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[@AntonDaniels]

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[@themessiahsdaughter]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/oV6Upa2petJjircsi=5WcQsUg0feJcx75_

[@iomegaprime2.087]

And yet they’re still single. This conversation has become redundant and boring.

[@chardin1900]

💯👈🏿

[@juliansearcie1758]

Super redundant and pointless the truth has been verified .

[@damienkirksey7026]

It's so played out

[@juansablo5781]

You’re absolutely correct. Island Q can only get the men she likes to have sex with her but has yet to be known to keep a man. Aton actually only tells you on how he made it but if you look deep into it his wife don’t actually like him and is there for whatever little money he got.

[@bravedave90]

Especially coming from the same type of women. But the Men they attract or, who are attracted to them are the same.

[@gcode305]

Confusing sexual options with commitment/marriage options is so delusional.

[@dwayneandreincorporated498]

Bars!!!

[@josephhandy8767]

Weird they do this all the time

[@KingJancelot]

@@josephhandy8767 And its easy to know the difference.

[@adonnisblac5663]

If they have options why they complain when BLK men date outside?

[@jonathancue1584]

Exactly, they should be able to go their own way and we (BM) go our way

[@Crip4lyfe]

They weren't complaining that he was dating out they were complaining he was talking bad about them publicly which gets all them stereotyped as a group of women.

[@ducesuave8271]

Majority of other races will date BM I’ve talked to a lot of other men from other races and BW are last on their list😅

[@learhaynes1002]

Facts

[@brandonwalker9320]

Delusional. Why isnt she married?

[@TiVo2Go]

yup, when she hits 80+, she will not be surrounded by a husband or family when her body is old and broken, her "girlfriends" cant help because they will be in the same boat.

[@user-si7el5vv1h]

This has to be the dumbest comment ever. You don't have to be married in order to have an Opinion on any matters when it comes to Life/Relationships. That's like saying what does a funeral director knows about preparing the dead and telling you about the process since they haven't been dead before, Or to be a Good Sports Coach you have to had play the game which is TOTALLY NOT TRUE.

[@guap8391]

@@user-si7el5vv1hmost of the panel wants to be married don’t kid yourself the options open up for more sex those women are stuck in their ways that’s why they are single

[@BluEx22329]

They dont have options when it comes to getting the man THEY'RE ATTRACTED TO to marry them

[@jonathancue1584]

BINGO😂😂😂

[@canadianbrotv1303]

Neither does every Man. Most men want a 9 physically but will marry the 6 and treat her like the 9

[@djsalteenuts]

More options for sex is different from options for marriage. If a woman like Eboni K Williams limits her prospects for men by income she can’t complain about her options. How can someone with a limited standard of 6 figures or more after seeing salary statistics say they have more options? That’s pure delusion.

[@RealMNeutral31]

It's not boring to me. The women keep exposing themselves. That's funny to me.

[@deebrown4877]

💯🎯💯🎯 EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@miguelstigler9170]

MANE 💯 💯 💯

[@robinsss]

but Melyssa Ford was not limiting it to 6 figure men so she would have a lot more options

[@wc6081]

@@robinsssMelyssa is in her mid 40s and has never been married. She had all the options in the world in her prime and still couldn’t lock down a man. And she’s half white so I know she’s dated men that aren’t Black men.

[@ronnrogers9459]

Black women say they have so many options but yet and still they pick Pookie and Ray Ray to get pregnant by

[@distantquasar5218]

No they don't pick pookies and ray rays, the pookies pick them because that's all that's left for most BW, the pookies and the ray rays.

[@troy028]

Slavery didnt break up the blsck family malkali. Feminist black women broke up the black family

[@LeekedBeats]

Yeah she’s confused for sure. Using slavery as an excuse for everything typical

[@moneychaser2430]

Facts

[@JB-ot9hi]

Absolutely True!

[@moneychaser2430]

I’m Afro Brazilian I stayed in America BW use to talk down on BM to get at me I never understood it never heard or seen it besides WW hell what they say about WM is true 😂 still what kills me is BW love playing this victim card I even know other races of men experience the same thing we know wassup

[@Zod_Marshal]

Im 32 and I always say if dudes 28-35 want to keep it 💯we knew these females were beyond lost in highschool and it's literally the same chicks with podcasts and talking even wilder

[@blackinnovatorsglobal9395]

I've been living in Brazil 🇧🇷 for over 2.5 years now and it's been the best decision I've ever made, only 2nd to becoming a full time entrepreneur. There are 20 million more black women in Brazil than in the USA 🇺🇲, and the majority of them (not all) are beautiful, fit, friendly, respectful and have traditional family values. I'm successful financially, but even if you make $50k remotely not only will you live extremely well (the US dollar 💵 is worth 5x more than the Brazilian Reais) but you will be spoiled for choice when it comes to actual high quality women and they will appreciate you. I'm not saying it's easy or that you don't have to get in shape and have a good understanding of women, but if you have what's considered the "basics" in the USA , you will be a top 10% earner in Brazil 🇧🇷. Don't let the 3rd world country stereotype discourage you as I live in a beautiful community with virtually no crime and all of the modern amenities. I've also never been asked for a green card neither 🤣. Those who have visited Brazil know I'm speaking facts. Life exists beyond the states and for me I've never been happier than I am in Brazil 🇧🇷 🙌🏾💯

[@Bidness100]

Word

[@MarkYourBoyDog]

Been three times and a move there might be nice.

[@terran6471]

@blackinnovatorsglobal9395 Yea that's definitely true. Aside from the women in Brazil being beautiful and feminine. They're also very wholesome, and yes you're right about having the endless amount of options there. It's pretty much a parallel situation in other countries too 💯💯

[@canadianbrotv1303]

I feel this way about the Dominican Republic, i could not imagin Brazil. Black women un corrupted by this constant feminist ideals, i dont know why black western women follow white feminist ideals ...to fit into a culture that does not like them..Makes no sence.

[@jahkarimirza7286]

If they really had options then the marriage rates among BW with non-BM would not look the way it is. They're being smashed left and right but not proposed to.

[@l.donnell6906]

If he ain’t chosen you, you can have all the option you want…won’t help you.

[@Nightrain349]

As a BM currently in Mombasa Kenya he ain't lying.

[@StraptownTrayD]

Mel Ford is 40 going on 14 😂 no one listened to her BS. Nothing she said was true

[@CorGP]

Closer to 50 than 40. Beauty is a curse when you’re not taught how to effectively use it.

[@davidclass7150]

Plus has types out here been with drake and others but no marriage she been with business entertaininers sports guys still marriage

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

49 I believe.

[@everyotherbar65]

I’m all for it. Women of other races don’t give up their best men that easily. It’s still a competition. And the men still want a return.

[@sionrouge1697]

There are way too many immature people having this conversation. Way too much laughing and high school like behavior.

[@jonathancue1584]

Exactly, that's why I hate these panels with BW in it. They are so immature

[@And1one757]

​@jonathancue1584 its really when their is too many black ppl together way too much laughing and giggling over everything

[@Richard-Reloaded]

The irony is the black women that can attract high value men of other races and cultures for marriage typically have no issues attracting the black version of those type of men.

[@Zod_Marshal]

Which is why I say even with my doubts in black women I know the truly good ones that let alone look like that it's no question they are married probably 2,3,4 kids

[@ruh-ul-qudussaid8446]

Yes,and no. No one chose a plethora of black high value women here in America speaking about the ones brother's passed over or just had sex with,serena, venus,taraji,eve,Halle etc..,but after the blackman had them then they moved on to white men,Halle in her what 2nd,3rd😂 white guy who she has to pay,but later on its always the fault of a man🤔 something in them made that black man move on instead of committing to them.🤔this again will be our fault , also why is it ok for yall to marry outside the race but not us?😂never any fault of any woman

[@Dantee.15]

THIS 💯

[@Dantee.15]

Not only do they not have an issue, they PREFER the black version. There’s very very few high value black women who CHOOSE high value men of other races.

[@Flamepwnz]

As Kevin Samuel's would say whats your husband say? Where's the ring at? Options for sex aint really options if they dont wanna marry you. KS WE NEED YOU TO BRING THESE CONVERSATIONS BACK TO REALITY. RIP TO THE GOAT!

[@andrewilliams514]

RIP KS🕊️✊🏿

[@streamsofarrogance4167]

I used to love when he asked that question. RIP Kev ❤

[@evertonb3031]

Black women do have more "options" and that's why they can't settle .. always looking for better. A great man once said "if Jesus cant save these hose ninja why are you trying?" & It's true.

[@Zod_Marshal]

😂😂 honorable minister jap

[@vicljr8533]

Lol 💯

[@123pb]

The broken record has been playing since 2020 can we move on to trying to build and save the community. Lets realize that every year we lose 400,000 Black babies at the Abortion clinic-that is 40% of all abortions coming from a small group of women!

[@Fullmetaltracer]

Been saying this for years and I’m only 30. Black men need to branch out to save the culture these women are done. ✅

[@canadianbrotv1303]

Passport bros are fulfilling just that​@@Fullmetaltracer

[@Gambitbronson]

Milaki talking about stereotypes, and “hyper-vigilance” that broke up the black family during slavery, but black families were more prominent just 50 years ago.. By 80%!

[@GeeWay73]

They love lying to themselves!

[@stankingranking]

Jessica said we say women need to be the weaker vessel... No we don't. We say women are the weaker vessel. Its not a choice...

[@tnbn55]

This topic should have another BW up there instead😅

[@classyyoungman35]

i agree with MansaBoog 100%And I’ve been to the countries in Africa and also I’ve been to the biggest black population outside of Afirca during the Atlantica Slave Trade which is Brazil,Salvador Bahia those black women don’t act like black women in the United States of America at all.

[@marcusyoung2434]

I have been to Brazil, and yes BW there are better than BW here in every way. It's not even close.

[@smurf_n_wesson9064]

Ladies No One was ever stopping other Races from approaching You Lol

[@dnatest585]

👍MansaBoog is right. I was a black in the U.S NAVY. Been to many Countries.

[@lindaanderson846]

All My Life, Starting with Birth, till My Father died, When I turned 15, BlackMen have Loved and Respected me, Still Now in 2024 🆗❤️💯👑s👈🏾

[@copperfit4087]

Someone needs to tell all of these women that have options. It’s not about quantity but quality. So I don’t care many guys you got and have slept with. That decision of thinking like that has consequences down the line. Time will tell on all these women who think like that. 🤦‍♂️ 😂

[@brandoncass8810]

Why do bw think they have options like that? I don't feel sorry them, but I do find it funny.

[@melvinh007]

I don't feel sorry for them either. This conversation been going on for decades - until men have had enough. They either get with the program (meaning the rest of the billions of women around the world that gets it) or be alone. The BW that DO have their mind right - get snatched up quick for marriage. But majority of these women don't have the mindset to date ANY RACE of men. Stats don't lie.

[@elefintndaroom8629]

Taboo made the best comment which is black women have 1 option & thats a black man because no other men want them period. The reasons why this is is more interesting than breaking down the same juvenile & elementary dialog podcast after podcast🤦‍♂️!

[@johnbrown4949]

Let them learn the hard way

[@user-tw3kr9if1f]

And Black Men Have More Options . Black Americans Need To Get Beyond Race. Be With Whoever Compliments You And Makes You Stronger.

[@Allnews25]

Right bw had more kids with other race of men never married too other race of men just have sex with them 😂😂😂

[@postmastersgt1670]

Thats not gonna happen the racial history in this country runs too deep.

[@Mr_Don1]

​@@postmastersgt1670 anytime it starts going away, the left throws gas on the fire. They need it politically to survive.

[@corwinjkabuki]

​@@postmastersgt1670 i disagree, it's inevitable.

[@dynasty507]

I agree with this but I still think the best chance for the majority to get the highest quality partner is within their own race for several reasons.

[@coreybrown6871]

🤔If they have option, then why do the majority of them have kids by the same small pool of men??🤔🤔

[@Wink827]

It is important to realize that things weren't always so. The black American family provides a stark example. From 1890 to 1950, black women had a higher marriage rate than white women. And in 1950, just 9% of black children lived without their father. By 1960, the black marriage rate had declined but remained close to the white marriage rate. In other words, despite open racism and widespread poverty, strong black families used to be the norm. But by the mid-198os, black fatherlessness skyrocketed. Today, only 44% of black children have a father in the home. In unison, the rate of black out-of-wedlock births went from 24.5% in 1964 to 70.7% by 1994, roughly where it stands today. One contributor to family breakdown, which soon spread to the poor and working-class white family, may have been welfare expansion. Cash welfare in meager form existed since 1935,4 and some welfare expansion took place during the Kennedy administration. But under Johnson's Great Society, which began in 1964, benefits became substantially more generous and came under greater control of the federal government. In the words of Harvard's Paul Peterson, "some programs actively discouraged marriage," because "welfare assistance went to mothers so long as no male was boarding in the household... Marriage to an employed male, even one earning the minimum wage, placed at risk

[@JeffTheGent]

Thank you SO much for this comment! 💯👏🏽 The tendency to attribute issues in black communities to the legacies of slavery, Jim Crow, etc., is seriously flawed. The family breakdown has caused major damage. And that trend is much more recent than the eras of widespread, legalized racial oppression. So the proposed, big government solutions that come from the leftist politicians black Americans usually support are sorely off-base. It starts in the home. And it’s very telling that the poverty gap between blacks and whites nearly disappears when comparing black and white two-parent households.

[@KingAziatic]

Facts. But let Milkila tell it, it started right after slavery. These chicks are so uneducated

[@TheFirephoenix76]

She's delusional😅

[@andrewilliams514]

Black women have more options? Then how come they’re least desirable to marry? She’s making no sense and she’s mad that no man she wants chose her.

[@marcushicks5635]

Nah fam. We’ve got the options and the leverage. Everybody wants a great black man. Facts!

[@chefmoup8813]

Quinton agreeing “Yeahh thatz weird “ to a story HE TOLD is KZbin Gold lolz 😆

[@Swayze_S.L]

Any woman taking advice from Ebony K Williams and Melissa Ford are doomed.. both these broads over 40 and struggling to have a stable relationship

[@tandemtransport7702]

Options = Unmarried sex partners for most women. Welcome to single motherhood.

[@Kyronetta]

If it’s true then why is the marriage rate still so low? I mean they have more options in sexually relationships but more? Idk about that.

[@dcride36]

So do Black men, we've had options for decades.

[@Mike-sb7yy]

Please Do... Please open your options

[@hardlessons9732]

What black women fail to realize is that a negative stereotype is more pronounced within a minority compare to a majority.

[@roberttaylor9628]

Option #2 - Date/marry a Stud lesbian.

[@DK-yy2ie]

“Heal my community?” How exactly will she do that 😂

[@waltbaynard]

Preach Mansa you are saying nothing but the truth.

[@The1Question]

More options for sex. Not more options for marriage. To many women conflate and confuse this. Its easy for almost any women to get sex, its not a skill or flex.

[@stephenjones5468]

There's a movement called swirling that black women started, and got books on it .

[@MarkYourBoyDog]

Q was sweating 😅. And his boo left and called it weird damn. Back to the drawing board. When sipping fails. 😂😂😂

[@JohnMiller123]

I think the "earthy" one is actually and authentically, a lovely lady. I hope and trust she is found fast by her husband.

[@LouStreets]

Melyssa Ford is the ONLY person on the Joe Budden podcast NOT in a committed long term relationship or marriage, yet she’s the oldest and on this panel lying and coping with her life decisions

[@SparkleInYourEyes2024]

Not true

[@MYBEAUTYALLOVER]

Thank you Quinton.

[@Tential1]

2:40 exactly what my dad did. Went to Nigeria/Ghana, and left the American insanity. American Women still don't get it. You want rich men. That's only america... These American women with degrees can't look up the income data and see, the richest country is america, every other country decreases their chances. We just want a woman that's not liberal. That's a couple billion women still. So why you think the odds are in your favor are beyond me. This is why I stopped valuing your education. This is basic math you refuse to do.

[@compte_]

Shout out to Passport bros! Keep rocking!

[@Velllsails2]

Jessica exposed her hate when dude complimented mariah

[@user-so8yl4yf3w]

I know they say don’t judge a book by its cover, but proceed with caution if you’re taking relationship advice from a video vixen.

[@prayermadepatna8439]

The island gyal keep that Condescending look on her face

[@colerainswaggify6387]

Yep, she's the prototypical modern black woman.

[@korneliusmcdonald7270]

Their coping plain and simple

[@bluebloodroyalty8012]

They confuse sex options with real options women have more sex options

[@antwaink9389]

Yep and once a dude get it he be ready to go🤣

[@kenyattathompson6685]

Headed to Kenya Now That brother is absolutely correct

[@Dantee.15]

Another dude said it perfectly in the comments. “Even if black women have options. They typically will go for the black version of those options.” In other words if black women has to choose between a black millionaire man, Asian millionaire or white millionaire? They choosing the black millionaire FIRST.

[@robertbrooks4413]

The most hated and most avoided option is to ACT RIGHT!😱😱😱

[@handsome_Xpress]

3:43 yo wtf was that mansaboog ? 🤣 bro spazzed out

[@jamesslade64]

Prove that you have more options

[@keturaequalizer]

MansaBoog, I am an african woman. I was born and raised in Africa and I now reside in Europe. African women are not so siked about black american men as you say. Take a chill pill and calm down. 🤷🏽‍♂

[@SparkleInYourEyes2024]

Thank you.

[@deionjohnson8683]

No disrespect but we feel the same way,most black men dont even find African women attractive ,if we date out we date latino or caucausion women not african,they arent viewed as desirsble from an aesthetic stand point!

[@theking8356]

I think the general idea is if you are going to date outside your race, you sure are not going to deal with extreme character flaws and a woman who does not look like you. So maybe black women who date outside race seem "better".

[@frankharris6136]

Does she have a man? Is she married? NOPE 👍🏾💯

[@tooneov]

These women been exercising their options since the dawn of time. Interracial relationships became legal based on a black woman and white man's marriage in Virginia. The options aren't staying, the common denominator is them.

[@Dope6oyzInc]

10:23 alot of the damage we do to ourselves also comes from the pushback a man gets when hes trying to hold another person accountable. What happens instead, is the problem is justified rather than the solution. Our sisters have that sh*t bad. But of course so do the many BM that were raised by single (mothers). 🤷🏽‍♂️ Peace though. ✊🏾

[@mrc3226]

Options when it comes to sex yes relationships no

[@Lituationstv]

Q looked right at Anton at the beginning of the video 😂 Ari black men want black women we just don’t want y’all when it’s to late

[@allen100k]

She said African don't want African American men. What? Lol

[@riskymartin2830]

MansaBoog is speaking facts.

[@blackthanos914]

This panel is soooooo ignorant. This is painful to watch. There's all kinds of research on this topic. They're unaware of any of it 🤦🏿🤦🏿🤦🏿

[@Cam-ik3kf]

We don’t have to have a culture to know what respect is for one another. People are choosing to be outrageous and out of order. Wmn act like because she has a job she can’t be feminine and respectful towards blk men or her husband. Everybody around the world works.

[@TGziggy]

Stereotypes are based on facts... and general conversations require a level of critical thinking, which most women lack...

[@terryyususke4962]

Most men are going over seas to get better black women let’s talk about that.

[@joybeybeeluv4234]

Culture does not equal color ….

[@bhillboy37]

I've been to nightclubs full of nothing but white women and nothing but black men. Never seen it the other way around.

[@roderickhinds8992]

Fans Willis showed the world. It's not a stereotype she proved that.

[@kjames7798]

Quinton's facial gestures are 😂

[@GoofyTea]

Mega size fruit cake lolol!

[@dariusthegreat3097]

I love Mariah Mariah and Arii Reed! Those women are on point. They get it! They see what the problem is and I'm glad they can admit it. All that screaming independent and not needing a man gets old. No other race has women that speaks like ours and bash their men daily.

[@canadianbrotv1303]

Taught to them by white feminist women and they still dont see the programing , why because they are taught to never listen to a man cause if they do that makes them weak

[@Train2Liv]

Western societies seems to be on the outs! What other cultures engage in these dual gender dialogues geared toward analyzing societal relationship dysfunctions and dynamics?

[@raymondomollo6748]

Very true and so very sad. I am a 51 year old continental African man. I stand corrected, but all I see is anger, hate, bitterness, entitlement, job shaming, disrespect...I mean I could go on. It's become so predictable and pathetic.

[@Train2Liv]

@@raymondomollo6748 I’m a “loyal” (but definitely not “proud”) Foundational Black American that find my own people too fractured and distracted to associate with! At 59yrs young, I’m preparing to retire and move to SE Asia to experience a more peaceful, calm, and overall healthier existence!

[@canadianbrotv1303]

​@@raymondomollo6748 so true job shaming ...They only want millionaires to date them..

[@teelove4443]

Nah. My best friend for almost 20 years is from Cameroon. He says the women over there act exactly like the women over here. They want to be juat like American women. Maybe most African women were the ideal wifey type years ago, but now it's different. Welcome to the New World

[@TheRawledawg]

There are over 50 different countries on Africa. Not all of them are the same.

[@Watson_the_great]

Love this panel. Prolly my fav yet

[@Marcthegaurdian]

Black women and Asian males are the least swiped. So it's easy black men have more options.

[@ducesuave8271]

NOT ENOUGH GOOD MEN/ WE HAVE OPTIONS…..PICK ONE! 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@evos469]

Arli is correct

[@lindaanderson846]

BlackMen have way More Options,Than BlackWomen 😂😂🆗👈🏾

[@ritchiechin6643]

I live in Scottsdale, Arizona, and a group of black women tried to edge their way in near a group of white men at a night club Well, guess what happened ? there was Asian women that was right next to the white men and the black women were completely ignored. Not a lot of options when it comes to different races of women competing.

[@TheWorldPart6]

@@ritchiechin6643 Same here in Houston. We have a high Latino population but I rarely see Black women with non-Black men but I see Black men with Latinas, Asian women, and White women all the time. Most non-Black men don’t want Black women.

[@tonytucker6145]

Swirling and Divesting MOVEMENT BY BLACK WOMEN MAY BE THE BIGGEST REASON (THE PASSPORT BROS ) WAS FORMED BUT NOT ONE WORD ABOUT THAT FROM MISS FORD.

[@Allnews25]

No they don’t

[@richardroy6490]

The stats don’t show this Lmfaoo

[@Wgz945]

The Ebony chick pushed back on what she said, not a fan of hers but I can definitely give her that credit

[@alreadycanceledsocialclub7673]

They don’t fuxx w/quinton…. They keep dragging his ass 😂😂😂😂

[@stucummings]

He adds nothing substantive to the discussions. He might be on his way out

[@FatherofFFD]

A waste of 15 minutes. It's that last time I do that. Only one, maybe 2 people making any sense while the rest are talking to be heard, & not to learn. Just going around in circles. Good luck out there. It's not looking good at all for most.

[@24KLuxury]

Marriage for men in the past was to lock down the box. These days you can get it for free! What’s the point in getting married 😂

[@TT-gn4fk]

Is that why mansa hair is nappy

[@EldenLordLandon]

Their still is no solution for all this tho