Body Positivity Was A Lie

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Billie Rae Brandt

Billie Rae Brandt

Күн бұрын

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@AnglerVoiceActing
@AnglerVoiceActing Ай бұрын
I agree! As someone who doesn't like showing off a bunch of skin, swimsuit shopping is a NIGHTMARE
@nomadicam
@nomadicam Ай бұрын
I don't do swimsuits anymore. If anything, I wear a little sports dress over bike shorts, and I do everything in that, surfing, swimming, diving. I'm not comfy if everyone can see everything, and I don't want to have to worry about hair removal 😂
@WarriorofAllah78611O
@WarriorofAllah78611O Ай бұрын
Bless you
@JimKittell6486
@JimKittell6486 Ай бұрын
@@AnglerVoiceActing Less is not more. Back in The Old Days, it was exciting for a woman to wear skimpy-for-the-time clothes, but they've come so far, wearing next-to-nothing, it's not remotely appealing.
@hellstromcarbunkle8857
@hellstromcarbunkle8857 Ай бұрын
Order a Chador from Afghanistan if you want "modest" clothes.
@elenamarie25
@elenamarie25 Ай бұрын
My go to for years has been men's swim trunks with a sports bra and tank top. May not be the cutest thing out there, but it's comfy and not skin tight
@makaylal769
@makaylal769 Ай бұрын
As a 15 year old, finding bathing suits is so difficult
@that.dam.moonlark
@that.dam.moonlark 27 күн бұрын
YESSSSSS my bathing suit is too small and it’s a one piece with butterflies on it 😭😭😭😭 but all the other one pieces are too big for me and I don’t like two pieces…
@gavinjohn1728
@gavinjohn1728 26 күн бұрын
I'm sorry to tell you this but you can't be modest and stylish anymore because modesty is out of style, you're going to have to choose. Hopefully your generation brings modesty back into style when you're older but until then there's always Walmart. Nothing scandalous in that place.
@evanhughes3027
@evanhughes3027 25 күн бұрын
Don't do to your lips what she did to hers.
@nikkiidomagala
@nikkiidomagala 23 күн бұрын
​@@gavinjohn1728that is not true at all. I am modest and extremely stylish. I always get complimented on my outfits too.
@nikkiidomagala
@nikkiidomagala 23 күн бұрын
​@@that.dam.moonlarkwhat I just responded with might be helpful for your situation and I truly hope it helps!
@TedSchoenling
@TedSchoenling Ай бұрын
Dad here.. so much yes.. we do not need to see our daughters mostly naked.
@CyclingPrecision
@CyclingPrecision Ай бұрын
If you did your job right, that would never ever be a problem.
@maiSy0op
@maiSy0op Ай бұрын
DADDY 👨! WHAT U DOING ? ON HERE U OLD 🤬 WATCHING 👀 THIS YOUNG GIRLS VIDEOS COMMENTING
@rockyevans1584
@rockyevans1584 Ай бұрын
​@CyclingPrecision did you not hear the young ladies complaint? It's either cheeks on display or dressing in a frumpy modest suit
@J7oI
@J7oI Ай бұрын
@@CyclingPrecisionIt doesn’t change the fact that he’s a person and he can be uncomfortable with it
@lemmdus2119
@lemmdus2119 Ай бұрын
I agree. Thankfully my wife and I instilled modesty in our daughters. It was a struggle and still is with the youngest but worth it.
@rangidd
@rangidd 21 күн бұрын
Agreed... and also in women sports their asses are falling out all over the place. One year a Sweedish walley ball team on sand refused that kind of "uniform" and got very modest and cool looking bathing suits and they were fined... FINED!!! For not wanting to show their asses on world campionship that was broadcasted all over the world... like WTF?
@flipturnsandbutterfly
@flipturnsandbutterfly 19 күн бұрын
You mean the Norwegian beach handball team?
@rangidd
@rangidd 19 күн бұрын
@@flipturnsandbutterfly could be I thought it was sweedish 🤷‍♀️ my bad
@maxstrike3022
@maxstrike3022 17 күн бұрын
That's different because most wouldnt watch wmn's sports otherwise.
@hainleysimpson1507
@hainleysimpson1507 15 күн бұрын
​@@maxstrike3022 Bullshit most of those women choose to wear the skimpy uniform.
@hainleysimpson1507
@hainleysimpson1507 15 күн бұрын
Also women don't support women's supports anywhere near as much as men even without the sex appeal.
@bekjean
@bekjean Ай бұрын
I am so glad someone finally voiced everything in my head so eloquently, cuz sometimes I struggle to put a point to an argument in the moment
@dazem8
@dazem8 Ай бұрын
She was not eloquent at all. perhaps look up the definition of that.
@d1dg2
@d1dg2 20 күн бұрын
It's so difficult because what you think is "whorish" and "cute" are one and the same.
@whosyodaddy763
@whosyodaddy763 10 күн бұрын
Only women could be convinced that there's a difference between a 2 piece bikini and a panty and bra set
@weronikas1307
@weronikas1307 Ай бұрын
This is soooooo true!!! I was going on vacation with my family and it was so difficult to find an appropriate bathing suit.
@jchomedog2887
@jchomedog2887 Ай бұрын
What did you end up choosing to wear?
@JoaoCosta-ly1sw
@JoaoCosta-ly1sw Ай бұрын
@@jchomedog2887We all know it was the one that attracts more followers on social media.
@thelastflop
@thelastflop 22 күн бұрын
No its not, you just want attention
@MrIkOgNiTo
@MrIkOgNiTo 21 күн бұрын
So pre vacation you only owned inappropriate bathing suits? Do women even understand that they have perverts?
@Aw_Tizzy
@Aw_Tizzy 6 күн бұрын
@@thelastflopyou’re delusional
@DraQinn
@DraQinn Ай бұрын
Indeed, butt floss is tacky, but two piece bathing suits in general is just outdoor underwear.
@jenerin905
@jenerin905 Ай бұрын
I have no problem finding cute bathing suits that I find comfortable to wear around my kids and my parents. But I'm also not someone who wears a bathing suit to be sexy. "Sexy" is for my husband, not the beach or anyone else. I go for pretty, classy, and functional over sexy. No one will catch me bending over in a g-string and get an eye full of my "situation". 😆
@vamptowngirl6922
@vamptowngirl6922 Ай бұрын
This
@ReverieOfThorns
@ReverieOfThorns 4 күн бұрын
2 piece bathing suits includes tankinis and anything else in that range which are definitely modest so I'd actually change that to bikinis
@DraQinn
@DraQinn 4 күн бұрын
@@ReverieOfThorns I respectfully disagree, while it's more modest it still looks like underwear to me or something that would be worn to bed.
@ReverieOfThorns
@ReverieOfThorns 4 күн бұрын
@@DraQinn even thought they're literally usually shorts and essentially a tank top?
@thatexcalifornian6124
@thatexcalifornian6124 Ай бұрын
I'm recently married and I don't want my chi-chi's hanging out for the world to see. I'm busty and while I wanna look good for my husband, no one else needs to see the goods!
@rebecca-lily531
@rebecca-lily531 Ай бұрын
Bikinis just don't work for the big bazoongas. I'm already wearing serious heavy duty bras and now I need more than a string and small triangle of fabric to stop them escaping the bra and bobbing away in the water.
@JustinD912
@JustinD912 Ай бұрын
Modesty died a long time ago. I miss it. I think it's sexier than anything.
@JacobL228
@JacobL228 Ай бұрын
Hell yeah. There's nothing sexier than a girl who knows how to keep her legs together. It makes you feel special when you know she'll show it off to you and only you, and there's nothing wrong with that.
@jchomedog2887
@jchomedog2887 Ай бұрын
Modesty died with the new wave of feminism and female entitlement. They chose to objectify themselves when they own the market. They need to stop playing the victim and have self accountability in the choice of clothing they choose to wear in this free country. I hate it when people play the victim for the bad choices they made.
@MacabreAfterparty
@MacabreAfterparty Ай бұрын
​@@jchomedog2887And what kind of victim are they playing with these bad choices? I'm curious on what you're implying here.
@JoeJohn-ww1du
@JoeJohn-ww1du Ай бұрын
​@@jchomedog2887exactly; the market is giving women precisely what they want.
@jchomedog2887
@jchomedog2887 Ай бұрын
@@MacabreAfterpartyI’m not implying anything. I’m telling you what women are doing, as blatantly shown in this video. Women are acting the victim like they have no choice but to wear objectifying clothes. That’s just not true. There’s a huge market for clothing of all types including fully covered swimwear that’s attractive. Women choose not to wear that and play the victim of being sexually objectified when they pick skimpy swimwear instead which they love for validation seeking. Choose clothing that doesn’t objectify you. It’s that simple. Women are the vast majority of clothing buyers in fashion and they are the majority involved in designing clothing and fashion. It’s self inflicted sabotage, so please don’t tell me I’m implying something when women clearly are the problem when they don’t choose appropriate clothing and support a market of clothing that objectifies them and contribute to designing the clothing that objectifies themselves. It’s literally a circular problem all the way around. It’s insane when you really think about it. But the patriarchy and men are clearly to blame! This is why modern feminism is wrong. No self accountability and blaming the opposite sex for their own contrived problems. I wish I could address all women to stop doing this to themselves.
@kingsrule9724
@kingsrule9724 Ай бұрын
As a guy I can completely agree with this take.
@amyzack8659
@amyzack8659 Ай бұрын
Aot fan spotted 🔥🔥
@PeachieeKittiee
@PeachieeKittiee 17 күн бұрын
AOT! And as a Christian girl. I like modesty. But it's so hard. I recently "outgrew" one of my bathing suits (Honestly, I'm a young adult, so I wasn't expecting to grow), so I obviously need a new bathing suit. I went to Walmart. EVERYTHING was either bikini or one piece with a g string. I went to another store. Same thing!! I literally had to go to a third store that was like 25 minutes away from home to find something modest (Luckily, I actually like it too)
@David-be1ox
@David-be1ox Ай бұрын
As a father of two girls. Yeah at a young age the would NEVER with me! I would not allow it!
@tosutaa
@tosutaa Ай бұрын
She answered her own question. They make them because women like her buy 20 of them
@onlyjias
@onlyjias 29 күн бұрын
well her question is more why aren't there more semi modest outfits for such events with like family or friends and also for women who like more modest clothing too so i don't think its entirely true
@Senscion
@Senscion 29 күн бұрын
​@@onlyjiasI see women wearing one pieces all the time. My wife owns one.
@sirinsaini5408
@sirinsaini5408 29 күн бұрын
@@Senscionthey are difficult to find one that is modest and ‘cute’. Something that as good coverage is super bland.
@Senscion
@Senscion 29 күн бұрын
@@sirinsaini5408 That's on you, pretty much every one piece I've seen looks fine.
@godfreypeters6653
@godfreypeters6653 21 күн бұрын
​@@onlyjiasDUCHESS!
@loris-bismar
@loris-bismar Ай бұрын
She started that whole dialog by answering her own damn question... "I own so many whorish ones". Ding ding ding. Supply and demand.
@EpixNirvana_Fan101
@EpixNirvana_Fan101 20 күн бұрын
Maybe because she's forced to because companies won't make anything else? I mean I've seen parents of kids say that even kid clothing shows so much skin nowadays so I don't think it's that deep tbh
@Uratroll
@Uratroll 17 күн бұрын
@@EpixNirvana_Fan101nobody is forced to do anything there are several companies that still make appropriate swimsuits but ofc they won’t talk about that bc “agenda”.
@manersbams9215
@manersbams9215 17 күн бұрын
@EpixNirvana_Fan101 She’s not forced to do anything, there are still some out there but because she and other females wear whorish swimsuit there are less available. This is literally the consequence of their own actions.
@Rebeccas_penmanship
@Rebeccas_penmanship 16 күн бұрын
​@@EpixNirvana_Fan101cute one piece bathing suits are not rare or hard to find.
@marianakiselova6913
@marianakiselova6913 13 күн бұрын
​@@Rebeccas_penmanshipamen
@U_faker
@U_faker 23 күн бұрын
She's got a point. I don't want to show my azz to random people. Why do I care so much? Because I've met enough weirdos
@karenbernard6041
@karenbernard6041 Ай бұрын
It's clear she doesn't mind wearing "whorish* (her words), bathing suits... or she wouldn't have so many. There are modest cute bathing suits out here. But you have to search for them
@spirits1595
@spirits1595 20 күн бұрын
that's the thing you shouldn't have to turn into a detective to find some. If 80% of swimwear is whorish there's a problem
@F0XCL0UD
@F0XCL0UD 20 күн бұрын
@@spirits1595because 80% of swimsuit companies find that it sells more than their other 20%. If you want change then put your money where your mouth is and use it to buy modest ones instead. The companies respond to their market; women.
@manersbams9215
@manersbams9215 17 күн бұрын
Blame feminist.
@folkloreswiftie13
@folkloreswiftie13 15 күн бұрын
@@manersbams9215 Blame the patriarchy
@marianakiselova6913
@marianakiselova6913 13 күн бұрын
I have no trouble finding swimsuits with coverage at all. Almost every brand has a standard one piece swimsuit in their collection, normal full coverage bikinis are very common as well. If somebody considers them ugly, because they are not that revealing, is another story.
@alyhowerton4386
@alyhowerton4386 Ай бұрын
There is a time and place for the risky swimsuits. Being with your family is not the time or place for my suit to be a breeze away from exposing myself.
@MrIkOgNiTo
@MrIkOgNiTo 21 күн бұрын
It's crazy how women don't get that they have become perverts
@rossrobertson674
@rossrobertson674 Ай бұрын
And after we solve this dilemma we can work on the tiny little skin tight shorts that even teenage girls wear
@Volty-fn
@Volty-fn Ай бұрын
Not even teenage these days
@rossrobertson674
@rossrobertson674 Ай бұрын
@@Volty-fn ya but that don't bother me as much when little girls wear it cuz they look like little boys anyway 😂 it's when they're like 14 and developed and I have to see the outline of their butt 🤮
@foxgirlthememegirl1344
@foxgirlthememegirl1344 Ай бұрын
​@@Volty-fn fr. Why the hell are there booty shorts in the childrens section 💀 I want to die
@Aggie1295
@Aggie1295 Ай бұрын
Why is any of this a problem?
@zeroculture7066
@zeroculture7066 Ай бұрын
​@Aggie1295 because they're wearing very little clothing and it's uncomfortable
@kaitlynnichole476
@kaitlynnichole476 Ай бұрын
I love that she said she does have some less modest swimsuits, but still wants modest ones too. Like sometimes you just want a good balance.
@zenzorkle5160
@zenzorkle5160 24 күн бұрын
Yeah Buuuut she also said that "the more modest ones don't look as cute". Why is it about looking cute when bathing suits are for swimming and getting a tan..not to be showing off and getting attention right? ?????
@MrIkOgNiTo
@MrIkOgNiTo 21 күн бұрын
I love how she admits being a pervert
@EpixNirvana_Fan101
@EpixNirvana_Fan101 20 күн бұрын
​@@MrIkOgNiTowhat
@EpixNirvana_Fan101
@EpixNirvana_Fan101 20 күн бұрын
​@@zenzorkle5160maybe....maybe she wants them to be cute for HERSELF! Maybe she personally wants to find them cute or find them in her favorite colors or whatever
@MrIkOgNiTo
@MrIkOgNiTo 20 күн бұрын
@@EpixNirvana_Fan101 Women=perverts
@darrenskjoelsvold
@darrenskjoelsvold Ай бұрын
They did in the 80s. Like decades ago, they knew how to make women's swimsuits that weren't super revealing, and they were attractive. I mean, I found women in them attractive, but they were not super revealing. I mean, it shouldn't be so hard. Just look at swimsuits from decades ago and remake those.
@manersbams9215
@manersbams9215 17 күн бұрын
No one would buy them, use brain.
@darrenskjoelsvold
@darrenskjoelsvold 17 күн бұрын
@@manersbams9215 so you want to moon your father. Talk about daddy issues. To each their own.
@Aaarandom
@Aaarandom 12 күн бұрын
@@manersbams9215people buy what’s for sale on mass. If they were, there would be a market for it.
@jacobstone4354
@jacobstone4354 Ай бұрын
This woman speaks rare truths! And she has a father… whom she considers.
@alexandersheridan2179
@alexandersheridan2179 12 күн бұрын
not enough to NOT dress like a "whore" right in front of him....
@kalabell4098
@kalabell4098 Ай бұрын
Duluth trading has super cute one pieces that look a bit like a cocktail dress. I love them! Super comfy too
@emilieshepherd4005
@emilieshepherd4005 2 күн бұрын
Ooh thanks for the tip! That’ll be nice for the water park with the kids
@ultrameticulous
@ultrameticulous Ай бұрын
"I own so many" Well, there ya go. Vote with your wallet. You did and now that's all there is.
@FreeWorldSpirit313
@FreeWorldSpirit313 Ай бұрын
100% I've been saying this for years. In 2016 psychology class this was brought up and a girl was complaining about how women's stuff is expensive and how pockets suck on their clothes. I asked why don't you go into the men's section and find something that fits and has functioning pockets. She replied she wouldn't look as cute. I just shook my head
@JustANickname00
@JustANickname00 Ай бұрын
​@@FreeWorldSpirit313women have wider hips, ofc male jeans are going to look weird on them, not just because they have pockets. It was a good argument when talking about swim suits where you've got options to choose from but if all female jeans don't have pockets, the answer isn't buying pants for someone with a different body anatomy
@misspillow3
@misspillow3 Ай бұрын
​@@JustANickname00 as a woman, i dont have wide hips. i hope they dont break if i give birth
@mylesleggette7520
@mylesleggette7520 26 күн бұрын
@@JustANickname00 And yet, somehow different sizes and belts both exist...
@zenzorkle5160
@zenzorkle5160 24 күн бұрын
Yep stop blaming the people who make the bikinis, you need to blame the women who keep BUYING the whorish bathing suits..it's why they keep making them..if people didn't buy them..they wouldnt be making them. But again women trying to skip out on accountability.
@Airia16
@Airia16 8 күн бұрын
This is why I wear sports shorts or swim skirts on a tankini or one piece. Cute and comfy!
@bluwater1422
@bluwater1422 6 күн бұрын
Same here
@kylemacdougall8355
@kylemacdougall8355 Ай бұрын
Sexual attractiveness is a form of female power, so they're not wrong when they say it's about "empowerment." It's just that the kind of empowerment they're talking about is not the GOOD kind. It's mostly the selfish kind.
@elgenerico6263
@elgenerico6263 Ай бұрын
"Empowerment" isn't a universally good thing.
@kylemacdougall8355
@kylemacdougall8355 Ай бұрын
@@elgenerico6263 Agreed. When people say "empowerment," the important question to ask is "empowerment to do what?"
@Mnem1989
@Mnem1989 Ай бұрын
Women are the ones that buy it and encourage it. Men just watch
@79Shingo
@79Shingo Ай бұрын
Also, who is the power taken FROM?
@JBplumbing12
@JBplumbing12 Ай бұрын
true
@carlterry6154
@carlterry6154 Ай бұрын
There are ones like that !! She just doesnt bother looking properly, because she actually wants the attention !!
@bluwater1422
@bluwater1422 6 күн бұрын
Right
@zachfox5969
@zachfox5969 Ай бұрын
The "i dress for me" line is as transparent as the non existent clothing they wear.
@jamie6506
@jamie6506 Ай бұрын
@@jacklesser6902 That's just not a good argument. I'm a guy, and I love wearing button-downs with fun patterns on them. I do that for me; it brings me great joy, regardless of other people's opinions on it. But I, too, do not wear button-down when I am at home, I just dress for comfort. Two things can be true at the same time.
@nikki1400
@nikki1400 Ай бұрын
Everyone dresses for themselves, though. People wear what they like, it really doesn't require further analysis. YOU not liking it doesn't mean there's a secret, needs to be discovered and put on blast reason other people pick that clothing. I absolutely despise the stringy, mega high waisted swim suit bottoms. I think it's ugly and unflattering as shit, not to mention I feel naked and weird with that much skin hip to crotch hanging out. Does that mean people who like it and wear it have bad taste and no self respect? No, it means *I* don't like it and am uncomfortable in it. That's about ME, not them.
@miklovelva6092
@miklovelva6092 Ай бұрын
​@@jamie6506 a button down with a fun pattern is hardly the same as having your tits and ass out in public buddy. A bit ironic that you said his argument was bad
@annafocarazzo6230
@annafocarazzo6230 Ай бұрын
@@nikki1400gonna play devils advocate here- walking around and seeing someone wear a string as a top to cover their nipples or a skirt that is so short it literally shows off panties… is about me. idc that they feel confident and love how they look, it’s now about me and my family bc we have become subject to the PUBLIC indecency. which… used to be a damn crime.
@darthcopper7341
@darthcopper7341 Ай бұрын
Don’t listen to them, even if you dress for you, you want attention, and attractive validation. They sound like chicks who want other chicks validation, to feel better about themselves!
@luckie-rae6058
@luckie-rae6058 Ай бұрын
fr i’ve been looking for ‘modest swimwear’ and all i get are ‘tummy control’ g string bikinis or full on birkinis, no middle ground. i just want to be COMFORTABLE and covered without fishing clingy strips of fabric out of body crevices every 10 minutes 😭
@rebecca-lily531
@rebecca-lily531 Ай бұрын
I just wear the burkinis... I don't get sunburnt and I don't feel naked. I figure if I've gotta financially support one bathing suit company and style with my wallet then I'll support the modest one.
@amandapanda316
@amandapanda316 Ай бұрын
I wear the high waiter boy short style bottoms and cropped top style swim tops. I won’t show more skin than I would on a normal summer day. It’s comfortable and modest enough for me
@Kai_hellfire
@Kai_hellfire 26 күн бұрын
I usually just wear a normal outfit lol. It's like swimming shorts with a fishing shirt
@NSevinR
@NSevinR Ай бұрын
Modesty is so much more attractive. It tells me that you respect yourself. If you respect yourself, then you will respect your partner.
@bluwater1422
@bluwater1422 6 күн бұрын
Facts
@WilliamCooper-l6f
@WilliamCooper-l6f Ай бұрын
Always have either shorts or a wrap available.
@bluwater1422
@bluwater1422 6 күн бұрын
Facts
@johnpapa8681
@johnpapa8681 Ай бұрын
Companies make what people buy.
@Callofthewild0
@Callofthewild0 Ай бұрын
People just bow waking up! About freakin Time!!!
@victoriaflorez5154
@victoriaflorez5154 15 күн бұрын
The fact that she's not modestly dressed while trashing "empowerment" when she obviously feels comfortable dressing like that is just hypocrisy.
@bluwater1422
@bluwater1422 6 күн бұрын
Facts
@JimKittell6486
@JimKittell6486 Ай бұрын
"Don't objectify me!!!" while I'm standing here all but naked.
@SoManyFuckingMice
@SoManyFuckingMice Ай бұрын
Oh no, the female naked body! A direct invitation to SIN!
@EpixNirvana_Fan101
@EpixNirvana_Fan101 20 күн бұрын
Yeah, she doesn't WANT to be naked she wants clothing that is modest so she doesn't get objectified...are you dumb?
@ClaraWeirdoMiss
@ClaraWeirdoMiss 17 сағат бұрын
You think she's naked in that video? 😅😅😅
@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp 20 күн бұрын
Ladies, if you do not want to be placed on display, DO NOT BUY THE BATHING SUIT. simple
@bluwater1422
@bluwater1422 6 күн бұрын
Right
@Broooooo-ww7hw
@Broooooo-ww7hw Ай бұрын
Why are women buying them then?
@consciouslyawake6051
@consciouslyawake6051 Ай бұрын
Exactly there’s a solution to every problem. If you’re not able to buy a modest bathing suit in the store, then learn to sew and design one yourself. It’s that simple 🤦🏿‍♂️
@maylonieldridge5658
@maylonieldridge5658 Ай бұрын
​@consciouslyawake6051 it's not though. Sewing a swim suit is way more expensive than buying one already made. The materials you use for a swimsuit are different from regular fabric at that. It's not impossible, but with this economy it's more expensive to make it than buy it. For example: I'm crocheting a blanket and it cost more for me to buy the supplies to make it than buying one already made. That's not even including the time or "labor" I put into making it. I also sewed a baby blanket for my son and it was more expensive to make that than to buy one. It's a valid complaint. I mean a man created the bikini and he literally couldn't find a single model to show it off, so he hired a stripper. So clearly there are clothes and swim suits being made with men in mind rather than women. That's the problem.
@0bsmith0
@0bsmith0 Ай бұрын
They want to be 304s but also play the victim.
@kiwalabyebash8947
@kiwalabyebash8947 Ай бұрын
​@@0bsmith0😂
@Maymayh-tm2bx
@Maymayh-tm2bx 27 күн бұрын
She’s not saying she hates showy bathing suits she’s just saying she wishes there were more cute and modest options for when you’re with your family.
@Seven7swords
@Seven7swords 22 күн бұрын
I am glad I have sons. I just have to ensure they don't get arrested or end up in the hospital.
@scootervargas9323
@scootervargas9323 Ай бұрын
Than it’s time for women to look and for vintage or vintage production bath suits and binkis
@PrivateMail-c8m
@PrivateMail-c8m 10 күн бұрын
As a guy, I don't understand why woman think an extremely skimpy swim suit is ,'cute', when thier is literally nothing there. . . For the most part. . .You get to see a nice bod, the swim suit is not even noticable. . .
@bluwater1422
@bluwater1422 6 күн бұрын
Right
@tdrive398
@tdrive398 Ай бұрын
Ya'll keep buying them. If you didn't they wouldn't make them.
@Maymayh-tm2bx
@Maymayh-tm2bx 27 күн бұрын
Um because they still need bathing suits???
@laurayarbrough4646
@laurayarbrough4646 27 күн бұрын
@@Maymayh-tm2bxthat’s true.
@tdrive398
@tdrive398 26 күн бұрын
@@Maymayh-tm2bx We need transportation as well. But the consumers are speaking loud & clear about what they want to buy, & automakers are finally starting to listen. Maybe try that.
@EpixNirvana_Fan101
@EpixNirvana_Fan101 20 күн бұрын
Maybe because they are forced to buy them
@femurbomb
@femurbomb 18 күн бұрын
​@@EpixNirvana_Fan101 forced? Just don't buy them...
@familydisappointment5910
@familydisappointment5910 13 күн бұрын
I'm not a prude by any means and I love showing off my body, but idk why the bathing suit designers just decided that women only put them on to show off. Like. I wanna go swim without being uncomfortable??? I wanna be able to show up at a family/friends pool party without feeling like I'm too much??? Not every beach vacation is for posing half-naked either, like sometimes I just wanna chill without constantly catching looks??? Bathing suits are NOT supposed to be lingerie, they have to be designed for swimming first and foremost 😭😭😭
@NeededGR13F
@NeededGR13F Ай бұрын
It's because you people don't buy them. Someone would be out there producing cute modest bathing suits if there was a market for them. Not enough ladies want them.
@kylemacdougall8355
@kylemacdougall8355 Ай бұрын
EXACTLY! The same reason why most women's clothing doesn't have pockets. It's supply and demand, not some patriarchal conspiracy.
@Adrian-yi8fl
@Adrian-yi8fl Ай бұрын
Exactly. If people bought them they would make more of them.
@DirtnapJack
@DirtnapJack Ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing.
@dredgewalker
@dredgewalker Ай бұрын
Ladies? There are actually few western women who can be considered as a lady nowadays. Most of them are just 304's
@cryptarisprotocol1872
@cryptarisprotocol1872 Ай бұрын
Not quite, America is essentially a market where quite a lot of things are ass backwards due to intense mass marketing from corporations and obtuse laws from corporate lobbying. There very much could be a market for the bathing suits she speaks of and people have not bothered to capitalise on it.
@caroliner2029
@caroliner2029 11 күн бұрын
Remake the superbly gorgeous, completely modest 1950s styles! Every woman looked elegant and dignified in them, and because of the shaping and cut of them, they made every woman look beautiful, regardless of her size and shape.🇦🇺
@BrotherTree1
@BrotherTree1 Ай бұрын
It's always a pleasant and hopeful moment when you see people start to wake up to their senses, such as this young lady here. Here's to more people waking up, especially the younger generation.
@tamarathejudeochristianmedium
@tamarathejudeochristianmedium 14 күн бұрын
Tommy Bahama makes cute ones 🥰 💙🙏🏻💙
@patchup
@patchup Ай бұрын
Demand controls supply. If more people bought modest suits more modest suits would be made. While fancy clothing makers will push exotic suites the stores buy the concept and then adapt them to wearable clothes. Nothing about the look I am seeing says, I am modest amd will buy modest.
@user-NicoleRamsey
@user-NicoleRamsey 15 күн бұрын
This reminds me of him my guy friend (who's was 11 at the time) went on a rant on how female bathing suits are so inappropriate and none of them and cover people up and it made him angry
@ari-athbadminton0301
@ari-athbadminton0301 Ай бұрын
The complaining lady wearing lip filler botox is ironic.
@HacktivistThe
@HacktivistThe Ай бұрын
At least she's self-aware enough to realize what she's doing is wrong, but yes, it's ironic.
@wcmcghee2
@wcmcghee2 Ай бұрын
She o not wants to be modest sometimes! Botox doesn’t come with an on/off switch.
@iiiich132
@iiiich132 Ай бұрын
It’s not 😅 because it has nothing to with it
@KingBetholomew
@KingBetholomew Ай бұрын
What exactly does lip filler have to do with modesty? Two different things bud. Can't be ironic if it's unrelated.
@canebro1
@canebro1 Ай бұрын
Don't forget those fake nails!
@HoudaOussous
@HoudaOussous Ай бұрын
I buy Korean ones... Cute and modest
@ari-athbadminton0301
@ari-athbadminton0301 Ай бұрын
Re-Introducing modesty start with YOUR choices not the ones from the companies who are misdirected by depraved and greedy leaders. By claiming the worst kind of female empowerment this is what you get. Fathers voices MATTERS more than anything in this society.
@WhatsIQ
@WhatsIQ Ай бұрын
No.
@sortaamy3003
@sortaamy3003 Ай бұрын
Lol. You've never met my dad then. I just finished watching a vid about Tim Tebow reading off a chat. A father was talking with other pedos offering his daughter up because she was getting too old. She was 8. Another father told the chat he'd teach them how to abuse their kids and get away with it.
@Pola-Polonia
@Pola-Polonia 29 күн бұрын
Especially the ones who went out for milk 😉
@manersbams9215
@manersbams9215 17 күн бұрын
That’s not a father that’s a Stud doing what studs do. Women made the choice to open their legs it’s their own fault for looking for sex instead a good man.
@bluwater1422
@bluwater1422 6 күн бұрын
Facts
@eugenefleming1614
@eugenefleming1614 24 күн бұрын
Buyer sets the market, you are the buyers
@Guts_Brando
@Guts_Brando Ай бұрын
Elhamdulillah for Islam, avoiding this degeneracy
@wesleywright5825
@wesleywright5825 12 күн бұрын
Agree 100%. There’s way too much hanging out at the beach.
@UltromanTheTacoman
@UltromanTheTacoman Ай бұрын
They exist. She just hasn't done a Google search for: modest bathing suit for women
@steventipton5130
@steventipton5130 Ай бұрын
It is easier to complain
@rebecca-lily531
@rebecca-lily531 Ай бұрын
She just wants to show off more skin. There are one pieces, bathing suits with skirts to hide your butt, bathing suits designed to look like short dresses to hide your figure, burkinis (my personal favorite choice). There are options. She just wants a bikini, which is basically being in public in your underwear.
@bluwater1422
@bluwater1422 6 күн бұрын
Facts
@NachoAE360
@NachoAE360 Ай бұрын
Yeah could I just get bottoms that actually cover my butt but are not high rise? It’s impossible.
@marianakiselova6913
@marianakiselova6913 13 күн бұрын
There are plenty of full bottom bikini styles around. Boxer shorts bikinis have full coverage with low rise e.g.
@SiljaAntvor
@SiljaAntvor 11 күн бұрын
Yes absolutely, styles with more cover age should be widely available, however er should Keep in mind that some people like wearing theese styles, and thats okay too❤❤
@kacy93595
@kacy93595 Ай бұрын
Can we throw it back to the early 2000s? I always felt covered, but the swimsuits were cute.
@ChristChickAutistic
@ChristChickAutistic 24 күн бұрын
I found a bunch of 50s and 60s style suits on Amazon. Way more modest and super cute, especially if you're a vintage girlie.
@carlandersson7870
@carlandersson7870 Ай бұрын
I'd say it's actually worse when you ARE comfortable wearing that shit in front of you family, or out in the open at all... It's so effed up and sad 🤦
@yourcrazybear
@yourcrazybear Ай бұрын
People were comfortable being even more naked earlier in our history. How about letting people choose how they dress?
@carlandersson7870
@carlandersson7870 Ай бұрын
@@yourcrazybear yes and then we evolved you know 🙄😓 latest decade seems to prove the contrary though, I'm guessing that was your point? 😅🤦 ...and yeah people OBVIOUSLY wear w/e tf they want, and everyone's entitled to their opinion about it, in case you didn't know. Anyway thanks for contributing nothing to the convo, except proving my and the video's point and showing you're part of the problem 😃👍
@yourcrazybear
@yourcrazybear Ай бұрын
@@carlandersson7870 "@yourcrazybear yes and then we evolved you know latest decade seems to prove the contrary though, I'm guessing that was your point? " My point was that people were comfortable being even more naked earlier in our history. You may have a personal belief that something that was seen as natural before is "sad" today. The point is that different people have different opinions and that can change over time. It gives some perspective to your weird complaints. "..and yeah people OBVIOUSLY wear w/e tf they want, and everyone's entitled to their opinion about it, in case you didn't know." The discussion were never about freedom of speech. "Anyway thanks for contributing nothing to the convo, except proving my and the video's point and showing you're part of the problem" Strawman arguments are never valid arguments. And the only thing you have accomplished here is telling everyone about your personal taste.
@MrIkOgNiTo
@MrIkOgNiTo 21 күн бұрын
Clothes you can't wear in front of your family shouldn't be worn at all. The more clothes you own that you can't wear in front of your family the more of a pervert you are!
@KiyaHerrman
@KiyaHerrman 16 күн бұрын
This is why I enjoy wearing one pieces not bc if my dad but for my own comfort
@Carvinjr-y5z
@Carvinjr-y5z Ай бұрын
That female that's complaining is correct 💯
@Sound_Spark
@Sound_Spark 26 күн бұрын
the blonde or the one with inflated lips?
@DeuceBiggerHo
@DeuceBiggerHo 28 күн бұрын
I love the way this girl admitted that she wears whorish bikinis but at the same time complains that there is nothing appropriate to wear around her family at the beach. As a guy I have noticed this exact phenomenon. Women either wear bathing suits at the beach that befit grandma or g string city and I am like ‘where is the Inbetween??’
@TheLastLivinGameCube
@TheLastLivinGameCube Ай бұрын
If you feel uncomfortable that there aren’t that many modest swimsuit companies out there, why do you complain about the suggestive swimsuits if you own so many of them instead of buying the modest swimsuits for yourself? That sounds pretty hypocritical if you ask me.
@jamesredman1263
@jamesredman1263 Ай бұрын
She clearly doesn't plan to dress the same for every occasion.
@bluwater1422
@bluwater1422 6 күн бұрын
Facts & in reality she wants attention & then in the same sentence she wants 2 b**** about not being able 2 find modest swim suits & I find that hypocritical
@bluwater1422
@bluwater1422 6 күн бұрын
​@@jamesredman1263facts
@michaelbrandon1222
@michaelbrandon1222 11 күн бұрын
Multi-million dollar idea here
@gabepetro358
@gabepetro358 Ай бұрын
Weird. I'm 39 years old now and my entire life I was more concerned about wearing something that could get wet and dry fast and covered me properly. I wear two piece bathing suits but in public I have to try hard to hope people are not watching me so I can enjoy my time. Stay humble and modest ladies.
@cattail64
@cattail64 11 күн бұрын
You can feel empowered in a skimpy suit or in a modest suit, it doesnt matter. You are allowed to believe in body positivity and not be afraid to show off your body, but wearing something that could make someone uncomfortable like your dad or siblings seeing your whole cheekage behind you, its also great to understand that that isnt a situation you should put them in. Its about respect, not shame.
@jamesblank4115
@jamesblank4115 Ай бұрын
They even make this modern style for little kids which is disgusting
@Magikarpo
@Magikarpo 19 күн бұрын
This is why I buy swim trunks and wear a t shirt lol, and it has the added benefit of much cuter patterns
@ARGONUAT
@ARGONUAT Ай бұрын
Preach it!!!
@penguindabs1966
@penguindabs1966 Ай бұрын
For real! I take my young kids to a family beach and I want to look cute but the only person I want seeing my cheeks full on display is my husband.
@AJFresh69
@AJFresh69 Ай бұрын
The woman featured, not Billie, demonstrated women's hypocrisy about wearing revealing clothing. She called it "whorish" herself, yet we hear so often from the women, thst it's just for them and that they're not sexual objects for dressing that way, yet she is uncomfortable with being dressed that way in front of her family. In addition, why should it be a problem for anyone? Her body shouldn't turn on anyone in her family so why should it matter? Whether or not anyone is turned on, we are all expected to behave appropriately anyway.
@louielambaren5960
@louielambaren5960 Ай бұрын
😢Self Explainitory Luv_ Respect Your Image amongst the CROWDS.
@Asgard2208
@Asgard2208 23 күн бұрын
She says with nails that Dracula would pay for.... The woman is maybe waking up, but she's got a way to go.
@TheSaraphic
@TheSaraphic 12 күн бұрын
Was recently in The OC at Huntington Beach, was joking with my buddy we didn’t need to hit the strip club because I was good after that.
@mta6247
@mta6247 Ай бұрын
If you own em You are One ☝🏽 Just saying
@PossiblyAVampyre
@PossiblyAVampyre Ай бұрын
So I'm 'one of them' because I own a few revealing swimsuits to wear around my husband at our private pond???
@joshuarodriguez423
@joshuarodriguez423 Ай бұрын
​@@PossiblyAVampyreObviously not talking about you.
@Ev1L_Scotsman
@Ev1L_Scotsman Ай бұрын
​@@PossiblyAVampyre yes
@mta6247
@mta6247 Ай бұрын
@@PossiblyAVampyre don’t do that … You know what I mean .. Women always trying to be smart
@mta6247
@mta6247 Ай бұрын
@@joshuarodriguez423 Thank You 🙏🏾… So Typical
@davidmuller4924
@davidmuller4924 Ай бұрын
Lots reminds me of when one of my Exs was to meet my family for the first time. She wanted to wear booty shorts. I told her she would get dropped off in the ghettos of Chicago if she was gonna wear those. After 30 min of her bitching, and me picking 111th and Ashland as where she was gonna be dropped she decided to wear a stunning summer dress. .which led her and my mom talking about clothes. While me and my moms husband chilling and watching the prior nights UFC fights. Stand strong and have standards. Good standards provide good outcomes.
@Sunshiine305
@Sunshiine305 Ай бұрын
Well said ❤🩷🙏🏽💯
@MacabreAfterparty
@MacabreAfterparty Ай бұрын
You were willing to put your girlfriend in danger just to prove a point?
@manersbams9215
@manersbams9215 17 күн бұрын
@MacabreAfterparty Read idiot, he’s under no obligation to pander to someone who doesn’t have any common sense. That’s probably why she’s an Ex.
@amyismail8604
@amyismail8604 6 күн бұрын
Lands End, Amazon, and Retro has really cute modest bathing suits.
@ichangedmy
@ichangedmy Ай бұрын
I've seen plenty, and plenty of women wearing them.
@SirEmuTheDapper
@SirEmuTheDapper 19 күн бұрын
This is why I only wear swim shirts and swim shorts when swimming, can’t trust ANYTHING else, for ANY age
@ladyofwinterfell1509
@ladyofwinterfell1509 25 күн бұрын
I saw this mother and her TEEN daughter at target she couldn’t have been older than 15 and the daughter came over with a bunch of suits the g string ass out tiny nipple cover suits to the dressing room and the mom grabbed them out her hand starts goin through them one by one throwing them on the ground going “oh my god oh my god no NO WHAT THE HELL YOURE NOT WEARING THIS OVER MY DEAD BODY THIS IS DISGUSTING” and the girl was so embarrassed kept saying but this is what everyone wears mom and the mom was gangster af gave no shits and that’s the mom I aspire to be ❤
@briandering4182
@briandering4182 29 күн бұрын
So many have forgotten that Farrah Faucet (back in the 70's) was stunning in a 1 piece...and posters were on most boys walls. No 'g-string' units were required to show off her form.
@19jc80
@19jc80 Ай бұрын
As a 43 year old single male, most of what's hanging out on these females should stay hidden, daughter or not. lol.
@bluwater1422
@bluwater1422 6 күн бұрын
Right
@Chrisswifee-y8x
@Chrisswifee-y8x 19 күн бұрын
i love how she talked about this. but, i think people ether design it for people to get a better tan line, rather then making it whorish. now i’m not saying they don’t make them too whorish because they do, just most the time they don’t mean too. however i fully agree with you.
@SunCrabJr
@SunCrabJr Ай бұрын
I love my long sleeve swimsuit! It protects me from sunburns and I think I look pretty cute in it. I know that’s definitely not other people’s preference so we definitely need more semi-modest options!
@jasonfox9992
@jasonfox9992 19 күн бұрын
If you would not say it in front of your grandparents, don’t say it. If you not wear it in front of your parents, don’t wear it.
@The2Destiny-d5h
@The2Destiny-d5h Ай бұрын
Companies are going to make what gives them money, this is just the result of what people buy
@icaruswerle4091
@icaruswerle4091 Ай бұрын
My problem exactly i like to dress modest even at the the beach
@SmilesRay98
@SmilesRay98 Ай бұрын
Totally agree, i started wearing bathing suits that covers a lot, but they dont look good. I just dont want to feel naked in from of so many people.
@Theonly_z_Official
@Theonly_z_Official 10 күн бұрын
I hate showing skin in any short clothing. I hate skirts & shorts. They're so uncomfortable. I do wear long pants and full clothing because I don't wanna be looked at by predators. For one thing, I'm a guy but I do actually admit I like wearing dresses. AP BAP AP! don't scold me on dresses! Clothes do not have genders! Neither does tones of voices. And regardless, I am Agender so I do not identify as Male nor female at all.
@ryanborjas487
@ryanborjas487 Ай бұрын
God bless this woman
@elora2644
@elora2644 Ай бұрын
Get yourself a swimsuit from Sea Fancy!! They might be a bit expensive but they're so cute and modest!
@bluwater1422
@bluwater1422 6 күн бұрын
Right
@shelbywestbrook4299
@shelbywestbrook4299 Ай бұрын
LL Bean, Lands End, and aerie all have modest one and two pieces that cover more and look nice. You just need to know where to look
@FeralLogic
@FeralLogic 11 күн бұрын
Companies create what is purchased. Otherwise, they go out of business. This is a result of purchasing pressure.
@janicemccartney9494
@janicemccartney9494 Күн бұрын
Retro stage actually have super cute bathing suits
@nope69555
@nope69555 5 күн бұрын
Bought my wife a one piece and she said she prefers it.
@deedotman
@deedotman Ай бұрын
Totally agree! And why when i try to buy my kids bathing suits look like that too!
@angelinemarie1480
@angelinemarie1480 Ай бұрын
GIRLSSSS, use swim dresses, I really love them they are cute and if you go on the internet you will find a variety of coverage options, highly recommended
@lilyharlan-tb6qb
@lilyharlan-tb6qb Ай бұрын
FR!!! Im in juniors sizing but am still a teen and don’t feel comfortable in thongs!! Some people own it, others don’t
@heyitzbanshee4280
@heyitzbanshee4280 16 күн бұрын
Omg so I found this super cute dress bathing suit on Amazon that comes in a bunch of different colors and it’s super comfy! Totally recommend
@chrisde9788
@chrisde9788 18 күн бұрын
Agreed, i think people should feel positive in their bodys or whatever i could wear a bra and think i look good but still be uncomfortable, i cant even go to the girls section and find normal tshirts remember just because you dont want to wear something doesn't mean your not comfortable in your body
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