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@rubybrown16762 жыл бұрын
As a person with a psych degree, I've never heard "narcissist" in class as much as I've heard it in these damn tik tok videos😂
@Jess-ew3tm2 жыл бұрын
Because people are waking up to narc abuse. I’m a narc abuse survivor myself and am still healing from a severe anxiety disorder all thanks to an emotionally abusive and jealous mother
@jdani96252 жыл бұрын
Same. Narcissists exist but a person being just “trash” doesn’t automatically equal narcissism
@Jess-ew3tm2 жыл бұрын
@@alexanderthegreat5649 yea you’re right people have a tendency to take a word and run with it
@imaniluvsu12 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY! They've been throwing that word around acting as if they know what it means. It irritates me.
@jbark678 Жыл бұрын
True narcissists are extremely rare. I can't imagine how unlucky you'd have to be to date 2 in a row. 🤣
@BrysonRyenn2 жыл бұрын
Black women don't even use the word "simp" I'm dead lmaooo
@AANGSBALDHEAD2 жыл бұрын
Facts and in general I have never heard any women say "simp"
@kilisloe34742 жыл бұрын
I think he's talking about people in general, plus no one speaks for all black women/men.
@BrysonRyenn2 жыл бұрын
@@kilisloe3474 The video is specifically about Black women so no it's not "people" in general.
@kilisloe34742 жыл бұрын
@@BrysonRyenn Yes people in general. Edit: he's using the term simp to describe what type of person people think he is. In this case women. Simp is mostly used by men(mostly not all) and women. He most likely been called one or something similar. Saying black women don't use the term is wrong. It may not be widely used but it's still used by black women.
@winglessfairy564 Жыл бұрын
He was spitting bs anyways
@jaelove.bts72 жыл бұрын
I agreed the most with how black women treat each other. Sometimes other black women have taken one look at me and turned the other way or blatantly judged me even though we shouldn't have any problems. I try to say hi or introduce myself, sometimes it's received positively, other times not so much. We're both black women, why the bad energy?
@Jess-ew3tm2 жыл бұрын
I agree but I feel like this is just women in general as well
@S6Ryujin2 жыл бұрын
@@nickcrim6735 people always got something to prove. And usually it’s “I’m tough, nobody can fuck with me, i dont need no one but myself”
@S6Ryujin2 жыл бұрын
@@Forcasify you sound interested
@seeksolace20592 жыл бұрын
@@Forcasify you've gotta have issues with your sexuality 🤣🤣 what did he say that sounded gay
@sandrila93712 жыл бұрын
@@Forcasify You sound insecure 😂 what does that have anything to do with being "homosexual" 😮💨
@KellyAnimeW2 жыл бұрын
I can't believe sis came for black women wearing glasses with our nice clothes. Like bitch... im blind? and a lot of people dont like inserting contacts into their eyes. I- lol
@nikki63402 жыл бұрын
lmao right sis I can't see tf
@onka38952 жыл бұрын
She got problems 🙄 or she's a troll.
@MyLalaSenpai2 жыл бұрын
Right that really made absolutely no fucking sense .
@wokefromhome73892 жыл бұрын
Glasses are a symbol of being smart or nerdy in every other context
@teriraguette90952 жыл бұрын
What they all said we're true but like you said not everyone went through this. I am born in the Caribbean but moved to Canada. Raised by my father, had a fun childhood and my father made sure I had all that I needed got the love of a man that many women never got from their father's. I consider myself blessed because he made sure I knew my worth. Made my own mistakes but even now as an adult he never ridiculed me for any of my mistakes and just reminded me how great I am. We need more men/black men like this. Oh yes I know my mother and have a great relationship with her but she got sent back to my country when I was 15.
@LordPopo1232 жыл бұрын
They're out there jus for someone to find them.
@kirtytheGOAT2 жыл бұрын
Which country were you from originally?
@Jess-ew3tm2 жыл бұрын
Well this is more so for BLACK Americans tbh
@AgroFro2 жыл бұрын
@@kirtytheGOAT Narnia
@RediRoc2 жыл бұрын
The only conversation black people need to have is why do certain black people get on social media and complain about other black people all day long.
@Jess-ew3tm2 жыл бұрын
Because the race is in shambles and it needs to be addressed or we’re gonna be f*caked up forever
@S6Ryujin2 жыл бұрын
Fr, and those people be the living examples of the people they claim to be trying to hold accountable, like derrick jaxn for example, prostrating for social media likes and online attention while not believing or living none of the shit they advocate online for.
@jbark678 Жыл бұрын
TRUUUUUE
@NOBLEPAIGEPATRICK2 жыл бұрын
Shout out to all the black queens 👸🏾
@mekhi_morris2 жыл бұрын
Word (coming from a black male teenager)
@mayanking3392 жыл бұрын
A queen is a servant to the king
@GossipGyal12 жыл бұрын
@@mayanking339 ok..
@GossipGyal12 жыл бұрын
@@mayanking339 well that's not always the case
@ifyouknowyouknow72922 жыл бұрын
@@mayanking339 find a different kingdom then
@maaaggs2 жыл бұрын
6:33 glasses have never been that serious😂
@amanfinally202 жыл бұрын
Woman-“Quit putting on all that eye makeup and eye lashes” Dee-“Girl mind yo business!!!” 😂😂😂
@ufound_twy51112 жыл бұрын
Her complaint was really someone wearing glasses while dressed up? Smfh she wanna say something so bad while having nothing to say. Rushing into discussions she wasnt ready for. 🤦♀️🤦♀️
@DreadedCreation2 жыл бұрын
Another one is, specifically to black mommas, they need to stop being jealous or toxic towards their own fucking daughter SPECIFICALLY the daughter because it happens way too damn much
@Jess-ew3tm2 жыл бұрын
This happens quite often within Asian mothers as well tbh. Narc parenting is a universal issue but it’s hella prevalent within the black (single mother) household for sure
@DreadedCreation2 жыл бұрын
@@Jess-ew3tm yeah
@DreadedCreation2 жыл бұрын
@@MauvaisetBourgeoise i agree with that For most mothers
@Jess-ew3tm2 жыл бұрын
As a BLACK WOMEN myself, these ladies were SPITTIN FAX!!! damn… I’m glad that we can be honest with ourselves and admit that black women need to hold ourselves accountable as well, unlike the black men who are all under the other “black men aren’t ready to have this conversation” video. Black women let’s continue to educate, heal and grow!
@seekinghimdaily922 жыл бұрын
*woman**
@udb19872 жыл бұрын
And this is the difference between bw and bm.
@S6Ryujin2 жыл бұрын
😂
@nw80582 жыл бұрын
@@udb1987 shit Ik I whole host of things bm think bw aren’t ready for, i don’t think y’all in the clear just yet. A lot of brainwashing needs to be cleansed on both sides imo.
@DaygoKid942 жыл бұрын
I think women don't know how to be friends is what the actual problem is lol
@natenate33532 жыл бұрын
8:06 💀 the blinking took me out
@Siouxnami2 жыл бұрын
She got a rollercoaster face
@JReece30002 жыл бұрын
0:37 that “OOP.” and that cackle 😂😂😂😂
@LLTB_Ramzey2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you said something about them eyebrows cause I was gonna keep it to myself also 😂 I made the same face.
@Siouxnami2 жыл бұрын
She got a rollercoaster face
@imaniluvsu12 жыл бұрын
They were VERY distracting.
@parkerisles72562 жыл бұрын
The man in the glasses can't be a simp or a feminist solely because he went on to spiel that men are supposed leaders, providers, etc. Like, if that dynamic is what some women want, fine. But none of those traits have anything to do with feminism or being respectful to women. Not committing domestic violence (emotional, physical, or monetary) against a partner shouldn't be seen as some higher achievement, it's the bare minimum for a healthy relationship no matter your gender.
@TraciDargan2 жыл бұрын
I think the only thing that resonates with me in this video is how us black woman treat other black woman. I think that’s the only thing (at least talked about in the vid) that I’ve seen in black woman from all financial and social standards
@TheDjmoney992 жыл бұрын
1:42 the male pick me/nice guy made me cringe too much
@TheDjmoney992 жыл бұрын
My young brotha if you want women to know you treat them with respect you gotta start by making an active effort not to refer to them as females
@theonlyonewithgum14522 жыл бұрын
@@TheDjmoney99 I think I will start playing dumb when people say "females." "We talking female pigs, spiders? Female what?"
@TheDjmoney992 жыл бұрын
@@dewdew4047 yeah but at a certain point we gotta realize the condescending history behind men referring to women, especially black women as females as a replacement for bitches. If women say they find it disrespectful to be referred to as females I don’t see why it’s so hard to just stop doing it.
@theonlyonewithgum14522 жыл бұрын
@@dewdew4047 Yeaaaaaah....but that's not my point. My point is it's a vague noun. Female could be any species. And it's vaguely dehumanizing to say female instead of "woman" imo.
@theonlyonewithgum14522 жыл бұрын
@@TheDjmoney99 You're right, but dew dew made no sense from the jump. My point was never that "female is an adjective, so you cannot use it as a noun." My point was female means any species. And a lot of its use--especially before it was adopted in place of "bitches"--was used to describe animals.
@taylor_rain__2 жыл бұрын
Black women really can’t get a break… Not to mention, Black MEN & WOMEN as a WHOLE have A LOT Of work to do! 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
@safslut012 жыл бұрын
The second guy is giving black republican incel tease from his looks to his message
@apparentlylivin2 жыл бұрын
Yeah. I felt that
@rashanereid38092 жыл бұрын
Dee was ready to fight about that eyelash comment. Felt attacked 😂
@S6Ryujin2 жыл бұрын
I don’t think any group that can only find benefits to the behavior of another group would ever have any complaints about it, what negatives do women have with simp behavior to even address it? What negatives do men have with “pick me” behavior to even address it? Women can always spot a pick me, but never a simp, men can always spot a simp, but never a pick me, I wonder why that is? it’s very interesting in my opinion.
@littlegothgirl88692 жыл бұрын
Lol thats not true.
@parkerisles72562 жыл бұрын
As a woman, it might be harder to discover simp behavior because it's less visibly negative against men. Pick me women are overtly derogatory against other women, very easy to spot the misogyny. I personally can't even equate the terms because sometimes men are called simps just for agreeing that violence against women, specifically black women, needs to stop.
@naturalscratcher94982 жыл бұрын
3:44 She is speaking facts!so I try to change it !when I see other black women Around like at the store or At the gym I smile say hello or whatever just to let them know there’s no threat. I don’t feel the way you think I feel. sometimes you can tell even through a mask that someone is giving bad energy!! Once they see me smile it changes there attitude. I wish it wasn’t like that you don’t always have to be offensive not everyone is Looking at you in a negative way! We need to stop all the stank looks!! And start embracing each other. who’s gonna lift us up if we don’t!!!!!🥰🥰💜💜💜💜💜
@borealisterreed89252 жыл бұрын
8:05, The way her face changed had me flabbergasted!!🤣🤣was not expecting that.
@jaylon99812 жыл бұрын
I’m scared for this one 😂😂😂
@jaylon99812 жыл бұрын
@@HarpsiFizz 😂😂😂oh ok we got this 😂😂
@jaylon99812 жыл бұрын
@@dewdew4047 we just joking
@MsBrwnBunni2 жыл бұрын
9:18 😭😭😭 I swear you read my mind! Her Disney villain brows spoke louder than her.
@bdhu20012 жыл бұрын
When she talked about from gay men, she’s talking about the manosphere that pretends to tell black women what they need for high value men. There’s a rumor that Kevin Samuels is gay.
@Menyceprod2 жыл бұрын
This one was ass. Nobody talking about deep rooted problems they throwing jabs lol
@kokolenny32212 жыл бұрын
Exactly, some people had some real things to say but they always followed with something rude after
@yams.43082 жыл бұрын
What are the issues?
@S6Ryujin2 жыл бұрын
@@yams.4308 none, it’s all black men’s fault, all emotional, situational, and spiritual problems found in the lives of black women, are not through any fault of their own, but through the fault of black men, apparently.
@tayevon54892 жыл бұрын
@@BlackGirlLovesAnime6 the only reason we have a lack of leadership is because blk women aren't willing to follow a man.
@imaniluvsu12 жыл бұрын
Alot of the things that we do as a community can be linked to slavery. People will say that slavery is over (years fact that it actually isn't is a topic for another time) but the mindset that comes along with that is NOT. That's why it IS important to heal because all of these are generational and its difficult to break when you don't ACKNOWLEDGE where it comes from. Some people are able to acknowledge and accept that and do better but not enough of us ARE. Before we were colonized we took care if each other as a community. Everyone played their part and we weren't divided the way we have been since colonization took over. Women have been the nurturers and in order to work have depended on their kids to help with the younger kids. My siblings took care of me while my mom was at work. I took care of my sister and one of my brother's kids since age 10. It didn't stop me from being a kid though because I'd take them places with me. When it was time for me to go hang out with my friends I did that. But alot of kids have missed out because their mothers had them taking care of their younger siblings. It still happens and it's not fair to those kids.
@courtneythecapricorn36342 жыл бұрын
Sigh, let me get my meditation music ready for after this.
@curtisnolin51952 жыл бұрын
What is annoying to me is that men in general tends to think that they are not included in feminism. Feminism is literally equality and equity for THE SEXES. It is there for you too boo🤦🏿♂️ it is perfectly fine to be a feminist.
@yltnaillirb44382 жыл бұрын
I would just like to add that you can also believe in and be for equity between the sexes without identifying as a feminist. Some people just don’t like that label or the behavior of a lot of the people who identify as feminists and therefore don’t want to be associated with it.
@vulpixel_labs2 жыл бұрын
incorrect. Feminism is the advocacy of women's rights, not EVERYONE's rights. egalitarianism is the advocacy for EVERYONE's equality...also, yltnaillirB is right...even if someone does advocate for women's rights, they will not likely want to be identified as a feminist due to the stigma that comes with it.
@curtisnolin51952 жыл бұрын
@@vulpixel_labs I'm talking about the sexes here, not outside of it. Egalitarianism is broad and it is not the same as feminism. Therefore, I meant what I said. And when it comes to stigma, it is on you to differ yourself from that side of the spectrum. There is a negative side to everything. If the wrong side of it turns you off, don't assume, use your brain and hold respect. Keep it pushing.
@littlegothgirl88692 жыл бұрын
@@yltnaillirb4438 you cant really use rad-fems to get an understanding of actual feminism though. When people come with your exact opinion it gives me the idea that they don't really know what feminism means.
@Covingtonao2 жыл бұрын
Fck femanisn
@k.tessmacher98922 жыл бұрын
For the guy talking about simps… do he want a award for not being a shitty human being?
@Jess-ew3tm2 жыл бұрын
Thats not what he was saying though
@austinskulls2 жыл бұрын
A lot of these are about how black women treat other black women, which should definitely be talked about, but they don’t talk enough about how black women treat black men. Like in the “ conversations black men aren’t ready to have” video
@IronBronx2 жыл бұрын
You should already know the reason why.........
@Jess-ew3tm2 жыл бұрын
How do they treat black men? tbh they talked about it in this video a little with the whole “treating your sons/making them the head of the household”
@amyxmay36772 жыл бұрын
A lot of black women tend to emasculate the men they with
@cookiedho2 жыл бұрын
So that’s what you clicked on the video for... interesting.
@Jess-ew3tm2 жыл бұрын
@@amyxmay3677 they don’t do anything tbh the men are already feminine
@AANGSBALDHEAD2 жыл бұрын
Bro dee just Saying random stuff through out the video got me weak 😂😂💀 Edit: 9:44 the funniest 😂😂💀
@jaylon99812 жыл бұрын
8:08 dee is so shadyyyy😂😂😂
@imaniluvsu12 жыл бұрын
I attended a community college right out of highschool so I didn't get that sorority experience. HOWEVER I'm definitely like you Dee. I'm not trying to fit in with anybody. I'm me. I'm going to do wtf I want and represent what I WANT to represent and I'm not about to kiss ANYBODY'S ass for shit. I've been fired from many a job for that very reason (and also because timeliness has been an issue for me in the past). I'm not good with authority and I'm always asking questions. So no. That wouldn't have been a thing for me.
@wolvesbane17482 жыл бұрын
Y'all hate Kevin Samuels cuz he speaks facts y'all can't handle or don't wanna hear foh🤣🤣🤣
@dlbarnes2 жыл бұрын
I'm curious where are videos about the conversation white men and women are not ready to have? I wonder why you don't see them? Keep up the excellent work, Dee love your content
@deehines57502 жыл бұрын
I recognize that a lot of this is true and I'm super thankful that none of this hits home for me.
@tylan382 жыл бұрын
ppl need to stop debating gender topics on tiktok its just argument food 🍲
@Beantown-ld1sg2 жыл бұрын
Love to all my sistas,no other woman for me on this planet other than a black queen!
@iSjazoo2 жыл бұрын
Those eyebrows had Dee shook and we all know it lmaooo
@jadaricks8592 жыл бұрын
Someone has to say it….. Sandra wearing her glasses probably ate her up at her own party because why does that bother you so much to make a video about it?!🤨😂
@wutdadeal32 жыл бұрын
Like I said in the other video, the faults fall on both sides.
@cookiedho2 жыл бұрын
Faults of what ?
@wutdadeal32 жыл бұрын
@@cookiedho I'm surprised that you have to ask. Both sides (males AND females) contribute to the mistreatment of each other, they both are a product of society. Faults; the mistreatment, the ignorance, and immaturity. I shouldn't have to spell it out to anyone educated.
@thisbrokenmachine2 жыл бұрын
diuretics are prescribed with instructions...meaning read the instructions.ie they say drink water and take a potassium supplement. Diuretics are also prescribed after usual high blood pressure medication isn't enough such as when rapid weight gain increases and signs of peripheral edema begins.
@raw58892 жыл бұрын
Her face when Steve urkele came on.
@StallyFit2 жыл бұрын
Nobody said anything of value in this video
@S6Ryujin2 жыл бұрын
At all
@Jess-ew3tm2 жыл бұрын
So them saying to stop treating the sons as the heads of the household wasn’t value?
@amyxmay36772 жыл бұрын
Yes they did
@Faye-Jane2 жыл бұрын
The first guy was funny to me lmfao.
@msinna64332 жыл бұрын
*only guy*
@reignnyjoseph73552 жыл бұрын
DEE cracks me UP OG😭😭😭💀💀💀💀
@krenee9842 жыл бұрын
Ok Dee! The puff is puffing todayyy ❤
@ValenciaGamble2 жыл бұрын
Wow this is actually really sad. 😔
@ShervierJ2 жыл бұрын
Not gonna lie they weren’t spittin like the black men video
@cookiedho2 жыл бұрын
Because this video is directed at black women. This won’t benefit you if you’re not a black woman. Simple.
@nunuissa63762 жыл бұрын
I don’t know what the First Lady is talking about because African black moms really take care of their kids a lot.
@naijah81512 жыл бұрын
Oh fr damn I wouldn’t kno
@jessicacurbeam10372 жыл бұрын
I agree with the glasses thing the big lashes don’t look right with glasses 😂😂but why can’t somebody wear glasses with a formal outfit
@almendoza042 жыл бұрын
9:18 was unexpected 😂
@saonedixon54762 жыл бұрын
The Willie Lynch letter, look it up.
@DominicJewell-p2e2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏽👌🏽👊🏽
@Jess-ew3tm2 жыл бұрын
And no light skin women don’t go through what brown girls go through wth
@oluwatimahwise68592 жыл бұрын
That really got me. Because she started out correct. Yes we don't always support each other the way we should. But then she goes onto say "lightskin women don't have privilege" like ok. You made this video because someone said you had privilege. And that's not the same as bullying
@Jess-ew3tm2 жыл бұрын
@Oluwatimah Wise yup! She sounds like a white women speaking on race issues. “We’Re AlL wOmeN” women go through different things and race AND culture plays a huge part and it’s ok to acknowledge that!
@jdani96252 жыл бұрын
I actually have. I got bullied pretty bad due to my skin tone growing up. And I never did anything to anyone I was literally the quiet nice girl.
@jdani96252 жыл бұрын
@@oluwatimahwise6859 i was actually bullied for that reason but that’s just my experience 🤷🏽♀️. Just because you don’t believe it, doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen
@Jess-ew3tm2 жыл бұрын
@@jdani9625 you don’t go through what DARK SKIN people go through. You being bullied for being light skin is not the same as being universally psychologically messed up for being dark skin or brown skin. Them saying “she think she cute” is not the same as someone calling you a monkey and other derogatory words because you’re of a darker skin color. Not trying to deny you’re experience whatsoever, but no it’s not the same. That’s like a white girl saying she was bullied for a being white 🥴
@luckdropemoff72 жыл бұрын
didn't hear an actual problem
@b1gBud00bo12 жыл бұрын
3:38 *+1 hidden story unlocked*
@brybot32882 жыл бұрын
The men vid popped up for me first and Im glad because the intro had me cracking up
@emporium5972 жыл бұрын
Dee, you’re so reasonable with tons of common sense. I know you would never do it but I’d buy and read an advice book that you authored
@kevinwilmore3604 Жыл бұрын
Is that woman talking about the "Projects."
@thamizzladi2 жыл бұрын
Not terrible parents 😬🤦🏾♀️ and I hate that simp 💩 real men aren’t simps another lit reaction video Shanelle get it u go girl happy 2022 🤎 the channel these convos b good arguments well some
@sunnc2 жыл бұрын
4:05 this is true. I see other bw and sometimes they give stank looks. But I get that it's a women thing & a young adult thing at times so I just try to smile first, wave first, be kind first. There is def an assuming its smoke & a sizing you up energy like observing your hair, clothes etc to see what "type" of bw you are. I would love to see less judgement & more embracing. You can rock wigs & your friend can have locs like it's really okay.
@KnijMagz2 жыл бұрын
Some these I was like um ehhhh... A lot of these have truth to them but some of these i.e 8:06. I disagree with as a young black man. I get her message about how black women treat each other. However, let's not pretend that colorism doesn't exist and "all black women" have "similar if not the same struggles". General struggles yes, perhaps, but struggles based on phenotype, no...let's be real about that. Growing up I saw how in predominantly black spaces how darker skinned unambiguous black women are treated vs light skinned or mixed girls were treated. It's not the same, by any chance. I won't even go into the details of why it's not (I know this lady knows that). Let's also not pretend that Biracial, multiracial, or ambiguous women (and men) don't try to cling to blackness because they know they are generally not accepted anywhere else. Plus the historical concept of the one drop rule... These days, blackness is not forced on anyone like that. For those that are like, well they (they=white and other non black people) see us (light skinned, biracial,or mixed people) as black. No they really don't. Thus why you get the questions "What are you...what are you mixed with...?" It's because they don't see you as black until you say it or in sone cases act like it. It's your choice to identify with what you actually are. Heck, even black people don't see mixed people as truely black in my opinion. Hence the whole exotification of mixed women and children. Notice I didn't say men because I bet this lady also knows that if she had a brother that looks like her (and is light skinned or mixed), his blackness has likely been challenged by his peers. Or if a mixed woman goes with a non black or white man, shes no longer part of the group. Mixed people are pulled in and pushed out of the "community" I know that much because I have seen it. It's sad and shouldn't be a thing. I advocate for mixed people to have their own space and still be a part of the black community because they are half black. It seems like this lady (if she doesn't have 2 black parents) is trying to project her ideal that all black women are the same (including herself) and that her struggles along with others that look like her matter too. Not a message that is genuine nor clear-cut. I strongly disapprove. It's a multifaceted convo.
@santheleatherneck Жыл бұрын
Imma piss a lot of people off but I feel like it needs to be said, I didn’t hear anything about women needing start taking accountability, or I maybe reaching when I say this
@ayeshanicoochi30942 жыл бұрын
The one about gay men was a lil… chi🙄
@SoundBiteInc-2 жыл бұрын
1:54 why did I expect bruh to be like that?
@nightmarecomics12 жыл бұрын
"Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm" - Dee Shanell 2022
@CloudCentrall2 жыл бұрын
First clip is just wrong, black women do know how to parent but i think they meant single black mothers, but just because you are a black woman doesnt mean you are going to be a terrible mother, most black women in a 2 parent household i would say have more quality than toxic traits to "pass down" to their children
@caru99822 жыл бұрын
10:48 why was she so boring😂😂
@longmarvin202 жыл бұрын
Shorty was Right.. Gay Men & Straight Women hold ABSOLUTELY NO SIMILAR VALUES when dating or even Married so Black Women especially shouldn't be listening to people who made a culture out of Imitating Black Women.
@longmarvin202 жыл бұрын
@Shirley Liles I was waiting for someone like you... lol this isn't negative bias, it's facts.. I was Bi-Curious. I've dealt with both women and men and ultimately I chose women because of the value structure women hold as a whole over Gay men... so no it wasn't anything of bias but from experience and observation.
@firstlast842 жыл бұрын
@@longmarvin20 value structure is an individual thing though, and isn't tied to your sexual preference. I'm gay but I don't involve myself at all with the gay community. I have gay friends with similar values though. I have a monogamous "normal" relationship... For lack of a better word lol. So again, there are all types in any community.
@longmarvin202 жыл бұрын
@@firstlast84 I just said I didn't find those values to be nearly on par with each other. Hey I agreed with it... Sue me. You may not be like ppl I've met. Idk you, when I generalized I meant the overly flamboyant overly sexual ones that tend to get famous or popularized
@mielissa100ify2 жыл бұрын
Lord people must have just had awful childhoods.
@bryanstoudenmire2 жыл бұрын
Alot of women are calling men simps now it's the new thing
@BrooklynDaDon12 жыл бұрын
The one about “simps” is so off because BLACK MEN created that term to degrade black men who value women.
@tikihead2 жыл бұрын
The lady at 11:54 looks like Lola from Shark Tale
@lstarsabb2 жыл бұрын
Actually shocked I thought there were going to be a lot of pick men's telling women they have let their men lead if they want their relationships to succeed.
@bradleyward3612 жыл бұрын
I heard women say that plenty of times
@ChocoGxd2 жыл бұрын
It was smart to post both sides
@Piepea2 жыл бұрын
One of the reasons a black man will go to a woman outside of his race. Would be because all that black man ever was seen, viewed, or pictured as just a friend. Someone not “black enough” someone that isn’t “thug enough”. Or basically not good enough to be with them. So is it so wrong that that black man finds someone no matter the race uplifts him, has his back, treats him as an equal, treats him with respect, sees him as a good provider, and worthy to be the father of their child and to be a good role model to their possible children, to stand side by side with and most of all worthy of that woman’s love and eventual hand. Love and respect has not race
@lemonpepper8532 жыл бұрын
Lol stop it. Some black guys probable bashed you too but your energy is for the women. Men call each other out more than women do. Truth is, women experience rejection as well. Its apart of life!! When I was young I was always into the "smart" guys. One boy in particular wanted the "cool" girl. Guess who she was dating? The "bad" boy. Pay attention to the girl no one is paying attention to. You probably didn't only because she didn't fit your idea of what you wanted. Sounds familiar? So.. Quit the bullshit and don't blame a group of women for the reason you're unable to connect with them. Also, love isn't love when it's for the wrong reasons. Not every interracial relationship is based off love. Sometime it's a based off rejection and insecurity. ❤✌🏾
@Piepea2 жыл бұрын
Towards me. Every other race I get everything that I’m looking for in mate. And that they were looking for as well. Just not my own race. How is it bullshit when it has been my life
@Piepea2 жыл бұрын
The interracial relationships I’ve been in have been based on love, or mutual interests, or a genuine desire or want to know more about the other
@lemonpepper8532 жыл бұрын
@@Piepea So lead with that and quit bringing up black women in the process.
@Piepea2 жыл бұрын
@@lemonpepper853 well if the topic is about black women aren’t ready to have this conversation. I was inclined to add my life experiences involving black women. Outside of my family
@biggrimdog88252 жыл бұрын
What's with the generalizations? What happened to nuanced conversation.
@kevinwilmore3604 Жыл бұрын
Y'all Black.................. Woman be running around in Herds. Like Herd Animals!
@naayg79562 жыл бұрын
6:28 😂😂😂😂
@marcusgarveyson2 жыл бұрын
Title should be Black American woman ..
@dc.KIYAL-H2 жыл бұрын
You have braces.. how did I not know this
@kaitlynwilliams262 жыл бұрын
i shouldnt b this focused on someones eyebrows but that shit was distracting like 🤨 wat lol she had a point tho
@mayanking3392 жыл бұрын
Shrugs
@ayano16522 жыл бұрын
Hey dee💕♥
@kilisloe34742 жыл бұрын
besides that one guy, there's no one talking about how black women treat black men. That's a conversation I know they are not ready to have. They avoid it like the plague and try to switch it around.
@MrZazawilson2 жыл бұрын
Y’all didn’t have the same energy as the black men video.. I guess y’all really not ready for this conversation 🤷🏾♂️..
@trelucas88172 жыл бұрын
First hey dee
@aunystieverett46392 жыл бұрын
Heyyyy dee
@King-zx4qr2 жыл бұрын
Dee: Is yo titty out? That shit had me dead
@azaravalerie98322 жыл бұрын
Here come all the angry women lol
@BravuraLeeVim2 жыл бұрын
Black women won't get mad at this because its mostly black women talking about how they treat each other.
@amourtoujours7792 жыл бұрын
Did you make this comment on the one with bm. Cause they angry over there. I'll answer. Of course you didn't.
@BravuraLeeVim2 жыл бұрын
@@amourtoujours779 But did you notice the huge difference between the two videos?
@sashn21082 жыл бұрын
@@BravuraLeeVim yes, in This video black women are mostly agreeing and while in the other video the black men are bringing up black women in anger and blaming black women ( which is just 🤦🏽♀️) .
@amourtoujours7792 жыл бұрын
@@BravuraLeeVim Yes. The men are more angry over there. I stated that on my first comment. Of course yall excuse male anger, though.
@epictubegamer2 жыл бұрын
These comments are proving the point. They not ready for this conversation 😭 they talking so much in the black men video but not taking accountability
@caribbeanman33792 жыл бұрын
That stuff some of y'all be putting in your hair that make it stank!
@ayano16522 жыл бұрын
Not the time or place😐
@doooooo012 жыл бұрын
She tried to come fir KS and the LGBT at the same time. There's a word called misandrist.
@Jess-ew3tm2 жыл бұрын
Kevin samuels be spittin facts sometimes idk why y’all won’t listen to that man ATLEAST sometimes lmfaooo
@S6Ryujin2 жыл бұрын
Kevin Samuels is a bitter divorce that gets off on putting down black women. No one should ever listen to that dude with a serious ear, just listen to laugh.
@Jess-ew3tm2 жыл бұрын
@@S6Ryujin but if you’re actually listening then you’d know hes right about a lot of things….. he doesn’t put down just black women neither but they’re the ones calling into his show 🤷🏽♀️ he keep the same energy with men too it’s just that the women get the most clicks
@parkerisles72562 жыл бұрын
I'd rather croak than intentionally seek dating advice from Kevin Samuels. My self-esteem and mental cognizance would've been in the pits of Tartarus and unable to be rescued, if I ever did such an incoherent thing.