Ffs I need to chat with ye. I'll buy what ye want afterwards with added gratitude of help. Cuppa and a chat. I'll travel to you. Take only the time offered. I'm 40 and my life is fucked. Whatever. But my kidd who I raised from day one. Each alone from cot to 15 and 10. Now I'm a smeared vilan. And nothing more than a man of love and empathy and skills sets beyond envious. I'm an intuitive introvert. But 21yrs driven to dispare by self worthless suggested gargon. Derived from place of origin and grief. And I then became victim to validation of ecseptence. By the mother of my 2 children. Who never loved or even loved her own kids. Only the dog. Now after I was discarded. Then wanted back. I rejected. Because of that. My soul and who I am and my live of everything meaningful. Is literally on a thread. And because I refuse to allow her my business in regards to my daily whereabouts. Aka me trying to keep and take back some control of my life. Her now narrative will send me to prison. So she will then know where I am. Fkn help. Genuinely. I was blind and uneducated until I have be one sleepless and read. But I'm on my Todd. With nobody of your standard of nowledge and advice. Paula. ??? Chance it. Help. As an Irish joke. Even a cuppa in it for ye. And a good cuppa too. First time in my life to reach out for anything. Anyway. Ta
@MYKEYCARD2 ай бұрын
Thank You Paula🙏 Mam's The Word💜
@jayTee-zp1jn3 ай бұрын
Entered into a narc relationship in mid 2019. Exited relationship in 2022 and left for good, mind made up. Never been through anything like it. Everyday ever after has been a healing day and you have been so helpful, Paula. Your words of knowledge, understanding and wisdom resonate with so many of us as we have looked to resolve the puzzle with so many missing pieces. I look forward to reading your book. You are a great sage in this subject and communicate brilliantly in your helping of people. Thank you for your work and for your words.
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
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@sharonmcclintock67273 ай бұрын
Thank you Paula! I will be purchasing❤. I live in Sourh Carolina, USA and Ive been a mess for 7 years due to the psycho-Con. You have been my comfort and way to making the pieces "fit". Just turned 60 years old. Still working on the Trauma Bond. Lost my 36 year marriage and home and alimony due to P.I. report wirh the NARC in a picture. This experience has cost me my world and has changed me forever. I SO relate to you Paula. This book will help the few people I have left to FINALLY and hopefully understand what happened to me. ❤
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
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@sharonmcclintock67273 ай бұрын
@@NarcCon Awww...thank you Paula ♡...lol ordered 1 for me and 1 for my son who wants to know "how could you have fallen for a guy kike that Mom?" Thank you. Phew! Ive tried for years and cant get the words right. Im SO excited....book arrives tomorrow!
@LisaColby-de9ez3 ай бұрын
So excited for you! Thank you for educating us and helping us get our sanity back 🩷
@ShelliKarnes3 ай бұрын
I am proud to call Paula my Councilor. She is steadfast in her understanding and support after my 14 year relationship "brick wall" malignant narcissist left me jobless, homeless, friendless / familyless, hopeless and fighting to keep my assets owned prior to the relationship. Every session I say, "hurry up and get that book published!" I eagerly await my book delivery...I absolutely adore you Paula. CONGRATULATIONS
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
Dear Shelli..thank you so much..speak soon 🌹🙋♀️🐕
@garryleach-lq2xc20 күн бұрын
If you can survive that you can survive anything you are a warrior I wish you a peaceful and prosperous new year ❤
@bohemiangypsy77833 ай бұрын
Congratulations Paula 🎊 👏 💐
@IAmLoveTrishAnn3 ай бұрын
Congratulations 🎉🎉
@dr.marnihillfoderaro10643 ай бұрын
SO EXCITED TO PURCHASE AND READ YOUR NEW BOOK: WEAPONISED LOVE!!! Congratulations Paula!!📚🙏🏼💕😃📖
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
Hey Marni..thank you and for your support 🙋♀️🙏🌹
@dr.marnihillfoderaro10643 ай бұрын
@@NarcCon of course! What an accomplishment! And book 2 will also be great and well-received! Thank YOU!📖😃🙏🏼💕📚
@Ptowngirl3 ай бұрын
Came yesterday. Started reading it👍. My thoughts while reading it were “This is my Narcissist ex husband and boyfriend described to a tee”. It amazes me what I did not know 2.5 years ago. The veil has lifted. I also saw my parents described. My mom passed away this January at 89. Both my parents if I had to guess were Narcissists, both different though. My father a Malignant Communal Narcissist and my mom a very Covert Narcissist. Thank you Paula.
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
Thank you ☺️ if you have any time to leave a review I’d sure appreciate it 🐕
@charettebyreddog3 ай бұрын
Congratulations!! Thank you for sharing your experiences to help spread the message about these types of people!
@James-bc2oh3 ай бұрын
Paula you were the 1 that I listened to on steal,kill and destroy,I didn't have a clue what narcissism was or what a narcissist was, I've did the same dived straight in and started researching narcissism and narcissts,I always knew their was something wrong with most relationships whether that was work, family and partners just couldn't figure out what was wrong, it's a battle for good against evil and Paula you were the start of my journey and im so thankful for everything you've done for me and many many others who finally found out what we have been dealing with, narcissts are demonic and anyone who thinks narcissts are a minority have alot to learn their everywhere,🌹❤️
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
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@berenicegalilea3 ай бұрын
Congratulations Paula. May your generous heart be blessed, still enlightened and protected by Jesus. ~ Colossians 1,13 „He has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and brought us into the kingdom of His beloved Son“🔥🙏
@priralyn3 ай бұрын
congratulations! I will get it asap! Your viewpoint of a spiritual war/invasion of narcissism makes sense to me. It not only explains narcs "my way or the highway" destructive patterns they use, but it also explains why there are so many of them now worldwide!
@kirkhogan26883 ай бұрын
The book arrives this Saturday Paula. I hope the book is as accurate as your podcasts, Cant wait to read it! I will use it as a narcassist manual ,thank you for helping me get my head straight again, I still find it amazing how ALL narcassists behave in exactly the same way ! 👍👍👍👍👍
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
Hopefully you will like it Kirk..a review good or bad would sure be appreciated 🤓
@kirkhogan26883 ай бұрын
No problems Paula, I'm sure it will be as good as your podcasts, I will give my honest opinion to you once I have read it! I'm gonna use it for referral and any rumination I get , Cant wait 🤪
@kirkhogan2688Ай бұрын
I've reviewed it, apart from the writing could be abit bigger, a fantastic read, A must for those curious of what happened once you get discarded by a narcassist 👍👍👍👍👍
@melaniegarnett21693 ай бұрын
Congratulations on your book...as a survivor of several narcissistic relationships i will look forwards to getting this book soon x
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
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@shericoleman77562 ай бұрын
Congratulations and many thanks Paula and Remey! 🎉❤🐾🐾 A second book will be well received for sure!
@Marketciphertrading3 ай бұрын
50 pages on and I'm blown away! This book is incredibly accurate and mind blowing. It's helping me tremendously. Anyone interested in learning what they are going thru should purchase and rssd this boom! Amazing 🎉❤
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
Wow, thank you! If you have time to leave an Amazon review I’d sure appreciate it..thanks so much it’s wonderful to hear it is of value 🌹
@gavinwilliams16873 ай бұрын
It arrives tomorrow,thank you Paula.🙏
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
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@shiny4him293 ай бұрын
Congratulations, Paula! 🎊💕
@claudialange14843 ай бұрын
You are so lovely, thank you for helping me, best of luck!!
@Truthteller1s3 ай бұрын
Congratulations on the new book! 🥳🎉💪 I can't wait to get my copy.
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
Hope you enjoy it! 🙏🌹
@cathytai3 ай бұрын
I love the title, it's perfect.
@haneefahmuhammad34473 ай бұрын
I love how Remy is feeling so loved in the background that he cant help but lick his pillow...❤❤❤
@bthe1doright4623 ай бұрын
So glad you put together a book - - your input - clarity - honesty and compassion make you the RIGHT PERSON to Put The Work of Understanding The Abuse Patterning By Narcissistic Pathological People Against Us Empathetic Vulnerable Loving People Into Proper Form for Review = Study = Learning and Self Help and HEALING ! I will of course purchase this book and keep it to share with others that come along in my life who can benefit. Much love to you and Remy and always you bring on the light ! Keep Shining. XO
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
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@cherylgregory60273 ай бұрын
Congratulations Paula. Will look forward to reading your book. Best wishes. x
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
Thank you Cheryl 🥰🐕🙋♀️
@Nicole-Faith3 ай бұрын
Congratulations and God Bless you Paula! Very happy for you and your quest to help folk🙏 I've been reading more lately, so I'm sure this will be next on my list. Much love to you. 💛
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
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@MichelleDonoghue-bw3qx10 күн бұрын
Amazing! Will purchase. Thanks to you, you helped enlighten me on this subject especially my relationship with that narc! He is still watching me, 3 years on! Still enjoying your videos xx
@NarcCon9 күн бұрын
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@PrettyLola-mm4ux3 ай бұрын
Cover art is lit 🔥 🔥🔥🔥
@LoveSource11112 ай бұрын
Thank you Paula! I can't wait to get it. I love your content because you put so much care and love into your videos. Thank you!
@NarcCon2 ай бұрын
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@sasamilic7208 күн бұрын
I was so happy to learn you wrote a book
@sheilamelchiorre97063 ай бұрын
Going to order this & thank you Paula for this Chanel, you are inspiring & informative & I believe you truly care about this & how it affects us who have been involved in relationships with these people. 🙏💕
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Sheila 🙋♀️
@marianthatos66673 ай бұрын
Many congratulations Paula! Just ordered your book - excellent title. You have been doing an enormous public service; also love having Remy more close-up.
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
Thank you Marian 🐕🌹
@sharonmcclintock67273 ай бұрын
Well done🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉!
@tracylindberg48473 ай бұрын
I will also be buying n sharing the book. Thrilled for you completing it. I hope you used the hoovering examples I sent some time ago. Congratulations again on your achievement. Love n best wishes to you n doggy.🥰🐕
@Gulliver-m3v3 ай бұрын
My copy got delivered today!! Reading it this weekend❤
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
Hope you enjoy it!
@brandnewday-nov202427 күн бұрын
Congrats!
@darcybarwick37663 ай бұрын
Many blessings… I’ve been watching your podcasts from the beginning I’ve said this to you before, but I will say it again ….thank you for saving my life ! Your book will undoubtedly set others free from the snares of the devil … Congratulations .
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
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@GemmaCraft3 ай бұрын
I bought it on Canada Amazon this morning! Excited to read it and thank you Paula! $17.29 CAD
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
Hope you enjoy it Gemma, if you have time to review good or bad I’d sure appreciate 😊
@sewfrench13963 ай бұрын
Congratulations Paula! I got my copy on kindle! I can’t remember if it was this video or another one where you mentioned something about glowing (or having an inner light) after dealing with a narcissist. I had an experience like that. I used to live in the Boston area. I worked at one of the best psychiatric hospitals in the country….Always in the top five in the United States. The hospital is affiliated with Harvard University. It is a teaching hospital. All this to say that I learned a lot there, as well as, in college about personality disorders… but something was missing. After educating myself and working at the hospital on several different inpatient units and in the emergency crisis unit (for over ten years) I know there’s a dark side to these people. You speak about narcissistic abuse like you know it first hand. You are the real deal and your higher purpose is to help many of us. You’re a true survivor and a great healer. I survived several narcs in my life. I prayed to God for help with the worst one and He saved me. I would probably be dead if I stayed in that dangerous relationship. My mother called me at work the day after my ex boyfriend attacked me. She never called me at work, nor was I speaking to her on a regular basis at that time. She said she had a terrible nightmare about me and she knew instinctively that something was very wrong. If this isn’t spiritual warfare (as you said) then how do we explain these things? I was able to stay with her and get my life back on track. Throughout the years, I went on to help victims of domestic abuse, homeless people and psych patients. While I was working at the psych hospital near Boston, I met a psychiatrist who believed in possession and wrote several papers on it. He said psychology can’t explain everything. Anyway…I hope this comment isn’t too rambling and makes some sense. I have been in the psychiatric field for 25 years and I am here to thank you for continuing my education. When you talk about these things, it’s like everything finally makes more sense. I believe God led me to you. I’m still on the journey…💕 I love your dog Remi too! Pet therapy! ❤
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
Wow thank you for your comment, insights and work..I will save it to read out if I may? 🌹🐕
@sewfrench13963 ай бұрын
@@NarcCon you’re very welcome! You can surely read it out. 😊
@trayseebee23023 ай бұрын
Look forward to getting your book when it's available in Spain. Congratulations!
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
Available ☺️
@trayseebee23023 ай бұрын
@@NarcCon Great!
@lordsberg3 ай бұрын
Shalom Paula! After some difficulties the other day and fighting with Amazon, I came back online that evening and was able to order the paperback version of your book! I am anticipating its delivery within days! I know that it will be as spectacular and brilliant as you are! I love this video, and when you announced the second book I became very emotional and I'm crying. I Love You Paula! You're my Angel. Love to Remy 💓 Shalom🌹🕊️😇🐩
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
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@priralyn3 ай бұрын
p.s. I love the cover! Perfect symbolism (it does say the proverbial 1,000 words)
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
I will thank the designer 🥰
@glenmorse95333 ай бұрын
I ordered your book, I have enjoyed many hours of watching your u tube channel, thank you, and I can't wait to read it,
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
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@angiemcguinness3553 ай бұрын
Congratulations. Looking forward to this book. You do realise you were interupting Remy's slumber by talking? Sweet doggy.
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
Tks…I know but he tolerates me 🤓
@raresh225773 ай бұрын
Ordered my copy just now. Appreciate you Paula.
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
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@Uchesluches3 ай бұрын
Mazel Tov! For your new book. . .
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
Hey thanks Frimet 🥰🙋♀️
@Uchesluches3 ай бұрын
@@NarcCon❤
@markterrell11233 ай бұрын
Just finished reading your book Paula, brilliant!
@NarcCon2 ай бұрын
Mark tks so much for that feedback..I really appreciate it..if you have any time to review on Amazon that would be amazing 🙏🌹
@raanfo3 ай бұрын
Very well done Paula. Great title! x 🎉🎉🎉
@anon6603 ай бұрын
Congratulations on your book, Paula! Just ordered from Amazon. Looking forward to reading to heal as well. Cheers!
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much hope you enjoy it 🌹
@lolachlih31363 ай бұрын
I’m definitely going to be purchasing your book 📖 congratulations Paula ❤❤
@JoArmstrong-d8z3 ай бұрын
Amazon have despatched my copy! 🎉❤ Bought it as a wee thankyou as it’s the least I can do as you have helped me so much. Can’t wait to read it.
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
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@Serenity-n4j2 ай бұрын
Received your book yesterday and started reading it last night.... small print may take me awhile...but was impressed with your writing. I have been a book editor and publisher in past. Interesting that recently I also came to the conclusions that there are different species here on earth in human form as you mentioned. My personal awareness is that the more enlightened and empathic humans originate from a another place other than earth..... with the large percentage of humanity being Narcissistic in one way or another I have come to the conclusions that they are the original genetic earthling...their lack of growth and development is due to many lives of irresponsible Narcissistic behavior. Waking up journey takes personal responsibility to do the shadow work and become conscious. Congratulations on your book...look forward to more reading 💜
@NarcCon2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your feedback I’d like a traditional publisher for next book if you can recommend 🌹🐕
@dthed11ms3 ай бұрын
I am ordering from amazon tomorrow. Thank you, Paula 🎉🎉🎉
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
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@415Mulatica3 ай бұрын
Excited 🎉 I'm waiting on mine to arrive tomorrow.
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
Hope you enjoy it thanks for ordering, if you get a few minutes after reading would you mind leaving a review on Amazon? 🥰🙋♀️
@gulcindurutas23073 ай бұрын
Dear Laura I congratulate you on your new book! I am looking forward to getting my copy very soon. 😍 Lots of love and kisses from Athens💙 - Gulcin😘
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
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@gulcindurutas23073 ай бұрын
@@NarcCon ❤️
@asmrfoodieuk79653 ай бұрын
Well done on the book! Can't wait to read it 👌
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
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@Deborah-p1s3 ай бұрын
I get my book Monday! I live in Idaho, USA.
@shirlspark_stardust3 ай бұрын
Good afternoon Paula and lovely Remy he is about to go into slumber but he is listiening to what mum is saying first I have the book saved in my cart on Amazon I plan on buying it 😊❤❤
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
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@InfiniteGoddess9713 ай бұрын
Congrats. Look what u created. Amazing. Yr doggo looks like he got into some catnip😂😮
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
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@tathe37863 ай бұрын
Just a comment on a line out if you book….he responds as I got angry about him conning/cheating on me for multiple times: Do you want to forbid me from breathing now too? I think he speaks his truth! Lying, cheating, conning is their Natur to survive, and their normality, like breathing!!! 😊
@sandrathomas28933 ай бұрын
Scripture calls the difference wheat and tares.
@RADHIKAAAAA-n2q3 ай бұрын
🎉🎉🎉Like#108🎉🎉🎉
@Softtearsofwisdom...3 ай бұрын
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@Tiffer9993 ай бұрын
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@4Mikes4Mindset417 күн бұрын
I think your invasion analogy may be more literal than we may realize. Alien DNA 🧬 etc. spiritual war etc. this isn't just an accident war going on
@darrenconnolly32103 ай бұрын
Morning Paula, is it available on Audible, I find listening to this type of book easier to take on board thank you for this life saving gift thank you.
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
Soon..I will announce 🙏🌹
@gulcindurutas23073 ай бұрын
Dear Paula, I am also in love with your very beautiful dog! ❤️ What breed is he? Lots of love to both of you ❤️- Gulcin
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
Golden Lab and maybe some staffi
@PW824243 ай бұрын
hi Paula, there is another author listed on Amazon with your same name, but that's not you, right? Just checking. PS: I just read that she is in Antonio Texas. So I think she is not you : )
@NarcCon3 ай бұрын
Yes well known author same name 😊
@kendogrimrick3 ай бұрын
Great news! I can't wait to get a copy. I think your "analogy idea" is fantastic 🪐❤ Thank you.