8 Signs Your Ex Is Hurting BADLY

[@mikey358976]

Human minds are weird, if people break up & there miserable cause there missing that person. Then go back to one another & talk it out. Plain & simple, quit playing mind games & talk like adults. People these days

[@plantationcreationz5201]

lol I agree that’s a man’s logical way of fixing it but women aren’t logical

[@BradBrowning]

I know. But hey, thanks for dropping by!

[@fuzzypanda1684]

Yeah...meanwhile here in the real world, the girl leaves and is totally fine since she's already dating someone else. Meanwhile the guy is miserable, wants her back, and doesn't know what to do. He hears that if he goes no contact and focuses on improving himself, that she'll eventually see that and want to get back together. Except that he does all that, but she never reaches out to him again.

[@FollowerofChristYeshua]

Just wanted to come back after almost 10 years. I remember your advice having helped me and i grew holding your tips. Youre great

[@BradBrowning]

Oh wow. It's been that long, huh? Thanks for dropping by again. I appreciate it!

[@juliebarnes6888]

My ex fiance broke up with me and gave me a week to move out. He started dating again before I moved out a few months ago. He's already in his 2nd relationship. I'm actually very happy now and moved on as well. I feel free to be myself and do the things I've always wanted to do without his disagreements and narcissism

[@BradBrowning]

Looks like the breakup was a blessing in disguise. Time to free yourselves from all that negativity. Happy for you! :-)

[@pulemokoena9566]

Lovely

[@davidallahgod3217]

*BRAD IS THE G.O.A.T BREAKUP COACH*

[@BradBrowning]

Hey hey thank you! :-)

[@ahlers1977]

The mother of my 3 children of 18 years has decided to discard me & have me removed from a house in my name by saying I hugged her too hard. Went to jail, now cant go back home & living in a motel. In 3 weeks I have saw her driving by atleast 7 times looking my direction. Would you say this is a sign she is hurting?

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that. What did you went to jail for and how often do you fight? Her driving by could be anything so it's best not to overanalyze that. Also is this your first breakup/separation? Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@kheicee]

4 months of no contact with my avoidant ex. wishing he would still come back. but today i decided to stalk or check him secretly on social media. i could say he’s happy and enjoying life. guess he will never think of coming back to me.

[@HinaKhan-kl3qe]

😢😢😢

[@BradBrowning]

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. You can reach out to your ex after the 30 days straight of "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bYHGl3qbf9aIj9E including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qmesZp5ratWheac but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com

[@kheicee]

UPDATE guys: after almost 6 months of no contact my ex CAME BACK (he messaged me on july 30, 2024) both on telegram and messenger. he said he regretted breaking up with me and that i was still the one he loved. for the months since we broke up he said it was eating him alive and that he never had the courage to message me first until recently.

[@Maria-mg1pf]

Hi Brad, you make a lot of content about how to get back together with your ex. But for cases that we were cheated on, how do we know if we should accept them back? Hope to hear from you soon. Thank you.

[@BradBrowning]

Since that's a devastating experience, the desire/intention to fix that particular relationship then becomes a purely subjective experience. There are many causes of one partner going astray and while some cases can be worked on, other cases deserve to be left in oblivion. So use your discernment if the situation you describe happens, all right? If you need my help on that, then I need a ton of details to your situation but this is what I'm here for so hire me as your coach at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@cobragirl15]

He's blocked me on everything. I have no idea what he's doing other than the fact that he's moved for school. He's avoidant. He's doing fine in his eyes

[@BradBrowning]

This isn't really a concerning issue, at least initially, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/s52sRweJlm8 So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/a4a3amV_d5qondU Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : kzbin.info/www/bejne/emKqoYVrgqajh80 Good luck!

[@PankajBhuyan-o5w]

Hi brad i m in no contact period for 15 days my ex call me some days ago to wish me happy Diwali.I simply wish her back she cut the call what is the sign ??

[@BradBrowning]

Unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/m5zCZaqmoLtpbMU AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/jWjMdGCdfdKNaKM it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. To prevent this mistake from happening again, get my Ex Factor Guide 2.0 to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy Good luck!

[@advanceromance2656]

Flat effect. I actual see this in a toned down way as well as stoic with a cavalier facade thrown in. Interesting. Thank you, it's coming to light now. I'm unequaled and incomparable and they know this.

[@BradBrowning]

You're welcome!

[@amanpradhan5221]

Hey brad I recently noticed she unblocked me on some platforms It's been 5 months post break up and 3 months NC Has she moved on and no longer feels?

[@BradBrowning]

If she has, you'll usually see many of the signs mentioned here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iX27oJiJlseDpNk Depending on how many signs you see, this may help you process or deal with the breakup efficiently: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bavTaIZ8l8p2iLc but if you find yourself needing more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Ex Factor Guide if you want to try to get your ex back in the best possible way, at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!

[@tonyb4854]

any specific recommendations when the "break up" is actually divorce with kids involved? or when ex has untreated mental health (BPD and anxiety)? do you think all the content and advice still applies or does it change things?

[@BradBrowning]

It changes things a ton. You're going through a rough patch and your wife having an existing mental disorder can only complicate things further. Anyway the process of saving one's marriage is a bit complicated and in fact, does NOT make use of the "no contact" rule... but this is why I've released a second book called Mend the Marriage. Check it out at www.marriageguy.com as everything is on there, from how to communicate more effectively, down to how to handle the kids (if applicable), monitor your progress through worksheets and stuff. But while I certainly need more information to know what's going on between you two for sure, I suggest you check out more marriage-saving tips which you may find useful, check out this new channel I've dedicated solely for this purpose. Here's the link: y2u.be/dr2JTi_bCRU or sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program at www.marriageguy.com/coaching Take care!

[@smolville]

Like her mom told her, "you ruined another good man".

[@pulemokoena9566]

She actually ruined her future happiness. Just stand-up and hold your head high

[@BradBrowning]

Then it's her loss. Oftentimes, people need to grow and become better versions of themselves... and it's through a breakup where they can do that. Anyway the breakup looks like a blessing in disguise and this may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bavTaIZ8l8p2iLc but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com Take care!

[@couldstrife1]

What about it if you both don’t do well with change, but she’s the one who left. How do you really know all these sign if your in NC and been unfollowed on socials

[@BradBrowning]

Depends. What kind of changes? Not every couple can survive a major change but some do, so it depends. In almost all cases, once you've been dumped, the best route is to give each other space for at least 30 days and not push things.

[@couldstrife1]

@@BradBrowning she got into a rebound that didn’t workout. I’ve done the 30 days and we started talking but I was about him. So told her I didn’t want to hear about him. Then she went NC until coming to get her stuff now been in NC for a further three months it’s been 10 months since she left as she said she deserved better as I wasn’t doing what she had asked, get a third job along with running my own business. Our own place even though I didn’t have the money etc

[@antaresvega2037]

So get this. My ex hasn't returned some of my stuff back and she also blocked me on social media but not on whatsapp. What kind of games are these or what does she think by doing this?

[@BradBrowning]

She could be busy or angry for whatever reason. Or both. It's hard to evaluate without knowing anything about the situation. But try to see which stage your ex is at, here because she could be avoiding you until she feels better: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mqLRonqNhNBshKM

[@universeexplorer790]

Honestly I think he's not hurting, but he probably think the same. No hope about he's coming back.

[@BradBrowning]

I say generally it's still fair game unless you see most if not all the signs that your ex is over you. Here's the vid: kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKqtg6OerKmWl5Y and especially if those signs prevail over a prolonged period of time. If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!

[@kevinjoute2967]

Hi community, i am currently in a no contact period and it been almost 2 weeks now.. sometimes its really hard to fight the urge to text her but trying to keep my distance and heal.. as per my schedule i am planning to break my silence on the 2 week of July, which would make my days of No contact more than 30 days.. can anyone suggest me ideas on how to initiate the first text that i would sent her on my first contact?? That would be really appreciated.

[@BradBrowning]

You can reach out to your ex after the 30 days straight of "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bYHGl3qbf9aIj9E including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qmesZp5ratWheac but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com

[@unclecondog9807]

Update?

[@latonyamorgan1520]

I’ve been blocked bcuz I cursed him out but it’s ok it does bother me but I’ll never contact him again he blocks then unblocks he can keep me blocked this time. I just found u Brad thanks I am binge watching your videos rn bcuz they resonate with me so thanks very much! And he is a 66 to old to be blocking don’t u think so Brad?

[@BradBrowning]

Hey welcome to my channel! :-) Re being blocked, right. But he could just be needing his space... or he's tired to getting cussed. Try to calm down first, yeah? Feeding into drama won't do anyone any good.

[@krose318]

The mask, i used to this all the time. I wear more makeup & dress nicer. People would compliment my looks and not noticed how sad i felt on the inside. It distracted to me to talk about my looks instead of my feelings

[@BradBrowning]

Thank you for sharing your experience.

[@jaydub7386]

I'm in permanent no-contact, so I don't know/care if they are hurting. If he's hurting, GOOD!

[@HueyMullen]

Just out of curiosity why did you click on this video

[@BradBrowning]

Hi! Thanks for dropping by.

[@MicheleAlessandroBiancoGuerra]

Good for her, she dodged a bullet.

[@jf5505]

​@HueyMullen /because she's lying when she says she 'doesn't know or doesn't care' if he's (her ex) is hurting

[@601DatBoyJay]

Stop the cappin!! That’s the main reason yo ass is here. Shut up and listen to Brad!

[@Euroimports]

I hurt my gf very badly mentally. She said I cause her to feel depression. I keep messing up with understanding her feelings while I’m registering things logically. And every little thing I do wrong, it all resurfaces. The issue is I also live with her and it is hard to have time apart.

[@BradBrowning]

It's another story if you live under the same roof after a relationship ends. I suggest you do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/thVReUI9Vzs AND y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!

[@MatthewShih]

This question is going to be great for your next topic. What happen if you are a content creator like you? How you gonna disappear? Do it on purpose? Or stay still?

[@BradBrowning]

Stick to your topic and try not to mention anything about your ex for a while. Your audience is more important than the ex who left you.

[@mara680]

Mine has left me and blocked me everywhere out of nowhere. She is an famous visual artist and since breakup she is mostly painting stuff which relates to me. She is selling them worldwide. And on Insta she is almost daily posting pics which are meant for me. I wonder now if she is missing me or is she just trying to cope with the breakup? I am still very hurt, she was the love of my life...

[@BradBrowning]

Hey being used as an inspiration isn't so bad! Here are the most common reasons for being blocked and my thoughts about it, including what to do: y2u.be/s52sRweJlm8 and don't forget to take the quiz if you still want to know what your chances are and/or still have questions on what to do after, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz

[@Muz6969]

He blocked me on everything 8 months ago,after a bad row,he left me pregnant,so of course I flipped out and said things I shouldn’t have.hes avoidant but since I’ve been blocked I’ve had at least 30 fake accounts adding and messaging me, could it be him? If so what does he want? He could easily unblock me and talk to me

[@BradBrowning]

Hi there! How are you? If he's that immature to be reaching out to you using different accounts, then he has no business being a father. You can try to see if it's him by asking directly or if that doesn't work, ignore/stop wasting your time on it. Anyway here are the most common reasons for being blocked and my thoughts about it, including what to do: y2u.be/s52sRweJlm8 and don't forget to take the quiz if you still want to know what your chances are and/or still have questions on what to do after, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz

[@Muz6969]

⁠@@BradBrowningthank you for the reply,I’m good thank you,I did phone him and ask him,he was like noooo,not that he’s going to admit to it anyway,but it sounded like I caught him out,he’s had his family and friends add me,he’s 31 not a child

[@Muz6969]

@@BradBrowninghope you are well too,he’s from a different culture,hence why I think all these fake accounts so his family don’t find out,he’s probably been told not to have any contact with me

[@melindabararata6888]

What if my ex is angry but genuinely feels resestment towards me? Do i still have a chance to win him back?

[@BradBrowning]

It's really a case-to-case basis as to how and why that resentment built up and stayed.

[@FabricioRochaJorBr]

The only signs of discomfort I noticed was that my wife was going out to drink with friends and smoking much more than usual in the days before she moved away with our kids last Saturday. And nothing apart from that. She surely and quickly built a thick stone wall strong enough to hold even herself. Too much for her alleged reason for the separation. She seems really decided to give no chance to regret or any comeback feelings.

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that, man. How long has your marriage been rocky though? Here are the common stages a dumper goes through if you're curious why she acted the way she did: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mqLRonqNhNBshKM

[@FabricioRochaJorBr]

@@BradBrowning Oh, I've watched this video some four times already :) Thanks for your attention, Brad. Well, problems accumulated for years already, and the first one was that she suddenly became quite uninterested in sex and intimacy when we were together for some 3 years. Anyways we stayed together, had two kids, but this constant feeling of rejection, added to the stress of having children, kept building up and affected my self confidence and my humour a lot. Since last January or February she appeared to be a bit different, more selfish and too focused on work. In April 20 she announced she wanted to breakup our 12-year relationship. And she did it quite boldly and fast.

[@timelesswords6826]

Men has strong personality.. they always hide their feelings and emotions... But eyes can't lie😅

[@BradBrowning]

Right!

[@betotrono]

Haha. After breaking up with me, my ex, (who just before breaking up with me said that she could see herself marrying me), did the following: 1.) Got with her neighbor 1.5 weeks later. 3 months later now they're boyfriend girlfriend and his friends are apparently complaining that it seems like she's manipulating him. 2.) She jumped into kickboxing, activism, constant video games, going out to concerts and dancing even though she never liked doing those things before, and has been hosting get togethers at her place. 3.) she has repeatedly made little comments to remind me how hot she is by telling stories about guys flirting with her, and told me she and her boyfriend are in a really good place right now and talked up his rizz. 4.) She tells me she's not reay to talk to me because she's upset with me about a conversation we had that was tough but not a horrible fight. 5.) Has made comments about reddit posts I've made. 6.) asks if I'm dating anyone and excitedly jumped to the conclusion that it's not going well for me.

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that. I could be wrong but it looks like she's on an ego trip, man. That's not really "hurting" per se but she seems upset somehow, for whatever reason. If your relationship lasted a short while, then chances are she only sees your relationship as a fling and may very well be ego driven. Otherwise if it was a significant relationship, then chances are she'll go through these stages: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mqLRonqNhNBshKM

[@lapluie1580]

My break up happened July of last year... here and there they would breadcrumb. It stopped after January of this year. Never hearing back from them again. The last thing they prettty much said/demand was friendship... when I didnt agree to it. I hoped he'd miss me/relationship... I've been leaving him alone. Are my chances just dead by this point?

[@BradBrowning]

It's important to meet your ex halfway if they're making some effort to be in touch especially after some time. Since it's been many months since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: kzbin.info/www/bejne/j4e5mo2jjperZqs and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!

[@lapluie1580]

@@BradBrowning Yeah, I never ignored him when he would reach out. He just went silent all together after his final reply in January. I just believe when he couldn't get things by his terms (example) demanding friendship and I shot down the offer. I'm so much more then just a friend... I was that sure in the beginning but we both felt more then just a friendship. So demand that after disrespectful acts and ghosting... it's super hurtful. But I'm not a spiteful person, I just wish he'd say sorry for the damage he did general not only me... I'm rambling, with some time I'd hear him out.. but the longer he goes silent. It makes me feel like, was I really never that important or worthy of his time/effort?

[@unknown1988s]

does "give up on life for a bit" include withdrawing from social media?

[@BradBrowning]

Not necessarily because some folks are naturally not so keen on social media. Don't give up on life basically means don't let yourself go. Don't treat the breakup like it's the end of the world even though it feels like it. So find joy in other stuff like friends, (old or new) hobbies, setting career/personal goals, etc. It's only temporary and you will heal from this. It does get better!

[@A-mq2qq]

Can Your profession to get ex back apply on South Indian girl? Because they will only consider on her family decision even they have love feeling on her boyfriend

[@BradBrowning]

I don't know a ton about your culture but from what I've gathered, these strict rules of marriage you have and who to marry are unbreakable, right? In this case, I'm sorry but this is beyond a relationship counsellor's reach. We don't make or bend these laws as it's strictly your own. Understand that the choice is ultimately up to your ex on whether to fight for you or not despite the opposition going on. Good luck!

[@lucychacha1617]

1st person to comment please give some likes 🥰🥰🥰

[@jaydub7386]

There you go.

[@eu8y]

@@jaydub7386thirsty lol

[@BradBrowning]

Giving you a heart! Thanks for dropping by.

[@babyluvjr]

I wish I could believe all of this.....unbelievable truly unbelievable

[@BradBrowning]

We're all only human, you know. Some folks just do a better job at hiding their emotions.

[@lubhita_10]

No contact worked he came back omg thankss !!! Just 2 months in he reached out twice 😅😂

[@BradBrowning]

Awesome!

[@legendtommorow9968]

I was speaking to my girlfriend (current ex) how relationship shoud be and if a relationship doesn't make us better person we must cutet and unseen our feeling 2days later she use my technique and say if we go further we both may get hurt i realize immediately what happend but my explanation was not good are it was not enough she scares she thinks she's not good for me and because the problem she had maybe i don't love her in future but before that she acts so fast and block me from everywhere only because my stupid standards of relationship and she get it wrong plleeeeeease help me

[@legendtommorow9968]

@bradbrowning come save me

[@BradBrowning]

Hi there! Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@LilyKb-m8c]

I had almost every sign 😂 He's not hurting, I assume !

[@BradBrowning]

Avoidants can be one of the toughest relationships you'll get yourself into but it can be rewarding once you get past their defences and learn to understand them better.

[@mounikapolineni8806]

He says I love u.. he is in very worst situation where he can’t talk with me.. before that situation also he didn’t show proper love .. I don’t know if I can continue being in this relationship or move on

[@BradBrowning]

Unless he's being held captive, communication is something that can easily happen if he really wants to. Kidding aside, what kind of situation is he in? If you've already been feeling the love missing in your relationship, it's either you two have drifted apart or too incompatible to see this through. I suggest to take your time to decide though but it's important to get a clear vision of what's truly happening. This may help you process or deal with the breakup efficiently: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bavTaIZ8l8p2iLc but if you find yourself needing more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Ex Factor Guide if you want to try to get your ex back in the best possible way, at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!

[@jamilamila1181]

Thank you brad

[@BradBrowning]

You're welcome!

[@neilspencer3885]

Nope absolutely not. I blocked her for good i don't care if she's hurting. If she is hurting I consider it as karma for all the hurt she caused me

[@MicheleAlessandroBiancoGuerra]

Good for her she made the right choice.

[@BradBrowning]

I take it the breakup is in the early stages? If not, then I hope you find peace soon because carrying all that anger can be toxic to your own wellbeing. Take care!

[@hectorsalazar1975]

I broke contact twice and she was probably seeing someone already before our break up

[@BradBrowning]

Unfortunately there's no way to verify that. However, if your ex is already in another relationship, it's best to wait for a better time before interacting with them. Just don't wait around doing nothing though. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex who chose someone else over you and especially if their relationship lasts for 6 months or more. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. I recommend these videos to watch: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZmLap3-Jlrhslas and/or get my Beat the Breakup Guide to have an easier time moving on, at www.beatmybreakup.com Take care!

[@KendraWalker-z4t]

I don't think he cares after he broke up with me he just treated me cold plus we share a child together I don't know why I was nothing but good to him

[@BradBrowning]

This may help you see things from a different perspective. Please watch from start to end: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mqLRonqNhNBshKM

[@mimiso74]

My husband went and bought the car of my dreams for him… a Porsche Tuscan and his Tesla he just gave to his toy boy to work!

[@BradBrowning]

Apparently I know close to nothing about your situation to comment anything substantial as to why your ex did that. Could be out of spite or trying to make you jealous, depending your history together and what your dynamic was like. Consider hiring me as your coach if you need my opinion, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@rumaakthar4494]

Me and ex relationship was really good but the only that kept affection us for consistency from his end not mine and communication but the biggest issue I had was him spending time txting and talking to girls why does he need there time and attention not mine

[@BradBrowning]

What was the nature of their conversation? Some folks have a lot of friends however boundaries do need to be set as to what topics to discuss and how he acts around people of the opposite sex. He may be an extrovert who has many friends but if that makes you feel uncomfortable, you can let him know. Time to work on that communication issue, you're supposed to be able to relate to each other. Take care!

[@dustinsellers3892]

she says she just wants to be single and that i should wait

[@BradBrowning]

Never wait around for anyone. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXLKhKyNj8uKjJY Give each other space, yes, but put some boundaries up especially as to when and how long you'd try but also don't rush it. It's complicated to explain it all in one go but my updated 2.0 version Ex Factor Guide should give you a step-by-step process on how to go about it. In the meantime, here's a quick overview: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk

[@ruffmutt5789]

24 yr marriage we been separated she’s having a blast …. FML

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that. That's a really common reaction. Dumpers go through stages and if you want her back, it helps to learn which stage she's at, via this vid here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mqLRonqNhNBshKM

[@zacharyjones5424]

Ik she ain't hurting 😅

[@BradBrowning]

Are you guys back together?

[@zacharyjones5424]

No of course not.

[@rumble5557]

The emu farm!! 😅😅

[@BradBrowning]

Hey thanks for dropping by!

[@hectorsalazar1975]

I have been in deep hurt the whole time

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that. Breakups are never easy. If it's any consolation, here's what your ex is going through as well (assuming this was a serious / long-term relationship) : kzbin.info/www/bejne/mqLRonqNhNBshKM

[@DailyOwO]

Why the signs are more what I went through X_x

[@BradBrowning]

Some people hurt in different ways.

[@DailyOwO]

@@BradBrowning thank you coach, been a month since the break up and am feeling am in a better place now.

[@marguskiis7711]

Never seen any ex hurting. Women just don`t look back.

[@BradBrowning]

They hurt in silence, just like us men do. It's usually because they think the breakup is for the best unless you show them otherwise it's not...especially if it was a genuine connection and a healthy relationship which went through rough patches. This is what my program is about.

[@marguskiis7711]

Women just don't care. Thats the fact. They'll find another man within some weeks. I have seen it too many times.

[@601DatBoyJay]

@@marguskiis7711that means she wasn’t shit from the start bro. That was a ho… but a good woman u will know. One that ain’t for the streets. U just gotta be on yo shit. No one wants a bum back! Remember that