BLAIR UNDERWOOD (EP. 124)

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Nice & Neat The Podcast

Nice & Neat The Podcast

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@InnerWorldsNetwork-jz8mt
@InnerWorldsNetwork-jz8mt 3 ай бұрын
"Before anything came between us you was like my best friend. The one I used to run and talk too when me and my girl was having problems.🎶🎼
@refioenale3768
@refioenale3768 3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 i sang this sooooo loud
@ajordan1847
@ajordan1847 3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂❤ "You make me wanna..."
@SOI-wl2lo
@SOI-wl2lo 2 ай бұрын
BRUH!! 😄
@lisaellis7137
@lisaellis7137 2 ай бұрын
Whew! This the one!
@shaytay10
@shaytay10 2 ай бұрын
I would love to hear his ex-wife side.
@alishadtm
@alishadtm 3 ай бұрын
I understand the marriage was over, and both parties agreed; however, him choosing to marry the best friend confirms the stigma associated with opposite sec friendships. Affairs don't begin in the bedroom, and although an affair is not part of their story, it further confirms that an emotional connection to someone combined with history can be a recipe. Only those involved in the cooking can determine what their recipe will turn into...a recipe for disaster or success. I wish him as much success in his personal life as he's had in his career.
3 ай бұрын
Agreed. Boundaries. This goes for CLIENTS as well. Clients should stay clients they’re not your friends and you shouldn’t vent to them about your relationship problems.
@donishadashantii4921
@donishadashantii4921 3 ай бұрын
you articulated this thought very well, thank you.
@bluesmoke8826
@bluesmoke8826 3 ай бұрын
Which is why I don't date women with close friendships with men. Sometimes there are fires 🔥 burning that you are completely unaware of. Why take the chance of being blindsided years down the road
@spatty2589
@spatty2589 3 ай бұрын
No man or woman is an island. We all come into contact with other people. He isn’t blind and deaf so of course you form relationships and friendships. From that pool you can find a good partner.
@biabia3733
@biabia3733 3 ай бұрын
I think everything he said went over your head!
@sixhayes
@sixhayes 3 ай бұрын
As a young black man (20yo), this level of class is so rare it’s insane. But, Honestly that’s why I watch this podcast weekly anyway.
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast 3 ай бұрын
🥃🥃🥃
@brendagrant9382
@brendagrant9382 15 күн бұрын
Great way you have stated this.
@Karma2Z
@Karma2Z 3 ай бұрын
Moral of the story : Blair is a very talented and gifted ACTOR 😉
@WilliamsPinch
@WilliamsPinch 2 ай бұрын
😂 correct.
@kallahari7542
@kallahari7542 Ай бұрын
@Karma27:Don't forget gorgeous😍
@yaqar3689
@yaqar3689 3 ай бұрын
Blair is aging like a bottle of the most expensive wine on earth!
@christamoore7461
@christamoore7461 3 ай бұрын
Facts 👌🏽
@bo2720
@bo2720 3 ай бұрын
This man is 60 (??!!!) And still one of the finest men I have seen
@dawnssunrises6050
@dawnssunrises6050 2 ай бұрын
60‼️⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️ NO FRICKEN WAY‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️🙌🏽
@tishainnis
@tishainnis 2 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯
@DesiLu4Life
@DesiLu4Life 2 ай бұрын
He STILL fine!! He looks the same way he did when I was 10 🤣😍
@godsfav
@godsfav 3 ай бұрын
Yall really getting these big guests on your show. Thats dope🎉 Blair looks damn good
@gweng2443
@gweng2443 3 ай бұрын
This was a great interview that offered insight from a male's perspective of the journey of separation and divorce. We are used to hearing the female's perspective, but this presented a well-articulated view from the lens of men. Gentlemen, kudos to you for asking the hard questions with integrity to help others grow and understand. I am coming out of an 18-year marriage, and it made me consider how my ex-husband may feel on some issues.
@LisaLisaCJ
@LisaLisaCJ 2 ай бұрын
I’ve seen so many women waste their lives and time and eggs for a man for him to basically act as if you never meant anything to him. I’ve lived it as well. To be told he loves someone else after a long marriage is devastating.
@kallahari7542
@kallahari7542 Ай бұрын
@ LisaLisaCJ: But why you're feeling devestated ? We are all people with feelings the celebrities are real people with feelings too. Feelings changes, you can sit it out with your spouse or you can move on and go your seperate ways while you still respect each other..In my opinion people especially we blk people are too busy with our blk celebs living righteous when we need tolive our own life and give an good example to our children and in our community.
@TheSunshinefee
@TheSunshinefee 18 күн бұрын
people grow apart. women have a hard time accepting that. he loved her and then not anymore. accept that
@Bedoubleu
@Bedoubleu 14 күн бұрын
@@TheSunshinefeeor she could have loved him an then not anymore. They could have both felt like that fire was gone. He even said counseling didn’t work.
@avadsteele
@avadsteele 3 ай бұрын
This was such a great episode!! Blair Underwood has always been very clean, classy and regal!! Definitely the definition of strong yet reserved masculinity!!
@Dominion-1
@Dominion-1 3 ай бұрын
(44:00) He said the break up began (mentally) when he start doing plays in New York while his family was still in LA. I always say that if you cant be home for dinner 99% of the time to communicate with your family then complacency will slip in.
@kallahari7542
@kallahari7542 Ай бұрын
Means to me that he hold on to this marriage as long as he could which is wonderful. He tried.
@Miss.A-B
@Miss.A-B 3 ай бұрын
As a woman, no matter how beautifully he spoke about his ex-wife and new wife, it was unsettling to watch.
@Yaya_P
@Yaya_P 3 ай бұрын
Agreed!
@Abi-qm2vi
@Abi-qm2vi 3 ай бұрын
I 100 percent agree.
@AllThingsSoul
@AllThingsSoul 2 ай бұрын
Divorce, not matter how you slice it, is unsettling and painful for both people.
@baderinwa1
@baderinwa1 2 ай бұрын
We need a new paradigm for marriage. The present model is incompatible with our current life span , family structure , and life style. This Eurocentric , often Abrahamic religious model emerged from a time when most humans didn’t live past 40. To commit to a union until death would often involve being married no more than 20 to 25 year. There were also other considerations, with the primary motivating factor being economics. Marriage was more than a union between a man and a woman, it was a uniting to two extended families. Life is dynamic, and change is a powerful constant. When couples marry, at an early age, both parties grow and change overtime. When children are involved , they become the primary focus, as well as a powerful uniting force , within the family. Couples often lose focus of their marriage while raising their children. Often, it is not until the children grow up, and leave home, that the married couple , refocus on their relationship, only to find that they have very little in common and have outgrown their marriage. Empty nest divorces have increased , over the years, from 10% to 25% .
@mbrattoo1
@mbrattoo1 2 ай бұрын
​​@@baderinwa1Life expectancy was only so low back then due to so many child deaths. It was very common for a single family to lose multiple children in childhood. Old people have always existed, they just had to survive childhood first. Something to note is that many men were able to marry over and over again because women also frequently died during childbirth. Their widowers would then almost immediately find a new "mother" for the baby (if it lived) and there was a chance she'd die the same way shortly thereafter. Nowadays, just be nonmonogamous and avoid marriage if that's what you want. You can even decide to simply date forever. Who's stopping you? Marriage is not a requirement. However, those that do desire monogamy and marriage are equally valid and no one from either camp should have to bend to the will of the other. Everyone should stick to the people who want them in the way they want to be wanted.
@ms.sag-gurl1833
@ms.sag-gurl1833 3 ай бұрын
I love Blair as an Actor and he is good looking but I will not be gas lighted by this fine man😂😂😂. No sir. No but for real, I wish he kept this part of his life private because I kinda see him different. For some reason it don’t sit well.
@nnena3631
@nnena3631 3 ай бұрын
No matter how many eloquent words are put on this, two people growing apart are two people that refused to grow together. I cant help but believe the emotional affair he had with his "best friend" definitely helped widen the chasm that already existed between them. This is really sad.
@lakiahwilliams
@lakiahwilliams 3 ай бұрын
Exactly. People have to Start being very intentional about asking God before choosing their partner for marriage. Any Divorce outside of Sexual Immortality or Abuse is not excused. Be Intentional and do the Work to keep your marriage alive‼️ In Luke 16:18, Jesus states, "Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery." This statement underscores the sanctity of marriage and the seriousness of divorce. Jesus provides a more detailed explanation in Matthew 19:9, where He introduces the "exception clause": "And I say to you; whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery."
@Yaya_P
@Yaya_P 3 ай бұрын
Agreed!
@michaelmcfr
@michaelmcfr 3 ай бұрын
No where in the Bible does it say “abuse” is a reason for divorce , you just made that up and added that🤷🏾‍♂️
@Emma0988
@Emma0988 3 ай бұрын
Life happens and people move on. No matter what he said, some one will find a fault in it. Their happiness apart is more important than their misery together.
@cynthiavitoria7231
@cynthiavitoria7231 3 ай бұрын
Spot on 🎉
@Jay88895
@Jay88895 3 ай бұрын
So proud of you guys establishing a place to have this conversation as gentlemen! Bravo! 👏👏👏
@natayarichardson1568
@natayarichardson1568 3 ай бұрын
I just really appreciate Jalon as the podcast goes on
@RealLadi228
@RealLadi228 3 ай бұрын
I respect and 😢love how the kids were most important emotionally throughout the entire transition My Son and His ex wife have done the opposite and my two Grandsons became collateral damage quickly which has been totally heartbreaking 23 years 17 married, my oldest g.s last year of h.s😢grades sports and college aspirations all effected, the 9 year old became troubled its just awful. So many unnecessary decisions that could have been avoided.
@instrinsiclove
@instrinsiclove 3 ай бұрын
So honored to have witnessed this amazing conversation and so glad he is publicly receiving his flowers. A living legend!
@audreyphillips1795
@audreyphillips1795 2 ай бұрын
I have no judgment on his choices on who he loved. He could have been dishonest and not told his first wife anything. I give him credit for that.
@22danewb
@22danewb 2 ай бұрын
He finer than he was 30 years ago!! I need him in more movies/shows!!! So talented and underrated?
@q-angel3730
@q-angel3730 3 ай бұрын
In the 90s, the top 3 best looking actors for me were Blair Underwood, Lorenz Tate, Denzel Washington. Blair has been #1 for me the last few years! They are also my top favorite actors along with Morgan Freeman. Blair Underwood has never had the credit he deserves....he is an AMAZING actor.
@AllThingsSoul
@AllThingsSoul 2 ай бұрын
Don't answer this ridiculous question. We, as a race of people, have no business rating another person on a ridiculous imaginary looks scale. God don't make ugly and he tells us not to judge others. We all have a particular type. Just because someone isn't exactly my type, doesn't mean they are unattractive. Morris Chestnut and Michael B. Jordan don't do a thing for me; but other's think they are highly attractive. Looks aren't everything. Focus on something else instead of an imaginary scale created to make some people feel bad about themselves.
@shondah.2195
@shondah.2195 3 ай бұрын
Great interview @Nice & Neat Podcast. I've been a fan of Blair Underwood since the mid 80s when he was 1st introduced to the world on the TV series L.A. Law. He's also a great author and co- author. I also admire he has sustained a successful career without compromising himself onscreen in the roles he takes. It's unfortunate that his 1st marriage didn't last. However, I respect how he honors himself, his family, ex- wife and his current wife/best friend. Blessings to him and his current and future endeavors.
@valeriefullilove5198
@valeriefullilove5198 3 ай бұрын
Blair has put forth a great body of work and achieved many milestones. He is a very talented actor and also a great Producer. I expect his future to still look bright. ("Ain't it great!")
@ro992
@ro992 3 ай бұрын
*Staying faithful might have helped . Stop making excuses, Period . My opinion* .
@SOI-wl2lo
@SOI-wl2lo 2 ай бұрын
Ladies, FYI - This is not cute, enlightening or whatever else - *THIS IS A CAUTIONARY TALE!!!!!!!!!!* 🙃
@therealtimellis7317
@therealtimellis7317 22 күн бұрын
!!!!!!
@brandigilmore607
@brandigilmore607 3 ай бұрын
This cute and all but this exactly why people don’t want friends of the opposite sex around like that.
@queenie_the_virgo
@queenie_the_virgo 3 ай бұрын
I actually understand where he’s coming from. I’ve seen this scenario play out in my own family. They knew each other before they each went off and got married. They ended up marrying and were married another 35 years. I can appreciate him honoring the marriage and raising his children. I have no judgment in this situation, only a desire to understand his perspective.
@AllThingsSoul
@AllThingsSoul 2 ай бұрын
Well-said. I have no judgment about his divorce. We never what happened behind closed doors.
@amabky
@amabky 3 ай бұрын
If you can get into a relationship with your BFF then marriage after a divorce then they where always interested in each other.... SMH 🤦🏾‍♀️ I feel very sorry for his ex wife. Imagine this friend of his was always round , his ex wife might of built a friendship with her... this is crazy...
@bluesmoke8826
@bluesmoke8826 3 ай бұрын
Yea. That's why when a lady tells me that she has a great male friend for years I kindly excuse myself from the dinner table. Too risky, don't want to be blindsided years down the road
@deborahcoleman-void9965
@deborahcoleman-void9965 2 ай бұрын
I know in 43 years of knowing this woman there’s been intimate talk, touch, etc. He married her too soon after his divorce.
@CHI-df2zv
@CHI-df2zv Ай бұрын
​@@deborahcoleman-void9965Men often move on very quickly, in general. Blair already knew this woman for decades, what was there to wait for?
@Laniece4u2
@Laniece4u2 2 ай бұрын
More proof that she’s just a friend is a bunch of bs. That woman was lying in . wait. It’s hard to love on your wife when your bestie is saying and doing everything right.. being the ultimate cheerleader, supporter and peace while surfboarding. Smh
@makebawilliams
@makebawilliams 3 ай бұрын
This Blair Underwood interview was emotional, educational, and entertaining! Most importantly, it was transparent! His Sidney Poitier story of having the honor to meet him on the plane and receiving his book entitled, "The Measure Of A Man: A Spiritual Autobiography", was beautiful! Speaking of Sidney Poitier, I had the privilege to find and purchase his masterpiece book at Goodwill! So looking forward to putting his book in my future home library! Nice & Neat The Podcast, continue to beautifully shine! Your platform is amazing!
@MsLuvmusic81
@MsLuvmusic81 3 ай бұрын
he must have meant Sidney's first autobiography called This Life which was published in 1980. Because he said he was going to LA for an audition for LA Law (1987). Measure of a Man was published in 2000 and Blair definitely knew Sidney way before that year.
@lenamonique18
@lenamonique18 3 ай бұрын
I always had the HUGEST crush on Blair Underwood! He's first and last on my list.
@Whoistiffanynicole
@Whoistiffanynicole 3 ай бұрын
This man still foine! My God….. . Salute fellas, yall did yall big one! 🙌🏽❤️
@christinepalmer5015
@christinepalmer5015 2 ай бұрын
Fond on the outside only!
@Razzbme
@Razzbme 17 күн бұрын
Blair is one of our most underrated Black actors out there! I always loved this man! His acting is flawless and even though I don't know him personally, he has always come off as such a great person. I don't ever recall hearing him in any type of scandal.
@Nnamdus
@Nnamdus 3 ай бұрын
Excellent conversation. Thanks yall!
@MissHello-bs2nl
@MissHello-bs2nl 3 ай бұрын
The people that are saying "HE LOOKS HAPPY" aren't looking at his soul!💔 Dressing up and having a "new hairline" is what's masking his DEEP inner struggle. He's not happy, and the new wife "going everywhere with him" sounds like she is already insecure based on how she got him. Theyre always great/peaceful on the side but then you get the EVERDAY lady, you ran from in the previous union. None of their consciouses are sitting well, theres dis-ease in the union.🚫🚻⛔️ He's a great actor, but you can't out-perform what I can sense on a spiritual level. Wish the Ex-wife PEACE & EMOTIONAL RECOVERY!🙏🏾🥀
@SuiteTaBuByA
@SuiteTaBuByA 3 ай бұрын
I literally smiled throughout this whole interview. I had the opportunity to meet Mr. Underwood once with my dad, such a class act in person and on screen in terms of peoples personal lives that’s their business in terms of his professional career. It has been beautiful to watch and to see how he has stewarded the image of a classy, successful, respectable black man I can only imagine how much sacrifice went into having to turn things down while stewarding very consciously this image.
@christinepalmer5015
@christinepalmer5015 2 ай бұрын
He sure as he'll didn't respect his marriage, wife or children! So sad!!
@ameedahmawalin3227
@ameedahmawalin3227 9 күн бұрын
Blair hands down!!! No competition. First saw on 21 jump street, crush groove. In LA Law was brilliant. Just Cause was gruesome. Have been in awe during entire career. Fine and brilliant actor. Was also in tv show with one letter. Believe it was Z. He is on my bucket list to meet.
@alishadtm
@alishadtm 3 ай бұрын
Well done interview. I posted my initial comment during the broadcast, but wanted to come back and thank you all for asking in-depth questions that allowed us to see Blair's intelligence and hear his wisdom, off screen. Although, I'm side eyeing the best friend situation, not in an accusatory way, but one that proves caution and boundaries are necessary, I believe this podcast showcased how well-spoken he is. Blair presents himself and his knowledge in a very classy way, as Jalon pointed out. A preferred on-screen talent, with an off-screen pull! Thanks, Nice & Neat! Continued success to you all!
@TheChrissybabe92
@TheChrissybabe92 3 ай бұрын
Loved the interview. But he definitely had Josie in the back of his head. lol
@kristenf3076
@kristenf3076 14 күн бұрын
Especially with her sitting right in the room ! Lol
@Sharkj84
@Sharkj84 3 ай бұрын
Denzel Washington does not belong in that category. He is in a class all by itself.
@FoougieTV
@FoougieTV 2 ай бұрын
Denzel is a stonecold cheater.
@Cherizar555
@Cherizar555 2 ай бұрын
Hello gentlemen! I grew up in the hood and it was a lot like the environment depicted in 'Set It Off.' This movie took me on an emotional roller coaster. As well written as it was, I, to this day have a hard time watching it again. I waited about ten years before I watched it again. I felt as though I knew all the main characters because I knew people so similar to them in my neighborhood. Lastly, it is so refreshing to hear black men sitting and talking and not being afraid to express terms of endearment toward one another...love it!!!
@annak706
@annak706 2 ай бұрын
Blair Underwood got me here Subscribed Such a respectable podcast Thank you guys for yout time With so much love respect and support from upstate NY ❤️
@ccblessed2
@ccblessed2 2 ай бұрын
As a woman..this was my first episode...I really enjoyed the interview/conversation. Yes I watch all the way to end! I loved the questions and answers so direct.. yes, Blair us "Classy"..I cried in response to what kids wrote etc. Just had let you guys this eas AWESOME!
@chaundasumara
@chaundasumara 3 ай бұрын
As a generation Xer I luved some Blair. He was the older boy crush for us teenagers of the 90's.
@jrh4707
@jrh4707 2 ай бұрын
That’s why i don’t trust those female besties when it comes to my man 💅🏾
@christinepalmer5015
@christinepalmer5015 2 ай бұрын
And you're right not to trust them! I'm pretty sure he and the current wife flirted and discussed a lot of, what is! F***ING shame the disrespect they both displayed!!!
@denisemoody3268
@denisemoody3268 6 күн бұрын
I definitely enjoyed this interview! Continued success Blair Underwood.
@randyvixamar3072
@randyvixamar3072 3 ай бұрын
Great episode was very enlightening. Glad to know more about Blair Underwood. Didn’t realize I was watching him for years all this time. Ya getting big out here keep it up. 💯
@theevelynexperience
@theevelynexperience 3 ай бұрын
Absolutely loved this episode!!!! ❤
@rosecoloredglasses67329
@rosecoloredglasses67329 3 ай бұрын
It is so good to hear from this brother. I’ve been a fan of Blair Underwood for a very long time.
@breannadorsett9570
@breannadorsett9570 3 ай бұрын
Yesss boys👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👑 I’m rooting for yall man!! Yall are jst growing and evolving! I’m sooo happy to see it. I love yall deeply man. Congrats on another milestone episode!!!🎉
@christamoore7461
@christamoore7461 3 ай бұрын
Blair! My #2 Top 5 celebrity crushes of all time. Love you long time 😂❤❤🙌🏽
@teer7044
@teer7044 2 ай бұрын
1. Denzel ... 2.blair 3.morris 4.shamar....All Gorgeous handsome intelligent black beautiful kings🤴🏾
@WilliamsPinch
@WilliamsPinch 2 ай бұрын
😂 oh really, kings lol
@teer7044
@teer7044 2 ай бұрын
@@WilliamsPinch ...hate much🤣🤣
@datruth470
@datruth470 3 ай бұрын
Ladies….I don’t care what he says….keep a distance from your man’s female friends.
@RealLadi228
@RealLadi228 3 ай бұрын
You better say that.. It was definitely 3 of them..I know from experience you can fall hard in love without physical contact
@baderinwa1
@baderinwa1 2 ай бұрын
Marriages end for many different reasons. People change, they grow, and sometimes fall out of love. If one party in the relationship has lost interest, you cannot force them to be with you. Divorce, like other losses in life, can be very painful. We must give ourselves time to mourn the loss, heal , then move forward.
@williamdhassan3541
@williamdhassan3541 2 ай бұрын
What a gift u brothers just gave us ! Thank you
@yoshiayouman7777
@yoshiayouman7777 3 ай бұрын
Well done, gentleman! 🎉🎉
@PrettyyChocolate
@PrettyyChocolate 18 күн бұрын
Blair is just everything and the amount of class and articulation on this podcast from handsome black men is crazy 🎉🎉🎉
@Elizabeth-wz2cj
@Elizabeth-wz2cj 2 ай бұрын
Great Interview 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤
@theresacry9466
@theresacry9466 3 ай бұрын
Great interview! But they made me feel old starting with Set It Off...I still remember him playing Denise Huxtable's boyfriend and his time on L.A. Law. Great actor and incredibly classy gentleman.
@AT-zl6dk
@AT-zl6dk 3 ай бұрын
Yes lol 😆
@DeeDiamond2981
@DeeDiamond2981 2 ай бұрын
Yessss LA Law is such añ awesome show.. I should rewatch
@lindadavis6567
@lindadavis6567 2 ай бұрын
Glad to have tuned in loved the conversation
@Kenesha_
@Kenesha_ 3 ай бұрын
Morris Morris Morris lol Always a fan! You guys keep raising the bar! 🔥✊🏾
@ms.sag-gurl1833
@ms.sag-gurl1833 3 ай бұрын
Aaaaand Morris! I know that’s right.😅😅
@WilliamsPinch
@WilliamsPinch 2 ай бұрын
And ONLY Morris 😂
@Heymrsj
@Heymrsj 3 ай бұрын
So i'm listening to this as a 27 y/o wife (i'm a black woman as well). Blair said "what do you do with it, how do you respond to it?" "What do you do with something that could be an attraction or test?" You FLEE as The Lord instructs men to. Temptations and sin come as tests to see if we resort to or retreat back to God's word and values. This is beautiful bullshit to say the least, it seems like his heart already knew where it was, but he tried to commit to the marriage as long as possible, also I noticed the emphasis on her looks, remember "beauty is vain and charm is deceitful" (Prov. 31:30), but it really does feel like that old flame still burns kind of situation and I think that's why so many men/women can easily transition to these kinds of relationships/marriages because it feels like a long wait for the "right" time. No, unless there is infidelity or death that first wife/husband is YOUR spouse- you are required and urged to keep it a 3 strand cord. That doesn't mean take abuse nd things like that, but to continue to correct the marriage in Christ for any ways or habits that are not of him. The Lord found a way to give the Israelites grief and grace even though they exhausted all of their mercy with him; then we can stand in marriage and fight through the thick, it's not for us it's for GOD meaning the goal is for us to present one another back to the Lord spotless and in salvation. "Love your wives as Christ loved the Church" and let me tell you the church itself is to be pure, spotless, protected, but as a result of people's own hearts it became stubborn, tarnished, and out of place- the world was AGAINST their marriage because it was so strong; but the Lord LOVES his "bride" (the church) so much that he continued/s to invest his all into her redemption and purity so their marriage could stay as one and stand in TRUTH. You don't let that go even if it may "work" with someone else that's a possibility for anyone, the point is once they are yours they are YOURS. Also, as a man married and of God, you should not be involving yourself in ANY roles that deviate from God's message even if it's a character; theres no open marriage, polyamory, swinging, none of that.
@wealth3491
@wealth3491 3 ай бұрын
Shut up. Quit acting like everyone who married has done so under the approval of God. If someone married for the wrong reasons and realized that afterwards and there heart is elsewhere, they do have a right to go according to the desires of their heart. Hopefully they can do this without committing adultery and be honest, but to stay there and know you’re not happy…I’ll be damned.
@Heymrsj
@Heymrsj 3 ай бұрын
@@wealth3491 Do you always carry this bitter of a spirit to be so damn rude to someone who you don't even know? Straight weirdo. And yeahhhh, you missed my whole..point...i'm talking about the fact that yes, we can absolutely marry for the wrong reasons, but that's because we are after the desires of our OWN heart. I'm sorry your incompetence and self-inflicted ignorance led you to believe I meant God's way has been everyone's standard. It hasn't been. It's also not everyone's given path to be married! Some people God will keep single. However, if we're going to be married there ARE criteria on BOTH ends. But, the one thing I heard none of was how God was between the choice to leave the old marriage and start a new one. This is actually why marriage should NOT happen until we understand God's reason, because we end up insufficient when things are not in place the way we thought, then we have no source to go to for guidance and by the time we go to God we've exhausted all our options when he should be first. These standards should be taught and represented more and more, but they're not and unfortunately most o us don't listen anyways. Our "happy" and God's happy should be the same, but we put too much trust in flesh and human connection that we end up unfulfilled for the wrong reasons. Now, in the case of abuse, violence, infidelity, things like that- that's different.
@Bedoubleu
@Bedoubleu 22 күн бұрын
Once a pastor told me you should not get married if you didn’t feel like the person you were marrying was who you would choose if you could have anybody you wanted to be married. I think a lot of people settle in marriages sometimes because the person they really desire is not available.
@shanellejohn
@shanellejohn 2 ай бұрын
Bill Bellamy is insane! Who would put him on that list?
@gwendolyngriffin2798
@gwendolyngriffin2798 3 ай бұрын
I’ve been a fan since the 80’s when Blair played Bobby Blue on One Life To Live….
@pilar8ful
@pilar8ful 3 ай бұрын
Excellent episode
@Bedoubleu
@Bedoubleu 23 күн бұрын
Blair is on the top of that list for me
@16Roxton
@16Roxton 2 ай бұрын
Loved this interview!!
@brendagrant9382
@brendagrant9382 15 күн бұрын
He's a very intelligent, handsome, and a great actor. Congrats to your new marriage, and how you andvyour children and ex- wife handle the divorce. May God bless you all.🙏🏾
@Daniii9393
@Daniii9393 3 ай бұрын
Ladies open your eyes is all I have to say….stop being desperate at remainnn single until God himself comesss
@yaqar3689
@yaqar3689 3 ай бұрын
1. Blair 2. Morris 3. Denzel (Lorenz Tate) 4. Boris 5. Shamar (No Bill 😁)
@tehrag.1138
@tehrag.1138 3 ай бұрын
Agreed...Bill Bellamy does not belong on this list AT ALL, lol. 😆
@AT-zl6dk
@AT-zl6dk 3 ай бұрын
Blair on Set it off Was something Beautiful to see
@DeeDiamond2981
@DeeDiamond2981 2 ай бұрын
*Shemar Moore and Kristoff St John from Young and Restless RIP
@seann54
@seann54 2 ай бұрын
Do y’all at least find Bill Bellamy attractive? Just curious because he was in “ How to be a player” and the lead role at that.
@queengoines7659
@queengoines7659 Ай бұрын
He is so beautiful and I pray that all goes well for them❤❤
@rybackfrankie8679
@rybackfrankie8679 3 ай бұрын
Great interview. This guy is such a class act and an excellent actor. Very good role model as well. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@Teri-u8h
@Teri-u8h 3 ай бұрын
Would love to also see Blair w/ wife on the Dear Future Wifey podcast with Laterras. He seems to be such a sweetheart behind the Hollywood scene.❤
@Noneofyabusiness1
@Noneofyabusiness1 2 ай бұрын
Very good interview. I especially LOVE how the Nice & Neat Podcast are so classy. For those of us that are tired of listening to "BROKEN" Grammer and Ghetto speech. You all are decent and orderly.
@soleneptune9498
@soleneptune9498 3 ай бұрын
This smells suspicious i don’t know but it sounds great but it smells suspicious
@robertclarke5144
@robertclarke5144 2 ай бұрын
Good to see/ hear Mr Underwood…BIG fan…one of the most underrated actors in the industry(imo) Great in the HBO series In Treatment…
@teer7044
@teer7044 2 ай бұрын
Blair speaks truth...took me 3yrs to know it was over (27yrs marriage)...b4 we both knew we stop growing together...Blair nailed it...
@christinepalmer5015
@christinepalmer5015 2 ай бұрын
Blair was NOT honest with his ex-wife! He was in love with his current wife the whole time he was married!
@lynj0hn
@lynj0hn 2 ай бұрын
I have loved Blair Underwood since LA Law. He is a phenomenal actor and so very handsome 💗😍
@terricunningham3965
@terricunningham3965 3 ай бұрын
Blair Underwood is forever fine 😍
@domj8504
@domj8504 2 ай бұрын
Denzel Washington, Blair Underwood, Morris Chestnut, Larenz Tate, Omar Epps were definitely the fine actors of an era 🥰
@Mack462
@Mack462 2 ай бұрын
Love love Set It Off my favorite part was at the end Jada watching on the bus! Up against the world!
@springgeorge3109
@springgeorge3109 2 ай бұрын
Blair Underwood is such a n amazing iconic actor and heartthrob, I can’t even handle him playing the bad guy! He’s too good at playing bad, it messes me up!!!
@beu2543
@beu2543 3 ай бұрын
Bill Bellamy was never in the ranking 😂 Should’ve said Lorenz Tate!
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast 3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@AT-zl6dk
@AT-zl6dk 3 ай бұрын
I was like who lol Absolutely not lol 😆 Larenz Tate always and forever
@AT-zl6dk
@AT-zl6dk 3 ай бұрын
Heck they could of said Will Smith lol
@AT-zl6dk
@AT-zl6dk 3 ай бұрын
But he did more Big Box movies Not black films in the 90’s - 2000’s
@beu2543
@beu2543 3 ай бұрын
@@AT-zl6dk Will Smith still my crush to this day 😂
@WilliamsPinch
@WilliamsPinch 2 ай бұрын
I had a male BFF for 15yrs whom I defended to my ex a million times, but when he got into a relationship, he dropped me FAST. 😂 he later revealed he always hoped he and I would get together. So I don’t believe in men having attractive, platonic friends. Nice try tho Blair!
@InspiringYoungLady
@InspiringYoungLady 22 күн бұрын
Same and exactly. All my close male friendship became more distant once they were in a a serious relationship. As it should. Men consciously or not use female friendship as a source of emotional intimacy (happens on both sides actually), once they find it elsewhere, your friendship is naturally downgraded. And if the friendship stays the same after he is an committed relationship, he is settling for someone he doesn't like/trust, and/or is still hoping to have s chance with you.
@FamilyAffair2012
@FamilyAffair2012 3 ай бұрын
Denzel Washington Blair Underwood Shemar Moore Morris Chestnut
@roea7846
@roea7846 3 ай бұрын
This was another great interview. Wishing Blair and his new wife nothing but the best. It is nice to see men who want to give marriage another try. Much blessings to all you men.
@BelindaMatlock
@BelindaMatlock 2 ай бұрын
I remember him first from LA Law.
@jameswilson1522
@jameswilson1522 3 ай бұрын
Incredible ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
@carolbrown605
@carolbrown605 2 ай бұрын
I LOVED the Elsbeth episode. ❤❤❤
@ashbuggie1
@ashbuggie1 3 ай бұрын
Great episode
@LisaHurt-r9u
@LisaHurt-r9u 12 күн бұрын
Blair is #1
@malikabernard966
@malikabernard966 3 ай бұрын
Great interview guys! All of you asked very good questions. Blair Underwood is such a treasure to the world of acting. You can tell that he is very passionate about his craft. He also speaks so lovingly about his family.
@paigegibbons6080
@paigegibbons6080 3 ай бұрын
Nah this one was it! Good job 👏🏾
@jazzyangie9294
@jazzyangie9294 2 ай бұрын
Simply Beautiful! Mr. Underwood presents class & that 1 % thug to tug your hair, 🙆🏽‍♀️always been a fan. Love this interview, he was respectful to all, like he said his divorce was a process long before they shared with the public... I send love health wealth abundance and prosperity, Thank you for sharing your journey with us..✨💛🤍
@joylettecasey6215
@joylettecasey6215 5 күн бұрын
My favorite clip of Set If Off? When Jada called Blair on the phone frome Mexico and Blair answered! Then they both said nothing! That was Powerful because Blair knew it was Jada calling.....during BREAKING NEWS! Jada was the only Survivor In Set It Off! Jada still had all of that bank money, while speaking to the Bank Manager? Cliff Hanger!
@Intentionalwithlelum
@Intentionalwithlelum 3 ай бұрын
How is this man still this fine?? Wow
@shareenladd1048
@shareenladd1048 3 ай бұрын
Blair Underwood❤❤❤❤❤
@hobbyphotographystudio
@hobbyphotographystudio 3 ай бұрын
I just watched Mr. Underwood in a Netflix movie! Recommended.
@1960pyl
@1960pyl 8 күн бұрын
Underated, Blair Underwood
@Liz-uk8qo
@Liz-uk8qo 9 күн бұрын
HEY THIS IS MY COUSIN JOSIES HUBBY! YES, WE ARE FAMILY, ALWAYS LOVED BLAIR IN HIS MOVIES, CHILDHOOD FRIENDS NOW MARRIED, SHE IS MY DAD'S NIECE (UNCLE CHRIS RIP), WE HAVE A BEAUTIFUL FAMILY!
@Appplecidder
@Appplecidder 3 ай бұрын
how did he get finnnnner.. sheesh....
@22danewb
@22danewb 2 ай бұрын
Mannnn he is well preserved!! So is Larenz Tate!
@wealth3491
@wealth3491 3 ай бұрын
Reading the comments, we have to understand how to not be bitter when love has run its course for whatever reason(s). I respect the direction he took overall.
@MissHello-bs2nl
@MissHello-bs2nl 3 ай бұрын
Bitter??? You can't judge folks for not wanting to see their ex-HUSBAND with a CLOSE FRIEND...especially months after the divorce.🙄 It was VERY INSENSITIVE at minimum to do it with a friend THAT FAST. Swap out Blaire for a man you loved deeply and YOUR FRIEND...your views will be radically different. His ex wife has emotions, 27 years worth of attachment and care. Theres millions of women, you don't put your ex wife in an uncomfortable situation like that EVER!! Honestly, it's giving lazy and insecure. He chose whatever was IN PROXIMITY..it's lazy. And the new wife is scared too, hence why "SHE GOES EVERY WHERE HE GOES"👀 Who's following a busy man all around near 70🤦🏾‍♀️ ....she know he has other long term friends that CAN BE NEXT!!
@wealth3491
@wealth3491 3 ай бұрын
@@MissHello-bs2nl it was no longer about the wife. It’s was about his hearts desire.
@MissHello-bs2nl
@MissHello-bs2nl 3 ай бұрын
And that's where DISCIPLINE & INTEGRITY comes in.🚷 If a man's "heart"desires an underage girl or someone else who's still married, should he be intimate with them? NO! It was about a boundary of INTEGRITY that was crossed, and I'm sure the wife was NOT okay with it. His "best friend"/new wife was single 7 YEARS after her divorce(not trying to be disrespectful) but she's not that great or exceptional or should would have BEEN married to someone else after her 1st marriage LONG AGO. He had options and the children's GOD MOTHER should have been off limits. It sounds crazy, saying "you're dating your child's godmother" That means that the lady was ENTRUSTED by the ex-wife. It's not ok, no matter how romantic he OR you tries to paint it.🙄
@wealth3491
@wealth3491 3 ай бұрын
@@MissHello-bs2nl he respected his marriage and don’t get with her until well after he was married. Wtf are you taking about an under aged child when this isn’t the topic? No need to paint a picture that isn’t present. Regardless, these two divorced adults did wtf they wanted to do!
@christinepalmer5015
@christinepalmer5015 2 ай бұрын
It's not being bitter. He humiliated his ex-wife, and the current wife contributed. They both better make sure theirs no best friend of the opposite sex hanging around because karma is waiting!
@tendaichigariro6083
@tendaichigariro6083 3 ай бұрын
1. Blair Underwood 2. Denzel washington 3. Boris Kodjoe 4. Rick Fox 5. Johnny Gill 6. Common
I thought one thing and the truth is something else 😂
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