I worked for 16 years and I have NOTHING to show up for it

[@SueRibelle]

hi everyone, thanks for your incredible support! If you would like to, please feel free to help me out through here: buymeacoffee.com/sueribelle I'm incredibly grateful for your interest in helping me during these times. I look forward to creating content for you and growing this channel. Please join me on this journey. Thank you

[@Lexicon345]

@@SueRibelle just sent 15.00 USD

[@mbtrev]

You like English teacher

[@Duke6598]

@@AA-lz4wq Yeah but you gotta find a rich guy first lol

[@johnwynne-qx6br]

Good luck for your future keep faith in yourself and your mother will be proud of you soon 👍

[@angelachristle2116]

@@AA-lz4wq it’s interesting how some people fall back on that as an option and you are right it is an option… But if it’s not what someone wants, then it shouldn’t happen. But I would agree it might be a lot easier trying to financially succeed in this world with a partner. That’s kind of how our societies try to set us up for success. They certainly have not been designed for people to try to go at this life as a single individual. And perhaps maybe at H 18 she settled down and married someone and had that life partner, but was completely unhappy with that situation as well. she is where she is now and hopefully she will be out ahead of this sooner than later and in a better place to think more clearly and make decisions about our future. It’s hard to really set the stage for the future when you’re so bogged down in financial debt and wondering where your next meal is going to come from or how you’re going to pay your bills. I wish her well. I wish you well as well!

[@oranjelibertine]

I've worked since age 16 I'm 42 now, and all I have to show for that is that I'm still alive and pay all my bills (how depressing), have a roof over my head (rented) and clothes, bit of technology. That's it!

[@CrumpetsNBiscuits]

Be strong my brother

[@kaplislemesis4789]

thats where the magic of midlife crisis comes in. I was laughed at by my 1st serious employer and offered such pity money, since then I learned how pointless it is. Met some good people as inspiration, seen Zeitgeist at around 21 years old and got out of working every day around 23. Since then only worked total of 2-3 years. I wouldnt mind doing work and I am still very good, just the money offered is often not worth it.

[@oranjelibertine]

@ work sucks but i just need it to even survive. I don’t know what is real and what isn’t anymore…. So much brainwashing going on. Need to rethink my expectations, I know I’m more tired than I used to be. I was angry young man in my 20’s which didn’t set me up for climbing any corporate ladders.

[@kbkb117]

That's a lot to be happy for tbh

[@JaXuun]

​@@kaplislemesis4789but what pays your bills

[@simplydad2015]

I have no qualifications. I left school at 16. I am a builder. I am 43 and have assets totalling £750,000 and no debt. Own my cars and house. Never had any inheritance. Every penny I have is mine My wife is university educated and is a graphic designer. She has not earned and does not earn anywhere close to what I do. Even though I am on paper an uneducated manual worker I feel I have done ok.

[@SueRibelle]

definitely! sounds great. and they say manual work actually makes much more money than the fancy work we do with our jobs. you are a proof to that obviously. wish you and your wife a great life ahead! thanks for the comment

[@snowsnow4231]

because it takes a lot of brain power to pull of graphic design, its way less intuitive and straight forward than putting bricks one on top of another Sam Hyde is a graphic designer, made some MTV show and earned millions, practically retired at 30, its a good profession, just not for NPCs

[@MnemonicCarrier]

Way to go! Having a "tangible skill" is unbeatable. I know many electricians and plumbers who have very similar stories to yours, while my fellow software developers (and IT folks in general) are drowning in debt and moving into their parent's basements! I even know lawyers who are struggling now - one who is even driving a cab at night to make ends meet! Things are tough out there now, but if you can lay bricks, tile a roof, fit and fix electrical wiring and sockets and lights, unblock a toilet, tile a floor, fit and fix windows (etc etc etc), then you'll always have an income.

[@ewr34certxwertwer]

@@MnemonicCarrier Sw engineer here. 2 flats paid and 100k stock portfolio at 45. Zero debt. Difference between me and your fellows? I went freelance and started working for myself instead of giving my knkowledge away to greedy companies.

[@MnemonicCarrier]

@ My first role out of uni was a C++ developer for a startup (so stock options), and it paid off after 2 years (right place, right time). Could have retired after that, but agreed to work for another startup, and that paid off too (after 5 years). Built a hotel on the beach after that. Also completely debt free, called it a day and now rent out the entire hotel to a management company (so it's basically a passive income stream). I've always agreed that you shouldn't show any loyalty to the company you work for - do everything in your own best (self) interests. If a company doesn't need you, they'll drop you within the blink of an eye (i.e. they won't show you any loyalty). You did the right thing 😉

[@acidthunder1]

The corporate world is soul crushing.

[@acidthunder1]

Perhaps get some Bitcoin, it will probably work out in the long run as far as finances are concerned

[@888daedalus]

Corporate success seems to require transmogrifying one's character and moral conduct to a Machiavellian and predatory type of person in order to survive and climb in the ranks. Retaining one's sense of compassion, honesty and reasonable humility just makes one expendable when they have been fully exploited. Human beings really need to evolve spiritually if they are to make it out of this century as a civilization. The worst of us usually end up in charge of us and the legal system is configured to maintain that status quo. Having said that, I too learned translation and adapted to many other job roles and while I have my social security and my experience, there is nothing else I was able to protect and save. The was always a disruptor, trouble maker and/or parasite to negate all tangible gains from work and drive me away. I am now pretty much at peace with it as this did not make me into a loathsome person in the end. It is not fair to yourself however to say you have nothing because you have yourself and the person you became. You had standards and self respect which should let you live with yourself in peace. There are likely good acts of merit work you performed along the way and you have learned much. Thus at the spiritual level, you have affected the life trajectories of many people and promoted good will. At the time of dying (a graduation as I see it) none of any ill gotten gains from the corporate world will matter. Let yourself choose and have happiness as is your God given birthright. Happiness is a mental state of being invoked by an aware person and not something that is conferred or taken away by another with any spiritual authority.

[@StarlightPrincess70]

I am a 54 year old woman. Have been working since I was 16. I do not have one single thing to show for it other than feeling totally burned out and exhausted. No savings. Not a red penny. All my income has gone to barely surviving here in northern California. I am trying to figure out how to survive the rest of my life without killing myself physically to continue making money.

[@leeche87]

Move out of California ,it's too expensive

[@amn1088]

@@leeche87 Easy thing to say but honestly places that are expensive are expensive for a reason. Often like in Californias case they have some of the most favorable laws for the working class which still isn't enough but man, other states it is much much worse and thats why it costs nothing to live there.

[@StarlightPrincess70]

@@leeche87 Believe me, that is my main goal. I just have to figure out where to go and then save the money somehow for the move.

[@iqbalmuhammad2920]

How about your pension fund? No compulsory contribution for retirement fund?

[@randalthor647]

​@@StarlightPrincess70 But you are on the best place in the world, it's easy to build life from there, I live in on one of the most difficult places in the world already have 2 houses and planning for my next one.

[@tossancuyota7848]

Bruh being healthy and alive is a huge something to show for.. That's what money can't buy no matter how much you have

[@sonderexpeditions]

💯 people who've dealt with chronic illness understand the most. Truly a blessing.

[@klyxrasta]

hehe. Chuckled up real good about it. Gonna go to my mom and say Im HEALTHY I have something to show for all the hard work I have put in.

[@SueRibelle]

newsflash: I am not healthy. I didn't claim to be anyway. I have thyroids disease for over 2 years. I am not healthy in this case. I am just alive. I think that can, to some extent, be seen through my style and demeanor in this video lol it's also one of the reasons I rarely get out of home cause it depleted me from the energy I used to have. even when I'm on medication for over a year now. I miss the healthy person I used to be. this is manageable of course but not the health I used to have. I felt invincible back then. not anymore.

[@sonyasever7625]

@@sonderexpeditions my chronic illnesses can be cured with money, which i don't have.

[@dreamsbyte]

Imagine telling slaves on the plantation that.

[@hikihub8387]

Hi, I can relate with what you are going through. I'm 27 brazilian, and I'm still in University. I'm trying to get a Philosophy Degree which is not very prestigious anywhere, but I couldn't fell more fulfilled and happy. I started a small company where I sell used books to the local students in my Uni, and bussiness has been great. Finally I'm getting enough money to afford my own place It's never too late to start fresh new and come up with an idea that fullfills you mentally and financialy. I wish you my best regards and i will watch your next videos. Cheers from Brazil.

[@SueRibelle]

that sounds amazing!! great for you. I wish you the best as well and a great life in a peaceful place when you're able to get it. thank you

[@jackmatheus]

Vai Brasil

[@edwardnygma6691]

You won't see the world in the same way as anyone else, except maybe other philosophy majors...

[@chief8559]

Bro is hikikomiri

[@Myllys2]

Tu é doido? Hahaha brincadeira, fico feliz com o seu sucesso profissional, tô com 29 e tô no 6° período de engenharia.

[@DeyvsonMoutinhoCaliman]

I never got out of my parents home until I was able to buy my own house, when I was 39 years old. Only after that I got out and got married. If I was never able to buy a house, I would live with my parents until I died, and I think it's the best strategy for everyone. Don't go out and pay rent, every saving you could have will go through the drain as rent.

[@SueRibelle]

yes! definitely sounds like a good approach.

[@javier.alvarez764]

It's the inflation bro. Capitalism and the currency monetary system would only inflate every year, the value of the money would only get smaller. I don't know how people in the 2050s or 2080s would buy a house lol.

[@Myllys2]

But don't be a burden to your parents

[@420rollinup3]

Living with your parents at adulthood means providing an experience that backs it up. Else you're just a parasite.

[@artbyrobot1]

yep I am 40 still live with parents and have a wife and kids (2 and 3rd on way). That way I saved so much and got ahead. Recently bought a trash rental house in the ghetto to fix up so I'm happy to be a home owner but it is not even close to inhabitable its a run down rotting mess but I'm fixing it myself.

[@jonhelmer8591]

Thank you for sharing your story. I had nothing until I was about 40 years old. I'm now 63, I've got a house (paid for) a wonderful wife, a son and a job that pays about enough. You've got plenty of time. Good Luck

[@SueRibelle]

Wonderful! thanks for sharing! we can all have our break throughs after a point, I truly believe that. reading comments like these are so nice. thanks for helping us stay hopeful for what might come

[@MariaRodriguez-dx6sm]

I always see comments like yours, but they never say what they did to get out of that situation

[@orsikocs]

Love the this comment ppl need to hear this ❤

[@Draggonny]

​@@MariaRodriguez-dx6sm Got married. 2 incomes is always better than one. It's near impossible to afford living in a single income household. If you're single, you need housemates so you aren't buried in bills. I have never lived on my own in my life. I lived with my parents, partners or housemates. I don't earn a lot but I have savings, pensions and investments. My only debt is my mortgage.

[@179107199999]

any advice?

[@sagepirotess6312]

At 32, in California 2008, I had nothing. I taught English in Korea, Vietnam and Taiwan. By 2023, had a wife, built a beachfront house in Vietnam, and still save. Look globally for best resources and opportunities for yourself.

[@SueRibelle]

that sounds amazing! great for you

[@sugarpil7586]

Woooohoooo🎉🎉🎉😊

[@RitaRambles]

Yes, Western countries are too expensive

[@mbrights3158]

Hi..happy for you and your success! I'm curious, what type of work you got into after teaching English? Would you mind sharing a tip or two...on how to "look globally for resources and opportunities"..? Are there certain organizations and websites you would recommend to get started? Thank you so very much!!!

[@jdsofar]

Sounds way better than the trap Canada is right now running in in circles to a dead end.....

[@rachellebrown9830]

I am 42 and just quit my job. We are in the same boat with nothing to show for my years of work. The future is bright for us!

[@MillennialDiligence-sx8re]

My advice to anyone starting out in the working world: invest 10% or more of your gross income. No matter what. If you invest at least 10% you will put yourself in a better position to be financially well off. Thanks for the video!

[@SueRibelle]

my pleasure! thanks for the insightful comment as well

[@plumdutchess]

Unless you lose it. It still happens. Simply setting aside 10% would be a more solid plan starting out. Don't invest unless you can afford to lose it.

[@sonyasever7625]

My income is just 388$ per month, the average salary here is 350-400$, i barely survive bc of my parents help, 10% i invested 1-5% and got nothing, my government blocked everything, I’ve only had 100$ on my crypto account (that i made into 150$ due to high prices of cryptocurrency). Oh, and 400$ in cash. In 2024 I’ve only managed to buy 100$. This is too small. If you want money you have to live with rich parents (or at least in middle class family) or in a better country (for that you need to work a lot since the tickets are about 500$ and you need ~10k$ for living costs which are about 3 year income)

[@MandoMTL]

Inflation.

[@creativeb549]

just to be shorted and lose it all on next crash nah

[@Cikanyoro]

I have listened to your story. Am 39 years. I make what you call minimum wage in your country. Bt being in third world developing country it's actually a pretty good pay . One thing I wish most young people learn early is not to get into lifestyle debt. Live a lifestyle that matches your income. Live within your means. I have not heard you say you made any bad decisions. I wish you all the best .

[@SueRibelle]

thanks a lot!! I wish you the best as well

[@mikka8755]

That’s good point nowadays!

[@creativeleodaily]

Same here, these Rich and Politicians robbed our generation 😭😔 Working since 16 and now 38

[@Hellionchild999]

You my friend will never get anywhere with that mentality.

[@Sy2023hk]

I'm 46, no wife/kids, live in a shared room. As long as you have a warm clean place with stable income you're doing good❤

[@hmaei]

I hope your channel grows! I love your authenticity - we need more creators like you here.

[@SueRibelle]

Thank you so much!

[@Пользовательпрофессионал]

No Gods, please... Which kind of "creators"? She just whines for 40 minutes and prays for money to fall from heaven. There is thousands of videos like this 😂 The main point is her choice was irrelevant. Translators were already less in demand by 2012, it was obvious that field will down. SMM and copywriting in 2019 are super competitive monkey jobs, she just chose the wrong direction for earning money and apparently spent a lot of time in self-reflection. That's it.

[@kristinbrowne8756]

I am English. - Your English is superb! Thank you! :)

[@SueRibelle]

Thank you too!

[@acidthunder1]

Yes, Youre English is fine.

[@sassydebbie]

Honestly. It's so good

[@sulaimankhan1284]

Oh man - I felt every. single. word. in this video. Thank you for making such an honest video diary, Sue. First of all, your English is terrific👏👏👏 Secondly, don't be embarrassed about your situation; it's not unique. I'm 39, went to college, got a job and worked my way into Digital Marketing just like you. I've been laid off 3 times, had to live with roommate in order to try and build up my savings, and now I'm living in my parents house trying to get out and get my independence back. It used to be easy to buy your first starter house. Now, everyone is moving back in with their parents. I see so many people doing the same thing. Only now am I learning about investing. Inflation is getting worse, jobs are not hiring ( I know someone who has been looking for a job for a year.) All the economies are failing. I feel like we're all in the same place. So don't be embarrassed. You'll get back your independence and we're very lucky to have our parents help. All we can do is keep trying. The universe must reward this effort. And yes, employers can be very vile.

[@projectsspecial9224]

A wise banker told me that the hardest thing to do is keep the door open for that opportunity for a breakthrough. He reminded me that it can always be worse.. you have your health, food, shelter, and faith - you are good!

[@ItsPeiii]

No body is nobody, life is tough but we can find our own way.

[@stevenlutherrobertson5867]

It is my dream to be financially independent as well, watching you and your determination makes me feel like I'm not alone in this dream that I'm crazy enough to believe. Lots of love!

[@SueRibelle]

thank you, best of luck!

[@shadowman2276]

Same, but its my fault. I got a degree In something I wasn't really passionate about so I never really pursed a career in it like I should have after I graduated. I wasted alot of time and resources learning about myself. I think the key to success is doing something your interested in that also pays well. Also save your money too because one day your not going to be able to work and most jobs discriminate against old people.

[@420rollinup3]

Time and energy is never wasted in learning about your own self.

[@harrier_281]

I don't know why, but this video is so calming to watch (listen to). It's so hard to talk this openly about one's life, and in addition to the perspective we are gaining from it as viewers, I believe there's something more intangible I'm getting from it that I can't put into words. A small bit of hope, mixed in with a hefty dose of melancholy. This was very cathartic to watch. Thank you so much for putting it out there. I genuinely wish you have a happy life, and that all of us figure things out together, in bits and pieces. There are choppy seas and dark clouds ahead. But the sun must still be there waiting for us.

[@SueRibelle]

thanks a lot Harrier, what a lovely comment! I honestly strive to build the audience that is made up of people like you. you see what my goal is and what I want to do here, and you have summarized its effect on you. feeling grateful that you guys are finding me with this video. I look forward to creating more for you. have a wonderful year ahead!

[@ninapommelin5028]

I stumbled upon this video while going through a bunch of art related videos as I was working on a painting and your story really captivated me. It's so crushing to hear that low wages high cost of living and working your ass of for a company that doesn't care about you is such a staple these days. I had a respectable job that paid well enough to sustain a good life but not enough so that I could get a mortgage as someone who likes to go solo. It destroyed my mental health. I decided that if my hard work doesn't even get me anywhere in life then why bother so I quit my job and became a freelance artist. Terrible decision from a financial standpoint but so far I have had no issues living a small, quiet life, and my mental health has already improved so much during the past couple of months. What I'm trying to say that I definitely get you for not wanting to go back to a soul sucking job that you get barely anything from in return. It's not worth it. But something is definitely wrong in today's working culture, that we are just expected to suck it up and be grateful for crumbs while someone else is profiting off of our hard work. It's incredibly demoralizing. I envy those who can just shut it out, compartmentalize their jobs and just try to fit their life on the side. I didn't manage to do that. I hope things will start looking up for you. I don't know you nor have I seen any of your videos before but you sound like someone who is very skilled and gets things done so I think you'll get out of this, too. Best of luck!

[@danielbalgobin3115]

I hope my $21 will help. I have a similar experience in marketing. 23 now and not really anything to show for last 3 years since i finished highschool. The world can be such a dark place but just remember there are still people and opportunities out there that will help you build yourself back. Thank you so much for sharing your story to the world and I think more people should. I recently quit my job too with no backup but thankfully I have some savings to survive on. But I have no idea what i'm gonna do as well. The world is so different today. All the best and I will be sure to follow along on your journey.

[@SueRibelle]

thanks Daniel, I am beyond grateful to receive you guys' support! it's definitely a difficult time to live in but even this is a proof that we have each other. I look forward to the day I will pay you guys' help forward to others who are facing similar challenges I do. I hope you get yours back tenfolds. thank you

[@centerfield6339]

If you're living on savings stop donating to people on youtube/twitch/whatever.

[@Cualquiercosa5049]

typical etnich man beaviour haha. omg aged white woman! take my money, i need to cooooooom!!!!!!!

[@KevinInPhoenix]

During your working years it's not about what you earn but what you keep. It is critical to save 10-15% of your income for your long term future.

[@CeezGeez]

yeah but some people don’t have the luxury to save that much. people are living check to check as it stands

[@razadaza9651]

These people will have no idea about these concepts, it’s all entitlement and complaints

[@carlosarias2011]

Yes very true... I will repost above. An old woman who frequented my fast food restaurant in 1996 for a 1/2 cup of coffee for a few cents told me that... "It's not how much you make, but what you keep" she was frugal, a very nice lady, looked poor and simple, she could get misjudged as a homeless woman. Then I started fully saving ever since and investing in the Stock market since then. Fast forward today, I am multimillionaire, and I clean bathrooms for a living.

[@arturz5780]

and then inflation comes in..

[@johnl9977]

Yeah, but Republicans and their wealthy donors have worked it down to a science to take your very last dollar just to survive. Go pre-Reagan, and that was not the case. "Reaganomics" is what has killed the dream for the majority of the American workforce, "Trickle Down".

[@MacroAnarchy]

Wish you the best, I’m in a similar boat - having studied/worked for 10+ years now but will have to quit studying law, since i can’t afford it anymore. It’s a sobering realization to look back and have nothing by time ‚wasted‘ to look at.

[@InstantKiwi1005]

@@MacroAnarchy Ho Marco, I don't know in which country you are living, but in Europe many NGO's need persons with good law backgrounds, some would probably be willing to give you free time to finish your studies while working for them. I know a brasilian girl who probably could give you some advice on how she managed to finaly Coupe to get her law PHD

[@tibbytwostep1875]

Look into Germany

[@benbenben123ben]

Man, I’ve been saying this for a while, “I have worked for __ years and I have nothing to show for it.” So true. It sucks having no ability to get out of where you are at economically. I tried school-ran out of money. Tried church music-change in belief+doesn’t pay. Now I’m stuck working poor paying medical jobs.

[@SueRibelle]

if it's your cup of tea, I truly believe content creation on here is the way to go. some small channels are making such nice incomes that it motivates me to at least work consistently to get where they are. maybe you should try the same. I'll be here to do this. nice to see you guys already gathering up here. all the best with your journey

[@sj9410]

Religion will not fix systemic problems

[@benbenben123ben]

@ Did I say it would? Lol The only thing I said about religion in my comment was that I played church music and that my beliefs changed and it didn’t pay enough. Somehow you gathered that I think religion will change the system? Lol Ya gotta read more critically brotha. Unless you are just giving unsolicited information/opinions randomly? Lol Not the best way to further your cause, but with time you might succeed!

[@benbenben123ben]

@@SueRibelle Hard to find a niche to start creating content in! I suppose it’s doable.

[@RichardVGriffiths]

Thank you for the honest video. Just keep going and look after yourself.

[@SueRibelle]

thanks a lot! today is the first day my channel is monetized and this is the first ever super thanks I've received :) thank you for being the means to actualizing such an important milestone!

[@RichardVGriffiths]

@@SueRibelle Oh wow! I saw your videos saying you were trying to get partner but didn't realise this was the first one to come in! I'm so happy I could contribute!

[@SueRibelle]

yess so many who saw this video have donated to a fundraising we organized through gofundme that lasted less than 4 days, finding me through here. I received help for the urgent bills I had. you guys even helped me have some money saved until I get my first pay check from KZbin, with the hard work I will put from now on. I will work to post daily. but this was my first super thanks as I have just been able to open this setting in the last couple of hours seriously 😊 it took so little once this video blew up! I feel grateful. may life give you multiple folds back 🙏🙏 thank you!! 😊

[@arisangga246]

iam 33 too, male and still with my parent i only have ebike to do some work with little pay hope the best for you

[@CrumpetsNBiscuits]

Me too bro. Fuck it. You do you. Keep money aside for fun stuff, rent is insane.

[@Mentesestoicas_]

You have an amazing perspective on how things change and evolve because you were directly affected by it. Not only do you have a lot to show for, but also a lot to share with us.

[@SueRibelle]

thanks a lot, Mentes!

[@ChristopherR1981]

I worked my 1st real job 16 years ago at 26 and I always invested 20% of my take home pay.... I dropped out of college and ar 43 years old I am financially independent and can replace 100% of my jobs income with my investments. From grinding for 17 years, I knew early that I wanted to GET OUT OF THE RAT RACE... I don't care about splurging to "impress" anyone with stuff... having FU level of savings has dramatically lowered stress too.

[@SueRibelle]

I bet! sounds like you did the right things and it paid well. all the best with your life ahead!

[@GiantsAmongstUs]

I feel this. I've felt that way, and mentally even physically beat myself up because of it. Guilt, shame, regret, and even resentment for all the years I wasted. And for me, it was in doing the wrong thing. Drugs, partying, and being completely irresponsible. I'm 44 years old now. And only recently, have I started to forgive myself, and see the opportunities that I have today, and NOW. It isn't too late to do something new. To change directions, develop a new skill or talent, work towards a goal/dream, and basically start shaping my life the way I'd like to. And even time "wasted" can be seen as lessons learned about self. Building character, empathy, patience, resilience, knowledge and ultimately experiences in life. What we do with that? Remains up to us. But, I can definitely appreciate the message here. Respect.

[@TheKaraqi4]

It’s not easy to stick to a job that you’re done with when you have ADHD. Be easy on yourself. I also have the same longing towards financial freedom. Not necessarily to live a lavish lifestyle but to be free from this work bs. I’d love to work on my terms and flourish.

[@SueRibelle]

definitely! nice to see this comment as the first sentence definitely made me feel seen. thank you

[@samiabamia]

@@SueRibelleI was hoping to hear more when you mentioned adhd but the athan started and I think you lost your train of thought. It was always so hard for me to keep a job because of adhd, just celebrated 3 years at a job never thought I’d stay somewhere for that long as I always need a new challenge after I learned all that I needed to.

[@SueRibelle]

@@samiabamia yes that is definitely the case! I usually leave after a whole year cause my brain thinks that "all that can be learnt from here is already learnt... NEEEXT" should I make a video on this? sounds like a good topic! and congrats for sticking at one place for 3 years! I definitely know how hard it is and that is an amazing achievement. I hope benefits and pay of it is also making you happy that you are there

[@ThePlantUtopia]

I also feel the same way. I loathe the job I have had for the past 7.5 years.

[@JustMe-fo4ev]

It's tough. Hard work often isn't rewarded, and often is foolish. Most of us don't want hard work. We want fulfilling work. Those can be two very different things.

[@WTHenry2023]

Your English is excellent and your accent is enjoyable to listen to.

[@SueRibelle]

Thank you!

[@Lauren_bex]

I worked hard and achieved most of what I wanted but realized that "things" you own only become problems and the more you own the bigger the problem. So now I'm slowly trying to go back to purging my things and living minimalist. I don't even want to own anything anymore. The point in this video where the "call to prayer" starts... I thought wow! what a wonderful place to live to hear that beautiful music, fantastic! Congrats to your success on youtube and wishing you more success in your spirit.

[@ihytvm]

Good, you'll fit right in the globalist wef's plan for humanity: "You'll own nothing, and you will be happy!"

[@julihariyanto309]

Hello Sue, I understand your situation well, as I'm also from a developing country facing similar economic challenges. Achieving financial freedom is my current goal. While I haven't reached it yet, I've adopted a frugal lifestyle and allocate 75% of my income to bonds. In my country, bonds offer an average return of 7%, and inflation is around 3%. Based on my calculations, I plan to work for four years in a low-level position in a developed country, then return to my village to live as I wish, including starting a KZbin channel. I'm halfway through this plan and hope to achieve it soon.

[@karrenb5094]

this video resonates so much with me thank you for being vulnerable, I'm turning 27 next month and I suppose I didn't expect to live this long.

[@nijoraura]

I am also having experience of more than 10 yrs ,still i have no savings , i dont know where my money goes out as nobody talks about saving in my family . I have 3 loans running because of which i have to search job again to finish it completely. I hope someday i will be financially free . Thank you for such a lovely video❤

[@SueRibelle]

my pleasure! thanks for the comment

[@devour1372]

Your English is incredible!

[@SueRibelle]

thank you!!

[@hereforit2]

Bulgarian girl here. Siis, same! You're not alone. Thank you for sharing your experience. I am currently learning technical skills so I can work as data analyst. We will figure it out ❤ But yeah, the economy is bad...

[@SueRibelle]

that is amazing, great to hear that for you! they tried teaching me coding when I worked for Philips but my hyper adhd brain couldn't grasp it no matter how hard I tried. they were impressed by my ambition to tackle it but insisted I don't push it anymore cause it didn't work no matter how hard I tried. I envy those whose brain can do such work but sadly I can't. best of luck to you in your journey! you got this!!

[@crazzyoboy]

I just stumbled on your channel and start feeling sad, there are many in similar situation in Europe and here in the UK. But from what I hear going even worse in Turkey. I only can wish best luck and soon you will find a way out of this.

[@SueRibelle]

thank you! despite everything, I am hopeful. at least for myself

[@greglane501]

Idk what they did to the algorithm, but the suggestions videos I've been getting lately have been on point.

[@SueRibelle]

lol I love this comment. welcome to my channel!!

[@Mitology]

You owe nothing to your mom. Kids are a blessing to parents, it's a reciprocal relationship, children give a lot to parents without knowing -- great storytelling, you are a very good communicator. 😊

[@07Flash11MRC]

*owe

[@Mitology]

@07Flash11MRC thanks, fixed

[@judgedread5835]

my life started to turn for the better when i am 40 years old... hang in there.. sometimes it isnt you thats the issue is the place , try to move and change yr environment move east to a new country, maybe thats the place where u may succeed... thats how my life channged for the better 6 years ago.. but still i have to always remind myself where i came from, this is how i am able to stay on my own 2 feet. have faith, and be strong. everyone's trouble are not as bitter as the other person.

[@IhsanSarikaya-y4q]

I hope the best for you

[@flamesoftheuniverse]

I understand your struggles, and I've only been working for 2 years. Had to quit working recently due to unexplained health issues, and now It seems even more impossible, especially since I want to move to a different country that will fit be better. But that's so much money! Need to work from home but don't have the experience, so it seems like youtube might be one of the only options, besides selling some crochet stuff. Although, that also is affected by my health issues. I will try to watch your videos often on my various different accounts, and maybe it will help boost the watch hours for your channel. Hang in there, it will all be okay!

[@SueRibelle]

thanks a lot for this lovely comment! I wish you the best with your health and life plans. I totally understand and can easily empathize. thank you

[@Christophfarrell]

35 is the magic age for moving forward with career. Your nearly there!

[@mufazaHD]

Hang in there, sist, time will tell. Live is hard, feeling almost impossible to survive, but here we are, still hoping for the better future 💪

[@ScottsdaleSushi]

Anyone who was an adult in the Great Recession in 2010 - 2011 & did not purchase a home when they were dirt cheap - missed a once in a lifetime opportunity. WHY ANYONE IN FLORIDA OR ARIZONA WHO DID NOT BUY A HOME - you lost out on being able to make $250K to 1 Million+🤑. I just don’t get it.🤷🏼‍♀I bought my house then & it now has close to $500,000 in equity. You could do it with even less of an investment in Florida.🌴 Blows my mind when I hear about people there who still do not own a house.

[@trina5044]

Subscribed! Thank you for sharing your story ❤ let’s get you monetized. 💪🏼 praying for a boon for you.

[@Arthur1u2-m5u]

I've been going through a difficult time with finances and health. I mentioned before in one of your videos that I enjoy what you have to say and Im here to watch your videos and support you. Best of luck getting your monetization.

[@SueRibelle]

thanks a lot Arthur! we are all going through things that is for sure. I wish all of us health and peace. health, buth physically and mentally

[@theflossyfinch]

Sue, you are so incredibly strong! All the experience and heartache you've gone through just shows what a courageous and determined young woman you are. The world desperately needs your gifts, and I think the response you have received on here is indicative of that need. You are a beautiful, deserving soul. Just who you are as a person entitles you to a life of abundance. I read somewhere recently that when our finances deplete all of a sudden, it's a sign that something even more incredible is on the horizon. Everything is unfolding for you just as it needs to. I am happy to help you ease this burden so that you can keep going! Don't give up, my dear. Love from Oklahoma, Jordan

[@SueRibelle]

thanks Jordan, I definitely agree! I went through similar challenges exactly three years ago and was recalling those times. and then how fast my life changed in less than 24 hours when I had no job to 2 jobs at the same time. one paying me twice a month, for a good rate. this video suddenly blew up, this video alone brought me the whole 4k watching hours in these two days, I'm watching the growth with amazement since yesterday morning! to God be the glory. even KZbin couldn't update itself fast enough to recognize the completed watch hours. I'm checking that since noon so that I can apply for monetization as soon as I can. thank you all and I look forward to creating more content that will resonate with many many more!

[@theflossyfinch]

@@SueRibelle WAHOO!!! Congratulations, Sue! I am so happy to hear this. All your hard work is deserving of this recognition. That is incredible that you've reached 4,000 watch hours in just a few days. Oh my goodness, this is a sign to keep going, dear. I am so routing for you!!!! Yaaasssss girl!

[@SueRibelle]

thanks a billion!! 🤗

[@charliethelabrat]

As a non-native English speaker, I fully understand how hard it is to master this language at your level. Believe in yourself that all these years struggling will not be in vain. A brighter future has yet to come❤

[@angelachristle2116]

Thank you for sharing this part of your story… I think so many of us out here can relate to you. If so hard to be a financially strapped and have worked so hard all of your life to really have nothing to show for it… So many of us just make enough money to make ends meet and Don’t always have enough to put away. Anything can happen to us in any given time we can lose our jobs because our employer decides they don’t like us… Or because we end up with a disability… Or someone in our families end up with chronic health issues and needs and we go help them. So much changes all of the time. It is painful to be financially strapped or crushed. I think you are going to be fine. I wish you well with this new year I wish you well with your channel and I think you have a lot of skills that you’ve discussed with us especially here today that you can only keep going forward… Keep coming out here keep making your videos. Keep it growing your viewers and you’ll be surprised and amazed at how that will start impacting your financial stability. Wishing you great luck. Just found you with this video and I have subscribed to your channel…

[@SueRibelle]

thanks a lot Angela! what an amazing and heartfelt comment this was! we definitely go through similar things, that's why you all have found me here and found something of you in my story. I am creating more content on the other end and will post them soon. I look forward to this journey here with you! wish you an amazing year as well! best wishes

[@Kifflom240]

I hope you can solve your problems, wish you the best. It's so fascinating with Turkey's self-destructive side. That Syria or Ukraine have a lot of problems is understandable given their wars, but those countries that financially shoot themselves in the foot like Argentina and Turkey among others are so difficult to understand.

[@LibertyDino]

Not as much as what Germany is currently doing. It is not as bad as it can be YET but if you are poor there and have little to no family you are basically stuck in not starving and not being able to afford living.

[@mehrbhaman]

How? Can you explain?

[@eugene4637]

Sue, you have lessons to show for. We share similar paths, even background. What I would suggest is focusing on improving your content. You are already a natural at this. I do not even have a mother but financially i am in a better situation than i was before. I would also suggest hanging onto your mother and friends, it is important.

[@bradpnw1897]

Your English is great 👍. You have your beauty and your health. Also great personality.

[@SueRibelle]

thanks Brad!

[@vv-cv6ud]

Don’t worry everything will be work out. Just keep moving forward as much as you can .

[@izadorodomanska4555]

Watching your narrative was like reading an involving story. Thanks. And being in a situation without a clear pathway, at least partially financially stable is what so many ppl struggle with, including me. I’m quitting in January. No option, too old for that.

[@SueRibelle]

thanks for the comment and all the best with your journey ahead! maybe sth great will suddenly come up. we never know

[@Tony-dx3eo]

You are one of the most authentic content creators on KZbin- thank you for sharing your dreams and aspirations. New subscriber and I’m off to watch another of your videos. Best wishes to you!

[@SueRibelle]

thanks a lot Tony! welcome on board :)

[@brianqrcode1673]

Many cars in the USA are 30,000 and up. Many buy used because of this even my car is 12 years old. Apartments depends on the state you are in are in my case in my area 1200 (for an ok place in an ok area) but mostly higher, then car insurance, health insurance and other bills. It is almost impossible to live. I am always on the edge of homelessness and eat very basic foods now. Prices are crazy.

[@LilyGazou]

Look into intentional communities

[@DayrusBPB]

Van life + PO box is the way.

[@MrSteeDoo]

Who cares what "many" cars cost. I make 85k and drive a 2006 car that I paid $3k cash for. It has 95k miles so it will be around for awhile

[@UmarFarooq-cu3gw]

@@MrSteeDoo that's the way. New cars are scams. New mobiles are scams too. I don't believe tech is evolving that it needs to be upgraded every few years.

[@TcMhMuSiC]

Me too, lesson I learned was I was never meant to have relationships or I end up putting my resources into someone(s) else in whereas no return can be actualized upon failure.

[@LowKeyTired-q7d]

Bro I am 42 and I am still in a hole. I've NEVER had a good job or a proper income. Only jobs that I have DESPISED !!! Even now, I claim welfare and work part time ... Yippee !!! No relationship, no children, NOTHING !!!

[@TheMrplayitsafe]

You could still go get a high paying certificate or even traditional education.

[@cascadeanalog320]

That seems to be the norm these days. I know someone with PhD on a verge of going on welfare and food stamps.

[@QoraxAudio]

For every "success story" are 100s of untold stories that are pretty much similar to these... just being alive and healthy, but not actually living that life. Thanks for telling your story, good reality check, that's nice for a change. KZbin could do with more people spitting honest truth... And to a Dutch guy with English as a secondary language like myself, your English sounds just fine. Edit: 40:00 Holy crap, that sounds way too familiar to me. My view is exactly the same; as long as I don't have financial stability, there's also no stable "foundation" to build a relationship on. I really can't comprehend how some really poor people can form relationships... Had a business that went bad during Covid, but luckily I didn't push until bankruptcy, so I just closed the business in time, before accumulating any debt.

[@charlesyanni5195]

Your hair looks beautiful and your English sounds perfect. And - WOW - your career sounds amazing. -

[@captainkirk7676]

I worked for 32 years and built up to owning two homes, great retirement investments, vehicles paid in full, etc... LOST it ALL to a divorce. Not even getting half do to a liberal feminist court system. SO, nothing is guaranteed in this life and anything can happen no matter how hard you try.

[@SueRibelle]

definitely! I wish you a swift recovery regardless

[@bruceprofitsTradesFutures]

Partnership is key for most people to achieve financial goals.

[@bigmiles2398]

great video. im 16 and im terrified to go into the working world. props to you for actually trying to make an income. your english is amazing by the way.

[@vulcanoz1746]

You’re 16, chill…

[@bigmiles2398]

@vulcanoz1746 I know I should chill but im still worried about my future job prospects. im not planning on going to uni so im going to start working at 18. that's two years away. you may think that its a long time but it isnt; time goes fast.

[@vulcanoz1746]

@ you’re 16, you aren’t old enough to say ‘time flies’, your time hasn’t flown and you’re a child. Chill

[@bigmiles2398]

@vulcanoz1746 maybe im not and I am still a child but it's good to think about these things early so that you get a foundation for the future. how old are you if you don't mind me asking?

[@vulcanoz1746]

@ I know because I did the same, I’m double your age. You’ll just keep replacing future fears with future fears without enjoying the moment. Most people don’t start this cycle until their 20s it’s upsetting that you’ve began in your early teens.

[@donaldandmijung]

Your English is very good. love your common sense about moving on. sometimes life can be very difficult especially when you're still young. I never had anything until I was in my late 30s. Life can be very depressing and a feeling of hopelessness often takes over at times. Being positive like you are is everything. God has you in the palm of his hand. You have more than money. You have your health, education, and youth. God will bless your future!

[@NatureAndStars]

36:30 I don't know what "simple" car you are talking about at 70k USD. Dacia Spring (electric) is about $15k USD new and it's available almost worldwide. You can even find very good second-hand ones at about $8.000.

[@SueRibelle]

obviously you don't know the prices in Turkey. noone is able to buy a car in the last 4-5 years. those might be your local prices. not the ones we have here.

[@dmon1088]

Yea, prices are almost double in Turkey cause taxes, but the average new car is 30k, not 70. Still very high.

[@Vlogs_of_Thought]

Dear Sue, I am from São Paulo, Brazil and everything you said made sense to me. Here in Brazil, one dolar costs about 6 Reais (our currency) and the minimum wage is about 1.500 reais. I feel like I've wasted my youth trying to live as a musician (I play the piano and the harpsichord). I'm currently 28 years old and never went abroad. I feel absolutely lost and with no perspective of the future. With no college degree and lots of debts, I feel lost. My objetive was to ultimately leave the country and maybe go to Europe. My great grandparents came from Ukraine, and Bulgaria, and aside from getting to know my origins, I very much love learning about new cultures and communications. I hope you and I could overcome this situation. With love and hope, Guilherme Atanasov.

[@adsimal]

I can't contirbute any money as I'm struggling in my own way, but I watched the whole video and subscribed so I hope that helps a bit with the monetization!

[@SueRibelle]

thanks a lot! even the thought counts and thank you for your contribution!

[@winky_face92]

Thank you for posting this video😊 the comment section here is so interesting... Each and everyone here has their own story which is so inspiring

[@SueRibelle]

yess it's like the UN out here! 😄 lol love that it resonated with so many people and made them share their own reflections!

[@vastprotect]

I totally feel the same, but you have plenty to show up as its said in the video, maybe just the money-wise problem, but 90% people have this problem, so don't be too hard on yourself.

[@SueRibelle]

thanks for the reminder!

[@-cMc-]

This is going to be a great channel! Everything that is good needs consistency

[@shraddhasumanmishra3750]

Embracing yourself sharing lessons of life takes a lot of courage. Don't loose heart you will definitely do good. Everyone has their time where they feel lost, then comes time where they never look back and I believe you will figure out your way back. Sending positive prayers for your dreams to come true.🙏✨️💖

[@SueRibelle]

what a lovely comment, thank you!!

[@shraddhasumanmishra3750]

@SueRibelle I'm glad you liked it 👍

[@PersephoneXYZ07]

Thank you for sharing your story! I would like to know why you weren't able to save some money in all that time. Maybe you can talk about that in your next video.

[@SueRibelle]

thanks a lot! sounds like a good idea. noted down :)

[@PersephoneXYZ07]

@@SueRibelle Great! Many people like to watch personal finance videos, so maybe you could do those from time to time - how you budget, get out of debt and build an emergency fund. Things like that are always very popular here on youtube.

[@orman2222]

You're not the only one. The corporate world is rough. Everyone is struggling while the rich get richer. Find happiness in the small things - at least that's what I do to stay happy.

[@MrFredericandre]

Thank you for sharing your experience. I believe most people are going to be in the same type of situation as you describe soon, because of AI. We will have to learn new jobs, and lower our expectations.

[@ayszhang]

The message I got from this is financial literacy is so important

[@CBBBJ]

I’m 32 and I been feeling the same exact way the past few years. Makes you question everything taught to us and if they really designed it for progress or just to keep certain groups blocked from growing in knowledge and experience

[@LilyGazou]

Bingo

[@UmarFarooq-cu3gw]

@@LilyGazou spot on!

[@edgarl.mardal8256]

Think it is why finding the work that you love is so important. I have worked with sales most of my life, and just now at a age of 42 I found my dream job, but guys, it is totally worth it, and have I not struggled before then I would never loved the job as much as I do right now.

[@themiserychick9219]

Commenting for the algorithm ❤ subscribed❤

[@SueRibelle]

Yay! Thank you! ❤❤

[@sassydebbie]

We'll have our breakthroughs this year! I believe it ❤️

[@SloaneStorm]

You are so genuine. Your content is great. I will help with the watch time. Even if I get busy or fall asleep: I will keep it playing in the background. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I wish you greater success beyond what you seek ❤

[@SueRibelle]

thanks a lot for your heart felt support, I truly appreciate it! I will get there, I believe it. looking forward to sharing it with all of you!

[@AG4-w6n]

Thank you for sharing your story...

[@niloufarf4842]

Hi I tried to find a way to message you but couldn’t - do you have a place where I could donate to help with your debt? Your video really spoke to me and I would be happy to help.

[@SueRibelle]

Niloufar thanks a billion for your concern! it would be funny to open up a gofundme for just 100 dollars, and turns out we don't have it here for Turkey anyways. we don't have paypal, no cashapp, no global alternatives that are the most used. I am incredibly grateful even to see this comment here. but I will have to figure things out on my own. thank you 🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@AZ-gs7xb]

@SueRibelle Boosty might help.

[@RianneCtenVeen]

@@SueRibelle - can you try Revolut?

[@SueRibelle]

Niloufar hello again! just wanted to let you know that I opened up a small gofundme fundraiser upon checking how you guys can help me. got the help of my best friend from Canada to sort the transfer problems. I pinned the link as the top comment under this video. thanks again for your concern and genuine interest. I pray God gives you multiple folds whenever you extend a helping hand to anyone. I do the same in the times I have the means to. Thanks again and I wish you all an amazing year ahead!!

[@niloufarf4842]

So glad to see that so many donated already before I saw this! Wishing you all the best and glad it worked out.

[@DMDVM-w2g]

At the same time you are very good and honest person. Thank you for sharing your story!

[@kosmicznyG]

Would you like to visit Poland? I can arrange everything (3 day trip). The world need people like you!

[@SueRibelle]

definitely! as mentioned in the video I only see travelling as worth the investment. my goal for this year is to be back on my own feet so that I can go see the world as much as I can. will be somewhat difficult to enter the premises of EU but I will try to get a 2nd schengen once I have my income stable and promising. I have to friends who loved Poland so much they settled there years ago. I love historical architecture and Poland seems to be a good place to visit that suits my taste! thanks!

[@anonymous_user525]

Constant traveling will keep you poor, you need to work and save, not travel. Traveling is a luxury

[@kosmicznyG]

@@anonymous_user525 what?? Travelling will teach you new things, you may get alot of new perspectives and enrich your life with new friendships and connections. Besides that travelling doesn't have to be expensive, we are living in 2025, travelling is relatively cheap. I strongly reccommend you to have more optimistic view on that ;d

[@lisawyer7524]

Keep sharing your stories! For yours is a reflection of the majority of humanity.

[@unknownartistOo]

I think you know, but many, many people are/were in the same situation as you. We were told if we study hard and then work ethically, it will be a good life. It is not the case nowadays, it is sometimes not even enough for the bare minimum. Nowadays we need to leave our home countries and go to a richer one. Eventually stay there or move back and being able to finally buy a property. Other ways are remote work or online work, but also that is very unpredictable and most likely not easily sustainable. But I wish you luck in your efforts! I just wanted to give one critique, and please don`t take it personally, but I don`t know anyone in Europe that bought a brand new car this young. Buy second hand and then it is in a reasonable price.

[@thedepthsofrepair]

This is a new insight for me. I hope you keep making videos. This world is tough, especially for a woman with adhd.

[@SueRibelle]

thanks a lot!

[@James-ti7tq]

I don't know you personally but i think you've also made some wrong life choices in your journey, you can't change the past but make the future now. At my advice it's good for you to have safe pillow first as we say in greeks, it needs time until you'll be able to make money from KZbin so you can find a temporary job as a waitress or cleaner or something similar, these kind of jobs l, you'll not be depended of other people anymore and at least you'll pay your groceries and your debt. The situation in Greece is exactly the same like in Turkey, the average rent at 2010 for an apartment in Athens center was 280€ and the minimum wage net is 720 and today's rent is 580 and even more but salary hasn't grown up at all since then. I worked 4 years in Netherlands at logistic company as a warehouse worker and now I'm back to Greece for studying physiotherapy with my savings to pay the institute bills.

[@SueRibelle]

thanks for the comment! all the best with your life back in Greece. I'm weighing out my options so I'm aware of what I have and don't have in hand now. will see how it all turns out. wish you a great year ahead!

[@defectiveclone8450]

This life story is very familiar. People live life in their 20's like YOLO and continue in their 30's when they should be living like thier poor with zero holidays and sharing a rental with multiple people saving every single dollar they make. In your 40's you will have no need to rent and have zero mortgage and looking at retiring early. Thanks for sharing your story and good luck with everything from Sydney Australia.

[@cascadeanalog320]

@1:14 2019 till the year you posted this video isn't 16 years. It's only 9 years. Unless you meant to say 2009 in stead of 2019.

[@jasonmillers6941]

I’ve also worked for 16 years in marketing and advertising. I don’t have much, but I have a family, a roof over my head and I get to indulge in small pleasures like buying myself a drink every now and then. It’s certainly not much, but in some ways, it’s a lot, and I’m grateful.

[@SueRibelle]

this sounds nice and peaceful honestly. wish you and your family a healthy and happy life ahead!

[@onerider808]

You’re alive. You fed yourself. You still have your smile. Many can’t say the same. Gratitude is always better than whining, IME.

[@conanbillybone2218]

only rich people whine

[@YandraPo]

I just stumbled on your video and was very touched by your story. Hang in there. Sometimes when it seems like nothing is going on in life, that's when we have the time to work on our next breakthroughs ❤️ wishing you the best and I'm glad your immediate expenses seem to be covered. Ps. Maybe it feels difficult to get creative in times you're forced to pivot, but just my small suggestion - You seem to be living in a culturally interesting part of the world! Would love to see more of your city, a day in a life, and what local diversions you can share with people like me who live in a suffocatingly urban place (Manila) where not much is happening. No pressure, just an idea. Looking forward to more of your videos ❤️

[@SueRibelle]

thanks a lot for the comment, Yandra! sadly my health isn't that great lately and I find it a bit hard to go out and vlog in the sights worth showing to all of you. but I've been getting these types of suggestions for a few comments now, I'll check if I can do something. thank you!

[@Moco_Cork1]

I would never have guessed you are Turkish. You look European. Also, your English is very, very good.

[@RitaRambles]

Turkey was part of byzantine and full of white people until the Ottoman Empire took over and then they became mixed.