Nick Cannon's Polyamorous Relationships, The Power Of Choice & MORE! | Asking For a Friend | Blavity

[@Childofthemoonandsea]

This is really a conversation about character and integrity. Whether monogamous or polyamorous it’s about being completely honest with yourself and your partner(s). Some people are living their best solo or coupled lives because they deal in truth. So many gems were dropped here. I really appreciate the conversation and I learned a lot.

[@DoesItReallyMatter25]

She’s so great! I found her during her G3 era and have been missing her since! This woman is so down to earth and I’m looking forward to more!!! 😆😆😆

[@Blavity]

An OG !

[@sdhsn774]

This woman is not down to earth, she just can talk. One of those people who sound smart to a dummy.

[@DoesItReallyMatter25]

@@sdhsn774 lmaoooo Well what do you call a person that wastes their time commenting on something they don’t like or agree with, dummy? 😳😮‍💨 Do the world a favor and go play in the busiest traffic you can find 💯

[@cbusjones2657]

@@DoesItReallyMatter25 you called him a dummy for commenting on somebody they didn't agree with but then turned around and commented on disagreeing with him. Not too smart.

[@lapx1]

Demons are smart

[@ymoslee3865]

Yes women ! Put yourself in a position of power while dating !

[@UnlistedAccount]

Men are not guaranteed to be the biological parent like women, men get paternity security through a woman's behavior. Through her being on his program. We are not the same biologically, so we don't have the same needs, so we don't play by the same rules. Your value as a life partner is determined by the market and the market is men. This lady is literally a former corn star. All this wanting to normalise astronomical bodycounts and trying to bodyshame men is just an attempt to lower the bar. Because no man she respects would ever put a ring on her.

[@MrStaano]

You dont have the power, certainly not after 30. Men rule deal with it.

[@mobellescorner9702]

Great conversation, me personally, I guess I’m old but I hardly want to be bothered with one man let alone multiple. I hate talking to more than one person for a long period of time. It’s so exhausting making time for each of them. I’m an introvert and it’ll suck the life out of me if I’m working m-f, mother when I get home, date Friday night, Saturday and Sunday with different guys. It’s fun at first but then it turns into a job and I end up leaving them all alone.

[@lisaschooler9992]

Sounds like for you It would be double the work but none of the extra enjoyment. As another introvert, I can totally understand!

[@jeanettesdaughter]

INTJ me too! When I was just single and dating, keeping up with all of them was too much and thinking about having sex with all of them. To hell with that! It got where I had to recollect: wait, who is this I’m kissing right now.⁉️ Nope. I’m a serial monogamist. One at a time. I’m all in and I need breathing room, too and I hope he has something else to do besides me. Love the conversation tho. What I see in Atlanta: these women are man sharing whether they know it or not. When are you going to bring STDs and unplanned pregnancies into this adult conversation ? There is that reality ya know.

[@jeanettesdaughter]

Memo to INTJ self: I just can’t have all these people on me and in me. Tried that. Ewwwww. Too merch! Remember Pepe le Pew⁉️😂

[@mobellescorner9702]

@@jeanettesdaughter I think it’s funny that you’re an INTJ because so am I 🤣. I guess INTJs can’t handle dating multiple men at a time 🤣

[@jeanettesdaughter]

@@mobellescorner9702 we cannot. overstimulating. superfocsed on the beloved tho if we ever find him or her.

[@aeshaalberts7560]

I really really love Elisabeth! I would totally sit down and talk to her about my dating life lol

[@churchroadrecordsreviewsan231]

Ye..and I bet you at the end of that your ass will be single because she only gonna tell you things that men don't agree with because no man want a woman with multiple men and who is sleeping around and that will leave you single

[@Mimichellee]

I love how she reinvented herself from Karrine Stephens aka Superhead to Elizabeth

[@DrCareyYazeedTV]

Yes to the bracket system 👏🏾👏🏾

[@Incognito_Icon]

This should really have more views! Gotta love Elisabeth💗💗 A conversation for grown folks.

[@FancyMissLady]

I love her bracket system for dating. It makes so much sense! If we’re considering having children..the clock doesn’t stop ticking, and finding a good suitor to start a family with isn’t easy…especially in todays current pool of “men.”

[@Blavity]

I'm a fan of the bracket.

[@user-jj6uo4xg2i]

Yes. Men are the source of all your problems. It's never you.

[@rick3y0]

Men? How about women?

[@GG-hereheyguys]

Love it ! Definitely going to use the bracket method 💯🎉✨

[@micalaking1904]

So glad I found this podcast

[@Blavity]

Welcome! How DID you find us?

[@micalaking1904]

@@Blavity Tiktok!

[@Yoyosworld]

I love her!!!!! She’s so real and authentic ❤️

[@misguidedpearls7456]

I love it.. I did the rule dating thing before.. But not as deep details bc i didn't do it that long... But she's 100 percent right Its the best way to date... It really works.. Men will work harder... Its real

[@user-jj6uo4xg2i]

And what work do women do? Women very quick to talk about men needing to work harder, but I never hear them speak on their work or what they bring to the table other sex or their support, aura etc.

[@kwadwoamponsah]

Elizabeth …is a whole wave of maturity and accountability 👏🏿. Great content.

[@AfuaYmani]

This gives so much clarity. I have a number one but I can't call him my frontrunner because he's not running to the front (he's not ready for a relationship). But I can him my #1 and see who knocks him out of his spot. I like it!

[@ayancorran3903]

I think this woman is so amazing! I want to be on her bracket so bad lol

[@nicolinadarling7039]

The definition of solo polyamory is really inaccurate here. It’s a legitimate form of polyamory that involves the individual not desiring a nesting partner (a live-in partner) or combined finances. In general, they prefer their autonomy, but they still partake in consensual relationships/situations. Let’s not misinform the peeps! But beyond that, I love seeing the polyamorous conversation. It’s wonderful to see. 💓

[@antisocialbutterfly8901]

Kay. And how did she describe it?

[@blaire4698]

She legit said that lol

[@nicolinadarling7039]

I recommend rewatching the video. She describes solo poly much differently than what I wrote above.

[@stasiagoro8720]

You must not have fully watched the video

[@kellyedavis7785]

Men cannot deal with knowing they are 1 of….

[@nonealike]

Only if they have feelings for you

[@cbusjones2657]

@@nonealike Exactly. I'd prefer if a chick told me straight up if she was talking to other guys because I'd find out anyway.

[@kikibernard2716]

@@cbusjones2657 you one of a kind a lot of men can’t handle that

[@alexvirola864]

In highschool when guys want some and they find out whos giving it up. That's who they want for sex. If you end up liking her, your foolish. Tip, this doesn't change in adulthood

[@shayemoore]

Who cares what they cannot deal with. Just tell tell how it is, either they'll accept or not. I told a man he's 1 of 2. I don't hide anything.

[@ElizaLovez]

ugh i love you Elizabeth!!! you're the shit 🔥🔥

[@indi5]

Child she taught us in her book, to rank them! 1 through 5

[@AfuaYmani]

The bracket is the dating rotation. The benches are dudes on the dating roster. I can relate. I like to keep a rotation of three.

[@Teez.T]

*takes notes on bracket*

[@Blavity]

ok?! May the best person win!

[@louisianacookingwithkay]

This was sooo freak'n interesting 🤭

[@livingfre6507]

Solo poly is an ethical form of polyamory where you consider yourself your primary partner and have multiple partners. What’s described here is considered unethical non-monogamy and non-consensual.

[@thisblackgirlsaidso]

I’d honestly never heard of solo poly, but your interpretation makes sense to me.

[@user-jj6uo4xg2i]

There's no such thing as solo poly. Seeing multiple people is just called dating.

[@berlingrace634]

When you meet the right one every selling your body and brain will know it it will not be complicated at all

[@anthonymckenzie5182]

I'm your host Elisabeth ovesen Me: Who? 😂

[@ladylady7848]

🤣🤣

[@SoulBeauty1111]

Wow! I’ve been dating wrong my whole life! 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@pamnova9]

this is soooo good too!!!

[@blacklatinabutterflycortez6354]

The bracket system wouldn't work for me. But I'm glad it does for other women and gives them a sense of empowerment. I like seeing females take charge of their own lives against patriarchy.

[@ManifestingTammy]

I love the bracket

[@tylercollins1049]

Question: Would you be cool with being a number in a man's bracket? And would you like competing with other women? And how/why did all of these relationships end? Lastly; Do you intend to date multiple ppl & be unmarried for the rest of your life? No judgement at all, just curious

[@AfuaYmani]

You can date multiple people without them having to know about each other. Like I'm not sharing names, just know that we are not exclusive until we agree to go exclusive. No one needs to know how many men I'm dating. The number is always changing anyway. Just know that I'm single.

[@dreface2]

So this is NOT Karrine Steffans?!

[@imher2462]

It is!

[@vickikendricks1605]

I love you and I'm proud of you ☺️

[@GoodGoodGuyaneseGirl]

I'm look forward to us having the conversation about having multiple husbands

[@MimiSteel]

Her last comments, yes

[@Nay-wd1tp]

😂😂she's great!!!

[@s.s.marshall4320]

Brilliant

[@MK-ru9xp]

A women living the lifestyle of a man never ends well ..

[@lydelltucker2372]

What "man" is gonna stick around while you make him compete for your love? Only calling them by your number? Lies but ok. Great show BTW!

[@NatalieTheRican]

For real. I don't know any man that would stick around for this, unless they are on a reality dating show LOL

[@stinajennings2311]

Least they know and they love it so let them do their thing. It's possible to love more than one woman, so he making it work without having to sneak around and lie. And he gets a different one when he chooses. I do wonder if a woman had multiple knowing mates would all the men be faithful to just her or would they step out. Could multiple men be okay with all dating one woman and no one else? I don't think so. No man would be all in with one woman knowing she has 6 of him already and whenever she wanted. But for Nick and most men this works. Like all her baby daddy's are all her partners. I believe alot of this already goes on but the men and the women just cheat and lie to be with them whenever. They are just accepting, logical and opened minded about the situation. And you can't help who you love. They need to just all move in together. This is a good way to keep him involved in all his kids lives and a connection to each of his kids mothers. It's a win win. No bitterness with the new chic tryna dictate when and if he can see the kid. It allows his situation to work however it needs to work so everyone is taken care of and happy( kids, the women, and Nick)

[@jeanettesdaughter]

Are you kidding me⁉️you can too help who you love! Whose in charge of you and your feelings but you⁉️ I do not believe in any helpless loving. Nonsense.

[@CrunchyTaterTot]

The bracket is big virgo energy lol

[@anthonymckenzie5182]

The top 20% of men have access to 80% of women while that same 80% of women only look at the top 20% of men. Women don't have options they just choose to put themselves back in rotation.

[@jimiboiSD]

Why Is Karrin steffins calling her self elizabeth 🤔🤔🤔🤔

[@Aayah9]

Karrine Steffans was a pen name. Elisabeth is her real name.

[@aeshaalberts7560]

Lmao Karrine is her fake pen name

[@jimiboiSD]

@@aeshaalberts7560 every day SuperHead gotta new name lol

[@blackmancool9983]

I know her as SuperBrain. Okay fine SUPERHEAD. But she give that Gawk Gawk90000

[@lizzgrey1965]

Bracket 1. lil Wayne 2. Bow Wow 3. ? 4. ? 5. ?

[@lapx1]

Lot of wealthy desperate men out there.

[@churchroadrecordsreviewsan231]

Alot but they don't want no black women because they carry the most stds with their lifestyle choices

[@sdhsn774]

If you put a man on calling hours in the day time, he will never view you as the one. He'll smash for a while tho.

[@sdhsn774]

This woman said she put a number of years on her vows. Not forever for a couple years. You're not a wife, you're a rental.

[@GoodGoodGuyaneseGirl]

You sound like Islam, right?

[@cpeacenlove]

I think the men are the rentals, lol

[@Dokusist]

She missed the point with Chloe. Chloe is actually just afraid to be alone, but doesn’t want to commit. Her problem is not polyamory/monogamy, she’s afraid of commitment.

[@emanbrian]

In the Bible Sarah peaked at like 90 or 100 years of age. If you take care of your temple you will see results. Anti age body lotion and oils and soaps and bath treatments. By Karrine "fountain of you"

[@ominolene]

Nonsense

[@Official360]

Are these phone calls fake? They gotta be fake.

[@tomotombo]

My thing is multiple women is nothing like multiple men its not the same thing especially in a relationship dynamic

[@brandonhaygood6824]

It's not . That's why it's gonna end terribly

[@emanbrian]

Don't slip up and shout my name to another man.

[@jeanettesdaughter]

Yeah. That’s just oops!

[@emanbrian]

Ugh! Tell ya man to scratch ya carpet. You're welcome.

[@louisianacookingwithkay]

14:32 🗣️ Get a grip James!! Nino Brown as in New Jack City because that wouldn't make sense 🙄 Or Nino Brown as in Lil Wayne? You trying to be funny and witty?

[@alexvirola864]

This is insane. Some.

[@leggs4113]

So this isn’t Karrine Steffens 🧐🧐🤔🤔

[@Blavity]

It's Elisabeth Ovesen 🖤🖤🖤

[@Cocoaserendipity]

@@leggs4113 same person…

[@leggs4113]

@@Cocoaserendipity I thought so.

[@Trini190]

@@Blavity ok karrine aka super head! All the old heads know 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@cbusjones2657]

Notice how Blavity didn't want to acknowledge her "other" name. That's how you know this chick raggedy.

[@gunleejp]

Superhead a whole legend out here someone tell me how to get in contact with my baby 😊

[@aaliyahdiamond5227]

Is this Latrobe Stephen?

[@gangster8540]

Imagine people actually listening to her advice 💀 💀💀💀 you would be driving off a cliff 😂😂😂

[@forthdimension686]

I hate that's shes giving advice too but shes low key an hip hop icon.

[@cbusjones2657]

@@forthdimension686 Icon? I'm not sure that's the right word for what she is.

[@iPhone-rg1of]

People can evolve and change and who better to give advice, than someone who’s personally been through it. Who died and made you God? People love to hide behind keyboards, talking about people who don’t even have an idea who you are. Imagine that. Be blessed. ✌️

[@cbusjones2657]

@@iPhone-rg1of Yes, people can change however she clearly hasn't based on everything she's saying. Also I love the irony of you calling out people who criticize others behind a keyboard.

[@iPhone-rg1of]

@@cbusjones2657 there’s no irony in what I said… learn the definition of irony and then we can talk. Have a great day! Your comments are irrelevant to be honest and I hope you do some soul searching and figure out why you’re not able to be your true authentic self and why someone who’s standing in their truth bothers you. You don’t know her personally to say whether she’s changed or not. Pure delusion. ASÈ

[@truditrulove]

i LOVE this conversation. i’m an author & recently wrote a book about this. @theplanetkindnessbook. holla back. i’d love to be on this show.

[@SoulBeauty1111]

Wow! I’ve been dating wrong my whole life! 🤦🏽‍♀️