Booking flats due to SOCIAL PRESSURE, buyers SUFFER EMI BURDEN | Naredco Homethon Property Expo 2023

[@MrAbhithepandey]

It feels good to see that there is someone making videos for general well being of Indians.

[@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal]

😇

[@chandrashekhar.prabhu]

I experienced exactly what you describe. I was dating a girl during my engineering, and we had been together for close to four years. I was sure that if I married this girl, we would live happily ever after. I was considering buying a flat because I currently live in a chawl because the girls' parents will inquire if I have my own apartment or not if there are ever any marriage-related discussions between two families. That's why I bought a two-bedroom apartment in October 2018. It was a ready possession flat. At age 26, I purchased this apartment. Something was developing in her workplace during this time behind my back. She grew close to one of her coworkers, and they soon began dating. My calls and texts were disregarded in the meanwhile. I reasoned that perhaps she had too much work on her plate at the office and wasn't responding to my messages. Either I was naive or I wished our fairy tale would never end. She eventually cheated on me. I lost all of my peace, mental health, etc. since I couldn't handle this, and I also lost my job because I wasn't productive enough. My family suffered greatly as a result of the infidelity of the woman for whom I purchased this flat. We used our life savings for the down payment and left with no money. For three years, I was unemployed. My ex, who had cheated on me with her colleague, ultimately made the decision to marry someone else (not her colleague) who her parents had chosen. I was unable to pay my EMIs throughout this time. The bank acquired control of the apartment after accruing interest, and now I am responsible for paying the apartment's debts. I was ultimately left with nothing in my possession. I was completely destroyed. Our relative also turned on us and began making fun of us, saying things like, "Jaldbazi ki ghar lene me, soch ke decision lena chahiye tha," etc.

[@4985muhammadali]

Never go after the pussy 😻 🐈 ... Most girls in India are after your money 💲 Gold Diggers 😡

[@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal]

Very sorry to read about your experience. Deepest sympathies. But thanks for sharing your story in such a detailed way. ♥

[@adityasalunkhe1288]

Thanks man i think boys nowadays are giving way too much attention to girls The more we do it the more we keep on screwing ourself It is better to grow and work on ourself I have a similar experience but i lost all my interest in my work and eventually it affected my whole life as well and i was never what i intended to be So screw girls and work on rebuilding yourself Good luck for your future man

[@MrBlackjack456]

Your story is heartbreaking. Aurat ka chakkar Babu bhaiya. I am sure you must have learnt your lesson with this whole ordeal.

[@stacydoval8403]

Girls are always like this bhai.. You have to very careful, i am glad assuming you came out of this situation wiser and stronger. I believe woth full faith that after something like this your reward os round the corner wish you wonderful life partner and lots of happiness dear.

[@jogindersingh4471]

Even I thought that I will not meet with an accident and did not take insurance cover on home loan, after taking home loan within an year I met with a road accident resulting in spinal cord injury and now I am paralyzed below chest, completely on wheelchair for life, lost job..... This is real

[@dariovariodinx]

I am so sorry for u dear God bless u

[@manikyum]

Praying to the lord that he gives you all the strength. Things will get better. Stay strong brother ✊

[@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal]

Deepest sympathies

[@manojsuri007]

Wish for your speedy recovery. All the best.

[@sameerthakur2626]

My deepest sympathies.

[@deepcool5497]

Sir, i booked at 22 Lakh in 2011. It is small 2 BHK. I completed it while never went to onsite. Lot of x colleagues they became jeolous and booked their houses in big brands at 45+ lakh and went to onsite by doing office politics to get in the queue first। At the end all are having same 2 Bhk, but different brands। My being middle level builder gave me more carpet area and best amenities as it has no obligation to show elephants teeths। As i had less loan i payed it early। Whereas my friends still continuing with emi। At age of 42 i am free from home building liability and focused on my kids future।

[@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal]

Congratulations ♥

[@subirghanty7748]

Congratulations 🎊

[@macdeep8523]

DeepCool - you are an Ideal Indian

[@rachangoudapatilnidoni5058]

Not everyone can achieve this feat, life is unpredictable and lot of other problems will be there. It's not so easy for everyone. Anyways good that you have achieved this.

[@deepcool5497]

@@rachangoudapatilnidoni5058 sir, we also sacrificed lot of things in life, at one point after coming back from vacation my company shut down and got only one week of notice, though the manager's enjoyed 6 months of payed notice. Struggle is there for all, but mostly people are in race with each other, not for their own selves. Thanks for your wishes sir.

[@FoxRoars]

Sir, aapko koti koti naman. I have saw all your videos in 2 days. Very informative! I wish more and more people know about your channel and get saved from the loot of builders. एक ही तो ज़िन्दगी है, एक ही सपनो का घर लेना है. उसमे भी ठग गए तो हर दिन गम मैं गुज़रेगा!

[@vinayakpatil355]

Nice piece of advice, Sir. Sending this to my in-laws, relatives even to my parents who think a second or a third home is always a best option for future investment. Idhar jeb ka ek ched silaai nahi hua udhar dusra ho jaata hai aur upar se yeh inflation. Golgappe bhi 50 ki plate hue hai. Always have something as a second income. Do anything after work, delivery karo, home made products etcetera. Make yourself economically strong. Log tumhe tumhare bank balance ko paimaana mankar tumhari kimat tay karte hai. Paisa khatam, yaari, dosti, rishtedaari khatam. Bitter but truth.

[@zuberansari1937]

Truly said

[@princeofheaven19]

I have a 2bhk flat in a tier 1 city and during the pandemic I shifted to native place and started living in my grandfather's house which he left to us. The old house is a real swarg with ample light and ventilation. I now realized how much urban builders are exploiting us.

[@macdeep8523]

Urban buliders are monsters created by bankers , babus and politician nexus , this monsters eating out all humanity ik India

[@rachangoudapatilnidoni5058]

E sab maine 2007 mein soch liya tha. I completed 15 years in bangalore in rented house. I am Raja. I invested money in plot in my native place. Thank you sir for enlightening video.

[@AP-eb8hd]

My sincere advice to home buyers .. Buy only when you can pay the amount upfront..

[@bhagawanlohar2607]

You are talking reality of this world.👍

[@Ibrahim-ph4jn]

हर एक इंसान के आजू बाजू उकसाने वाले लोग बहुत होते इस लिए बहुत सोच समझ कर जिंदगी गुजारनी पड़ती है

[@akramshaikh8596]

Sahi baat hai

[@KINGMJ1990]

I have to find one day to watch all your many videos of the last 1-2 months. Some really great videos in there with lot of information

[@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal]

😊🙏🏻💔 You made my day

[@991681]

Love your videos sir. Real facts straight from heart to heart.

[@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal]

Thanks, man 😊😊🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@rohilchopra]

Moral of the story: reject the trinity of marriage-reproduction-family.... Hell with parents.... Let there be peace ✌️

[@BrownByTasteProudByChoice]

This is a must watch for all prospective home buyers, just the way pre marriage counseling is becoming necessary for all marriageble folks . 😊

[@adwaitvedant3297]

*This is harsh truth sir* ❤️❤️ I am sharing this video for sure My advice to all middle class youth is before marriage only make it clear to your wife , in-laws and your parents..That without prior financial planning you are not going to buy a flat or have kids , cause mental peace is what is priority to you as well as for the family. If your in-laws and would be wife refuse to take your advice and blackmail you , then simply show them the gate of your home and bid a goodbye.If these kind of conditions are involved in marriage then its not worthy at all.The marriage will collapse anyway if you lose the flat owning game in the middle due to uncertainty. It's not love but we'll calculated securing of interest at the cost of mental peace of a man.

[@indian5005]

There is nothing wrong in buying a house....as long as you know your capacity to pay the emi. Owning a house is a basic necessity. Plan properly....that's all. If recession happens it happens for whole world and if economy grows same happens with whole world....one needs to keep updated with latest skills to be employed.

[@indian5005]

Always have 6 to 12 months of expenses(including all the emis) aside as a emergency fund in case if you get laid off...you have a buffer until you get new job....Recessions are a part of our economy and they will be coming and markets will fall down so the economy.....and at the same time market will rise....My self just being 35 yrs old have witnessed 3 recessions....and i have learned that the real estate will never be going down given the size of the country and population of India.....

[@Pedals_n_brews]

@@indian5005 size of the country and population has got nothing to do with real estate *never* coming down . Some day it will

[@stacydoval8403]

He is really a blessing to our community. Thanks sir you are a saint for the common man.

[@jaihind1304]

It’s still relevant after 50 years from 2023 ❤ I faced same situation after booking second flat for an investment but somehow I realised this will not work for me and thankfully one day I realised salesman’s tone is also going negative as sir told and then I immediately decided to cancel the booking. I had paid two lac rupees as a token. Salesman told it will not be refunded but I was even ready for that looking at future issues.

[@deepcool5497]

You are showing real scenarios which i myself went through some. My home with the builder also went through lot of litigation of farmers as it was in Noida extension. In those times my relatives and friends used to demoralize me as they themselves were living on rent and were lacking guts to buy their own house. In all the 6 years till i get the possesion of our home in 2017 , i faced lot of criticism , jealousy, and negativity from all near and dear once। I never had any competition with any one , just a desire to have a small roof for us in case of bad times. But i found that many were iliving in comparison with me। Here most of the people have more time to spend on what others are doing instead of focusing on their own task। Many of my friends were happy(i felt with their tone) when i lost jobs in between and used to ask how i will pay emi। But they did not knew that emi's were 700 Rs per month. I had repaid bulk of my loan during happy times instead of spending it on leisure. At the end i realize who are real well wishers and who are a**holes even if they are in blood relations or so called friends.

[@dhananjayrudrawar7144]

Sir jab jab aapka video dekhta hoon sach me bohot accha lagta hai

[@EduHelp_blog]

Great job Sir. Service to society, serving to nation.

[@swordofthespirit4294]

Jai Maharashtra sirji. Aap jo bolte hona. Ekdum yatharth ke darshan karwa dete ho. Kya nahi karna hai zindagi me ye to clear hi ho jata hai

[@Mooniscool-w8g]

Spot on!

[@mandarp9472]

Very good points made here. Builders cheat, projects get delayed, loss of job, salary reduction, accidents, diseases are common circumstances and even whole project can be declared illegal by authorities or courts.

[@Modism111Yogism]

Government should intervene in construction industry to check prices

[@deepviewale2259]

Damnn.. your this video is a reality check... sir. Kahani har middle class ghar ki...👍👍I request all the youth to follow sirs channel instead of following nonsense entertainment channel. By watching his videos u all will learn something about real world and the dangerous system we all r srounded by..

[@rajukravuther2519]

Living on Rent from last 7 years, married & happy. Only issue is shifting, rest all fine.

[@macdeep8523]

My cousin is also only living in rented apartment happily and he only investing in farm land ,

[@ajoysingh8906]

True

[@mayankparekh8565]

VERY WELL SAID. this is the reality. me bhi aise fasne ja raha tha. nahi buy kiya, bach gaya.

[@makking2804]

Very true sir. We should never buy property under family or peer pressure specially the under construction ones. Mai toh EMI par bhi kabhi nahi lunga, rent par reh loonga kyunki job ki koi guarantee nahi😅😂

[@saritaprasad4295]

True Sir, it is sad but real

[@manikyum]

Thank you for making this. Also I would like to add because of the loan burden many young men can't start a family on time too

[@balbhatt]

You are giving correct reality of realtor

[@ankurkamboj8204]

Very serious matter beautifully said very few make these kinds of videos every ytber busy selling something to middle classes.

[@user-et1vz2ru6l]

Bohot zabardast 👍 ye EMI k chakkar m parna hi chahiye... Chahe chahe chatni roti aur kiraye k ghar m guzara kr lo... Admi jawan bna rehta h💪

[@BeardedRedDevil]

Sir, I just love your videos. It's raw and harsh truths which comes only with experience. Hope youngsters understand the value of life through your KZbin videos. Cheers - @BeardedRedDevil

[@visheshb7695]

Very nice topic sir...

[@rachangoudapatilnidoni5058]

Love you sir very good video. Urban naxal...

[@saritaprasad4295]

Udhar nahi hona chahiya besak chal me raho or dal roti khao. Zindagi barbaad ho jati hai

[@sanjivkeskar2547]

In such cases wife is useless unemployed she or her parents should not demand flat without earning anything.

[@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal]

Even if she is employed, be careful, because the buck stops with you the man of the house.

[@TheIndica]

Please make a video about your opinion about Mediclaim which alot of ppl are falling for.

[@IslamTheFinalMessage]

Very true sir!

[@sauravp2188]

Sir you make lot of sense I am earning around 2 lacs per month but still haven’t bought a flat till now I am also not planning to buy any flat in Bangalore I want to live in freedom I want to be financially independent after few years so that I can start something of my own I don’t think there is any issue in staying in rent as long as I am working please suggest 🙏

[@pradeepkhamkar6532]

Abhi ye project shapurji palanji ne liya hai, obhi kam chalu nahi kiya hai, abhi kya kare.

[@mandarp9472]

Sir please make a detailed video on new chawl houses and existing chawl rooms. Are they legal? Property tax and other such details in case of such chawl houses or rooms, transfer of such rooms. There are many you tube videos of such houses on youtube.

[@creativezebra5757]

Great advice. Thank you sir.

[@chandersuryavanshi803]

Nice explained

[@dariovariodinx]

Sir very true ..but in my case it's education related my course yearly feeee will be 50 lakh total 3 year course and my total expenditure will fall around 2 cr with everything included. I get pressurized to take loan and study but I didn't and parents are angry with me but felt good after looking at your video. I know it's not about education par life ka bharosa nahi. Aaj education loan for study loan

[@Pedals_n_brews]

Good for u buddy . In a day when most things can be learnt online for free education institutions charging 50l is day light robbery

[@mgupta3525]

Pilot ka course kar rahe kya?

[@dariovariodinx]

@@mgupta3525 nahi brother

[@mgupta3525]

@@dariovariodinx phir kya kar rahe ho bro?

[@dariovariodinx]

@@mgupta3525 i actually m an mbbs graduate . In recent counselling after neet pg exam i didn't get seat in my favourite branches but i am getting seat in not so favourite branches. I easily was able to get seat in post graduation cources in self financed hospital but charges are around 50 lakh a year. My parents say that doctor can easily earn 2 cr but that's not true it takes years of experience to reach their plus i have health issues and i am scared I will die soon if my health becomes bad . I cannot sleep at night if i charge my patients unfairly. I wish to practice fairly but most importantly i don't want to have crores of loan on my head if i know my health will not be good.

[@getvivekjoshi]

True lines don't go with under-construction house, every middle class weakness is house, but all laws is made only for you (buyers) not for builders. Kaha zagadte baithoge. rented house is far more best than this slavery

[@satvikkhare1844]

This is a horror story. Good that you put the disclaimer that it is based on true events.

[@gurnaniassociates2016]

Sir I can only say that you talk only sense n noding nonsense Love you for ur harsh talks

[@akramshaikh8596]

Brilliant 👍

[@nitinsingh9487]

Sir what is your take on rent vs buying home

[@Modism111Yogism]

Channel partners should be blamed for this as they call and force to buy just to earn small commission

[@jayprakash375]

Sir i have taken 2 BHK in Bank and it seems u were telling same my story....Now i m also in same stuation and sone tine think for suicide also...i have taken 2 bhk 50 lakh and lost all my saving for house and still always in the tension

[@syedraza024]

Hi ,could you give a feedback on Roswalt zaiden on jogeshwari sv road ?

[@Anonymous-ho1mt]

Lol.. This is 100% accurate.

[@dilipshivgan716]

Good afternoon sir

[@mustaqm55]

Sirjee, problems toh sare bata diye. Solution kya hai iss cheez ka. Khud ka ghar lein ya rent pe rahe lifelong. Zindagi bhai biwi/ susral walon k taane sunein kya? Karein toh karein kya? Shaadi na karein ya kya karein? 😅 Aaj kal sab ladki k baap log expect karte ladke k paas khud ka ghar ho aur loan bhi clear ho.

[@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal]

Jao, Shirdi ke Sai Baba ke shubh charanon mein apni shesh zindagi beeta do, vats! Alaaakh Niranjan! Jaiiii Bholenaaath!

[@kiranbhagyavant2140]

Just leave expectations no matter what grief is ultimate truth. Just give up

[@pradeepkhamkar6532]

Nirmal Group, U.S.Open, Mulund West, Mumbai, 15yearse bund pda hai, bank instalment Chlu hai, Eske bareme kuch Bataiye.

[@anandtiwari6877]

Third like

[@PUBLICGRIEVANCESANDNEWS]

कर्म को देखिए सबके साथ क्या huwa है

[@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal]

Right, Karrm Infrastructure.

[@DigiLiterate]

Sir, Do you know any Cancer NGO that can help funding?

[@Gashu910]

Watch at camera lense when you talk

[@GreenDriveIndia]

Never book under construction

[@rajibbhattacharjee6427]

Emotional fools will face such consequences

[@santoshkumarbabar7215]

Please make it short.

[@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal]

No 😂🙏🏻

[@Trueandhonest]

Kuch khara nhi honay wala ha 😂😂😂

[@Bunny-dz3cn]

At the end flat owner...kaha hai wo bunty bolne wala aur kaun ta wo pandit..unki aisi ki taisi..😡

[@no22sill]

Horror story 😢

[@nainishsahare6401]

😂😮

[@4985muhammadali]

Yay, bunty bunty 😆

[@4985muhammadali]

Kuch khada nahi hone waala hai 😆😆/ sir kitna hasaoge..

[@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal]

😂

[@santoshgawade1393]

Bunty bunty ..... Hahahaha

[@mariofernandes6164]

Appointment of expert.director gor redevelopment is it necessary for society of twenty mbers is it nexessary

[@mariofernandes6164]

Sirnemail id please