How We Deal With Haters & Racist Comments | Podcast Ep 002

[@rodweinmeyer1435]

You two do not deserve ANY hate. Especially from basement dwelling keyboard junkies. Your reactions have been a joy and enlightening watch for all. Thank You. 🇨🇦🇨🇦

[@Imru_gamer]

💯💯

[@LordEagle]

Lex,,,,during Mony Mony,,,,,classic. 💥💥💥👍🤪

[@tilemonkee5510]

Go,Canada!! ❤❤ As a Canadian, who lives up north ,where black people are still a rarity, I always wonder what a black person might be thinking in the Tim Hortons line...they often have this look,like, why are people staring?! I wish I could tell them that most of the people are simply looking for an opportunity to be helpful, because they are trying to prove that they are Not racist. Enjoy the love and welcome to Canada!❤

[@tilemonkee5510]

@@808bear2 why WOULD you choose to point that out? Just to be hateful? Men and women are different....big revelation...

[@rodweinmeyer1435]

@@808bear2 I see Brad following the lyrics and looking for the meaning and overall what the song is trying to say, and sometimes over thinking and Lex reacts more to the feel of a song. I could be wrong. I enjoy watching them dive into music and being real about it. It has been a pleasure and I wish them the best.🇨🇦🇨🇦

[@mayorstoner3459]

Just keep in mind, for every "hater" there is 10,000 reasonable people that enjoy what you do. And, I think Lex's freckles are adorable!!

[@JefferySwan-sg2wv]

Right 👍 embrace it

[@darren6202]

Yes they are adorable :D

[@TheTheratfarmer]

yes, lol. I am native American, get treated the same way.

[@Prodigal1]

How could anybody hate either one of you. I am a 61 yr old white guy and watching you both and now with Jack, gives me hope for this country’s future. I wish you were my neighbors.

[@compostcorner5934]

Same ..I'm white , 62 from the UK and I take as I find ..good person 👍 Bad 👎no matter what colour

[@Nutty_commenter]

Hell yes!

[@HillbillyWhisperer63]

Yep, 60 year old white man here. Love you guys!

[@Chavalito63]

I think u guys are great keep up the good work👍🏼

[@annereidy7981]

Me too, much faith in these two real people.

[@jackiebowles5774]

Lex is precious ❤ I think the two of you are down to earth and very likable people. I would love to have you as neighbors ❤❤❤❤

[@robwalker3417]

What is there to hate? You both seem like genuinely nice people. I think some folks hate on others because they feel inadequate in themselves, sad.

[@kutark]

Blows my mind. They're both such good people. I think it's like he said at the start, it's just people who are either having bad days, or are just flat out piece of shit people who have to spew their bullshit everywhere to make themselves feel better.

[@jksmith7011]

Stupid people in this world

[@robertfindley921]

I was about to say the same thing. Makes no sense at all. Two of the nicest, most charming, genuine people on the internet.

[@Pietervandebuurt]

Those reactors are just ignorant and living in there own bubble, thinking everyone should think like them.

[@robwalker3417]

@@Pietervandebuurt Do you need a hug?

[@KarlRKaiser]

Here's how I see it: think of the hater as a dog barking at you behind a fence when you walk down the street. We don't worry about the dog barking, or take it personally. I love watching you two discover the music I loved when I was a teenager, seeing your wonder and how you grow in your understanding of other culture and art forms.

[@Lalaloveseveryone]

I LOVE that analogy! I will use this in my own life😊

[@looneygardener]

Ignorance is heartbreaking. Imagine how it feels to be a hater! Horrible life. Detached compassion. Fight hate with love.

[@drgwhatsthetruth3783]

I'm an ol' southern white boy...I love this channel and with the blood of Christ, bless you all. All love here

[@redeemed2517]

Amen, brother!

[@horrorqueen-ze9tm]

I literally just clicked on this and I'm already pissed to see that you two have to deal with any kind of hate. Y'all are so sweet and have been a blast to watch the last couple of years. I'm honoured that I have been able to watch the two of you grow and blossom not only as content creators but as individuals. Much love to y'all.

[@larrybuckner8619]

I like that comment a lot! 😎 Brad and Lex are some genuinely good people.

[@BradAndLex]

Awww thank you and everyone that liked it! 🫶

[@marioducoudray9695]

Brad and Lex, you guys are an amazing team. Your partnership will be legendary one day. You’re already on your way! 🥂

[@BradAndLex]

Thank you for the kind comment ❤️🙏🏽😩

[@jbs2763]

Who could hate y’all? Y’all are adorable! So is your kiddo!

[@BradAndLex]

Thank you ❤️🥹

[@DrKendoCommentaries]

This is the thing I feel, as a creator here as well on KZbin, that other content creators aren't honest about - but the two of you *are* being honest here, which is refreshing. But I think many other Creators are just talking about how they aren't affected by the negative commenters or they say stuff like "Just don't read the comments," but sometimes those same types of people are angrily posting on Twitter or elsewhere about a hater's comment. I agree with Brad discussing the idea that a hater is having a bad day/life on the other side of that screen, but I have a hard time jumping to the healing step where you can then dismiss that hateful comment...my first thought becomes "Well if they're having a bad day they shouldn't take that out on me. I didn't actually do anything to them so why come hate on me for a really poor reason?" I hope to evolve myself to get to that step of healing like Brad! Great job, guys!

[@robertstenger2837]

Shocks me that you have haters. You both seem so kind and freindly

[@tonyponchopeters]

I was just about to write that tbh. They have never done anything to deserve any hate.

[@craigwright2977]

So happy to see the outpouring of love and support in the comments. Nothing but positive vibes from here. There are always going to be haters (and hatred). But I hope you both know that the overwhelming majority of people are decent and caring and love what you do.

[@lethasatterfield9615]

You guys have been entertaining me and charming me for about 2 years now. Don't let trolls screw with your head.

[@waynegray1380]

The only reason anyone would hate you is because you are real. The world is full of phonies and wannabes. Just keep being yourself, that's what we love about you!

[@user-ot1eb6mt4k]

Hate takes to much energy to sustain and ends up destroying the person who spreads it. Stay true to yourself and stay on the path of empathy.

[@funnybunny81]

👏

[@heathcornbeef]

I do a lot of my work in prisons and I've said to prisoners that I'm to lazy to walk around with a stornch attitude it's easier to just walk by and say kia ora hello cuzzie how are you and get on with your day

[@moonwind6303]

Remember for every hater there is much more people that really like and are behind you. Don't let haters get under your skin. Just try to ignore them and leave them with their hate. Sending lots of love from here. ❤

[@randybowers1236]

I'm an old white guy but I love you guys discovering our music.

[@gabrielmcdonnell8699]

I just wish that sentiment was reciprocal.

[@LuNaaaaaR]

Haters are sad people that need to deflect their anger etc onto someone else. You guys have such dignity and class ❤

[@mickdarcy3063]

Brad, I applaud your kindness. Some folks are having a bad day. Some people get their rocks off insulting others.

[@leob4403]

Are they not allowed to not like his vibe though? Is that an insult to not like someone's vibe?

[@TLF1]

Ignore the hatets. Just listen to the positive comments only.

[@shelbie2490]

People can be the absolute worst!! I love you guys.

[@BradAndLex]

❤️❤️❤️

[@bills.3306]

Hi Guys... How could anyone with any humanity in them hate you guys..?. Brad, you are intelligent, good natured and open minded... Lex is one of the cutest girls I've ever seen and now we know she has freckles... Lmao...😂 I was raised in the 60's and 70's when musicians had REAL TALENT...! You guys are on the right track... KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK...!!

[@chrishall7258]

having haters means you are doing well in life, congratulations for that!

[@thomasbailey3511]

You two have always been so secure together can't believe this is even a discussion for both of you Hope You and little Jack are living a healthy happy life together You two rock!✌

[@johnroberts5637]

Just try and remember, if you let a hater get under your skin, they win. Never let them win.

[@g.e.5723]

Haters must be jealous. 64yo white guy here, the 2 of you are the most laid back, gentle, non confrontational couple on YT. Ignore haters.

[@stortebeker6464]

"Maybe they have a bad life." Yes, that is one of many explanations. And then blame others for their own situation, not themselves. But even people who are actually fine can be hateful. Nice to have you back. Miss Your reactions. Greetings from Germany

[@Lusciouslysorry]

I used to dislike Brad. But now I like Brad. Always loved Lex.

[@martinmcdoniel4551]

Just know haters will hate! they are miserable in their daily lives and they try to make it bad for everyone else! I love y'all and your true fans will never hate! God Bless you both!

[@nealcopeland9]

Exactly! Just think if the ppl that have hate could turn it into love ❤️.. how our country or the whole world would be so much better!

[@leob4403]

​@@nealcopeland9how about loving mother nature, and then a person can be a self loving narcissist, does that count?

[@Philly4Really]

I'm sorry you all have to deal with haters and racism. It's absurd. You both are great people and you provide a light for a lot of folks. The internet is trash!! Don't let the haters get you down. 🏆

[@dailyreactive]

I am white European and found by travelling that racism seems to be a territorial thing. When you really think about it logically, racism is just complete nonsense.

[@babaganoosh1969]

As a white person...it's great to see you 2 again..hope the baby is doing well...I've had a horrible life and would never treat another human being like garbage..that's beyond a bad day...that's a state of mind...I personally like the opposing views Brad and Lex bring to the table..shows not everybody has the same opinion...stay positive

[@ddwchamp]

Brad & lex, the 2 of you have brought nothing but joy, education, and laughter to our lives. I missed the reaction. Music is one of the arts that brings us together. Thank you for making the world a better place to live. Love ya!

[@sheronoswaldoguzmanocamp-tv2xm]

U guys rock... Dont let no one bring u down...!!

[@lynnsheldon6522]

agreed,

[@daddyguerrero]

I love you guys🥰 You’re honest and genuine, the kind of people anyone can get along with and be friends. You’ve provided me with so much joy and laughter over the years, that I couldn’t wait for your next post, especially when it was CCR and I knew Lex was about to lose her mind. I take comfort in knowing that there are more good people like yourselves in this great country than there are haters. And now you’re even great parents!

[@donnapaulson8701]

You guys are so loveable so the haters don't matter. Go where the love is.

[@commanderkorra3316]

My dad always use to say don’t let things get to you. I hate how horrible people can be, just try to stay positive. You are both awesome.

[@dragonlord44]

You guys are too awesome to have to deal with that crap..

[@alegriadj9997]

I've known you guy's since early 2022; never heard any negative comments towards all the couch gang/ Brad after dark baddies. You're amazing, full of love and happiness. I'm pretty sure you two have been an inspiration to other KZbinr reactors. Everyone has hater's weather it be here, work, school, ect... One thing the hater's can never take away from you guy's and that's your positive energy you give to us. Just wanna say thx for making some of my evenings great . Sending love to you three 💯❤️❤️

[@BradAndLex]

Awwww love you Alegria ❤️🥹

[@alegriadj9997]

@@BradAndLex ❤️💯

[@badbob6689]

There are haters out there. I have observer they tend to be stressed will end up with high blood pressure and heart attacks. They kill themselves. You two strike me as genuine good people and I appreciate what you 've done.

[@REDZ28won]

Its 10,000 to 1 People who love you guys compared to those haters. Just ignore them!

[@erichvonaugsburg3698]

Sometimes people just need to be heard and to have some control. You two are perfectly on target. I love to watch you both. Love you !!!

[@mrhyak]

I would have to say I miss the two of you with your reactions. There is a good chemistry here and the different honest takes of the music was fun to see. My daughter had my grandson Rocco just a few weeks before your Jack.....fun times, for me as a grandpa and you as parents. When you put yourself out in the public you will get the small percentage of 'weirdo's' that you just need to be able to ignore. The high percentage of the folks do appreciate what you do here. Keep it up, I'll be watching. =)

[@BradAndLex]

Awww congrats on your grand baby!!!

[@franktyson2275]

I love you two ... have watched all of you're reactions ... simple, just ignore the haters, the lovers are far more in numbers ... they're just sad people!

[@gary17509]

I just cannot believe that you would have any "haters" because you are such a lovely couple.

[@littleogeechee223]

You two are a beautiful, sweet couple with more compassion, love and intelligence than any of those poor excuses for people. They are clearly jealous of a handsome young couple who have more than they will ever have.

[@Surfinn]

I just wanted to say your reaction videos have provided me with so much joy and happiness. I love this channel, and you two don't deserve anything but positivity. Thank you.

[@larindanomikos]

It's tough being in the public eye. Don't let those comments affect you. You are both terrific.

[@wblackjap]

I have been with you both from the beginning and i have got to tell you, you both helped me through the Pandemic your content is on point, there is no hate in either of you! Because you are nice people, haters will be jealous of what you have and lash out at you. let this go over your head and keep doing what you do!

[@sabrinastroud9776]

Who could dislike y'all? Its crazy! I adore both you. Sending much love and care.

[@turfsniffer]

The internet has no filters, it allows folk with issues to express themselves. Don't take it personal....they don't know you or what you're going through, and you don't know them or what they're going through. There's nothing for either you to waste energy over. Compare the love with the hate messages, and put it in perspective. I love y'all from Ireland ❤

[@TheGadgetwiz]

Such a positive message. I wish I was more like Brad and Lex.

[@BradAndLex]

Awww ❤️❤️🥹🫶

[@DavidTate-nn5ie]

You are loved by this Englishman. You are thanked for your contribution in trying to make the world a better place. ❤

[@chitownlee]

How could anybody hate you guy's?!?!

[@markldavis1]

That's a million dollar question!

[@angrychicken6093]

You two have stolen my heart, you are an adorable couple and I hate to hear that anyone sends you guys hate 😢❤

[@tayclarets]

How could anyone say hateful things to two of the sweetest people on the internet. I know you're fine folks in person also. Unfortunately there's hateful folks in this world that are so miserable with their own sorry lives they have to attack good people. In the old words of wisdom, "misery craves company". You two just keep on being who you are!!!!

[@playbassken]

Haters are people who have no life of their own and just take it out on others. That's how sorry their lives are. You two are awesome and haters don't even deserve a reaction, seriously.

[@BootLegJustice]

Individuals that spread hate do so out of ignorance & self loathing, they should try treating others the way they want to be treated! ✌️❤️

[@michellescanlon3218]

Listening to you guys gives me hope. We need a lot more of this in our current society today. I feel like social media has changed that. Your so connected and your videos are a positive energy! That’s very rare today in social media. Keep being you and spreading your positive light❤

[@kimzwolinski9919]

You guy’s always have such positive energy it’s crazy that you get any hate. I used to confront people when I saw people hating on a reactor in comments but I finally realized that is probably exactly what they want. Love you guy’s and your channel’s 😊❤ The one that said Lex should find a rope made me cry. I can’t imagine how it feels to receive that kind of hate. I hope that you realize it’s not about you it’s completely about the stupid ass that made the comment.

[@bridgetharrison103]

😢 Yes I was so upset hearing what someone said about that and I'm so proud of Lex saying if your not that type of person why did you quickly say that. It just hurts so much to hear someone would say that..

[@matthewclark1785]

Right from the jump, Brad is modeling how to put the effort into empathizing with other humans. The effort is the key here. Thank you!

[@harrypothead42024]

I know we all get shift thrown at us from time to time that we didn't deserve and didn't need but, y'all are such sweet and nice people it really makes me feel bad that it happens to you too

[@ElijahPerrin80]

I love how you both... three have changed over the years and how aware you are of others perspective and situation, being able to ignore and smile is a superpower and you will go far.

[@rodglasgow1643]

Anonymity tends to unleash the mean in some folks. So they say things from their keyboard they wouldn't dare to say to your face. You both come across as lovely, kind, insightful, genuine, and incredibly understanding people. Thanks for sharing your light with the rest of us.

[@joshuapridgeon8190]

Your back and forth is why this channel is my favorite. If you don't have any haters you're not really doing anything. Love y'all both.

[@louey2x]

It's very difficult for me to believe how anyone could hate you guys. You both are so great to watch. If more people could be like you two, what a great world it would be. Wish you both the best always.

[@qhl5579]

Lex could be doing voice over work, book readings and such. Love you 3❤❤❤

[@BradAndLex]

Aww thanks 😂 i have never thought about that. Just mukbang, I’ve always wanted to do a mukbang

[@qhl5579]

Hmm, I was thinking ring tones or such for phones to start.🙂

[@big106razor]

Haters gonna hate. I'm glad know you can rise above it. Jealousy and ignorance is usually at the bottom of it. Love you two!

[@RachelinKy]

There are so many people out there with issues, be it mental health or just having a bad life, and take it out on whoever is convenient. I don’t see how anyone could say stuff like that to you guys because you seem so sweet and kind.

[@mike98024]

You guys are the best! If I ever win the lottery you guys are getting a fat check for the joy you gave this old white man.

[@BradAndLex]

Aww that’s so sweet Mike ❤

[@mikek5958]

Put them all on your "pay no mind list." They don't deserve to occupy one second of your time or thoughts so don't give them the satisfaction of thinking they're getting to you and know that the overwhelming majority of us love you guys!

[@Rick-or2kq]

You two are a beautiful young couple with who have been graced with healthy a child, your whole lives are ahead of you, just imagine.

[@dlacou9608]

When they go to your dm, they are hiding from the repercussions from the rest. Freaking trolls for the most part, you guys are great people. Keep doing you❤❤❤❤

[@cecelia1350]

I’m so sorry you two are experiencing this. Know that 99% of your viewers love the two of you.

[@TracyfromNC]

After hearing all this, just keep being yourselves, don't judge, because you haven't thus far, keep on trucking! Keep on being free people and taking care of yourselves and Jack. Love how you both smash assumptions and just be you. EVPOSURE opens all minds!

[@busterclyde]

I'm not a hater- I like you- I like you both- A lot!- Watch and enjoy your videos quite often- Keep going.

[@williamschoettker4559]

LOL!!!!! Actually it was so worth hearing that message. So freaking funny. You are both solid, a great couple and compliment each other very well.

[@BradAndLex]

Thanks so much!! 😅🫶

[@user-bt8vn3dj6o]

Haters will hate. Ignore them, they are not worth your time. The two of you are a class act. I thoroughly enjoy watching your program.

[@christianobrien4465]

I'm a 59 year old white man and I love this channel!! Part of me wants to apologize for these racist comments but it would be like me apologizing for any other human making stupid comments. Y'all are a very nice couple you're interesting and have chosen a very solid repertoire of music to work with over the years and I love it. Hater types will do what they do and I will do what I do that feels right to me.. that is enjoying your content. And I thank you for all you do. God bless you and your young family and I'll pray for many more years of success!! BTW LEX rules❤️

[@jamesbeardslee3903]

I'm older white man STL314 ,Enjoy your reactions !don't trip on your haters ,pray for them . And the racist comments shows their racism ,they put themselves on front street ! God bless the family 🙏❤️

[@MandyZor-El]

I miss you’re music reactions, you were part of the small reaction community that always made my days better when I would come home from a hard day’s work.

[@LoveBandit1000]

When people cannot be constructive they sometimes become destructive...don't sweat it, we love you two!

[@Syzygy77]

Why are people hating on you two? Wtf! You are my favorite reactors. And I wish your family tons of happiness and love.

[@darinswift490]

You both are loved…💙✌️🙂

[@garyatwood-mendez6465]

You’re both awesome, and the fact that you don’t agree about every song makes your channel interesting. Some reactors are too afraid of making people mad, so they just say they like everything. No one likes everything.

[@TheVoxbox13]

👍Well said

[@corynidy958]

People are ridiculous and you shouldn’t believe anything negative on the internet!!!! You guys are awesome and I’m glad you guys channel is still here!!! From a fellow Floridian💪🏽❤️

[@ernestzamora2500]

Brad & Lex, Stay honest and true to your inner selves. Here's a thought, fly high Free Bird! Best of luck from Fabulous Las Vegas Nevada.🎉

[@luvgun1]

The internet is a great thing....but it brings out the worst in people. Glad to see you two. I've enjoyed watching your music reactions over the last couple years. Hope you're doing well ❤️🇨🇦

[@tartancomposer-pw1pe]

Brad &Lex. My wife and I love your reaction videos. We say ignore the haters and racists, they are 'un-evolved' unspiritual people. They have sad, miserable lives. You guys are great and a lovely young couple. Plenty people like you and respect you as human beings. Keep that thought and you'll not get down! 😎👍

[@greggburke3770]

My 2 favorite youtubers. Love this couple! Positivity and sweetness. God bless!

[@danielmarshall3102]

I am very sorry to hear you are experiencing this as well. Other reactions are getting the same and not just music reactions. Some people are expressing outwardly the attitude generated by their own bad experiences and some are just a ...holes. If I don't agree with a reaction I just look for another one. Aside from the reaction your personal connection is very positive and gets totally forgotten by those who dwell on their difference of opinion to the point where they feel need to bully good people.

[@mattslupek7988]

I absolutely love Brad's "they're having a bad day" interpretation. I can't understand how anyone would hate on either of y'all. You both seem so genuine. Usually, if someone insults me on FB for a comment I made, I just basically turn it around on them and say, "That's it? That's the best you got? If you're trying to hurt my feelings, you really got to work on your insults.". I love doing that! LOL

[@Van1973Auken]

Yeah, there are some real idiots out there. We keep coming back for a reason. We love watching you both! Please keep the content coming.

[@Proud.American58]

I can’t even begin to comprehend how you two could even have one hater, let alone plural. Just keep being yourselves and ignore the haters.

[@bluebird3281]

The vast majority of people watching you, love you. Forget the couple of nuts

[@danielbritton8588]

I am taken aback over imagining anyone finding negative on your channel. If there are hateful ones where are all the thumbs downs? I have not seen any for years. On any channel. Maybe bitter people who cannot achieve a relationship? I do not watch anything I do not like. I don't go to concerts just to boo.

[@JeffLanghoff]

love your reactions and you guys litterally helped me get through the pandemic! I've got to watch you guys grow a family , and the remodel of spaces for the last three years. Thank you soooo much for sharing with all us non- haters! Of all the reaction couples you guys are hands down the most fun to watch. Please keep doing them and sharing your experiences with us.

[@fatovamingus]

I'm really glad to see you. When KZbin throws a tantrum you only have to get creative. There's so much joy in beating this particular system. Don't go anywhere keep coming back!

[@lilianafaur8606]

You two with your lovely little son are a beautiful family and the haters don't even deserved your attention. I am a 55 old mum from Austria and I consider myself lucky for knowing you and your reaction channel! Love greetings from Vienna!