Dating Black Guys, Dating Asian Guys, Dating White Guys // Not Your Asian Women Podcast, Ep. 30

Do Asian women like Black guys? Comedian Shining and Christine Chang talk about dating different races when they were single, and what they ultimately looked for in a partner.
Shining’s Instagram & Tiktok: @shiningluvsmile
Christine Chang’s Instagram & Tiktok: @cchangandco
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[@Fooshis01]

As a black guy ive always been attracted to Asian women its just i was never on their roster

[@Jay-jb2vr]

Yea they don't date black men, duh

[@Ms.Mee777]

Probably because you're not THEIR preference. I think Asian women prefer white men for various reasons.

[@Fooshis01]

@@Ms.Mee777 oh I been knew

[@Nick-ub8oi]

​@@Ms.Mee777In south Korea and Japan the women are crazy for Black men and their are loads of Blasian couples together..married. It's just the asian women in America love the white man over other races!

[@openranks4519]

Got to visit Asia…get your passport, trust me

[@PPB_Army]

Can Black men just mind our business without randomly catching strays??? 🤣

[@DimitriMccullum-bg9nz]

😂 that's what am saying

[@cloudnationmedia8326]

Nope, it's like they gotta talk about us. The thirst is real. Using our slang and appropriating the culture. The world can't live without speaking about black men 😅😂

[@omegab4k4]

​@@cloudnationmedia8326I consider that good, lol

[@tomocchii]

@@cloudnationmedia8326That’s because they’re American…

[@roycewallace9472]

​@tomocchii It happens outside of america often as well, American/ black American Culture is like a global trend.

[@zee688]

Why are all these black men on here trying to prove what we are and are not. If these women want to believe in these negative stereotypes, let them believe that. For instance... Im a black man, and I always pay for my date, I like my women skinny or thick. But people are going to stereotype us no matter how different we are. That's life 😂😂

[@TazWardx]

I can understand both sides, because number one media always stereotype black men, individuals have different preferences okay just accept that.

[@Youdig101]

I always say, if somebody is weak minded enough to not think for themselves and just focus on negative stereotypes, that's not somebody you want to be around anyway. We should never try to prove ourselves to them.

[@VDOTU5]

I just can't get with calling us black so, I'll simply say African. As an African guy, I can't feel effected by what they say here. They make it clear they are talking about their experiences, and not generalizing! I keep running into women who hate kids and have shown willingness to harm them, if I talked about them the women who are not like that should not feel any type of way about my complaints.

[@TazWardx]

@@VDOTU5 brother I know that some of us don't like okay but I'm just generalizing as a whole, because if we're pulling over by the police what are they going to describe us as they're not going to say brown they going to say a black man if they put me and you in a lineup are they going to say hey that's an African man in the African or African-American or are they just going to say that's a black man come on now you trying to nitpick on this one. But at the same time I do get what you're saying also. Those are just the stereotypes you going to face in America. And that's what you're going to have to learn.

[@TazWardx]

@@VDOTU5 yep I knew KZbin would take that off what did I say that was so wrong when I was just educating him on stereotypes on what would happen in America? Because if the brother and me was put in a lineup yes the police would say that we both would be black now what was wrong with that instead of differentiating between the both of us being African and African-American? Next time KZbin learn to pick your fights.

[@geraldlake8978]

If you're a good woman, that's 80% of the battle!

[@madjunir]

Passport Bros are going overseas to find good women because they can't find them in the states. Is not about the physical is more about the treatment

[@RougeLino]

what is a good woman ? please tell me, i really want your answer. i'm not joking

[@akin242002]

@@madjunir Depends on the age of the guy. Teenagers and early 20s, will look at body type. 25+ men with jobs and something to lose, start to look at personality and good health (doesn't have to be big booty or bit breasts).

[@letzgow6110]

@@madjunirthey are hoping to find a lady like their grandmothers value core. Unlike these two and the majority of western women or any race.

[@bigstv15]

If you're an asian woman please read this comment! I'm a black man and just wanted to say in regards to not feeling like black men are interested, they might not have thought you were interested or might reject them if they were to approach you. I personally haven't been shown much interest by Asian women but ive always thought and still do think they are some of the most beautiful women on the earth. The stereotype about big butts and titts isnt always true. Sounds corny and cliche but beauty really is in the eye of the beholder! I only dated 1 vietnamese girl back in highschool and then had 1 random friend of a coworker show interest, but i was going through an awkward phase in life and nothing came from it but i was always and will be open to dating Asian women, yall are beautiful ❤️

[@EdwardsCC]

LORD BRO YOU DOING TO MUCH

[@thearachnid7779]

I completely agree

[@PassportGang]

Dude speak for yourself.

[@ThisManOfCulture7440]

That's a fact. We know all too well about the negative feelings towards black people so we often think we'll get it from them or their parents.

[@World_core]

@@EdwardsCChe a certified weirdo and probably a old head lol 😂

[@morheimtv5666]

"Im not their type" If you are an asian woman reading this and you think "I'm not the type of black men"... Please throw the insecurity and the stereotype through the toilet and go talk to that black man that you consider attractive. Truth is that you never know, maybe you are exactly his type. Not all black men like the typical curvy Nicki Minaj type. I am a black man and I would never trade a well-mannered beautiful asian woman for anything.

[@mistickjackal1267]

its common knowledge that the majority's of black men don't like asian women at all they prefer white and black women and some latina women and african women and coloreds of africa and ethiopians they like fat women big butts thick lips dark skin slightly deep but very feminine voice witch asian women lack as a whole.

[@RiO-Cosmic12]

I'M IN TOTAL ABSOLUTE 💯 AGREEMENT WITH YOU! NOT ALL US AFRICAN AMERICAN KINGS👑🦁💜 CARE ABOUT BODY, I CARE ABOUT PURITY, LOYALTY, HONESTY, TRUST, INTELLECT, HEART, AND SOUL, IN ANY ASIAN QUEEN👑🐲💛

[@dekev7503]

Simps 🤮

[@Facts-Over-Feelings]

i date my own.. black only

[@Facts-Over-Feelings]

@@RiO-Cosmic12 simp

[@thereGoMapo]

Date whoever you want. Just don't drag your men down in the mud. That's wack. That's obviously not y'all. All minority men feel SOME type of way when a women of their ethnicity prefers to date outside their ethnicity w/o giving their own a chance. That's just hatin'. Black and Asian go together. Just look at Jackie Chan & Chris Tucker in Rush Hour, or Bruce Lee & Hakeem in Game of Death, or Pharell & Chad Hugo of the Neptunes. We move culture together! Don't hate. Unify.

[@rain1676]

Men and women

[@Jay-jb2vr]

Dumb comment 💯

[@thereGoMapo]

@@Jay-jb2vr Care to explain why the comment bothers you?

[@Jay-jb2vr]

@@thereGoMapo you use celebrities as examples

[@Jay-jb2vr]

@thereGoMapo when you don't really understand Asian culture praises white supremacy...

[@truthseekingfreethinker5214]

Im a black man and i love pancakes lol. Dont let stereotypes fool you.

[@NotYourAsianWomen]

Lol!

[@mroblige1018]

Just you bro

[@truthseekingfreethinker5214]

@@mroblige1018 I think you'd be surprised

[@primeva7579]

​@@mroblige1018nah

[@tomocchii]

@@mroblige1018why do black peoples not like pancakes? That’s weird?

[@user-er1bh5oq9y]

Talk about how many black, latino, and indian men you have had exclusive relationships with....none lol. If you like white, just say you like white guys more. No big deal.

[@cchangandco]

I had a Latino boyfriend for 3 years.

[@user-er1bh5oq9y]

​@@cchangandco​Interesting. Dark skin latino or light skin looking latino/white looking or white/latin feature looking mix? Latin America is pretty diverse in range. Many Puerto Ricans, Brazilians, Argentinians look white.

[@Squintel7]

​@@user-er1bh5oq9yThe whitest Latino you can imagine lol

[@Squintel7]

​@@cchangandcoWhite passing Latino 100%

[@johndeer8489]

Hispanic is Hispanic who cares, it's always non Hispanics saying b.s like this, there are women out there who would date a so called "white" Hispanic and not a white American and vice versa what's your excuse there? You racial categories don't matter as much as you think especially when applied to Hispanics.​@@user-er1bh5oq9y

[@johnb6861]

that lady said she grew up in a town with only 1 or 2 asian, but then said she only dated asians in middle and high school? straight bsing lmao

[@cchangandco]

Did you never hang out with people from different schools? Come teen years I began hanging out with people in neighboring towns because there were more Asians.

[@JsYrAvgBoy]

This is just a general statement, you don’t see an Asian, a Chinese middle aged woman using a Blaccent

[@jabarel594]

What that tell ya

[@ESKAIELOS]

I thought she said in class

[@Drownedinblood]

Caught that too right? If her towns got 1-2 Asians, the other town is the same, it's only when you get to small cities there's more Asian people, or asian people are like 1/3 population of the town already. She's trying to make excuses to why she dates white guys, but her mask slips now and again.

[@unfilteredvibes]

my wife is DONGBEI CHINESE and my class mate , we have two kids and we are still going ... BM love who they are attracted to

[@Reylas]

This podcast would be so much better if they did it when they were single. You can see them self censoring themselves. That’s why every episode, no matter the topic, goes right back to “Asian parents be like” or “my white in-laws”. Married women are boring, just as they should be.

[@jonathanbowling3129]

People talk about what they have experience with. Personally I don’t listen for drama, it’s nice hearing things other people have in common along with differences. 😊

[@cchangandco]

Conversations when a person is single will be different from when they have families and want to consider people besides themselves. :)

[@Ninjabdul]

Same reason married rappers are boring, you got nothing to talk about

[@demetriusevans4139]

Stop it y'all. BM like Asian women. BM who appreciate values and are seeking wives.

[@dekev7503]

Speak for yourself simp

[@kuunami]

It's a waste of time though because most asian women want white guys.

[@invisiblerevolution]

Bruh.... stop simpin!

[@sageex3931]

True

[@ninjapirate123]

do you know black guys are the least educated race groups in the US

[@timb.3164]

As a BM, I never found Asian women attractive until my junior year of high school due to the cultural differences and thin body types. They were cool as friends but not something I pursued romantically. I've always dated latina since my neighborhood in Houston was predominantly Hispanic. My wife is Korean and Mexican and we've been married 17 years. She has an old school mentality and not on BS. Just love who you love because I thought I would be with a totally different woman. Open your mind and heart.

[@cloudy_dayz5000]

As someone from Houston, I think who you “love” is culturally imposed on you. Houston blacks fetishized non-black woman. It is widely a Texas thing. Sorry to burst your bubble.

[@davidh7832]

Your mother in law is korean?

[@timb.3164]

@@davidh7832 Yes

[@davidh7832]

@@timb.3164 cool, and how’d you meet your wife?

[@timb.3164]

​@davidh7832 High School and reconnected after she finished her Bachelor's degree

[@HguujAswiik-gw6pj]

I feel sorry for the Asian man 😂😂

[@leontaecoleman3644]

Asian women love white men.

[@letzgow6110]

Asian women hate to admit they have internal racism but it’s present. They will say it’s a preference because they grew up in a community with lots of White people. And then you look at Asian countries, it’s the same exact thing Asian women will hoard after White men when the 99.9% are Asian men. Lots of internal racism

[@numberone7251]

They're doing well in Asia. Don't worry..

[@aoh4905]

I wouldn't. Personally I would always choose quality > quantity but I'm more traditional and less superficial/materialistic. Check marriage rates and I wouldn't feel sorry for asian men or black women who are willing to date OUT of their race.

[@victordike8467]

Same could be said in every race ​@@numberone7251

[@user-td4gu9pr6r]

I believe these women are sincere in their dating experiences; but I also feel they are hiding an obvious truth everyone knows-Asian women overwhelmingly prefer White men over POC. AND to answer Shining’s question, “WHY does it matter?!” It matters…because it’s racist.

[@aoh4905]

I wouldn't call it racists.. people like what other people like.. same thing for phones, cars and even pets. We're mostly superficial but you see less of that outside of English speaking countries. It's a preference and normal but stats show it's not as bad as it looks. WMAF is more in the cities and AMWF are more in suburbs.

[@Centurion305]

​​​@@aoh4905it's only racist when you put one race on a pedestal like these women do and in the same breath put down their fellow Asians. THAT'S where the race factor comes in no longer as a preference but as a self hate option

[@axeljohnson9405]

@@aoh4905 its not as simple as that , though most people likes "comes from some sort of programming" , if you ask koreans,japans, well 80% culture example of beauty is described by features that of a European male.

[@user-ts2pe3ms1k]

​@@axeljohnson9405maybe because Europeans are more beautiful than black men, and better culturally

[@axeljohnson9405]

hiding behind a fake page , trying to race bait.... opinion rejected.

[@openranks4519]

My wife is Japanese, but in general, yes us Black guys like thick/big booty Asian women…it just is what it is😂

[@mroblige1018]

They're usually fillipino. Any other asian aint got no ass or hips tho

[@dingleberry4234]

That’s rare at least naturally lmao the only ones with big booty I’ve seen are fake

[@divinesmasher]

​@@dingleberry4234filipinas and other mixed asians are more likely to ve thick from what uve seen

[@WESTERNBOUNDTV]

@@dingleberry4234 not as rare as you think. Go to LA or San Francisco / oakland

[@aoh4905]

@@dingleberry4234 asians usually get plastic surgery on face/teeth.. few fake tits but booty? That's a rare one... Honestly I would prefer small natural ones than fake circle looking tits that feels harder than normal.

[@SB-do1bu]

We need you guys to bring Asian guys that are married to white girls to y’all podcast and see their perspective on not dating Asian girls. That would be interesting

[@Jacobbaf464]

What up 🙂🙃?? I would love to chop it up with you and see if our minds are on the same wave &/or if I could be a benefit to your life/circle. Bark back at me, doggie. O

[@anthorana1]

I’m a French/cambodian/viet guy and married to a Mexican girl :)

[@user-no5vv4bb6e]

You're an example for all Asian men

[@anthorana1]

@@user-no5vv4bb6e 😂

[@HenRy-bm9ww]

For every one Asian guy like that, there are 100 more Asian girls the opposite way. Not a fair comparison to make since 80% of Asian men prefer their own while only 50% of Asian women do.

[@beetosan2910]

I'm Black and my Ex girlfriend was Korean and I flew to Korea to spend 7 weeks with her and her Mom. I faced some racist moments such as them having to hide me away when the pastor comes to visit or her dad, but I think this was more because I'm a Man than my race. People were also afraid of me walking around and they complained but the announcer on the speakers for every building had to tell everyone who I was and not to freak out when they see a big Black dude passing by. I decided to start talking to the people in Korean and now I became their favorite negro and the kids tried practicing English on me. I remember one kid though, he saw me and started running for his life and when I got into the building he was there hyperventalating waiting for the elevator, I just looked at him and walked up the stairs so I won't further frighten him. Thing about my Ex Gf, she talked with a more Black accent than me and people said I came off as a Korean more in my personality. So it was a weird dynamic like the both of us were more into each others culture.

[@RexZero91]

Ladies, if you are whitewash just say so. Instead of just making up any excuses, please.

[@BluEx22329]

An asian down south accent sounds amazing 😂

[@PichpoGUA]

You just made me realize that I've never approached an Asian woman in my entire life. I do think they're just as attractive as other races but for some reason I've never approached one.

[@ProdNapoleon]

To be fair I live in America not many Asian people unless you live in San Francisco or New York. They’re mostly in tech. not many black people work tech jobs.

[@ninjapirate123]

@@ProdNapoleon Or they work in hospitals

[@Butt-mk4wx]

I literally never had the chance to until college. There were like two Asian girls in our school growing up in a town of mostly white people. It wasn't until college for me that I started meeting more. I'm black btw

[@raskult]

I actually have never done this either, lol, you mourn be right

[@aoh4905]

@@ninjapirate123 Depends on which asians.

[@r2Facts]

I’m a premed student on the roads of becoming a doctor, as a Black Puerto Rican man, married to a Thai/Indian Malaysian born woman, who I adore and respect her values! Have me on your show. Let’s talk, because there’s so much dialogue that I feel that’s missing. All the best

[@user-ce4qi9od6v]

Don’t ever say gang gang again.

[@elvinrichard5882]

Don’t date the race, date the person. Most of us are mixed with something if you go back far enough.

[@pierregilson1211]

I knew she dated Black guys 😂 there's something calming about her that gravitates me.

[@johnsonjohan7]

We'll take a flat butt with traditional values...over anything...period

[@dekev7503]

Gay

[@johnsonjohan7]

@dekev7503 what is gay....my friend

[@user-ci2fd8vc2f]

false

[@johnsonjohan7]

@@user-ci2fd8vc2f what is false...my friend?

[@kevinbrathwaite1116]

The irony is that there are curvy Asian women especially in South East Asia lol

[@WildKnockout]

As Black Men I never in my life said “ Omg I need to date a ASIAN woman ..” This is getting weird now ..Speak on the fact that you don’t date Asian men and leave us out of it …😅😅

[@Billybadass1993]

Nah it’s a handful of passport brothers /vloggers out in Asian countries as we speak knocking Asian women down left and right they just don’t like there own men for some quite reason

[@kah0sgolden392]

Most of the time black men don't look after curve in asian women, its more about your face, culture, feminity and value (family oriented) 80% if that's not more of the black mens I know ( family, friends, etc...) love Asian women ( that doesnt mean they hate black women....) and the body is not the reason they would not date an asian women, don't worry yall obviously have more to add to the table then this 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@Stunzeed76]

Late 20s Asian Male here. I was definitely a late bloomer, as many Asian guys are and just my experience with Asian women honestly prior in my teens and early twenties really drove me to my positive views of white women. With my experiences I see Asian women as good for hooking up with and White Women being the best partners. We talk about Asian solidarity, but no Asian woman ever saw me as anything in college, compared to white women. Personally, I don’t really care when I see Asian women assaulted or whatever on the news because they never would have cared for me. So this whole white male Asian female dynamic bothers me very little in all honesty. We look like their brothers or their abusive fathers to these people anyway. Why solidarity with them when these people would never care about us? Why are you guys getting bent out of shape over them getting hurt, when they see little in us, but as their obligated advocates? When have they came to bat for us? They owe us nothing, but we owe them nothing as well. Every step of the way in my social and physical growth of adulthood white women whether romantically or platonically have just treated me more as a human than Asian women have. Also, I’m just saying the black dudes and black women will build your self confidence and esteem up like no other. Idk even personality wise I really think white women are a more genuine people then the materialistic shallow Asian women. I’ll say I grew up on the southeast coast from Alabama/Georgia. So I’ll admit my view can be somewhat skewed, but my unique life experiences nobody, but Asian women has truly seen me as a lesser person. If there was ever any person being disrespectful it was the Asian women in college, but the white women, black women, brown women, and Latinas were cool and genuine and always had my back. Truly guys, just dial your life in, get fit with some muscle, and get social out there. I’m 29 now and I definitely bloomed late, but I am blessed and happy with the awesome tall southern blonde woman from Georgia (US, to be clear) I’m with (lot of luck). I’ll paint with a broad brush as - Korean American guy, I really don’t care for Asian women and don’t care what happens to them. I feel no solidarity for them and I know they feel the same way.

[@theia1653]

Not even my cousins/nieces.

[@grownsimba8120]

Your comment is interesting about you feeling that you're valued less than by the woman in you're own race as an asian man. It's similar to how I've seen some black men talk about how they feel they are viewed by some black women based on how some black women talk about them or treat them. Got to say, I have seen a bit of that. Both in real life and replicated in media unfortunately.

[@Stunzeed76]

@@grownsimba8120 it is what it is. These have been my experiences and I acknowledge everyone’s is not the same. To that point and extent. Why should I feel for them when they wouldn’t for me? I don’t advocate or hope violence on anyone, but not gonna lie I advocate apathy for Asian women. I know they wouldn’t have problem because that’s what they’d do to us anyway. They don’t owe us anything and we don’t owe them anything. I see a white or Latina woman hurt, I feel bad. I see an Asian woman hurt, not my problem. You smile and say “excuse me” to white, black, brown, or Hispanic women. To Asian women you say “move.”

[@Bwilli1990]

I can get what you are saying because some Asian women quicker get with a black man than an Asian man which is shocking to me. I like Asian girls but I would not date one who looks down on her own men.

[@malikelliott8652]

​@@Bwilli1990 not black men. White man. We date black Latino and white mostly. Because of thats what the population consists of in the US. I don't know about abroad. But even then white men have been dating asian women sense ww1 times.

[@Si1verRaven]

I'm black American and I prefer Asian women but I only date abroad when I travel. There's a big difference from a Westernized and Eastern Asian

[@kingmaafa120]

Facts Wouldn’t touch one in the states

[@peterretep1010]

Beaide the looks, asian americans are literally americans.

[@randywalker7840]

Very weird thing to say.

[@patrickpierre9125]

​@@randywalker7840 not weird at all

[@jellyrolly]

You’re the type of guy who women with good looks, money, and standards have no interest in (passport bros).

[@homiefizzle5260]

As a black man, I'm very attracted to asian women. With or without the bodies that people think we're typically attracted to, but I only realised asian women were open to someone like me once I got on dating apps. I've found asian women to be more reserved in public, even if they're attracted to you, they often won't give the same strong signals other cultures might give so I've typically left them alone.

[@Tenno22]

As a black man I’ve never had trouble with Asian women, but date who yall want it’s not that serious

[@jbw8471]

Facts especially in Hawaii

[@hasssnbakare8645]

THESE SILLY WOMEN ARE MARRIED FOR YEARS AND THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT LITTLE BOYS THEY DATED IN HIGH SCHOOL .... WHAT KIND OF NONSENSE ...

[@danieljohnson4530]

It’s a podcast, you literally have control😂😂😂

[@kevinbrathwaite1116]

I've noticed with in recent years that Asian women have been a little more open to dating Black, Latino and Indian men not just White men.

[@Nick-ub8oi]

Alot more especially Black men,more so in East Asia and South east Asia.

[@openranks4519]

Usually Black after White…that’s universal

[@sageex3931]

​@@openranks4519True

[@aaronkolatch5211]

I was always under the impression that Indians are Asians though.

[@radiofreeurope]

@@Nick-ub8oinot true

[@phylicia595]

White women cannot tell chinese, korean, japanese, Taiwanese just like Asian women can't tell Scottish, Norway or Britain apart

[@williammatthews7252]

He'll neither do I

[@nigeltang8738]

They are in denial and have the audacity to call people haters without any deep introspection into themselves.

[@SoloDolo01]

youtube has created a platform for nobodies like these two

[@cedric7122]

These ladies are Real. As a successful African American man, I'll reconsider my dating choice.

[@loveislove8741]

As a Black man I can kinda relate to this. I never really looked at Asian women most of life. However at my local chinese takeaway this Asian woman kinda has a thing for me, she ALWAYS gets happy when I walk in and she always gives me extra food...She even knows my voice and starts getting happy when I call up to order lol. I don't know how to take Asian woman because they never say anything. It's easier to just not her involved...Women of other races will let you know

[@blacksea6608]

How would they let you know ?

[@warnpeace1992]

Maybe she just likes your business

[@brianc21324]

It really comes down to compatibility and attraction. I'm Mexican American from California and been living in Japan for a few years now. My Japanese wife and I have been together already for 4 years. Being able to enjoy each day together is the most important thing when looking for a partner otherwise you'll still feel unfulfilled like any other relationship around the world.

[@ChristelFounga]

The interesting thing about these asian women thinking we're not interested in them is the same exact thing many black men think about asian women not being interested in us so we date women who show us in one way or another that they'be interested in dating a black man . Being a black man from a city where there's every possible combination of interracial relationships you could ever imagine, the least common one i see is black men and asian women with the most common being asian women and white guys. Seeing this, i just assume asian women aren't into us so i never really paid attention to them that much despite seeing some cute/attractive ones over the years.

[@MauriceNovembre]

Yoooooooo I’m here for asian inter cultural drama…😭😭😂🤣😭😭🤣😂😂🤣🤣🍿👀

[@NotYourAsianWomen]

Lol. Sadly it exists.

[@MauriceNovembre]

@@NotYourAsianWomen 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣…We are human and drama is in every culture…the favor is not different.

[@donovan5656]

That Atlanta southern accent can pick up some Black dudes fr.

[@lamont768]

You were spot on about Southeast Asia Indian men. Some of my Indian male co-workers (who were computer programmers) in the late 90's told me that Baywatch was the most popular television show in India. They often admitted that most Indian men fantasized/thirsted on White American women running down the beach in a bikini to rescue them.

[@WESTERNBOUNDTV]

LMAO

[@demetriusevans4139]

The accent of the one in the green is interesting. I like it

[@kramer1372]

..ha..yeah, at first, i just thought she was playin around

[@Billybadass1993]

Facts she’s an exotic looking / sounding thing

[@gretchengrooms2071]

Omg, you’re cracking me up! I have dated lots of different races and you’re right, you have to have the same values. lol. 😂

[@PunchUBackPunchUBack]

What she said that she admires about her dad at ~34:00 contradicts about how she feels about romantic assessments in a potential~partner…albeit very subtle,… but it’s evident to a keen eye…no biggie tho…. But the nuances/innuendos are there…… 🤔

[@happyplaces773]

Seeing this show is funny, because recently i saw a video an Asian guy posted talking about how Asian women won't date Asian men after dating western men (white men). This phenomenon of only dating outside your culture, let's say culture instead of race, amongst both sexes of all cultures. I have seen it and i have experienced it firsthand. There are pros and cons to this, and the greatest con is someone hating themselves because of the negative stereotypes of their culture and believe dating someone who they perceive to be from a better culture than they're from will make them appear better. That is very sad and that is what I see in these two women. GOOD LUCK AND GOOD MENTAL HEALTH.

[@810Batman]

There are different African decent, similar to the different Asians!!!

[@cambodianpleasuresquad1753]

that's not asian culture that is chinese culture. chinese culture even sounds super uptight to me, a cambodian. our culture is way more laid back.

[@kem1233]

alot of cambodian women are dating out in record numbers to white and black men

[@cambodianpleasuresquad1753]

@@kem1233 not in cambodia. just look at r/ the passportbros to confirm

[@cambodianpleasuresquad1753]

@@kem1233 its the same with cambodian males too. i see heaps with latinas, white and black women but this is in the states. in cambodia they don't really marry out and stick to their own

[@Dashomin]

I’m korean trust me it’s not just chinese culture

[@cambodianpleasuresquad1753]

@@Dashomin i stand corrected then. maybe its more sinosphere cultures. it is incorrect to label it as asian culture as asians are very diverse

[@intello8953]

I mean if you grew up in the West then dating and marrying white men I get it but if you are literal immigrant fresh from Asia or came to study from Asia and still *only* date white men then that’s super cringe

[@SonicCloud7]

Do these women know that Asian women have an incredibly attractive face.

[@ninjapirate123]

These Asian women are not as attractive than the average Asian women

[@blacksea6608]

Why ? I think Americans think our eyes too small

[@SonicCloud7]

@@blacksea6608 you can still be attractive with small eyes

[@ninjapirate123]

@@SonicCloud7 So many asian american girls I have seen have smaller eyes than the asian girls Ive seen from Asia

[@SonicCloud7]

@@ninjapirate123 Both Asian American and Asian girls are beautiful

[@iBryanDBrown]

Black man here...I love Asian women. Pancakes are fine. Lol loving this show!

[@mav3ric100]

As a black men who likes Asian women, the only reason I never go for them is they never show interest( I feel like I'm not their type) . They may be friendly but I never get a sense wether they are into me or not, more so that they just want to be platonic, until hearing later from friends that so and so Asian girl actually liked me.😢

[@TylerJ__]

That just proves most Blk Men like you have been brainwashed into not having self confidence 😂

[@ericterry6042]

I am black and I would say I am not attracted to Asian women. The reason is because I never thought they liked black men

[@aoh4905]

Every race has some that do and some that don't. You gotta find one that does!

[@TylerJ__]

Bruh you clearly been brainwashed by Blk Women 😂😂😂

[@warnpeace1992]

​@@aoh4905 In general Asian women are taught to chase financial security which = White men to them.

[@vividratsculpordwarf]

Gotta say that the black man experience is really specific. Cause I grew up in a household where my dad took care of everyone. (Including extended gamily) and I took up from him. Paid for dates, bills, vacations. And I’ll never stop trying to make life easy for girls I talk to

[@hungrytim]

2 mins in already saying your white husband is not your Dream Man is hilarious 😂

[@FrankMcHale]

I'm a black male and a Millenial. I'm in good shape and I have a college education. I work full time and have no kids or criminal record. There, now that I've busted the stereotypes time to get down to business haha. A lot of people (including myself) were raised learning negative stereotypes about other races. Unfortunately, the generations before us were more homogenous and racist. But as people began to study, live, and work with different races, things changed. I grew up in a wealthy black household. I heard racist things about every racial group at the dinner table. It was hypocritical and I had to unlearn a lot. My parents were not good Christians. I had classmates of different races in the suburb I grew up in. And I had some good and bad experiences with all races, including my own. I was also raised being told I should only marry or date black women. But I was different from a young age. My first crush was a Black girl. In third grade I had a crush on a White classmate. In fifth grade I had a crush on the really cute Chinese girl in my class. But I was so indoctrinated by my family so I mostly gravitated towards black girls until high school. I went to a private high school and started to crush on White girls. In high school I dated a girl that was half Asian and half White. I dated White girls too. I didn't like other races because they were a certain race or because I had self hatred. I was a typical boy that liked girls that were pretty and nice. There are pretty women of all races. Asian women are really pretty to me. I check them out every time I see them lol. I have to admit Sir Mix a Lot was right. If I like her "she gotta pack much back" lol. I don't like women that are too thin. I would never date a woman with a pancake. I wouldn't date a woman that was overweight either. I do like curvy women that are in good shape. A perfect example is Lee Sang Wha. She's a former Olympic Speed Skater from South Korea. Her body type is what I like. She's lean and curvy. I don't always need big hips, but I do like even small curves in the right places lol. I see attractive Asian women all the time. But, when I see an Asian woman with a guy he is usually White. I read research on that, and scientists did a study. I can't remember the source or article. But Scientists say White men are attracted to the facial features of Asian women and vice versa. That same study also said Black men like the facial features of White women and vice versa. So based on Science, some people subconsciously like certain races/facial structures. That doesn't mean this is always the rule. But it's what Scientists have come up with so far. Most people don't know about this type of study. So they assume Asian women think White men are superior to other races. To be honest I thought that before stumbling upon that research a few years ago. It would frustrate me because I'd wonder if Asian women only dated White men. But after doing some KZbin searches, there are Asian women with men of different races. I definitely would date and marry an Asian woman. And I know there are Asian women who would see me as more than a fun time to try. I appreciate you two having this conversation. Communication brings people together, that's how we all learn. I'm not a Christian anymore, but wishing you two blessings! P.s. Shining you met the wrong black men back in the day. I've paid for more dates than I can count lol. I'm more modern so I like to split the bill on the first date #equality. Then we take turns paying for whole dates after that. It's not because I'm cheap. I have a more modern view of dating and relationships. I split the bill on the first date because I may never want to see her again if I'm not interested. Anytime I've paid for a first date it never turned into a long term relationship. Women who are okay splitting the bill on the first date with me has lead to relationships.

[@dingleberry4234]

They love their colonizers it’s too funny😂😂

[@kingrushy4533]

Never found Asian women attractive till this one Japanese girl in high school told me she liked me. Still can’t forget about her to this day. After that I only look for Japanese women.

[@JamesNguyen-fe6it]

As a guy. I really enjoy listening to you guys. So entertaining and to hear your different perspectives on men. Good job ladies!!!!!

[@NotYourAsianWomen]

Thanks James!

[@FrederikEngelmand]

its so strange if they said they only dated black men, they never would have to defend it or make this whole podcast to smooth things over, but as soon as they prefer white men. OOF then it becomes a racial issue and they have to say that ofc ofc they like all races equally. what total BS

[@phiromthach550]

I had a spiritual awakening after I told off my narcissistic friend of over 10 years and decided to cut off my energy. I feel free, light and love every moment of it. My friend played the victim, hasn't had a stable job for the past 2 to 3 years even after I gave him all the tools to look for work and get IT certifications. He does the same thing, plays video games all day and obsesses over eating out and has been overweight for so many years. I will continue to focus on my successful and reflect on my own growth.

[@enspiretheworld45]

Her accent is one of a kind 😂👍

[@iverson25allen]

On one hand, it’s their lived experience that are dictating their perspectives, as young Asian-American women, I will say in Toronto, Canada- the playing field is entirely different. Different because anyone who isn’t white is more than likely from another culture entirely living in the city as first generation from wherever. Its not uncommon for interracial couples here to connect, date, marry and work entirely- even from a young age. There are many complexes at work on this topic as I see it from my Torontonian perspective outside looking in. Just discovered y’all and I think this pod is a goldmine, keep grinding y’all, good work.

[@mayowa60]

its so interesting hearing a chinese woman sound African American. Very Interesting

[@Des_Armoni]

Doesn’t sound black at all. Sounds like an asian using African American slang. Thats it. Ebonics etc

[@mojjim2177]

She doesn’t sound African American

[@bobbyfox3013]

This is one of many podcasts that got my attention due to 2 Asian women speaking on real topic that people of other ethnic backgrounds are afraid to touch. I love it that you 2 ladies keeps it 💯, keep grinding!!👍🏽

[@fastingman4726]

I love Asian women. I'd love to approach them, but I don't know how to get their attention. They (not all but most) seem so busy or introverted and I feel like I'm bothering them and the energy is off. Thanks for the info. I'd love to listen to more of these discussions so I can land an Asian woman!

[@WESTERNBOUNDTV]

bro you need to travel more this is an idiotic generalization. Go to NYC, LA, San Fran/ Oakland, Seattle, Northern New Jersey, Maryland, asian ppl arent a monolith ..this is coming from someone with a korean fiance

[@fastingman4726]

@@WESTERNBOUNDTV well I grew up in Southern California and went to school at ASU so I have quite a bit of experience living and working around Asian women. But I will take your advice and rethink my assumptions about Asian women.

[@blacksea6608]

Yes I am Always wearing my earphones lol

[@terrencesaxon1859]

i like shining she funny 😂, wasnt surprised when she said she grew up in Atlanta, im liking the way she talk

[@gerqoinebrown6196]

Leave black men out the BS

[@devilslayer3548]

You didn’t have to watch

[@gerqoinebrown6196]

I said what I said, tired of the BS

[@ckiddy_]

Talking about black men gives them views

[@aaronmiles3306]

Although I've seen very attractive Asian women, as a black man, I've never been physically attracted to Asian women, nor have i ever dated one. The body type just doesn't fit my liking in women, and as men, we are into visuals. I have to admit, i love the Atlanta accent that lady in green has. She has that attitude that could pique my interest.

[@anatoliagolden-hall4553]

Women are also into visuals.

[@RichardMcCleary-sj4vk]

What black men were you talking to ??? All my friends are educated professional who date all type of woman from many different cultures and treat these women with respect. Probably you just wanted to dated men who do not have respect for women???

[@wallacegarrett668]

I frist fell in love with Asian females from an early age, like since I was 7 yrs old. In my neighborhood there was a Chinese laundry. In the owner and his family lived in the back of the laundry. I use to pass by everyday on my way to school. As I looked into the laundry one day, l observed his cute daughter playing. She was around my age; we were both kids. I started to wave at her as I went by. She would smile and wave back. Then it became a regular thing, to wave as I went pass. She always waved back. As time progressed, I started to notice she started to check to see who in her family was watching before she would smile and wave back. I told myself, "maybe I am geting her into trouble because she's waving back at me, and her family don't like her waving back to me because I am Black". Growing up Black you are always aware of those things. So I stopped waving at her or I'd walk on the other side of the street as I went pass the laundry. I thought she was beautiful, especially her eyes. In fact my ex wife who was a Flipina, she said she was attracted to me because I had Asian looking eyes. My mom had some Native American blood; Cherokee, and the kids in my neighborhood use to call me "Cat Eyes". It never bothered me because it made me feel unique. I loved bring different. I didn't like them calling me half-breed. I thought many of them, that lived in my area, were assholes anyway! I still date Asian women. I do believe that they are some of the sexiest and the most beautiful women in the world, that know how to treat a man well. 👍❤👌🙏🏻🫠

[@johnsonjohan7]

Bring back shame

[@user-wh9sn]

I agree, as a woman I’ve come to terms that society is too far gone. These women think so much about crap because nobody retires from dating and stay in steady marriage. 10yrs from now we will have a generation of people from single mother households.

[@grownsimba8120]

"10yrs from now we will have a generation of people from single mother households" Might not even have wait that long unfortunately. ​@@user-wh9sn

[@mephiston1216]

Stumbled here through the feed rabbit hole. That coffee add was hilarious lol.

[@NotYourAsianWomen]

Thank you. We try. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@jpsartre2685]

I don't think they're totally forthcoming about looks but women generally are more forgiving in that area. "You could be a third-degree burn victim . . ." hahahahha!

[@cchangandco]

I personally do gravitate toward handsome (that means balanced features for me), and also healthy (good hygiene and taking care of oneself on all fronts, including physically). They didn't have to have great style, but I definitely did not want them to have style I was disgusted by. Lol. My husband shops for himself and I like his outfits 98% of the time. :)

[@darrianjackson1703]

thanks for including us in the conversation.❤

[@lotusjumpingspider8761]

i know youre trying to be self deprecating but its a little racist to say a whole race of people like a certain body type

[@sogladiaintnobdyelse]

Im black married to a filipina with a pancake in the back but a heart made of gold 😂

[@sinista6704]

Lmao. That’s hilarious because I look at Filipinas and be like “😍She’s phenomenally beautiful!” And moments later “😔Her ass is nowhere to be found”. 😂

[@williammatthews7252]

What city do you live in, Asians here in Michigan theres several

[@mosely25]

Love this! This pop up on my timeline. Wasn't expecting all this. More than what the title gave off.

[@shurikamumphrey7296]

Sis in the green is VALID!!!

[@Squall1800]

I was sent here randomly by KZbin! LMAO funniest, realest content ever! Keep it going!

[@NotYourAsianWomen]

Thanks for being here! :)

[@djntu2964]

I’m a Black man that LOVE pancakes 🥞! Gimme them flapjacks! 😊

[@TheTinminator]

Dude you have all the flat pan cakes you can have!

[@dreeco1762]

It varies in New York/New Jersey Black men typically date Asian women, as for the Bay Area, CA. They date Asian women. Outside of those two places you rarely see many Asian women with Black men

[@Beez_7272]

Listen you two .I love your input. You gals are funny and real don't change.I was dead when u said that about the burn victim. Lmao I'm subbed.

[@honeydew1754]

As a black woman I love interracial dating. Once I tried white I never went back too 😂. And I’ll never go back it’s hard to once you’ve had too tier. I’ve always thought Asian men were best for marriage and white men are just good all around.

[@vivahernando1]

🫤

[@Billybadass1993]

As a black man I feel the same way just vice Versa without blk women tho ☺️

[@nativesontraveler5487]

Love me an Asian woman . 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭ghana

[@Frainkey]

The guy with the dog and saying, “I didn’t see you there.” He wasn’t blaming. He just didn’t think past him literally not seeing you there. The implication is that had he saw you, maybe he would’ve gone a different way, held on to his dog a little longer, waited for you to leave to come out with his dog, etc. While I agree that he had no intention of being accountable for his dog, I doubt if he was blaming anyone. He just didn’t think that far into it.

[@SonicCloud7]

I love Asian women, and honestly I've always considered them my undisputed woman of my dreams❤. I'll never change. I'm black, and Asian women are always my 1st choice!

[@alldayeveryJA]

Yo ! Shinys Chilanta accent is amazing ❤

[@binoyandpinay777]

Aye! Aye! Ugh! We are forever brought into the conversation. Case in point. There are quite a few Black men & Women that are attracted to various Asian diaspora, regardless of your body type. And ladies you are not a collection of body parts. Our FB Groups 'Asian Black couples Only, Black Asian families with children, Black Asians unite, Blasian children, AfrokingsAsianempresses etc are full of such couples/families. The reason people don't think we exist much is that they are not exposed to us much. We like to be under the radar.

[@ShangoZulu]

Cool 😎 keep it under radar

[@aoh4905]

Honestly most interracial couples other than WMAF are under the radar since we live outside of the cities more. Not sure why but it's like that here in my city. I am seeing a few Black male/ white women more in the city tho but the suburbs i see a lot more asian men / white women or latino/xf more.

[@KingMadeMusicClayBlack]

They appear to be pretty cool on this podcast. I’m Black and my wife is from Japan. We’ve been married for just about 15 years now.

[@bababananda]

self hate is strong

[@kenanisrael9323]

Agreed

[@TheMudsnake]

facts, they worship their colonizers lol

[@millasboo]

Why you assuming?

[@tomocchii]

I know it’s so mind numbing

[@ChiraqMaybach-ii9wm]

Blah blah blah, same old shaming talking points that don't work anymore, nobody has self-hate because they're dating preferences don't align with what you want them to

[@genereece7679]

Just say you prefer wealthy. My wife comes from nothing and I the opposite. Couldn’t work better. It’s all about enjoying one another. What you’re talking about aren’t values it’s preference.

[@jonathanbowling3129]

I heard it differently than you did. I thought they were saying it’s what you value (yes preference), as in what are you looking for in a broad sense. Just a difference in verbiage.

[@cchangandco]

It's not only wealth, but their relationship to money. Is money important to them? Why is it important to them? What are his goals? I have dated men who were wealthy but spent their money on things I did not value.

[@Jacobbaf464]

What up 🙂🙃?? I would love to chop it up with you and see if our minds are on the same wave &/or if I could be a benefit to your life/circle. Bark back at me, doggie. O

[@phylicia595]

No, the main reason is that white men just look better than Asian men

[@phylicia595]

​@@cchangandcowhite men are just better looking than Asian men

[@Drejakplays]

I don’t often see women who are this down to earth. Happy as hell to see it and not seeming like npc’s.

[@philippelindsey5042]

I enjoyed your commentary I think it was insightful regarding your experiences with Black and White men. As a Black man with an Asian wife, I do think you represented your experiences with sincerity, which is helpful for people not exposed to the topic to get a little window into the experience. I think you also referenced indirectly the influences of your parents on your dating and outlooks in the social market place of American Dating. I have to say I was little saddened by the experiences with the Black men but, I also can see how that would happen and somewhat why. Some men in general are opportunists, sounds like the ones you met were unfortunately that... I will say some of these experiences were not representative of Black men in general, especially of certain class levels, but I do know they exist. Also, I do think in some instances White culture depending on the ethnicity is more adaptable to Asian cultures than something Black African whether it is from the Americas or from the African Continent. Basically, like all things the sample size was small, specific, and maybe not large enough to make generalities, but that off course is the name of the game in this type of format. So, thank you for your transparency, and I wish you and your channel continued success.

[@jirawatliw180]

I am 43 years old guy from Thailand and when I was young ,I get hit by Black women all the time

[@wallacegarrett668]

I am a black man and my ex wife was a flipina. She was 5'7", 105lbs. 32A - 22- 34 and I loved her with all my heart and I loved her body. My ex girlfriend was chinese. She was 5'2", 115lbs, 32B - 26 - 35. I loved her body type also.

[@oaklandsoldier8520]

Why are they exes now bro?

[@Altair-El-Haddad]

Nahhh g big man ting got all the measurements up 😂😂

[@ckiddy_]

​@@Altair-El-Haddad😂😂😂😂

[@WESTERNBOUNDTV]

Blood leaked the measurements lmao

[@Billybadass1993]

😂😂😂

[@noco7243]

I couldn't imagine NOT paying for a date. I can see splitting the bill but making someone YOU ASKED OUT pay is some bum shit.

[@r2Facts]

If I ASK you out, I PAY! That’s the rule ! Whoever ask pays. Period.