Bo Burnham Moments I'm Attracted To

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

In the tone of Bo Burnham before Turning 30 "yayyyyyy." I got a copyright claim today. Four days after I posted this video. Why do they have to do me like that? I am just trying to promote a feminist giraffe! 0:28 - 0:54 has to be muted now. I hope it's not too annoying!

[@youtubemiguel5431]

gzzz they are rejecting free publicity...

[@smileyfaceprodution]

Understandable. No worries. I heard it EXacTLy how Bo sang it. No need for audio. The audio already plays in my head.

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

@@smileyfaceprodution Thanks for understanding! The same thing happens for me too haha

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

@@youtubemiguel5431 I even used a remix of the song! I wish record labels would chill out with the copyright claims sometimes.

[@bayonetababe9697]

No problem. Even if you’re not a creator on KZbin you know how it goes with copyright claims. The heart of the video is still there and what you were trying to get across which I think we’re all here for.

[@beyoncealways2911]

Him and Hozier are on different sides of the “everyone loves them because of how they treat people with respect that deserve it” spectrum but they’re so valid and so similar

[@jt364]

Love to hear your thoughts on this a bit more? What are the sides?

[@beyoncealways2911]

@@jt364 so kind of like the political square thing but at the top bit it says “respects people” and the bottom says “doesn’t respect people” and on the left it says “is hated by many people” and the right “is loved by many people” and there’s Adam Sandler, Stan Lee, Draco Malfoy, Johnny Depp, and people that are just mean and that people don’t like like Piers Morgan, hozier and bo would be in the “soft” and “hardcore” squares of that box or there would be a venn diagram. It could also look like a line that starts at “poetic and romantic” and goes to “blunt and personal” and I think that’s where bo and hozier would be. The line would have the title “a chart of the men who respect people and how different they are in personality0

[@jt364]

@@beyoncealways2911 interesting take, thanks for sharing! If you're a hozier fan I'd recommend his chat with blindboy boat club on blindboys podcast, very revealing to a noob like me. Didn't really know him beyond his music, but it reveals how much of a artist he is. And he has some great hat tips to Irish folklore that he went into while building his house, very interesting conversation

[@thebranchorganics3721]

And both really tall

[@spectregoesboo5233]

Bo: Are you feeling nervous? *EYE CONTACT* Me: *sweats*

[@vinzo0913]

"You say the ocean's rising, like I give a shit, you say the world is ending, honey it already did" Probably my favourite quote from all of inside. That or ATL

[@goavs7438]

prolonged eye contact

[@vinzo0913]

@@goavs7438_prolonged eye contact_

[@goavs7438]

@@vinzo0913 *prolonged eye contact*

[@hiidrawstuff4534]

@@goavs7438 *pRoLoNgEd EyE cOnTaCt*

[@dizzymisslizzy8340]

He is definitely part of the group “men who were written by woman”

[@Th4t0n3.]

Yes

[@chesh1re_cat]

That's one way to put it. I guess you could also say he is a man that doesn't let masculinity define him

[@fool4343]

@@Jipski im pretty sure you missing the point. what women? the woman in the comment is metaphorical

[@mynameisnotthathardtospell8199]

@@Jipski that’s not what that means…

[@DGHeina]

@@Jipski that's not the point but ok

[@TheFreshTrumpet]

“That is awful, and it’s sexist too” fkn love this guy

[@Cashue530]

@@gavand_4423 if you can tell me one time that 'die alone with 20 cats' thing has ever been said to a guy then I will believe you. it's really sexist..

[@ExistentialIdiot]

@@gavand_4423 I mean she does confirm that no boy from her school got that superlative and usually each superlative has a boy and a girl chosen so it does seem gendered in that case

[@fonsecxv]

problematic was a thirst trap we know that and we fell for it

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

i read this and its all true

[@lucydaniel2699]

Oh it was 100% intentional

[@ghostii716]

it was definitely on purpose… and we still ATE. IT.UP

[@Everettalla]

Holy yeah

[@alexschneider1667]

Oh yeah, he was like “if I’m sweaty and partially naked they’ll ignore the problematic bit”

[@Juju-ug8ud]

bo: parasocial relationships are bad. celebrities will never love you & you will only ever love the idea of them me, twirling my hair: omg he's funny AND smart!! wow what a cool guy i would love to get to know him

[@madelinekaa6135]

this is the funniest and most valid comment in this entire comment section

[@hihihello1943]

oh my god

[@anastasianicolaenco4476]

HAHAHA IM FEELING SO CALLED OUT RN

[@susiemurray8599]

yeah me too. but honestly its a coping mechanism and i'm not harming anyone except myself so who cares

[@majortom4711]

@@susiemurray8599 In the past 3 weeks I've almost turned Bo into this mythical father figure in my mind

[@ahhhh913]

The fact that you didn't include the entirety of white woman's instagram is insulting

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

Yeah...I would have added the entirety of Inside if I could.

[@chrisshimizu308]

i came in hoping to see at least One shot of bo posing from white girl instagram, but also knowing that i might be the only person attracted to specifically the shot where he's on his knees in a big sweater taking selfies in a mirror and flipping his hair around

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

@@chrisshimizu308 I love that shot specifically too!

[@ImWeirdAndILikeIt]

@@chrisshimizu308 that shot and the one with the sweater and tube socks and no pants 🥵

[@Tracy7468]

Ok, but hear me out, the blinds shot. The lighting just makes him look like an angel and I just,,, akjckjhvjkvjeh

[@APerson-dz6bq]

I especially love the part where bo was talking to the girl who had been voted most likely have 20 cats when she’s older , The way he listen to her and really genuinely seem to care about her experience, like i absolutely love it

[@larousse1]

Yes fucking this, that was the best part of the video to me. I hadn't seen that and the whole "and that's supposed to be funny that's the kicker" but he was pissed off about it. I most of us knew those sorts of teens growing up.

[@gibuttersnaps2538]

He’s such a wonderful soul! That was my favorite part of the video, like the way he listened to her story and validated her feelings is a dream

[@ronnievinsmoke]

Yes!! I was always that girl in elementary/middle school because everyone knew I liked and had cats so they would always tell me I was going to be a crazy cat lady and when I would get offended they would be like well you like cats don't you? And like yeah but you obviously know that you're being an asshole don't try to play it off like it was anything else. By high school it was like engrained in me to be embarrassed about showing that I like cats like I wouldn't get those folders or notebooks that had kittens on them even though I thought they were cute because I was just sick of being made fun of like that. Sorry this was so long I just really appreciated him calling out that behavior lol

[@MultiNicoleG]

That's a great clip, I love how mad he was getting on her behalf! And he nailed it that it's gross because it's treated like "take a joke".

[@jennapeep18]

All of the “Eighth Grade” era interviews where he takes questions from the audience (usually college kids) are a balm to my soul. He really does listen to them and he gives such thoughtful, insightful answers to their questions. That clip (red sweater) is from the “92Y” interview, the entire thing is wonderful. Another one where he talks to college kids is “DePaul Visiting Artist” or something like that. If you look both of those up on KZbin, I’m certain you’ll be even more impressed by his intellect and empathy by the end of it! I can see from these interviews, and how he interacts with Elsie, that he has a real understanding of and connection to young people that I think is rare. He treats them respectfully like the humans they are, not like they’re just dumb kids.

[@norththelemon]

Him just like. Lounging on that couch ripping into some rich white kid. Yeah. That's good.

[@jennapeep18]

"I bet his grandmother wasn't a good person" absolutely kills me

[@Star_Rattler]

The way he's siting is doing something to me like. Yes Bo. Sit like a neurodivergent hot guy. Love u King.

[@tieflingcorpse9817]

@@Star_Rattler caught you indirectly calling me out in 4k

[@Star_Rattler]

@@tieflingcorpse9817 X'D honestly like the way he's fidgeting and leaning like. im so sorry normies could never sit like that. you know what no im not sorry. lgbt and neurodivergent people sit cooler and more fun than people who arent. we also have more back problems from hunching but shh we dont talk about that!!! epic user name btw

[@elizabethcarlson4992]

And the fact that he WASN'T man-spreading, like i-

[@jaelynlorin7336]

his height and lankiness gives me extreme gender envy

[@shankaka_99]

ranboo+bo burnham=gender envy

[@aceofspades2201]

@@shankaka_99 Y E S

[@jellyraptor3556]

SAME

[@hihihello1943]

just T A L L no gender

[@Emofishy666]

S A M E

[@saumya9173]

i'd marry the guy who has a poetic feminist thing going for him

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

tbh he's like the only irl man that i've known that would maybe be worth marrying lmao. I haven't talked to him in like 5 years though.

[@saumya9173]

@@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach oKAY you gotta hit this henry guy up maaaannnn!!

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

@@saumya9173 hahaha. I don't know if I have the guts for that. Maybe though??

[@charlotte8765]

@@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach do it

[@saumya9173]

@@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach well a stranger from india is rooting for you idk if that helps lmao

[@dee6294]

i'd let bo burnham watch my drink.

[@ellygracebelly]

Yep!

[@strongpowerthankyou9298]

oh my god I- yes.

[@partyhatjpeg]

I laughed at how Elsie had to lift her head so far up in the first clip cos of how Bo is basically a giraffe

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

I love how Bo can stand directly behind her and still have full visibility over her head. He really is a giraffe lol

[@Emofishy666]

i mean he is 6'5" 😳

[@marsd7947]

@@Emofishy666 wait what i thought he was like 6’2 what

[@junik7909]

Feminist energy is hot af

[@bunkle96]

If I made this video it would be several hours long, everything that brilliant string bean does is attractive to me

[@rh-ml5nv]

SAME AND FOR WHAT

[@ghostii716]

SAME 😩

[@xxjestertheclownxx]

ME

[@shankaka_99]

BRILLIANT STRING BEAN

[@hannahragis]

EXACTLY EVEN THE MANIACAL LAUGH IN WELCOME TO THE INTERNET WAS LIKE "woah heheh"

[@Maurenriques]

I was actually *actively* distracted by how good he looked in full HD closeups during the first 30mins of Inside _(actually all of Inside, but I'll pretend to have my shit together and say only 30 minutes)._ It was almost overwhelming

[@hotaruhime]

Totally agree. I also have a soft spot for all the blue shots in the special.

[@anastasianicolaenco4476]

"but I'll pretend I have my shit together" DUDE THIS IS SO RELATABLE

[@lesliebartsch2578]

@@hotaruhime yessss omg especially the one where he's watching a video of himself i think, the blue light and his long hair is just *chefs kiss*

[@hotaruhime]

@@lesliebartsch2578 Couldn't agree more ! I love it too ! The shadows and the serious look on his face... wow.

[@averagethegardenfan]

can we just say bo is attractive in the movie instead of calling ryan attractive..?

[@thaisuwu6427]

you do realize bad people can be physically attractive right? like like it or not Ryan IS attractive he just sucks

[@radinela9812]

You know, I think you are missing a big point that the movie was trying to make - terrible men can be just as attractive and likeable as any other man. Through the movie multiple people also discuss how lovely Al is even though we all know he isn’t. That’s the whole idea, especially with Ryan, you are supposed to see how well they can hide the fact that they are terrible people with their charm and attractiveness (and somewhat delusions because they believe they are actually good people)

[@dennydarkko]

It’s a character, relax. This is the internet, relax.

[@rvch883]

@@dennydarkko Welcome to the...

[@rvch883]

@@radinela9812 You are right. Ryan is actually the kind of guy you see in a lot of romcoms, he is tall, funny, cute and also tall again. Now, we never get to see the real nature behind those characters, girls are told to dream of them eventhought these love stories are even scary sometimes (think about that guy on the notebook trying to kill himself to get a date). Of course Ryan is attractive, of course that scene in the drugstore almost made me cry because of my loneliness, but not everything that shines is gold.

[@xxjestertheclownxx]

the thing about Ryan's character that makes him so attractive is that its practically bo playing himself but a bit flirty with an added but of shittyness to it. like his awkwardness and shit is really similar to how he presents himself in interviews and in videos of him meeting fans. we can think bad people are attractive. plus, thats kinda the point of Ryan's character in the first place. it was to show that when we fall in love we ignore red flags and that even the nicest seeming people can be awful.

[@seignee]

ryan? who is ryan

[@badqualitytv]

@@seignee the character Bo plays in Promising Young Woman! there’s a clip around 2:37 :)

[@madeleine61509]

Also, just because someone is not a positive factor in your life doesn't mean that they can't have decent moments that you find 'attractive' (literal or non-literal). Not that we should ignore the bad moments because of that, but it's still fair- especially for fictional characters- to say "Look at this moment. They're so attractive right here" as long as we keep it in perspective of the full picture. If we pretend like negative people in our life can't have 'attractive' moments, we're just going to end up gaslighting ourselves later down the road with thoughts like "well, last Thursday was a good day together, so even though they're abusive and manipulative 90% of the time, they do have decent moments.... so they can't be a bad person, right?"

[@whatthefuuuuuu4720]

the casting was on point. they took a man who seems awkward and harmless so we trusted him and automatically thought he was a good guy then, they surprised us by revealing that he's actually a bad person. he wasn't directly involved in the situation but he still stood and watched it happen while laughing, and even after that i was sure he would redeem himself and tell the police officer the truth /that's how badly i was rooting for him/ but he lied again! and that's scary because there are a lot of people like that in our lives... they're good on the surface but they stand by and let evil happen

[@mariasaizgarrido5582]

@@whatthefuuuuuu4720 Emerald, the movie's director actually did that for all of the rapist and/or rapist's friends and bystanders. She took actors who are known to play good, funny, cute guys, making us trust them and then tearing that "confort" that these specific actors give us, showing us they were all monsters. The casting really was brilliant

[@withlovejesse]

He was definitely written by women, and I stand by that

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

yesss. thats the only type of man that's worth it lol

[@way2dead4u]

you put it into words

[@terransage8857]

I’m sure his momma agrees!

[@sarahbearbabygirl]

the thing about ryan in PYW is that we are supposed to like him and he’s supposed to be cute and attractive, because even people that are funny and adorable and have good qualities can be rape apologists or support bad people etc etc. all the red flags aren’t meant to be noticed initially because that’s what happens when you fall in love, you ignore all the bad parts. basically i’m saying that you are valid because i would fucking love ryan if that past stuff about him didn’t exist, even the red flags can be seen as just banter or his personality if it wasn’t attached to such grotesque behavior. like responding to someone saying they love you by fist pumping and proclaiming you’ll buy them a bicycle is ADORABLE.

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

Thank you! I totally agree with all of this. I just meant that I watch the whole movie and could still go back to that clip and think he’s attractive after knowing he’s a rape apologist. It’s kinda fucked up, but I agree that the movie is set up to make you think that way. Idk we can just pretend it’s Bo and not that shithead Ryan lmao

[@ghostii716]

PERIOD!

[@brandong2142]

“Because through rose colored glasses all the red flags just look like flags” Bojack Horseman, I think…

[@livyp3488]

@@brandong2142 bojack horseman my beloved

[@shhtrawberry1809]

Yes, when he invited her in on their first “date” I got nervous about him.

[@ALRs89pounds]

In ‘That’s How The World Works’ when he asks the sock ‘yes, what?’ I was like ‘YES DADDY’

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

YESS. That whole bit had me like 😳😓🔥

[@enwe6487]

Time stamp? :)

[@kennal9389]

@@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach same! But I got sick backlash from saying that! Like come on it’s hot af

[@kellywiggle1]

omg thank you for bringing that up because SAME

[@shanareilly6649]

mm hmm i likes me that part too

[@anniegorenflo8906]

Deep moments with Bo talking about sexism or anxiety *interspersed with gratuitous shots from Problematic* 🤣

[@mummifiedgoose]

5:15 to the end of the video = intellectual and physical sexiness together ❤

[@parxfilms2548]

Can I just say he’s so right about experience being in our heads. I feel like so much throughout my life I was told it’s only in your head. And I always just felt super invalidated. Like OK but I have to live in my head. All of the decisions I make and the feelings I feel and things I care about all come from my head. I’m so glad someone finally acknowledged that things being in your head are very real. Especially for people struggling with mental illness, I would love to remove the idea that some thing being in your head means you don’t actually experience it

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

Yesss I agree with all of this! Bo is so smart!

[@1Sariat5]

Lol yeah, something being in your head means you can't really escape it but have to learn to live with it (whether it is with medication or therapy or any other way)! Eventually more people will understand this concept better, or so I hope C:

[@DarthFloof]

I have pretty bad anxiety sometimes and like random things like a shirt being too tight give me bad anxiety or like big social functions i get so drained at and sometimes just can’t even fathom going to events bc I genuinely don’t feel like i can deal w socializing w lots of people and my mom gets upset w me for not going to family functions like that and shes like “you just dont wanna see anyone” and when i try to explain like no its not that my brain just cant handle people right now she’ll be like “change ur mindset” like wow thanks im fixed now 😅 sorry for being a little ranty but ur comment really resonated w me bc i feel like that all the time 😫

[@parxfilms2548]

@@DarthFloof im the same way. i have a lot of anxieties and i have severe panic attacks. some of them come from sensory things. some days my shirt doesnt feel right, my shoes squeeze wrong and my skin feels tight. Those things are valid. our subjective experience is the only one we get. there is no objectivity in our feelings. Please don't forget that your feelings are real and grounded and the stuff inside your head is almost more important to your life. take care of yourself

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

@@DarthFloof wow that must be so hard. I like to think parents try their best to support us, but sometimes they forget they don't know us as well as they think they do. I have social anxiety and when I get too overstimulated, someone's body language or tone of voice can be enough to give me a panic attack. It's hard to not feel like a burden sometimes, I get it. I hope you can learn coping mechanisms like I did, to help things not be so overwhelming. It's not always easy, but learning my triggers helped me be able to set boundaries with my family and let them know when I will need to remove myself from a situation. I hope you start to feel less overwhelmed soon! :)

[@rae__6938]

ok hear me out: PANDERING. him turning the can??? ARE YOU KIDDING?? one of the hottest moments ever no doubt.

[@AmandaR212]

YES YES AND THAT ANGLE WHERE HIS JAW IS SO PRONOUNCED AND HIS HAIR IS WAVIN SLIGHTLY IN THE WIND AND HIS VOICE IS THAT LOW DEEP DRAWL LIKE PLEASEEEE RELEASE ME FROM THIS TORTURE

[@saumya9173]

@@AmandaR212 fuckyeah

[@saltycracker2933]

that damn can turn makes me jizz in my overalls every time

[@iloveanimals17]

the KEY CHANGE

[@taraaawhatt]

Where is that?

[@ThiccyPhoenix]

As I was watching this I was so confused why he looked so freakishly huge and bro. BO BURNHAM IS 6’5 STRAIGHT UP 6 FOOT AND 5 INCHES

[@shankaka_99]

ranboo is one inch taller than him, i want a collab now

[@sabrinalocke2846]

I’m about to climb that man like a tree ❣️😌

[@mamiedubingo]

I'm a tiny ant if I have to stand next to him.

[@SC-sh5jw]

From God's perspective hits different with religious trauma

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

Yessss. That's exactly why I put it in the video! The religious trauma is very real lmao

[@bangtanbangtan7819]

I'm insanely attracted to that one part in White Woman's Instagram where he's posing in the circle mirror. Like, I'm not even kidding, I love it so much.

[@impatientarc2203]

YE SUE SYE SL YES

[@MikuCat11]

ugh, when he kissed that lady from a promising woman, I LOST IT

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

We can just watch that scene and pretend the rest of the movie didn't happen. Which is fucked up, but it'll be okay...

[@VQuaileggs]

ikr, i keep coming back to the pharmacy scene and feeling guilty as all fuck, but i'd tell myself "this is me swooning over bo himself, not fucking ryan"

[@rvch883]

@@VQuaileggs Same, haha. That scene is so cute, it made me feel so happy for her at first. Now when I see it I feel like when you wake up from a very beautiful dream and realize it wasn't real

[@MikuCat11]

I want to actually watch the movie because I have been hyperphixating on bo since inside, I watches a little bit of Zach stonr, but want to watch the movies she stared in

[@quincyhethey6220]

He’s so attractive I can’t And *tall*. 6’5!?! I’m 5’8 and he could make me look and feel short

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

I'm 5' 2" which is shorter than Elsie Fisher (the girl from eighth grade) so SAME! 👀😓

[@paranoidlust]

..i’m like 4’6.

[@dramaindiorama]

@@paranoidlust same

[@olivia-br9cq]

i'm 5'8" and i relate so heavily to the longing

[@Sarah-es3or]

He’s the same height as my dad😃

[@ratkid7188]

I honestly thing he has the most attractive personality of all. I would die to be his friend

[@hotaruhime]

The amount of times I've watched Problematic is kind of unhealthy at this point, oh my lord. I mean the song slaps, but DAMN he's on fire in this. Also, the clip of him calling out Elsie Fisher's drama teacher cracks me up every time. Great editing, you made my day ! I would have taken even more ! :)

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

ummm same!! My obsession with Problematic is concerning. Also, thank you so much! You're so nice!

[@victoriameadors6610]

SAME

[@Ambir91]

You're not alone! Who needs p0rnhub when we have Bo with wet hair in HD am i right ladies?!?!

[@victoriameadors6610]

@@Ambir91 MY EXACT IDEA

[@hotaruhime]

@@Ambir91 HELL YES !! Let’s not forget he also moans two times in this song, so I could not agree more ! (I know it’s meant to be funny but hey…!) XD And I really like his dance moves too. It is super simple and intuitive, yet he makes it look so hot, it’s driving me insane.

[@deepseavalkyrie559]

*A man artfully records himself having a total breakdown* The internet: "that's hot. that's so hot"

[@haliacrowells5777]

Ok so first, the entirety of INSIDE he is so incredibly attractive. Obviously not what I should be paying attention to, but it's true. Second, during All Eyes On Me and he turns to the camera I FELT my heart stop?? Like, this man really out here putting a damn spell on me with those gorgeous eyes of his smh

[@saumya9173]

bo: segues are weird this channel: *segues every clip with a clip of sweaty bo from 'problematic' from inside* ahahah i love this

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

THANK YOU!! I really just wanted an excuse to put in sweaty Bo without the audio. But he really does make a good segue lol

[@Mooshrambo]

I'm so glad I'm not the only one who found him very attractive in Problematic.

[@chillperson7589]

my favorite part about his new Netflix special "inside" was probably the "all eyes on me" song, and like he yelled at his camera/the viewers and just *wow*

[@f3nt0]

I love that song but the yelling definitely 'triggered' me a bit cause that's how my abusive ex used to yell. And the worst part is Bo in Inside looks A LOT like him. But dang it, Inside is SO GOOD and I'd always been a big fan of Bo

[@stellapark4579]

Why did KZbin read my mind, all I needed today was a bo burnham thirst trap video

[@shae7570]

is henry from description secretly hozier? there should be a service that just like gathers all the 6'4 poetic feminists

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

YESS! He had a very Hozier way about him! Now I'm sad lmao

[@veronikametelkova1672]

hey, just saying, i love you with my whole heart for putting timestamps and links.

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

Ily2. Thanks for appreciating my time stamps! It takes a while to link everything, so it feels nice to be appreciated.🥰

[@feboss7248]

@@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach I was gonna say the same thing! All the effort you put into these videos is really apparent, and it doesn’t go unnoticed!

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

@@feboss7248 Thank you sm! Wow, that is so nice! I really do try haha

[@ghostii716]

that moment in inside in the song comedy when he starts standing up and he puts his hand in his pocket DAYUM

[@lesliebartsch2578]

omg y'all are in my Brain i feel so seen

[@ghostii716]

@@lesliebartsch2578 BAHAHAASDC

[@parxfilms2548]

IM GONNA BUY YOU A BICYCLE

[@demimiku]

i’m glad i’m not the only one who feels attracted to this agent of chaos

[@katcounter5383]

No but the “I’m the coolest” scene from promising young woman is so sweet. Whenever I feel bad about living him in the first part of the movie I remember that you’re supposed to do that the end just hits you that much harder

[@yup.its.erin.]

"I'm gonna buy you a bicycle"

[@biggestp0ser]

He’s so fine

[@SarahbearJayne]

Watching “Problematic” made me FEEL SOME SHIT FORREAL. I was like 😳😳😳😳😳

[@katiemckee3334]

God, the amount of love and adoration I have for Bo is a burden at this point.

[@brinleymccully2123]

The fact that Panderin' isn't in here is an unforgivable sin.

[@cinscinema]

he is SO TALL it makes my knees weak

[@Everettalla]

0:01 “I’m sitting there eating a French fry, and I probably don’t even look like a human being.” -bo around anyone below 5 feet

[@JaneAshleyAndrews]

Me when i see the title of the video : oh like , every moment he’s in ?

[@lovebeingsnug]

Looking in his eyes I now know what Billie meant when she said ocean eyes

[@MarieKyriney]

all of his comedy specials, but especially "inside" has felt like he wanted to tell us "laugh. i dare you to laugh. you better not"

[@shanareilly6649]

you left out the part where he drank the coffee with spit in it while holding eye contact with emerald fennell. lol that shit was hot to me lol not to take away from the movie. in fact it did its job by giving me difficult feelings for Ryan... but that scene though.

[@hotaruhime]

It's Carey Mulligan in the movie, Emerald's the director. ;) But I agree so much, I didn't know Bo a lot prior to watching the movie, and this is the exact moment where I went "Ok, woah, I feel so many things right now." This and the pharmacy scene.

[@AJ-zk1ms]

i find that shot fro inside with the cross projected on him so hot and i am fully blaming my upbringing

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

The BSLC YT channel is brought to you by religious trauma. lol I totally get it!

[@giraffe1219]

I’m attracted to him pretty much solely on the basis that he is incredibly talented and kind. Just an amazing human being. He is handsome but that’s such an insignificant thing when I think of him. It makes me kinda sad tbh because he feels like Prince Charming that just doesn’t exist. In “real life.” At the same time I’d do anything to be anywhere as good of a human as him.

[@Ozloz]

“I’m gonna buy you a bicycle” good to know that’s his reaction to falling in love

[@mariasaizgarrido5582]

Also a Ryan moment in the movie, who makes you trust him, as well as Cassie, is when he is singing the Paris Hilton song in like a pharmacy. Its so attractive and trips you into believing he is the love of your life. I will forever love Promising Young Woman, it rearranged my brain completely

[@Irregulyze]

Jesus Christ these are all great clips but him standing next to Elsie Fisher is the most unnerving size ratio image I've ever seen.

[@ashleyknaack8900]

Over a year later, I'm still hoping Henry hits you up 🙏

[@theparadisesnare]

"I'm gonna buy you a bicycle!" lmao

[@rh-ml5nv]

thanks for feeding my bo burnham obsession

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

anytime lol

[@Z4chvs]

he’s so………. wow

[@noguez840]

One of my favorite things about Bo is the fact that we know he’s a comedian, A comedian that talks about sensitive topics and calls people out, so when he says something funny while talking about something sensitive people laugh but he doesn’t, it’s a very small line between when you can laugh and when he’s actually wanting to get his point across (2:10 like in this part)

[@Esterferreiradecastro]

For me its basically all of Inside, he achieved a new unfound level of hotness

[@thetoughestcookie9312]

The description oml- HENRY GO GET YO WOMANS ☕️

[@isaacheeks9249]

Glad to know I'm not the only one 🙂 Watching the most recent special there's a lot of beautiful shots in there. Awoke something in me but no one else really understood what I saw. Love this man. Beautiful inside and out.

[@thevelbaetum4118]

I felt this whole video, I don't really consider myself a fan of a person specifically most of the time, just the things they make but I really like Bo, he's so genuine and there aren't enough people like him.

[@maxwelljade9783]

Him with a beard….just does something to me that I can’t explain LOL

[@gracegoebel8733]

not bo being like: “can i curse?”

[@dharaburak5001]

this is all either him being mean, him giving people attention in an incredibly kind way, or clips from inside. glad we're all on the same page

[@professorquinsonsnib]

5:22 this reminds me of a lyric in fiona apple’s song ‘paper bag’: “he said ‘it’s all in your head’ and i said ‘so’s everything’ but he didn’t get it.” that same sentiment of having someone dismiss a mental problem by saying it’s all in your head, when really everything is in everyone’s heads. the world is just how we perceive it and what we make of it, so why should symptoms of anxiety or any other mental illness/disorder be dismissed as less real?

[@lavr15]

the entirety of “problematic” should be in here 😤✋

[@solarheiser2247]

i’m so happy this video came up on my recommended i’m going to watch this all the time

[@roftherealm3418]

"Problematic" is such a fascinating song to me. He's working out throughout the song, obviously a visual metaphor for working on himself by acknowledging when he's been problematic. But there are all of these very sexual overtones, and the shot of Bo crucifying himself against the wall with that almost orgasmic expression... I feel like it's all a critique of how we use apologizing for problematic behavior in our past, no matter how minor the offense, and flog ourselves over it so that people like us.

[@diyachakraborty4742]

I feel like the "in your head" criticism is more of a way to escape empathy and hence any responsibility, rather than an attempt to actually help.

[@Design_Spark_]

He's so genuine and feels like he truly listens and comprehends life on a more complex spectrum which I adore

[@deathwitheponine]

Going to hell but I would have snatched Ryan up the second he drank the spit coffee. God Bo is so awkward and flirty as Ryan - he has like major sub energy and I like it, what can I say. Emerald absolutely made a top tier casting choice there. ETA obviously by the end there I think we can all agree Ryan is a piece of shit that we would never go near if our lives depended on it but he’s written so well that it’s easy to overlook or discount the early red flags as male behavior conditioned by society to feel normal or acceptable to us all. I’d absolutely kick Ryan into a ditch, but that bicycle line is so fucking adorable, as is so much of the other good stuff Ryan does. Also in another video from the if I were you podcast (the ‘bro job’ one if anyone wants to look it up) he talks about a lot of stuff that just makes me want to hold him up to other men as an example of what they should learn. The open mindedness is so fucking attractive. The fact that he discusses the double standard of men finding two women having sex arousing and that they will encourage that no matter the sexual orientation of the women involved, but two consenting non heterosexual men having sex? To men that’s awkward and shameful. For him to say that of course that’s rooted in misogyny like … please. I would die for this man why is this not widely realized hello? And I know also we’re objectifying him and that feels bad but he is an attractive human being inside and out. I’d be lying if I said I didn’t watch sexting several times. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Roy_Reynolds54]

I would've also included the scene from pandering right after he says 'I don't like dirt' and is illuminated by the green light.

[@sabrinalocke2846]

“Name something that you would hurt yourself riding on” “Oh lord…. You know what I’m thinking?”

[@starfish0607]

Promising young women did such a good job of making us all fall in love with Ryan and then be completely repulsed by him. I couldnt differentiate between Bo and Ryan for a long time after that and I felt weird everytime I saw Bo.

[@melodyhaviland9393]

“i’m gonna buy you a bicycle” kills me every time even though i absolutely despise him

[@paranoidlust]

IM SO ATTRACTED TO THIS MAN AHHH 🙌

[@jurneeeeeeeer]

THIS IS SO ODD, BUT I FIND THE WAY HE SAYS "HYMNS" IN 'FROM GOD'S PERSPECTIVE' SO ATTRACTIVE" ALSO THE WAY HE PLAYS PIANO AS A WHOLE

[@razzle_dazzle]

Thank you so much for including the links to the original videos in the description.

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

You're welcome! Thanks for noticing them! :)

[@Feemailgamer]

Bo *just standing there being extremely tall* us 🥵

[@mkashe]

0:28 somehow watching this on mute made this shot even more powerful. I can't and won't get over it

[@afriendlypoltergeist4073]

bo: *stares into the depths of my soul* are you feeling nervous..? yeah no shit i am

[@estherriley6879]

As an asexual, I feel like I'm watching from behind the mirrored glass saying "Interesting..."

[@amberbeam4248]

the fact that i went "why isn't the part where he's yelling at socko in here" perhaps means i have some issues

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

No I fully agree! Maybe that means we both have issues lol

[@gingerthingx]

How did you not include the part in Jake & Amirs podcast when he says “i’m a sub”

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

omg I don't remember that part?!?

[@gingerthingx]

@@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach it made me scream go watch it omg

[@Juju-ug8ud]

my thoughts exactly. same with him drinking the spit coffee in PYW. guess he brings out the dom in me haha

[@4dultw1thj0b]

Djgdkhdkhh I believe it 😂

[@calicohyde]

tysm for the time stamps. made it so easy to replay the problematic clips 800 times.

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

you're welcome! that is their intended use lol

[@franny1270]

My favorite part of problematic is "Bitch im tryna listen, shit ive been complicant"

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

yess the sassy background vocals are EVERYTHING!

[@amber6473]

i was so attracted to bo when he had those daisies on his eyes during White Woman's Instagram; the green suited him really well

[@aidanblack9681]

Are we gonna talk ab how he said look at me in the how the world works song

[@morphbb]

i guess i have issues too because up until THE scene in promising young woman i was like get me one like him i love him so you are not alone lmao

[@thed0nutl0rd60]

PLEASE WHEN I SAW PROBLEMATIC I SPONTANEOUSLY HAD AN ANEURYSM

[@baebeebeth1782]

Omg and his laugh in welcome to the Internet like Holyy shitttt 😩😩😩

[@crycrywolf]

I really really needed this today. Amazing work. 10/10 for the feminist giraffe content.

[@BenSchwartzsLifeCoach]

thank you!!💗

[@MinorAccidnt]

0:30 omg the prolonged eye contact caught me off guard when I first watched Inside it was so attractive