news, TV shows and such where the hosts and guests spend 15 to 30 minutes screaming over each other and arguing. Keep up the good work. 👌

[@Steve-cm2ys]

Brutal honesty with that "hate our own hair" comment. Bravo. Extremely rare for them to go there. Actually, they USUALLY tell brutal LIES about their hair. (Grows straight, is of various colors, they "love" it, others envy it, etc.)

[@Rockstarsoulchild]

Before marrying it’s important to think about the family you’re marrying into. Would you feel comfortable with them babysitting your future children? Would you like your children to grow up to be like them? If not, you probably shouldn’t marry that person.

[@MrG__2]

💯

[@danarodgers8736]

No offense, but thank God my husband didn’t think like you. The poor, irresponsible choices of the parents are NOT the child’s fault, nor responsibility. While I agree we should look at family history and stability of their family environment, it’s not that cut and dried. It’s something that has to be looked at from all angles. Some children DO go on to lead happy, productive lives in spite of being victims of childhood trauma. To say, across the board, they should be further “punished” when they’ve done nothing wrong is asinine.

[@kevinhaggerty4039]

Hey guys. I really appreciate what you do. As a white guy with more questions than answers when it comes to race… following you guys has been invaluable and entertaining. God bless… keep doing what you’re doing! God bless!

[@Claarissaahhh]

Lollll y'all are the best! The one in the middle is always shouting 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@karenlangham24]

I’m a 61 year old white woman and you guy’s awesome!!!! Keep doing what your doing!!!!! ❤

[@annroman4561]

We ALL need to get back to God and traditional values to save this country and our cultures.

[@ronaldmcdonaldjunior6616]

Facts

[@chancerystone4086]

Oh, go to Hell. I mean that literally, not metaphorically. Your sanctimony will send you there for sure.

[@user-fq8rs7rz3i]

Not god. Just family values. I loathe organised religion. It’s done so much harm.

[@divinedianec3170]

​@user-fq8rs7rz3i God is not a religion, neither is christianity. Jesus hates religion because christianity is a personal relationship, aka friendship with jesus christ. The media, aka the devil, makes it look evil.

[@dcarr-kr7hk]

@user-fq8rs7rz3i... God has nothing to do with "organized religion".

[@kimzwolinski9919]

I think it’s very important to look at both sides. The best thing about it is that it starts conversations. Great job 👍😁

[@Teresia12]

Y'all are intelligent and articulate and hilarious. Love your channel. Keep doing you.✌️❤️ Edit: I'm 66. I was a hippie in the 70s. We were all about peace and love. If you can't be with the one you love, love the one your with. We lived like this. We had a lot of interracial marriages in the communes. There are too many judgemental people in our world these days.

[@elisabethbecker7598]

Your channel gets the amount of views because of wht you are reviewing and how you are broadening your minds. Never let anyone make you feel less than who you are :)

[@diegolatigo2008]

don't worry about nothing boys..you're doing nothing wrong

[@shaolin89]

Dont ever apologize for the reactions that some might deem right wing/conservative. Just keep on being open minded. Congrats on the 500k🔥🔥🔥

[@totalstranger8412]

African American women reject me because, as they say, I “talk all proper.”

[@user-ui6dk7sv6u]

My best friend is black and has four black kids and no Dad. Her kids now have black kids and no husband or Dad for the kids. I'm white and always noticed the difference with the no dad thing. I wasn't raised that way.

[@jesuslopez4113]

We should be creating a culture in America of family, God and moral values. We'd see way less violence and alot more prosperity

[@maxinefowler1186]

Speaking of Cultures, I must speak directly to Black People on here how this Woman needs to also highlight how Us Black people need to acknowledge We did not guard our spaces properly. We allow ANYONR in to our private spaces AND INVITE THEM ALL FREELY TO THE PICNIC and the results have been catastrophic. WE MUST START GATE KEEPING OUR SPACES BETTER IMMEDIATELY!

[@timiniho]

​@@maxinefowler1186 Sorry but if you don't mind, in what context do you mean this? Can you provide a specific example just to make it easier? Appreciate it

[@JoeKnows44]

Which God?

[@JoeKnows44]

You mean like how Saudi Arabia has a culture of Saudi Arabia, family and God?

[@SmallBobby]

@@maxinefowler1186 no we do not. Our results are “catastrophic” because we continue to make poor decisions, lack accountability, and blame our situation on stupid reasons like not gatekeeping enough. 😂

[@jrettetsohyt1]

Glad to see you’re men who can consider criticism but ultimately think for yourself and not let others control you! I think we like you guys because you don’t seem ideologically or politically bound-you’re just trying to be real! Real people are hungry for Reality; Political people are hungry for political tools.

[@lylah115]

I'm a 43 white Floridian, love watching the younger perspective you guys are ahead of the game in politics thank you for that. As a new repub we all need to come together no matter race, my mom was married to my hillbilly dad for 30 yrs then found love in a black man we loved him as a father. She went to his church everyone was excepting. I changed their vote to repub after proving the dems have done nothing for the black community. Times have changed thank u for being u, much love.

[@yvetteperry9756]

Found your channel a couple days ago and I can't stop watching you guy! Don't let haters bother ya'll Keep doing what your doing ... you have more fans than haters❤❤ Love the kill bill poster😂

[@michaelwalker5257]

First off, I got to say that I've really enjoyed watching the group of you grow into this reaction work Thanks! This may be edgy, but I want to offer it. It's edgy because it's cultural, and we're talking about culture here. The hardest part for me of watching y'all is that at any (most) given moment(s), there might be three or four of you talking at once. That's hard because I want to hear how each of you thinks and feels about the subject...and I can't even hear one thought all the way through. I know from experience that that's cultural (like going to see a movie in a black neighborhood: everybody's talking over the movie). The problem- at least as I see it - is that when we're talking we're not listening. And LISTENING is what's going to bring more of us together and make change. Understanding, not debating. For what it's worth.

[@SousChef77]

Michael, don't give up. Sit thru some more. I am a 66 year old white woman, and it took me a while, but I can keep up now. Love these guys! Blessings!

[@theeggtimertictic1136]

It's a jumbled mess.

[@GusMac-kv7zi]

I agree with this, these are female traits instilled by females who cannot shut up and listen, screech holler and repeat. This is the influence of the big strong so called female who not only does not need a man blah blah, but treats her own sons like they ain't nothing. I found the entire beginning sequence chaotic and what I'd about expect of ratchet type female behavior. I wish people would disown and disavow the sickening N, N, N,N constantly this is also ratchet sub culture.

[@aphoticlotus4625]

I really enjoy the candor and honest responses, no matter what ur watching. I also appreciate the frequent uploads 🤗

[@BasedMando]

LFR Family's channel had the same people telling him they are unsubscribing due to his political path for his channel back when he didn't even have 100k subscribers. He's at 740k now, and he's one of the few channels where I have the notification button enabled. The thing is, he is a father with two grown children and getting educated about the political landscape of the country you live in is far more productive than reacting to music only. Metallica, Tool, Red Hot Chili Peppers, George Carlin etc are the nostalgic memories from my teenage years. I'm a South African (born and raised) white man (37yo) and knowing the political climate of my country is of utmost importance for my family's wellbeing and future security. I am rooting for my Black American brothers to become strong leaders and fathers to your children. You have a special place in my heart. I want you to succeed in your pursuit of happiness! Never apologize to the mob guys!

[@oneeyedking2679]

21 yo european white guy here, watching y'all react and commentate on such topics that I personally never heard/thought of before or experienced is very interesting to me. Don't apologize, you are neutral but you don't have to be, be yourself and stay cheerful, seeing you guys laugh and have these energetic conversations puts a smile on my face regularly!

[@WakeUpWaverly23]

In a world where racial tensions can run high, And misunderstandings can cause people to divide, It's important to see young black men rise, As beacons of hope, and as voices of wise. Their KZbin show on important issues and culture, Is a powerful platform to share their vision and nurture, A space where they can showcase their talents and skills, And teach others to see beyond the surface and the ills. Through their reactions and insights on different races, They break down the barriers that divide and cause disgraces, They foster a sense of unity and understanding, And show that despite differences, we're all human beings. As role models, they inspire young minds, To think critically and open up their eyes, To not fall prey to the agenda put on by culture, And to choose their own path, and not let others take over. Their show is a powerful tool for change, And as they speak out, they rearrange, The narrative on race, and pave the way, For a brighter, more inclusive future day. So let us support these young black men, And their efforts to bridge the gap and bring us together again, For in their work lies the potential to transform, And to create a world where all can thrive and perform. And it's funny AF😂🔥

[@annado9444]

So well said!

[@VanBuren0926]

Bravo!

[@nerdsserverevengecolder..212]

I almost can't breathe you all are hilarious. and I can't quit laughing

[@ohmyv3gatron]

I’m confused why you’d be interested

[@nerdsserverevengecolder..212]

@@ohmyv3gatron its rich to see my own sense of humor in these young men. during the intro specifically, hope clears.

[@oliverklozovxx6]

@@ohmyv3gatron I'm confused why you would even be confused, by their comment.

[@nerdsserverevengecolder..212]

@@oliverklozovxx6 3:05 3:51 4:09 haha

[@LayDeeTee1]

Black, white, green or purple…it’s about the breakdown of the family unit. We all know that it’s better for kids…better for men…& better for WOMEN to be part of a stable, traditional FAMILY.❤

[@Victory987]

No other culture worships the worst of their of there culture and celebrates it.

[@paulchedzey7276]

You guys are 💯💯💯 …that’s 300% actually worth watching because you interested and invested in your culture and where it’s going. Massive respect from England x

[@josephtingley654]

I've only been on your channel for a short time, but I've been watching you guys researching and having conversations that mean something. Keep doing what you're doing and I enjoy being part of the conversation.

[@dglee585]

I love this channel, lots of discussion and considerations of different points of view within the group. Subscribed after the first video I saw from you guys. I understand that the marriage statistic is important to look at within any given culture, but I think that an overall more important statistic is the divorce rate. So often in a divorce, regardless of race, you see young kids stuck between two hateful parents. This is highly damaging to families, culture and the mental well being of young kids.

[@thomascarey6687]

Gentlemen, I'm a 66 year old retired Navy CPO, a white dude. Watch yourselves focus on Officer Tatum's words. You guys have the power to influence...be wise

[@theOGnokk]

Let's just be real...we used to pride ourselves with how real we are. I miss that

[@baileybowman2449]

I saw an interesting video the other day of a preacher saying don’t blame the women… fathers haven’t been there for daughters and men have cheated and disrespected women. Women in response have developed the attitude of I don’t need a man, I can sleep around and cheat just like a man, etc. He was preaching to fathers and men to be there for there daughters, give her love so she doesn’t grow up thinking she has to sleep around to get love and also treat women and their wives with respect so your daughters know what a good man is.

[@savsmiles3042]

That’s 💯 but just like men need to take responsibility and accountability for themselves, so do women. The cycle needs to stop somewhere.

[@bryce253]

There is blame on both sides. It doesn't matter now. The floor is full of broken eggs and people want to keep allowing the distraction arguing over which came first....the chicken or the egg. I can't.

[@JB-bw8nj]

@@savsmiles3042 ‘But’ is a conjunction that cancels out everything stated before it.

[@savsmiles3042]

@@JB-bw8nj substitute “yet” or “and”. Two things can be true at the same time. Nothing will change until they’re willing to change.

[@JB-bw8nj]

@@savsmiles3042 replace ‘they’re’ with ‘ WE’

[@Stardust414]

I love your OT reactions 😂 Plz don’t ever censor yourselves 🙏 Luv each of your personalities 🤟🏼

[@jesusmcphuck6510]

Black culture isn't destroying black women, it's vice versa. Own it sistas!

[@dlpro619]

Her mentor was Kevin Samuel. She released a video after Kevin Samuel passed away and she was ballin 😭.

[@matthewjonesy3879]

You guys are killin it. This is all we need. Conversations.

[@karenmay2648]

I am white and lived in a predominantly black neighborhood for 20years. I guess the black women are strange. They have good jobs dress nice and are nice people. I am surprised to hear this.

[@knkrussell]

Watching your channel opens my eyes. Thank you. 🙏🏼

[@camm668]

To add onto the point Tatum was making, certain types of women that grew up in single mother households, adopting the "always be a boss" attitude tend to show it off by being purposefully loud and disagreeable. They do it because that's how they think they need to be to maintain the power. They don't know what it's like or understand how to be in a mutually respectful relationship where responsibilities are shared. Only if they're willing to learn what it means to be in a *functional* marriage with cooperation will the black community rebuild its family structure.

[@alisharhc]

I 💯 agree with this. Part of the issue is the word submissive. When people hear it they tend to go to subservient. Like they will have to be a maid who keeps her mouth shut and puts out any time the man wants. That's not what people mean when they say being submissive to a man. (Not in the sexual meaning either) It's choosing a husband who can lead. A man who is worth submitting to. A man who can be trusted and respects the risk you are taking my passing the leadership role to him. 10 years ago if you had asked me if I wanted to be a stay at home Mom I would have said hell no! Because that would mean a man would have to pay my bills. If I lost him I would lose it all. But here I am married, staying home, raising my children, homeschooling, keeping the house, taking care of my husband's home needs, etc. It's a good life. Being a mother while trying to also lead is hard. I feel like the children lose out on a lot of love and life lessons when the mother has to be the father too. One person can't play both roles. Not to say you can't be a single parent and raise a child successfully. You can but in the process both parent and child miss out on some of the best things that make life worth living. It's just a hard truth.

[@taraannhickey7277]

We're in a culture of constant validation and attention seeking. Instead of working on ourselves and why we feel the need to over sexualize ourselves we just go with the flow. And justify it by saying everyone else is doing it.

[@izzydoesit8663]

I knew you guys were cool once I saw that Kill Bill poster! Love your content❤

[@AdriOnFilms]

Not submissive! EQUAL!!! You talk your differences!

[@Sprite_525]

Your discussions are dope. Usually a channel is just 1 dude ranting alone biased. Your strong intelligent group energy is unique 🙌

[@frankleben5451]

*You’re

[@Sprite_525]

@@frankleben5451 nope. there’s no shortened “you are” in my comment. Every time I typed “your,” it was a possessive adjective which doesn’t use apostrophes

[@dettroitdominadora]

Agreed

[@frankleben5451]

@@Sprite_525 Damn. I was wrong. My bad.

[@Sprite_525]

@@frankleben5451 no worries, have a good one 👍 !

[@dr.furrytoe443]

100% my fave content. Be brave enough to hear truth. We all got truth that hurts. U cant heal without looking at the wound first then clean it!

[@deborahanderson4211]

For the record all black women are not the same. Times have changed considerably.

[@cieartimus766]

I have been watching you guys. Love it! I just finished watching the segment woth Edgar Winter Group. I hope you will check out more of his music. You haven't even heard him sing yet. The man can sing like 5 octaves or something. Phenomenal! It would be great if you could have him on your show. I really like what you are doing. Kudos.

[@PrettyBrownEyes718]

This topic is so complex and the video these men are watching makes it seem so simple. I encourage you guys to do more research into this, if interested. Also, recognize that some of these videos are biased. However, I do agree that culture is a huge factor here and not race. As a black woman that waited until marriage, have friends that also waited a long time to engage in sex, and have immigrant parents (not raised in American culture) this idea that most American black women are out here for the streets is disturbing to hear. I went to a predominantly white school and anecdotally it seemed the black girls held out much longer than the white girls, however many of us were first generation American. Now, I don't know the stats, but it seems neither does she, but I think we should call it even. We didn't send out a mass survey here. There needs to be more of a discussion about what variables go into promiscuity. Also, a lot of blame comes down on the black woman when these black men make these videos. However, think about how we do things in society. Traditionally, men propose. In order to have higher rates of marriage in the black community black men must be ready and willing to propose to a woman. I have also read a statistic that black men in interracial marriages tend to, at high rates, divorce/leave their non-black women making them too "baby-mommas". So definitely look into that. Based on stats alone, it appears that the black man of the last few decades has been the least likely to commit compared to other races. Not sure we can blame that on the black woman. Remember, women tend to play the game but the men create the rules. If men start requiring less promiscuous women, then we would have more women who engage in less casual sex. However, I doubt men will truly want to live in that world. That means less casual sex for them. Either way, I enjoy your videos and your opinions. It's always great to see people thinking critically.

[@savsmiles3042]

Yeah, it’s bc of feminism that modern women are more promiscuous. It’s probably bc you’re first generation American that you have different values. The blame can be equally distributed with both men and women. It’s the liberal culture that celebrates promiscuity and shames conservative values. Men need to respect women and be more faithful and women need to respect themselves and stop being promiscuous.

[@cariaus3758]

We as women need to educate our children for any culture to change. I'm white and got divorced when my daughter was only 2, my ex didn't want to be in her life and from an early age I talked to her about promiscuity. I told her that girls without a dad tend to be more promiscuous and she has always thanked me for those talks, because it kept her very aware & she didn't make bad choices. The things that are brought up in this video can happen in any race, if we don't instil good values in our kids, it's definitely not just a black community issue.

[@SB-fh3sv]

I agree. I think we need to be careful of oversimplifying things. I believe that we have a promiscuous culture. I remember feeling like i was different for being a virgin in high school and that was in the 90’s. My teenage girls are nervous to do activities with boys because they fear that a boy hangs out with you then he might want sex and pornography is everywhere. I believe too many girls have a low self esteem and they desire attention from males and are willing to do whatever they have to do to get it. You can spot those girls a mile away and they will get a lit of male attention….the problem is that they don’t believe enough in themselves to make anyone jump through any hoops to have them. They don’t believe that they are lovable so that is why they try to bring men in sexually. Those relationships have no foundation. There is no security because it is based on pleasure and superficial things that anyone can provide. When a women is insecure she doesn’t act right in a relationship. They will never experience real peace and joy that comes with love. I tell my girls to wait as long as possible to do anything sexual. At least make sure he loves you. I see these girls today and it makes me sad for them.

[@tennisplayer5490]

@@SB-fh3sv it’s more complex than just that because generally girls do make guys in their league or below go through hoops it’s the guys they perceive as above or out of their league and probably wouldn’t waste time hanging out with them if not for sex that girls don’t make jump through hoops for the attention

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[@seanwilliams4594]

She just described ALL WOMEN , Not Black Women

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