Discipline, Divorce, and Money: Q and A

[@schneeflocke1036]

Oh boy, i want a Joel for myself. He is so sweet. I teared up at how much he adores Bonnie.

[@schneeflocke1036]

Then again...standing kids in the corner is such a big no go for me. Thats humiliating. We're not in the 50s anymore. www.kidspot.com.au/parenting/parenthood/discipline/disciplining-kids-why-the-naughty-corner-doesnt-work/news-story/7d19e8b71c8e45161e974ba

[@darrarichardson2897]

Schneeflocke 103 Different things work for different families. I have seen the corner technique work with children. It may not be for you as a parent, and that is ok, but if it works for them they have a right to do that. It isn't going to scar the kids for life. Their kids seem well adjusted so they are definitely doing something right! ☺

[@lind3822]

Schneeflocke 103 there is not too many Joel's in this world 🌎 unfortunately. Lovely guy 👍🏻

[@ashleyk924]

and that right there is the reason we have so many entitled idiots now who think the world revolves around them. Discipline your child so they do not grow up to be spoiled selfish brats who take no self responsibility!

[@schneeflocke1036]

Ashley Koester there are ways to do that without doing things like corner time out, letting your baby scream to "teach him how to sleep" etc. Kids have voices too . And they are entitled to show that in a respectful way.

[@saraheckerson8831]

OH MY GOD Joel talking about just how obsessed he is with Bonnie legit made me cry he's so amazing HOW

[@jesusloveyouxoxo]

There needs to be more Joel's in this world! 😭

[@JuiceFamVlogs]

Danielle agreed! I was lucky enough to find mine 💜

[@BbankTv2]

Danielle TRUE

[@jesusloveyouxoxo]

Gerrit Haha

[@SnoWhiteSally]

Danielle right?????? Lucky lady.

[@christinemorris7549]

Who else is completely just obsessed with Bonnie's hair???😍😍😍

[@JuiceFamVlogs]

Christine Morris Me too! And pretty much everything about her lol She's such a beautiful person 💜

[@mudatudiallo5108]

Christine Morris she said she has hair extensions on

[@SweetComfortScents]

Yes!!!!!!!

[@reeseziviello10]

Christine Morris YESSSS

[@meerdee]

Who cares if it's her real hair or not -- she's rocking it and it's BEAUTIFUL!

[@jennifergenevieve2647]

I got teary eyed when Joel was saying how much he loves Bonnie. I love how real & honest you both are. Your positivity & faith has influenced me more than you know.

[@dalygill2476]

When Joel is talking about adoring Bonnie, Bonnie starts crying, then says "we had to turn the air conditioning off" that was so funny. 😂

[@catherineclodius4537]

Hi Bonnie, I just turned 65 on Wednesday and I watch you everyday along with Ellie and Jared and 8 Passenges. I love your dress. You look beautiful!!! Best wishes to you always.

[@judypoohdy]

Catherine Clodius Happy Birthday! I turned 60 in May. Isn't life grand!

[@kimmychan1967]

Catherine Clodius yay!! I'm 49 & watch with my 4 y/o grandson!

[@wizardoris55]

I'm 61 and I watch Bonnie also.. I love Bonnie's laugh..makes me smile.

[@llamavibez6247]

Catherine Clodius wo

[@katiek4704]

Catherine Clodius awww your so sweet!💕

[@desiraex143]

I actually really love how disciplined Bonnie's children are! There are other moms out there on KZbin who obviously let their children do WHATEVER they want and pick their battles with their kids instead of being firm with them in all instances where discipline is clearly necessary. From what I see, Bonnie's children are so respectful and kind and do their best to learn from the lessons that Bonnie and Joel teach them!

[@aiyanalebron6131]

I want someone who looks at me like how Joel looks at Bonnie!!!! 😫😫😫

[@GeorgyGomez]

I have never seen a man so devoted to his wife as Joel is! Seriously, of course it is because the great person Bonnie is, you both are the most charismatic and lovely people I ever met on KZbin! Keep going this way guys, you're seriously goals for all of us out there! … and just for your demographic information I'm 26 and I watch you from Guadalajara, MX! :)

[@judypoohdy]

Georgy Gómez I'm in Queretaro! Hola!

[@iambellesnows]

Georgy Gómez I'm from Mexicali, BC. Holaaa

[@yorlinzelaya7021]

Georgy Gómez hi. i'm watching from guadalajara too!! This is so cool.

[@chumpyfapper1693]

It is like he is in jail and afraid to be himself or ever cross her.

[@judypoohdy]

Chumpy Fapper you got that so wrong lol

[@shannonvanschoor6898]

You guys! From what you said Bonnie, you may never see this comment but I feel like you are my best friends! I'm only a teenager but you two (and the kids) make me happy every single day. I look forward to 1pm here in the UK because I know, oh I can watch Bonnie and Joel. I feel like I've known you forever and even though I will most probably never meet you, I'd like you to know that I really love watching the small part of your day I see. This comment is probably really dramatic and soppy but this is genuinely how much I love watching you guys. I think the way you live your life and teach your 'kiddos' (I know you hate that word aha) is truly admirable. Thank you for putting a smile on my face everyday (even on the weekends because then I go back and watch old vlogs, aha). Lots of love from Shannon in England xx

[@michellekent4659]

Shannon van Schoor agreed!!

[@emily_s6304]

Shannon van Schoor I so agree

[@emily_s6304]

Shannon van Schoor I live in England to

[@kittysenpai4047]

Shannon van Schoor i live in england to

[@raquelsingh4594]

Bonnie Hoellein can you guys do a morning routine

[@meaganhammond6901]

the way Joel talks about Bonnie is the cutest thing....I love it so much ❤️

[@kaitlynmarks]

I wish there wasn't so many rude and negative people in this world. We should be lifting each other up! You guys are great ❤️❤️

[@darrarichardson2897]

Kaitlyn Marks Amen!!!

[@genevieveleblanc7910]

Yaasss girl yaasss there are so many in this world and we need to stop them and show kindness. Thanks so much for remidning me.

[@lijill127]

I'm Mormon too!

[@betsy_readz7254]

Kaitlyn Marks I feel the same way

[@kjracke]

Your honesty is what sold me on your channel! I loved how you were never afraid to parent your children in front of the camera and never afraid to show that you and Joel had an argument. Love you guys!

[@kellyreed2768]

I loved this video ☺

[@JuiceFamVlogs]

Kelly Reed Simply put and I completely agree 💜

[@nicolegatto4867]

I love that Bonnie and Joel acknowledge how tough it is to raise 4 kids at times but they explain it in the best way. It takes so much time and effort to teach your kids and correct them and just teach them to be good people. I just love how Bonnie said it. She is a great mom!

[@hannahkim5663]

Can u watch the first video u ever uploaded plz!!!

[@christinemorris7549]

hannah kim Yes and react to it!

[@JuiceFamVlogs]

hannah kim I love that idea too! Would be so fun to watch!

[@dynamytewolfye8443]

hannah kim A lot of channels deleted there first vids and once a vid is uploaded most youtubers delete it for hardrive space,

[@beccaschwecke6542]

I LOVED how you spoke about parenting and teaching your children good behaviors! You always come across as stern but loving and just look how beautiful and well behaved your children are! As an early childhood and parent educator I applaud you for your consistency, strictness and loving parenting! Those are all that kids really want/need from their parents - the rest of the stuff is just fluff 💗

[@lollipopppp]

One thing though - I'm bummed Bonnie says she doesn't read the comments, I think a lot of people might take offence to it.... lol...

[@anndread123]

karin's gang - have you read these comments! Holy wow. I don't even read them because people are so mean! They tear her apart! I can hardly read them because they make me sad for her. The worst thing about the internet, the keyboard bullies. If there is something negative in my mind.... it stays there. I don't spread negativity. The saying "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all". Why do people even watch if they dislike the channel/her so strongly. I don't get it!!!

[@lollipopppp]

yes I think it's good if it's for her health :) I do appreciate her being so honest! omg so many youtubers wouldn't have the balls to say that! ;p

[@nikakaltenbrun7435]

karin's gang I don't these people some of them...yikes makes me very sad to hear people body shaming her, telling them how to parent...

[@lollipopppp]

I think when you put yourself in the public eye, it's okay to question people's decisions, behaviour because it's the beautiful thing about being a part of a society. But sooo many people don't know HOW to criticize constructively without being NEGATIVE. This is why I love youtube - learning about other people's lifestyles.

[@ashlysyoutubealbum7319]

Anndrea D true

[@amyk9035]

The part of the video that I loved the most was when you spoke about your kids and discipline. I LOVE the way you parent your children. I see so many people making a dozen different things for a meal because the kids don't want what is prepared, and it is so nice to see parents raising kids the way I was raised growing up. Love your channel!

[@bleighleahy]

It's very strange that all these Mormon youtubers never address the churches stance on LGTBQ.

[@jimmid67]

So 1 month ago, my dad went to jail for many reasons, I'm not going to say them because it's too much information. My mom kept thinking about a divorce and when she told me, i didnt really care because I'm still going to see him when he gets out of jail, it's 1 year of jail time I believe. Yesterday in the mail, my dad sent me a letter from jail saying he's depressed and all of that illnesses. I believed him because I have anxiety and it runs in the family. But watching your videos helped me a lot and not to focus on my dad's problems and other stuff. So thank you Bonnie

[@greeneyedmonster7806]

I love the put your spouse's feeling above your own mentality! My husband and I have been married for 20 years and this is a very true statement!! Love you guys!!❤️❤️

[@mmwright246]

Your family is so loving towards each other and other people. Love it!

[@livindailylife5016]

Oh Joel.... there you go making me cry with how sweet you are...

[@rebeccalane9028]

I may not know personally but I feel like you're one of my best friends and like you said in the video you are who you hang out with and you provide such a positive outlook for my life thank you for your videos!

[@abigailhumphry1888]

Bonnie, you are my mom inspiration! I'm 25 with a 4 year old and 1 year old. I live in the Midwest but I so hope I am able to meet you someday to thank you for being such a good example! God bless you and your family!

[@MarshaBenne]

Abi Foster I have a 4 year old and a 1 year old too!

[@tessacardwell9995]

bonnie and joel. i can't express to you how much i adore you , your outlooks on life and things in general, the love you two share , and just the love you have for life. you say you read the first 20 and i hope i'm apart of the first 20 because i want you to just know how godly and amazing you are as a woman but also how amazing your family and partner in life are. i'm 18 and i learn so much from you and your family alone. it's hard to explain how y'all inspire me . i love you two and your family so much! god bless. xoxo

[@francesduffy4969]

Joel is just the sweetest guy! The way he looks at you in every video gets me..so attentive and loving. I love your relationship and family. You both truly are two people who inspire me to be a better person. Your story and how much family means to you inspires me to just love everyone and not to concentrate on the negative stuff. I'm not a mom yet but I can guarantee that when I am I already have a mental note on ways to rear and guide my children. Just know that I truly adore you guys and that in every video I leave with at least one thing that makes be be a better person, or almost like a daily reminder to focus on the important things such as remembering to tell those I love them. Sorry if this is like a novel but I felt like I had to comment and hopefully you guys will see this and smile 😍 sending you all the love, best wishes and positive thoughts to you and your family from Ireland xxx

[@morgan4474]

I love your parenting style....love and discipline combined. I always think kids are happier with boundaries and with knowing what is expected from them.

[@RoseWilyn]

Oh, we can CLEARLY see Joel is head over heels for you, Bonnie! I've never in my life seen a man as amazing as Joel! You are so blessed, and Joel is so blessed to have you.

[@meredithkroll9526]

I am a part of that demographic! As a young mom, I love seeing how you interact with the kids and take them seriously when they are telling their stories! ❤️💙💜

[@CambodianFamilyVlogs]

We are a young married couple with 2 children 2 and 5 months. You are inspirational as people and as husband and wife. I genuinely adore you and your family. Loved this video 😘

[@jilliansophie3986]

I love that Bonnie is unapologetically herself and that's why I love her channel! She's sassy, confident, and knows what she wants and I relate so much to that! Next: find myself a Joel lol

[@kayleelife7734]

I'm so glad you addressed your religion, I think so many people nowadays have misconceptions and I love how strong of faith you guys have! it's getting harder and harder to stay strong in this crazy world and you're a great example to me 💗💗💗

[@lauramuller3451]

I cried because Joel is so sweet! He is awesome! I'm so happy for them.

[@jayleeroseneal]

I love that you two are so open, this was refreshing to listen too. I love that you two are on the same page there is nothing fake or phoney either about you two being the way you are. I Love that you guys are open about the displcining of your children and you have shared a tiny bit of that and that's been an eye opening to see, I personally love how you guys addressed everything. You've always shown how real you are. I loved that Bonnie thinks about her kids when she's telling a story in the vlogs for them in the future to hear. I love that Joel is just as equal as to you, i love that he does his part and he knows where he fits. AND I LOVE THAT. I think with so much blacklash and negativity Bonnie gets she's as real as she gets there's nothing fake and i enjoy that. Bonnie, Thank you for being out there with everything, the realness of you and your family with Joel and the kids i love that you are who you are. I've had an ex friend of mine who recently called you out to be a bad parent for trying to help Olivia. It killed me to read some of these things she had to say, It just fills my heart to see the content you put up and to see your children, i don't think having high standards for your children isn't harsh it makes them feel like they can do better, they will do better and you and Joel will be proud of them regardless. THANK YOU

[@HairTwoHeels]

couldn't POSSIBLY AGREE MORE! I was letting comments dictate how and what I film for a while and it was affecting me in so many ways! Getting back to my original self with what I film and show and live and I've never been happier or more proud of my channel.

[@emilydavis1937]

I'm so so grateful that my mom was the same way with me when I was little, so many of my friends are picky eaters and have no basic manners.

[@abbiprice3137]

I will never stop watching u guys I love u sooo much if u tube stops I will cry all day everyday

[@JuiceFamVlogs]

Abbi Price Same here! They've become such a big part of my life! Especially while I'm raising my own children.

[@samanthamccoy9227]

Hi Bonnie not sure if you'll see this but I have been watching your channel for about two years now. I am 25 with two kids and a husband. You have taught me so much with your words of wisdom. When I watch you and your family everyday I find myself learning from you..how to be a great mother and a wife. I will always watch your channel and support you guys from afar. ☺️

[@heathergoodrich3024]

I'm a 27 year old mom of a 6 year old girl and I watch BECAUSE Bonnie is so REAL with her mothering.i love watching so thank you

[@maureenpluthero8543]

You are raising your kids like I did and I now have three well mannered, considerate, compassionate, loving and appreciative adult children.

[@hanfakaga1]

I am so so so proud of you for sticking up for yourselves! I see a lot of negativity and I love love love watching your channel to see how genuinely positive you are! I also love how much Joel loves you Bonnie it's so refreshing to see that unconditional love! Your entire family has been a moving force behind my family reaching out to our local lds church and I can't wait to hear back and hear more and go to our first service!

[@dewangaw.3671]

One of the main reasons I love you guys as a couple is that you both still have giddy teenagers somewhere inside you...You aren't afraid to laugh or snort or cry or do whatever in front of the other as you think they're absolutely hilarious- now that's love! And still having that chemistry after 4 kids is so beautiful! 💕

[@amandamiller3743]

Thank you, thank you, thank you for this video. It was much more raw, honest and refreshing to see. Us moms relate to your channel so much more because of the transparency you provide. We may not see the discipline or the disagreements with Joel, but your willingness to talk about it shows a realness that many channels are missing.

[@rebeccab9279]

You can see Joel's love through this whole video! I love how he looks at Bonnie and truest listens. And Bonnie is so open and sassy and kind, I love them 💕

[@allisonwalls2417]

I know no marriage/relationship is perfect, but YOU guys have a beautiful marriage and I always feel the deep love you have for each other.

[@ngayanc10]

@11:54 i can never hold back the tears, Bonnie's reaction gets me all the time! Absolute gemxx

[@emilykristine7366]

Seriously sitting here bawling hearing Joel talk about how much he loves you! What an amazing guy!

[@rileyleavitt8171]

I have commented this so many times and I'll continue to comment it: Joel is the absolute sweetest!! you seriously lucked out and i wish that one day i can find a man like him

[@nancypeteja6560]

I love when Joel winks... it is so playful! and he really does love his Bonnie!!

[@zoemifsud2518]

Bonnie is the type of mommy I am and I now have three teens 18, 15 and 12 and they are so disciplined in a society that's not and I get thanked for it everyday

[@cheekygem22]

Your all amazing you so honest with everything. Bonnie you are beautiful and so respectful Joel your amazing man and family comes first which is great love you guys ❤️ xxx

[@souledout4god247]

When you said you feel a connection with your demographic you hit that spot on. Watching you has helped me in my life as a wife and a parent in many ways. Thank you for all you do and just being you!!!

[@jewelsland3376]

I just love Bonnie and Joel. I loved her answer about living and filming their life authentically. Most of us are here because we love watching this family and how they do things.

[@sarahhurley575]

I personally love watching your family. It's amazing to watch someone else's life from the outside. See how you raise your kids/ lice your life. Thank you for sharing it with us.

[@xemmamarie]

I find it so interesting when people open up about their religious believes on youtube/other social media channels because I'm from a place where being religious is not very common, at all. Growing up I had 2-3 friends who were christians, but even they didn't go to church every Sunday or lived their religion in a very serious way (I would say). So hearing people open up about how their lives are and why they choose to live their lives a certain way captures my attention right away, I wish more people would speak about it but it is a very personal and sacred thing and I 100% understand why people chose not to. Mormonism is something I didn't know anything about, hadn't even heard of it till i started watching the Shaytards 7 or so years back. So thank you Bonnie and Joel for talking about it. I love your videos, you have such a beautiful family that you should be very very proud of. All love xx

[@Vline629]

Parenthood is rough, and being stern is a MUST!! If you give them high standards then they will be able to do things to the best of their ability! I will say though, you and your sisters have shown me it's ok to laugh!! I have changed the whole mood of my household due to you showing me to have fun and just laugh with my kids. THANK YOU 🌻🌼🌻

[@CullenandKatie]

Oh man, where can I get a Bonnie to play the piano for while sitting on a pillow?? 😅 loved this vlog! Nobody puts Bonnie in a corner...for 2 hours. 😂 love y'all! Can't wait to hang out again!

[@QueenBeeFamily]

Joel reminds me so much of my husband. Selfless and truly loving. I did early on take that for granted.

[@taniarios0924]

Love the way you raise your kids. They seem so respectful to you both and family. They're all so sweet ❤️

[@MonnieMayJayne]

I am 22, I look at you and Joel and your really great children, I can only hope that my life goes this way, you're so positive, living a happy and amazing life. I love you guys, thank you for giving me goals.

[@ItsSewFluffy]

I love everything about you both! You can genuinely see your best friends and the way Joel looks at you is priceless ❤ Also just as a side note im not religious at all but i still do enjoy times when you include things to do with religion in the vlog, I just think good for you all! ❤❤

[@neistatc]

Never in my life did I want to be able to like a video more than once!! Aahhh! I wanted to hear the story anyway but after seeing Joel's face and reaction it made me REALLY want to hear it! Go hit that THUMBS UP!!

[@RedneckJessi]

I'm the same way, almost everytime I talk about Christ and how my relationship is with Him... I cry/get emotional/choked up. Always gets me! I love watching your different relationships with your kids, your husband, Christ, your subscribers. I evny your patient kindness, I find myself quick to react sometimes.

[@whitneywhite09]

I love how much y'all love each other!❤️ You can see it so evidently and it's beautiful!! Literal relationship goals! Love y'all!☺️

[@courtneynelson300]

Thank you both for sharing your views, values, and morals with us! I truly enjoyed hearing everything that you talked about in this video. And I love how much Joel loves you Bonnie, it's so cute!!

[@madeleinepatterson8987]

As much as i love the family vlogs, i'm LOVING the new vibe and these styles of videos!!!

[@cgowan24]

Just wanted to pop on and say I really appreciate your honesty. I have unsubscribed from so many family vloggers because they just don't seem genuine anymore. I started watching you because you guys are very real and that's what keeps me coming back. All the best to your family :)

[@CristinaGutierrezPerez94]

Where can all of us find another Joel?! His love for Bonnie is the cutest! You got yourself an amazing man Bonnie!❤️

[@11imnotdead]

This has recently become my favorite channel to watch. I sit up until 9-10pm at night (Australia) and refresh and i will not go to bed until i've watched your vlog! Your relationship inspires mine. Your parenting inspires mine, i've always been set on the 2 girls we have but i look at what an amazing little boy Linclon is and gives me total baby fever! I'm rambling now but just wanted to say that i love you guys and never change! I love that you dont do the corny ball pit/slim/billion toy fads and just keep things real, grounded day to day life! X

[@bayleeeide4809]

Oh my goodness, the love you guys have for each other is so incredible and it's very noticeable. You are amazing as a couple and together you have raised amazing children. So much love for you all!

[@INCH78]

I love how Joel is so goofy and funny sometimes and all of a sudden he says the sweetest things to or about Bonnie❤

[@Juliiebee]

I'm a 30 year old momma of two boys , and when Bonnie is vlogging , I do feel like you're talking to me :)

[@jacqui3813]

Bonnie, being twenty years old and going into my third year of college I just wanted to say you're such a great role model! This video was great and I love seeing the love you and Joel have for Christ AND each-other

[@carissabudd7148]

You all are exactly what needs to be inserted in so many homes in America that lack discipline with love and direction. ❤️❤️

[@LorishaJensen]

That was honestly my favourite Q&A ever done. Wow, thank you for being so vulnerable and open. It's hard to find KZbinrs with such openness now-a-days. Thank you Bonnie and Joel!

[@laurasabo1047]

Believer, blessed and thankful! I absolutely adore you and your family.

[@katherineroot2409]

The conviction the two of you have in everything you do is so inspiring! Love your family so much.

[@lakd23]

Bonnie, you remind me SO much of my Aunt! She is the person I really look up to. She’s not afraid to show people how she feels, she’s fun and outgoing just like you, she is such a strong woman and really has so much love for her spouse and family. I strive to be just like her, and you one day

[@victoriakalmus5304]

Bonnie and Joel thank you so much for making my day every single day. When I go through very very hard day I just go to KZbin and watch you and all your siblings. I can't express how much I love y'all, and I can never go to y'alls meet ups and it sucks so much. Y'all are such an inspiration to me and I want to raise my kids like you raise your kids and also have a relationship like you and Joel do.

[@mrcvxss]

No please don't stop I love watching you every day.😊

[@jennifervieira99]

I agree with you both. I was married and I tried to make it work and I tried to get him to go to counseling with me. He didn't want to do that. The struggles of me working very hard to make it better and him happy were never ending. And it was way to big for me to handle. Wish I had half the man of Joel is but I'm happier now by myself. It took a long time for me to be happy and it keeps getting better.

[@olivialee6242]

I love the support they have for each other. That's how a marriage is supposed to be 💕💕

[@DearASMRAbby]

Thanks so much for putting the time in to answer these questions. I learn so much watching your videos. How to be a better person, how I want to teach my future children, how to appreciate my spouse, how to become stronger in my faith. For that, I am truly thankful and want you to know that you really do make a difference in people's lives. When you cry, I cry. When you laugh, there are thousands that are laughing right with you. I feel grateful to be a part of your lives. I hope this vlogging adventure continues for years to come! Much love from Ohio! Xoxo

[@morganbowles6614]

It warms my heart so much to hear and watch you both interact. So much good communication and love! I can honestly see how you both love each other. ❤️❤️

[@kayleeharbin6162]

Bonnie! I love yours and Joels relationship! My husband and I have been married for 5 years and please know that your marriage is such an incredible example! Even when you're a little irritated with one another you are still so loving and soft with one another! The way you praise each other and constantly build each other up is so inspirational. You are absolutely #goals😍😂

[@emilyparker8315]

Bonnie I am a teenager watching your channel. I’m 19, and I don’t have the best parents to be honest. They didn’t teach me much, they weren’t the best examples, and although I love them I just understand that they didn’t want to be parents. They didn’t want the responsibility of teaching and guiding someone through life. I think you and Joel have taught me a lot! How to be a good parent in the future, how to be loving to my future husband, how to be a lady (while also being a bit sassy lol) and how to be HAPPY. I love y’all! And I love watching your videos. ❤️

[@daveandfaithhaverkamp8859]

Aw we love you guys in Ontario Canada ! My 6 yr old can't get enough of you all! It nice that I can let her watch something that I can even reference in my parenting. So amen sista in your parenting style!

[@nadraf9766]

Please don't stop it channel for anything.....i really love to see you all....love you!😍

[@MeganOyer]

Hi Bonnie. I don't know if you'll see this but I wanted to let you know how much you have helped me. I loved when you were talking about how you think of all the moms who watch your channel. I have always been terrified of being a mom. I was scared to be pregnant and give birth and deal with a baby because I am terrible with kids. I am the youngest in my family and of all of my cousins so I never grew up around little kids. Watching you with your kids and seeing how much work and love you put into them and how much love they give you back has really helped me get over a lot of my fears. I have always wanted to be a mom of teenagers but now I'm less scared of one day having children of my own. I just wanted to thank you and Joel for being brave enough to put your lives out in the world to perfect strangers. Love you. 😘

[@glvalliere]

SingWithMe2 0p0

[@hadassaht4386]

I'm not a mom, but I agree with the discipline you show your kids. We need more people like you guys who are not afraid to show some tough love to their kids. That's the way I was raised and that's the way I will raise my kids. Keep it up! Also, Joelie! He's so sweet! Tears when he was talking about you. I've been with you all from the beginning and you are probably the only channel I watch faithfully. Cute cute cute!

[@MS-sw5zq]

I'm watching this for a second time today because I adore you guys and I cry big alligator tears every time Joel talks about how much he loves and adores Bonnie. Anyone else?! 😭😍

[@MS-sw5zq]

PS - 22,000 thumbs up...so when do we get to hear the story?! 😆

[@sallyrooney8306]

hi Bonnie a Joel and the kids I just want to say that there is nothing wrong with this video and I love your family so much 😍 you all are so grateful it's just so lovely to see a family like you

[@josephochieng2522]

I have always thought that Joel is the most authentic person i watch on youtube .

[@terrimoore2442]

Thanks for sharing your answers with us. The way you are bringing up your children is exactly how i was. Strict but never cruel. With lots of love&laughter. Going to Mass every Sunday with my fam was a true blessing. And i guess I'm not in your demographics since I'm 58, but i feel so intune with you all, young at heart! 💗🤗

[@tombstonequiet]

My boyfriend and I have the same sitting VS. standing height problem so that part made me giggle. He always asks me to slouch down when we're sitting. 😂 Love you guys!!

[@Mindy_1]

Thank you so much for taking the time to answer these questions! You guys are a awesome family!

[@802inge]

Oh my how I love you guys. Most of the answers I knew already but it was still a great video! I'm okay with anyone's religion but I'm glad that what we get to see is it. I myself am not religious in the most common sense. I do believe that there is more between heaven and earth but I'm not practicing anything. I live my life the way I want. I have a strong sense of right and wrong and as long as things feel right it's good. Although the video where Cody had a rough day and you talked about it was very touching. You were still working on your house with the empty kitchen/ living room and sitting on the floor. Olivia stated crying... hope you know what video I'm taking about. I'm a huge sceptic but it touched my heart that day. I'm glad you were able to work through your struggles and are still as in love and devoted to each other as you are today! Thank you for sharing your life with us! (Sorry if it doesn't makes sense what I wrote, I'm from the Netherlands...)