8 Signs You And Your Ex Are Meant To Be

Are You And Your Ex Soulmates? Top 8 Signs You're Meant To Be Together...
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Were you and your ex meant to be together? How can you tell if you should try to get them back, or give up and look for someone new?
It can be incredibly difficult to determine whether this breakup was necessary -- and will end up being the best outcome for both of you -- or whether it was a big mistake, and you're letting "The One" slip out of your arms.
In this video, I cover 8 of the top signs to look for that indicate you and your ex were compatible... so if you're wondering whether you should still be trying to get back together -- or whether your connection wasn't that strong and it's time to move on -- watch the full video.
Questions about whether you and your ex were meant to be together? Leave them in the comments below so I can get back to you!
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[@samanthawerner606]

I remember when I was so desperate to get back with my ex so I watched these videos all day to see what I could do to get him back. Now I’m living with him and we just got our own place together ❤️

[@BradBrowning]

I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. Now as what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oJvVgKOulpKqnKs and kzbin.info/www/bejne/rGrQh62eZ7OJd8U or from a more recent advice here as well: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y4DUiqyVedaBgMU AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/bpjGZmaJr62ll8U All the best! :-)

[@katerussel5686]

Tell us how it happens please I am really interested.

[@maestrosmusic6695]

So blessed ❤

[@jojoagario4195]

claiming this

[@oceanrichardson4674]

Yea i was in a 4 year ltr and she broke up with me and im still hurting even tho I haven’t moved on im just mad at her even though It was complicated at the end because we was going through alot

[@thefounder761]

I believe in time we will be back together. This is just time for me to make myself better

[@BradBrowning]

I admire your optimism. Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the 30-day "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk Best of luck!

[@AS-cb4gn]

Any updates?

[@preciousplet9935]

yeahhhh thisss!!!

[@nightwolf252]

Updates ?

[@kmank2l123]

I agree with you on this. My situation as well. We’ll see what happens in a year.

[@kinpl3866]

Broke up 6 years ago and they are married with kids. No contact for 6 years but my heart still hurts. We both were first lovers for each other.

[@BradBrowning]

Really sorry to hear that. I know sometimes they say how first love never dies. At this point though, try to stick to the facts to make it somehow easier on you. He's chosen to move on with someone else, so maybe you should too. You deserve to be happy! :-)

[@elysian5624]

Time to move on! You’ll need to remove the fantasy in your mind and face reality. It’s hard, I am going through it right now, but that’s the only way to heal.

[@user-yo4dz5np7g]

Damn

[@Scott-got-caught]

Well my first love happened at 17. Took me a good 19 years to let it go completely. Took me a long time to figure out my issues keeping me emotionally tied to this one person. Feels so good not having that baggage any more. 19 years tho....

[@blizzard1198]

@@elysian5624 facts some of these people are lying to themselves thinking they can still get back together when they're ex has moved on and is with a person

[@ckyung1312]

1. Your family likes them and they like your family 2. Still connected post breakup 3. Hopeful 4. Perceived commitment, appreciation, sexual satisfaction, you knew your partner was happy and vice versa, able to handle conflict 5. Physical attraction 6. Extremely difficult breakup 7. They made you a better version of yourself and vice versa

[@mikaelarocha1476]

My boyfriend left me a week ago. But I know in my heart we are ment to be. He says he needs this time for us to work on ourselves and make us happy and healthy again. I got very insecure about my body image and just caused so many arguments. But I know we still have that deep love for each other. It’s hard spending this time away from him, but I know in the end it will only make us stronger. If it is ment to be it will be, I believe it.

[@stealthyrat]

Update?

[@ashleybrooklynn1579]

This is what me and mine are going through right now.

[@hittz2581]

I just broke up with my ex last week, she needed space but was scared to say it bcuz she didn't want to hurt my feelings, so I did it for her. This hurts bad, but I'm going to give it a month and work on getting my new place and get back in the gym/ basketball..I hope she doesn't rebound date too quick🥺

[@sayitloudblcknproud]

He's cheating

[@BradBrowning]

Take time to work on yourself first. These insecurities are only something you can fix and won't be fixed (at least not permanently) by outside validation.

[@ZireaeI]

If you're seeing this, give it a rest bro. It's not worth it, work on yourself. Go hit the gym you'll feel tons better

[@TheOmw2000]

I’m gonna finish watching this but, you’re probably right bro. Thank you. I needed that.

[@di114n2]

Sometime when it’s your fault you really realize she’s the one. I had my 6 year relationship end 20 days ago and looking back at all the things I was doing wrong I see why she had to end things . I truly think she’s the one for me I just need to get some things in order

[@districtlivesports]

I know that one day down the line me and my Ex will be together again. Everyday I wake up with her on my mind and realizing she’s been my soul mate ever since we met and it kills me that she’s not my woman right now. It’s okay though because the break up is only morphing me to be the better image of who I am today. I’m still confident I can get her back ❤️

[@BradBrowning]

That's the spirit! Refer to my other vids for more tips...or check out my Ex Factor Guide for a detailed, step-by-step guide on how to go about things at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck.

[@m.l.7558]

Are you doing better ,buddy?

[@districtlivesports]

@@m.l.7558 Definitely.

[@nonom5659]

U got back together?

[@yayowickd3826]

You got her back?

[@petecoventry6858]

Yup - I know she is the one - I literally kept contact and changed myself whilst showing her the results - and she noticed more than I imagined she would - and well we are now dating again and carving a new life for us and the children. We've done this about 4 times now and this is the last time.One thing that was never lost was the physical and mental attraction

[@BradBrowning]

Thanks for sharing!

[@m.l.7558]

How u doin?

[@jaymeister26]

Why did you two break up? Sounds very similar to in the sense that she wants to see results and she still wants to keep contact. But she wants a family so she’s seeing other guys. She’s 30 and wants to start a family. She wants to be with me. But me working a dead end job and not working towards a career has given her lots of stress and anxiety. I met up with her yesterday. We were both hugging and crying. I promised to make things right and that I now know what I need to do. I let her know why I’ve been so unproductive, what I’m doing to change and what my goal for myself and us is. She said she can’t commit to anything at the moment. And the guys that she’s dating, she said that she doesn’t love them the way that she loves me, and she hugged me and started crying. I really want her back. I’m spending all my waking hours studying and applying for apprenticeships. I cut off communication with her but she wants me to reach out when I have results. I told her to contact me if/when she changes her mind. We are perfect and attracted to each other in every way, but I was a lazy fuck for months and didn’t do anything about, now I have a belly full of guilt and I feel like I lost the love of my life.. I don’t know what to do. Beg for her back one more time, give her her space and hope she contacts me to get back together, or wait until I get results and let her know where I’m at.

[@jd6331]

​@@jaymeister26How's it going, did you two end up back together yet? It sounds like you're doing all you can; what you're doing is what I would have *wished for* from my ex. But maybe he didn't love me as deeply as you love your ex.... I just don't know anymore. If I were her and I knew I loved you still... I would give you some time to get yourself better established and then see where we can go from there. 30 is still young.... she has plenty of time, but is putting limitations. She may want children right now, but if she still loves you, it's going to be very hard for her to fall in love with someone else and get to that point. She'd be settling. Just keep putting in the work, that's all you can control and that's all you can do. Become the best man you can be, and if she doesn't take you back or If she moves on, you'll be ready for the next woman. It won't be easy, but you can only do your best. Good luck~

[@vinzchannel01]

Already successfully conquered the breakup ages and years ago, watching BreakupBrad. Still here watching his videos 😄. Dude inspires positivity.

[@BradBrowning]

Glad to hear that. Thanks, man! :-)

[@woody71692]

I lost my ex 4 years ago, unfortunately I still miss her to this day. What really hurt the relationship was Family: “controlling step dad Covid- shut down pandemic Distance/availability lived over an hour away Her baby brother died in farming accident. “Stage of grief. When I hurt Or miss her I watch these videos.

[@BradBrowning]

Right. Looks like an overall bad time back then. Are you both still single and do you want to test the waters? Since it's been many years since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: kzbin.info/www/bejne/j4e5mo2jjperZqs and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!

[@vedantsharma5310]

This man always brings peace in my life

[@williamjames808]

Hello

[@williamjames808]

How are you

[@MbaObinnachukwuogbo]

This is my story 😢

[@qwertqwert8357]

My girlfriend (and the love of my life) dumped me 4 weeks ago. There were some eerie similarities in our background and upbringing (i.e., born in the same third world country, moved to the US in the same year, studied the same major, and went to similar schools). I just couldn't believe the out-of-the-blue breakup. I am so heartbroken, but I am feeling better. Not contacting her whatsoever. Deleted her number (she has mine). Something tells me that she will never reach out to me, and we will never get back together. I am just watching this video I don't know why. But the stories of people in the comment section who got back together bring smile to my face.

[@grantholt762]

Any update to this mate?

[@qwertqwert8357]

She texted me yesterday after 3 months of no contact. I had deleted her number and so I didn't even know it was her. I had to ask who it was lol. She drove to where I live. She made it clear that she wants to give it another chance. But to be honest, I think I love her enough to let her go and I healed a lot through therapy, friends, working out, and focusing on work. My heart didn't stop at her sight and I had a long conversation with her in person. Part of me is worried that she will make me go through this again. If anyone is going through this, let me reassure you that time will heal everything. It may take months or years. If you were not abusive and truly loved the person, you do not deserve to have an emotional baggage and trauma for the rest of your life. You will outgrow this and you will look back and pat yourself in the back.

[@tearsonpages_]

@@qwertqwert8357 thank you for this!! I've been miserable since my boyfriend dumped me a week ago.. I told my friends that I'm over him cuz he really played with my emotions but deep down I miss him so much, I want him back really bad but ik that's not good for either of us. I just wonder if he ever regrets dumping me or not. Don't know if I'll ever get out of this phase

[@qwertqwert8357]

@@tearsonpages_ Eventually you won't "deep down miss him so much." It took me a good two months before I came to terms with the fact that she is gone. I created a note on my phone and listed a number of things that were abusive/hurtful/disrespectful of her. This way, I reminded myself every now and then not to look through rose-tinted glasses. I was so surprised when she wanted to meet with me. But I would never count on getting back together. Focus on your well-being, self worth, and dignity.

[@immature01orchid]

492 days. STILL WAITING FOR HIM ❤😭 loving isn't hard UNLOVING WITHOUT HATING IS

[@BradBrowning]

You know what they say, there's a fine line between love and hate. If you've applied my tips and hadn't gotten any results, it may be time to move on from this. Listen, I understand what you're going through. You know moving on is a tricky process and the emotions come in waves. This video is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZmLap3-Jlrhslas And if you're still having a hard time, this should help you understand why in order to understand what you're going through: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aHTEnIKFiNx8n7s or get my latest e-book Beat the Breakup at www.beatmybreakup.com

[@diegofkda199]

Brad, you look tired on this video. I hope you've been having enough sleep and that you're doing okay. You have helped me so much.

[@amr526]

Like I feel right now

[@jakeerdman4345]

I would like to extend the gratefulness, thank you.

[@BradBrowning]

Thank you for the heartwarming message. I'm doing okay, yes, just trying to balance everything out in life right now. I appreciate you! :-)

[@avorinloxcy3423]

Me and my ex broke up 1 month ago due to a long distance relationship not working out we would always fight etc He called me last week apologising for the things He did to blablabla And right now if I tell you that we talk as if we still in a realtionship He keeps telling me on how he wants to still get back with me one day and how he still loves me and how what we had was so special...I believe he is my soul mate

[@monystire8024]

Im just here to remind you (yes you who has just broken up or can not get them out them of your mind), some people are in your life for to grow. If your relationship was too much full of fights and hurts, and it was toxic, its not going ro continue and its okey. You don't want old bad and toxic habits coming back. You can cry, you can have fun and grief, and move on

[@BradBrowning]

That's right! Toxicity and/or abuse should never be tolerated. And no time is ever wasted as long as you've taken the lessons learned from a previous relationship/s to make you a better person.

[@evan3378]

I scored a 65 on the test but I feel in my heart of hearts that I am meant to be with her and the two of us together.

[@BradBrowning]

Good for you! Just remember to take on a realistic approach though. You can reach out to your ex after 30 days or so without contact and then go from there. Don't force things if your ex asks you to stay away or stop contacting her. Whatever the case, use this time to heal yourself first. You should be first priority especially if you've been dumped. Best of luck!

[@Kit_Katttttttt13]

Yea I also got a 65 I’m honestly just really fucking conflicted I hate feeling things it sucks😭

[@DrekalScar]

It's good to feel, means you are alive, thank God for that. Have faith in God, He has not abandoned you. ​@@Kit_Katttttttt13

[@TiffanyWestNyc]

Brad you’re amazing! Getting folks back together. We need this in life we really do…..,,,.as things are changing with the red pill content and just stay single forever but thank you for staying true brad. Love is the greatest gift in life.

[@BradBrowning]

True love, is. So make sure there's equal effort as well and never force yourself into someone else's life, okay? If it's true, my techniques should work, be subtle with your ex. ;) Good luck and you're welcome!

[@Butterchickenlover]

I’m so glad I found this video. I felt all these things with my ex, she was the best thing that happened to me, we enjoyed each other’s company and were planning to get married. Unfortunately we broke up because of the first thing, my parents didn’t approve of her 😔.

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that. If you're in the right age to make your own decisions, I don't see how that's impossible. Unless your culture has something to do with it.

[@abdulrashidyakub9622]

Hello it's works I can't believe am with my lover again contact him

[@roseofasoul1384]

Hello Mr ( William ) he is the best when it comes to recovery relationship. He was the one that helped me.

[@Hadif17-bi3zb]

Yeah me too bro 😞

[@Trinoplex]

My ex and I broke up around a month ago. I honestly feel like there is potential for us later on. She's not in the best emotional state right now,not wanting to go to work or hardly wanting to get out of bed. I believe her when she says it's not me who's the problem. She accepts responsibility and knows that it was mostly her that kinda brought it down. But i try not to see it that way. she's just hurt and broken and needs that time to heal. She doesn't wanna be around anyone,her "friends" choose not to help her and not wanna understand her situation. I know im not perfect, but i was never trying to be,just being me for her even if we do have clashing personalities. We have so many other things like religious views,political views,family, and actually wanting something in our lives. I also see it as a maturity thing,im a senior about to graduate, and she's still only a sophomore. So i get it's probably a lot more tough for her. She recently texted me asking to come to my graduation dinner,so im optimistic that things will get better since we have talked to her and there about the situation. Most recently, on May 1st, for the last time,i got to do it in person, and i feel like i got my closure in a way. But i do feel like a future is hopeful (Sorry ik thats a lot, and i could go into more details potentially)

[@AliceInBookworld]

I was with someone. They were the most amazing person, the best realationship i could ever have. And it breaks me, thinking they will hold around someone, else like they used to do with me. Hug, love, kiss that person's forhead..i hate that it's NOT ME. I hate...that i can't stop loving that person. I just can't. I've tried. I have had a crush. But i just fall for my ex.. it's always them. They're amazing. I just wish...it was me, and not the person they like...i hate how I'm feeling. I HATE IT. it sucks...

[@georgebutler2605]

My ex broke up with me to work on our mental health she’s been struggling with for years and I’ve watched so many of these videos and trying my hardest to standby since I think the world of her

[@BradBrowning]

I hear you. If your ex has a mental disorder like depression, bipolar disorder, IED, NPD, or the like, the most loving thing you can do is to give each other space while he/she gets help. Encourage your ex to seek treatment because clinical depression is something only a therapist specializing on this can handle, even this is outside of my scope. But I can help you how to handle things on YOUR end as you go through this difficult ordeal. I know it can be incredibly tough knowing you’ve given it your best shot, yet your partner still fails to appreciate it or is breaking up despite it being a good relationship. Anyway it's a bad idea to be friends with an ex especially knowing they have a mental health condition. In the end, they will drain you and leave you with lots of scars that would take years of therapy. Consider signing up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@PermanentGogeta66]

Dont be a simp

[@terrencemilton5088]

My soul ties tried to destroy me....I keep my mouth shut on most of them. A good friend can become your most dangerous enemy...

[@BradBrowning]

The same feelings goes for an ex but over time, negative memories really tend to fade unless you hold on to the grudge, which can be really unhealthy.

[@AOD92]

Or u can become your own worst enemy. At times i feel like that. Self sabotaging oneself.

[@tylerboessenkool4168]

Thank you for not hiding this great info behind a paywall

[@BradBrowning]

My intentions are to help out folks. You're welcome! :-)

[@okcthunders35]

Um yes once you break up the best way is to move on and find someone new just like I did

[@BradBrowning]

Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!

[@Zayn913]

If u found someone new right after you were just rebounding. Which is very emotionally unhealthy.

[@jimmyjoles]

I could never hardy find another one though lol 😂

[@mauriceholden9238]

My ex and I broke up 33 years ago. She broke up with me and I was so devastated. Every time we see each other she always give me a very passionate hug. Every time we hug we both can feel this strong energy between us. It's like we are soulmates. I truly believe that we are soul mates. Been 33 years and she still ask about me even though we both got married to different people. I still love her to this day and I really believe that she loves me. She always ask about me. Sometimes she tries to avoid me. I can see that she want to tell me how she loves me through her eyes. I won't cheat on my wife, but I feel miserable without my ex girlfriend.

[@BradBrowning]

You can still love her, but as friends as clearly you've both made different choices in life which are not on the same path. As long as you both have your boundaries set up, you can actually be good friends, granted how many decades it's been since you two broke up.

[@frankyvilla7789]

I really do believe we’re amazing soulmates but we ended up on cold and bad terms. I don’t think she’ll ever reach out to me which scares me but during my relationship and even now i thank her for making her realize and grow a lot from this. I really did become better and better everyday. I know she won’t see this but i love you icela

[@jeremyrogers3476]

I feel so similar feels good not to be alone

[@BradBrowning]

Do better anyways. :-) If you do have to make some changes, then do it for yourself and never for anyone else, okay? See, making changes for the sake of someone is considered seeking validation, and that's an unattractive trait in and of itself… so it naturally won't do anything to rebuild the attraction necessary to get your ex back in the long run. On the other hand, if these are changes that you know within yourself that you need to make, then it's important to take time so be sure you aren’t rushing it because permanent, lasting changes don't happen overnight and your ex can actually see through it. Also, pain (that's why your ex dumped you) is a very good teacher and motivator not to mention a huge catalyst, so making these changes within yourself in order for the possibility to come back together stronger and better is what you can expect and you will be able to use this progress if not for your ex, then with someone new. Does that make sense? With that in mind, watch this vid to subtly show these changes to your ex: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mIuUfJiqdrGNqMU

[@phill7487]

It is so difficult because we were both perfectly imperfect. We initially had zero compatibility, and zero similarities that I thought it wouldn’t last a couple months. It sucks because we lasted 5 damn years, growing and adapting to each other’s likes and dislikes, and eventually loving each other whole heartedly and improving one another’s person. One day, literally she woke up and just saw nothing for us. No more feelings, no nothing. It was such a shock to me because I did nothing wrong, yet she felt absolutely nothing. She broke up with me, and I could not even begin to process why. It’s been 3 weeks, I tried to ask her to work things out, to communicate, to give me a clear answer, but she won’t. It’s crazy. Because even if she checks all these 8 signs, it still feels like she wants nothing. I don’t even know what lesson to learn from, if i did anything wrong, if she did anything wrong.. How do you learn from that- how do you try to learn from a relationship that gave you nothing to learn from. I wasn’t perfect by all means, but i gave her the world. I understood her needs, I grew the love for her imperfections, for her family, her friends.. I don’t even know what to do any more.

[@BradBrowning]

Hi Phil, sorry to hear you're going through this. I know how tough it is to suddenly lose someone you love and you're stuck trying to heal and even how to resolve or get of the feeling of sadness. Don't overthink though, just try to heal first. The lessons will come in time when you've had time to clear your head and practice non-attachment/giving her space. If you need my help further on what could've possibly went down, consider signing up for my coaching program so I know more about your situation and give you a few things to try to get it back on track, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@caramelbrulee7389]

The learning lesson is that sometimes no matter how much we try and how perfect things may be, a person can leave at any time. The issue is that while WE may view a connection as perfect, our partner may not. You have to be prepared to love and lose love. You can’t make a person love you or want to be with you. It could also be that she felt that she was losing herself. You said before that you guys worked to be compatible with each other. Is it possible that working to fit your needs made her unhappy? Regardless of the situation, this relationship wasn’t meant to last, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t prepare for the one that is! It’s time to work on and heal yourself. I am living proof that you can heal from excruciating heartbreak, and come out stronger! 💯❤️

[@AS-on1fz]

@@caramelbrulee7389 thank you, I know this isn't for me but I really nedded to see this right now. I just lost my best friend because of distance and I just can't handle the pain, it's too much pain. Idk how im going to get trough this.

[@ankyysr]

after he broke up i couldnt eat or sleep and i kept having mental break downs in school i couldnt handle it. I lost about 4 kg. But after a while I stayed positive and when him and I wanted to talk again, he gave me a loongg romantic kiss but after that he acted like before. I believe that we'll get back together i just have to give it time and be patient

[@BradBrowning]

Don't forget to put yourself first though. This includes taking care of yourself and eating right. Best of luck!

[@Bluehousesys]

What's confusing is when one person fits in the "keep them" category but the other person's feelings are in the "they should move on" category

[@BradBrowning]

Breakups are a confusing time for both parties and it helps to give each other that much needed space first, soulmate or not.

[@hernameisnash105]

@@BradBrowningdo you think people can come back from one person being in the “keep them” category and one being in the “ they should move on” category?

[@oleugh]

Perfect 8/8. This gives me a surge of new hope. I'll continue improving myself for myself and the ball is in her court. Thanks so much Brad

[@BradBrowning]

Great! And once you're ready... when you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jqDRfqeCe9RjZpI but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eHLLfqWjrJiGo9U This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas Good luck!

[@grammarnazi952]

Perfect 0/8 over here. Guess that's not happening.

[@BenGoldNYC]

We broke up on Saturday and I’ve tried to be cooperative as possible and didn’t really beg, though I did get emotional. We were going to do a month apart and regroup, but I made a small mistake that she interpreted as me disrespecting her wishes and the boundaries she asked for and now says she doesn’t want any relationship including friendship. Her reaction was really out of character for her and I’m really confused. I can’t tell if she really means that or just needs time and space to cool down. There was no toxicity or abuse in this relationships. We were basically best friends.

[@BradBrowning]

You both need to take a break from each other asap. Resist the urge to contact her or explain yourself. Watch this, too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/h4GtoaWAqstgn7c

[@camusfenelon]

That’s crazy these 5 things count. We’re always friendly towards each other. We always defend each other. We’re always available to hear each other.

[@BradBrowning]

Cool! :-)

[@jaredlennon3285]

I miss her so much and want to get back together as soon as possible but I know deep down I need to fix myself first, I don’t want her to move in before that happens

[@Poizin77]

Well....i guess we're soulmates :) Its been almost 2 months and i really miss her but i have a strong feeling shes going to come back. All of these signs have happened so now im trusting my gut even more :) Thank you

[@BradBrowning]

Good. Just continue to focus and work on yourself without this person, yeah? It's hard but you can do it. Best of luck!

[@Slicksloth28]

Hey man I’m right there with you we just broke up 2 days ago but somehow I feel as if she’s my soulmate the connection we had in our good times the bond we had the similarities we had it was all just too good not to be a soulmate connection I have hope for us getting back together in the near future:) I hope things went well with you and your ex :) I trust god that he broke us up so I can learn from my mistakes and come back even better when she is ready to take me back :)

[@gothtraphouse]

my bf and i saw eachother for the first time since we broke up at a party. we cuddled, hooked up, and he gave me a ride home, bought me breakfast, and kissed my cheek. but i asked if we were still “forever” and he said “i don’t know” … but still said, “i love you and i miss you”. what does this mean for me? edit: he let me rest my head on his lap and i closed my eyes, he was petting my head and rubbing my cheek and i caught him staring at me when i opened my eyes.

[@BradBrowning]

Looks like he's still confused. Your next move really depends. How long has it been since the breakup and have you cut off contact for 30 days yet? If you haven't cut off contact yet for at least 30 days, then you should prioritize that instead of interacting with your ex. On the other hand, IF you have already cut off contact, then you're on the right track. There's no need to redo the no contact just because it didn't exactly went well the first time or you're not getting the response you anticipated. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gX6wp2yin8mloc0 and be guided accordingly based on the phases of what needs to happen, here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk

[@Coffeetime1991]

I’m on this boat now and he told me he sees us getting back together but since we had some drama it’s going to take a little time and we have to get used to being uncomfortable for now. He’s struggling with mental health issues and per his family he shouldn’t be in a relationship. It makes my stomach turn and wanting to vomit when I think it’s over. We finish each other’s sentences, we know what we are going to say, we both lost our parents at a young age, we both have trauma. I feel so spiritually connected to him and I love him more than the words could explain. He completes me and when we broke up I couldn’t stop crying every hour. I would stop my car on the side of the road because I felt like I couldn’t breath. I held on to my family to help me not be alone in the same bed we shared. I’m shaking thinking about it. I messed up and it’s my time to make things right

[@BradBrowning]

It's important to look after yourself first as well. You two could be soulmates and have a special connection like no other, but make sure there isn't any codependency. Take this time to heal whatever individual issue or trauma that you have to create a healthier and stronger relationship in the future. Good luck!

[@calebcarroll4638]

Five months later here I am watching these videos… guess I still have hope for it to happen again. It’s just been so long since we have had any kind of communication. I have wanted to reach out but I just don’t know what I would say. Still feels like nothing has changed since the break up even 5 months later.

[@BradBrowning]

Watch this first to help set your expectations: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bmPYhn1toLWLnqc and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ip-9q5h7frV4n80 If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b32mYpitnKeef7M If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas and the golden rules here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z5ytYqyYqqt8fqc

[@mlondisithole4253]

There's no signs to look for. Be a man and walk away!!!!! The more you keep going back to someone who doesn't deserve you the more you hurt yourself. The more your self love drops. Love yourself and move on. Life is a single player experience. We came alone and we are going to die alone. Heal and move on Be a man. The one who's meant to be with you will be there. Don't wait for something that isn't meant for you. Dont look for any signs and just Walk away!!!!!!

[@BradBrowning]

That's true. There's always pain in relationships since nobody's perfect... but it's just important to discern who's worth all the pain. Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.

[@hmchoudhary440]

Hey Brad, me and my boyfriend broke up 5 months ago and I know I was the reason for the break up because I always used to blame him for everything and also we were in a LDR so the situations were tough, I never trusted him with my heart because of my trust issues and I was always insecure but he always used to clear out my doubts, he accepted me with my past and he did everything to make me happy but idk why it was never enough for me and then after 4 months we broke up..but I want him back and I will be a better person for. Idk what to do right now..he is still showing me hot and cold situations..but can you please help me with my situation..

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that. Not to state the obvious, but the distance is often the main culprit. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYK8ZYFmadqpqqM and/or kzbin.info/www/bejne/a5_JiIWAh9ehd9U However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@vocaloidhoe2238]

Updates?

[@Kahvnaa]

I’m literally going through this right now, I’m in a LDR and am am overthinker and she just broke up with me a couple of days ago

[@Here_we_go..557]

You deserve it.... I'm happy for him that he got relief from a toxic relationship

[@TheOmw2000]

I came here in my feels a bit but after reading some comments I’m in my concerns for some of y’all. I hope some of you are right that your situation was meant to be, but reading some of these statements without full context give me real creepy/stalker/obsessed vibes. Hope y’all are okay. Remember you’re the most important person in YOUR life. It literally doesn’t exist without you, don’t spend it focused on someone else the whole time.

[@littlemisstwiggy4529]

I want my husband back so bad. We’re still married & have a child. But he’s absent. Living with someone he barely knew. Supposedly she’s the best thing that ever happened to him - she helps him. I wouldn’t take him back the way he is now but if he was to do a 180 & knock at my door yes I would. I know I have work to do on me too. I just wish this ow would get out of the picture. He’s nothing like the man I fell in love with 17 years ago

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that. While I certainly need more information to know what's going on between you two for sure, I suggest you check out more marriage-saving tips which you may find useful, check out this new channel I've dedicated solely for this purpose. Here's the link: y2u.be/dr2JTi_bCRU

[@melarie205]

please come back antonio. i’m the girl who was by your side for so long patiently just waiting for you to change. i stuck with you no matter what because i actually loved you. she doesn’t bro. don’t give up on me you do not get to just be happy and leave me alone with all this pain you caused me. come back

[@BradBrowning]

I don't know your situation but chances are stuff have been piling up and that was the last straw. However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas and the golden rules here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z5ytYqyYqqt8fqc

[@AlexFarleyMusic]

Man you are on it when it comes to responding to comments! That's some work ethic right there. Thanks for another great video.

[@BradBrowning]

I always do my best to not let my subscribers down. Being heartbroken is a tough feeling and it helps if someone listens, specifically what I'm here for. Thanks, I'm glad you appreciate it, Alex! :-)

[@toriambrr]

it’s been two years and i still have hope things will work out, but sometimes i wonder if holding on to hope is unhealthy. i have done a lot of inner work and i’ve improved my well-being and i know i’ll keep improving, but some days i feel crazy and like i need to just move on.

[@BradBrowning]

Watch this first to help set your expectations: y2u.be/82uUJ7kPXhE and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b32mYpitnKeef7M If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI and the golden rules here: y2u.be/1kJ1ybuFIHE

[@EmilyGloeggler7984]

I had all of those things when I was with the ex but I still never will go back to the ex. I wish him well and hope he finds someone else or learns to be on his own, as I did before I met another man. I’m now married to that other man and I choose to remain married to only him for the rest of my life.

[@BradBrowning]

Happy for you! :-)

[@EmilyGloeggler7984]

@@BradBrowning Thank you! My husband is still the better man that it was worth to me to wait for.

[@christyneoliver6613]

My ex boyfriend and I were together from 2012 to 2021, but remained friends. He had been asking to reconcile for a while. I still cared a lot for him. He passed away on June 21, 2024. I'm devastated and heartbroken. Just because the relationship ended, the feelings did not. We were just better off as friends. I miss him and will mourn for a long time. 💔

[@BradBrowning]

I'm truly sorry for your loss. But I get where you're coming from. Some people are better off as friends than lovers.

[@thomashrj]

Hey Brad, my girl broke up with me on Christmas Day. She was crying so it was hard to know what she was trying to say. But she mentioned that we needed some time apart in order to grow not together but individually more. I haven’t talked to her since. Except for yesterday, I got the same feeling as I did when I first met her. She acted the same way when I first met her. She said that she would call me. I want to ask her if we could hang out and go on the date she asked me she wanted to do the very first time and I didn’t want to and I regret doing so. Is that a good first step? Thank you

[@BradBrowning]

It's still important to put the full 30-day straight "no contact" rule into priority because if you've been in touch after the breakup too soon, then you BOTH aren't taking the time needed to process the breakup and been acting like it hadn't happened. Here's how not contacting your ex can help you a lot: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKiTdJurjah4o9k Burying the problems which had caused the breakup in the first place is a surefire way towards a doomed relationship, if you get your ex back. Make sense now? You ought to teach your ex these very important lessons: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aoLIXmd3YqijjLs On the other hand, you can work on the issues together but you have to make sure you're on the same page and you aren't being manipulated and/or strung along. Are you seeing any progress? Sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed and so I can guide accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@haristhebosniaklion8584]

I will always love HER. I will never forget HER. I will also always remember all the people from the past who were ever nice to me and made me feel good about myself. I will also not forget the girls that called me ugly,lied to me,played me,my looks is not my fault. You see now ,what is going on in the world,so much evil.👎

[@OriginalSigmaMan]

I said many times that while my previous ex pushed me to be better, my current ex made me want to be better. Right now we are Broken up, and she is asking me to be better. Not sure how I feel about this, but the reality is that I did and do you need to be better. I had given up trying when I was with my previous ex

[@ValiantToad]

Imagine scrooling through videos like this and see a comment of your ex saying theh miss you 😢

[@BradBrowning]

That's a possibility. Nothing's impossible with technology nowadays.

[@DMETAROTINDONESIA]

I knew he could be my soulmate, but he is now have girlfriend. What should I do? Leave it or Take it?

[@BradBrowning]

It's either it's not yet the right time or he's not the one for you. Whatever the case may be, it's best to live your own life without this ex who has clearly chosen another path. He could just be rebounding, however it's unhealthy for you to wait around and find out. So open your options as well. Just keep in mind that some soulmates aren't meant to stay forever... some are here to teach us lessons in life and then you go your separate ways. Take care!

[@DMETAROTINDONESIA]

@@BradBrowning You're right Brad. Thank You so much. Love to see You in person. 😘

[@lesediphalatse4422]

I truly believed with everything that me and my ex were meant to be, I thought he did too, we were in a long distance relationship and it turned out he was with another female from his home town, it's been a year now and he's been asking to get back together, I just don't know if it's a right move, it feels like everything is broken beyond repair, I tried with everything to make it work but it still seemed as though my efforts weren't enough and not recognized and now here he is, I don't know it's a little too much

[@BradBrowning]

Is he not making an effort as well? Sorry, this is a bit too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@suerayakalib9976]

Hey Brad, my boyfriend broke up with me two days ago. We were basically best friends and did everything together! It hurts me a lot, but the reason behind his decision was him ultimately wanting to focus on himself for the time being and get his life back on track. We’ve still been in contact after the breakup due to me asking him that once we both finish bettering ourselves and are ready, if he was willing to see if we could try again and see if we’re meant to be and work out. His response was that he wasn’t planning on seeing anyone else or moving on, but just simply focusing on him. However, if I wanted to wait and see if there was a chance however long it took when we were both ready, then that was okay but for now we’d just be friends. What should I do in this situation? Would the no-contact rule still apply? Should I just be his friend and wait and see if we’re meant to be once the timing is right? I feel so lost…

[@cuntgushers5557]

More context I think would help, like what was he like exactly? Was it codependent? Is one of you struggling to find motivation in your own life while dating?

[@Lizagregorii]

I think he just dont want to be in this relationship anymore , and he dont want to say that to hurt your feelings. You can better yourself and grow together with your partner too, just think it as on your own, was he a burden for you to better yourself? Just get to know yourself , i promise that the pain will go, it can take months if not years but it will get better . Let yourself to grieve and be sad for your loss, but always respect and love yourself

[@BradBrowning]

Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. Discussed that here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKariHaNmqxkrtU However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas and the golden rules here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z5ytYqyYqqt8fqc

[@angelazhuz.8125]

Sameeeee situation!!! 😓😓I understand how you feel!!! And im so confused!

[@shutupanddrink3960]

Any progress?

[@mitsuninkhiangte5771]

just move on mates, if you don't have kids it's not worth it it hurts, i know but pain is constant

[@BradBrowning]

The choice is yours, it's your life.

[@mitsuninkhiangte5771]

@@BradBrowning yup, i appreciate and support what you are doing mate, i'm just reminding the boys here to simply move on because it's not really worth it if you still don't have kids. I mean i used to want my ex back but when i have them back again it's really the same, because relationships can take most of your time and you can't really focus on your career and all that shiiit because for male instincts, it's pretty hard to multi task unlike female

[@livelearnlove9086]

Respect is a big thing

[@BradBrowning]

Very much so.

[@mrkeitt]

My ex broke things off with me a few months ago after a 2.5 year relationship. She brought me my remaining things last week and we talked in front of my apartment and made out like teenagers and had a passionate quickie. Days later she expressed that the moment was special and that her daughters and best friend suggested she give me another chance. Our breakup was due to trivial matters that became too much. Even though our vibe amicable and peaceful, she's an avoidant and i feel like the only way I'll get her back is too leave her alone. I'm now in NC again until she reaches out with something meaningful, if and when that time comes.

[@BradBrowning]

Always prioritize that much needed period of silence first and allow her to miss you and feel what life is like without you. You can reach out to your ex after the 30 days straight of "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bYHGl3qbf9aIj9E including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qmesZp5ratWheac but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com

[@Love-ur3li]

We've break up but he reply my messages ...everything shows he's cool with me, he talk to me just like a mere friend, I really need him back. Should I continue charting him or give him space.

[@BradBrowning]

Stop forcing things. Try to have self discipline and remember, love should never be forced. Otherwise it becomes an obsession, so be very careful of going that route. If your ex dumped you and showed you he/she doesn't want to be in your life at the moment, you ought to respect that, okay? For most dumpees that is the case. It doesn't mean that will be the case forever but at the moment, it surely is, so respect your ex's need for space and have some self discipline. Focus on yourself instead. Okay? This vid is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jYelYZKia5WGpq8

[@Love-ur3li]

@@BradBrowning Thank you please

[@vihaankhanna3324]

i got her backk I love you so much thanks for all this I've been watching your videos since dayss and now she's finally back with me and the fun part is I didn't do the no contact she's in love with me :))

[@BradBrowning]

Great! Sometimes people break up too hastily.

[@vihaankhanna3324]

@@BradBrowning we broke up again 😂

[@nonom5659]

How come

[@Lu_visionprod]

Been close to 2 months and it still hurts as much as the day she ended everything and I still haven’t lost hope I really hope that this breakup is something that just happened to get us to grow more as people and someday we find our way back to each other

[@BradBrowning]

You're on the right channel to try to make that happen. Don't forget to check out my other videos especially this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e3Smi6CVotatgck or check out my Ex Factor Guide 2.0 at www.breakupbrad.com/ so you'll know what to do next after the 30-day "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk Best of luck!

[@chajavier3865]

Claiming and Manifesting this!! ✨

[@BradBrowning]

If you see a ton of these signs and it's for the highest good of all, it can happen! :-)

[@Felicia-c2x]

K.A.H see you later 🎉❤❤🎉

[@RebelGoku13]

I just watched this video and I have to say this made me realize why me and my woman broke up, remained friends, went on trips together and went on dates, and I still have hope. I definitely have to say she’s worth it to go all out for.

[@BradBrowning]

Glad you found it helpful! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: kzbin.info”

[@Amctothemoon]

I think you have to have self belief , stop being needy and desperate and have some self worth When we get rejected we loose something , but eventually we realise we’ve actually gained It’s not easy I’ve been there a few times , the best thing to do is accept it , it’s life and life goes on You have to seriously seriously ask your self this question “” why do I want to get back with my ex “ Is it the comfort of being with them , because I can tell you , if you think you miss them your lying to yourself , you miss the idea of them , it’s a fantasy of what you wanted , you put ideas , notions and make up dreams and scenarios that are not real and end up torturing yourself and having anxiety attacks Best thing to do is change the story , change your mind set and believe that your the best out there , give some self love , get back up and remember this They wasn’t yours it was just your turn They had relationships before you and after you and so will you , invest in yourself , think like a boss , have self belief and never ever ever ever put some on a pedestal, you are star in your movie don’t let some one replace you as a star

[@BradBrowning]

That is a healthy way of coping, yes, especially if your ex is uncooperative or rebounding all over the place. You can't make someone choose you. You have to choose yourself first. This is where self love comes in.

[@adamladz0859]

Me and my ex girlfriend broke up 4 days ago, and i still want her back to me cause i love her so much and I want to marry her and build a family with her , that's the reason I'm here, I'm still hoping she will come back to me.

[@BradBrowning]

I understand, man. This is what my channel is for. This vid should hopefully help you see things clearly about the importance of the "no contact" rule as well as the common challenges and how to overcome them: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jYelYZKia5WGpq8 Feel free to check out my other vids as well, especially this which should give you an idea on how to go about this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk For a complete, step-by-step procedure though, consider getting my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!

[@nonom5659]

Any updates

[@rudyhonor4813]

Her Family doesn't like me 😅💔

[@BradBrowning]

That's a bummer. Sorry, man.

[@muffinlovin]

X's are X's for a reason. You can't open up the same book & expect a different ending. People do infact change but it's just better to move forward otherwise your only cheating yourself on the next potential soulmate. Everyone you meet in life is for a reason, If it didn't work out... it was never gods plan. Let go & release your burdens.

[@BradBrowning]

I understand what you're saying, but each person has his/her own reasons for why they either choose to get back together with an ex or let go totally. You can't speak for them because it's their life, not yours to decide. Granted, not all relationships are meant to be salvaged, especially abusive ones and/or one that involve numerous instances of infidelity, but some are worth saving. This all depends on what kind of relationship you have and if you decide to move on or fight for it. There is no wrong answer on whatever your decision is. :-) Anyway thanks for your input!

[@paballomophuthing8991]

Hey Brad I've been on and off with my partner for 3 months, we were great whenever we are physically together but over the phone we would always miscommunication, we had two break ups due to his friends saying things about me being a wh*re, his childhood friends have said he loves me and I love him too but he just failed to communicate with me or talk to me about anything related to his feelings, in the end he said I should leave him alone forever then blocked me, but i think about him everyday, I cry sometimes over him, he now ignores me and I saw him some days ago and his friend helped me and him talk but he still doesn't want to tell me what happened between us but I still feel like he still loves me

[@BradBrowning]

Perhaps he's not comfortable talking about his feelings over the phone? He is able to share his feelings when you're together physically though, right? Or are you saying he's overall just emotionally closed off? Since your situation may be unique, you'd benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@alexroden1461]

I broke up with my ex 11 years ago because I found out he cheated on my from my best friend it really broke my heart

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that. But good call for standing up for yourself!

[@rettjohnson7495]

Thank you Thank you my man! Realize that my ex isn’t for me after this. Only had 2 maybe 3 of these. Been agonizing over it for awhile now. Moving on and upwards! 😁

[@BradBrowning]

Now you're free. Now go live your best life! :-)

[@DarcyTheManstop]

I broke up with my ex in october 2021. I haven’t had any game this year. I still dream about and tbh I really miss her.

[@BradBrowning]

Are you both single? Watch this first to help set your expectations: y2u.be/82uUJ7kPXhE and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b32mYpitnKeef7M If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI and the golden rules here: y2u.be/1kJ1ybuFIHE

[@ericaroundtheworld]

He said he didn't feel love. I have been neglecting his love for 6-7 years. I use my travel as my ultimate protection that I can meet my friends n talk lightly. Whereas seeing him is staying home n resting. I went on my individualist mode n forgot to disarm it. Not going to lie, anywhere I go I only think about him. I wish he is around. He is there with me. N I never planned on accepting, flirting , meeting other guys . Not once in all the years. My heart is committed to him but my legs and arms are not . I always know I lose him I'll be so regret but at the same time I know someone would be so so so happy to be with him. I'm feeling a mess. We broke up already a year ago. He even stated that it was before that our relationship got so wobbly. He was alone in a new country n I didn't go see him often but I went to see my friends here and there. I can't even forgive myself. Action speaks louder than words. Even when we broke up in April 2021. I didn't come back to find him right away. I continued to travel n continue for another 4 months before I can't hold it anymore I really miss him n I came back. I cried everyday everynight in my trip. Thinking about him day in day out. That was ridiculous. Really ridiculous. He didn't feel love. Although he said he still attracted to me that was 3 months after we broke up. In July ( maybe not now) cuz he is seeing someone already. At first we still meet each other . But i decided this isn't leading anywhere and it really hurt my feeling . So I tried to stay away . Only text him and not asking for any reply in return .our conversation only limited to hi good morning . I didn't even say happy birthday to him which I know he cares about that kind of things .again I was trying to limit myself . I recently texted him he revealed that he is seeing someone . So texting won't be appropriated. He added . He didn't feel love. It is not my fault . Nothing I would have done before or after coming back would change that. My heart will forever leave a mark. It is very very painful . I felt that all the relationship book I read was rubbish those giving time for ur partner . Trust security independence. All u need is to see what ur partner need and listen patiently . Not like me. After being single and finally attracted to someone and went on an independent mode . Force my bf to accept I am not always around (due to my job nature and we are living in different countries but I am able to fly over to see him ) now everytime I see a picture of me and my friend or the trips I took it reminds me the time I would have been with him . Why didn't I . I could at least go seeing him more often. At least double bit like twice a year towards the end of the relationship.

[@BradBrowning]

I guess you've pretty much made up your mind? Thanks for sharing your story!

[@justinevo6625]

Its been three days since the break up we decided not to have contact for about six months and meet up or call after we both said we now there is a high change we find eachother again after some time in life. I hope we can be together but dont want have false hope. Deep inside i know we are meant to be. We have been together for eight years.

[@BradBrowning]

You could be right. 8 years is a long time and I'm sure you two had overcame your fair share of trials in the relationship... so what happened? More often than not, giving each other space can help you two calm down, miss each other and try to see where you both went wrong and whether or not the issues within your relationship can be resolved or not. On your end, be sure to keep these things in mind, too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pZPTh3t9mrOrgNU

[@matthewmauran9453]

I just feel hopeless and lost. I can and have done no contact beyond on that I am so depressed. I can't get myself to do anything. If I go out in public I just cry. I actually gave my best effort of My Lifetime in my last relationship and it wasn't enough. I did truly Love her and I would have done anything for her. It was never enough. I just feel so empty and lost. I have NO HOPE that we can get back together because of one issue that can never be resolved.

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that, man. Healing does take time. If you're sure there's absolutely zero chances, then this video is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZmLap3-Jlrhslas And if you're still having a hard time, this should help you understand why in order to understand what you're going through: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aHTEnIKFiNx8n7s

[@alliecat6342]

Me and my ex bf got back together 2 months ago after he was in a 2 month rebound. He came back talking marriage and everything. We are meant to be.

[@BradBrowning]

Nice! Congrats! :-)

[@amol8280]

Your advices are so damn effective that i have employed them in year 2020 when i had a break up after a very short period of relationship and they have worked really well for me especially one on 'No Contact Rule' that she chased to get me back. We started again after 1 and half year. Now she broke up again recently 2 weeks back and this time it is after bit longer time serious relationship. I am using No Contact currently as i want her back, cause now i see my soulmate in her. During this tough time i have been following your Chanel as i am pretty much confident that your ways of handling such situations are way more effective and practical. Today i came across this video and trust me among 8 signs 7 signs perfectly match in my case. I am so happy to know about that. During this hard time your videos give me so much strength. Thank you so much Brad. Love from India 🙏

[@BradBrowning]

You're welcome! And thanks for commenting. To add, an on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!

[@mwarrior5245]

I really hope she watches this

[@BradBrowning]

Hi! Thanks for dropping by.

[@神のご加護をいつも祈って笑う]

Trust God and his plan.

[@LevLafayette]

.... but tether your camel.

[@BradBrowning]

Everything happens for a reason, indeed. So learn your lessons to grow into a better version of yourself and if your ex is meant to fall in your path again, she would've learned her lessons too an she will come in correct, especially if she dumped you first/left you for someone else, etc. Know your worth so your ex or whoever is meant for you will see that worth, too.

[@yolenda_loves_to_sing]

Exactly!!!! This is what I need to hear right now. You made me tear up. Thank you so much for the reminder.

[@Creamiexp]

Watching this gives me hope. My ex broke up with me almost two weeks ago. We had many deep talks since and are friends. I can’t shake off the feeling that theres more to our story. He broke up me because he needed to establish himself more careerwise and resolve some of his issues - at least thats what he told me. Also that he needs to do this alone. He has told me he doesn’t get back with exes and yet tells me he cares very deeply about me and holds a special place in his heart for me. We still hang out once in a while and call at least once a week. Is it wrong for me to hope we’ll get back together?

[@BradBrowning]

There's always room for hope. However, you have to be realistic about the situation so you won't be hanging onto false hope or letting a good chance pass by. Each situation is unique so in terms of chances, it just really depends. Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. Discussed that here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKariHaNmqxkrtU However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my new version of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas and the golden rules here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z5ytYqyYqqt8fqc or hire me as your coach and let's get this sorted at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@michaeltrace3545]

Hey Brad, i broke up with my girlfriend almost 4 weeks ago, and we have been dating for almost 3 years. I’ve been doing the no contact thing and her friend actually reached out to me saying she wants to talk once she’s back at the college we both go to. What should I do with this conversation? I was gonna go into it with no expectations and to see what she had to say. After that, I was going to go with the flow because I do love her so much, sometimes even thinking she might be the one. Time cannot move more slowly haha but definitely just gotta keep my mind occupied for the time being

[@BradBrowning]

Cool! This is a topic I've discussed here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/m3uzeKWhqraho5I

[@TheOrphen92]

How it went?

[@deeppurple883]

Hang tight.

[@nonom5659]

How did it go

[@q8nkwani7]

we broke up 7 times now they wanna be friends so bad.. it’s exhausting

[@BradBrowning]

Watch this first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqfClJ2wnbt-d7s

[@AresActual]

Like 6 of these apply to my last relationship, which is crazy because it was a short relationship and the breakup was mutual. This no contact thing sucks!

[@BradBrowning]

Yes it sucks but it's what's best for both of you in the long run. Get back to yourself first before considering a relationship, yeah?

[@elly929]

My ex bf come back after 5 years n what to marry me He made some feelings commeback I'm confused happy but very scared, plz help me up , what I should I do,😐 I'm so so confused

[@tia2435]

We’ve been spoke many times, and hang out now 2,5 years after our breakup. We tried to make it work again for 3 months, but realized, that it was not the time. Afterwards we are still hanging out alot and the things didn’t change. It’s still the same chemistry, same connection, and I’ve been told, that “you should never say, we are never ever getting back together.” Is that right? Are these 7 words that dangerous? And can the oposite be proven?

[@BradBrowning]

It really boils down to the intent of both parties. If you trust what your ex is saying, then go along with it but be careful of being strung along at this point. Why is it not the right time after all these years if you still have the same chemistry and connection though? Hopefully your ex isn't already involved with someone else?

[@adamz6158]

my 4 years rs with my gf was perfect. we were in LOVE love and suddenly when she went overseas for 2 years studies. she told me she couldnt do LDR because of the commitment. does she really love me?

[@BradBrowning]

Love is one thing... making a relationship work is another. A long distance is not easy to maintain, especially if you two had a weak foundation where you don't get to spend time with each other much in person. Not to state the obvious, but the distance is often the main culprit. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYK8ZYFmadqpqqM and/or kzbin.info/www/bejne/a5_JiIWAh9ehd9U However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@BoxStateK]

I wasn’t doing the best for myself or my relationship. Now I feel like I have to earn respect back but it feels like I’m damn near single

[@BradBrowning]

Like they say, respect is earned.

[@SkoolieThreeHundred]

I miss my girl. She broke up wit me March 7. We been together for 8yrs. I can’t call her an ex bc the feeling is just too strong. I should’ve married her but some turbulence had happen on both planes ya know? I never slept with another woman on and off breaks I always saved myself for her bc I knew if I ever slept around I couldn’t look her in the eyes or lay next to her. She pushed me and inspired me to do really dope things. I recently got a job at Warner Bros and it sucked bc she wasn’t around for me to share that news with her… I won’t say I didn’t do anything to her bc I did a lot. I put us thru a lot of financial hardships, I was mean at times, I was an emotional rollercoaster and bled on her when all she did was make sure I was okay. This shit hurts me to the core bc all she ever wanted was my affection. She didn’t care about the car I drove, where I lived, what clothes I had, all she wanted and cared about was me 🥹 I feel sooooooo stupid and embarrassed. I miss her every single day. She is always on my mind. We share a phone plan together and by the grace of God she hasn’t turned my line off but she is still very upset with me, well angry more than upset. She seems all over the place wit her emotions to really be optimistic or pessimistic for that matter. but she moved back to her mothers and hasn’t seen me since she left March 7th. She works 10min away from our condo but travels 70miles from her mothers to get to work. We have tattoos of each other’s names and neither of us have removed or covered it up well I’d like to hope she still has me. We talk in email bc I’m blocked on everything including my number . I should really see a therapist LOL apart of me think there’s another man involved but apart of me knows that’s my fears talking. I know it was my leadership and lack of affection being reciprocated is to why she finally decided to leave. I want another chance with her sooooo bad. I keep pushing her further wit emails bc she’s the only friend I really had. I’m still in love and I know this shit won’t go away for a very very long time. I wish she knew how much she really meant to me. I had 8yrs to show her and I blew it. I did a few things here and there but I always put my career first and now that shit is opening up? None of it feels the same without her. I wish she’d stop being mad at me and love me again so I can love the shit out of her correctly. 😔

[@maya511]

I just want to stop thinking about him and not be triggered anymore. I'm so tired of the obsessive thinking

[@BradBrowning]

It's a process so be patient with yourself. Try not to resist thoughts of him but do take time to accept the breakup first. IF you want to move on, you will eventually think about him less and less as you get busy with other important things going on in your life.

[@crazymonkey1215]

Me and my girl broke up on good terms, we made eachother happy, had a good bond and fun, but in the end, we had different values and lifestyles and she thought we wasn’t suited for eachother, and my lack of experience and maturity made me make silly mistakes like overthinking which overwhelmed her and made her back away slowly. Its been 5 months no contact and thought a letter where i take accountability for my silly mistakes, tell her what i’ve been up to and how worked on myself a lot and ask her if she’d be open to getting back in touch and catching up with one another again would be good being as a letter seemed a bit more authentic and thoughtful rather than a random call or text after 5 months. Im not hoping or expecting the letter to work instantly but thought it could be a start maybe. This sound like a good idea to anybody or not??

[@snoopkionl3643]

hey bro i’m going through this exact situation right now

[@crazymonkey1215]

@@snoopkionl3643 i feel you man it really is a shit situation. Since posting this i’ve decided to not bother with the letter, im just gonna work on becoming a better person. Working out, working on mental health, making moves to my career, and im going to rome next month to sightsee with friends. And then i’ll see where my heads at in a couple months. I might not want her by then. but if I did i’d just reach out with a simple text and see if we can get anything going. But only if I had moved on otherwise getting possibly rejected would just cause More pain if I wasn’t over her.

[@crazymonkey1215]

@@snoopkionl3643 just gotta be strong.

[@rickhoward1516]

No a letter is a bad idea. Work on the things that you know made her lose attraction and be confident going forward without her. She will be curious and check up on you after time and she will notice the new you. That is when she will reach out if she still has feelings. Don’t send the letter.

[@ab85main73]

No

[@adamgibson970]

Hi 👋 ive broke up with my gf by giving a girl my snap cause my bro like that girl and his phone is broken but shes thinks that im cheating on her but i gave her mu reason but she wouldn't belive me and now idthk were freinds anymore but i miss her soo much how can i get her back.

[@buringblazes11]

His family was my family and this probably hurt me the most when he dumped me.

[@BradBrowning]

I hear you. Yes, it does hurt a lot because those ties get severed as well, for your own healing. Stay strong!

[@lyndsayboyd7218]

Over 12 years later & I still love him. I can’t get him out of my head. He’s the only one that ever made me feel loved. He supported me in my goals & always had my back. We just started talking again as friends, but I did admit to him that I’m still in love with him. He told me that I was his last relationship & he misses me too. The problem is I’m in a current relationship (we’re drifting apart though), & we live in separate states. I’m still holding onto hope that I’ll see him again one day, even if we don’t get back together. I think I’m more in love with him now than I was 12+ years ago❤

[@BradBrowning]

It's best to test the waters first, especially after a lot of time apart so be sure to take things slow. Be careful though, as pining over someone for that long especially if you're in another relationship isn't exactly healthy. It's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: kzbin.info/www/bejne/j4e5mo2jjperZqs and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!

[@deanf3762]

Hey brad i really appreciate all your hard work on these videos. Id love some one on one advice from ya on a what has been a roller coaster of a break up. I sent a request for coaching but never got a response. Thanks man keep up all the great work you do.

[@BradBrowning]

You're welcome. Once you've successfully signed up, you should be sent a coaching form. If you're having trouble accessing it, please contact support at [e-mail]

[@danielbrown8602]

I'm a truck driver and not home very often. Well an old friend she wanted years ago popped into the picture and they had an evening together. She claims nothing happened. But she still wanted to end it after dating over a year. She also says that him and her could never be together. I need to follow the no contact rule. But I did score a 75. Hopefully she will come back.

[@BradBrowning]

Try to put your focus elsewhere (best to put focus back to yourself) because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXyoZ6GYaZKhmqM Watch this, too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/inPXk2ZqnN5psNk This should hopefully get you back on track with what you ought to be doing during this time: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pZOleqeqhriUoZY

[@dbehdadfar]

It was always on and off with her but the last time we broke up was about a year ago and since then we only spoke one time , i reached out to her she answered but it was a cold and cordial conversation, even though we became toxic for eachother but we loved eachother deeply and the major issue has been the physical distance between us . I’m still in love with her, on the surface it seems like she has moved on to another relationship but sometimes she sends mixed signals on her social media and its clear that they are for me. I tried to move on and forget her but i can’t i still love her. I don’t know if we ever gonna be together again or she has completely moved on and I’m being delusional and not accepting the facts , but mostly it’s because she does some stuff that make me feel like she still thinks of me too . I saw her typing few times on our chat and not sending any messages, i saw her putting a screenshot of our song on her page. My only wish is to get a clear answer and get out of these uncertainties. the pain i feel it’s unbearable and depressing pray for me guys ! God bless y’all

[@BradBrowning]

You can still love her, but make it a point to love yourself more and don't take that less than what you deserved, especially if you've tried and played your cards right yet still met with resistance. Just to keep the facts straight, the distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary, for example? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYK8ZYFmadqpqqM AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/a5_JiIWAh9ehd9U However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@AyooBossGIrl]

Starts watching video! Looses all hope on the first tip “ if the family likes you” oh well looks like he’s gone 😂

[@BradBrowning]

It's not really a dealbreaker, just a bonus if you have these! :-)

[@stevet7506]

Hey Brad. We have all the things except the physical attraction is borderline for me. The sex was great but our libidos are different too. Long term, I sense both of these would wane. Everything else was great and our mental and emotional connection was on a completely different level. She is the best partner I've had by a long shot and she is also 7 years younger than I. What do you think?

[@zekiah7]

Sir, your age gap is really concerning.

[@carmoncore]

My ex broke up with me yesterday, and told me that he hadn’t wanted to stay with me after three months. We were together for seven. I miss him terribly. I was willing to do anything and everything for him… but he doesn’t love me. I feel unsure about what to do. I want to be with him so badly but only if he’s able to regain my trust. We had such a good and healthy relationship, sex life, and more. I think is having to go long distance towards the end really took a toll on us. I just feel so heartbroken, and unsure about what to do.

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that. Would you really want to be with someone who doesn't love you though? Cut off contact first. I suggest you stop forcing things. Try to have self discipline and remember, love should never be forced. Otherwise it becomes an obsession, so be very careful of going that route. If your ex dumped you and showed you he/she doesn't want to be in your life at the moment, you ought to respect that, okay? For most dumpees that is the case. It doesn't mean that will be the case forever but at the moment, it surely is, so respect your ex's need for space and have some self discipline. Focus on yourself instead. Okay? This vid is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jYelYZKia5WGpq8

[@carmoncore]

@@BradBrowning thank you for the advice and the video. I think it’s strange because he told me today that he wants us to be the way we were before, but friends instead. I hate the mixed messages he’s giving me, so I’m going to do the no contact until we eventually have to see each other again in August. I want someone in my life that loves me wholly, and understand that at this point in time he doesn’t want me the way I want him. Things will work themselves out and I will find the right one eventually. I just don’t know how to address this strange friendship-not-friendship thing with him.

[@hubsanrcproductions7222]

There is one more thing that I would like to methoned, Brad, and that is the other day I went to my ex girlfriend's house to have a chat with her Mom on her front porch. Kathy, which is her Mom, said that her daughter is still apparently pissed off at me for some of the things I said, and the way I acted. I cannot believe my ex would still be mad at me for something that happened over a full year ago...SMH

[@BradBrowning]

That should be a red flag. Someone who holds resentment is not healthy. She has to learn how to process that on her own unfortunately, you can't do anything about it. It's her choice.Whatever the case may be, give it time and work on yourself. Stop trying to connect with your ex's fam members. No contact means zero contact. You each focus on your own lives, all right?

[@di114n2]

My partner pushed me to do better and I pushed back alot of the things I needed to do . Thats part of the reason she ended things . She felt like she was holding me back

[@BradBrowning]

If you do have to make some changes, then do it for yourself and never for anyone else, okay? See, making changes for the sake of someone is considered seeking validation, and that's an unattractive trait in and of itself… so it naturally won't do anything to rebuild the attraction necessary to get your ex back in the long run. On the other hand, if these are changes that you know within yourself that you need to make, then it's important to take time so be sure you aren’t rushing it because permanent, lasting changes don't happen overnight and your ex can actually see through it. Also, pain (that's why your ex dumped you) is a very good teacher and motivator not to mention a huge catalyst, so making these changes within yourself in order for the possibility to come back together stronger and better is what you can expect and you will be able to use this progress if not for your ex, then with someone new. Does that make sense? With that in mind, watch this vid to subtly show these changes to your ex: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mIuUfJiqdrGNqMU

[@paviitthra]

Hi brad, please help me out I m literally crying everyday. It kinda hurts. My boyfriend said he doesn’t want the relationship now due to career snd lack of decision making but has no problem with me however we ll see if things workout later. :( we were together 3+ years

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that. This vid is for you and may help you get a better understanding as to what's going on: kzbin.info/www/bejne/j6m6imhtjaiiq9E