Black Women are STRUGGLING To Find Love!

Black Women are STRUGGLING To Find Love!
The Dating Market for Black Women: Struggles and How to Thrive
In this video, we explore the unique challenges that Black women face in the dating and mating market. From societal stereotypes and colorism to cultural expectations and the often skewed perceptions in the media, Black women frequently encounter obstacles that others might not experience. Despite these challenges, it's important to recognize that there are ways to improve your dating experience and take control of your narrative.
We’ll discuss:
The societal factors that contribute to the struggles in dating.
How colorism and Eurocentric beauty standards impact Black women.
Navigating relationships with men of different races or cultural backgrounds.
Tips for boosting self-confidence and fostering meaningful connections.
How to avoid settling for less and instead, focus on building healthy, fulfilling relationships.
Whether you're single and searching, or just looking to gain a deeper understanding of the dynamics at play, this video offers insightful advice and actionable strategies for Black women to not only survive but thrive in the dating world. Empower yourself, embrace your uniqueness, and build the love life you deserve!
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[@ChezCharde]

What are practical ways Black Women can improve their relationship success? Leave your comment down below 👇

[@beauallen272]

Become less ahistorical, fix their value system, read more.

[@ochacal7794]

They need to change their view on relationships, we are not o 1950 when women had no rights but men will never sign up for the matriarchy, they need to choose they husband aka they leader carefully and when they do they need to let that men lead! And one more thing, they need to start to search for their head/husband after 23, not at 29 when she is this boss lady!

[@blacksource2101]

Well first, they have to stop taking dating advice from single women that can't get a man either.☻ I think alot of these women are bringing each other down because they don't want to feel miserable alone. They have to break free from the "sisterhood" and start holding themselves accountable. Once they do that then a sense of peace and clarity will fall upon them, which in turn will allow them to open up and bring out their soft side. That soft side is their femininity, so rest in it ladies. All the women that like to point the finger and never take accountability for their actions are the aggressive ones, and that's not a feminine trait. So, start with being honest with yourself so that you can become approachable again. Everything else should be easy after that

[@Djd271]

Compete just like everybody else 😂

[@themasculineframe6880]

Become reincarnated -Kevin Samuels

[@gmoney4236]

They're not struggling to find love. They're struggling to find suckers. Love has already found them, and they fumbled

[@Tiren-ky3cu]

Exactly!!!! Because it's so ironic that black women are the only race of women who's always in some struggle love situationship.🤦🤣

[@riddickj16]

💯

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

bingo!

[@prosper4206]

This the one

[@dricoirving3236]

Let this man cook!

[@Illalcap]

The title should say Black women are struggling to find a man who would love to pay their bills for them.

[@Realkingtony365]

They love throwing that " Provider " word around too lol

[@KtotheG]

​@@Realkingtony365Provider is not a trick...They've been conditioned to be hoars.

[@lindaavant4665]

Why do you think those ww marry those NFL, NBA, Dr's, etc... 🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@Realkingtony365]

@@KtotheG you right, conditioned and brainwashed to be

[@zyruemusic]

@@Realkingtony365NAH…..RAISED TO BE…..BY THEY MAMA….. Leviticus 19: 29. Do not prostitute thy daughter, to cause her to be a whore; lest the land fall to whoredom, and the land become full of wickedness.

[@dred9174]

These college educated women have no excuse to be in "struggle love" relationships. These women went to the same college campuses that these high earnings educated black men went to, they just didn't want those men

[@AGElite87]

Ding ding ding! this is the comment. Brothers had to witness bw run off campus to get with either pookie or chad.

[@sade9425]

Let’s be real, those men were checking for Becky and her mixed friends

[@Tiren-ky3cu]

​@@sade9425No they weren't. That's a lie. Knock it off. Black women were their first option. But like most black women, They were told to live it up and have fun. Don't depend on no man And after multiple kids by multiple baby daddies. Then it's time to settle down

[@dred9174]

@@sade9425 stop the BS you women fabricate reasons to justify dating drug dealers scammers and thugs instead of just admitting that's what you prefer when it's obvious to the rest of the world. All you have to do is look at these prison dating sites, see how many likes these criminals receive on social media posts in their jump suits etc, all the responses on these posts etc.

[@dred9174]

@@Tiren-ky3cu This blatant dishonesty is why a lot of guys are just going #Passportbros #SYSBM they're constantly lying instead of admitting that they just prefer thugs, drug dealers and scammers. It's not like we don't see how thirsty these women get on pictures of guys in jumpsuits or these prison dating sites.

[@JustMe-zk9dc]

As if black women are truning down nonblack men left and right. Nonblack men are NOT queuing up for black women.

[@Tiren-ky3cu]

Bingo 🎯🎯🎯

[@kaysammy6730]

You can't tell them that. They think they're the standard.

[@MsDesiree39]

fact...

[@AVG336]

They dont want to accept that fact because it doesn't fit their narrative and makes them feel hopeless

[@adamblack6867]

Neither are black men . Black men are far more interested in other races .

[@trevorjames4619]

They aren’t struggling to find love.They are struggling to find accountability and responsibility under the guise of struggling to find love.

[@djonesthe21]

THIS is the one ☝🏾 💯

[@OneNiftyBoi]

Please explain how modern fems are looking for not only accountability, but responsibility as well?? 😅

[@trevorjames4619]

@@OneNiftyBoi sarcasm my friend. They’re not.

[@georgeturner301]

Actually; they're struggling to ESCAPE! ACCOUNTABILITY and RESPONSIBILITY for their choices in life.

[@OneNiftyBoi]

@@trevorjames4619 Oooh now see what you mean

[@mackmcmaillian9851]

A whole bunch of y'all is just hard as hell to get along with !! PERIOD !! That's all of the analyzing you need to know, It's just that simple, And y'all will continue to have none for filling relationships ,, No matter what the race of the man is !!!!

[@antares3097]

Bingo...🎯

[@redsolocup727]

@@mackmcmaillian9851 Your comment is the absolute truth!

[@jeromemcmillan2213]

Facts💯

[@jeromemcmillan2213]

Facts 💯

[@lindaavant4665]

Goodness, they deleted my comment.. Oh well....🤔🤔

[@user-ui2cr2ec2v]

Struggling for KEISHA is the new normal 😮

[@Gistoven]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/h3a0lKGwfdKcmNEsi=_E2iYUSlziZnCp2X watch full video

[@taliabraver]

At the Trump rallies are the best looking men,black or white!!!!WOW!!!!!

[@thePraddagee]

They single. But their V ain’t. As they said they were “actively” dating. These women aren’t worth taking seriously.

[@SantiagoVeraLoor]

I think they were born on the street

[@suave_d]

Agreed.

[@matthewgaines10]

And often enough, that womb has already produced for someone else. When they talk about that man they gave their womb too, it too often was a man they seem to say wasn’t up to the measure they demand. Yet, they still gave their womb to him. Now they want more from a man with less to offer in return.

[@kunguru1058]

What are the options then? I’ll tell you, the women over seas with their Instagram and Facebook are exactly the same. They are better at suppressing it though, but they are the same. Hardware is different, software is the same..

[@thePraddagee]

@@matthewgaines10 💯

[@chilzone966]

They are dating, working kitty calls from Chad & Tyrone. Alpha widows with some of highest body count while still feeling the bus driver, regular 9-5 is below her. But the thing that hurts them the most is the attitude that refuse to submit, refuse to nurture, refusing to acknowledge any sense of duty. "Passports Up!".

[@Rainissick]

I’m moving to Colombia 🇨🇴 Dec 1 permanently got my visa 4 weeks ago

[@RShaun]

People don’t find love. They create it. Nobody is looking to create. Everyone wants attraction to mean love but it doesn’t.

[@belleame4671]

Well said!!!

[@dogtown1718]

What is it they consider struggle love? A man that won't tolerate being talk to like a child, a man who won't break his pockets to buy her a purse etc?

[@SantiagoVeraLoor]

💯 facts👍🏿

[@illoneson.5218]

🎯

[@move_on_from_keesha]

Struggle love means that they aren't willing to take on the status of black men as their own. Remember black men and black women are culturally different we are not at all the same nor do we see anything thr same so that phrase struggle love really only applies to black men. Black women chase power and elitism

[@dogtown1718]

@@move_on_from_keesha You have a point.

[@DefiesAllStereotypes]

As a BM who has been happily married for over a decade, and one who's parents have been happily married for nearly 60 years; hearing a woman use a "thriving relationship of a few months" as an example of getting it right is pure comedy.

[@CorGP]

I don’t think they are struggling, I think they’re being picky and have their priorities all wrong. There’s a man out there that wants a lot of these women but they’re not given the attention and opportunity to show that.

[@ZetaZintendo]

Nah big dawg they struggling blk men are tired of blk womens shit they could easily have a man but they be on bullshit and dump on blk men all the time.

[@ZetaZintendo]

But yeah they are being picky too thats they fault.

[@DaPharaohDaEmperor116]

Now that same man, don't care and loves his peace.

[@CorGP]

@@ZetaZintendo I think it’s really revealing on where they rank their values when it comes to men. A lot of them are ranking financial status and physical attraction over things like character and maturity.

[@CorGP]

@@DaPharaohDaEmperor116 I think men should always chase goals and not women, women come along with it. they somehow have been led to believe that goal oriented men should be searching for them.

[@youngw1ze]

Does anyone ever ask these perpetually single women about their personalities or how they relate to other people?...

[@johnserosanguineous1886]

Why would anyone do that? They're perfect in every way.

[@move_on_from_keesha]

Yea don't bother

[@gee6831]

Yu don’t ask someone personality they show it to yu

[@realrandywilliams]

Nah they struggling to find somebody to love them unconditionally, but not mutually, until they get bored. This is common knowledge at this point. We already moved on and we aint going back ✌️

[@brooklynzfynesst4108]

Can you imagine being a jerk, but instead of either lessening it or stopping, you just go be a jerk some place else. Ladies and gentlemen I introduce you to the American Black woman, she's never the problem it's always Jermaines fault!!!

[@ZetaZintendo]

Yet they still wonder why they single 😂

[@move_on_from_keesha]

Keesha is the same wherever she is from.

[@trastradamus]

Chez, they don't have to struggle. Tell them divest. BM such as myself want them to go quickly.

[@Sammie-m2w]

Becomes struggle love as some women intentionally pick the wrong man, reject the good guy, multiple men, extremely uncooperative, quick to divorce and very entitled.

[@tam6011]

What is a good guy? FyI, I have 10 guys this question and every last one is different.

[@beauallen272]

That’s because they killed it. Cold blooded murder. If the glove fits…well you know the rest. 😂😂

[@Lonewolf-allthewayUP]

First thing I tell them is 'Yall got each other, go from there' 🤣🤣.

[@beauallen272]

@@Lonewolf-allthewayUP 😭 but, they hate each other 😭😭

[@Lonewolf-allthewayUP]

@@beauallen272 I already know, I see all the time where I live with those things. That's just my petty side🤣🤣.

[@beauallen272]

@@Lonewolf-allthewayUP nothing wrong with petty. 🤭

[@industryexposedofficial]

BW will struggle till the end attitudes and jezebel spirit and some more stuff

[@jjmcg9184]

I swear this topic is getting so redundant & played out SMH.

[@Khurr]

Worse than that…it is as if, black men bear the burden of responsibility for SOME black women to not lose, be losers, and end up singe forever. In all societies, the degenerates WILL LOSE, a sexy redd WILL lose no matter what culture you put them in…how are some of these delusional women different? I understand they weren’t taught, but that’s how natural selection works.

[@russogian5231]

But here's the thing, they still don't take any accountability for their choices, just constant, empty complaints

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

it needs to keep being presented over and over and over again. the young generation need to see older women struggling so they eventually stop following the same path.

[@kamronwilliams2634]

We need to keep saying it because black women still have no accountability

[@itsjustme523]

This topic keeps going for clicks and views which means MONEY for KZbinrs. As a black woman who just remarried a few months ago after being single for many years, my suggestions for other black women are the following: 1. Think about what you can GIVE in the relationship instead of what you can get. Ditch the long list of requirements. 2. Ask men in your circle (close male friends and relatives who love you) their honest opinion of you, accept the feedback, and act on it. 3. Wear your own natural hair texture and color. 4. Get rid of those long fake lashes and claw-like nails. They're ugly and unhygienic. 5. Stop dressing like female rappers. You are not one of them. 5. Be pleasant. It's not cute to be mean. If you do these 5 things, you could be married in less than a year.

[@srtology]

They’re struggling to find a sponsor.

[@DeRussellMasina]

Culture, personality, character, attitude, self accountability...

[@healthyhabits3406]

No they’re not 😂😂😂😂 a woman said god told her after 15 years with her husband, that that’s not your husband. No abuse, no cheating, everything was cool she left. 😂😂😂

[@Ruffway23-bu1pe]

Kml delusional 🤣🤣🤣🤣 they insane

[@Cahluvca]

The cycle of its not really about lifetime commitment

[@jonneygreen]

This happened to me...we were together for 4 years. One evening this woman called me saying her pastor said God revealed to him that i am not the person for her. 8 years later she sent me a text wanting me back..i deleted that text real quick.

[@SantiagoVeraLoor]

Women. If you don't love yourselves no one can love you. You have to love yourself first and being a feminist isn't self love, it's self hate.

[@primeva7579]

Notice how none of their so called white female friends never have a blk bf or husband, but I can go just about anywhere and find a bm/wm couple doing very well. I lived in Seattle for a while lol

[@dreynolds4883]

I'm from Tacoma I see several Black couples up here. You sound like a Bed Buck.

[@Hadda23]

I have been to Seattle too I have a lot of African women with white men their too

[@move_on_from_keesha]

​@@Hadda23 for recreation only. Those.realtionships do not last its a known fact. They only come together becsuse their mutual hatred of black men but after awhile when they see black men don't care they eventually fall apart. Brad will realize we are glad they take them we despise them especially today

[@dancleary4101]

@@Hadda23marriage rate is lower

[@DaVontae12T]

Proverbs 31:3 (KJV) Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.

[@antares3097]

Ecclesiasticus 25:24....🤔

[@sherwoodla6535]

What’s wrong with being marriage minded/focused at age 21? BW seem to be the only ones, en mass, that aren’t. Being marriage focused ensures you’ll search for eligible bachelors who have provider potential, not playboys. Also, I’m tired of hearing BW say they should Now date outside, instead of just doing it. No one said you’re not allowed to marry a good person that happens to be of another race. I don’t know where that came from for BW. No other group of women claims to be race loyal then threatens or agonizes over having to “consider” dating outside their race. It should just be another option, not a public declaration. It’s getting really old. Make it make sense

[@sammajor2075]

"en masse"

[@rasulsamad5860]

Unless they are an 8 other groups don't want them

[@spalding1968]

It’s not just black women struggling to find love . Unfortunately most women have become unmarriagesble. The same can be said for men . Both sexes have extended their child hood and immature years right into their 30’s and beyond . But in the case of black women in particular , they can be seen as more argumentative and headstrong and less likely to be someone any man would won’t to live their lives with . Don’t shoot the messenger .

[@dariusthegreat3097]

Black men have been telling them it's their attitude but they don't want to believe it and take it as hate. Now they say they are divesting and other races of men will marry them but that is not the case. They think having sex is the same thing as marriage but that is not the case. Other races are not rushing to marry them. Despite them bashing Black men, black men are still wanted worldwide and I think that's one of the points of contention.

[@basheebrah3551]

Ok so if black men are still wanted worldwide and black women aren’t, what does that do for us? Are we supposed to run off to other communities instead of building within ourselves and still expect respect? If we have to run off the other communities for their women that’s says more about us then we realize.

[@dariusthegreat3097]

@@basheebrah3551 it actually doesn't. Black men have told black women for years to be submissive and feminine but they've actually doubled down and openly disrespect black men. Not all but enough. They've done it so much so that they even bash the women that say they love black men. Black women(not all but a lot)need to realize God made an order for a reason and man is suppose to lead. But most just brag about this and that with fake hair and BBL's with pounds of makeup and bad attitude........that doesn't make a woman. Most men just want a feminine woman.

[@dariusthegreat3097]

@@basheebrah3551 it actually doesn't. Black men have told black women for years to be submissive and feminine but they've actually doubled down and openly disrespect black men. Not all but enough. They've done it so much so that they even bash the women that say they love black men. Black women(not all but a lot)need to realize God made an order for a reason and man is suppose to lead. But most just brag about this and that with fake hair and BBL's with pounds of makeup and bad attitude........that doesn't make a woman. Most men just want a feminine woman.

[@dariusthegreat3097]

@@basheebrah3551 it actually doesn't. Black men have told black women for years to be submissive and feminine but they've actually doubled down and openly disrespect black men. Not all but enough. They've done it so much so that they even bash the women that say they love black men. Black women(not all but a lot)need to realize God made an order for a reason and man is suppose to lead. But most just brag about this and that with fake hair and BBL's with pounds of makeup and bad attitude........that doesn't make a woman. Most men just want a feminine woman.

[@dariusthegreat3097]

@@basheebrah3551 it actually doesn't. Black men have told black women for years to be submissive and feminine but they've actually doubled down and openly disrespect black men. Not all but enough. They've done it so much so that they even bash the women that say they love black men. Black women(not all but a lot)need to realize God made an order for a reason and man is suppose to lead. But most just brag about this and that with fake hair and BBL's with pounds of makeup and bad attitude........that doesn't make a woman. Most men just want a feminine woman.

[@aphantasiagreyman8445]

Always Jermaine's fault.... Never fails.

[@ochacal7794]

This will be the future😂😂

[@Cahluvca]

Across the board....from Japan to Sweden

[@357savage]

Black women aren’t looking for love, they are looking for help without giving anything in return or less as possible in return

[@joshuajackson7050]

I here a lot of guys say your not a man if you don't provide and do everything for women and then the same men complain women don't do anything make it make sense gotta call that out but I agree.

[@Nightrain349]

What happened to not needing a man?

[@suezcontours6653]

Black men are not needed. Black women need other races of men. Look at Africa being taken over by China and African women marrying Asian men. Black American women's problem is they're not dating out. African women are not about loyalty, they're about the DOWRY

[@ibezag0]

How many men have they sidestepped to come sit down on camera to complain about being single?!!

[@BadgerWolf-19]

Title: Black Women are struggling to find a Educated 2Pac.

[@busyrand]

When I graduated from college, I returned to my childhoold church by myself as a grown, handsome man who had been away for four years... I attended service by myself a few time so they didn't recognize me. I was a young chemist, with a brand new full size SUV, doing real estate investment during all of my time off. I also had connections as a Kappa fraternity member... Everyone in the church gave me a neutral/cold shoulder. Nobody approached me or tried to introduce me to the pretty young ladies they kept hoarded at the front pew. The whole thing felt odd to me, and I simply didn't go anymore... That was over twenty years ago... Nobody is serious about this topic, especially in the church... I quit...

[@tam6011]

Why didn’t you introduce yourself? Why didn’t you initiate your own introductions based on watching those women actions.

[@busyrand]

@@tam6011 It was my childhood church... Don't you think I tried??? I returned later with my family and people knew who I was then, but people were still oddly distant. I don't talk to distant people in the regular world, but you think I should have done so in Church?... Three cute girls, as if they were the only decent looking women in Chicago... I was a noticeably handsome at the time, and women typically angled to be open to me in a mutual fashion... The whole thing felt off. I'm not jumping through hurdles to attend church. No thanks...

[@tam6011]

@@busyrand nope not how you told the story. The story doesn’t read as you tried on your own. It reads as if you were waiting for an intro that never happened.

[@globalboy1000]

THE WALL INCOMING 🧱

[@Well-beingCris..]

It’s humility.. most black women CANT IMAGINE being services minded-oriented towards a black man.. if they are, it tends to be an act. These other races give up the goods IMMEDIATELY.. by that I mean they have no problem being service minded towards a good black and and we appreciate it.

[@georgeturner301]

That word "Love' is nothing more than a euphemism for MODERN WOMEN".

[@illoneson.5218]

what they don't say is that BW have completely different values than these other women and bw think these other women get swept away to live in a castle and never lift a finger which is false while bw live a regular life which to them is "struggle "

[@kalonjikala9887]

Too many have expectations out of touch with reality.That Balloon shows how shallow too many women are. They don't know what they want. My college sweetheart wanted sisterhood with her sorors over a life with me. Forty plus years later, she still has her sorors but never married or had kids. I feel sorry for her now.

[@demetriusjames9535]

"He who finds a WIFE finds what is good..." Women are very busy trying to find a husband. The Lost Value system 😑

[@SolitudeofaTiger]

I’m just courteous and polite to them bcuz thats how was raised and I get meanmugged. Hold the door for them and they don’t even say ty.

[@matthewgaines10]

They mistake your kindness and manners for weakness. The wrong ones don’t respond to those things even in casual settings. Don’t give out your attention or energy to those who don’t deserve it.

[@Vnarogyil]

haha, I just saw this yesterday coming out of the gym. Brother was holding the door for a ww and a bw. The ww was the only one who said thank you. LOL.

[@Shaolin91z]

Ladies are doing just fine. Thanks Lord for your salvation Thanks Lord for your peace

[@rolandmarkland6844]

First you have to be lovable

[@SantiagoVeraLoor]

Deceitful, promiscuous, masculine, aggressive, abusive, arrogant ect. Who can love such women!!!

[@sammajor2075]

"...48.3% HSV rate' - United States CDC

[@CTeale1]

Black women want and deserve 10s. Sadly, there aren’t enough 10s to go around.

[@jaydubya9265]

Bc they want a certain type of man. Tall. Dark. Handsome.

[@mashdeli]

Don’t forget 6 figure income 7+ inch downstairs pay the bills and a home for them to bring there friends too 😂

[@jonahno7992]

A clever way to excuse the fact that they want brad.

[@dreynolds4883]

No real Black Woman wants a Brad.

[@thegameprofit6636]

Look ladies 🤔, Men are having the times of their lives without you! You’ve given men their freedom. Manly men could care less about a relationship. Simply put, And i’m sorry to tell you. Your love and children are not worth the headache 🫡!! KEEP MACKIN ✌🏾

[@angelowhite4701]

No they are not struggling to find love. Love is nothing what many women say it is. You have to have the qualities to deserve to be shown love but many women do not possess those qualities. How does anyone who have a successful relationship know they do not. The word is SACRIFICE. Love is built on it and undeserved kindness. So let's see if many women deserve love and please post this. Everything is for them when it comes to being loved and that shows through their expectations. Everything starts with ananimate objects, houses cars, money, degrees, and superficial things like status, height, and more. Can you see it? Can you really see it? Now lets go to the man when he says he wants love. [ I want to give her the best life, I want to take care of her and she never have to worry, I hope I can be the man she wants me to be, she's worth everything I can give. Do you see it? Again do you see it? SACRIFiCE. As my mom said men really love. She said for a man to ask to take care of a women is the same in heart for a woman with a child. She said men have the same deep love for women as a mother have for a child. And like selfish childern they hurt men, like childern hurt their mothers who provide for them. A woman says nothing about loving a man or sacrificing for a man. She already indicate through her expections that she want to be loved but have no goals of showing love in behalf of a man. It is not her primary focus on the relationship and if not it will not survive. So when she marries that man and never considering real expectations she should think about for her wifely roles, she acts like wifely expectations does not or should not exist. Why? Her whole outlook is being loved but not showing love and that's the real danger for men today. Many women expectations shows men who are not blind and intelligent that many women have no true love for them or really intend to express true love to them and wisely those men stay away from those women.

[@wutang23361]

Im so glad you didn't quit your channel

[@DeRussellMasina]

Black women, the I don't need a man group 😅

[@penuelyahucodiyah.4678]

Who's struggling? No, they are not struggling, they are strong and independent.

[@genovasquez8361]

997 to find love they don't really want it

[@BLee09]

I was just recently talking to this one woman. Took her on 3 dates after the third she told me about how much of a good time she had with me. I was actually excited and thought maybe I was getting somewhere with her. We kept conversation going up until I told her I was going out of town for my bday. The texts from her slowed down, and she just didn't even bother talking to me at all when I was actually out of town. I hit her up one last time when I got back and asked when she was free because I'd love to see her again. She told me it's not going to work because we don't have any chemistry. Now, idk what changed her tune or why it took 3 dates from me to figure that out. But I would genuinely like to know. Where does the struggle begin?

[@demetreusd.robysr.8446]

lol and I’m single, employed, and have more than I need and I’m invisible in America. I drive a Porche, own a boat, RV, and make 6 figures. lol but I’m 5’6” and not going to chase women who don’t want to be caught. Black women don’t want me so I’ll take the fruits of my labor somewhere it’s appreciated.

[@ZetaZintendo]

Their aren't many ways blk women can improve we can't even get a smile from most of them on the street. I think it's best to let the shop sail they stay with pookie and rayray and let the good earners leave a great replacement is coming. KS said winter is coming but it's here.

[@themasculineframe6880]

I agree completely. And the few good BW out there are going to be left out, because it’s way too many bad BW.

[@Best1-4me]

Don't worry,the bears will help you out.😂😂😂😂

[@seunmoses]

If she doesn't want you in her prime, don't take her in her decline.

[@tselisonkuebe9116]

No suprises here. You bw have sowed the seeds of your loneliness by claiming YOU are strong and independent. So, what are you crying about? Isn't THIS what you wanted?

[@nicoftime1534]

Unfortunately when W talk about "Standards" it often about materialism

[@MrLawrence7777]

They Can Definitely improve on Their Relationship Success if They Would Keep Their Legs Closed and Learn how to Choose a Man by the Content of his Character rather than his Swag. Shalawam 🙏🏾 Family

[@matthewgaines10]

The fault is not in our stars, but in ourselves. - William Shakespeare You get the results you work for. These women chose the path they now face. All things worth having require knowledge, preparation, and effort. Most of these types of women, lack the knowledge, have done no preparation of value, and exert none of the required effort. It starts out with stop blaming others for your outcomes and find out what is going on with you to get the outcomes you get.

[@BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370]

i came straight to the comment section for the roast.🍿

[@khalifanzuri5185]

I thought the white dudes were lined up waiting for y'all... I'm good.. ✌️

[@ltraingalaxy122]

lmao , expanding their options since slavery . i love it and it smacks you right in the face with truth

[@joshuajackson7050]

The struggle is not that they can't find someone it's their extremely high unreasonable standards but don't want the man to have standards just like he has to work on himself yu do to.

[@lamontevlogs]

I spent my 20's looking for work and 30's finally getting it right, now dating sucks lol - went to college during the pandemic- now everyone over 30 wants to get settled in a weekend and it's borderline impossible to date anyone under 28 for my mental health lol - so now I just focus on me - back on track I guess lol.

[@OrmazdYahu]

*Chez is greener than a pool table!* 😂😂😂😂

[@jasonjr376]

I tried dating one and she cheated on me a month after my little sister died. We were together for 4.5 years and the second I was hurting and vulnerable she started cheating. I no longer date bw now😂

[@neon_one_neo3317]

They're looking for help not love, where was this comcern for a man in their prime? Notice its always when they're older suddenly they're looking for a man?😒😒.

[@gtgargon]

I feel sorry for them. How do you expect people that come from a home where there were no examples of successful relationships with men? Not single mom or single grand moms. Perpetual singleness is all they've known and seen. successful relationships are alien concepts

[@matthewgaines10]

That’s what professional counseling is for. To deal with your brokenness. These females will get on social media declaring their manifesto but won’t address the real reason they are single. The fault is not in our stars but in ourselves.

[@jasonjr376]

Don’t care lol, women tend to only have empathy and understanding when it applies to them.

[@ajadams3297]

Struggling to find a sponsor not surprised

[@ninetiesbaby90]

I find myself wondering, if the roles where reversed and it was Black men struggling with relationships, how long would it take us to change our ways and find relationships😂 Honestly I think collectively men would have changed way sooner before things got this bad

[@depthgod7672]

No lies told

[@airving]

Love your takes.

[@vernonsessoms7859]

Great video!

[@MojoeHart]

there is no love because True intimacy might be described as a profound connection where individuals can be authentic without fear of judgment...and you're talking about bw....right?

[@MojoeHart]

in extreme amounts of fakeup to hide behind

[@PirateBroadcaster]

BW @ the bottom.

[@garyrichardson7592]

Most of them are struggling to be wise because they are not

[@robertmarley8852]

I don't want Becky I don't want Keisha I want ling ling

[@Colt19]

Damn. I learned Love don’t Love nobody..

[@Yaguydomo]

I saw so many black woman lol in college not looking at nobody just the pookies that’s it lol I saw every other woman with their man and finding a man and after they got married lol

[@357savage]

Black women are pookies too

[@theimportantthingsthatreal9842]

18 to 27 are the best years to get married because a woman is highly fertile. After 27 years old she goes down hill per a female Doctor. At 35 years old a woman is considered a high risk pregnancy, So being a H.O.E. in a woman's 20s is a big waste of time because a woman probably has already rejected her husband to be in the streets.

[@ericterry6042]

All people are struggling to find love. Black people should try to actually talk to other races of people sometimes. I know well educated white men that have literally checked out of find a real relationship

[@EmeraldEdge72]

If you're look for male love that is not a problem. However, if she's lookong to find love she may have a problem. Women should have love themselves whatever type it is that they have. Men give their love to their partner/spouse, children, and the rest of their family.

[@jazminedawson6745]

What's male love? Please explain?

[@Cahluvca]

​@@jazminedawson6745respect

[@silvabakx6396]

too many sistas dont love themselves enough to love anybody else... sad

[@na8751]

Give me a break and speak for yourself, just say black American women are struggling. Other bw in countries are fine and not desperate.

[@officialtmpwavesmedia8753]

I'm looking for a dark skin Queen but its been difficult honestly. But why?

[@TheBulletzgottishow20]

Chez hey beautiful

[@dwannwilson1260]

Chez is right . I like how she was pulling out in these type of conversations that black women are even black guys too. They pull up any conversations they always try to make it seem like oh trying to date outside race is a better idea or it’s rainbows and things like that, but that’s not true because if it was you see a lot more people doing it. Stop being picky and let God lead you and find love to people or not your husband or your wife. Nobody wants to us things

[@Djd271]

It’s about competition both men and women have to compete

[@industryexposedofficial]

MEN ARE THE PRIZE I FEEL

[@Djd271]

@@industryexposedofficial women are the prize until they have kids after they ineligible lol 😂

[@stephenfoster1257]

The law of supply and demand applies here. The demand for men is high,the supply is low. The group with the demand does not have the leverage. The low supply does.

[@vincentmartin3337]

I wish I could give all these black women my love and a hug. And yes even the most bitter and hateful ones (even if they still hate me). I get a little jealous when I see these black women who have GENUINELY tried and reach out to black men ("good" or "bad") only just needing a shred of understanding, attention, and respect only to go to non-black men who potentially may dehumanize them in some way. If you black women choose to date out your race then I BEG YOU to never stop loving your beautiful black selves and find a lover who won't fetishize you, who won't let their friends and family disrespect you, and has enough decency to love you the way you deserve to be loved.

[@TheMrgoodmanners]

Y'all are obsessed with race 😫😫😫😫😫

[@TheMrgoodmanners]

She mentioned something really important at 3:35. These are largely black American problems not black people's problems

[@Smarty2able]

We will find love when we learn to seek God to heal and to take self accountability. Men don't like a bad attitude. Ask your dad, uncle, male friends whoever "How do you experience me? Am I approachable?" A guy friend of mine was almost screwed over my one of my friends claiming she wasn't interested in him and then sabotaged my friendship with him because he was ignoring her and still talking to me. He almost had a breakdown because she refused to stop crossing his boundaries nad leave him alone. Despicable behavior.

[@mkbanks73a]

Pursue Christ, not a relationship. Read Matthew 6.

[@TheRickeyscott]

Love is here and now my darling now you're gone! Quick name that tune?