When I thought the video was going to end I get hit a bonus 3 text messages!! Love the content Brad! I’m in my 40s- I love the content but every relationship is different I’ll take bits and pieces of your content - not all is relatable to me- because everyone’s situation is different- but the end result is the same ❤
@breakupbradbrowning10 ай бұрын
Hey thanks! You're right. Find what applies to your situation. You can also find more tips here on my other channel: www.youtube.com/@BradBrowning/videos but if you still need further help or have too much of a unique situation where it gets confusing for you, then please don't hesitate to sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@akeemapereira91399 ай бұрын
@mamaratchet how?
@biggolfer00 Жыл бұрын
As of right now I feel like I’ve been disrespected so much I’m not going to be 2nd choice anymore. Hope the best for her. The Grass is never greener on the other side.
@breakupbradbrowning Жыл бұрын
Remember, you teach others how to treat you, but the first 30 days of the breakup is often the most tumultuous, which is why you need to give each other space in almost all cases. And you're right, the grass is never greener on the other side. It's greener where you water it. Thanks for dropping by!
@AvonnaSibley11 ай бұрын
@@breakupbradbrowning I need your help and advice my girlfriend ( Lgbt) I’ve been together for about four years now. Our relationship has been perfect but we have had a lot more high during this relationship she here from Newtown she didn’t have friends she wanted to try to meet people online is more comfortable but the problem that I’m having every time engages out with a potential friend (female), it always turns into something sexual at first encounter, she always ends up feeling upset and knowing that she is wrong and this is happened for the third time in the last 2 1/2 years. I’m just trying to figure out where I should do because the day I love her so much and I don’t expect people to be perfect in relationships. I just want to build us up and build stronger but it feels like in her mind, thinking of what it comes to this most recent Communication with three months… she’s told me constantly it’s not me And I haven’t done nor made her feel anyway, I know that’s true I’m not perfect at all but I haven’t cheated , flirted, thought about stepping out etc, I feel that I’m a very loyal person, and I want to continue loving her despite her mistakes. I appreciate her taking accountability for her in your opinion what do you think we should do because we still live together we have two dogs and each other.. I don’t want her mixed feeling and doubt to effect us moving forward and she feels that with these mistakes she needs to try to be more independent because she always jump from relationship to relationship but she knows our love is totally different. She seems to constantly be in her head but she always brings up her love and never wanting to lose me because of a connection because our connection will always be the best and no one will know her like I do.. any advice I would GREATLY appreciate because again we do live together
@stephaniegordon8349 ай бұрын
Yea I told my ex the same thing "the grass is always greener over a septic tank"
@jasperkim59454 ай бұрын
How do you know
@andrewcheesman19933 ай бұрын
the grass is greener sometimes
@cherylu971611 ай бұрын
I'm irreplaceable. Meaning that there's no comparison
@breakupbradbrowning11 ай бұрын
That's true!
@SharonVillareal-t8jАй бұрын
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
@mikegramanart882Ай бұрын
I feel you🙏🏼 If he left you and leaving you feeling like this, he’s not your person meant to be. Stay strong and make yourself happy. (I am in the same situation so telling you this feels weird 😂)
@breakupbradbrowningАй бұрын
Thanks for dropping by. Feel free to share what happened and perhaps I can offer an insight or two. Take care!
@dolfanatic199111 ай бұрын
I've watched so many of these videos and I'm slowly coming to the conclusion that I'm probably screwed and lost her for good.
@breakupbradbrowning11 ай бұрын
How many have you watched? I think it's best to take the free quiz and answer as best as you can to find out, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz If your score is around 70s, then all hope may not have been lost just yet. Good luck!
@dolfanatic199111 ай бұрын
@breakupbradbrowning I spent most of my day at work watching and it was a very slow day. So I've probably watched between 20-25 of your videos today alone.
@albertodeulofeu527711 ай бұрын
You probably did. Chicks leave and move on. We don’t matter after.
@dolfanatic199111 ай бұрын
@albertodeulofeu5277 oh well. After what I've learned between the time of my comment and now it's probably for the better and I'm probably better off. She has more self improvement to do than I do.
@Scheherazad10010 ай бұрын
Never beliefe you dont matter. Tou do. You've no idea how just a smooe from you can lift someone ekses day. Or just saying hi. @@albertodeulofeu5277
@YoutubingForYouКүн бұрын
Immediately after the breakup I went NC. I just reached out when I was in town at about 75 days of NC. We were long distance (6 hours). I said nice things and they told me they are having a hard time. We shared tears together on the phone. But they wouldn’t meet up and felt overwhelmed and needed to get off the phone eventually. But yet called me to make sure I got home safely later that day? I hope I’m doing this right. I did share that I love them. Maybe I gave more of my heart up than was right but I’m settled that this openness is who I am and I’m worthy of being love just as I am.
@breakupbradbrowningКүн бұрын
Yes, you are worthy, so act like it and do better next time, yeah? As you've noticed, the distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then it may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYK8ZYFmadqpqqM AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/a5_JiIWAh9ehd9U However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@christopherhilliard36818 ай бұрын
She can find another person but can't find another me her loss
@breakupbradbrowning8 ай бұрын
That's true! However, if your relationship was otherwise good and you've both ego get in the way, it's both your losses. It's why it's important to really give things time and for both people in the relationship to calm down first and not make rash decisions.
@christopherhilliard36818 ай бұрын
@@breakupbradbrowning our relationship was like a supernova so much chaos lots of adventures definitely toxic but it was a lot of fun I was the fool that tried to keep it going she's just not dedicated to the cause . she's detached and indifferent only about herself from day 1 . Her mindset if you can handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best . Being a mechanic I can fix everything except people and my relationship. The universe will provide when it's time
@SelenaSecretShow2 ай бұрын
Are you Sure? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@christopherhilliard36812 ай бұрын
@SelenaSecretShow honestly being separate from her is the best thing for my wellbeing no hard feelings I wish her the best in life .I've moved on I'm happy now
@MirandalindaL.A10 ай бұрын
I can see he's missing me cause he's constantly sending me messages. I was the one who was all over him not to long ago till I realized I was done. I walked away and went no contact. I'm not taking him back no more
@breakupbradbrowning10 ай бұрын
Hi! Yup. As I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision. Thanks for sharing! :-)
@stephenhowes893711 ай бұрын
Don't ever ask for another chance because that sounds like...please rescue me!
@breakupbradbrowning11 ай бұрын
Yes, re-attraction should be built naturally and organically.
@krystalprice68812 ай бұрын
I've done most of these things 😢 but as of now I have took a step back and blocked his number for right now, to help me we didn't breakup over cheating we never even argued, he felt like I was pocking at his flaws!when I was only giving constructive criticism, but he wanted us to be friends, but get upset about who ever comes to my home...But as of now I'm steppin back because I love him to give him his space.
@ibednego639811 ай бұрын
Brad, I would appreciate your two. My GF left me 5 days ago after 8 months, and NC since. Equally good times and bad times because my kiddo's mama tried to ruin us, and it stressed us both out. She is also at a different stage of life and will move to the other side of the country for school in August. She would say we will marry someday and be together forever. She said she could not handle everything and was weak, and we both deserved better. She also said she didn't know if she was making a mistake and didn't know what the future holds. She also kissed me, was intimate, and said she loved me over and over and nurtured me with physical affection the night she broke up. I know now I should have been more empathetic for her staying with me as long as she did. I was wrong in being emotionally distant when I felt she crossed my boundaries, and I also got mad at her when she stayed out late on a school trip and didn't call me. She would also expect me to communicate, just a mutual respect thing when in a serious relationship. I love her and didn't correctly apologize for getting mad at her. I need to clear the slate because of my behavior before returning to NC?? Am I wasting my time, or do you see this as it's done because of all of the many circumstances? Thank you! 🙏
@breakupbradbrowning11 ай бұрын
If you've begged or somehow tried to negotiate the breakup, then it's important to send the clean slate email (if you have my Ex Factor Guide) or use the free version here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bHyWqaicetx4fMk but if none of that happened, then just go straight to the "no contact" rule for at least 30 days. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iYWvm6yYrs6UeLM
@cherylu971611 ай бұрын
Work on loving yourself with nc. I hope this helps. So far it has not helped me yet. I know he misses me.. I've had nc for 5 mnths. Good luck!😊 I hope I can get my ex back. Unfortunately he lives 1300 miles away 😢
@ibednego639811 ай бұрын
Yes I am. We have to steadfast to self care and healing. There is no other way to carry on after a tough heartbreak.
@manmohanbhatt71824 ай бұрын
been following your advices and can say that a breakup is the best thing that happened to me, if it didn’t happen i would not have learnt so many things, i want her back and been on no contact for 10 days, after chasing her for almost 6 months, but believe even if she will not come back these advice’s will help me in another relationship.
@breakupbradbrowning4 ай бұрын
Great! And yes indeed, it will help you learn what not to do next time. Take care!
@LeeStewart9 ай бұрын
Having no contact after a breakup is similar when you’ve met a girl and you have her number. You don’t want to appear needy and too talkative otherwise it’s just going to push her away. Less is more in both cases.
@breakupbradbrowning9 ай бұрын
That's one great analogy! Yes, less is always more. Thanks for sharing.
@tioshmatrotter34629 ай бұрын
i been watching alot of your videos u a smart man i follow all your advice uk what u talking about i'm glad ur channel popped up god bless🙏🏾u
@breakupbradbrowning9 ай бұрын
Thanks for the support, man! I'm happy to have you as one of my followers. Here's my other channel that has tons of other vids you may find useful as well: www.youtube.com/@BradBrowning/videos
@tioshmatrotter34629 ай бұрын
@@breakupbradbrowning you welcome and i will check that link out
@czarinag.3574 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Brad. Looking forward your new videos!
@JEEPBABYB3 ай бұрын
I miss him but at this point I don't want him back I wish him the best and hope he finds a woman that he can open up to and love
@breakupbradbrowning3 ай бұрын
Yes, as I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved or if it was overall a dysfunctional/toxic relationship. It's your life and it's your decision.
@countcampula Жыл бұрын
It's been 6 months and she's given me every signal possible. I don't think she's coming back lol
@breakupbradbrowning Жыл бұрын
She's given you many of these signs I covered in this video? If she's STILL sending you these sorts of signals even now 6 months after the breakup, you might still have a chance. Obviously with that amount of time having passed since the breakup, your odds aren't likely very good at this point, but I have seen some of my clients win back their ex even a year or more after the initial breakup. I would suggest you start moving on with your life and accept that she may be gone for good, but that doesn't mean you have to close the door to re-connecting again if she shows any interest down the road. Thanks for watching and good luck. :-)
@AnnAlasnanam10 ай бұрын
I'd say wish you all the best. But I'm better off without you. It worked! I showed him i care but i love myself more! He felt and relaized what he lost. I kept myself busy, I STOPED calling, caring for him, instead I start loving myself, I became happier. He saw it and likes to get back together, even admitted how badly he treated me but im not risking my my heart again. No way! Block! And you are right, I deleted everything that has something to do with him. I healed easily. I didnt memorize his phone number, deletes his number ony phone and change mine. This way, we both fully lost way to contact each other. I love it! Coz i admit it was hard at the beginning but we have to remind ourselves that we are worthy of something more.
@breakupbradbrowning10 ай бұрын
I'm happy to hear that. It looks like giving each other space and respecting his decision has worked as it helps you re-evaluate stuff in your relationship. And as I often say, the decision is ultimately up to you. What matters in the end is you're happy with the decision you've made after clearing your head. Take care!
@doperry681220 күн бұрын
my situation is unique - we. dated for 3 months and we had an amazing connection of intimacy and depth . She told me she loved me , we texted , talked and face timed everyday ! The sex as amazing, our conversations were amazing. We spent 14 amazing days at her home over christmas and I finished her home reno’s for her. Her bestie came over and we had a general discussion were we disagreed on some things and her bestie was put off and acted rude. That night i get a text saying : Things haven’t felt right the last couple days and your views on some things dont line up with mine. I wish you all the best. I. price you have some things still here. I’ll get them back to you next time you’re in town. then i was ghosted
@doperry681220 күн бұрын
how can she turn off those feelings like a switch ! She did block me on FB and text but has since unblocked me on text - i’m in no contact mode now.
@breakupbradbrowning13 күн бұрын
Depending on what really cut the relationship short, it may be time to consider moving on from this. But don't rush. Always take the time to give each other space first, all right? Do a minimum of 3 weeks of "no contact" and see if you still want your ex and if your ex is receptive to contact AFTER that period. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKiTdJurjah4o9k
@doperry681213 күн бұрын
she has blocked me altogether and told me she doesn’t want to have any contact and doesn’t want a relationship - she done a 180 from what she was saying ? and we finally talked on the phone and said it has been hard for her …. 🤷🏼♂️never been in this situation before - but i’ve now gone full no contact
@Chirspycreme11 ай бұрын
Brad she said she was amicably seeing someone, sound like she wanted a reaction from me, I didn’t give one. She’s an avoidant, said the other guy didn’t wanna date because he’s moving in April etc, she didn’t want to date either. So Jan 1 2024 I went NC she texted me three days later wishing me happy birthday. After I said I’m done talking to her. I ignored her and then she reached out again couple weeks later I ignored her. Then her aunt died recently I was close with her aunt. And she called me crying telling me she died and “ said she had no one to talk to”? So I kind of comforted her and was there for her as a human. Checked in twice to see if she’s good. Then my family and I went over to the family house to pay our respects, she sat right beside me multiple times even when she got up. Kept talking cute to me. Gave me two body hugs. Also when i scratched her head she tilted her head back ( she liked it) but I know she’s still talking to this other guy? It’s been 7 months since breakup longest no contact was 43 days then called me about her aunt
@Chirspycreme11 ай бұрын
What’s your advice? Is she using me emotionally? But I’ve been living a good life and she defintely sees that.
@breakupbradbrowning11 ай бұрын
At this point which is 7 months in to the breakup, you should've been seeing someone else too or at least keeping your dating options open. Anyway try to see if you're okay with her seeing someone casually. Since it's been many months since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: kzbin.info/www/bejne/j4e5mo2jjperZqs and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
@Chirspycreme11 ай бұрын
@@breakupbradbrowning hey Brad that didn’t make sense my ex is still clearly interested. She looks at all my stories usually the first. She called me when her aunt died and said she said no one to talk to. She was very intimate when we came over to pay our respects to her aunt she sat right beside me, and answers my calls etc, wishes me happy birthday ( when I was in no contact) she is clearly interested why else would she want emotional support from me if she’s happy with the casual guy she’s seeing? She wouldn’t sit right beside me let me play with her hair etc I know it’s been 7 months but I need advice on what to do not a video that didn’t imply to my situation
@breakupbradbrowning4 ай бұрын
It's a no-go if she's still seeing someone else. Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: y2u.be/YVViZmY2x0I and this should help guide you on what to do for the time being: y2u.be/hlikXIfMYN8 However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: y2u.be/gUB
@biggolfer00 Жыл бұрын
Our divorce is final the 18th. I caught her cheating and for 3 months did everything possible for her to come back. She never did nor she’s ever wanted to sit down and talk like normal adults.
@breakupbradbrowning Жыл бұрын
Really sorry to hear that, must've been a really rough time. Quite frankly though it sounds like she didn't deserve you, and you may look back on this someday and realize it was a good thing. Hope you find happiness (and someone new who respects you as a person and a partner) someday soon!
@biggolfer00 Жыл бұрын
@@breakupbradbrowning Thank you for your kind words. I wasn’t perfect by all means and I man’d up and admitted my mistakes and I still don’t have my 100% clarity but I’ve changed in this process and looking forward to moving on. At the end of the day I’m home and still sleep in my own bed.
@bpoydras15039 ай бұрын
Why are so many guys on here crying about their ex leaving, when you are the prize. If you were good to her, and she left, then it’s her loss/her future regret. No need to get hung up on one woman, that can’t even appreciate you. Stop letting your ego substitute for heartbreak, and move on to better, but first, stop trying to do no contact to ‘win’ her back, but do it to get yourself back. When you Love and improve yourself and stop trying to get her back, is when she will eventually recognize her mistake.
@carlosdecastrojr37896 ай бұрын
I am going through the same thing after one of the shortest marriages ever. I got married to an ex girlfriend from many years ago. 8 months in, she abruptly ended the relationship and gave no warning or signals that she was going to do this. It was out of nowhere. I got accused of cheating, but it was her that was cheating. I recently figured out who the guy is. It has been extremely traumatic, and I believe I was dealing with a covert narcissist. Therefore none of the relationship was ever real anyways.
@jamie-r20343 ай бұрын
@@bpoydras1503 Exactly man. These women did these dudes a solid by removing themselves. There are some amazing women out there just waiting to get a great guy like us.
@allisonberrian82311 ай бұрын
I bumped to my ex today for the first time after almost 2 years and she said hi almost in a flirty way and said that I look so pretty, what was her intention? 😂😭
@breakupbradbrowning11 ай бұрын
Intention can't be gauged in just one meeting. Are you two in talking terms?
@fuzzypanda16843 ай бұрын
I made the mistake of believing that she was different, and that by talking and staying in contact, I could win her back. The signs were all there though, the cold, emotionless replies, refusal to reciprocate in any sexual texts or to meet up, but I still kept talking with her until it was so obvious she had no feelings left for me that I finally stopped texting her. All I did was help her wean herself off of me and officially lose any attraction she still had for me. I should have immediately gone no contact the moment she told me she met someone else. Instead, I made is as easy as possible for her to move on, and as hard as possible for me to do so. Never, ever think that she's different guys. Because she never is. Every girl is capable of suddenly losing interest for you if she meets the right guy.
@breakupbradbrowning3 ай бұрын
Cutting off contact is crucial as it helps you prepare for the next stage in the process as well as heal for a bit and see the situation for what it really is. Here's how to check if you're doing it properly, here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nGjdpouhYtiJqas Not all relationships can be salvaged but not all is beyond repair either, so it really depends. But if you see signs she's moved on, especially if the breakup has been more than 6 months, then that's your biggest sign to do the same as well. Good luck!
@fuzzypanda16843 ай бұрын
@breakupbradbrowning Thanks for the reply! It's only been a couple weeks. I wanted to go no contact 2 days ago, but somehow after telling her I was gonna give her space we ended up still talking. I know I shouldn't, but it's hard to think I was so wrong about her this whole time and that I can fix it by talking with her. But I know I need to break that and stop talking to her.
@melindabararata688811 ай бұрын
Brad! So me and my ex baby daddy I did no contact for like a month just very minimum communication because of our son. So after the one month contact i started reaching out and we would talk and everything was cool. Last week everythig was good when I was leaving he gave me a hug, and he even put my arms around his neck and now he been more cold arguing with me more… what do i do we broke up middle of December
@melindabararata688811 ай бұрын
And he has been bringing up negative memories between us, like my flaws in the relationship
@breakupbradbrowning11 ай бұрын
It's best to continue the same dynamic with little improvements every now and then. I recommend to try to apply the tips from this vid, too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/a6q5ip2EgZiLqpY In the future, if you're still not sure about what you're doing, I really suggest you sign up for my coaching program so I can assess your situation properly and guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@RobD110 ай бұрын
What if I never did anything in my part to make her fall in love with me in 2.5 years we were together so in the end I was the one left in love wifh feelings and she's off and gone 5 months after breakup happy and moving on! I was the one with the power our entire relationship but the difference is she made all the efforts to make me fall in love with her so now I'm the one suffering. I broke up with her 5 months ago and 1 month ago I started fighting for her. She blocked me ive been trying to get her back messaging everyone we know but shes not budging. Is if over?
@breakupbradbrowning10 ай бұрын
Here are the signs to confirm she has moved on: kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKqtg6OerKmWl5Y You wouldn't want to see half of these signs especially if it remains that way consistently for months on end, depending on how long you're trying/willing to try. Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@EVWidoshАй бұрын
Hey Brad. My ex cheated on me for a year before I caught him, and we broke up. It's been 3 months since then, and we still love each other, but he's still seeing his cheating partner. Is it worth trying to get him back?
@ibeifeoma718Ай бұрын
No ma'am, let him go. There are better men out there.
@breakupbradbrowningАй бұрын
That's really up to you but I suggest to take time to observe first if there's progress. However, I suggest you move on a little and clear your head, so distance yourself from the situation, all right? This may help you process or deal with the breakup efficiently: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bavTaIZ8l8p2iLc but if you find yourself needing more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Ex Factor Guide if you want to try to get your ex back in the best possible way, at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!
@dingguite20142 күн бұрын
Broke up 5 months ago,, i begged, texted her and call her,,, i saw this video recently,,,, is there no chance of us getting back together after 5 months,,, is she used to my absense by now?
@breakupbradbrowningКүн бұрын
She has started to adapt to life without you. Since it's been many months since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: kzbin.info/www/bejne/j4e5mo2jjperZqs and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
@Woodzy-5326Ай бұрын
I don't think no contact is possible during a mareiage separation when kids are involved.
@breakupbradbrowning25 күн бұрын
Sorry to hear that. Yes, no contact doesn't apply in that situation. But was there any talk about a divorce? You need to backtrack a bit though and see where it all started. So when did all the trouble started and what has caused it? These are my top two marriage videos which may help: y2u.be/WU0yhd3ADXU and y2u.be/W_vzHFqnasM but it's really challenging for me to know where to give you a headstart, knowing only so little of the situation... Sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program so I can help take a look at all the other factors at play and find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you on a regular, ongoing basis at www.marriageguy.com/coaching
@joshdailey487521 күн бұрын
Hey brad I have question, my situation is a bit complicated. Me and ex technically broke up a year ago. We had an apartment and she left. After 3 months no contract, she texted me she missed me. Great ! We started seeing each other again , however we never made it official. That went on for a good 6 or 7 months meanwhile we still expresses interest in each other all the way up until She recently found someone else. Her coworker. We still talk everyday and she still wants to hangout. What do I do ? How do I handle this ? I still want her back.
@breakupbradbrowning13 күн бұрын
It's still important to put the full 30-day straight "no contact" rule into priority because if you've been in touch after the breakup too soon, then you BOTH aren't taking the time needed to process the breakup and been acting like it hadn't happened. Here's how not contacting your ex can help you a lot: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKiTdJurjah4o9k Burying the problems which had caused the breakup in the first place is a surefire way towards a doomed relationship, if you get your ex back. Make sense now? You ought to teach your ex these very important lessons: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aoLIXmd3YqijjLs On the other hand, you can work on the issues together but you have to make sure you're on the same page and you aren't being manipulated and/or strung along. Are you seeing any progress? Sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed and so I can guide accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@AbrahamAS2411 күн бұрын
Im in day 9 no contact and been hitting the gym 8 days straights and journal working to evolve. I didnt treat her well and she begged for me back i did alot of think and decided to be a better man and treat her the way she should have been treated after 3 years. She started dating 2 weeks later so ive just been working on me but i do want her back . But i feel good about my progress regardleas of the outcome. Im not the man i was 2 weeks ago ive changed mulitple habits and im happy
@breakupbradbrowning10 күн бұрын
Good! Keep working on yourself and the changes you know you need to be making. I say generally it's still fair game unless you see most if not all the signs that your ex is over you. Here's the vid: kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKqtg6OerKmWl5Y and especially if those signs prevail over a prolonged period of time. If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, your situation may be unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
@AbrahamAS2410 күн бұрын
Thank you
@tvfromvcr83318 ай бұрын
What if you've only recently started dating someone. 2 months of contact including messaging & phone calls, and two dates, but then they end it. Does no contact still work in this situation?
@breakupbradbrowning8 ай бұрын
There was obviously a disconnect and depending on what really cut the relationship short, it may be time to consider moving on from this. But don't rush. Always take the time to give each other space first, all right? Do a minimum of 3 weeks of "no contact" and see if you still want your ex and if your ex is receptive to contact AFTER that period. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKiTdJurjah4o9k
@alisonmartin70025 ай бұрын
What about sending pictures of the two of you that show special times you had together?
@breakupbradbrowning5 ай бұрын
I recommend doing this only when you've build positive rapport with your ex again with consistent signs of them warming up to you, so it takes time!
@wmrodoeАй бұрын
I'm not sure whether I should really take the first step towards her. After all, she threw me away like dirt and said it was final, even though she wanted to see me again that day to start again. Approaching her would just show that I was waiting for it. She must have approached me because I respected her decision that it was over, right?
@breakupbradbrowningАй бұрын
Yes, like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved.
@TFrancis-ev1lo5 ай бұрын
He can do what he wants just without me
@breakupbradbrowning5 ай бұрын
Hey, thanks for dropping by!
@kirenjoy-s4y Жыл бұрын
hi Brad thank u for ur video. My ex broke up with me 6 months ago saying he's not happy where he is in life, struggles with mental health, and cannot be in a relationship/a good partner. Neither of us wanted to let go but eventually he said he needs more time, I went NC. It's been 4 months. what do i do? randomly texting seems very odd as it's been awhile. we're on good terms and i still want another go. suggestions?
@heatherc2062 Жыл бұрын
Same here
@breakupbradbrowning Жыл бұрын
4 months of No Contact? It’s definitely time to reach out or find a way to reconnect. Come up with a legit sounding reason to contact him the first time if you can… could be a question / request for help… could be a meme or a joke you know he’d appreciate, etc. At this point I think you have to accept a bit of awkwardness with the first message because you don’t want to wait any longer before trying to connect. Hope it works out for you, good luck!
@kirenjoy-s4y Жыл бұрын
@@breakupbradbrowning thanks Brad. Yes 4 months of NC since my thinking was if he wasn't feeling like he's in a good place to be in a relationship, i'd give him space. i asked him to reach out when he wants to talk again. Me forcing anything does no good. But he never reached out, only browse my social media. i'm still hesitant to make the first move but waiting is causing me a lot of grief and anxiety. i miss him and what we had but not sure if the fact he's not reaching out, he's not ready and i should move on. struggling. :(
@kirenjoy-s4y11 ай бұрын
Hi Brad, i ended up sending him a message asking how he's doing and with an interesting question. however he ignored and never responded. what do i do from here
@pumpkinpie786410 ай бұрын
@@kirenjoy-s4yheyyy what was the question you asked him? I’m sorry he didn’t reach out :(
@jordan_coronel15 күн бұрын
When does NC work when it’s an on and off relationship? And what happens when you have an ex who ignores you and you decide to do NC and he needs you to pay a fine (we discussed I was happy to during the relationship), since then I stoped don’t favours. If I don’t can I still get him back or should I assume he will use it as a motivator that I didn’t do anything for him (even though we have broken up). How do I go about this because I want them to miss me during NC?
@breakupbradbrowning13 күн бұрын
With on-and-off relationships, oftentimes this is a sign of underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. It may be time to put things into perspective while it's still early because in 14 years spent as a relationship online coach alone, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKKkdpxvhcd4d6M But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot. Good luck!
@1dilligafАй бұрын
My ex has no idea what it feels like to be dumped. She has never been dumped in her life.
@breakupbradbrowningАй бұрын
Are you planning to dump her or has she dumped you first?
@1dilligafАй бұрын
@ 25 years of marriage the same month I paid off my house. She walked out and went straight to a lawyer, demanding half of everything. Will not give me a reason why she left but moved right in with another guy so we both know the reason.
@LakeishaOverton-k5k28 күн бұрын
Hi brad my boyfriend and i broke up last month and its been extremely difficult. We lived together and been together for 2 1/2 years. We have been in no contact ( his decision not mine because he blocked me via phone and social media.) He suffers from a lot of trauma growing up and has combat ptsd. Its been very hard and i need help please
@breakupbradbrowning25 күн бұрын
Do you still live together? Because it's another story if you live under the same roof after a relationship ends. I suggest you do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/thVReUI9Vzs AND y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!
@cherylu971611 ай бұрын
1300 miles away and nc for 5 months 😢
@breakupbradbrowning11 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that. As you've noticed, the distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYK8ZYFmadqpqqM AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/a5_JiIWAh9ehd9U However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@jasperkim59454 ай бұрын
Hey Brad what about if she filed for divorce and living tigether at this time. Any suggestion or link thanks.
@breakupbradbrowning4 ай бұрын
Have you been at odds with her for more than 6 months? What happened and why have you waited too long to try and save your marriage? Try to gauge your chances here first: www.marriageguy.com/quiz These may help, hopefully: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oqerYYaKjbukmqs AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/fGLRd4isqdSZbbs but if you still need my help in trying to fix your marriage, sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program so I can take a look at what's really going on and help you out, at www.marriageguy.com/coaching
@darklord520511 ай бұрын
We were five years together. She is very angry and upset. It's been three weeks without contact but she adamant about telling it won't work out She is trying to be provoke me in social media. I'm doing no contact with her
@breakupbradbrowning11 ай бұрын
This may help you see things from your ex's perspective, especially if the breakup was particularly messy/toxic: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hn-QYWqhdtl8oNk make sure you apply the tips from the vid you've watched and employ the 390-day no contact rule first.
@tidusyuna311 ай бұрын
thank you brad but my ex is an DA and she went back to her ex after we broke up 1 month plus ago . So i guess i think ill just let time do its work
@breakupbradbrowning11 ай бұрын
Hey, you're welcome! Yes, but in general, consider moving on from this if you haven't been together that long... because in addition to being DA, she likely has some unfinished business with this ex she went back to. If your situation is unique, don't hesitate to sign up for my coaching program so I can help you out further, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@vladnicula23952 ай бұрын
Hey Brad, I'm currently doing no contact with my ex for over 2 weeks but the only problem is we are in the same group at the faculty so we have labs and lectures together but i dont speak with her or stay near her. How should i act ?
@breakupbradbrowning2 ай бұрын
The tips here should help: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mnW9o6GEnZ1_hck Also read my Ex Factor Guide 2.0, which covers commonly possible ‘what if’ scenarios and will give you pretty much everything you need to know, so read it many times over until you master it. The aim of the guide is basically to put you in the best position to get your ex back...and to avoid the pitfalls to increase your chances altogether. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
@RoohiJain-j6g11 ай бұрын
When i was in no contact she used to text me and post sad lyrics around 14 - 15 days I acted like i am busy and took time to test back Then around 27-28th day she again started putting sad stories But at that time i was busy I broke my no contact after 35 days It was ok, kind of conversation It has been a month since we both talked, and it feels like she is not taking but only replying, when I try to get it into a deep conversation she just says, i don't know, keep me at seen or "👍". We had a call, when I was having a call i said "oo my cute why are you sad", she just cut the call One of my friends is secretly texting her to know what she thinks, When she talked about me She said she don't like me, never want to see me again, i wish i would have never dated him, i am healing with him But with me She is yes, no, ok If I ask q then I get answers That's all Do i have any chance
@breakupbradbrowning11 ай бұрын
You're on the right track to keep the lines open after the 30-day "no contact" rule. Give your ex time to warm up though. As to your chances, I say generally it's still fair game unless you see most if not all the signs that your ex is over you. Here's the vid: kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKqtg6OerKmWl5Y and especially if those signs prevail over a prolonged period of time. If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
@PankajBhuyan-o5w3 ай бұрын
If during no contact someone come to her life and she leave me forever
@breakupbradbrowning3 ай бұрын
As tough as it may be, it's always best to come to terms with the breakup and the fact that you're both single now. It's important to remind yourself that you doing the "no contact" rule neither prevents nor encourages your ex to go with someone new. In other words there's really nothing you can do to keep your ex from getting with someone new if they want to. This is something I've mentioned here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jYelYZKia5WGpq8 So it boils down to two options, really. 1. Employ no contact and keep your dignity while respecting your ex's decision to breakup (why push yourself to someone who doesn't want you?) or Option 2: Do not do no contact and be pathetic. I always advise people to choose option 1 but really, which option you choose is ultimately up to you. Take care!
@footballlivetv53811 ай бұрын
Sir you don't really know the pain I'm in right now .....I keep apologizing for good six months now only for her to tell me that she have found someone better 😢she left me unexpected sir 😢I have cried alot please what can I do?
@breakupbradbrowning11 ай бұрын
Overapologizing can do more harm than good, man. There's simply no forcing someone to forgive or be in a relationship with you again because attraction is built naturally and organically. Watch this to get the full gist at www.breakupbrad.com
@footballlivetv53811 ай бұрын
@@breakupbradbrowning so sir right now what are you advising me to do because I don't think the no contact rule can work here after I have used the past six months to apologize?
@jenniferbaafi16957 ай бұрын
hey brad , what do u think i should do. me and my boyfriend have been ups and down but we loved each other, until he broke up with making an excuses that we dont understand each other olny to find hes talking to my best friend and have feelings for er. next day he came to me saying he doesnt know who to choose. what do u think i should do? im really hurt that they betrayed me but i hate the fact that i still love him
@breakupbradbrowning7 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that. That's a huge betrayal but it's your decision to see if you're willing to give it another shot if he tries to make amends. But the question is is he even trying to? If he isn't trying to make it up to you, then he obviously has made his choice and if you're asking me, the breakup looks like a blessing in disguise. It's necessary to cut ties with both of them so you can regain control of your own life. This may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bavTaIZ8l8p2iLc but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com
@dustyharris188810 ай бұрын
So when did everyone else block or unfriend ur Ex on FB?
@breakupbradbrowning10 ай бұрын
I highly advise against blocking an ex. I've just noticed a bunch of people having some problems reaching out later on because they've either deleted their ex, blocked (especially everywhere) or unfriended them, which creates an unnecessary dilemma really, if you ask me. The only reason why I suggest NOT to unfollow/block or delete an ex (that you want to get back with) is because you can, in fact, leverage social media to your advantage. Here's how: kzbin.info/www/bejne/emKqoYVrgqajh80
@gadjits16 ай бұрын
What about if we have two children together under 5 years old,?
@breakupbradbrowning6 ай бұрын
If you're hellbent on trying to work things out, let me just set expectations that it's a tough battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible, in addition to my newer vids I've posted: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYXNdnR9f7yHq6M AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/mnW9o6GEnZ1_hck
@uzumaki69115 ай бұрын
My ex told me that its over but she didn't want to block me and she tells me that she now has another man that she is dating and she tells me that he more mature than me
@uzumaki69115 ай бұрын
Do you think I'll have a chance of getting her back?
@uzumaki69115 ай бұрын
And she told me that she doesn't want to love me anymore
@breakupbradbrowning5 ай бұрын
I say generally it's still fair game unless you see most if not all the signs that your ex is over you. Here's the vid: kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKqtg6OerKmWl5Y and especially if those signs prevail over a prolonged period of time. If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
@chrismistretta48019 ай бұрын
Hi Brad, I’ve been researching your product and watching your videos and they have been helpful. My boyfriend broke up with me last Monday, but we separated on 4/16. Almost a month now. We were living together. Long story short, I fell into a deep depression after getting fired, terrible buyer’s remorse over new construction issues, financial worries, and grad school. I burned out. I turned to smoking weed at night to help numb and deal. I could not be there for him as he needed, and he left me because of these things, saying the only way we have a path forward is if I change. Otherwise he does not want a relationship. He also said he is actively trying to not miss me. He is not looking at my social media. With all of this said, what do you think is the best path forward, and do I have a chance of getting him back?
@breakupbradbrowning9 ай бұрын
This is one of the instances where I say a breakup is needed at this time. Put all that focus back to yourself first and your own life, yeah? However, be careful not to spiral into self-destructing patterns of behaviour like you mentioned. It's too much to handle for most people, your ex included. Channel that energy into something else, something more productive. Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@chrismistretta48019 ай бұрын
@@breakupbradbrowning thanks Brad. I would really like to work with you on this. I am hopeful for reconciliation in the future, but also am working to detach and am using no contact (today is day 10). Do I purchase your program to sign up for coaching?
@AmyMills-pf1bt8 ай бұрын
What would you advise if someone broke up with you, you had a monrh apart limited/no contact then was told "lets see how things go" and in rhe few weeks since there has been minimal effort/emorion? Saying they want to be 100% sure before rushing back in?
@breakupbradbrowning8 ай бұрын
They're unsure of their feelings and wanting to take things slow. In this case, make sure you don't put all your eggs in that proverbial basket and try to open your dating pool instead of limiting it to your ex. Unless your ex makes up her mind and commit to you, you ought to protect your heart but at the same time play your cards right. Refer to my other vids for more tips if not, get the Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
@OluchukwuUdenzeАй бұрын
Hi I was in a long distance relationship then I fell out of love with my ex and later went back to him,as of that time he has another gf already and refused to accept me back...what should I do bcos I know I was wrong I just want to stay away from him
@breakupbradbrowningАй бұрын
Find another hobby to spend your time on. Breakups are never easy regardless of how it happened. This may help you process or deal with the breakup efficiently: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bavTaIZ8l8p2iLc but if you find yourself needing more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, then I suggest you get my Beat the Breakup e-book. I made sure it takes a wholesome approach so everyone can relate to and I spent a lot of time writing this and have given it careful thought, so I guarantee you'll find something useful in it to help you out and move forward in life without your ex and eventually be ready for someone totally new. Check it out at www.beatmybreakup.com Take care!
@OluchukwuUdenzeАй бұрын
@breakupbradbrowning but I do not want to rush myself into another relationship,hope that is okay?
@davidnawai84216 ай бұрын
I used to leave a rose at Starbucks for her from time to time. It has been 2 weeks of no contact and I was thinking of leaving a rose at the drive through window counter. It won't be for her but as she drives through, I'm thinking it will trigger her to think of me. What do you think of that?
@breakupbradbrowning6 ай бұрын
That sort of thing is something reserved for when you're in a relationship...not an ex. So I highly suggest against doing that. Start with something light and fun AFTER the 30-day no contact period. Otherwise you may come across as creepy, so be careful. So send a little text and see how it goes. Your situation is also very delicate so once you start to see some progress with your ex, then don’t go at it alone, especially if you're in doubt or don't know what to do next. Sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@kukzmat13705 ай бұрын
Hi Brad I broke up with my gf after nine months of dating, but she keeps coming back to me wanting to be my friend what do I do I want us to be back together
@breakupbradbrowning5 ай бұрын
Hi! This vid is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iYiog6mVrpiWa9k
@kukzmat13705 ай бұрын
@@breakupbradbrowning thank you so much I think I need some space and accept things wil never be the same again
@HeberRe3 ай бұрын
Hi Brad, my ex girlfriend broke up with me she told me that she thinks i only wanted her for fun and intercourse, now her mother was the one that said let me make an appointment for your birth control and she said why, I believe i don't remember and she said well me and my boyfriend have been talkiing about it and now, a few weeks later me and my gf started fighting about something i can't quite remember in the middle of fighting she was keep saying i feel like im a bad girlfriend and i said you are but i really didn't mean it was a heat moment now i did apologize but her voice changed saying its ok love i forgive you and then i said i really am and i started crying, the netx day everything looked fine that is until she went to her birth control appointment and i feel like i overreacted and i believed a close friend of mine and the last final day i reached out to one of her friends who i don't know and it was my ex using her phone and now to this day i miss her alot and its already been 8 days and were in no contact right now and she has me blocked everywhere not even 1 available should i be worried Brad? Will she come back?
@breakupbradbrowning3 ай бұрын
You both need to take a break from all this chaos. Here are the most common reasons for being blocked and my thoughts about it, including what to do: y2u.be/s52sRweJlm8 and don't forget to take the quiz if you still want to know what your chances are and/or still have questions on what to do after, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz
@ProdBC4 ай бұрын
I’m coming up on 30 days of no contact and am planning to reach out this weekend. I want to have a chat with her in person. What’s the best text I could send her that will lead to her agreeing to talk with me in person?
@breakupbradbrowning4 ай бұрын
Talking in person shouldn't be your goal just yet as it could lead to a really awkward scenario between you two and/or would lead to your ex canceling the plan. It's just way too soon for all that, so focus on texting and try not to meet up when one or both of you aren't ready yet. The phase you're on (assuming you've done the first phase correctly which is the 30-day no contact rule) is the second phase where you're rebuilding attraction. It's part two of the 3-phase system in my guide but here's a quick overview to help you understand better: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw but as you go on this phase, you'll notice one or more signs here: y2u.be/nmRM3dZAzDA and the best you can do is to continue to play your cards right and move to the third phase when you're both ready. Good luck!
@nickygeuens72325 ай бұрын
how about you are having kids? because you need to communicate.
@breakupbradbrowning5 ай бұрын
That's right. Just let me set expectations that it's a tough battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule instead of the full on silence associated with the no contact rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible, in addition to my newer vids I've posted: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYXNdnR9f7yHq6M AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/mnW9o6GEnZ1_hck or for a comprehensive guide on how to go about things, consider getting my Ex Factor Guide 2.0 at www.breakupbrad.com
@jessicabenge65156 ай бұрын
What should you do if you can’t really do no contact such as having kids?
@breakupbradbrowning6 ай бұрын
If you're hellbent on trying to work things out, let me just set expectations that it's a tough battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule instead of the full on silence associated with the no contact rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible, in addition to my newer vids I've posted: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYXNdnR9f7yHq6M AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/mnW9o6GEnZ1_hck or for a comprehensive guide on how to go about things, consider getting my Ex Factor Guide 2.0 at www.breakupbrad.com
@mschermerhorn55769 ай бұрын
I've known my ex for 25+ yrs, had a son together, been officially together 5 yrs, engaged for 2, and ghosted me out of the blue. My only theory is she was and still is being controlled by a manipulative toxic friend, that had her date another coworker. Thoughts on that?
@breakupbradbrowning9 ай бұрын
Other people's influence and outside opinion are all outside your control. It still has to be your ex's choice whether she allows herself to be influenced or not. Just continue to do you and focus on stuff within your control, yeah? Apply the tips here along with the other tips on my vid on what you can do in each phase, especially if you're not getting my guide: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aoLIXmd3YqijjLs
@danielvasquez-vr9cv3 ай бұрын
y ex left me on Aug 23 she said that her reason was that she don’t feel the same. We been talking/dating for 2 years I never asked her out or on actual date. We couldn’t be seen together due to the reason we worked together and she was my supervisor. So I left the station and went to work somewhere else and then she said I miss u come back since u gonna quit anyway. I was supposed to get my class a but it took long. So coming up in the 2 yr mark she said I’m upset we can’t do nothing and I told her I plan on leaving I’m going to another station so I did but I had the bid put in on my own but she claims it was cause she mentioned something about it. She said she got tired of me not being affectionate, leading in the relationship, doing small things, taking initiative, planning things and she said that my action and effort never matched my words. So what should I do? At first she was texting me pics of her daughter playing sports and the dogs but now it completely stopped. She says I didn’t want her when we were talking I been texting her I miss and love her but she don’t respond she says she don’t want to give false hope. She says she missed me at first but now she is okay. She says she miss the way she thought i was going to be. Thoughts I love her and want her back
@breakupbradbrowning3 ай бұрын
What did she expect you to be? Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation where we could get to the bottom of the issue/s: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@kayekaye89464 ай бұрын
Hi there. Can I ask from a guy's point of view. So my ex broke up with me August last year. After 4 months I broke the NC and sent him my supposedly last text. After that we still exchanged some messages for 4 months (once in a month) but ended up with me telling him if he thought we couldnt fix the relationship anymore then I accept it and I'll move on. His reply on that didnt inlclude anything that he wanted me back from my understanding so I didnt reply anymore and just tried to move on and do NC at all. After another 4 months, I saw in his social media that he changed his profile pictures thrice, all of it had meaning with our relationship or were part of our relationship but he wasnt sending me a single message. What does it mean from a guy's point of view? Hopw you can give me an idea. Thank you.
@breakupbradbrowning4 ай бұрын
Oh gee it could be due to a lot of reasons, including him really liking those particular pictures of him, hence he turned it into his dp. I think you ought to go back to why the breakup happened in the first place. What happened and what were the issues in the relationship. I suggest to stop looking for signs because you don't deserved to be bread-crumbed... but if you want to give this one last push, consider hiring me as your coach where I can help get to the bottom of what really happened between you two, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Talk soon?
@pixelsmooth8 ай бұрын
What if she removed you from social media, after I posted my first story about my holiday? Almost 3 weeks after break up....Does it mean she is hurting seeing my stories?
@breakupbradbrowning7 ай бұрын
It's normal means of coping from the breakup. Contrary to what you might think, a breakup hurts not only the dumpee but the dumper too. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mqLRonqNhNBshKM
@xinge6595 ай бұрын
Hi coach! I’m in no contact for 2 weeks now but we have a concert to go together this weekend, I paid for the ticket but the tickets are with him… should I reach out to get my ticket? Does this count as breaking the no contact ?
@breakupbradbrowning5 ай бұрын
Since it's a planned event which happened prior to the breakup, it's not necessarily considered as breaking the no contact rule. Ask him first if he still wants to go together. Otherwise, you can get the ticket from him and enjoy the show yourself and/or with your friends. Easier said than done, I know. Stay strong!
@xinge6595 ай бұрын
@@breakupbradbrowning haha interestingly i didn't reach out for my mental health, instead I went out with my friends. But i ran into him with his date, they walked into the bar I was at, and they left, I ran after them and we had a 2 mins convo basically he asking me why I was there like I was stalking him or something. I guess that broke the no contact rule? lmao, universe just try to make things complicated when you decide to care about your own mental health.
@outcastofficialmusic75714 ай бұрын
Is this gonna be applicable for long distance?
@breakupbradbrowning4 ай бұрын
Yes, it is. But as you've noticed, the distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then it may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYK8ZYFmadqpqqM AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/a5_JiIWAh9ehd9U However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Take care!
@robertbenedek44635 ай бұрын
I agree with most of your points. With the one inducing jealousy i strongly disagree. For example for me would be such a deliberate action a total deal breaker. Think about that: it is possible to do tooth surgery without painkillers. One can survive it, but is barbaric and unnecessary. I would put it this way: if a situation arises in which jealousy is induced and it leads to a revaluation of attitude in your ex, well it is a kind of CIRCUMSTANCIAL effect. If you do it deliberately, with an effect in mind, well in that case is a cruel manipulation (additionally, you actually using a human being for it.) Every knowledge should be applied with morals and ethics.
@breakupbradbrowning5 ай бұрын
Trying to incite jealousy, when done right can help the dumper realize of your worth, which tends to be buried in complacency especially in long term relationships. However, it is a red flag if you have to do that early on in the relationship. Could be just a mismatch of attachment styles!
@mariahsmith242710 ай бұрын
I have a question if he says we are done for good then why does he keep responding to my texts ?? Wouldn't he just ignore it or block ? Like I reach out to him and he talks a bit then blocks the number I reach out on texting apps
@breakupbradbrowning10 ай бұрын
He may just be trying to be nice because contrary to the popular opinion, dumpers often hurt as well when they have to end a relationship. So it's possible he still cares enough for you to respond to you, but not enough to stay in a relationship/committed to you. The solution is to give him space for at least 30 days and allow him time to miss you. Does that make sense? Here, watch this, for example: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gYPYhpeIg7igabM
@2223336816 ай бұрын
Hey, Brad, currently in no contact with someone i was dating. Its been more than a week and im cracking. I recently found out that she was out partying with my mutual friends and she did not ask about me at all, in fact, it was quite obvious she was having a blast. What should i do? Has she already moved on?
@breakupbradbrowning6 ай бұрын
Hi! Your ex is enjoying her newfound freedom, which is what all dumpers do. It helps to know which phase your ex is at so you can focus on yourself in the meantime. This vid is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mqLRonqNhNBshKM Right now it's time to find a more positive outlet for your emotions. It's totally okay to cry your eyes out (just NOT in front of your ex), this is healthy, but try to balance it with other stuff. Just whatever you do, make sure to heed the tips from this vid at all times: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oJrOiGePjqhsr9E So keep your mind occupied, get busy with a lot of stuff like hobbies, work, etc. focus on what makes you feel good and take time to heal as well. Also read my updated 2.0 version Ex Factor Guide, which covers commonly possible ‘what if’ scenario and will give you pretty much everything you need to know, so read it many times over until you master it. The aim of the guide is basically to put you in the best position to get your ex back...and to avoid the pitfalls to increase your chances altogether. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy Good luck!
@2223336816 ай бұрын
@@breakupbradbrowning Hey Brad thanks:) , signed up for your coaching program! Cant wait to work with you!
@almab5867 ай бұрын
My ex is a ginger Casper 😅and i blocked him after he read my closure message in his inbox 📥 I hope he will chase back after that. It’s been 4days now and i could see he’s seeking online dating 😅such a pitty on him coz i am already dating a replacement to him 😂
@breakupbradbrowning7 ай бұрын
Good for you! :-) Thanks for sharing.
@almab5867 ай бұрын
@@breakupbradbrowning i love your video coaching guide and hoping for my next relationship to be peaceful and successful 🙏🏽🥰💪💃🏼
@alfieyates19916 ай бұрын
Here's a new one. I drink at a bar daily... one of the waitresses declared her interest last week... rather strong. So took her out on Thursday. Date went brilliantly, successful evening if you catch my drift. During the session, she shouted 'you're mine'. The next morning she's on cloud 9, actually wants to wrap me up and mentions she wants a spare key... that evening I go back to the bar, things are great. However a jealous staff member starts spreading rumours. My ex gf (thats in a rebound, but i dumped because she cheated) and the same jealous guy is in love with her too, joined in with the rumour spreading... now this new chick is heartbroken, refuses to talk to me, has told me she wants time ect and won't tell me what was said... she was a great girl, what's my play here?
@breakupbradbrowning6 ай бұрын
If there's no basis for truth in whatever the rumor was, then you have nothing to be guilty about, so act accordingly and play it cool...unless there's something else going on? Although I'd like to offer more tips, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@ruthereduardposadas704411 ай бұрын
This is really important. What if you've been broke up years ago somehow a couple of years or 3. Is no contact method still effective or would it still work. What if after 3 years of break up then you are just trying the no contact rule. Would it affect. Or is there any techniques you can do such like that for years long break ups. Please answer me Brad. I wanna hear your answer.
@breakupbradbrowning11 ай бұрын
It might but the potency will be much lesser than if you were to have given each other space right then and there and showed him you respected his decision to break up. But if you're not seeing progress with him through these months, your window of opportunity may have already passed. Discussed that here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/m2TPZn6NetV8ptk and especially if you see the signs here: y2u.be/k1myDIp0gSc Good luck!
@ruthereduardposadas704411 ай бұрын
So it is not possible though?
@cherylu97168 ай бұрын
@@ruthereduardposadas7044 suggestion if you don't mind....you might want to work on yourself, self affirmations and concentrate on yourself.
@csabafamin22775 ай бұрын
If I did mistake#1 that is very bad?
@breakupbradbrowning5 ай бұрын
For some, it is. If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique and things aren't often black and white, I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz or sign up for my coaching program so I could take a closer look at what your situation and guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
@lanniefisher871411 ай бұрын
How does no contact work if you still live together?
@breakupbradbrowning11 ай бұрын
It's another story if you live under the same roof after a relationship ends. I suggest you do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/thVReUI9Vzs AND y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!
@lanniefisher871411 ай бұрын
Thank you very much. I’m hoping it works well.
@CU-ji9lz4 ай бұрын
Before we were happy he introduced me to family ,friends and planning our weeding but after 3 weeks my ex is a widower after break up he started posting his pic and late wife saying still in love what can i do?
@breakupbradbrowning4 ай бұрын
He's not over his ex yet which means your best move for you at this time would be to move on. Moving on from grief is very tough to do especially if he's been with his wife for a significant period of time. The memories won't be erased that quickly even if he wants to.
@WelmarieBeetge7 ай бұрын
Hey brad can you give advice what can i do if my partner doesn't trust me because of he's past how can i improve the way he sees himself because he's self-esteem is very low and that makes thing were hard he won't let me neer a man and that includes my family and his family and he always what so be in central please help 😢
@breakupbradbrowning7 ай бұрын
That's suffocating behaviour from him. Try to see where these insecurities are coming from but be prepared to give him time and space as your last resort to let him work through his own issues first because enabling that kind of behaviour in the long run will turn your relationship toxic...if it hasn't been already. If you need my regular guidance in trying to do so, then hire me as your coach at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@BhartiAsrani-h5z10 ай бұрын
Brad, I feel strong attraction towards a guy, we came in contact twice in 4 years...last time i approached him fr marriage and this time he texted me to get to knw abt me..we both r going through very tough situation in life as we both r getting divorced with our karmic partner...He confirmed that we both r spiritually connected, we used to cry a lot but i hided him tat i do love sexual talks which he loves the most..we talk 3 mnths but Last week he brings no contact situation suddenly but my instinct keeps telling tat he likes me too, Can you pls help if i should wait or move on?
@breakupbradbrowning10 ай бұрын
I'm not keen on pushing you towards marriage with this guy when you've barely even talked and you're still very much on the "getting to know each other" stage. That's often why marriages fail, if you two rush. I suggest to take time to know each other more and spend time together to gauge compatibility. But as it is, I suggest to respect his need for space. Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@tukkatoon80036 ай бұрын
In no contact period can I post ig stories or post pictures like normal on ig?
@breakupbradbrowning6 ай бұрын
I suggest to post like you normally would, less any dramatic stuff and zero about the relationship. You can also leverage social media to your advantage. Here's how: kzbin.info/www/bejne/emKqoYVrgqajh80
@anthonymagner48966 ай бұрын
I need help my ex broke up with me last month because I was controlling and at times wanted to know where she was at sometimes, because I mentioned I went to jail 3 years ago when I really didn’t, because I don’t have a job or a car. She said we are not getting back together because her mom doesn’t like me anymore because I wasn’t treating her or talking to her right. Her mom has guardianship over her. She also said she not taking a break from men because she wants someone who will spoil her and treat her like a princess. Can you please help me out sir?
@breakupbradbrowning6 ай бұрын
It's important to get your personal life sorted out first before getting into a relationship. Although it's not really to "spoil" her like a princess but just to pull your own weight in a relationship instead of the woman having to pull your weight, yeah? The going to jail thing was a bad joke... but I suggest to start small and get a job first. Good luck!
@anthonymagner48966 ай бұрын
I am working on getting a job and learning how to drive. I was being controlling and almost always wanted to know of her whereabouts. We have disabilities and her mom has guardianship over her and doesn’t like me now and for that reason she can’t get back with me and I need help with finding out what I can do to change all that. She’s on dating apps now and she has blocked me on three things except instagram. I was being toxic and never knew it until I was too late.
@anthonymagner48966 ай бұрын
She even said in her own words she wants to be spoiled and treated like a princess
@anthonymagner48966 ай бұрын
@@breakupbradbrowning she said she didn’t want me to contact her ever again that we were done and she was very angry at me and still is. Now she is on dating apps trying to find a new boyfriend because she wants a man who can not only spoil her and treat her like a princess but that can also drive, not be controlling and that her mom will like because her mom has guardianship of her due to the fact that she has a spending problem and she’s got schizophrenia. I did a lot of wrong and never wanted to be controlling. Can you please help me out with all of this?
@chandrikadas270011 ай бұрын
What if he's blocked me from everywhere, call, instagram, WhatsApp, facebook, etc??
@breakupbradbrowning11 ай бұрын
Hi! Here are the most common reasons for being blocked and my thoughts about it, including what to do: y2u.be/s52sRweJlm8 and don't forget to take the quiz if you still have questions on what to do after, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz
@Travis_Moore6 ай бұрын
Hey brad, I want your advice if possible. My ex said she fell out of love with me and said she doesnt want to talk to me, but she also said that in time she beleives that we could be together again. But i admit i was begging and needy when the breakup happend. We were together for 1 year and 8 months and she ended it really quickly over messages while she was on holiday...shes expecting me to message her eventually but i have self respect for myself so im not sure what to do and so far ive been in full no contact for 3 weeks nearly 4 . Any thoughts?
@breakupbradbrowning6 ай бұрын
Decide first if she's worth it and/or the relationship is worth fixing. If you want to try again, you ought to reach out. You can reach out to your ex after the 30 days straight of "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bYHGl3qbf9aIj9E including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qmesZp5ratWheac but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
@Travis_Moore6 ай бұрын
@@breakupbradbrowning On tuesday i sent her a message saying ive given her some time and would love to hear her thoughts, And she said she doest want to be in a relationship and wants to focus on college. I felt releif after this and now i feel great, of course it hurts a bit but she was really rude and narcasistic about the Breakup. 18 months together and she ended it in a 20 minute convo over messages so im glad im not with her anymore 👍
@robertbenedek44635 ай бұрын
...a lot of coaches telling you the same thing again and again: "don't talk about the past, the heavy stuff, be light and funny and so on" But the problem is: you are NOT light, you are NOT funny, and THERE ARE things in-between you and your ex. If you CAN be cool, that's fine. But the relationship HAS it's history and it leaves its imprints in you. I always tend to lean towards the authentic direction: just communicating what you have inside you. Of course, it matters HOW you do it...but this pretending to be funny, keeping it fun is simply not an adult and ripe approach. It is possibly more useful on not fully matured/young personalities. After all, a breakup possibly gives you the chance to DEEPEN the relationship. Reunified you two rise stronger then you were before.
@Travis_Moore5 ай бұрын
@@robertbenedek4463 thanks man i appreciate that I will remember this
@ABouyerProductions Жыл бұрын
I had been in a four year on an off relationship with my ex, just recently we broke up about a month ago because she wanted me to come over her house and do you know what, When 2 days prior she looked at me in my eyes and told me even if she asks tell her no because she wants to get closer to god, So I did that and She got mad at me hung up , called me back and said you're not going to call me and and then she hung up one more time and we haven't talked since Except one time I texted her because she had called me and I missed her call and she said accident. I guess what i'm trying to say is I still want to talk to her but I just got very busy and haven't been able to have a conversation. And I know it will be difficult to have one with her if I do
@breakupbradbrowning Жыл бұрын
An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!
@DavidAdaboo3 ай бұрын
How do i call you sir
@breakupbradbrowning3 ай бұрын
Sorry, I don't do phone, live or in-person coaching for reasons I've given here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iJupZahoha-IgLM but if you're up for a private one-on-one email coaching, you can sign up using the link here: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@jeffstevens88957 ай бұрын
What do i do when we have 2 children under 5 together with nc?
@breakupbradbrowning7 ай бұрын
If you're hellbent on trying to work things out, let me just set expectations that it's a tough battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible, in addition to my newer vids I've posted: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYXNdnR9f7yHq6M AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/mnW9o6GEnZ1_hck
@simonurban014 ай бұрын
Hey Brad, thank you for all the work! You're truly amazing! Since the start of break up, I did everything just as you said. Committed to NC and working hard on myself. She recently posted a photo on her social media, hanging out and cuddling with my most favourite artist. That was hella a shock for me and made me doubt everything. Is it normal for ex to hang out or even sleep with opposite gender so early? Should I reconsider if I want her back, or it is a normal thing and I shouldn't take that personally, because we are not longer together? Thanks in advance!
@breakupbradbrowning4 ай бұрын
Hey man, you're welcome! Thanks for watching. As to your question, yes, everybody has different ways of coping and for some, it's via straight back to the dating pool again! I suggest you cut off contact and use this time to really decide how you want to proceed forward. If you're torn about your decision, this is what I'm here for, so hire me as your coach so I can take a closer look at the details of your situation and advise accordingly on your next best move forward, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@VictoriaHannah-xx1qe8 ай бұрын
My ex boyfriend miss like crazy he had moved on other relationship
@breakupbradbrowning8 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that. It may be time for you to do the same especially if the breakup happened a long time ago.
@xanacruz865511 ай бұрын
So my gf and I were on a long distance relationship cus I´m studying abroad. After 1 year and 5 months together, she told that the she's not mentally well to be in a long distance relationship and that she's afraid she's losing feelings due to distance. In the other han, she told me that she doesn't want me to leave her life, cus I'm a really good friend and even the best relationship she's ever been. The other day she told me that she needed me and my advices as a friend. In 3 months I'll come home and we could be together. What should I do? Should I keep on taking things slowly, being there as friend and try something later?
@xanacruz865511 ай бұрын
She suffered with depression and anxiety in the past, so I'm scared she's entering a "bad season" again and distance is making it worse. But I've helped her in the past and I wanna do it again. I told her I'm not giving up so easily and I'll give her the time to understand herself and her feelings. Am I doing the right thing?
@breakupbradbrowning11 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that. A long distance relationship is not easy to maintain, especially if you two had a weak foundation where you don't get to spend time with each other much in person. Not to state the obvious, but the distance is often the main culprit. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYK8ZYFmadqpqqM and/or kzbin.info/www/bejne/a5_JiIWAh9ehd9U However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@xanacruz865511 ай бұрын
@breakupbradbrowning We've a good foundation, we're started the long distance after one wonderful year together. But it's pretty hard for us to be together, and as I said, she's not in her best. At the same time, I'm having a rough time in college, not being able to fully adapt and make friends. I think that's also one of the problems cus I ended up relying on her. I'm forcing myself to get out of my comfort zone so that I can feel better and prove her that I've changed. I'm trying to be positive and be there, but it's sooo hard for me. She was my gf and my best friend, so it's been hard to keep no contact. This week I've got better on respecting that and I've got an "I miss text" and she asked me if today we could call cus she has a lot of things to tell me (daily things, nothing special but she wants to share it with me). She told me that it's too early to get back, cus she's still not mentally well, but I think that it's a start. I think that mb, if we take baby steps and start building this relationship from the beginning (as friends), things could be different. Do you agree? I'll keep on watching your videos and keep on trying to do the right thing. Hopefully, this is just a bad phase and we'll get over it!
@stephanvanderheijden49535 ай бұрын
Hey Brad, i'm in the situation that i life with my wife and childeren, we got S&x daiky is that a good sign, she say evertime thats she done with me but i think she will give me a change to change my self
@breakupbradbrowning5 ай бұрын
Becoming closer again is a good start, especially if she initiated. If you want to find out what your chances are for saving your marriage, feel free to take my free quiz at www.marriageguy.com/quiz Good luck!
@excelsiore4579 ай бұрын
Hi Brad What advice do you have for me as me and my ex work in the same workplace as well as all their friends they talk to and hang around with that part taked in their smear campaign against me there is no way of not seeing them at work on the days we are in together I have been applying the “grey rock” method but people at work sometimes force me into positions where I have to communicate with them for work reasons at the minute we don’t look at each other or talk to each other but I have a feeling my bosses will put me in positions where I’m forced to communicate with them for work reasons what should I do?
@breakupbradbrowning9 ай бұрын
Things don't have to be any more awkward than it has to be. Do limited contact instead and keep any conversation you have strictly work-related, especially the first 30 days after the breakup. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYXNdnR9f7yHq6M AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/mnW9o6GEnZ1_hck
@arielbrown6511 ай бұрын
Brad I have a six years old son that is not the father of my Ex but my ex and my son have a very close bond we was in a relationship since my son my was 2 years old he look at him as his Father now we Separated...is it a good idea for my son to keep on talking to my ex on video call etc...
@breakupbradbrowning11 ай бұрын
If your ex is the responsible type who doesn't want to shock your kid when he broke up with you, then yes, it may not be so bad. It won't affect your chances or anything, as long as it's your ex's initiative to stay in touch with your kid versus the other way around. Otherwise it may be best for everyone involved to cut off contact for the time being.
@gavinbarker18228 ай бұрын
What if they have someone in there ear keeping occupied n distracted straight after breakup n staying with them
@breakupbradbrowning8 ай бұрын
As I mentioned in your previous comment, a strong support system can help. This has nothing to do with your relationship with your ex. I suggest you do the same and reach out to trusted friends and family during this time to help you cope as well. Take care!
@larissaavagyan20808 ай бұрын
My case is very complicated
@breakupbradbrowning8 ай бұрын
Hire me as your coach at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@marciecasas80033 ай бұрын
Hello. I am listening to your video. I don't have a problem staying away after he chose another over me. He pushed me away means stay away. I can't enjoy my life at this time as it suffer from hip arthritis which limits my walkin, etc Do not see my * Dr appt until November. I am not enjoying at all.
@breakupbradbrowning3 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that. I hope you do get treatment for it. The breakup looks like a blessing in disguise and this may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bavTaIZ8l8p2iLc but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com
@AcM.52338 ай бұрын
Mine freaked out after I got a spinal cord injury and got put on opiates because her mother OD in front of her at 10 years old. She's now out of state but still wants to say good morning and good night etc etc and wants to be back in my life and marry me "when she feels ready" I've got my engagement ring back that I took from her 4 months before she left when she said she didn't believe in marriage. Should I cut off all contact or continue to talk to her in the morning and evening and is it even too late now that it's been 3 months today that she went back up North and I'm down south
@breakupbradbrowning8 ай бұрын
Cut off contact for at least 30 days. It's obvious this is a very confusing time not just for your ex but for you as well and it's crucial for you both to think clearly first, okay? This vid is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pKHYgpVndrWGl7c
@anniemba120511 ай бұрын
Did you loose your page?
@breakupbradbrowning11 ай бұрын
No, it's still very much active at kzbin.info I'm just trying to revamp my style on here to give a podcast-like feel. Thanks for noticing!
@vmit25008 ай бұрын
She left me about 1 week ago with the "i feel smothered and subjogate from this relationship since the beginning" (im at work 95% of my time), i tried to contact her 4 days after the breakup and she just ghosted me.. i never been the type of worm that said "PLZ DONT LEAVE ME I BEG YOU" nah, none of that, i just wanted a confrontation with her, but she denied, so i tried to call her 1 time and she doesnt respond me, then 2 days ago i just ask her how she was doin, wierdly she replies, so i tried to ask her if she wanted to talk a bit later, and then she became aggressive and said "Talking to you make me feel worst..", so i dont know if everything is already compromised, but since then i just blocked her and im trying the no contact... im not that positive, but we will see
@breakupbradbrowning8 ай бұрын
First off, I suggest you watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mqLRonqNhNBshKM Not begging an ex was a good move but the constant texting/contacting her was not. I understand how you feel and it's gut wrenching when you're trying to ask your ex for a really good explanation, but resist that! If you ask me, really, closures are overrated. If your ex broke things off with you and acts like it, trust me, you'd really want to give each other space as soon as possible. However, these may help offer a different perspective on things, as to what really happened in your relationship: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qmesiWCmitN6kLM AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/jILNh596jN19aNE
@Cholito_blog9 ай бұрын
Hey brad she broke up with me because i was always arguing with her but she ended a 6 year relationship dhe likes to to party with her friend and she short text me sometimes text me first i begged her take me back snd scared to loose her or see her with somone else what do i do and what it mean when she text me first and we hang out I tell her all the time i need her
@breakupbradbrowning9 ай бұрын
Neediness will only push your ex further away. Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hau5qqCPo7Z5is0 Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nGjdpouhYtiJqas It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bHyWqaicetx4fMk The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
@owensimphiwe896911 ай бұрын
I have done no contact and it worked and me and my ex and i got back together but when we were back together i was so busy that i couldn't text her or even call for two days and then she texted me the following days and told me that she wants to break up again becoz she feels like I'm no serious about and I'm not giving her attention. We then broke up again i think this time we won't get back together, and i miss her so much but I'm doing no contact again and I'm fighting everyday the urge to text or call her. I am hurting every single day but i think it will get better as time goes and i will be fine and live my life.
@breakupbradbrowning11 ай бұрын
If you have a valid reason for not being able to communicate with her, then talk to her. Otherwise yes, consider moving on from this since a relationship does need work in order for it to thrive.
@PatrickEutsey9 ай бұрын
What if we were together for 25 yrs and she doesn't want to work on us anymore, she blind sided me, and she wont even tell me who he is. SMH Tomorrow i start no contact!
@breakupbradbrowning9 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that. Have you confirmed there's someone else though?
@bpoydras15039 ай бұрын
Someone else being in the picture is not necessarily a bad thing. If you were a good dude, then just allow the rebound to crash and burn. In the meantime, work on yourself while in no contact.
@HollyEisner8 ай бұрын
HEY. Very much learn from your teachings. I have learned a lot from you. Yesterday I did that quiz "What Are Your Chances Of Getting Your Ex Back and I sent it, it seemed to send Ok, but I never got the results of my chances, sent to me in email after I provided my email address. So was this an obsolete quiz or something?? Results are not in my Spam mail either. And yes, I sent the correct email address.
@breakupbradbrowning8 ай бұрын
Hi there! The quiz has been working fine as far as I know, lots of other people have already taken it recently and received results successfully. Please try again using a new browser (ie. use Safari if you previously used Chrome to take the quiz) and a different email address. Also please check if it didn't end up in your email's spam folder or something. Hope that helps, and thanks for taking the quiz.... best of luck!
@asapfx5 ай бұрын
Hello coach, is it ok to let her view my WhatsApp status during no contact..?
@breakupbradbrowning5 ай бұрын
Yes, of course. Refrain from posting any dramatic stuff though. But you can leverage social media to your advantage. Here's how: kzbin.info/www/bejne/emKqoYVrgqajh80
@yarramshivarani47511 ай бұрын
He is still talk to me text to me But 3Rd party is coming sometimes and She is chenges he is Mind what Am i do Wait or Move on
@breakupbradbrowning11 ай бұрын
Never wait around for anyone. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXLKhKyNj8uKjJY Give each other space, yes, but put some boundaries up especially as to when and how long you'd try but also don't rush it. It's complicated to explain it all in one go but my updated 2.0 version Ex Factor Guide should give you a step-by-step process on how to go about it. In the meantime, here's a quick overview: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk