BRAND DEAL SELL OUT!

[@freshesttartlet]

I can honestly say I wasn't your biggest fan and didn't really enjoy your vlogs, but man, I have completely changed my opinion recently. Your WhatsUpWoods channel has made me addicted to your vlogs. You seem so happy and comfortable with yourself, and it makes me happy to watch you and Jackson and Cooper. You are just radiating such a good energy (even through a screen!) and you should definitely keep it up. You put yourself completely out there and it's really admirable. Okay, enough cheesiness for today. :) xo

[@CarlieStylez]

Thank you. I appreciate your honestly and genuine feedback. Thank you! Xox

[@Hair101withApril]

Have had some of the comments myself lately. Thanks for being real and trying to explain this! I is something that needed to be said. I am so happy when I see other KZbinrs doing brand deals and providing for their family's and working with good companies to help the companies advertise too. It is a win win. And hopefully we as content creators can be creative enough to show the value of products in an entertaining way so our friends don't dread the "commercials". If only everyone could be happy for other people when they have good things come in their lives it would be s different world. Keep up the good work. You are not a sell out. That cheese is damn good

[@OurFamilyNest]

This was amazing!! I love analogy you used with someone getting a promotion at their job and being offered more money. It is absolutely true and I don't know anyone that would turn down money as long as it fits in with who you are. You've done a great job sticking to who you are and evolving into! Don't give up...even if you do have more babies or go back to school still keep us posted with what's going on! Oh and my family channel is going to be at CVX as "KZbinrs" as well. Hope to meet you!!

[@ladybugg7m39]

I am proud of you Carlie! I support you. Get it Girl!!

[@CarlieStylez]

Thank you Donna! Xox

[@ladybugg7m39]

CarlieStylez Thank you for reply... you know how to make this girl's day ~Donna

[@Jasminalovesyuh001]

I think brand deals are okay if its something you ACTUALLY like. I see so many youtubers (especially beauty gurus) who promote products they don't even use. Don't promote a crappy face wash that you wouldn't dare put on your face and get me to buy it and when I do I break out because its so shitty. If its an okay product and you would actually use it promote it IDC make your money, but if not don't mislead me into spending money on crap.

[@Jasminalovesyuh001]

+makeuploverxo btw this isn't directed at Carlie at all, rather the whole youtube community

[@kristinlong6531]

+makeuploverxo I completely agree!!! I see a lot of beauty gurus do this too. I see them promote certain things and I think there is no way you use that because I NEVER see it in their tutorials lol. ugh it's just frustrating.

[@167johnboy]

Chisholm can think of

[@kdogg907]

👏

[@xHollie92x]

I completely get it, it's your job (an amazing job) and you get to talk about products that you love and get paid for it! Sounds perfect to me.. Go for it! you're not doing anything wrong

[@TheSmithFamilyLife]

I know right, a dream job!

[@mtenhove1878]

I totally get why you do the ads and branding on your videos and social media. That's not the issue. It's when you act like it's not an ad when it is. Just tell us and everyone would respect that so much more. We all support you making money and your hustle. But don't say your eating a romantic meal. And then go sit by the fire with cans of Campbell soup facing the camera. It feels then that you think we're stupid. Just say "this is an ad guys". And we would always support that. Cause your awesome and we love your family and videos.

[@mtenhove1878]

*you're

[@eagoodwin1]

+M Ten Hove I understand your point. However, ads require creativity to capture an audience. Commercials on TV do the same thing. It is good to be honest about when content is an advertisement but it shouldn't offend anyone. It doesn't harm anybody if she doesn't tell you it's an ad.

[@lauriebeabea]

I kinda agree. the only one I've seen her do that irked me was that she was posting them during her honeymoon. I mean do what you have to do but I just felt at the time she was focusing on the wrong thing. I understand it more now but it makes me not respect the brand.

[@eagoodwin1]

It's pretty tasty cheese.

[@heytheresacha]

+M Ten Hove precisely.

[@KatieBurau]

You are a beautiful woman and a great mom, Carlie. Everyone needs to pay the bills and hopefully viewers start to understand how content is funded as more KZbinrs explain. My mom has been in radio sales for my entire life, so I'm also very sensitive to the words, "I hate commercials". My mom always taught me not to bite the hand that feeds me, but not only that, higher quality content isn't possible without it. Keep doing you!! Your strong, smart, beautiful, and people are just jealous! Use those dark times to speak out and teach others. We love you!

[@KatieBurau]

You're not your! Ugh.

[@carlcrusher]

You're a doll Carlie! You are a magnetic force in this world! We adore you, and personally I feel like you are one of the most "real" people online. -J

[@RAVERS0DREAM]

am I the only person who doesn't get upset over brand deals? I would do the same thing if I had the opportunity lol and I think it's awesome. You get to do what you love and have fun for a living. A little ad here and there never hurt anyone. I'm totally jealous. Get that brand deal, make that money! haha

[@RAVERS0DREAM]

Also, I'm just happy so many wonderful people in the KZbin community have decided to share their lives with us, through the good and the bad times. It's nice to see real people dealing with real life things. I would never be able to open up to millions of people like that. The judgmental and rude things people say would get to me.

[@TheSmithFamilyLife]

I agree it's part of the industry and some of the items I enjoy learning about.

[@CarlieStylez]

You're wonderful. Love you!

[@sarahRbesty00]

I don't understand why people get mad about brand deals anymore. If you've been on KZbin since about, I don't know exactly, but like 2008 or 2007, all the creators that were getting more publicity started with brand deals. I never once found them to be a bother unless they took up a majority of a video and disrupted with the original content that that creator had been putting out. Their a source of income and it gives our favorite creators more money and ways to express themselves and give us the content we want. I can understand if a creator was doing nothing but brand deals and not putting out any content that's worth watching, and for me there's a fair share of those KZbinrs that I don't watch anymore for that said reason. But a brand deal here and there for a creator who's very regular about posting original content is nothing and if the creator is good enough, the brand deal will just be another great video to enjoy. I haven't been watching Carlie in a while but that's just because being a senior in college with 20 hours and a full time job leaves no rest for the wicked. But I still enjoy what she creates and don't give a darn what kind of brand deal she does.

[@rain-of6yc]

I think people find it annoying because there doing more and more brand deals than regular videos

[@blablabla96ism]

Let me explain why I got frustrated. In one of Carlie's videos where she shows her new house, she said the basement was unfinished. She went to her basement, and talked about doing a bathroom in the basement in which a hardware store would supply her with the proper tools and her and her dad would make a show out of it. She made a point of saying Lowes or Home Depor would sponsor it, and basically give her free tools that regular people would normally spend their hard earned money on to buy. Her wedding, was mostly sponsored. She made a point of talking about the companies and the people that helped her with her wedding. When she did the brides maids gifts, nearly everything that was given to her was given for free. The state farm video was a bunch of nonsense. The stuff she talked about didn't really make sense with state farm. Nearly every video of hers is sponsored. She's not really a creator, she just vlogs, and most of her vlogs get cut off at the end. She doesn't have an ends slate, or an outro, or much of an intro. I'm sorry if this is offensive to anyone, I just really wanted to put that out there.

[@sarahRbesty00]

blablabla96ism Not offensive at all. I noticed that she's been very half hazard with her vlogs and that's one of the reasons I actually started picking other youtubers to watch when I did have time to kill. Every video of hers I clicked on was a sponsored video I felt like. I didn't keep up with her whole wedding thing so I didn't know anything about how sponsored it was, which is kind of annoying. But, on the other hand, If I was able to build my dream wedding or dream house with the help of sponsors, I'd do it too. But I also would try and create entertainment to go along with it.

[@blablabla96ism]

You should watch Carli's "Will you be my Bridesmaid" video. She talks about "buying" gifts for her bridesmaids, but then she goes on to say that she got in touch with someone who sells little gifts and accessories or something to see if she would hook them up with free stuff. She got personalized stuff sent to her for free, and most of it was useless junk. She talked about her wedding planner BY NAME, and listed at least three people that gave her stuff for her bridesmaid box. Nothing wrong with endorsing a product you love, but I think she over does it. Like, what's it going to be next, someone sponsoring your future house? Oh well. To each their own, I suppose.

[@rain-of6yc]

blablabla96ism carlie jumped my mouth because i asked her didn't you have brand deals in your wedding

[@Visconti14]

What a good way to approach this topic in such a kind and loving way! Keep the brand deals coming! I love seeing what products work for you and trying them out myself! I have watched you from the beginning and will continue to as long as you are putting up content! You're such a beautiful, inspiring women, mother and wife and I hope to have half of the strength and wisdom that you do! Love ya Carlie!

[@CIARAELAINE]

Wow. This was very inspirational and a great way to learn more about you as a new subscriber. Congratulations on how far you've come and I wish you much more success:)

[@CarlieStylez]

Thank you so much!!!!! ❤️❤️

[@mackenziepjwilson]

Ugh Carlie, I am not emotional person but watching this made me tear up when you were talking about you working and not spending a lot of time with cooper. My mom died of cancer when I was 15. And I was so grateful for her to have had the opportunity to stay at home with me and spend time with me when I was a kid. Even though the cheese ads can seem a bit much I respect you for what you do and what you had to do. xox

[@emilywertheim5283]

I'm sorry to hear about your mom

[@VlogEpicness]

+mackenzie wilson Nice post!

[@brookealexandra2745]

WOW CARLIE!!! I honestly saw this on your instagram and was like, meh, it might be horrible and a total rant. I started watching and was honestly surprised by how honest and respectful you were of both us and yourself. You are such a genuine, kind, and caring person. It radiates from your eyes and soul. As you began to talk about working all of those jobs for Cooper and daycare and all, it reminded me of my mother's time as a single mom and our struggles when I was around five to ten. Though it was a long time ago and I'm nearly a high school graduate, I felt for you, and truly connected with you through that. And as you talked about children and going back to school again, not so much the children because I have college and mission to look forward to, but in how much my mom has wanted to return to school and how she felt she wasn't yet finished in that arena as an adult. She returned to school when I was six and I have so much respect for her because of that decision. Besides all of the personal connections I made to you in this video, I am so grateful to see how much you have grown, even from two years ago. You are an amazing human being and what brand wouldn't want to sponsor you? Honestly, you are amazing and I do not think a sponsored video here or there killed anyone. Thank you for being genuine and honest. You inspire me to chase my dreams, as crazy as I sometimes feel for doing it! -Brooke

[@mallorycookman8648]

This is my ALL TIME FAVORITE video that you have done. I respected you beforehand and now my respect has grown even more so for you! You are a role model and someone I highly look up to. It's a shame you have to explain yourself to people, but I'm proud of you that you stood up to the haters and are continuing to be YOU!! That's honorable. Love you!

[@LyssRyann]

Carlie! Hearing you talking about working four jobs & the little time you had with Cooper had me in tears! Your heart is so beautiful!! You're such a wonderful mom!! - I love the way you explained brand deals! You hit the nail on the head! You go girl! :) xo

[@aneisaquinto1580]

Girl don't sweat it... I appreciate you sharing your life and I'm happy when i see that you get brand deals. When connecting with youtubers it's sometimes gaining a new friend and part of being a Good friend is supporting their growth through their journey. This video was great insight for those that don't understand how it all works. I've heard u tell the story about when cooper was a baby in the past and that realness you shared is what made me connect with you.

[@hoohaas4life]

You go girl! You know what annoys the crap out of me? When people don't understand how being a youtuber is a job and in order to make money you need things like advertising, whether its pre-roll ads or a brand deal. So, THANK YOU for explaining this so perfectly for those who may be ignorant to this! Maybe they can now understand now how important those things are to youtubers! You are amazing, and keep doing what your doing girll!!!

[@glammestyle9718]

Jealous is an ugly thing and that's all there is to the haters. Just enjoy your blessed life and know that you can't please everyone all the time. (They shouldn't be following you if they are "annoyed" anyways) move along trolls.

[@CarlieStylez]

You would think that if I was so annoying they would just unsubscribe and move along instead of watching my annoying videos ! Ha. Love you

[@XSTRIKERX100]

yea every youtuber does brand deals but it gets kinda annoying when theres a break in your channel then return with 3 straight brand deals or ig posts, especially when theyre irrelevant products that you wouldnt normally pay for and use. It comes off as your using your viewers for money without even putting 100% effort into your unsponsored videos. If you really put 100% effort into your channel then you have the potential to have millions of subscribers making millions of dollars without brand deals. #AllAboutTheLongTerm #BrandDealsAreShortTermAndPissOffLoyalSubscribers lol.

[@rachelhines2588]

But if you were a loyal subscriber you wouldn't care if Carlie was putting up brand deals or not. Like she's just said these brand deals have been able to keep her in her home and have her dream wedding and be able to let her live. If you don't like it just click off it or skip through it and stop being a jerk

[@XSTRIKERX100]

+Jaclyn Fisher yea and brand deals once in a while dont hurt, as long as your following and preceding them with quality videos that arent brand deals. And a "AD" in the title wouldnt hurt, like the way PointlessBlogTv does it. And hes doing fairly well at this youtube thing.

[@jaylarae7707]

Loving this new consistency from you, girl! I just really enjoy listening to you talk cause you make it so interesting and enjoyable. Even when you talk about religious things (I am not religious at all, but respect everyone who is) I love listening! You're such a great speaker, I am sooo jealous. I hope you find complete happiness and do whatever makes you utterly happy in life. Keep up the amazing work, Carlie :)

[@nicoleb535]

CARLIE!! You have nothing to apologize for or feel bad about. Do not let the negativity get to you. You and all of the Butlers are awesome people and should just keep doing what you do. Started watching Shay and have grown to love the rest of the Butlers very quickly. I still do not understand why people even leave a comment or dislike any videos at all. IF YOU DO NOT LIKE SOMEONE OR SOMETHING THEN DO NOT WATCH. AND, IF YOU CANNOT SAY ANYTHING NICE DO NOT SAY ANYTHING AT ALL. Everyone should strive to live by these rules at all times.

[@LAElyse25]

Do a date night makeup look! And I just want to give you a hug the whole time I watched this because your so strong and always stay true,get them brand deals girl!

[@abbeybroderick47]

Thank you Thank you Thank you!!!! I'm in my third trimester right now and have been struggling with my emotions. I have two other children that are super cute, fun, and loveable. However, very taxing. I needed to hear the "pep talk" for extra motivation. You are an amazing example of never giving up and pushing along! I'm grateful for the spiritual side you share and how you do it in a reverent and respectful way. I absolutely love the way you and Jackson are and the laughs you are able to provide and help me get out of my ruts. Thank you

[@sweettreatsyt]

I'm so early! Love you Carlie :)

[@lizcasey1740]

omg I see you every were

[@FrenchBulldog1]

+Elizabeth Cassity Wouldn't that mean you are at all the same places; and as often....

[@lizcasey1740]

Amber Lynn no I mean on KZbin comments

[@kagreel]

+SweetTreats WHY ARE YOU EVERYWHERE

[@lizcasey1740]

kagreel I know right

[@marylacrosse1432]

Thanks for the video Carlie! Haha, and don't worry about being "so emotional" lol, I cried too just watching. I'm so glad things are better for you now, it's tough hearing about the struggles and short amount of time you were previously able to spend with Cooper. I don't see why some people make such a fit about brand deals, like you said it's an opportunity for YOU. Also find it funny that sex toy companies offer brand deals lol. Please do a house tour, any bits that are seen in the background look great, would love to see everything!

[@paytonkimbrough]

Hey Carlie! I was wondering what happened to the "studio room" you and Kayli rented?

[@Heyyitscdog]

She explained it in her last q and a

[@Heyyitscdog]

I think the video was called talk Thursday: depression. I'm not sure if that is the exact video though I could be wrong.

[@paytonkimbrough]

+Heyyitscdog thanks so much!

[@natalielawyerchick]

I don't see the big deal. Every form of media has marketing in it. No need to get so upset.

[@LALA200325]

I can say by far the thing I really needed to hear tonight. As a now single mother of a little boy, struggling day to day working and wondering if I am going to be able to keep my job day to day because of having no other source of child care, down to wondering day to day what I can come up with just so my son is fed no matter if I eat or not. I can so relate. Thank you so much for the encouraging words.

[@melbleek]

strangely this is one of my favorite videos you've done. You're so honest and genuine and kind. I feel like a mom (even though we're the same age) saying I'm proud of you but I really am! I sincerely congratulate you on how far you've come and I LOVE that you credit the Lord for it! I pray for patience and power for you to be Christ-like every day! Because I believe you are so real in your videos I can say with confidence that even though I don't know you in person I KNOW that you are a wonderful wife, mother and woman

[@briannesteele1285]

It's sad how judgmental people can be, but I love that you chose to educate instead of just ignore! You do you, girl!

[@Pipes23576]

Carlie I am so proud of you! I have been watching you for 3 years and completely support you! Thank you for educating us, it makes me respect you even more.

[@MrsTaylor7]

I am so appreciative of all your hard work, Carlie. I admire single moms A LOT. I have felt privileged to get a peak into your amazing life, though it has been challenging privately at times. What I appreciate most is how you do videos like this one from time to time and just open your beautiful heart. I love your authenticity and tender heart. I don't mind brand deals at all. If it is something that fits my life, I'll look into it. If not, no worries. Keep 'em coming and keep running after your dreams. *muah*

[@Mrs.Mom0910]

I have to say that video did change the way I see you. I honestly didn't know that is how brand deals work. Now when I see you IG posts, I will view it differently then I did before. Thank you for making this video and letting us all know how this works.

[@MissMelanieB759]

I think that content creators can do so much better with brand deals. As a viewer, I SO appreciate when they take a brand deal and turn it into an amazing video that we would love whether it's a brand deal or not. I absolutely understand that this is your livelihood and brand deals are necessary, but to be honest I think you can be more creative with your brand deals. I just realized that I haven't been watching as many as your videos because they don't feel genuine when you do brand deals. I get that you need to do them, and I support that, but I really just think you could make them more interesting then what you have been.

[@happyface654]

You're such a strong and beautiful woman! I really look up to you:) I'm really proud you cleared things up, though I never hated on you for your career.. I learned a lot more from this video and appreciate that you explained everything. Thanks so much for always staying true to yourself, it inspires others to do the same. Love you

[@kellylynn8662]

Girl I wish I could just give you a hug, you hit home for me with all the sacrificed time with Cooper, had the same for 2 years with my daughter, it was VERY hard. Do what you gotta do for you and your family, all the negative comments are just that, comments. None of those people have any real say or impact on what you do for you and your family. Have many babies, have a wonderful happy healthy life. Hey lets both have more babies! ;)

[@stubbs322]

I'm really sorry and I'm not trying to be mean. but does anyone else think her face didn't move at all. like it looks like she can barely blink and move her lips. is she using botox? genuine qst for ppl who might know anything about it?

[@heartsness]

I think it's awesome that you can do brand deals, and there's nothing wrong with being a social media guru, and a living is a living- many of your fans want to do the same thing, people are just jealous and love to hate on others, keep being you girly!!

[@mikalkifer4002]

I'm so proud of you for posting this! I feel you addressed the issue very well! I'm personally loved hearing how KZbin and social media works when you are doing it as a career! I love that you have pushed to go after your dreams and live the life you want to. I am in the same boat have been given an amazing push from you!! Keep doing what you do girl!!!

[@SkatingChik629]

Because of your brand deal for the Vanity Planet Pure Spin, I ordered one last night! I am so excited for it and thankful for your promotion! We love you!

[@sketchanddoodle]

One thing that I know from watching your family's KZbin videos is that you all work hard for what you have. I can see it and I'm sure many others do to. Those who don't see it just haven't been paying attention. Keep the hustle going and don't pay these people no mind.

[@KimTheGoodGirl]

Yes girl! Get those brand deals! ♥♥♥

[@TinaLynnReads]

No matter what I personally think about KZbin advertising, brand deals and ads on social media, I still love you. BECAUSE you are honest to us. You tell the truth and for that, you have my respect and love!

[@thatsmeemilyb4116]

I honestly feel like I'm the only viewer (who's not a youtuber) that actually understands/doesn't mind brand deals and product placement. Honestly who would mind having the opportunity to receive products from some of their favorite companies? IT'S COOL!

[@loveyourgrief8223]

This is such an inspirational video, thank you for sharing. You're such a great example of someone staying true to themselves and working hard for everything that you have! Also, I would love you to do a house tour, so we can all know where you get your cute house decorations!

[@lornawashington9205]

people seem to forget the videos we get to see are a blessing and to be welcomed into your life to share your personal jurney is something we wouldn't get to do without brand deals. x

[@VlogEpicness]

If someone has a brand deal you should be happy for them. That just means that they are able to provide for their family and give you more content. Would you ever be mad at someone if they were just hired at a new job or if they found a new client???

[@caitypaige1765]

I love the new direction your channel is going! And your family channel is already one of my favorites! Keep pushing forward! :)

[@PaigeRoelse]

Love you Carlie. Do YOU. Keep your focus on that and everything else will fall into place!

[@morganpritchett8447]

Carlie your emotion was so genuine, and I really appreciate your honesty, your great ! keep on being you !

[@ohhitskaylee]

I have so much respect for you, I mean i always have but so proud of you for this video!

[@yragduvan]

Today's talk Thursday really opened up my heart not only to you, but to my KZbin channel as well! I'm always uploading content of my life because I'm inspired by everyone I watch on KZbin and I kept losing it on my computer, and never got barely any views, so I always thought to myself "oh ok, so my life is worthless" now I realize that it isn't worthless, because its my life and I uploaded it for my own reasons, and whoever watches it, I respect them, but I'm not gonna be needy over views anymore, thanks for this video Carlie! I love you! You really opened my heart to my KZbin channel today!

[@SashaFitzgerald]

Love you Carlie! Thanks for explaining brand deals, it was very interesting. Wish you all the best!

[@blablabla96ism]

There's nothing wrong with sponsored videos. Sponsored videos are meant to be done in a fun, creative way so that the viewer becomes interested in the product. But simply going to a company and asking them for free things. Not cool. There has to be a balance between creating content, and doing sponsorships not just asking for free things because you normally wouldn't be able to afford it.

[@JustSheilz]

Im sorry but you are NOT a single mom. Your son has a father who is involved in his life. You shared custody. I dont mind brand deals if they are products you actual use and like. But if I see a brand deal one video and then never see it used again....I know its fake and done just because someone paid you to do it.

[@jessicatefft8330]

As a fellow formerly single mom who's been through some struggles and come out the other side in one piece, I just want to say that I teared up right along with you when you talked about working multiple jobs trying to make ends meet, and praying for an answer. Everything happens for a reason and I think it's so amazing that KZbin happened for you when it did and that you're able to have the life you have now- I will happily watch any number of brand deals, I'd rather see them from you than a commercial on tv! Ignore the trolls and keep up the hustle, you're amazing.

[@heatherchamberlin1693]

So proud of you! Keep doing you! You are amazing! We support you till the end! Love to see a house tour or tutorial! love everything you do!

[@Weswife1998]

Ok I am commenting again bc I put my 1st comment up before you finished this video... The one thing I have left to say is YOU ROCK & I LOVE YOUR HONESTY!! Stay strong & don't worry about the haters!!!! ❤️

[@thisiskendall783]

You go girl, do what you have to do to feed the family and if you can feed others along the way keep taking the brand deals. You are life goals

[@brittanycain4720]

i have been following you since day one! you are so real and i love that about you do all the deals tou want just keep being you

[@marissaisabel6654]

I love how open and honest u r. It's nice that u r showing us what u went thru in the past and that ur not perfect. Ppl r going to always hate on u and try and bring u down because u do have ur life on blast. Stay strong and keep doing what ur doing. Ur an awesome person.

[@cortneylang3881]

I really enjoyed this video. I didn't think you needed to explain yourself but getting things off your chest is such a relief.. it was interesting to hear the back story of how you got into maker.. I had always thought Shay was the one who got you in. I really appreciate that you don't do sketchy or inappropriate brand deals. I feel like what you promote helps shape your audience and viewers. Love you Carlie! :)

[@meganclifford80]

As a marketing/social media student in college I think that you're great at what you do! With this being such a new, fast evolving field not everyone understands it which is sometimes frustrating. I agree though, being happy and passionate about what you do is really what matters at the end of the day. Great, honest video Carlie, keep working hard!! :)

[@amandadavidson546]

Hey Carlie, I've never commented before but this video really spoke to me. I'm newly married, my husband is in school, I'm working just to pay the bills, I want kids but am dealing with infertility, and it's hard to find my direction. Thank you for reminding me to just pray and listen to the inspiration. I really love who you are and I can see that you are really legitimately yourself and I think that's awesome.

[@mdavis353]

I feel like people just get frustrated when all people see are ads. If we are watching then that means we connected with you at some point and then feel like all it is is a paycheck to you. I'm not saying that specifically about you, I just think that's where people get frustrated. I would hope that people understand that it's a job and you need to get paid so of course you are going to take opportunities, but I think sometimes youtubers get caught up in the money and then forget that people didn't start watching them to constantly "watch commercials". I commend you for making this vlog and being so honest. Your KZbin channel has changed so much since Jackson and I think it was for the better. I've always enjoyed watching your videos but now I feel like you are more comfortable and you are definitely more consistent which makes it feel like you care a little more. I think when youtubers aren't consistent and then they do a bunch of brand deals that's when it makes people frustrated.

[@victoriaosorno969]

I'd love to see a house tour but with valentines coming up a date night makeup would be great also! :) Thank you for shedding light on this topic. I've always loved you and enjoyed your videos. Thank you for what you do.

[@177583]

Carlie can you do an updated skin care routine? Your skin is FLAWLESS and so smooth and glowy! I'm 22 and you have smoother skin than me! Are you still using PMD products?

[@meiraloraduncan8953]

I Love Carlie and I have only been watching since Christmas. When looking back at older videos the only changes are normal changes you make as you mature and have a family of your own. My problem comes when they start changing their appearance and start getting a weird attitude about the things they wear, buy, how they live and treat others. I have no issue with people who have created a job or career for themselves in the media using their talents to help educate others and support their families. I like that some KZbinr have helped family members by either employing them or helping them to start their own channel.

[@michellehutchinson6116]

Please do a house tour! I'm moving and need decorating ideas please!

[@corinahernandez4892]

thank you carlie for being so open. I find myself in a boat trying to keep balance. This has encouraged me to just do it

[@CarlieStylez]

Balance is key! You're doing great, keep on keepin on! Thank you for being here with positivity! Xox

[@katkatdd]

I just want to say that I REALLY find you to be a down to earth person. You are very honest from what I see of you, and all of your blessings are well deserved. I also can identify with your yearn to be with your child and still make a living. I am a single mother of 4 and when my kids were younger I was also struggling (still am) but I was working and commuting full time, trying to get 4 kids up, to school, to daycare, and then travel to work 30 min each way. It was HARD. I ended up making the decision to get my own child care license so I could be home with my own, plus care for other children and make a living doing so. I am a caregiver by nature! Just as I was doing this I became very, very ill. I have many health problems to this day and struggle daily just to survive emotionally, financially, and spiritually. My son ended up having a stroke as well and has been diagnosed with Post Concussion Syndrome from yrs of playing football and concussion and head injuries he is permanently disabled now at the age of 23. So, life has not always given me the best breaks, but I find myself watching your vlogs and your families vlogs and it helps. It helps take my mind and spirit to happier places if only for those few moments watching. They make me feel better and I even find myself smiling and sometimes even crying at the COMPUTER no less... LOL. So, for that I say THANK YOU!! Just know that what you do, and what you show of yourself and your family does make people happy. Thank you for sharing a little piece of your life, to help a little piece of my life be better each day. Peace & blessings to you & yours Carlie!

[@hdesutter]

Probably my favorite video/social media post you've ever done Carlie. Jackson has been so good for you, I can tell...I've been watching you guys since Shay's beginning. Best of luck! xx

[@teamjacobluvers]

Where do you get your eye lash extensions done ?? 😍

[@TheMommaJill]

I seriously want to find the people that give all youtubers a hard time about this, go to their work places, if they even work, and yell and say the mean words they type out to their faces. Your pay check is simply earned differently than others. Why is it so hard for people to understand this? I love you Carlie, and I love your family. And really I love everything that you stand for. The world needs more people like you.

[@hugmefirst]

You go! Do what you need to do to live and provide for your fam. You are a good influence for Coop, your whole family is. When I see my kiddos (11 and 7) watching youtube I always suggest they watch the whole Butler fam- wholesome content that is inline with our family values as well.

[@ashtondickerson]

Thank you so much for this video. I've followed you on Instagram for a while, and this is actually the first KZbin video of yours I've watched, and I'm so great that I did! What a beautiful, genuine message. I love you even more now! You are a beautiful human being, inside and out.

[@coralreefswim3100]

I think you are the best and I loved watching that video! I'm so impressed with what you have accomplished and how you have gotten to where you are. I can guarantee it has not been easy! Congrats on everything!

[@manmeetdhillon1399]

this is truly my favorite channel on youtube. SO THANKFUL FOR YOUR VIDEOS

[@ljl2010]

I've never been offended or questioned a brand deal, but... I do appreciate you being open and honest about how the "system" works. We certainly don't need to know the specifics but hearing behind the scenes of the contracts and how things come together regarding brands is interesting. It's all a business and learning behind the scenes of any business is interesting.

[@KristasVlogs]

I hope so many more brands come to you this year Carlie! You're an awesome person to ask to promote the product because you're so real and honest!

[@PlayWithSunshine]

Just stumbled across this video and your channel and I wanted to say Thank you and Good for you!

[@MsCamyx]

Though I might not enjoy every video you put out, I can honestly say that I respect and remain a subscriber who gives every video a fair watch because I can tell that you're being transparent and honest with your audience. That's what I love to see out of my favorite KZbinrs. I told myself when I started my channel that I was going to keep putting up the content that I wanted to create, even if no one ever viewed it. My channel is still small and that's okay with me because I'm still putting out the content that I want to create. I think it's normal for people to not favor a video that's definitely a brand deal, but it helps KZbinrs continue to make the content that got them the brand deal in the first place, and not have to quit KZbin and go back to 9-5 job. And if a day ever comes that I get brand deals, I can't say that I wouldn't do one, as long as the product/service being advertised fits with my channel and more importantly, my morals and beliefs. Keep making the content you want to make Carlie, brand deal or not. Don't let the haters bog you down, you're awesome and amazing! :)

[@greatcumberland]

Love seeing this side of you Carlie! Would love to see more in your blogs :) really interesting

[@BeaksUpSoapCo]

This is where advertising is these days. Instead of paying thousands to have them put on the tv network where less people would see it They're hiring people with a big social media following to promote the products for them NOTHING wrong with that Should my husband be shamed for his job and advertising his business in the state we reside in? Should he be shamed for paying people to advertise? NO he needs the exposure for a successful business Everyone wants success Right? It's a shame people just cringe at the thought about brand deals You explained yourself PERFECTLY in this video Honestly I do think you brought an entire perspective to light to those who are shaming it Bless you and your family Carlie. You have a beautiful heart

[@sunflowersteph]

Proud of you for posting this, Carlie! The honesty is refreshing! Honestly, I think people (including myself!) are just jealous, you know!? I would LOVE to have a successful KZbin channel! You do you, girl.

[@djoseph17]

thanks for sharing more about the struggles you went through, I'm sure that wasn't easy, but it's who are you, transparent, vulnerable and loyal. You're amazing! keep at it :)

[@thedezzies4059]

Thank you for doing this video. I have been following you for a while and I don't mind the brand deals. I know that is how you tubers make a living and I respect that. I admire you when you do a brand deal because that shows me that you are progressing and growing. Keep up the good work! By the way, I am loving all the daily vlogs!

[@itallbeginswithaSONG]

Such an inspiration! I love how diverse all your videos are! Most people have a little bit of everything in them, why not share your little bit of everything? I think lots of women can relate to @CarlieStylez . Especially single moms and young women trying to find their path in life. Keep doing what you do! Also really looking forward to seeing your spiritual side, I'm not mormon but I love hearing people who are passionate about their beliefs! Plus being educated on any faith is good for the soul.

[@caitlinsully1526]

You are amazing Carlie! What do you want to back to school for?

[@7justmyluck7]

I love you so much more now that you made this video. You made it all make sense. And the level of respect I have for you as a person and as a youtuber grew so much more. Keep up the great work!

[@alyssan247]

Wow this really summed up everything! I actually was wondering what some of these other people were and thank you so much for explaining! ILYSM Carlie!

[@livinginadaydream838]

Wow Carlie thank you for being so open! It just shows how honest and real you are. I really enjoy your talks.

[@mikaylaa6743]

So glad i watched this! normally i really couldn't care less about brand deals, because to me its just like watching a commercial or Ad with tv or anything else. i was bothered when you did a brand deal on your wedding day cause i just felt like really? you couldn't save business and advertising for another day. But since you explained in this video that at the time you were doing all those deals it was your only reliable form of income, i totally get it now. Do what ever you have to whenever you have to to provide for your family don't worry about the judgement.

[@dahls1195]

It absolutely makes sense. The world on a whole has changed when it comes to entertainment and marketing. Content creators little do people know even KZbin has ads all over the place. When some creators post hauls...gocery, makeup or just favorite things doesn't mean its an ad you are just sharing things that you like. But overall thanks for clearing up the mystery of what is like being and what it takes being a content creator. Folks think slap up a video post it and get paid...but its more than that...just like musicians, actors and other entertainers. It maybe all show but its also a BUSINESS!

[@carladaisybee1983]

I don't mind the brand deals. I actually love them! I get to see what u would recommend..which kinda feels like a friend sharing stuff..more relatable. Keep it up!👏🏽

[@AmyStratton96]

I completely understand and would love to hear more about your religious side! I am trying to branch out more on the social side and expand my blog, Instagram, and definitely my KZbin! I love your channel and I'm looking forward to your future videos.

[@justforthelulz93]

How I feel about brand deals...if you're making money doing it and you aren't compromising your morals or ethics, YOU GET EM! Also...how the heck am I supposed to know what products are good if I don't see a review first? I'm not going to spend my money on something I know nothing about. I think brand deals are effective in my life because they help me make smart purchases.

[@Nayli22]

Thank you for doing this video. I have a small KZbin channel and I am going through this process of creating content and sometimes I don't know what to do or what to share. You just inspired me to keep doing what I do and the most important part is being genuine and yourself. God bless you and your family!